It’s a very hard process. We went through two unsuccessful rounds before we got pregnant our third. We lost him after birth to medical complications we found out about at 18weeks. It was very hard to choose to do another round and it was another unsuccessful one (all 5 rounds we did were fresh not frozen). In 2019 we finally brought home a healthy baby. This was a 7 year journey, so take your time to heal.
So sorry for your loss. I had 2 losses when I was around your age. I am 39 now. I am in my IVF journey now and on day 2 of stims. One thing I will say is that your age is on your side and if there is ANY part of you that thinks you would like to give it another shot go for it when you are ready. I. REALLY wish I hadn't waited so long bc I am just now finding out about my endometriosis (had laparascopic surgery in Dec) and now have diminished ovarian reserve. Whatever you decide though it is 100% your decision and never let anyone tell you different. One nice thing about being in your older 30s is that you really stop caring what other people think LOL. I would gently suggest maybe getting a second opinion on your endometritis to see if you can do anything else to help it. At least that may help you feel that you've done everything you can. Much love to you!
I’m crying with you bc i know the feeling so well. Don’t give up, but take as much time as you need to find peace. Praying that you’ll get your baby soon!
I’m so sorry. I cried while watching the video bc we all know that IVF journey is not an easy one! I’ve also had multiple surgeries 2 retrieval’s, 1 fresh and 1 frozen. It was all too much for me. I had to take a break. Ivf takes such a big emotional toll. I had to take a 7 month break to save my sanity. I did another transfer in June and got my BFP! Currently 9 wks pregnant. Do your 3 rd transfer at your own time and when both of you feel ready. Thinking about you guys!
I am sooooo sorry for your loss. I know your pain. We had a early miscarriage at 8 weeks in 2019 and now a stillbirth April 2020 at 22+3 weeks. It all hurts so bad and I am so sorry you had to experience this level of heartbreak. Our family is sending you love and baby dust. Your story is very informative and I know this video will help educate so many people going through this journey 💗 sending you love!
You are an absolute warrior!!!! You are so so strong, I can’t even begin to tell you. I’m going through IVF right now and completely feel for you so much. This is a hard process as it is, but for you it’s been even harder. I can’t wait to start listening to your fertility podcast and continue to follow your journey! 😘
My husband and I are going through IVF now. We are 26 and 27. After 2 ectopic pregnancies I know exactly how you feel, both times we only got to be excited for two weeks. It was the happiest two weeks of our life. The second one was during covid April 30-May 1st and my husband wasn’t even allowed to come into the hospital to comfort me. Both times was literally the saddest moments that I have ever experienced in my life. I’m so sorry my love, but continue to have faith because it is NOT over. Would love to follow you on IG if you’d like to share 💖
Thank you for sharing your journey. I had failed IUI treatments and we’re going to be trying IVF and hearing this has really helped me to manage my expectations. I can’t express how sorry I feel that it hasn’t worked for you and I fully support your decision because it is extremely exhausting mentally and physically to go through any infertility treatments.
I applaud your strength!!!! With the highest high and the lowest low. I totally feel for you !!! Keep going strong girl and in the end when you have your baby it will just mean so much more !!! 🙏❤️🙏❤️
At about 8 minutes into the video, and i have issues with how they treated your chronic endometritis! My doctor in NYC did research on this. He found that women treated with a high dose of antibiotics had better results when on it for 15 days or more! When i had my biopsy (not surgery), it was positive. My doctor put me on 21 days of 1000mg of augmentin and 1000mg of flagyl per day (split into two doses). Then we had a biopsy after my next period to let the bad lining shed (not right after your antibiotics). As i was waiting for my results, i had another period, and by then we found out it was negative! I am now surprisingly pregnant naturally. It only took three weeks and two biopsies, nothing invasive like a surgery. I feel if you followed a similar protocol, it would’ve saved you a lot of time. Now 15 minutes in, and even more annoyed that he “doesn’t know” if it even affects your ability to get pregnant. IT DOES. I couldn’t get pregnant for 19 cycles because of CHRONIC ENDOMETRITIS. I’m so sorry for your loss :( i hope your endometritis gets cleared and you can have your miracle baby soon.
Thank you so much for sharing. My husband and I are on the IVF journey right now. Your words and stories have been very helpful and encouraging. I love your positivity. Take care.
