Yes! I think we’re all agreeing on a case for once! Lol, she is exhausting and annoying! Dad should be handling these matters that are serious with Mom.
@amberwhiddon3489 Why do you keep posting this on all of your comments? Are you the Defendant and does your husband know that you're making these accusations about his 15-year-old son? You're disgusting.
Doesn't she?!? She has no business in the matter. Now, if you tell me she's respectful to the kids, and the parents, and she's been in their lives since maybe toddler age, then I might go easier on her. But, it's almost like she's enjoying the struggle and it's entertaining for her. Gross.
You don’t need a phone with internet access to do that. Mom is an idiot. Their son has some problems and given how the dance around it sounds like he might be a danger to children 🤔
Children should not have a cell phone, as we did not grow up with one, used pay phones. And he can live without a cell phone till he is an adult and has a full-time job to pay for one and the upkeep. And the stepmother did nothing wrong in letting dad handle the situation. You did not listen very well to her testimony.
@@trekgirl65 I agree. And all these people must be slow brained to ignore the fact the kid was doing freaky underage stuff on sites and they think he needs a phone and privacy...smh.
Right! What is she doing?! Kids need a certain degree of privacy even from their parents, and unless they were around and involved as a parent with that child from a young age, stepparents/parents’ partners need to be even more careful. Has to suck as the step parent, but as unfortunate as that is, that’s child psychology. You will always take the backseat to the involved parents if you’ve been around less time
I know I'm a bust in the room. Sue what you got to hide. First of all, the door should not be closed at all. There's no closed doors if you wanna close door you could move out point blank period there's no privacy in a house
@@mahailiabrown3972You sound like a weird parent, if you are one. From my experience, kids that have parents like you always “wild out” in the end. Have fun!
The child should not have had the phone but destroying the phone is probably the reason this child has such problems. Also, you don’t burst open the door on a different gender child!
I'd agree except- this is a child with known issues that's sneaky and needs more supervision than many that age. I wouldn't generally advocate for it but it sounds warranted in this instance. And wouldn't you know it, he was misbehaving.
Totally disagree. The child is a minor, in my house, it’s my room, my door, my say, hell i find that door shut and you don’t have a door. Something tells me you either don’t have kids, or you’re one of those new fucking parents that disciplines them with niceness. /puke
@amberwhiddon3489 deleting your comments doesn't make people forget. you'll be lucky the internet doesn't find your employer and blast you. Now a days companies don't like negative nancies 😁
You can restrict internet access on an iPhone. I manage my kids screen time and internet is paused on their electronics at bedtime. Parents need to take the time to learn about parental control features if they insist on their kids having smart devices.
@trinabyrd9598 Same. My kids are 12&8. They have not accessed the internet yet. I disabled Chrome internet on their tablets, and I have them on 3hr screen time. After that, you need a password (which only I have) to unlock the device. I have it set up to where I see all apps downloaded, and ALL purchases must be approved by me first.
@@Trinigmatic I agree a cell phone is just too much for kids to handle. So many parents give open access to something that call so helpful yet so dangerous
It clearly shows a hammer or SIMILAR object impact point like a gunshot, PLUS it's also been either run over by a vehicle or something which created cracks all over, COMPLETELY. I ran over mine and it did not sustain nearly 1/4 the damage.
If it’s something positive or something to make your child better, why not? If that’s your mentality just stay single until they’re grown! Simp,e solution.
She does not seem to be dictating but partnering with the father to help the kid. The teen is in her house 50% of the time too. She is also invested in the child's success. Give her a break. I think the mom is dead wrong!
Well as a mother with children who have a stepmom, this is just a foolish and childish statement. Be confident on your position as a parent and talk with the other to come to an understanding but ultimately you have to understand that you can't dictate how your children are raised in another home and by whom. Don't want all that foolishness, then don't have children all willy nilly, know your partner before you share a life with them.
This shouldn't have been brought on national TV. Now, everyone's going to make insinuations about the child. The show blocked the child's name in part of the text and kept it visible in the same text. Idiots. 😡The stepmom is annoying AF. There's nothing "juicy" about this. And, why would she just burst into his room? That's such an invasion, especially when you're not the biological parent. And, I don't believe that she's not involved in their arguments.
@@brickstine202I mean I'm guessing he just was watching porn at school or something. It all seems super intense to me but if he can't wait until private time I guess this was their only option.
A step parent has every right to discipline "someone else's" child. When taking on the role as a parent, that's part of the territory. Step parents aren't there just for decoration, and children should respect their authority, just as they should with others who regularly discipline "someone else's child" such as school teachers, police officers, bosses, etc. And from the sound of it, this child needs all the discipline he can get...did you not hear the predicament he's in because of his mother's lackluster approach to discipline? Sooner or later his discipline will come from a correctional officer.
