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  • After my frozen embryo transfer prep from Day 2 of my cycle, I went into my transfer super hopeful. In this video, I share my frozen embryo transfer procedure at my fertility clinic in Korea, remembering all the details of my embryo transfer step by step. After transferring two Day 5 blastocysts, I vlog the day to day symptoms - outlining the 5 day frozen embryo transfer implantation timeline from 1DPT and on.
    I've documented my experience with embryo implantation symptoms post transfer, and also my pregnancy test line progression to keep track of everything. The final results of my embryo transfer are in.... and all I can say is that it's an emotional rollercoaster... but IVF is just that, isn't it? For those of you going through infertility or IVF in your 40s, you are not alone.
    About me ❤
    My name is Hellynn and I live in the US, but I've traveled to Korea (where I'm from) to undergo multiple rounds of IVF. Being 40+ and trying to bring children into the world is hard, but I also have diminished ovarian reserve (DOR). For those reasons, I am doing back-to-back rounds of IVF.
    Navigating this world of infertility is definitely a challenge - a million new acronyms, hormones and protocols to learn - it's A LOT. So I thought I'd just talk about everything I've been learning for the women out there who are going through similar struggles. I'm also here to guide anyone who is interested in traveling to Korea for IVF, since it's more cost efficient with high success rates here.
    I am treating this YT channel as my diary, talking about the ups and downs of my journey to motherhood so that one day, my babies will see how they were created... with fierce, enduring strength and love.
    I hope you find my videos helpful - thanks for stopping by.
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    Thanks for watching! ❤
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  • @hellynn_j
    @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +7

    Join my FB support group where I give updates, share general info about IVF, but also getting IVF in Korea for those interested: facebook.com/groups/1058899261969918/

  • @lauraellerman9443
    @lauraellerman9443 3 місяці тому +22

    You are a warrior and your future baby will know it right down to their core.
    I thank you immensely for the strength and grace it takes to share this in real time. 🙏🏻 I ask that God cover you in perseverance, motivation, and peace.
    Everyone’s journey is so uniquely their own and in sharing yours you have made all of us feel heard and seen in so many ways and sometimes that kind of bond can be everything.
    “Everything WILL work out in the end … if it’s not okay, then it’s NOT the end”

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +5

      I love this, the last sentence so much. Thank you for listening to my story and sticking with me as we go on this journey together. We really are all in it together… I really appreciate your uplifting message today❤️

  • @jessicacruz5606
    @jessicacruz5606 3 місяці тому +33

    Thank you for sharing your journey! It takes so much courage and strength to be able to share and be vulnerable with us. Sending you all the baby DUST ✨✨✨

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much Jessica, I'm grateful for your message❤

  • @user-go3wq5we2v
    @user-go3wq5we2v 3 місяці тому +13

    Dear, my friend is 41 , she had only 2 freezed embryos. She took crazy bad rest for 8 days. Let me tell you what she did
    1. She was sleeping whole day straight with lag elevated a bit and some times on left side.
    2. Not more than 15 minutes she was doing her routine or eating and again going to bed
    3 for sitting a chair at least 1.5 feet heighted straight back support for eating
    4. Never she folded her legs on bed even if she is sitting on bed
    5. She has not even taken bath properly just to avoid twisting and turning for 4 days... Standing in bathroom and pour water, or a chair and pour water. Sometimes her mother in law was helping her to take bath
    6. Light meal , millets and fruit but no heavy diet.
    8. No testing before 14 day
    7. She got pregnant and had twins
    8.
    9.Dear, your diet is good means your embryos are good, panicking is very strong factor.
    9. All the would be mother through IVF needs to be extremely cool and relaxed because these embryos are extremely delicate and anything heavy on mind they can not take.
    Lots of love ❤❤❤and prayers from India 🙏🙏🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +2

      Congratulations to your friend for twins! Thats an amazing story, and thank you for all the tips. The leg elevation especially sounds like a great idea. Youre right, no stress and relaxation inly♥️🙏

  • @nycgirl8253
    @nycgirl8253 3 місяці тому +13

    You are so brave for being so vulnerable when you still don’t have your good news yet. I am praying for you to have your miracle baby. ❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much. That means the world to me.💗

  • @tanyatomar
    @tanyatomar 2 місяці тому +2

    Take care Hellynn - hopefully everything will turn out awesome!!!!! Hang in there girl and don't lose hope :)

