Once I see he is pulling away, I don’t ask questions or anything. I press the block button. I love my peace and quiet, don’t come interrupting me with nonsense
This happened with me, he pulled back so I pulled back. I blocked him and he privatized his number and called me multiple times all day, I answered once or twice thinking there was an apology. There was nothing but creepy silence so I stopped answering those calls. He finally got it after almost a month and stopped calling. I left with my self respect and power. Feels great❤
Fortunately I am happy by myself so I don't need to play games, life is too short so this message just confirms what I have been learning, how to depend on myself-esteem. Great message.❤❤❤❤
Hey… in 10 yrs I had a relationship & NOT ONCE undid I ever get an apology! We had the exact ending as you had… he announced to my gf that it was all over between us but I was the last one to know. I told him we need to stop visiting one another. He still shows up. The day before my gf n him disappeared. I literally hit his hand with my coffee cup & screamed at him to fuk off!!! He went directly to her that I was jealous but he denied where he was w/ no explanation. She denied where she was n why she didn’t answer my calls. Both lied. 2 months now- changed my number & gaining strength to be ready when he shows up! He will one day. I don’t want him! I stopped talking to my gf of 60 yrs. We knew each other since 7 yrs old. Even though I’m in shock of double betrayals - I’m finding a peace and self-love & this means I want no part of them EVER AGAIN. God was who brought her back to my life as it had been 44 yrs I hadn’t seen her & I realized she has ALL characteristics of a Narcissist and he has a few. They deserve each other! I am Free!
That’s an amazing display of strength and self-respect! You recognized your worth and set clear boundaries. It’s so empowering to take back control like that. Keep shining! ✨
I have stopped reaching out to someone that wasn't showing much interest in me then he came back mad AF telling me I hurt him.Yes my silence became my strength 💪 😊
Your silence really does speak volumes! It's empowering to stop chasing and focus on your own worth. You didn't hurt him; you just started respecting yourself more. Keep that strength! 💪😊
The narcissist I was involved with five years ago thought I was going to always chase him like I used to when I was with him. After I exposed him for hitting me once in my face back then, blocked him, and went no contact, guess who’s been chasing me five years???? I’ll never go back! Everyone says he let a good woman get away. Since I discarded him, he’s been dealing with street women, drinking, drugs, financial loss, and all kinds of bad things have happened in his life. Karma in action.
Breaking free from a toxic relationship, especially after 20 years, is no small feat. Your resilience is inspiring, and I’m so happy for you that you've found freedom and peace.
I'm so proud of you for choosing peace over chaos! Silence can be incredibly powerful, and it's amazing that you've found your calm. Stay strong and continue to nurture that peace-it's yours to keep! 💖🌟
My ex moved on by getting with someone else and getting them pregnant, I moved on ( even tho it was hard at first) by getting closer to God. As much as it hurt seeing him create another family , that shows the difference in mental strength we both have. I can be alone, I stand on my boundaries to not go back even when I wanted to, God showed me the reason not to go back and that chapter is closed, I’m waiting for a real man.
Your strength is truly inspiring! You've turned your pain into growth, and that's the kind of resilience that shows your true power. By choosing to lean on God and stand firm in your boundaries, you've created space for something much better. Keep trusting the process, and the right person will come when the time is right. You deserve the best! 💖🙏
You have to let a man be a man. He has to chase you. He is a hunter. I love to send sweet morning text, however, as a queen I want to feel special as well . I go completely silent, no morning text or anything. Then he comes to me, calls within a few hours. I love it! We both are showing interest. Pray he is my husband one day 🙏🏾 we live many states apart.
You have to be alone for space to think unbiased, when you feel better being away from that person, it's a real red flag. Soo helpful to know by your words back up my thoughts being correct.🎉🎉🎉🎉
Me too! I am waiting patiently. He lives several states away from me. We have never been together physically but I have fallen in love with him. I just don't chase him because I am not sure if he feels the same way
@@terrelberry2592 how can you be in love with him if you’ve never been physical?? Have you met in person ?? You could be being cat phished or something??? I hope you’re dealing with a real person if you haven’t met him yet ?? What’s keeping you from being together or meeting ?? People who want to be in each other’s lives they make the time effort priority and put in the work to make that happen !!
My husband took our separation as the time to roll out forever. I wanted to work on us, he didn’t. He doesn’t self reflect so he will never miss me no matter what. I’m making peace with that, and am learning to move on.
Ladies. Don't get it twisted. All of this is great advice if we are talking about a man who actually is worth the trouble. Men who have messes they need to work through? Not an option for you. Men who bring baggage from their last relationships and expect you to wash that laundry? Not an option for you. Men who go back-and-forth and oscillate between knowing what they want and not, or don't have any real goals or direction in their life? Not an option for you.
