The silent treatment happened to me 2 years ago. Still silence and I have no urge to ever speak to him again. I moved on. I didn’t wait for him or chase. I know my worth and I learned lessons. I’m happy focusing on myself.
Signor user Seven se posso dare la mia opinione e io dico che tutto nella vita serve per imparare e che queste cose che lei sta portando come una ferita ti serva come una in stato e serve avanti perché la vita non si ferma e puoi guardare rancore è una cosa che fa molto male poi come si dice passato vuol dire passato. Allora segui avanti e lasciano il passato quello che è del passato. Mi sono ricordata una frase che diceva mia mamma che vive del passato eh Museum
Thats the common nature of men. This is why they serve eachother better when they become gays. Their nature is like snake, to sting and destroy no matter how you care for them
I don’t want to think about how me leaving has affected him. It was ALWAYS about him- I’m just not interested. I want to think about how leaving affected me and what I want to do with my life now. I don’t want him back
@InspiredByYou55 either they move on to early after or they already had it planned so they make arguments to move on. I dont understand if you don't want someone, just communicate instead of cheating and trying to have your cake and eat it too.. you will always get caught.
I walked away from 17 yrs. with my child. He did some of everything to lose my trust and love. I realize that what he had for me was not love it was a lesson. It's been 3 yrs. since we separated and haven't had any contact and that's because he's probably doing g the same things- no change, no apologies, nothing. The only we have in common is our child. I wish him the best. I'm living my life and continuing to heal.
U now know your own worth n that my friiieenn is priceless ❤continue lookin up for strength Guidance n preserverence n you'll be jus fine! I'm super proud of u n Jesus n your child is too!!! Keep shinin we see you glowing ✨️💛 😍 hugs from me to u!🫂
I ran across this video tonight. It is so timely. Happening to me. I have decided to go radio silence. We shall see. To hear Denzel Washington speak makes this message even more powerful.
The pain,the hurt and all the tears..He make me feel like I am worthless and unloveable..I taught for a momement I was too blame for all of this..I blame myself for not being there enough,for not understanding and for being dramatic..but I was never too blame..I was too vulnerable and available anytime when he enters..He always choose someone else..So where do I fit in..So if others are too good and I am the bad guy,why bother to be around someone who will never saw your worth or effort..It is better to left then to be a burden in someones life😥😥
When I woke up today and was giving my gratitude to God for all the blessings He has given me I asked if there was something He could show me that I needed to know. When I started the computer your channel was the first I saw and decided to try it. Talk about having your prays answered !. Thank you for all of this as it is exactly what I needed. Don't know where you got your wisdom from but it is right on. Thank You.
This message really gave me a great sight on my ex relationship I do see how he's missing me but acting like he don't but he's going to lose me that way because I don't like confusion
This message came in no way of a coincidence. When I realized my worth and cut this person out 6 months ago, he reached out yesterday and owned his behavior, Denzel nailed it on point! This is exactly what I needed to hear💖
Nice to know, but too late. He had 20+ years to treat me well and and appreciate me. I hope he works this out, but not for me, for him. He had a good thing, no more.
Thank you for this video because it really encourages me on the journey of setting boundaries with my boyfriend, who always avoids commitment but gets back whenever he needs me around. I value myself and need not say much but rather go silent in setting boundaries. I draw more strength from this video. Thanks for he gonna lose me.
He broke up with me after one year being together, an amazing year full of good emotions and closeness, OVER THE PHONE, out of nowhere. And I never saw him again. Still don't understand why. No normal conversation, not even a proper goodbye. Nothing. It's been four months, and I now know with absolute certainty that I would never go back to someone who did this to me. It's downright sociopathic behaviour. And this is a man who's 40 years old, not a teenager. I was never anything but loving and supportive to him. If he didn't want to be together, the least I think I deserved was some basic respect for my feelings. A conversation, an explanation with compassion, some closure. Not to be thrown away like a bag of garbage, out of the blue. It's insane, it shatters your trust in people. Be careful of avoidants who bottle everything up, they will hurt you badly. And probably will never come back to apologise.