  • @Shlautur27
    @Shlautur27 3 місяці тому +9

    I can only imagine what you’re going through. May you find strength and comfort on your journey!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much ♥️

  • @Lauren280582
    @Lauren280582 3 місяці тому +1

    So sorry Hellynn! I was so hopeful when you mentioned implantation bleeding and then the positive tests. Exciting to head into your next transfer very soon, wishing you all the best for your next transfer! ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much Lauren. I really appreciate you ❤️

  • @aurorasnow8642
    @aurorasnow8642 3 місяці тому +3

    I am really sorry. Hellynn
    A big hug. Thank you for sharing.
    U are such a brave and strong woman. Praying for your next transfer.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Hi there, thank you so much for your kindness.. Big hugs back. 🙏

  • @mschwartzburg
    @mschwartzburg 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing openly, this is definitely heart breaking for you, I can only imagine, but it's not the end of the journey for you, that much I know. Stay positive, try to align your thoughts and frequency with good, positive energy. Wishing you luck in your ivf journey

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for the positive energy ❤

  • @user-uw8kn6wh3s
    @user-uw8kn6wh3s 3 місяці тому +18

    Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I had a miscarriage in September of last year when I did my 6th transfer. Then my 7th transfer failed. Then my 8th transfer in January of this year got pregnant again and ended up having a miscarriage. Will be doing my 9th transfer next month so hopefully it sticks and stays this time.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +2

      I am so sorry to hear... thank you for sharing. You are so strong and I will be praying for you💗

    • @kiwan5425
      @kiwan5425 2 місяці тому

      Any of them PGT-A?

    • @prachi6802
      @prachi6802 2 місяці тому +1

      Did you ask your doctr to find out why you having these misscarriages

  • @mochichan88
    @mochichan88 3 місяці тому +4

    Sending you lots of hugs! It's definitely a roller coaster of emotions and so it's incredibly important to be kind to yourself.
    My first transfer ended up in a chemical. I was so excited leading up to the transfer and after but once I got the news it was like everything came crashing down.
    Keep your chin up future mama ❤. You got this 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for the encouragement and hugs! I appreciate you 🙏

  • @GraceWanjakaranja
    @GraceWanjakaranja 2 місяці тому

    Hi Hellynn, I'm so sorry about your loss and I pray that your journey to motherhood is fruitful... keep the faith

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much❤ yes. Keep the faith is right

  • @yvonneyt4412
    @yvonneyt4412 3 місяці тому +3

    Dearest Hellynn, I'm absolutely gutted hearing about your loss. I pray for you that the next round will be successful. Thank you for your selflessness in sharing the ups and downs of your journey. It keeps me encouraged. I'm rooting for and will continue to pray for you. I see you as an expectant mom. Sending you 💓, hugs and light🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      This was the sweetest message. Thank you for giving me courage and strength ❤️

  • @yendebbie
    @yendebbie 3 місяці тому +2

    Sorry for your loss, Hellyn! You’re so brave to be doing this yourself in Korea! Sending hugs and love! Thank you for sharing. I cried with you but we will cry happy tears together soon! I hope for the best news soon! ❤ Xoxo

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      I really appreciate you. It has definitely been lots of ups and downs, and it’s crazy how we are all connected as if we’re going through the exact same thing in this journey called infertility. I also hope that we will cry happy tears soon. ❤️

  • @rainonu2007
    @rainonu2007 17 днів тому

    girl you got me over here crying... Wishing you the best!!! Thank you for sharing

  • @esraamahmoud7381
    @esraamahmoud7381 3 місяці тому +4

    Your video is sooo calming! I’m so sorry for your loss. Baby dust your way!!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you love 💕

  • @nikopalmer6471
    @nikopalmer6471 3 місяці тому +1

    Watching with my wife and you naming the embryos was so heart warming! 😢

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      Aww.. the fact that you were watching with your wife is heartwarming🥲♥️

  • @yatiwidyastuti8902
    @yatiwidyastuti8902 3 місяці тому +3

    My prayer and thought go out to you Hellyn. Thank you for your courage to share your IVF journey. Never loose hope. I am sure you will make it one day. I have been watching some women went trough multiple failure of IVF but at the end they made it.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thanks for this. Yes, I will keep the faith🙏♥️