Thank you for sharing ❤️ my heart breaks for your loss. We’re about to start IFV after we had a still birth and you’re videos have been really helpful for us to know what we can expect in regards to not just the process but physically and emotionally. I’m wishing you alll the very best on your journey whatever you chose it to be 💕
All I can say is don't give up if having a family is your dream. I have endometriosis also, and it can mess with your egg quality. We've been through 5 year's of infertility, 6 surgeries, IUI's, IVF, IVF with donor eggs, one miscarriage with a transfer, a molar pregnancy with a spontaneous pregnancy on our own, and chemical pregnancy on our own. All those losses were extremely hard, but now I look at it as at least we now know I can get pregnant. I'm going to keep trying until I get that rainbow baby. I so hope you guy's get yours too, your not alone!
Thank you so much! YOU are so strong too for surviving through everything you have gone through. I am sending you so much love and positivity to your journey and pray you get your rainbow baby as well 💕
I’m like why do they make you soooooooo nervous like this my doctor always made me think the absolute worse and this was not always the case… I understand honey. I do not have endometriosis, but I went home and used organic apple cider vinegar and it cleared my system… sometimes the body appreciates natural things. This is such a difficult time still going through it now, so I understand we are sisters in the fertility world 🌈 🙏🙏🙏
Hey lovely, I’m so sorry you’re going through such a hard time. I had my own loss last year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I don’t think you realise the impact something like that has until you go through it. Please take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. One of the most helpful things for me since then has been Accupuncture, I find it really relaxing and if you find a good one they can almost act as a therapist while also providing some hormone support through the treatment itself. A really helpful book I’ve found is ‘it starts with the egg’, it has some really good info in it and it’s quite interesting to read, I found it was also nice to read as it kind of gave me a focus and a bit of a plan. Best wishes on your journey xxx
Definitely cried along with you! I’m so amazed by your strength through this! I also had a failed IVF cycle 6 weeks ago. I had to wait through COVID until the elective surgeries opened up. Waited on birth control for the call that we could begin from March until June. Then completed my cycle in July, and it failed completely. We had 20 eggs, but by the end no embryos to freeze. We transferred 2 but they didn’t make it to blastocyst. I’m 31 and eggs and uterine lining aren’t my problem either. I have endo and the doctor attributes that to why it didn’t work. She has me on a shot I take once a month for 3 months called Lupron Depot. It completely stops my ovarian function and is putting me into a menopause state. But it’s supposed to reduce the endo inflammation. If you ever decide to try again, you might ask your doctor about it. It might solve your uterine infection. If Lupron Depot works for me in December when I get to try again, I’ll shout it from the rooftops. Wishing you the best. Your story has inspired me, I may share mine on UA-cam as well.
Thank you for sharing, I’m so sorry but hope the happy ending is coming soon!! My first fresh cycle did not work and my frozen cycle was delayed due to Covid. But now we are back on schedule and should be doing our first frozen transfer next week. It’s so hard, because I’ve focused so much on just getting pregnant that miscarrying doesn’t even cross my mind. So sorry you went through this, praying that one day we will both be mommies and our children will know just how much they were wanted. 🙏🏼🤞
@@natchats3099 it was a long road with a few more heartaches after this post. But, I am happy to say I am now 12 weeks pregnant! Now just praying this baby keeps growing and will join us in December 🙏🏼
Hi Emily I am so sorry for your loss I’ve been there myself . I also have endometriosis myself it’s like almost like a silent fertility killer .I’m going to start my second cycle with a IVF I have an amazing doctor Dr. Kiltz at CNYfertility the doctor really cares about their patient . And always trying to come up with solutions to make things better. Take the time you and your husband and enjoy yourselves and not stress I think about any fertility when you’re ready to revisit again you have options.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The dumbest thing someone said to me on my journey was “it must be so hard to wonder if your husband is going to leave you for someone who can give him a baby”🤯!
So sorry that you had to go through this. You are stronger than ever and when the time comes you will know if you want to try again. So just focus on healing and enjoy life. You are both so young and I have no doubt you are going to experience the best of feelings sooner or later. Sending you love and all the positive energy from the bottom of my ❤. Thank you for sharing your journey🙏
Were also doing IVF, we have also realized and felt that some Dr meetings are money makers vs true needed appointments. So now since we have raised the flag and sent in a nice email.. we don’t get these set backs and money maker appointments.