Truth be Told. Thank You Jack ! Not Easy but it Can be done. I’m 2 month now in a New Lease in Life … & I promise myself to never go through this AGAIN! It’s ME, MYSELF & I.
You are correct. I am using my silence to get over this connection we started. It's not easy, I think of him day and night and what MIGHT be. Why am I so excited when he calls or texts? Ahhhhhhhhh! Time to reclaim my own narrative
You're absolutely right! Knowing your worth and setting boundaries is key. If someone isn't ready to put in the effort or doesn't have clarity in their own life, it’s not your job to fix them. You deserve someone who brings value to your life, not chaos. Stay strong, protect your peace, and don’t settle for less than you deserve! 💪💖
He is exactly 💯% right in this. Once you leave, don't ever go back, even when you leave, and your mate starts coming around, simply say, Your an ex for a reason, accept it.
I’m stop reaching out right now, I been with a narcissist for 20 yrs and New Year’s Eve I broke it off, the energy that I been putting into him I never got the same energy back, I had to step back and see am important too, now I got to stop letting him rent free space in my head, Denzel u really helping me to move forward in my life, and I really want to thank u 🙏🏽, God bless u 🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤
This messages have a Powerful meaning..Everyone needs to listen and take note..You are more than a Conquer and you are more Precious than you ever know..
Denzel you should be a Relationship Psychologist! Do you have your Degree in Psychology? I have listened to a lot of relationship experts on You Tube! I have never heard anyone teaching relationship dynamics like you! If you haven't written any books you should! After listening to Part 1 The Power in a women when not texting a man I listened to this video! This video is So empowering! This is an on time video with a message sent from God! You have given me insight and directives on future decisions I should make!
Hello Denzel. This made me realize how small the world can be. Thank you for this. I am implementing this today. I have a man in my life but he is not meeting me half way. Wd We have already talked about it. He said he was gonna try harder but his career is taking priorty and continues to do so. So I am stepping back. And we shall see. Thanks Connie
Wow, this is powerful! The way this resonates is unreal. Sometimes, the right message at the right time can create instant shifts. Definitely something to reflect on! 🔥📱
Thanks so much, I wish I got this information many years ago...I'm struggling putting my life back after a terrible heartbreak with the man I thought was my soul mate after 3 decades 😢
I am very grateful for this knowledge of truths...I didn't have a father and had been very ill for many years in my later years. This had set me up for some toxic relationship choices and my poor decisions in recent past. For those reasons I am grateful for these significant words. I have embrace my worth ❤
Well… this just hit all the right places for me. Hello wake up call. Bye bye to anyone.. family, friends, employers, men… anyone that takes me for granted. I wouldn’t do that to anyone else, so wtf I look like letting anyone do that to me? If you don’t appreciate my time and attention? Then I can’t appreciate you. Cuz I’ve got shyt to do and a life to live. Coming at me with anything less is a waste of my time. Period. ✌🏻🏃♀️➡️🧘♀️
THANK YOU Denzel 💕 💗 😊 ❤. You are my Ultimate Coach besides the Lord! I love and appreciate your posts and clips. THANK YOU ❤️. I needed this today!!! It's not what I don't know already but I listened to it intently, coming from a Gentleman. Thank you 💕
He replaced me after 5 years, within a month or so. We live next door to each other. He brought me here. I can’t afford to move, yet I am only one suffering… I don’t reach out, and though I try with all my might to avoid him, if we do bump in to each other, he only waves or mumbles but never looks me in the eye again. But I cry every day
❤ I pray your inner healing and that you'll just focus on you becoming the best version of yourself. It hurts, but GOD will give you the strength to be victorious. Believe in your inner self.