  • @Nic-ir9qb
    @Nic-ir9qb 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your journey with your FET experience 🥺 I’m so sorry for your loss. I completely understand the sadness after going through 4 losses myself. Sending you lots of baby dust for your next transfer 🙏✨

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      I am so sorry for your losses too.. thank you for sharing that. I will keep you in my thoughts. Hugs ♥️

  • @shevegan4302
    @shevegan4302 3 місяці тому +2

    I had two failed frozen embryo transfers both non medicated natural. For my third one I did transfer two embryos on a medicated cycle and it worked. Currently 14 weeks so don’t lose faith. Stopping testing helped me process that failures better than testing.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing. I am so excited for your pregnancy! Thanks for the hope❤️🙏

  • @qqjasmine
    @qqjasmine 3 місяці тому

    My heart goes out to you ❤ My first fresh embryo transfer ended up in a chemical pregnancy (and I only had one viable embryo). I rmb how excited and joyful it was to see my very first positive line when I did the home pregnancy test, and I was heartbroken later when I did my blood work and learned that my HCG level had dropped. Take your time to grief and recover, sending you much love and support Xoxo You can get through this! ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind message, and I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you good energy ❤️

  • @asadis81
    @asadis81 3 місяці тому +3

    Dear Hellyn, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm very touched by the sweet names you gave your precious embryos 🥹 Wishing you strength for the rest of this journey and thank you for sharing your story. ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Aww thank you love. I think I will keep my names for the next transfer too! Thank you for being a part of the journey.❤

  • @tanjam8538
    @tanjam8538 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this, you are a beautiful person ❤ I am currently on my second FET , resting at home ,waiting and hoping. I felt every emotion that you went trough in the video as i experienced it last year . I wish you success with your next transfer and may your biggest wish come true💞

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you love, that means a lot💖 I wish you so much sticky baby dust! Stick baby stick💗

  • @cmarthis
    @cmarthis 3 місяці тому +4

    Ohh, I'm so sorry Hellyn! I cried with you watching your recap. Sending you so much love and still rooting for you on the next transfer! Thank you SO much for sharing your story❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Aw.. thank you for the empathy, love. Thank you for giving me strength for the next round. ♥️♥️♥️

  • @Cheers1670
    @Cheers1670 3 місяці тому

    Remain hopeful, optimistic and strong. Thinking about you and wishing you the best on your Journey.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much ❤️

  • @jellyone333
    @jellyone333 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing!! Lots of love and prayers sent your way!!!

  • @michelapaolacci4047
    @michelapaolacci4047 3 місяці тому +1

    Dear Hellyn😢 I am so so sorry ❤ try to stay positive... You will be blessed with the baby you wish for soon❤ sending you hugs from Italy xxxxxx

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Hi there, thank you so much for the uplifting message… I truly hope so. Hugs back ❤️

  • @PH-tv2sw
    @PH-tv2sw 3 місяці тому +6

    My sister in law went through 5 transfers and still no baby, she had too much white cells that keeps on attacking her red cells which causes the miscarriages. I went through one transfer and was blessed with twins who are now 16. Keep trying and don’t give up.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for the inspiration, that’s amazing that you had twins!

    • @prachi6802
      @prachi6802 3 місяці тому

      Could you tel me more about the white cells and how did she checked

    • @Eli-bz4vv
      @Eli-bz4vv Місяць тому

      Can you talk more about the white cells? Never heard about it

  • @yourimkim8254
    @yourimkim8254 24 дні тому

    Unnie, you are amazing and so graceful through it all. Please keep your head up and hope you come out of this with beautiful babies one day ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  23 дні тому

      Thank you for these lovely words💗 I will stay strong!

  • @mariaanesu6618
    @mariaanesu6618 3 місяці тому +1

    Aw, I was really hopeful this first transfer would work for you. I was sorry to hear you had an early loss. It really hurts even if youve only been pregnant for a few days. I've been through that too. Keep your hope alive. You still have good quality embryos and if you transfer 2 again and the quality is similar, apparently that increases the chances of a pregnancy. You've been pregnant twice, so focus on getting in that Zen state...and keep dreaming of the babies you want so much! Big hugs!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Aww thank you so much for your kindness! I still have hope, but I will accept whatever comes my way. Thank you for lifting my spirits!❤

  • @danijelafalls9118
    @danijelafalls9118 3 місяці тому +2

    Fingers crossed for your next transfer 🤞🏼 Hopefully both of ours are successful. Love from Australia