You’re so young girl, I am 38 yrs and I am doing my first IVF cycle ALONE, no boyfriend, no husband and this process has been the most difficult process in my entire life, my mom, sister and bother support me 💯, they know I haven’t been lucky enough to find me a good man so I am doing this alone, I’ve been to every single visit with the company of my own self. I’ve wanted to give up many times but I am not going to quit. I am pretty positive that you can become pregnant on your own, you have many many years to keep trying. Take a break, you deserve it, you will be holding your baby one day. I have to do it now because of my age but you’re fine.
niurca jimenez I wish that was the case, but first and foremost we suffer from secondary infertility which is why we had to do ivf in the first place. Our chances of getting pregnant naturally are very low.
Thank u so much for sharing. It means a lot to me. I had one failed transfer and am waiting for the next and am full of fear. Best of luck to you and thank u again.
I m sorry to hear dear, we are on the same boat, don't give up , may be next time you will have a positive result , I am going for my 3 rd IVF cycle next day , pray for me.
Thank you Emily for sharing your story, I so appreciate your honesty and sharing your heart with us all. I am so sorry for your loss, that must have been so hard but you are so strong and inspirational. I hope and pray you guys will be 3rd time lucky! (Either IVF or ideally naturally)! 🤗 x
and I am on the in vitro we have 7 embryos. 1 fresh transfer - unsuccessful, 2 transfers frozen - unsuccessful and another 1 frozen - successful but after a month I have a miscarriage .. but any evil for good, I hope everything will be fine when it is written to be ❤️
Did you do PGS testing? I just got my first positive pregnancy test and have not had my beta yet but have heard of SO much more success with PGS tested embryos. So sorry for your loss and prayers, you will succeed!!!🙏🙏🙏
The same exact situation happened to me in March! Don’t give up and stay strong! It was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. We are doing our 2nd embryo transfer next week 🤞🏼🙏🏼 Baby dust to you all!
You are so, so brave for sharing your story. I really hope you great pregnant soon and continue to be strong during this trying time. All the best to you two.
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story and being brave. You guys will be fantastic parents one day, no matter how to decide to create your family. ❤️ Beat or luck to you.
I’m so very sorry that you and your husband are going through all of this. I will be praying for you, I hope you will have your baby one day!! You are so strong!! I had several miscarriages so I understand 😌
Thanks for sharing your journey , I am a ivf worrier as well , maybe u should address the inflammation in your uterus before moving forward for the third time .. and I highly suggest that u do a ERA this way they could measure your progesterone intake You could be either getting to much or not enough. This is worth giving a shot ... Hope all ends up well ❤️😌😌
I have been diagnosed recently with stage 3 to 4 endometriosis and i have been doing my research on surgery for this because your general ob-gyn's are not qualified enough. Have you had the endometriosis lasered or have you seen an endometriosis specialisy that can do excision surgery, which is classed as the gold standard surgery to help remove the endo. highly recommend you join the Nancy's Nook facebook group to understand endometriosis and its affects on fertility. She also has a list of recommended specialists that do excision surgery. I'm from the UK and like you had no symptoms at all but scans showed I had 2 cysts (1 on each ovary). When they did the laparoscopy they found it was endometriosis and removed as much as possible. But the laser surgery they did can cause scar tissue and can affect you more than do good. So through Nancy's fb group educated myself on the condition and what it means for me going forwatd. I have found a UK based endo specialist through the group who has a surgery only 20 minutes down the road from me. Will definitely be seeking his advice and possible excision surgery as me and my other half do want to try for a baby in the next year. I hope this info helps xx
Sorry to hear you're going through this. Im going through IVF as well and I've been told that transferring 1 embryo is more likely to stick opposed to two. 😔😔 I was hoping to transfer 2 embryos, but we don't think it'll happen now knowing that information.