I know how it feels break up with someone you've been with for so long. But one thing you gotta learn, is that any man can be with you, but sometimes not any man deserves to be with you. Sometimes, the man you think you're going to be happy with, can be nothing but a pile of unopened nightmares. You're crying for the fact that you're watching your years erased for nothing, but often times, you had red flags, but ignored what to do about them, let alone taking them seriously. Sometimes, those are men who didn't even know why they were in a relationship for to begin with, beside for sex. Those are men that operate only by instinct when it comes to relationships. So you got in his shitty traps, say thank God you were able to get out that early. I have one that wasted 8 years of my life for no reason. Those are sick sexual and selfish men who cannot get a normal good woman to stay with them for life. When they finally find one who loves them for who they are unconditionally, they feel tolarated and take you for granted, as though you were supposed to be their momma. You bet! They can forget about your 5 years in a day. As long as you know you played your parts well to keep the relationship going, you were not the one who did anything wrong, yes, you're going to be sad for a few days, but let the jerk go, and focus on taking the time to take care of yourself, watch some comedy series, like "The Golden Girls", Steinfeld", and your favorite shows, if you cannot afford to travel, watch documentaries to see other places, then do what you like the most, and time will help you heal. So, living next door to the mfkr should be the best thing that is happening to you.. When you enter your parking lot, ignore him as if you never knew him. Not everyone meant to continue with you in the path of life.. sometimes it's for your own good, because most of those could not help you grow in life anyways. They don't even have a purpose for dating. Those are boys in a man's suit. Let the jerks out. Give me a break. The person who meant to be for you will love you accept you just for who you are. That's why, the minutes you realize that you're the one making most of the efforts to keep the relationship going, just sit your bu** down and stop, untill they can do otherwise, if not hit the breaks completely. They are born stupid. So, if they find women that tolerate all they bullshits they'll stay around you for loving them, but you'll be the one again, to pay the consequences, because once you love them too much, they see you as nothing, take you for granted . Get frea***g up, get yourself together, forget if you ever loved them, then allow the universe to heal you and send you the right man. Sit back and relax watching the idiots rejoicing their life thinking they get away with abusing women. They won't. They pay the consequences sooner or later.
I can never express fully how helpful and encouraging your brotherly advice has been, and even more so that you are my brother in Christ Jesus. You are amointed both you and your wife. You've both been a constant example of humanity, faith, and strength. You are more like a brother than my own God-given brothers born of my late mom. Who was a true woman of God too. I appreciate all of my brethren all over the world who care about the safety of souls. Thank bless you forever in the mighty name of Jesus. Definitely taking all your godly advice.
Mr. Washington I want to have a dynamic relationship with my Boo. It’s not working. I will become Silent with the realization that I may lose him. I can live with that. Pray for me 💫💕💫
📍remember that setting a boundary can be for anything that doesn’t feel good to you. Maybe you ask someone to talk more quietly or not sit so close to you on the couch. These are ways you take care of your experience and your safety. If a boundary you set is rejected, disregarded, or even mocked, remind yourself that it’s because that person was never taught that boundary-setting was okay for them, and their nervous system is responding with the fight-or-flight response. Remain firm or remove yourself from the situation. Health always 1st❤
True love in Christ is both have that love of self and jesus are priority and we are one with and in God first. and all else will be added the Bible says. There is a natural flow of giving and receiving back and forth through Christ living in us and flowing back and forth in Holy Spirit… we are not perfect only HE is perfect for us … when we have that bond and connection and foundation the healthy psychological give and take follows. Thank you for this video.
Works if they are not Narccastic Sometimes a . Narccastic male will look upon this as time to play elsewhere Normal men if they are deccent Will think twice Dysfunctional men will do tht cat & mouse I learnt to move on million singles out there im one of them at 67yr Our presence is always a privlage to each other ❤
Try two times a month and text every 20 min haven’t seen him since June. Because I do t have a job he thinks I have to give it up and he don’t have to do nothing for me so he went back to his rich x instead of having fun connection is more than money his loss because I told him when I leave where I am and have my business he will regret it like everyone else that feels they don’t have to do anything for me because I’m not up there
Just passing through to say this...If you clicked on because off the title then you're still waiting. People whom have learned the lesson doesn't worry about the whens or even IF a person will reach out🎤💥...Just making that clear. Alright. Love, peace, soul
@dituri3127 Yes ncessarily. You don't get it. The title says what it says for a reason, and people whom have learned the lesson just don't worry about that. It's simple.
I just told him I feel unwanted and I won't bother him anymore, all he said was that I overthinking. I don't think he's bothered, he has his own wife at home anyway!
I just told him I feel unwanted and I won't bother him anymore, all he said was that I overthinking. I don't think he's bothered, he has his own wife at home anyway!
AMEN, I believe by Faith and declare the this divine Love between my Beloved Special Someone is going to be Union together after I Listen to your messages, Sir. Denzel Washington, I believe in Jesus 'name. "SUPER THANKS"
My God I have learned how to deal with my quiet time taking time to write motivation for myself in Herstory giving me strength to live it in it telling my truth about feelings and emotions that has me choking on myself instead of my words using my words to get over the hurt of this present time I'M taking time to control myself
Mine ex would “butt” dial me. The only thing I can think of is he wanted me to call him. Didn’t work. I am so glad he is gone! There was on time after he took our kids on vacation as he was dropping the off he told me he missed me. I said to him “Why? Because I wasn’t there to pack up and take of the kids”. There was no response from him.