@@KennuhWayne She aint taking over a role as parent. She is immature, messy, antagonsitic, and disrespectful. He had no choice in his dad being with her but she is not his parent. It's not her place to discipline his child.
@@KennuhWaynethey dont take on the role as a “parent” they take on the role of being with someone with kids by someone else. Just because youre screwing my dad doesnt make you my “parent” married or not. You’re dealing with someone elses kid. No one else asked you to be apart of their family but the child has to deal with it
The new wife needs to mind her own business she crossed way too many boundaries , the mother bought a phone for her son and the new wife and the father had no business touching anything and wife shouldn't be coming the son's room unannounced .
Uh daddy house, his rules. Child needs to be off the phone and the internet at 14 years old. I did not have a cell phone at 14, we used regular phone, or the pay phone back in the day.
You don't bust into a teenage boy's room PERIOD, completely inappropriate. She's immature, abusive and inappropriate with a child that is not hers. The father should be taking care of his kid, his wife has no rights. This will not aid his custody fight it might make it worse, the nerve of this chic. He's forgetting that he had two kids that are nearly adults and may want little to do with him because of that woman.
@@jamieleigh3481That's what I was thinking! I don't do it to my girls and we’re all female! It's a respect thing. I understand the boy has some issues, but that's none of her business! I have stepsons and I never would disrespect them or their mothers in any manner! I am in the back (so to speak) if they need me. If not I am sure their parents got this.
My son is 12 years old I wouldn't dare do no bull crap like that That is so inappropriate People do not think that children deserve respect and it's ridiculous they absolutely do deserve respect How do you expect respect when you're disrespecting them but the stepmama seems so immaturely overly involved I have a stepson as well and I never step over his boundaries He called me Mom I call him son I love him dearly as if he came from my crotch fruit but I will never overstep with him
Yeah, whatever. Unless that teenager is 18 and paying rent somewhere, then they don't have a room...it belongs to the parents(and any police or judge would agree with me). And as a parent, I will bust into my kids room any time I please, especially if you're doing something wrong. Giving him so much freedom is what got him in that situation in the first place.
What, that's the times you do go in, kids be sneaking out of the house, sneaking people in the house or other things that they aren't supposed to do. By the way, your pic is hot😁
@@Mooe-cb6bvthen let the father “burst” into the room, not her. He could have been changing clothes or something. I’m pretty sure most people would find it objectionable for a stepDAD to burst into a 16 year old girls room late at night. This is no different.
@vixxter3099 Can you believe she was commenting on people's stuff!! She deleted her comments on my thread, but search for her in the comments she was pissed 😂
@@glitter_and_spice1589if their son cannot be allowed on the internet for some reason then mom needs to not let him use it. Sounds like he was doing something either criminal or that involved him being victimized 🤔 Mom needs to grow up. Regardless of the immaturity of the defendants at least they’re trying to stop whatever the issue is instead of enable it to keep happening
@@elvickRULES Actually some everyday cults and religious groups forbid use of cell phones . Some kids are banned just for looking at porn. Which every teen eventually does. Dad and step mom seem controlling so it could have been as simple as that. They might have put him in the program as a ways to control him. The mom might be against it. Notice they also never said what kinda program it is. For all we know the kid got caught looking at lgbtqai+ things and the dad put him in a conversion program. Sadly it happens more then you think, and often ends up in suicide. We cant assume anything not said on screen.
Letting a step parent have this much control in his childs life will blow up in his face. I know cuz my sibling and I lived it. It will not end well, what a shame.
@Nevaeh1 And as a parent your kid shouldn't be unsupervised for hours sneaking around in their room without you knowing wtf they are doing. Thank you for reiterating my point though.
New wife sounds like a classic second wife... trying to prove herself to her husband that she is on his side because she hates the first wife... all the while being played by him.
That mother should not have let the son have the phone period. That being said, the father does not need additional custody beyond the 50/50 with that stepmother involved. She is very immature and craves drama. Dad needs to ensure he's also protecting his son from her meddling.
Mom wants son to have a phone in order to stay in contact with him. Son is to have supervised internet usage. Mom buys son an iPhone with an unlimited data plan. 🙄 If she really wanted him to have a phone just to stay in contact with her, she certainly went about it all wrong. And she's definitely not doing her son any favors, undermining all the help he's getting/needing from outside sources.
The defendant’s wife is a piece of work. She has a problem with her step son. Sir, please protect your son around her!! So sad. SOME step parents are just EVIL toward their stepchildren.
I'm scared for the son because there is no way the phone just so happen to break on the STEP MOTHER watch,and when she said "he tried me" i felt so uncomfortable. From beginning to end she was so annoying and weird, and it must be so scary to have no way to communicate with your mom if that lady tries to do something and the dad lets her.
The negative relationship between the mother and father, and the stepmom's interfering and negative attitude, are probably having as much if not more of a negative impact on the kids than the internet.