If u end up on such video why u should leave, just leave girl and don't look back. Its not our job to build that man or fix him. We just gonna make him better but for other and u will be traumatized and dry.
Thank you Mr Denzel. You are wonderful. I listen for strength every day. When I don't listen I cry and pray for strength I never have to be so foolish again.
This is so Lovely 😍 I haven't spoken to him in almost 5 months but have kept my distance, I know my worth even if he didn't 💔 this video confirms that I was right to do that 💯
This piece has brought a lot of insights to me. It tells the untold power of silence and distance. Thank you Denzel. It is my prayer that one day, I am able to meet you 8n person and say, "Thank you"!
Thank you for the affirmation of what my spirit and gut keeps telling me...he is back but boy can the challenge of relationship connecting a struggle...
I doubt very seriously that my husband will miss me when I am gone. He already has “female best friend!” the whole time we were married. I don’t want to block his happiness! I am moving in silence.
Trust me he does that because he knows it piss you off. Try avoiding him & act uninterested around him, see how he will react 🤗 You & your feelings matter ❤
@realestatecoach8626 Trust me, I was in the same boat. It just makes you look like the whole relationship or marriage was just a big lie and deceit. Silence is power, move in it, and set boundaries that should never be crossed again after lesson learned. God bless .
That’s why I’m learning boundaries with female “friends” in dating! Not blind to the other sex- just want to know that if I’m the one there’s no other need for others! I’m sorry you went through this.
Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir.
That's why you always practice being alone even in the midst of others. It is not hard to do. It takes practice and skill with your mind shifting in and out of realities Just excuse yourself a little bit at a time when surrounded by others at a gathering, or large event. Go to the restroom for a little bit and close the door and lock it if possible. Go into a changing room and lock the door if you can. Do this a little at a time and gradually work yourself mentally of being alone even around others. When the time comes and it will for them all to suddenly, or slowly disappear from your life as you grow, or outgrow them you will not miss them as much as opposed to being used to seeing or being around them regularly. This exercise works automatically and even when using technology. The phone is a good tool to use as well. Just start turning on to off silence mode or anything else that regularly connects you to others. You are not isolating yourself just getting into the habit of knowing how to turn off the noise of people while in their presence.
YESSSSS DENZEĹ, YOU ARE SOOO AMAZING.. THANK YOU SIR FOR DROPPING THESE PEARLS TO US.... WE LOVE YOU, WE HONOR AND RESPECT YOU. GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE AND FAMILY AS WELL.
I went back after a break up, it happened only once, never again. You waste your time caring and repairing and the reason you left comes into the picture again. Spend the time that you would be crying, feeling sorry for self, going on dates talking about the ex to a date on self improvement and self respect.
Do they really realize it, why do they act that you never existed and hurting you so bad that you start question yourself worth picking up the pieces he left you with
Denzel you have hit nail on the head but I'm had enough of my partner,s bad behavior and yes he wants me back I just don't trust him anymore we have loads of history he has broke my heart 💔 in many pieces 💔 I'm so done with this relationship enough is enough
Adesso ho capito perché lui ha fatto tanti film e sicuramente così come me nella vita ho imparato nella strada nella vita e nella mia curiosità è un po' di tutto e lui ha fatto un risuono di tutti i film e le cose che lui ha imparato e sta facendo questo discorso bello è bravissimo. Denzel Washington sei un grande
Thanks for this video i had someone that just stop talking to me out of the blue and he never told me why and i also had another guyfriend i stop talking to because talking to him was messing with my peace so i let it and him go
Great attitude, just know you're not the issue and if they choose not to talk to you to, so be it! A lot of these men I find go above and beyond to have contact with you then suddenly become quiet, expecting you the lady to chase them. They get a kick out of that. You sound to me like a woman with standards as myself, let them play their own games and move forward as you stated in comment.