He does but it’s just to come back and remind me he’s there to chase him then I don’t he leaves me on read and leaves again I told him I do t like u. I warned him from day one I’m not one to be used he wants a bachelor lifestyle but lying to me saying he wants a commitment when he’s a passport bro that’s why I pulled away he only got a taste I won’t be used and tossed fir the next toy
See the real problem is you're talking about real men Which there's just too many boys. And they will just drop you to play with the next toy just even in the beginning texting or talking to some one else that gets their attention.They're gone You are right about pulling holding your boundaries. But what you really should do is just treat them like the strangers they are until they prove to you.They're not And if they do go, they were never meant to be in your life Anyways they were just someone you're saying hi to that was passing through 😊
I could only take sound advice from a relationship and marriage veteran like Denzel. Unlike others, he hasn't been married multiple times, I get good ethical and humble vibes from him and his wife and there's no chance of calling this a gold digger union. He's probably the only man in Hollywood I'd respect and believe relationship advice from. All of the others I still see as WIP.
Thank you DW as you speak like my X not here anyways all red flags all ready thank you Jesus for your decrement I’m like thank you Holy sprite DW you are Off the chain I’m loving these videos I thank God for you wooDWim still learning
His absence didn't make my heart grow fonder it made a great difference in me to run and stay away
That part
You won in all instances!!
Once I see he is pulling away, I don’t ask questions or anything. I press the block button. I love my peace and quiet, don’t come interrupting me with nonsense
I know I want u I might not it’s a game to have options
SIMPLE TRUTH 💯
Well done 👍 ❤🙏🩸🔥☝️🙌🏻👏🏿😍🫂
Protecting your peace is key, and not allowing unnecessary drama is an act of self-care. You’ve got this! 💪😊
So true whoever leaves let them go this is not the year for foolishness especially going into 2025
Amen
Take me with you, sis
Exactly 💯 ❤
Yes
Amen
This happened with me, he pulled back so I pulled back. I blocked him and he privatized his number and called me multiple times all day, I answered once or twice thinking there was an apology. There was nothing but creepy silence so I stopped answering those calls. He finally got it after almost a month and stopped calling. I left with my self respect and power. Feels great❤
It’s messed up they pull away to make u chase when u don’t they lose u like why risk it all
Fortunately I am happy by myself so I don't need to play games, life is too short so this message just confirms what I have been learning, how to depend on myself-esteem. Great message.❤❤❤❤
Hey… in 10 yrs I had a relationship & NOT ONCE undid I ever get an apology! We had the exact ending as you had… he announced to my gf that it was all over between us but I was the last one to know. I told him we need to stop visiting one another. He still shows up. The day before my gf n him disappeared. I literally hit his hand with my coffee cup & screamed at him to fuk off!!! He went directly to her that I was jealous but he denied where he was w/ no explanation. She denied where she was n why she didn’t answer my calls. Both lied. 2 months now- changed my number & gaining strength to be ready when he shows up! He will one day. I don’t want him! I stopped talking to my gf of 60 yrs. We knew each other since 7 yrs old. Even though I’m in shock of double betrayals - I’m finding a peace and self-love & this means I want no part of them EVER AGAIN. God was who brought her back to my life as it had been 44 yrs I hadn’t seen her & I realized she has ALL characteristics of a Narcissist and he has a few. They deserve each other! I am Free!
That’s an amazing display of strength and self-respect! You recognized your worth and set clear boundaries. It’s so empowering to take back control like that. Keep shining! ✨
Mr. Washington, this is so true! Women, we must be respected! If a man doesn't realize your worth, he will not respect your needs. Trust and believe!
I have stopped reaching out to someone that wasn't showing much interest in me then he came back mad AF telling me I hurt him.Yes my silence became my strength 💪 😊
Your silence really does speak volumes! It's empowering to stop chasing and focus on your own worth. You didn't hurt him; you just started respecting yourself more. Keep that strength! 💪😊
The narcissist I was involved with five years ago thought I was going to always chase him like I used to when I was with him. After I exposed him for hitting me once in my face back then, blocked him, and went no contact, guess who’s been chasing me five years???? I’ll never go back! Everyone says he let a good woman get away. Since I discarded him, he’s been dealing with street women, drinking, drugs, financial loss, and all kinds of bad things have happened in his life. Karma in action.
Ignoring the narcissist is the only way to "disarm" them.
Sounds like my story, never turning back!
@@joansandeen9443 Yes! He can’t stand it when he sees me talk to people both of us know.. especially men… and I don’t talk to him.