Judge Judy would have told that other woman to shut her mouth and stay out of it. He will always be their child together and needs to get over the fact that her new husband had a family before her.
The mother is an enabler towards the son, and the step mom comes across immature. That’s the kids father he has a right to take the phone he just has to give it back. Also what is going on where this child cannot have access to the internet and court ordered to have extreme limited access 🤔
Same question!! No one is wondering why the kid can’t go on specific sites? It is something violent or even worse. I am not sure why everyone is focusing on the step mom?
@thtsnotmiait wasn't court ordered, so probably corn sites and what teenage boy doesn't visit corn sites, my entire hard drive as a teenager were movie downloads and corn downloads from limewire.
I was wondering the same thing. I listened carefully to the case twice the mother stated the program is not court ordered so iam not sure does anyone .know?.
I have a friend whose son was sent to a camp for addictions and his addiction was technology. It wasn't that he was doing anything bad but his whole life depended on technology to the point where his grades dropped, he wouldn't leave his room and would become violent if his parents tried taking laptop, phone etc away Not sure if this is part of the reason for the child in this case to be restricted from internet usage.
17:06 YIKES! The stepmom wasn’t coming across that great most of the hearing but this second her true colors shined right through. She obviously smashed the phone and instigates a lot of this drama. Should mom have been monitoring the situation, yes. But stepmom needs to step off.
That’s exactly what I was thinking bc why would the law feel the need to monitor or remove internet access for any other reason. His mom is doing him a huge disservice by allowing him to “cut corners” instead of following the rules of his program. Mom should follow Dad’s lead and help their son be a responsible young man.
Exactly! Commenters are focused on step-mom and how she burst into the room, but the son has issues! They are trying to prevent what they can. The mom is clearly an enabler, to the point she says the son explained why he visited the website one last time…what!?!?
Okay I was trying to see if I missed where they said why he couldn't have internet access and all I could think of was that or like he was bullying or maybe has a porn addiction
This is how you know JM is so out of touch with the real world. $50 is the normal monthly cost for a cellphone line. The new wife is annoying. She needs to mind her beeswax...and yes, the defendants purposely destroyed the phone. While they may want to bring this up in family court they may want to keep it hushed as they this behavior of them destroying the phone will have the judge thinking that they may not be the best choice for full or 50% custody.
The plaintiff clearly states her bill is $291.00/m and she has 5 lines on the plan. $50/m for his line adds up. Not sure why that wasn’t clicking for JM.
@amberwhiddon3489 read again what I said, and if your daughter was SA, then why would your husband be fighting to have more than 50% custody where her abuser is around her even more often??? Make that make sense.
Destroying the phone was WAY beyond what should have been done. They should have just taken it from him, turned it off, and put it in a safe place until his mom picked him up.
Sometimes fathers need to stop involving the “ stepmom” in his business with the child and mother . But if roles was turned the mother would be every name in the book
He picks them because he can run over them. New wife is full of drama and clearly enjoys it and antagonizing the ex. Little does she know, she got the same man he was to the ex, and her replacement may be closer than she thinks.
Guess the haters on the stepmom are not thinking, the kids was on internet, unsupervised and looking at stuff he should have been looking it. She did nothing wrong.
Um, she should get the amount that she has left to pay for the phone, that is BS, she also was paying a monthly fee for that line!!The stepmom needs to butt out!!
The new wife doesn’t like his kids. You can tell that and her busting in the room shows that and the fact she doesn’t care to build a positive relationship with him. wtf is she busting in his room! I feel for the kids because if dad gets full custody she’s going to treat them bad.
The way the stepmom talked gave me such a profound level of second-hand embarrassment.
I approve this message step mom hooked on Ebonics phonics🤨
@@drlove8049she sounds like a normal redneck, what are you talking about?
She even tried to pull the disability card when she couldn't answer the question of why she had the kid's phone the next day...
Yes! I think we’re all agreeing on a case for once! Lol, she is exhausting and annoying! Dad should be handling these matters that are serious with Mom.
She sounded just as young as the 14 yr old
“He tried me” “raggedy phone” the new wife is SO cringey
Was coming here to say this! Eww
She's mad messy
PREACH!!!!!!
She’s so proud of herself too 🙄
I was instantly thinking the same thing.. very childish
That stepmom doesn’t want the relationship between the father and his kids. I felt her energy through my iPad.
Thank you….. I honestly feel she plays a negative part in the dads n son relationship and he too blind to see it.
She's a narcissist.
I think it's more so she is concerned about her other kids' safety around him.
Bingo
He is with her for the disability check
The step mom's mannerisms are similar to a teenager...
She claims to "know them well". I wondered if she isn't much older than one, herself!
@amberwhiddon3489 Why do you keep posting this on all of your comments? Are you the Defendant and does your husband know that you're making these accusations about his 15-year-old son? You're disgusting.
Exactly!
He likes immature women and drama and being the "man."