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers. We got this ❤️

  • @dbrian267
    @dbrian267 3 місяці тому

    Sending you lots of love and sticky baby dust, may your little miracle(s) get to you very soon. I am just in the process of getting my egg retrievals done (2nd cycle starts next week) and with low AMH and diminished ovarian reserve know how hard it can be to put out hopes when there’s few eggs/chances at this. Praying for you and for a positive outcome 🙏🏻

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Hi there, thank you for your sweet message. I hope that we both get our miracles soon. wishing you the absolute best of luck for your upcoming cycle 🙏

  • @maryessien9145
    @maryessien9145 3 місяці тому +2

    MyDear Hellynn, I am praying for you. God will smile on you and remember that what God cannot do does not exit. With God nothing shall be impossible. You are going to have babies. Stay strong. Your channel has ben inspiring to me. 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      You are absolutely right, with God nothing is impossible. Thank you for the reminder, it gave me strength today. ❤️

  • @ginatsui7194
    @ginatsui7194 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing , sorry for yours loss. 🥲You are a strong mum. Wishing you the best on your next teamster 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Hey there, thanks for your kindness💗💗💗

  • @yuriorozco9016
    @yuriorozco9016 3 місяці тому

    I’m on my second cycle of IVF and I’m so nervous. What a roller coaster of emotions. Seriously considering going to Colombia and trying my luck there if the US doesn’t work. Your channel inspired me

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      I think as impossible as it sounds, our job is to try to be as relaxed as possible through all this so our baby will come to us🥰 yes, IVF abroad is always a good option.♥️wishing you so much luck on your next cycle, let me know how it goes~~~

  • @vuyokaziblackman1431
    @vuyokaziblackman1431 3 місяці тому +3

    Wishing you the best on the next transfer

  • @chriswa3829
    @chriswa3829 3 місяці тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a pregnancy even though it's early is still so painful. I've had two miscarriages, one in week 11 och the other one in week 5. I'm 37 years old now and also have a low AMH and I've felt so stressed and scared about this situation. Following you has helped a lot. You somehow have such a calming effect when you speak. I'm now pregnant again and this time around we've reached week 16 so I'm starting realize that it might actually work this time. I hope with all my heart that your next transfer is a successful one and that you will get to meet your baby soon!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Hello my dear, I am so sorry for all your losses and I completely understand the pain. Thank you for your beautiful message of hope. And congratulations on your pregnancy - third time seems to be the charm for most people! It means so much to me that I am able to connect with you and cheer you on in this journey to motherhood. Sending you lots of love.❤️

  • @mariangelfeliz1309
    @mariangelfeliz1309 23 дні тому

    ❤ i cried watching this, thank you for sharing💕

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  23 дні тому

      Sending big hugs🥲💖

  • @guillermarieguilfoyle5449
    @guillermarieguilfoyle5449 2 місяці тому +2

    My first transfer was a chemical. My second one didn’t even get anywhere. But my third I transferred two and one resulted in a chemical. Keep trying. Don’t lose your hope! 💙 praying for you 💙

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      I am so sorry for all your losses… hope you are okay. Thank you for the positive energy.. praying for your success 🙏🙏

  • @annanowa-matsu
    @annanowa-matsu Місяць тому

    Had the same experience of feeling extremely anxious and stressed during my recent embryo transfer.
    Also lost the tiny early on.
    As beautiful is the experience of welcoming such a beautiful tiny baby back in the belly seeing it all on the screen during the transfer; the feeling of loss emotionally quite devastating.
    Good luck to you ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Місяць тому

      Im so sorry for your loss.. sending love.💗

  • @izzybroussard8495
    @izzybroussard8495 3 місяці тому

    Ohh Hellynn I'm sorry for your loss, I praying for your next transfer🙏 I am doing also my IVF we started was last month my embryos are PGT-A tested now we are waiting for the result, I really hoping and praying that they are good. I am 38 years old I'm based in the USA, best luck to us, and keep praying and positive 🙏😊

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Hi Izzy, thanks for your sweet message. I wish you so much luck on your journey.♥️

  • @sashadongre
    @sashadongre 2 місяці тому

    You are so brave.. going through something similar and finding it hard to stay positive ♥️ but you give me hope

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      It really is so difficult when you're in the middle of it. But it's not over. We're resilient. We will be mothers soon. xo

  • @lauraellerman9443
    @lauraellerman9443 2 місяці тому +1

    Hope you are doing well friend - just thinking about you this morning and praying 🙏🏻 for your journey ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      Hi Laura! Thank you for the positive energy today. Praying for you too. ❤❤

  • @payaliabiswas1260
    @payaliabiswas1260 2 місяці тому

    More Power to you. Sending you lots of good wishes ❤️

  • @rosetadle9985
    @rosetadle9985 3 місяці тому

    Be strong Henllyn,I will keep praying for u.