I receive your message this exactly what I been through it's like your message was speaking to me
@@jaytasiamgotchgotch4796 I’m glad it blessed your heart! Happy Thanksgiving to you! You have to give it to God. He will bring you through.
I was delivered from a narcissist I was married to for 20 years!!! HalleluYah!!!!! Thank you God ❤
Thank urself, u did that work . Give urself that credit
Congratulations ❤
I was with narcissist 17 years....l'm single now ,l'm happy 😊
Help me. The narc won't leave....
Breaking free from a toxic relationship, especially after 20 years, is no small feat. Your resilience is inspiring, and I’m so happy for you that you've found freedom and peace.
so glad I went silent and found peace
Oh boy! I really needed to hear this…I talk too much!!! Denzil is right!
I'm so proud of you for choosing peace over chaos! Silence can be incredibly powerful, and it's amazing that you've found your calm. Stay strong and continue to nurture that peace-it's yours to keep! 💖🌟
My ex moved on by getting with someone else and getting them pregnant, I moved on ( even tho it was hard at first) by getting closer to God. As much as it hurt seeing him create another family , that shows the difference in mental strength we both have. I can be alone, I stand on my boundaries to not go back even when I wanted to, God showed me the reason not to go back and that chapter is closed, I’m waiting for a real man.
There ya go!
@@Torriayvonne same here
I love this.. never Settle🫶🏽🙏🏽
I applaud your strength. ❤Keep walking with God. Your Boaz is on the way!!
Your strength is truly inspiring! You've turned your pain into growth, and that's the kind of resilience that shows your true power. By choosing to lean on God and stand firm in your boundaries, you've created space for something much better. Keep trusting the process, and the right person will come when the time is right. You deserve the best! 💖🙏
I learned that once I stopped 🛑 accepting NOTHING as a priority into my life. EVERYTHING became an option. 😉🙌🏾👏🏾💪🏾👊🏾💯
This message was meant for me to see. It’s a NEW SEASON and NEW MONTH!!! I needed to hear this. 🙏🏽🙌🏽🗣️‼️💯❤️
You have to let a man be a man. He has to chase you. He is a hunter. I love to send sweet morning text, however, as a queen I want to feel special as well . I go completely silent, no morning text or anything. Then he comes to me, calls within a few hours. I love it! We both are showing interest. Pray he is my husband one day 🙏🏾 we live many states apart.
Watch what you pray for you just might get it. Pray for thy will not my will be done.
You have to be alone for space to think unbiased, when you feel better being away from that person, it's a real red flag. Soo helpful to know by your words back up my thoughts being correct.🎉🎉🎉🎉
Me too! I am waiting patiently. He lives several states away from me. We have never been together physically but I have fallen in love with him. I just don't chase him because I am not sure if he feels the same way
@@terrelberry2592 how can you be in love with him if you’ve never been physical?? Have you met in person ?? You could be being cat phished or something??? I hope you’re dealing with a real person if you haven’t met him yet ?? What’s keeping you from being together or meeting ?? People who want to be in each other’s lives they make the time effort priority and put in the work to make that happen !!
If one doesn't move closer to the other within 3 to six months, move on because trust, you are not the only one. Don't be an idiot.
My husband took our separation as the time to roll out forever. I wanted to work on us, he didn’t. He doesn’t self reflect so he will never miss me no matter what. I’m making peace with that, and am learning to move on.
So Brave....❤
Ladies. Don't get it twisted. All of this is great advice if we are talking about a man who actually is worth the trouble. Men who have messes they need to work through? Not an option for you. Men who bring baggage from their last relationships and expect you to wash that laundry? Not an option for you. Men who go back-and-forth and oscillate between knowing what they want and not, or don't have any real goals or direction in their life? Not an option for you.
Truth be Told. Thank You Jack ! Not Easy but it Can be done. I’m 2 month now in a New Lease in Life … & I promise myself to never go through this AGAIN! It’s ME, MYSELF & I.
You are correct. I am using my silence to get over this connection we started. It's not easy, I think of him day and night and what MIGHT be. Why am I so excited when he calls or texts? Ahhhhhhhhh! Time to reclaim my own narrative
@@terrelberry2592Thank you for letting me know I'm not alone in this struggle.
You're absolutely right! Knowing your worth and setting boundaries is key. If someone isn't ready to put in the effort or doesn't have clarity in their own life, it’s not your job to fix them. You deserve someone who brings value to your life, not chaos. Stay strong, protect your peace, and don’t settle for less than you deserve! 💪💖
LORD!! Continue to bless this man of God. I’m so honored to be a part of this amazing channel. Thanks for sharing 🎉
He is exactly 💯% right in this. Once you leave, don't ever go back, even when you leave, and your mate starts coming around, simply say, Your an ex for a reason, accept it.