The step-mom seems immature, annoying and for the drama.
She likes "baby mama drama." 😵💫
Definitely messy
And the raggedy ass phone.
That's what I'm saying
Doesn't she?!? She has no business in the matter. Now, if you tell me she's respectful to the kids, and the parents, and she's been in their lives since maybe toddler age, then I might go easier on her. But, it's almost like she's enjoying the struggle and it's entertaining for her. Gross.
New wife is too involved. She needs to fall back and lessen her instigation. Mind your business.
Yeah I agree she is way too involved smh
There’s always a pick me waiting in the wings…
She needs to take care of Her own Children! She's sneaky!
I said the same thing as soon as she said Do you want the juicy story?... Too much in their parental business.
Why? She’s the dude’s wife period! Boy need to obey and mom needs to abide by the court order!
The stepmother is probably a huge part of the problem
💯
She started all of this
That woman is gonna destroy whatever relation he has left with his son
New wife needs to go!! Bye Felicia
Love how Doug tried to shut her down.
The way she is smiling when the judge is asking her about why she had the phone. Trying to play dumb! . They definitely smashed the phone!
Roll out
Exactly 👍
She wish she was a Felicia.
The step mom seems so antagonistic towards the son. I would want my child to have a way to contact me while at their home.
You don’t need a phone with internet access to do that. Mom is an idiot. Their son has some problems and given how the dance around it sounds like he might be a danger to children 🤔
Children should not have a cell phone, as we did not grow up with one, used pay phones. And he can live without a cell phone till he is an adult and has a full-time job to pay for one and the upkeep. And the stepmother did nothing wrong in letting dad handle the situation. You did not listen very well to her testimony.
@@trekgirl65it’s a different time and when was the last time you’ve seen a pay phone?? Cause I don’t see them at all much!! Its 2024!!
@@theycallmedopeness exactly they literally don’t have pay phones anymore in most big cities
@@trekgirl65 I agree. And all these people must be slow brained to ignore the fact the kid was doing freaky underage stuff on sites and they think he needs a phone and privacy...smh.
That new wife is something else
Destroying someone's property is abusive. Also, dad's new chic shouldn't be busting in his teenage son's room unannounced. So inappropriate.
Exactly, a 15 year old boy's room .. there's no telling what he could be doing in there. 🤭
Right! What is she doing?! Kids need a certain degree of privacy even from their parents, and unless they were around and involved as a parent with that child from a young age, stepparents/parents’ partners need to be even more careful. Has to suck as the step parent, but as unfortunate as that is, that’s child psychology. You will always take the backseat to the involved parents if you’ve been around less time
I know I'm a bust in the room. Sue what you got to hide. First of all, the door should not be closed at all. There's no closed doors if you wanna close door you could move out point blank period there's no privacy in a house
I’m sure she’s paying for half the bills. It’s her room too
@@mahailiabrown3972You sound like a weird parent, if you are one. From my experience, kids that have parents like you always “wild out” in the end. Have fun!
Why does the new wife have another woman’s child’s phone? Putting herself in their business is crazy, messy and weird. She wrong for that .
That stepmom is toxic, I can only imagine the things she says or does to those kids
I hate when the phone falls and then I drive over it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
If she’s a paraplegic, how is she driving?
😂😂😂😂😂
It has happened to me and I too wondered how that could possibly happen
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 stop
The child should not have had the phone but destroying the phone is probably the reason this child has such problems. Also, you don’t burst open the door on a different gender child!
Stop lol
Why does that matter
Shouldn't burst in on anyone, really.
I'd agree except- this is a child with known issues that's sneaky and needs more supervision than many that age. I wouldn't generally advocate for it but it sounds warranted in this instance. And wouldn't you know it, he was misbehaving.
Totally disagree. The child is a minor, in my house, it’s my room, my door, my say, hell i find that door shut and you don’t have a door. Something tells me you either don’t have kids, or you’re one of those new fucking parents that disciplines them with niceness. /puke
Stepmom is doing too much! "This boy done tried me." She knows that she doesn't talk like that around her people...
Yes, that was super annoying. And, I think that her entire demeanor and accent changed when she was defending breaking the phone. Typical.
Smdh
She been to a couple of cookouts and think she black
Yes, I ran to my phone for this comment.😂🙄
Sounds crazy! Why do they do that?
The mom is an enabler, the father is unequipped, the step mom is doing way too much and is completely out of line.
❤ Absolutely ❤
@amberwhiddon3489 deleting your comments doesn't make people forget. you'll be lucky the internet doesn't find your employer and blast you. Now a days companies don't like negative nancies 😁
She purposely ran over that “ raggedy” phone. Her story doesn’t make sense
The new wife is concerning... she's the problem
Kids gonna hate his father with her around
They destroyed the phone! Defendant needs to get there story straight! She keeps looking at him! Not rehearsed enough!