Ok my gosh sweetie I am so sorry. I myself can’t get pregnant bc I have endometriosis and have had it for 19 years undiagnosed. I have had 3 surgeries to remove it all plus endo polyps.. it’s really hard for us but we just know that having babies naturally just isn’t for us. We have not done ivf bc it cost a lot but I have had a failed IUI and I can’t go through that It’s been a year since all that and have tried naturally and still nothing so we’re just gonna get a puppy or something but we are just focusing on traveling and new hobbies I truly am sorry for your loss hun 😘😘
I have been through an IVF journey of my own as well and it’s definitely not easy. I too needed a break after our first cycle and miscarriage. I took a 3 month break because I definitely needed to find myself again. Take your time to decide what it is YOU and your husband want to do next. Ultimately, it is your decision and everyone needs to respect you. Much love to you and your hubby ❤️
Wow such a story just keep courage love 💘 ❤ 💗 the lord will make away for you and your husband ❤ 🙏 ♥ my daughter in law is going through it right now ..just sorry you loss your baby thanks for sharing hun keep the faith 🙏 😘 ❤ 💕
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Hi pls give reply How much it took for your IVF cycle treatment and how many injections you took on this entire process actually we are also planning for it feeling so scary pls give reply and help me
So sorry for your losses. Just wanted to comment and ask if you had pgd/pgs testing on the embryos? If not I would suggest doing that if you end up doing a retrieval again. I had 7 embryos and only 2 that were genetically “normal”. I would have had 5 mc until I found one of the 2 “normal” ones if I did not have the pgd info and just tried to implant any of them. It’s expensive but worth it for us and actually saved us money in the long run. I believe you can unfreeze and pgd test the embryos then freeze again. Not sure if that hurts the integrity of the embryo just a thought. Hugs to you.
We unfortunately cannot do PGS testing as our insurance said they will not cover any of the costs associated with it. We’ve asked them to review that request a few times and unfortunately even though we have great coverage, they have decided that it is not necessary which is so unfair.
Hi. I’m actually looking into ivf I’ve had 6 miscarriages in the past and basically my only option left is ivf and like u said they would test them cus that might be my issue. I just wanted to know if you don’t mind me asking how much is it roughly?
This is bad information. You would not have had 5 miscarriages. That's not even how that works. 1. "Bad" embryos can still lead to full term pregnancies. 2. The bad ones rarely stick. 3. Some "bad" embryos have trysomy 21 (Downs Syndrome) which is not the end of the world. 4. Testing causes cell damage. They could be destroying good ones just to test. So, remove your ill-informed comment.
It’s a very hard process.
We went through two unsuccessful rounds before we got pregnant our third. We lost him after birth to medical complications we found out about at 18weeks. It was very hard to choose to do another round and it was another unsuccessful one (all 5 rounds we did were fresh not frozen). In 2019 we finally brought home a healthy baby. This was a 7 year journey, so take your time to heal.
I wish there was a forum for ivf were woken could donate meds so everybody could get the help they need if needed.
There is a website where people sell their unused meds for cheaper
Fb has groups
@@torristamps9711 hi, which group is it I need to sell mine
So sorry for your loss. I had 2 losses when I was around your age. I am 39 now. I am in my IVF journey now and on day 2 of stims. One thing I will say is that your age is on your side and if there is ANY part of you that thinks you would like to give it another shot go for it when you are ready. I. REALLY wish I hadn't waited so long bc I am just now finding out about my endometriosis (had laparascopic surgery in Dec) and now have diminished ovarian reserve. Whatever you decide though it is 100% your decision and never let anyone tell you different. One nice thing about being in your older 30s is that you really stop caring what other people think LOL. I would gently suggest maybe getting a second opinion on your endometritis to see if you can do anything else to help it. At least that may help you feel that you've done everything you can. Much love to you!
I’m crying with you bc i know the feeling so well. Don’t give up, but take as much time as you need to find peace. Praying that you’ll get your baby soon!
I’m so sorry. I cried while watching the video bc we all know that IVF journey is not an easy one! I’ve also had multiple surgeries 2 retrieval’s, 1 fresh and 1 frozen. It was all too much for me. I had to take a break. Ivf takes such a big emotional toll. I had to take a 7 month break to save my sanity. I did another transfer in June and got my BFP! Currently 9 wks pregnant. Do your 3 rd transfer at your own time and when both of you feel ready. Thinking about you guys!
I am sooooo sorry for your loss. I know your pain. We had a early miscarriage at 8 weeks in 2019 and now a stillbirth April 2020 at 22+3 weeks. It all hurts so bad and I am so sorry you had to experience this level of heartbreak. Our family is sending you love and baby dust. Your story is very informative and I know this video will help educate so many people going through this journey 💗 sending you love!