  • @ukbeautyroom
    @ukbeautyroom 3 місяці тому +1

    Best of luck to you. I’ve got my second egg collection next week. I haven’t decided yet if I want to do PGTA…. it’s so scary. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻❤️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      It IS very scary… one of the hardest decisions Ive ever made. Praying for you to make the decision that’s right for you. Good luck hon ♥️

  • @KaryerMay
    @KaryerMay 3 місяці тому

    You are so brave dear. I have failed two ivf and I felt so defeated each round of failure. Your video gave me the strength not to give up! Praying for your successful journey dear.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your sweet message, love. Please do not lose hope.. keep going. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you so much luck 🍀 ❤️

  • @Tabassum21086
    @Tabassum21086 3 місяці тому +1

    Sending you all my love and loads of prayers don’t give up don’t lose hope ❤❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank youuu ♥️

  • @sran7605
    @sran7605 3 місяці тому +1

    I am praying for you on your next transfer ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much💖

  • @ljcl1859
    @ljcl1859 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm so sorry, I've been through two losses myself. One at 7 wks and one chemical pregnancy. I'm glad you are not having to wait for your next transfer. I went on to have two healthy pregnancies and babies who are now adults. I hope that this transfer results in a healthy baby for you.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      I guess we have the same history of losses. I pray I will also have two heavy pregnancies like you 🙂❤

  • @candystasia8183
    @candystasia8183 3 місяці тому

    I can feel u🥺..Don't give up,Keep fighting..there will be a successful story
    after this! Amen..🙏💪

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      I appreciate you. I will keep going… thank you for giving me strength ❤️

  • @irenetbaidoo
    @irenetbaidoo 2 місяці тому

    Sending you love, healing and hope❤

  • @syrykh
    @syrykh 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey and sorry for your loss

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 🙏

  • @julinabarus8144
    @julinabarus8144 3 місяці тому

    Love and support from Indonesia, Hellynn ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for the good energy ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @leilanijanaye
    @leilanijanaye 3 місяці тому +2

    Oh Hellynn I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for your next transfer 🙏

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you❤ it's been difficult but now I am hopeful again.

  • @tiffanyl3296
    @tiffanyl3296 3 місяці тому

    I’m so sorry 😢 wishing you the best

  • @aishwaryaparik8583
    @aishwaryaparik8583 2 місяці тому

    everything will work out this time, praying for you.

  • @PoonamSoni20
    @PoonamSoni20 3 місяці тому +1

    I was following your ivf journey because i have kind of same profile . Age factor and travelling to india just for ivf due to cost n family support. Was hoping for you to get positive in first attempt because that will give me hope too for my june transfer, i wish success in your next Transfer.❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi, nice to meet you. I noticed that untested transfers usually take a bit of time, but it's a risk I'm willing to take so here we are. I wish you the best of luck in your journey. 💖

  • @sarahbullock7973
    @sarahbullock7973 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss. My first transfer didn’t work as well. I know how you feel. Praying for your next transfer to be a successful. It’ll happen. I just did my second transfer on March 6th. It worked but still so early and I’m scared I will lose this one too. Sending prayers

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for the hope. It's comforting to hear these stories. I understand the fears... it's neverending! But we should try to relax and be happy for our babies 🙂 congratulations on your pregnancy!

    • @sarahbullock7973
      @sarahbullock7973 2 місяці тому +2

      @@hellynn_j you’re welcome. Very true stress is not a good thing when trying to get pregnant. Thank you.

  • @meganharper6566
    @meganharper6566 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing - praying for you. ❤️‍🩹

  • @olenapokhvalii4211
    @olenapokhvalii4211 3 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤❤very very sorry for your loss.. hugs 🫂

  • @rahshedasmith5812
    @rahshedasmith5812 2 місяці тому

    Sending you love and support!