Literally😂😂😂😂 amateur hour with them
JM already said she didn't want to hear the team story and busy body still tried it.
Stepmom needs to stay out of it. She’s wanting to be in the drama and it’s making things worse. Stay out of it!
@amberwhiddon3489
What are you talking about?
how is she busting into his room in a wheelchair? I can just see her popping a wheelie🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
Get off this phone 😂😂
*wheelie …
@@stargirl91291 🤣🤣 thanks
😂😂😂😂😂😂
GET THE SON A FLIP PHONE. They still make them. No internet access. There are millions with them in the world. Not that hard.
That part! A kid does NOT NEED a smart phone!
You can restrict internet access on an iPhone. I manage my kids screen time and internet is paused on their electronics at bedtime. Parents need to take the time to learn about parental control features if they insist on their kids having smart devices.
@trinabyrd9598 Same. My kids are 12&8. They have not accessed the internet yet. I disabled Chrome internet on their tablets, and I have them on 3hr screen time. After that, you need a password (which only I have) to unlock the device. I have it set up to where I see all apps downloaded, and ALL purchases must be approved by me first.
It has the interenet
@@Trinigmatic I agree a cell phone is just too much for kids to handle. So many parents give open access to something that call so helpful yet so dangerous
Step mom should step back !!!
She can’t 🤣
Lmao you wrong for that
Is that why she's sitting down the whole time??
I was thinking more like roll back
he's not a man if he cannot make his wife step back
Ooops he dropped it AND she ran over it?!
That isnt even believable.
It clearly shows a hammer or SIMILAR object impact point like a gunshot, PLUS it's also been either run over by a vehicle or something which created cracks all over, COMPLETELY. I ran over mine and it did not sustain nearly 1/4 the damage.
Word.
Exactly
When I heard that i started dying laughing because no way 😂😂
No SHE dropped it.
MEN & WOMEN: NEVER LET ANOTHER LADY OR MAN DICTATE HOW YOUR CHILDREN ARE TO BE RAISED.
If it’s something positive or something to make your child better, why not? If that’s your mentality just stay single until they’re grown! Simp,e solution.
She does not seem to be dictating but partnering with the father to help the kid. The teen is in her house 50% of the time too. She is also invested in the child's success. Give her a break. I think the mom is dead wrong!
Well as a mother with children who have a stepmom, this is just a foolish and childish statement. Be confident on your position as a parent and talk with the other to come to an understanding but ultimately you have to understand that you can't dictate how your children are raised in another home and by whom. Don't want all that foolishness, then don't have children all willy nilly, know your partner before you share a life with them.
This shouldn't have been brought on national TV. Now, everyone's going to make insinuations about the child. The show blocked the child's name in part of the text and kept it visible in the same text. Idiots. 😡The stepmom is annoying AF. There's nothing "juicy" about this. And, why would she just burst into his room? That's such an invasion, especially when you're not the biological parent. And, I don't believe that she's not involved in their arguments.
And her giggling and cracking jokes while she’s telling the story. If she’s not taking it seriously the dad shouldn’t bring her.
Oh she's more than involved in their arguments, I'm betting she instigates a good portion of them. She's just a messy person.
I’m not insinuating shit. I saying plainly the kid is a freak. A court judgement restricting him from the internet? That’s freak stuff.
I think she starts the arguments. Probablybtrying to find the kid doing something wrong all the time
@@brickstine202I mean I'm guessing he just was watching porn at school or something. It all seems super intense to me but if he can't wait until private time I guess this was their only option.
Idk if if it’s just me but the step mom did too much
It's not just u
Exactly
It's not you. The step mom is the immature, imposter and instigating and intrusive.
It’s def not just you
Wrong....
The stepmother is " raggedy ". She's immature and goofy.
The new wife will be in the old wife's place in the People's Court very soon , Silly Meddling Woman.
Stepmom is WAY too opinionated and has no right whatsoever to discipline someone else child!
This
A step parent has every right to discipline "someone else's" child. When taking on the role as a parent, that's part of the territory. Step parents aren't there just for decoration, and children should respect their authority, just as they should with others who regularly discipline "someone else's child" such as school teachers, police officers, bosses, etc. And from the sound of it, this child needs all the discipline he can get...did you not hear the predicament he's in because of his mother's lackluster approach to discipline? Sooner or later his discipline will come from a correctional officer.
@@KennuhWayne She aint taking over a role as parent. She is immature, messy, antagonsitic, and disrespectful. He had no choice in his dad being with her but she is not his parent. It's not her place to discipline his child.
@Mongo76 Well someone has to do it. The child is on pace to growing up and becoming much worse than her.