I needed to hear this so badly- I left my fiancé after 6 years as I am lining up to the Word & obeying my Lord- I could no longer put up with his cannabis & porn addictions-both totally contrary to God’s desires for us- he instantly found a replacement but tried to keep me there in case he couldn’t get her to date him. They are together but she is very self absorbed ( like he is- narcissist) I am holding strong -after hearing this I feel he will eventually regret his decision. I will hold strong as he really hurt me.
Been here done this didnt answere a text or call for a year and when I allowed him back good at first but went same waythis showed me that leapords dont change their spots just their hunting habbits!
When I was ready to admit I was the chaser, begging him, and ready to walk away, he wakes up and wants to declare undying love, with an apology. It's hard to believe he's being true at this point.
😊😊no contact is the last chance you have reconcile I’ll give you a clue how to say GOODBYE 😢 Everything you want isn’t always good for you let things in divine timing open up for you. It will show you who and what they are and you know whether to let them come back or let them go.
Men move on within weeks. They underneath another woman really quickly even if they are hurting and in pain !!! Women move on differently!!! Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir. This is with any of my ex’s they get with a NEW woman and marry or whatever and still trying to “See what I am up to” and I feel sorry for those other woman they be with. Smh. 🤦🏾♀️. I want to find and be with my PERSONs. Who don’t go out his way to lie and hurt me. Etc. I deserve a love that builds new foundations, understanding, love, kindness , friendship, support and trust. I love to travel and do whatever it takes to keep my sanity and peace and happiness. If we aren’t on the same page, I want us to be able to COMMUNICATE with Understanding and RESPECT!! And don’t seek it elsewhere but with each other. Look out for each other even when it comes to our families etc. ❤❤❤. I don’t see a Masculine man this way anymore. Or probably never. I rather be single and die alone than to be miserable chasing behind false dreams and hopes. Thanks for this. Video 🎉
He has replaced me already, after 5 years, he replaced me with in 2 months and now with her 5 months, and I agave a hard time moving on. Don’t help he lives next door to me, actually brought me to this apartment to be close to him until we married
With some people it can be very delicate to do. A friend of mine's husband committed suicide after she left because he could not handle her being gone. So, you must use discernment with people who are week, or who has become accustomed to you. the longer you stay with this type of personality, the more challenging it becomes for them to let go. Have a talk first, if this is the case. Always use discernment. These are good videos but the idea for some is not always practical, or a rational move.
It's a sad reality that boy's moved on so quickly and due to lot's of social media app and stuff they have multiple options to opt out anyone and they won't allow themselves to realize the things and work upon them. And realize the absence of that person
What do you do when he's cheated but then pops up at random places you are but still says he doesn't want you. I think it's his pride that wont allow him to say what he really feels. He left years ago, with his whole chest, now he pops up and keeps talking about me to our son, comparing me to the current girlfriend, its wild, I just keep my mouth shut and keep moving
What you do is keep it moving. Don't look back sweetheart. Thank him for giving you your son but keep it moving. Don't talk to him because that's designed to keep you in the past. His season in your life is over! There is a ribcage of a man that you were made to fit. He will find you. In the meantime, enjoy life, give God his glory and live.
I do have an idea this is what happens.. but I have learnt further.. but it's not the reason they always come back Ladies! Others just know that we are still in love and naive enough to let him in again until he does it again because he has zero remorse and doesn't love you anymore to care about how you feel.. that's happened to me before..
What is meant to be will be!! Fate ( God's Will) is a Mighty Hunter. God draws back His arrow it will hit the target....100% on target!!! Where i am comes good things with me. God is with me!!!! It is to God's Glory...not mine. Far be it for me....to force anyone to stay or go for that matter. God offers us a free choice....only each of us can choose for ourselves.
I wouldn’t take them back. Usually they left because they didn’t see the value of you. They left because they want to try with new woman during the silence. There is someone already or they want to meet another woman that’s why they initiate no contact. And…. They only come back if it didn’t work out. Otherwise they’d make you the old chestnut and piece of nostalgic memory.
Does this message resonates with the partner who chose to cheat? Because I don’t think he cared about how he had hurt me. I doubt it if he will come back. This is so awful….
No, they come back to regain your trust only to smash it again. Only God can change a shell of a man and show him who he is and then show him how to love others .