You are an absolute warrior!!!! You are so so strong, I can’t even begin to tell you. I’m going through IVF right now and completely feel for you so much. This is a hard process as it is, but for you it’s been even harder. I can’t wait to start listening to your fertility podcast and continue to follow your journey! 😘
My husband and I are going through IVF now. We are 26 and 27. After 2 ectopic pregnancies I know exactly how you feel, both times we only got to be excited for two weeks. It was the happiest two weeks of our life. The second one was during covid April 30-May 1st and my husband wasn’t even allowed to come into the hospital to comfort me. Both times was literally the saddest moments that I have ever experienced in my life. I’m so sorry my love, but continue to have faith because it is NOT over. Would love to follow you on IG if you’d like to share 💖
I found you.
My case ohh lord why
Im sorry for your loss ❤️ I’m going through IVF right now and really appreciate you sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing your journey. I had failed IUI treatments and we’re going to be trying IVF and hearing this has really helped me to manage my expectations. I can’t express how sorry I feel that it hasn’t worked for you and I fully support your decision because it is extremely exhausting mentally and physically to go through any infertility treatments.
Exhausting financially too.
I applaud your strength!!!! With the highest high and the lowest low. I totally feel for you !!! Keep going strong girl and in the end when you have your baby it will just mean so much more !!! 🙏❤️🙏❤️
At about 8 minutes into the video, and i have issues with how they treated your chronic endometritis! My doctor in NYC did research on this. He found that women treated with a high dose of antibiotics had better results when on it for 15 days or more! When i had my biopsy (not surgery), it was positive. My doctor put me on 21 days of 1000mg of augmentin and 1000mg of flagyl per day (split into two doses). Then we had a biopsy after my next period to let the bad lining shed (not right after your antibiotics). As i was waiting for my results, i had another period, and by then we found out it was negative! I am now surprisingly pregnant naturally. It only took three weeks and two biopsies, nothing invasive like a surgery. I feel if you followed a similar protocol, it would’ve saved you a lot of time.
Now 15 minutes in, and even more annoyed that he “doesn’t know” if it even affects your ability to get pregnant. IT DOES. I couldn’t get pregnant for 19 cycles because of CHRONIC ENDOMETRITIS.
I’m so sorry for your loss :( i hope your endometritis gets cleared and you can have your miracle baby soon.
NYC doctors are much more accurate in my opinion. They are truly more thorough in their findings and how to proceed with infertility
Thank you so much for sharing. My husband and I are on the IVF journey right now. Your words and stories have been very helpful and encouraging. I love your positivity. Take care.
Thank you so much! Sending you so much love and positivity your way through your journey ✨💕
Don’t give up, there are 40 year old women having babies through ivf
Thank you for sharing ❤️ my heart breaks for your loss. We’re about to start IFV after we had a still birth and you’re videos have been really helpful for us to know what we can expect in regards to not just the process but physically and emotionally. I’m wishing you alll the very best on your journey whatever you chose it to be 💕
All I can say is don't give up if having a family is your dream. I have endometriosis also, and it can mess with your egg quality. We've been through 5 year's of infertility, 6 surgeries, IUI's, IVF, IVF with donor eggs, one miscarriage with a transfer, a molar pregnancy with a spontaneous pregnancy on our own, and chemical pregnancy on our own. All those losses were extremely hard, but now I look at it as at least we now know I can get pregnant. I'm going to keep trying until I get that rainbow baby. I so hope you guy's get yours too, your not alone!