@@KennuhWaynethey dont take on the role as a “parent” they take on the role of being with someone with kids by someone else. Just because youre screwing my dad doesnt make you my “parent” married or not. You’re dealing with someone elses kid. No one else asked you to be apart of their family but the child has to deal with it
The father definitely destroyed that phone & stepmother needs to stay in her place ‼️💯
I feel like the stepmom destroyed the phone. Which is why the dad wouldn’t comment on what happened or how the boy was found on the phone.
Step mom is absolutely causing and encouraging the drama between mom and dad. You can tell she lives for drama and argument.
That child is in therapy trying to escape the pain of having 2 Karens 1 simp in charge of his life... I’m rooting for you Child 👩🏿⚖️
These descriptions are so accurate 😂
@@83kiarra exactly! The writer knew what they were doing 🤣🤣🤣
Right
LMFAO
The step mother or the father absolutely broke the phone with a hammer, they are liars
The step mom is so cringy
The new wife needs to mind her own business she crossed way too many boundaries , the mother bought a phone for her son and the new wife and the father had no business touching anything and wife shouldn't be coming the son's room unannounced .
The ex-husband enjoys the drama between them
@@Nevaeh1 exactly 💯
@@Nevaeh1 exactly. Too f*t white woman fighting from the kids issues. He probably loves it.
Did everyone miss the part when he legally not allow to be on the internet
Uh daddy house, his rules. Child needs to be off the phone and the internet at 14 years old. I did not have a cell phone at 14, we used regular phone, or the pay phone back in the day.
That raggedy phone, now why was that even necessary, she needs 2 chill
By calling it a raggedy makes me believe she purposely destroyed it.
@@jaybo619 yep
That spirit residing in the new wife is DANGEROUS! Reuben tread lightly
Absolutely!!!
You don't bust into a teenage boy's room PERIOD, completely inappropriate. She's immature, abusive and inappropriate with a child that is not hers. The father should be taking care of his kid, his wife has no rights. This will not aid his custody fight it might make it worse, the nerve of this chic. He's forgetting that he had two kids that are nearly adults and may want little to do with him because of that woman.
A lot of these men think marrying a new woman makes them a mother. It does not! She should have told the Dad to parent and stayed out of it.
Tell me she’s never had her own teenage child without telling me. I would hate to catch my son doing what 15 year old boys do
@@jamieleigh3481That's what I was thinking! I don't do it to my girls and we’re all female! It's a respect thing. I understand the boy has some issues, but that's none of her business! I have stepsons and I never would disrespect them or their mothers in any manner! I am in the back (so to speak) if they need me. If not I am sure their parents got this.
My son is 12 years old I wouldn't dare do no bull crap like that That is so inappropriate People do not think that children deserve respect and it's ridiculous they absolutely do deserve respect How do you expect respect when you're disrespecting them but the stepmama seems so immaturely overly involved I have a stepson as well and I never step over his boundaries He called me Mom I call him son I love him dearly as if he came from my crotch fruit but I will never overstep with him
Yeah, whatever. Unless that teenager is 18 and paying rent somewhere, then they don't have a room...it belongs to the parents(and any police or judge would agree with me). And as a parent, I will bust into my kids room any time I please, especially if you're doing something wrong. Giving him so much freedom is what got him in that situation in the first place.
Bye bye Felicia your husband needs to be held equally accountable!!
The step mom is so cringy!!! Why would you be going inside of a 15 years old room at 10pm in the night?? I wouldn’t want my teenagers to be around her
She acts like a teenager herself. ‘Ah ha! I caught him!’.
What, that's the times you do go in, kids be sneaking out of the house, sneaking people in the house or other things that they aren't supposed to do. By the way, your pic is hot😁
@@Mooe-cb6bvagreed! They literally caught him using a court-prohibited website.
@@Mooe-cb6bvthen let the father “burst” into the room, not her. He could have been changing clothes or something. I’m pretty sure most people would find it objectionable for a stepDAD to burst into a 16 year old girls room late at night. This is no different.
@@NubianP6Exactly!!!
I hope the step mom reads these comments 😅
@amberwhiddon3489 what r u even talking about
@amberwhiddon3489 you sound like you're the mad step mom
Me too because she's trifling
@vixxter3099 Can you believe she was commenting on people's stuff!! She deleted her comments on my thread, but search for her in the comments she was pissed 😂
Defendants wife is a grade A narcissist. Sis, this is NOT about you.
Exactly
Most white women are
That plaintiff needs to grow up, and she also needs to realize she can't be her kids "Friend", she needs to be a parent.
So true, but the dad's new wife is 10x worse, busting into a teenage boy's room and the language she uses...