  • @carolinemartins568
    @carolinemartins568 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing this Hellynn. I am so sorry and I am praying for you. I also got the confirmation today that I had a chemical pregnancy and I know the pain you were going through. It was our only embryo, so I am not sure what the future holds. But I know we need to keep positive thoughts 🙏🏼

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      I am so sorry for your loss Caroline. I am sending you big hugs. Our day will come.. we have to keep the faith. Have you thought about another IVF round?

    • @carolinemartins568
      @carolinemartins568 2 місяці тому

      @@hellynn_j Thank you! I don’t know yet. I recently heard about a clinic called CNY that is way cheaper, I believe around 6k a cycle, so we might try that.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      @@carolinemartins568 let me know how it goes! Rooting for you.

  • @noorrauf5317
    @noorrauf5317 3 місяці тому +2

    I pray to Allah that you be granted with a healthy baby ...many prayers for you darling ...you are so so brave ❤️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you🙏♥️

  • @NasrinTavasolinia
    @NasrinTavasolinia 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing because I’m in same situation wish you luck ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Wishing you so much luck❤❤❤

  • @elaineqin6173
    @elaineqin6173 3 місяці тому +1

    Hang in there, Helen. I can relate even though I have not had IVFs. I’m also in my 40s and still trying…..

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Baby dust to you dear. 💗

  • @daphneecharles3781
    @daphneecharles3781 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for sharing, it's very courageous of you.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank you for listening 🙏

  • @Jennifer-fk8kb
    @Jennifer-fk8kb 3 місяці тому +2

    100% test. At 39, out of 6 blasts sent for testing, 1 was normal.
    Don’t put yourself through this heartache. Also if you know the embryos are normal that’s over half and the battle. If the Chromosomally embryo does not implant, you know to look for other things (uterine related).
    Also you could be wasting embryos transferring 2 at a time.
    For example, if you transfer 2 Chromosomally normally embryos at the same time they have Less of a chance of implanting than if you transferring them both separately.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for the advice. If I made a lot of embryos I would definitely test, but it takes me so long to make them so I didn’t want to discard any potentially good mosaics, since testing doesn’t give you the full picture of the embryo. It was the hardest decision of my life, but I decided to move forward without testing. My hospital said transferring multiples wouldn’t hurt my chances so I am going with their recommendation. I am still open to testing if I end up having to do more ERs in the future, but trying to focus on one thing at a time ❤

  • @iamjerose-oldchannel
    @iamjerose-oldchannel 2 місяці тому +1

    virtual hugs to you!

  • @moncho8856
    @moncho8856 Місяць тому

    I'm sorry for your loss and I'm sure you will persevere ❤ you are so strong and beautiful and btw look like 20yo so pls share your skin routine for those of us who jump in the 40ies in a couple of months

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  27 днів тому

      Thank you for your kind message! I will share my skincare routine soon. 💖

  • @joannwong5612
    @joannwong5612 2 місяці тому

    Sorry to hear that 😢 I recently (2 weeks ago) had a recurrent miscarriage which my baby heartbeat stopped at 7 weeks. Don't lose hope, we will have our baby one day which it is a promise of God for us to be fruitful and multiply ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you love. ❤

  • @yudiks
    @yudiks 3 місяці тому +2

    We were in similar situation, very low AMH; but quality of eggs was still good, it’s just a lot of dosages of gonal-f+menopour, but only retrieve 2-5 max. This is all just a numbers game! Don’t give up, it will work eventually!

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for the encouragement. I hope that it happens soon, but at this point, I am leaving it up to God. Were you successful with IVF? ❤️

  • @mbc4823
    @mbc4823 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey, it’s so hard to see, even if it’s not mine… I was hoping for a positive outcome… I am praying for your next transfer!
    I’ve had two missed miscarriages at 9 weeks, but now doing ivf, everything seems much harder… I’ll have my first transfer in two weeks hopefully. Stay strong🤍

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your kindness❤ and I am so sorry for your losses. I hope your transfer is successful... I heard laughing helps with implantation. Let me know how it goes🍀

    • @mbc4823
      @mbc4823 3 місяці тому

      @@hellynn_j I praying for our babies and I’m so sorry for your loss and for the loss of your Grandma 🌟🤍 thank you so much for your kind words and support. Hopefully we’ll laugh after our transfers 🫶