I’m not trying to create distance so he can become fonder. I’m creating distance so my mind can stay at peace. I am done.😂
LOVE THE WAY YOU CAN TAKE THE GROWTH OF SELF TO REALITY REALIZED 💯🤔
I’m stop reaching out right now, I been with a narcissist for 20 yrs and New Year’s Eve I broke it off, the energy that I been putting into him I never got the same energy back, I had to step back and see am important too, now I got to stop letting him rent free space in my head, Denzel u really helping me to move forward in my life, and I really want to thank u 🙏🏽, God bless u 🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤
This messages have a Powerful meaning..Everyone needs to listen and take note..You are more than a Conquer and you are more Precious than you ever know..
Amen self love and worthy 🙏🏿
"This Is My Issue Calling Him" I'm Gonna Allow God To Touch Him!
Denzel you should be a Relationship Psychologist! Do you have your Degree in Psychology? I have listened to a lot of relationship experts on You Tube! I have never heard anyone teaching relationship dynamics like you! If you haven't written any books you should! After listening to Part 1 The Power in a women when not texting a man I listened to this video! This video is So empowering! This is an on time video with a message sent from God! You have given me insight and directives on future decisions I should make!
Hello Denzel. This made me realize how small the world can be. Thank you for this. I am implementing this today. I have a man in my life but he is not meeting me half way. Wd
We have already talked about it. He said he
was gonna try harder but his career is taking priorty and continues to do so. So I am stepping back. And we shall see.
Thanks
Connie
This not danzell😂😂😂😂😂 ai
Good GOD Denzel brought this truth into perspective for me for a lifetime. Thank u Mr. Washington
Pulling back helps me to reclaim my power back and to remind him who TF i am!! 😂im a Scorpio so my silent treatment is LOUD!!!
Does one’s absence in my life create a peace that your presence never did? Wow a very thought provoking question.
There is something wrong when women have to do so much effort for men. It should be natural and easy. It's time to change the mindset.
Its un natural - the rabbit does not run after the hunter
Wow, this is powerful! The way this resonates is unreal. Sometimes, the right message at the right time can create instant shifts. Definitely something to reflect on! 🔥📱
Yes I love God. Amen 🙏🙏❤❤❤❤
THIS IS SOOOOOOOOO TRUE 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for this ! If I'm not valued I'm out
Blessed day absolutely prayers for all amen
Thanks so much, I wish I got this information many years ago...I'm struggling putting my life back after a terrible heartbreak with the man I thought was my soul mate after 3 decades 😢
I can relate but let us stay focused, positive & remember we are worthy!
Everything to the T🎯🎯
AMEN... SELF WORTH😊🙏❣️✌️
I am very grateful for this knowledge of truths...I didn't have a father and had been very ill for many years in my later years. This had set me up for some toxic relationship choices and my poor decisions in recent past. For those reasons I am grateful for these significant words. I have embrace my worth ❤
The Love you attract will always mirror the Love you have for yourself! 🤗💕
Well… this just hit all the right places for me. Hello wake up call. Bye bye to anyone.. family, friends, employers, men… anyone that takes me for granted. I wouldn’t do that to anyone else, so wtf I look like letting anyone do that to me? If you don’t appreciate my time and attention? Then I can’t appreciate you. Cuz I’ve got shyt to do and a life to live. Coming at me with anything less is a waste of my time. Period. ✌🏻🏃♀️➡️🧘♀️
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THANK YOU Denzel 💕 💗 😊 ❤. You are my Ultimate Coach besides the Lord! I love and appreciate your posts and clips. THANK YOU ❤️.
I needed this today!!! It's not what I don't know already but I listened to it intently, coming from a Gentleman. Thank you 💕
FACTS 💯❤❤❤❤❤🏆🎯👍 appreciate this Denzel Washington. May God continue to bless you always... my favorite Actor produstor writer. Awesome.
This was Amazing to listen to!!!!!!!❤ Thank you ❤
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, distance makes the heart wander.
This video is so true! I’ve done this and everything he is saying is true!
This veodo is true. I've done this and everything he saying is true. Thank you. Amen ❤🙏
Amen 🙏 🙏 I needed to hear this. Self-love and self worth
So right on. Thank you so much! For this
Thank you so much, Mr. Washington, i am very blessed i was introduced to the site. I thank my heavenly father for your words 🙏 Amen
When you find peace within yourself a narcissist has no chance of disturbing your peace and boundaries
This message is wonderful.thank you so much 🙏
He replaced me after 5 years, within a month or so. We live next door to each other. He brought me here. I can’t afford to move, yet I am only one suffering… I don’t reach out, and though I try with all my might to avoid him, if we do bump in to each other, he only waves or mumbles but never looks me in the eye again. But I cry every day
❤ I pray your inner healing and that you'll just focus on you becoming the best version of yourself. It hurts, but GOD will give you the strength to be victorious. Believe in your inner self.