😂 the plaintiff doesn't need to grow up the father and his new wife do. Especially that step mom talking like she's 13 years old
@@glitter_and_spice1589if their son cannot be allowed on the internet for some reason then mom needs to not let him use it. Sounds like he was doing something either criminal or that involved him being victimized 🤔
Mom needs to grow up. Regardless of the immaturity of the defendants at least they’re trying to stop whatever the issue is instead of enable it to keep happening
@@elvickRULES Actually some everyday cults and religious groups forbid use of cell phones . Some kids are banned just for looking at porn. Which every teen eventually does. Dad and step mom seem controlling so it could have been as simple as that. They might have put him in the program as a ways to control him. The mom might be against it. Notice they also never said what kinda program it is. For all we know the kid got caught looking at lgbtqai+ things and the dad put him in a conversion program. Sadly it happens more then you think, and often ends up in suicide. We cant assume anything not said on screen.
@@peryole yeh, she's immature herself, and very getto' acting.
Letting a step parent have this much control in his childs life will blow up in his face. I know cuz my sibling and I lived it. It will not end well, what a shame.
Him trying to get ahead of the custody battle.... when the kid was unsupervisrd in his house using the phone..... huh.
EXACTLY
He was using the phone unsupervised for hours because he snuck the phone over to their house
@Nevaeh1
And as a parent your kid shouldn't be unsupervised for hours sneaking around in their room without you knowing wtf they are doing.
Thank you for reiterating my point though.
The step mother sounds so petty and immature. Her high pitched, sarcastic voice is so annoying. She needs to butt out.
I wouldn't want my son anywhere near the new wife....no wonder this child has issues....
The step mom is cringy
AF!
New wife needs to humble herself and stay out of it.
"accidentally fell on the ground and girlfriend ran over it." 🤡🤡🤡
Yep, the defendant did it on purpose.
@@jeniferburton5235 no way, really??
New wife sounds like a classic second wife... trying to prove herself to her husband that she is on his side because she hates the first wife... all the while being played by him.
It’s okay to take the phone but just don’t break it. Period
That mother should not have let the son have the phone period. That being said, the father does not need additional custody beyond the 50/50 with that stepmother involved. She is very immature and craves drama. Dad needs to ensure he's also protecting his son from her meddling.
Mom wants son to have a phone in order to stay in contact with him. Son is to have supervised internet usage. Mom buys son an iPhone with an unlimited data plan. 🙄
If she really wanted him to have a phone just to stay in contact with her, she certainly went about it all wrong. And she's definitely not doing her son any favors, undermining all the help he's getting/needing from outside sources.
They always pick the ones that look like this😂
A hot ass mess, a bunch of desperate pick-mes 😂
@@themadmillionaireYes, and the paraplegic took me TF out. 🤣🤣🤣
The new wife looks very young
This the one right here. 😂😂
What’s up with the step mom.Why is she so dang involved. She’s probably the puppet master to the puppet “the ex husband”.
PAY THE MOM.
LEAVE THE CHILD OUT OF YOUR MESS!!!!!
Well they can't leave the child out the mess because he's part of the situation.
The defendant's new wife is a nightmare, and a liar. The hammer it was.
Baby, the step mom threw me out the window when she started talking. I know for sure she does too much
All they had to do was put a damn child monitoring app on the phone, which controls it however they want. 🙄🙄🙄
Seriously!!! It isn’t that hard and what therapists and courts place a restrictions and not require it to be a controlled monitoring situation.
The defendant’s wife is a piece of work. She has a problem with her step son. Sir, please protect your son around her!! So sad. SOME step parents are just EVIL toward their stepchildren.
I'm scared for the son because there is no way the phone just so happen to break on the STEP MOTHER watch,and when she said "he tried me" i felt so uncomfortable. From beginning to end she was so annoying and weird, and it must be so scary to have no way to communicate with your mom if that lady tries to do something and the dad lets her.
Stepmother is the PROBLEM. I don't understand why women are always mad at the other woman
The negative relationship between the mother and father, and the stepmom's interfering and negative attitude, are probably having as much if not more of a negative impact on the kids than the internet.
Judge Judy would have told that other woman to shut her mouth and stay out of it. He will always be their child together and needs to get over the fact that her new husband had a family before her.
The mother is an enabler towards the son, and the step mom comes across immature. That’s the kids father he has a right to take the phone he just has to give it back. Also what is going on where this child cannot have access to the internet and court ordered to have extreme limited access 🤔
Same question!! No one is wondering why the kid can’t go on specific sites? It is something violent or even worse. I am not sure why everyone is focusing on the step mom?
Im curious as to the reason why the 15 year olds internet access is prohibited. Some kind of criminal behavior?
@thtsnotmiait wasn't court ordered, so probably corn sites and what teenage boy doesn't visit corn sites, my entire hard drive as a teenager were movie downloads and corn downloads from limewire.
Explicit content and certain kinds of gambling are affecting a lot of young people today, especially those who have predispositions to addiction.
I was wondering the same thing. I listened carefully to the case twice the mother stated the program is not court ordered so iam not sure does anyone .know?.
I was thinking adult content
I have a friend whose son was sent to a camp for addictions and his addiction was technology. It wasn't that he was doing anything bad but his whole life depended on technology to the point where his grades dropped, he wouldn't leave his room and would become violent if his parents tried taking laptop, phone etc away
Not sure if this is part of the reason for the child in this case to be restricted from internet usage.