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      @@mbc4823 I love that 👏

    • @prachi6802
      @prachi6802 3 місяці тому

      Did they tell you the rsn of the misscarriages

    • @mbc4823
      @mbc4823 3 місяці тому

      @@prachi6802 no, but they were almost 5 years apart, one I was 34 and the other I was 39, it was last year in May, they always blame the egg quality, but I’ve read articles about how sperm quality could also be a factor :)

  • @herineevinyan5894
    @herineevinyan5894 3 місяці тому

    Warmest thoughts to you and prayers that it works out. 🙏

  • @kristyldtift
    @kristyldtift 3 місяці тому

    Thinking of you, Hellynn❤

  • @mizzcachon
    @mizzcachon 15 днів тому

    Sending love and prayers to you ❤

  • @user-bd2ny1nc8p
    @user-bd2ny1nc8p 3 місяці тому

    Iam praying for you! ❤🙏🏻

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much! ❤️

  • @ziki5993
    @ziki5993 2 місяці тому

    bless you, please carry on!

  • @aeyjay848
    @aeyjay848 3 місяці тому

    So sorry for your loss! I literally cried watching this. You are so strong. I'm sorry this might not be the right time to ask but with DOR do you still get your periods?
    Prayers for you xx

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you❤ and yes, I do. I still have regular cycles.

  • @louisiania
    @louisiania 3 місяці тому

    Praying for you on your next transfer. 🙏💖. Baby dust.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much. I’ve let go of the outcome, but I am hopeful. ❤️

  • @stefaniaamalfitano8800
    @stefaniaamalfitano8800 3 місяці тому +1

    Dear Hellynn, I am deeply sorry that you lost your babies 😔 You should have acupuncture before the next transfer. At least 2-3 months, and then doing the Transfer. Your body will be prepared at least 3 months. Maybe this is an option. Dont rush, see if you can find an acupuncturist who is specialized doing acupunture before the Embryo Transfer. I pray for you and send you a lot of Love and Energy❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +4

      Thank you for your kind words. I did try acupuncture.. I think it's great, but as I'm traveling i don't have enough time to wait a few months before the 2nd FET. I go into my next transfer pretty soon! But I appreciate you❤

  • @rosetadle9985
    @rosetadle9985 2 місяці тому +1

    be strong❤

  • @Aurora-cb2ji
    @Aurora-cb2ji 2 місяці тому

    I’m praying for you ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much 🙏

  • @SReyes-ux6xc
    @SReyes-ux6xc 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @sonalikatiwari279
    @sonalikatiwari279 3 місяці тому

    Hey dear next transfer will bring good news to yo❤ praying for you....❤❤❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      I truly truly hope so! Thank you so much 🙏 ❤️

  • @sunspicious
    @sunspicious 2 місяці тому

    Hey Hellynn I’m sure you already know that but just in case do some acupuncture in addition to the transfers and might help. At least it doesn’t hurt 😊
    Best wishes to you and sending pregnancy vibes ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank you. Did acupuncture🙂

  • @shaligasuksomsong
    @shaligasuksomsong 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing. I’m going through this process soon and I’m 42 🫣. I am currently testing my embryos and will aim for my first transfer soon. Ill be prepared emotionally when it happens - good luck in the next transfer🤞🏼🤞🏼

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      I wish you the best of luck on your results and transfer. Let me know how it goes💗

    • @shaligasuksomsong
      @shaligasuksomsong 2 місяці тому

      @@hellynn_j - thank you. Will do, I wish you the best 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @fayegaritta4090
    @fayegaritta4090 3 місяці тому

    Im sorry to hear about your loss… hope you get pregnant for your next transfer. I just did my egg retrieval, I was so sick from it. I dont know why I was so bloated and it triggered my endometriosis inflammation. It was so painful. I dont know if I can do another retrieval…. Its a tough journey, I hope you will have a beautiful baby soon.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Aw I'm so sorry you weren't feeling well after ER. My friend also had the same experience and it ended up being OHSS, and was hospitalized. Hope you are feeling better now, wishing you so much baby dust💖

  • @crystalbee9706
    @crystalbee9706 2 місяці тому +2

    You're doing very well. I have had about 7 or 8 transfers (single and double) to date and i did not see even 1 positive pregnancy test. I think you and hubby are probably super healthy ie: no alcohol, no smoking, normal weight range, eat nutrient dense foods, etc. Im looking forward to your next embryo transfer with pregnancy test results. Did you take any medication pre and post embryo transfer?