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You need a real man he can't even see in the mirror.
I know how it feels break up with someone you've been with for so long. But one thing you gotta learn, is that any man can be with you, but sometimes not any man deserves to be with you. Sometimes, the man you think you're going to be happy with, can be nothing but a pile of unopened nightmares. You're crying for the fact that you're watching your years erased for nothing, but often times, you had red flags, but ignored what to do about them, let alone taking them seriously. Sometimes, those are men who didn't even know why they were in a relationship for to begin with, beside for sex. Those are men that operate only by instinct when it comes to relationships. So you got in his shitty traps, say thank God you were able to get out that early. I have one that wasted 8 years of my life for no reason. Those are sick sexual and selfish men who cannot get a normal good woman to stay with them for life. When they finally find one who loves them for who they are unconditionally, they feel tolarated and take you for granted, as though you were supposed to be their momma. You bet! They can forget about your 5 years in a day. As long as you know you played your parts well to keep the relationship going, you were not the one who did anything wrong, yes, you're going to be sad for a few days, but let the jerk go, and focus on taking the time to take care of yourself, watch some comedy series, like "The Golden Girls", Steinfeld", and your favorite shows, if you cannot afford to travel, watch documentaries to see other places, then do what you like the most, and time will help you heal. So, living next door to the mfkr should be the best thing that is happening to you.. When you enter your parking lot, ignore him as if you never knew him. Not everyone meant to continue with you in the path of life.. sometimes it's for your own good, because most of those could not help you grow in life anyways. They don't even have a purpose for dating. Those are boys in a man's suit. Let the jerks out. Give me a break. The person who meant to be for you will love you accept you just for who you are. That's why, the minutes you realize that you're the one making most of the efforts to keep the relationship going, just sit your bu** down and stop, untill they can do otherwise, if not hit the breaks completely.
They are born stupid. So, if they find women that tolerate all they bullshits they'll stay around you for loving them, but you'll be the one again, to pay the consequences, because once you love them too much, they see you as nothing, take you for granted . Get frea***g up, get yourself together, forget if you ever loved them, then allow the universe to heal you and send you the right man. Sit back and relax watching the idiots rejoicing their life thinking they get away with abusing women. They won't. They pay the consequences sooner or later.
Bless U
It's always healthy if we don't see them ❤
I can never express fully how helpful and encouraging your brotherly advice has been, and even more so that you are my brother in Christ Jesus. You are amointed both you and your wife. You've both been a constant example of humanity, faith, and strength. You are more like a brother than my own God-given brothers born of my late mom. Who was a true woman of God too. I appreciate all of my brethren all over the world who care about the safety of souls. Thank bless you forever in the mighty name of Jesus. Definitely taking all your godly advice.
Holy Holy Holy .
I needed to hear this, Love my Peace ❤ Thank you Sir
Amen Hallelujah Hallelujah Hallelujah Amen
Thanks for sharing this important information with me ❤
CHEATERS DON'T CARE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME BELIEVING THIS WORKS..
Mr. Washington I want to have a dynamic relationship with my Boo. It’s not working. I will become Silent with the realization that I may lose him. I can live with that. Pray for me 💫💕💫
I CONECT BILLY ALT TO THIS PROPHESY AND DECREE DECLARE PERCEIVE PROCLAIM IT FOR MYSELF TO HIM IJN AMEN!
Amen thank you 🙏💜
Thanks you God
📍remember that setting a boundary can be for anything that doesn’t feel good to you.
Maybe you ask someone to talk more quietly or not sit so close to you on the couch. These are ways you take care of your experience and your safety.
If a boundary you set is rejected, disregarded, or even mocked, remind yourself that it’s because that person was never taught that boundary-setting was okay for them, and their nervous system is responding with the fight-or-flight response. Remain firm or remove yourself from the situation. Health always 1st❤
True love in Christ is both have that love of self and jesus are priority and we are one with and in God first. and all else will be added the Bible says. There is a natural flow of giving and receiving back and forth through Christ living in us and flowing back and forth in Holy Spirit… we are not perfect only HE is perfect for us … when we have that bond and connection and foundation the healthy psychological give and take follows.
Thank you for this video.