And the father don’t know that he’s actually driving a strong disconnection and I don’t think he cares. I can’t stand parents like this.
17:06 YIKES! The stepmom wasn’t coming across that great most of the hearing but this second her true colors shined right through. She obviously smashed the phone and instigates a lot of this drama. Should mom have been monitoring the situation, yes. But stepmom needs to step off.
That step-mom is overly invested and annoying.
He smashed the phone.
He did
I was ready to yell at the stepmother too when she was being purposefully vague about why the phone was in her lap
Cause she’s lying to cover for her man
Sounds like, the son is a SO who’s internet usage is being monitored due to him looking at images of underage children, he should not have a phone.
That’s exactly what I was thinking bc why would the law feel the need to monitor or remove internet access for any other reason. His mom is doing him a huge disservice by allowing him to “cut corners” instead of following the rules of his program. Mom should follow Dad’s lead and help their son be a responsible young man.
Exactly! Commenters are focused on step-mom and how she burst into the room, but the son has issues! They are trying to prevent what they can. The mom is clearly an enabler, to the point she says the son explained why he visited the website one last time…what!?!?
Exactly what I was thinking, and the mom allows him to use the internet "one last time" is absolutely disgusting. They all need to be investigated.
That's was my immediate thought, especially when the mom said it was only "certain websites" he couldn't go on.
Okay I was trying to see if I missed where they said why he couldn't have internet access and all I could think of was that or like he was bullying or maybe has a porn addiction
This is how you know JM is so out of touch with the real world. $50 is the normal monthly cost for a cellphone line. The new wife is annoying. She needs to mind her beeswax...and yes, the defendants purposely destroyed the phone. While they may want to bring this up in family court they may want to keep it hushed as they this behavior of them destroying the phone will have the judge thinking that they may not be the best choice for full or 50% custody.
The plaintiff clearly states her bill is $291.00/m and she has 5 lines on the plan. $50/m for his line adds up. Not sure why that wasn’t clicking for JM.
That step mom needs to step back. She's fueling the flames.
@amberwhiddon3489 read again what I said, and if your daughter was SA, then why would your husband be fighting to have more than 50% custody where her abuser is around her even more often??? Make that make sense.
Can you put parental control on the phone?????
We all know that’s wasn’t a accident.
I hope the step mom watches this and sees how she's a big part of the problem.
💯 he divorced the plaintiff so step mom will be an ex soon. People like that don’t stay married long.
Stepmother needs to mind her f'in business
Destroying the phone was WAY beyond what should have been done. They should have just taken it from him, turned it off, and put it in a safe place until his mom picked him up.
The way she said raggedy phone u cam tell she don't like the mom
How did she "bust in the room" in a wheelchair ? 😮
love your kids more than you dislike each other
Mentioning she’s a paraplegic was hilarious bye- 😭😂
Step mom needs to STEP OFF N OUT OF THE KIDS BUSINESS!! U AIN'T HID MOTHER!!!
She can't step off.
Shes needs to Roll off 😂
@@crystalshaw8744 she can....and dad needs to say..my son has a mother n its not u!!!
Sometimes fathers need to stop involving the “ stepmom” in his business with the child and mother . But if roles was turned the mother would be every name in the book
15 yr old got problems...dont leave that boy alone with the public
He was 15 years old at the time and did not need the phone nor to be on the internet unsupervised.
I was trying to figure out what happened with their son. Whatever it is, it sounds serious with the restrictions that he was given.
New wife 🚩🚩🚩🚩 as soon as she smiled and said "umm..." I knew she ran over it
He picks them because he can run over them. New wife is full of drama and clearly enjoys it and antagonizing the ex. Little does she know, she got the same man he was to the ex, and her replacement may be closer than she thinks.
Omg..you hit that on the nail!! I couldn't have said it better 👏
Yasssss and they are in for a ride awakening
He needs to lose that new girlfriend or whatever. I bet she talks a lot of shit about the ex wife and the son too.
hes complaining that the mum wasnt watching the child....wasnt the kid at HIS house? so HE wasnt watching him!
Guess the haters on the stepmom are not thinking, the kids was on internet, unsupervised and looking at stuff he should have been looking it. She did nothing wrong.
Um, she should get the amount that she has left to pay for the phone, that is BS, she also was paying a monthly fee for that line!!The stepmom needs to butt out!!
She's not the mother. Good way to make your son dislike you, dad.
The mom and step mom seem to both be special.. he likes a certain type 😂
Absolutely!!!
The new wife doesn’t like his kids. You can tell that and her busting in the room shows that and the fact she doesn’t care to build a positive relationship with him. wtf is she busting in his room! I feel for the kids because if dad gets full custody she’s going to treat them bad.