Ciao Denzel Washington sono una sua grande fan e volevo sapere se questo è una cosa che tu hai letto che ti hanno scritto oppure lo stai dicendo perché lo senti dentro e esci dalla tua intelligenza? 😘
The silent treatment happened to me 2 years ago. Still silence and I have no urge to ever speak to him again. I moved on. I didn’t wait for him or chase. I know my worth and I learned lessons. I’m happy focusing on myself.
I don’t want him back. Him leaving was the best thing he could have done.
❤❤❤❤
here here
For me, it’s too late. Too much deceit, betrayal, lies and secrets. He is now a part of my past.
Signor user Seven se posso dare la mia opinione e io dico che tutto nella vita serve per imparare e che queste cose che lei sta portando come una ferita ti serva come una in stato e serve avanti perché la vita non si ferma e puoi guardare rancore è una cosa che fa molto male poi come si dice passato vuol dire passato. Allora segui avanti e lasciano il passato quello che è del passato. Mi sono ricordata una frase che diceva mia mamma che vive del passato eh Museum
@@user-fb7we6hq4t THANKYOU JESUS. ✝️✝️✝️😇
@@user-fb7we6hq4t very well said. I'm with you
Thats the common nature of men. This is why they serve eachother better when they become gays. Their nature is like snake, to sting and destroy no matter how you care for them
Its always best to walk away before someone take your peace. Self worth is what matters. Put your energy and effort where its valued.
I don’t want to think about how me leaving has affected him. It was ALWAYS about him- I’m just not interested. I want to think about how leaving affected me and what I want to do with my life now. I don’t want him back
This man is on point. He damn sure told my story. Love you, Denzel, for my clarity
I don't think he's Denzel. More likely the voice AI of Denzel. But nice message of course.
Its sad because NOT all men will see or realize thier lost. They move on within weeks, continue hurting people.
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Well said
You just hit the nail on the head
Eventually they end up alone. In God’s world you don’t get to hurt people and get away with it.
@InspiredByYou55 either they move on to early after or they already had it planned so they make arguments to move on. I dont understand if you don't want someone, just communicate instead of cheating and trying to have your cake and eat it too.. you will always get caught.
I walked away from 17 yrs. with my child. He did some of everything to lose my trust and love. I realize that what he had for me was not love it was a lesson. It's been 3 yrs. since we separated and haven't had any contact and that's because he's probably doing g the same things- no change, no apologies, nothing. The only we have in common is our child. I wish him the best. I'm living my life and continuing to heal.
GREAT FOR U. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉✝️✝️💯💯U DESERVE BETTER THAN A TOXIC NARCISSIST.
JESUS LOVES U❤✝️
U now know your own worth n that my friiieenn is priceless ❤continue lookin up for strength Guidance n preserverence n you'll be jus fine! I'm super proud of u n Jesus n your child is too!!! Keep shinin we see you glowing ✨️💛 😍 hugs from me to u!🫂
Peace and blessings for you and your child, 💯
Unless you're dealing with a Covert NARC, the contact is merely a hoover.. TRUST your intuition, and stay mindful of the 🚩's..
I ran across this video tonight. It is so timely. Happening to me. I have decided to go radio silence. We shall see. To hear Denzel Washington speak makes this message even more powerful.
AMEN BROTHER WASHINGTON!!!!😊
Thank you Denzel. My ex has started calling to " see how I'm been doing?" This helps me understand why now..
The pain,the hurt and all the tears..He make me feel like I am worthless and unloveable..I taught for a momement I was too blame for all of this..I blame myself for not being there enough,for not understanding and for being dramatic..but I was never too blame..I was too vulnerable and available anytime when he enters..He always choose someone else..So where do I fit in..So if others are too good and I am the bad guy,why bother to be around someone who will never saw your worth or effort..It is better to left then to be a burden in someones life😥😥
You said it all, Denzel, you sure was speaking about me, God bless you, Denzel
When I woke up today and was giving my gratitude to God for all the blessings He has given me I asked if there was something He could show me that I needed to know. When I started the computer your channel was the first I saw and decided to try it. Talk about having your prays answered !. Thank you for all of this as it is exactly what I needed. Don't know where you got your wisdom from but it is right on. Thank You.