True
GOD shall continue to Bless you ❤
Works if they are not Narccastic
Sometimes a . Narccastic male will look upon this as time to play elsewhere
Normal men if they are deccent
Will think twice
Dysfunctional men will do tht cat & mouse
I learnt to move on million singles out there im one of them at 67yr
Our presence is always a privlage to each other ❤
Yup he went to his x when I pulled back because I wanted to bond not give it up
He know I’m mad at him and he chose not talking to me for almost 2 weeks.
Don’t think the silence and create space work for us.
Try two times a month and text every 20 min haven’t seen him since June. Because I do t have a job he thinks I have to give it up and he don’t have to do nothing for me so he went back to his rich x instead of having fun connection is more than money his loss because I told him when I leave where I am and have my business he will regret it like everyone else that feels they don’t have to do anything for me because I’m not up there
You so right thank you so much for the video amen amen
I thank God for your channel ❤
Speak 🗣️
Hallelujah hallelujah amen lord
Just passing through to say this...If you clicked on because off the title then you're still waiting. People whom have learned the lesson doesn't worry about the whens or even IF a person will reach out🎤💥...Just making that clear. Alright. Love, peace, soul
Not necessarily!! Educate yourself .. learn for the next person & move on !!
@dituri3127 Yes ncessarily. You don't get it. The title says what it says for a reason, and people whom have learned the lesson just don't worry about that. It's simple.
@dituri3127 Also I ALWAYS educate myself.
You are correct. I am learning too
I just told him I feel unwanted and I won't bother him anymore, all he said was that I overthinking. I don't think he's bothered, he has his own wife at home anyway!
I just told him I feel unwanted and I won't bother him anymore, all he said was that I overthinking. I don't think he's bothered, he has his own wife at home anyway!
@@TheRealCelebrityDoctor Leave those married Men Alone !!! God will not send you another woman's husband.
Are y'all in the same state?
@terrelberry2592 no, we live in England, UK
@@jools726 My crush is married too
Thank you for this great video. ❤ I'm thankful for your channel 🙏🏾
AMEN, I believe by Faith and declare the this divine Love between my Beloved Special Someone is going to be Union together after I Listen to your messages, Sir. Denzel Washington, I believe in Jesus 'name. "SUPER THANKS"
Sis.Towanda always been strong
My God I have learned how to deal with my quiet time taking time to write motivation for myself in Herstory giving me strength to live it in it telling my truth about feelings and emotions that has me choking on myself instead of my words using my words to get over the hurt of this present time I'M taking time to control myself
Ok, ok, ok. Because….yea
LOVE THIS.
Wat eye opener.
Not interested in calls just the reality check he lost
💯💪🙌 YES & AMEN❤🎉❤
This is so powerful and helpful for me. Thank you so much❤
I'm so glad this resonated with you. Keep embracing the power of these insights
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Mine ex would “butt” dial me. The only thing I can think of is he wanted me to call him. Didn’t work. I am so glad he is gone! There was on time after he took our kids on vacation as he was dropping the off he told me he missed me. I said to him “Why? Because I wasn’t there to pack up and take of the kids”. There was no response from him.
afther novembers and i surely peinful in my said
Oncourseee oncourseee Familyyyyyy
Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏
He does but it’s just to come back and remind me he’s there to chase him then I don’t he leaves me on read and leaves again I told him I do t like u. I warned him from day one I’m not one to be used he wants a bachelor lifestyle but lying to me saying he wants a commitment when he’s a passport bro that’s why I pulled away he only got a taste I won’t be used and tossed fir the next toy
Amen 🙏
Amen
Is this TRUE, I never thought men cared about relationships
They always have so,done else lined up
True❤
See the real problem is you're talking about real men Which there's just too many boys.
And they will just drop you to play with the next toy just even in the beginning texting or talking to some one else that gets their attention.They're gone You are right about pulling holding your boundaries. But what you really should do is just treat them like the strangers they are until they prove to you.They're not And if they do go, they were never meant to be in your life Anyways they were just someone you're saying hi to that was passing through 😊
Is this A.I ? When he talk about this?
I could only take sound advice from a relationship and marriage veteran like Denzel. Unlike others, he hasn't been married multiple times, I get good ethical and humble vibes from him and his wife and there's no chance of calling this a gold digger union. He's probably the only man in Hollywood I'd respect and believe relationship advice from. All of the others I still see as WIP.
When exactly did Denzel give this speech??
It’s AI lol
@@YanoireeMerakiNelsno way
@ the info is great!
Thank you DW as you speak like my X not here anyways all red flags all ready thank you Jesus for your decrement I’m like thank you Holy sprite DW you are Off the chain I’m loving these videos I thank God for you wooDWim still learning
Correct
I BLOCKED HIM 1 YEAR AGO,
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