Thank you so much! YOU are so strong too for surviving through everything you have gone through. I am sending you so much love and positivity to your journey and pray you get your rainbow baby as well 💕
@@EmilyOrlandoMakeup, thanks so much for the kind word's! We're all stronger then we think we are! 💕🌈
I am so sorry for your loss. You are so strong. It is not fair what you have had to go through
I’m like why do they make you soooooooo nervous like this my doctor always made me think the absolute worse and this was not always the case… I understand honey. I do not have endometriosis, but I went home and used organic apple cider vinegar and it cleared my system… sometimes the body appreciates natural things. This is such a difficult time still going through it now, so I understand we are sisters in the fertility world 🌈 🙏🙏🙏
Hey lovely, I’m so sorry you’re going through such a hard time. I had my own loss last year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I don’t think you realise the impact something like that has until you go through it. Please take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. One of the most helpful things for me since then has been Accupuncture, I find it really relaxing and if you find a good one they can almost act as a therapist while also providing some hormone support through the treatment itself. A really helpful book I’ve found is ‘it starts with the egg’, it has some really good info in it and it’s quite interesting to read, I found it was also nice to read as it kind of gave me a focus and a bit of a plan. Best wishes on your journey xxx
Definitely cried along with you! I’m so amazed by your strength through this! I also had a failed IVF cycle 6 weeks ago. I had to wait through COVID until the elective surgeries opened up. Waited on birth control for the call that we could begin from March until June. Then completed my cycle in July, and it failed completely. We had 20 eggs, but by the end no embryos to freeze. We transferred 2 but they didn’t make it to blastocyst. I’m 31 and eggs and uterine lining aren’t my problem either. I have endo and the doctor attributes that to why it didn’t work. She has me on a shot I take once a month for 3 months called Lupron Depot. It completely stops my ovarian function and is putting me into a menopause state. But it’s supposed to reduce the endo inflammation. If you ever decide to try again, you might ask your doctor about it. It might solve your uterine infection. If Lupron Depot works for me in December when I get to try again, I’ll shout it from the rooftops. Wishing you the best. Your story has inspired me, I may share mine on UA-cam as well.
Thank you for sharing, I’m so sorry but hope the happy ending is coming soon!! My first fresh cycle did not work and my frozen cycle was delayed due to Covid. But now we are back on schedule and should be doing our first frozen transfer next week. It’s so hard, because I’ve focused so much on just getting pregnant that miscarrying doesn’t even cross my mind. So sorry you went through this, praying that one day we will both be mommies and our children will know just how much they were wanted. 🙏🏼🤞
Any updates since then? How did you go ?
@@natchats3099 it was a long road with a few more heartaches after this post. But, I am happy to say I am now 12 weeks pregnant! Now just praying this baby keeps growing and will join us in December 🙏🏼
@@brittanylopez4292 ahh congrats ! I'm also 8 weeks pregnant now with twins via IVF. I'm due in Jan. Goodluck with everything x
@@natchats3099 that’s so awesome!! Congratulations!
Thanks so much for sharing and being brave. God has the final say, dont give up, but definitely take your break. Sending hugs
Hi Emily I am so sorry for your loss I’ve been there myself . I also have endometriosis myself it’s like almost like a silent fertility killer .I’m going to start my second cycle with a IVF I have an amazing doctor Dr. Kiltz at CNYfertility the doctor really cares about their patient . And always trying to come up with solutions to make things better. Take the time you and your husband and enjoy yourselves and not stress I think about any fertility when you’re ready to revisit again you have options.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you so much! Your are so sweet for offering your words of positivity and kindness ❤️
The dumbest thing someone said to me on my journey was “it must be so hard to wonder if your husband is going to leave you for someone who can give him a baby”🤯!
Omg! Who says that? Who even THINKS that!?
@@seq4168people who are uneducated.
So sorry that you had to go through this. You are stronger than ever and when the time comes you will know if you want to try again. So just focus on healing and enjoy life. You are both so young and I have no doubt you are going to experience the best of feelings sooner or later. Sending you love and all the positive energy from the bottom of my ❤.
Thank you for sharing your journey🙏
Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for your words of strength and sweetness ❤️
Were also doing IVF, we have also realized and felt that some Dr meetings are money makers vs true needed appointments. So now since we have raised the flag and sent in a nice email.. we don’t get these set backs and money maker appointments.
I love you, Emily and Dominic! Your vulnerability is so refreshing and courageous.
You’re so young girl, I am 38 yrs and I am doing my first IVF cycle ALONE, no boyfriend, no husband and this process has been the most difficult process in my entire life, my mom, sister and bother support me 💯, they know I haven’t been lucky enough to find me a good man so I am doing this alone, I’ve been to every single visit with the company of my own self. I’ve wanted to give up many times but I am not going to quit. I am pretty positive that you can become pregnant on your own, you have many many years to keep trying. Take a break, you deserve it, you will be holding your baby one day. I have to do it now because of my age but you’re fine.
niurca jimenez I wish that was the case, but first and foremost we suffer from secondary infertility which is why we had to do ivf in the first place. Our chances of getting pregnant naturally are very low.