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for your encouragement 💗 Yes I think we are healthy now. I took estrogen on CD2 and started progesterone around CD13-14 on. What are your next steps? Holding space for you. 🙏

    • @crystalbee9706
      @crystalbee9706 2 місяці тому +2

      @@hellynn_j Ur welcome. I'm all out of frozen embryos after 4 ivf cycles in 1 year... I'm going to get a fallopian tube cannulation done this month, take a 2 month break, lose 10-15 lbs, put myself out there and put together 25k for another ivf cycle.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      @@crystalbee9706 Wishing you the very best... please let me know your progress, I will be cheering you on. 🙂❤

  • @Deyarao
    @Deyarao Місяць тому +1

    I am sending you a big hug! I am 39 preparing for IVF first time, I am trying the egg quality diet of Aimee Raupp

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  Місяць тому

      Oooh i will look that one up! Wishing you luck!!💗💗💗

  • @sumankims6754
    @sumankims6754 2 місяці тому

    A tight warm hug to you ❤

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Thank you❤❤❤

  • @RobynDeLaVie
    @RobynDeLaVie 2 місяці тому

    Hey there! I have been watching your IVF diaries and I have to say I love that you help give out so much helpful information. For someone who doesnt have a spouse or any family that are citizens of Korea, would you by chance know if someone would be able to get the same/similar care there? Thank you! 💘

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Hello! Thank you for the kind words🙂 do you plan on DI? As a foreigner you can get treatment, but they don't have donors in Korea. They for some reason require marriage certificates for Koreans to be eligible for IVF.. not sure why but it seems like an outdated law. I am not sure if that's the case for foreigners though... let me know if you have other questions!
      If you send in an inquiry at bloomkorea.co, the ladies there will do some research on your behalf!

  • @priscilavialles2605
    @priscilavialles2605 3 місяці тому +1

    Lord will bless you with a beautiful baby soon 🌈

  • @ihopepraylove9988
    @ihopepraylove9988 2 місяці тому

    I am doing my IVF transfer here in Korea. This is my second time ☺️

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому

      Good luck, sending all the positive vibes your way. You should join our facebook group, some of us there are in korea getting ivf. see pinned comment!

  • @ka4696
    @ka4696 2 місяці тому

    You are incredible! Your miracle baby is coming. Gone through this and it hurts but a few months later I conceived my little miracle. Praying for your good news too ❤ it will come

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  2 місяці тому +1

      Thank you, needed to hear this today! 🙏❤️

  • @katibajer5295
    @katibajer5295 8 днів тому

    Just curious, why not doing GPT on embryos? You guys saved a lot of money with doing it abroad, maybe it would save you a lot of heartbreak to know that the embryo is euploid. I am going through IVF as well and we're testing the embryos because I am 42, so chances of genetic problems are higher.

  • @MyAssefa
    @MyAssefa 3 місяці тому

    You keep fighting for your baby and may God blasse you with a healthy one 🫶

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      I definitely will, and thank you so much for the encouragement. ❤️

  • @2toosexE
    @2toosexE 3 місяці тому

    This made me so hurt for u. Im 40 going on 41 and had an ectopic pregnancy my first pregnancy and first attempt at trying. Its been a year and im considering IVF. I'm gonna keep u in my prayers that it happens soon.

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому

      Sending you lots of love. I pray you make the right decision for you.❤

  • @kellyli4528
    @kellyli4528 3 місяці тому

    Hi,👋 I think we finally found each other! I am 40 yrs old as as well and I have lower AMH round 1…. I have done 3 rounds ivf and the last one I just one day 5 embryo. I had chemical pregnancy After day 11 I found positive from the test…..😢 I came from Hong Kong and I am going to have round 4 ivf again. Actually, I have been through a lot these 3 years from iui to ivf …… I did a lot to keep my body healthy like you did Actually I am so depressed when the doctor said overage lady like me mostly have dna problem in their embryo…..

    • @hellynn_j
      @hellynn_j  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi there, so sorry that you had to go through all the difficulties.. it is so hard to lose a pregnancy. Why did the doc say you have a DNA problem? Bc of age?

    • @kellyli4528
      @kellyli4528 3 місяці тому

      @@hellynn_jyes…..