Thank u so much for sharing. It means a lot to me. I had one failed transfer and am waiting for the next and am full of fear. Best of luck to you and thank u again.
You are incredibly strong! Good things will happen for you ❤️
I m sorry to hear dear, we are on the same boat, don't give up , may be next time you will have a positive result , I am going for my 3 rd IVF cycle next day , pray for me.
Sajna rafiq thank you so much! Sending you so much love ❤️
@@EmilyOrlandoMakeup Love you dear
Hello, sorry to hear it. Don't give up. God has a perfect plan for you😊. Keep on believing and never give up. Godbless and keep safe always😊
you are not alone sweet heart!!!!!! I will pray for you & your hubby and for your future babies!!!!!!!
You’re so kind! Thank you so much ❤️
Thank you Emily for sharing your story, I so appreciate your honesty and sharing your heart with us all. I am so sorry for your loss, that must have been so hard but you are so strong and inspirational. I hope and pray you guys will be 3rd time lucky! (Either IVF or ideally naturally)! 🤗 x
😔😔😞😞😞but keep going... the next transfer I'm 100% sure its gonna work... baby dust to u❤❤❤
and I am on the in vitro we have 7 embryos. 1 fresh transfer - unsuccessful, 2 transfers frozen - unsuccessful and another 1 frozen - successful but after a month I have a miscarriage .. but any evil for good, I hope everything will be fine when it is written to be ❤️
Did you do PGS testing? I just got my first positive pregnancy test and have not had my beta yet but have heard of SO much more success with PGS tested embryos. So sorry for your loss and prayers, you will succeed!!!🙏🙏🙏
💙💙💙 thank you for sharing your story..good luck whatever you decide to do!
Your strength is truly empowering ❤️
The same exact situation happened to me in March! Don’t give up and stay strong! It was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. We are doing our 2nd embryo transfer next week 🤞🏼🙏🏼 Baby dust to you all!
You are so, so brave for sharing your story. I really hope you great pregnant soon and continue to be strong during this trying time. All the best to you two.
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story and being brave. You guys will be fantastic parents one day, no matter how to decide to create your family. ❤️ Beat or luck to you.
I’m so very sorry that you and your husband are going through all of this. I will be praying for you, I hope you will have your baby one day!! You are so strong!! I had several miscarriages so I understand 😌
Your makeup is on fleek 👌
Thanks for sharing your journey , I am a ivf worrier as well , maybe u should address the inflammation in your uterus before moving forward for the third time .. and I highly suggest that u do a ERA this way they could measure your progesterone intake You could be either getting to much or not enough. This is worth giving a shot ... Hope all ends up well ❤️😌😌
I have been diagnosed recently with stage 3 to 4 endometriosis and i have been doing my research on surgery for this because your general ob-gyn's are not qualified enough. Have you had the endometriosis lasered or have you seen an endometriosis specialisy that can do excision surgery, which is classed as the gold standard surgery to help remove the endo. highly recommend you join the Nancy's Nook facebook group to understand endometriosis and its affects on fertility. She also has a list of recommended specialists that do excision surgery. I'm from the UK and like you had no symptoms at all but scans showed I had 2 cysts (1 on each ovary). When they did the laparoscopy they found it was endometriosis and removed as much as possible. But the laser surgery they did can cause scar tissue and can affect you more than do good. So through Nancy's fb group educated myself on the condition and what it means for me going forwatd. I have found a UK based endo specialist through the group who has a surgery only 20 minutes down the road from me. Will definitely be seeking his advice and possible excision surgery as me and my other half do want to try for a baby in the next year. I hope this info helps xx
Gosh you guys have been through so much stuff 😔 you poor things 😔 feeling for you. Stay strong ☺️
Sorry to hear you're going through this. Im going through IVF as well and I've been told that transferring 1 embryo is more likely to stick opposed to two. 😔😔 I was hoping to transfer 2 embryos, but we don't think it'll happen now knowing that information.
Enjoy life, take some time for yourself and your husband. Thank you for this video!
Thank you so much! 💕
Ok my gosh sweetie I am so sorry. I myself can’t get pregnant bc I have endometriosis and have had it for 19 years undiagnosed. I have had 3 surgeries to remove it all plus endo polyps.. it’s really hard for us but we just know that having babies naturally just isn’t for us. We have not done ivf bc it cost a lot but I have had a failed IUI and I can’t go through that
It’s been a year since all that and have tried naturally and still nothing so we’re just gonna get a puppy or something but we are just focusing on traveling and new hobbies
I truly am sorry for your loss hun
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Thank you for sharing n being brave n raw n emotional. This is so helpful.
Thank you so much! You’re so kind
I feel you actually I’m crying too
I have been through an IVF journey of my own as well and it’s definitely not easy. I too needed a break after our first cycle and miscarriage. I took a 3 month break because I definitely needed to find myself again. Take your time to decide what it is YOU and your husband want to do next. Ultimately, it is your decision and everyone needs to respect you. Much love to you and your hubby ❤️
Something came up amd we will to habe to put a break on cycle 2 ..good luck to u
When I saw you first I thought how beautiful you are! you both are young, one day it will happen naturally. Bless you, both.
💗sorry for your loss
Wow such a story just keep courage love 💘 ❤ 💗 the lord will make away for you and your husband ❤ 🙏 ♥ my daughter in law is going through it right now ..just sorry you loss your baby thanks for sharing hun keep the faith 🙏 😘 ❤ 💕
Praying For You God is Good don't lose Hope🙏❤️🥰
Thank you for sharing your story. I am so sorry for your lost. I been thought a miscarriage it's very difficult.
Im 32 and will try to do ivf in the next month. Failed IUI twice.hugs❤❤❤
Thankyou for sharing this hard journey ❤
Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful.,.🆗
I went through this last week. It was soo pianful. I'm due to do bloods tomorrow to find out more
Hi pls give reply
How much it took for your IVF cycle treatment and how many injections you took on this entire process actually we are also planning for it feeling so scary pls give reply and help me
Did success your 2 embryos transfer? I m going my round 2 ivf transfer thingking put 2 embryos in it.cuz first one not work!
Listening to your story made me to remember my story
U so lucky yr husband was there my husband was a jerk
U should get the ERA biopsy to check to see when ur receptive ,that way they can transfer baby on the right day Godbless
Hi there! The biopsy’s mentioned in this video check for that already!
@@EmilyOrlandoMakeup oh ok that’s good ,I think that every time u go for a another transfer you have to check 🌸 Godbless
Big love Emily
Good luck on your next transfer..
What insurance company d u have ?
Emily all will be fyn in God's name Amen
So sorry for your losses. Just wanted to comment and ask if you had pgd/pgs testing on the embryos?
If not I would suggest doing that if you end up doing a retrieval again. I had 7 embryos and only 2 that were genetically “normal”. I would have had 5 mc until I found one of the 2 “normal” ones if I did not have the pgd info and just tried to implant any of them. It’s expensive but worth it for us and actually saved us money in the long run. I believe you can unfreeze and pgd test the embryos then freeze again. Not sure if that hurts the integrity of the embryo just a thought. Hugs to you.
We unfortunately cannot do PGS testing as our insurance said they will not cover any of the costs associated with it. We’ve asked them to review that request a few times and unfortunately even though we have great coverage, they have decided that it is not necessary which is so unfair.
Hi. I’m actually looking into ivf I’ve had 6 miscarriages in the past and basically my only option left is ivf and like u said they would test them cus that might be my issue. I just wanted to know if you don’t mind me asking how much is it roughly?
This is bad information. You would not have had 5 miscarriages. That's not even how that works.
1. "Bad" embryos can still lead to full term pregnancies.
2. The bad ones rarely stick.
3. Some "bad" embryos have trysomy 21 (Downs Syndrome) which is not the end of the world.
4. Testing causes cell damage. They could be destroying good ones just to test.
So, remove your ill-informed comment.
I'm having my 8th and last transfer tomorrow and I'm nervous
A little late - but how did it go?
@@sarKAZm19 Went great. I have a 6 months old baby boy.
@@missbettybooo8694 I’m so happy for you! What a blessing.
Aw I’m sorry, i thought this was gonna have a happy end☹️ Ivf really sucks, I know💞
Sorry sister may Allah grant you strainght and bless in the most easy way baby boy and girls don't worry God is with you sister
Thank you for sharing.
Did you genetically test your embryos?
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Thank you for sharing