This message really gave me a great sight on my ex relationship I do see how he's missing me but acting like he don't but he's going to lose me that way because I don't like confusion
Thanks for the advice .
What's meant to be .... can't be broken! ❤😊
You're incredible. How you have such a small channel. Hidden gem
This message came in no way of a coincidence. When I realized my worth and cut this person out 6 months ago, he reached out yesterday and owned his behavior, Denzel nailed it on point! This is exactly what I needed to hear💖
How did I not know this channel existed???!!!😮😮
I needed to hear this
2 months & counting...NO contact life goes on... Mousey from Buffalo NY 💜💚🎉
Yup !!!!!!! Going through this now ! 3 months NC
Move on. Be happy
I went 2 years changed my number & he still popped up looking for me.
Nice to know, but too late. He had 20+ years to treat me well and and appreciate me.
I hope he works this out, but not for me, for him.
He had a good thing, no more.
❤❤❤
Thank you for this video because it really encourages me on the journey of setting boundaries with my boyfriend, who always avoids commitment but gets back whenever he needs me around. I value myself and need not say much but rather go silent in setting boundaries. I draw more strength from this video. Thanks for he gonna lose me.
I can relate
I FELT THIS MESSAGE.
A decision I made over a decade ago over my 15 years marriage with a monster that nearly ended my life
Now THIS is a dope AI. Definitely delivers a heralding message. I’ve made the right decision.
I was wondering if this was AI because they use the same message for different people. Is this legal?
He broke up with me after one year being together, an amazing year full of good emotions and closeness, OVER THE PHONE, out of nowhere. And I never saw him again. Still don't understand why. No normal conversation, not even a proper goodbye. Nothing. It's been four months, and I now know with absolute certainty that I would never go back to someone who did this to me. It's downright sociopathic behaviour. And this is a man who's 40 years old, not a teenager. I was never anything but loving and supportive to him. If he didn't want to be together, the least I think I deserved was some basic respect for my feelings. A conversation, an explanation with compassion, some closure. Not to be thrown away like a bag of garbage, out of the blue. It's insane, it shatters your trust in people. Be careful of avoidants who bottle everything up, they will hurt you badly. And probably will never come back to apologise.
If u end up on such video why u should leave, just leave girl and don't look back. Its not our job to build that man or fix him. We just gonna make him better but for other and u will be traumatized and dry.
Thank you Mr Denzel. You are wonderful. I listen for strength every day. When I don't listen I cry and pray for strength I never have to be so foolish again.
This is so Lovely 😍 I haven't spoken to him in almost 5 months but have kept my distance, I know my worth even if he didn't 💔 this video confirms that I was right to do that 💯
This piece has brought a lot of insights to me. It tells the untold power of silence and distance. Thank you Denzel. It is my prayer that one day, I am able to meet you 8n person and say, "Thank you"!
Thankyou very much.😪Very cruel Life. Very bad Abuse. Than you Amen.😪🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️
This can also relate to a friend relationship
This is true only for some men I found others say their life is too complicated for a relationship
That's good for them. However I won't be your booty call option !!!
Thank you for the affirmation of what my spirit and gut keeps telling me...he is back but boy can the challenge of relationship connecting a struggle...
Thx a million 🙏👍 I needed to hear that ☺️.. he did it to himself! He can blame himself CU he's there all by himself! 👍
I miss him but ima keep moving on. My life is already changing in a positive way since i’ve decided to let him go.
I doubt very seriously that my husband will miss me when I am gone. He already has “female best friend!” the whole time we were married. I don’t want to block his happiness! I am moving in silence.
Trust me he does that because he knows it piss you off. Try avoiding him & act uninterested around him, see how he will react 🤗 You & your feelings matter ❤
@realestatecoach8626 Trust me, I was in the same boat. It just makes you look like the whole relationship or marriage was just a big lie and deceit. Silence is power, move in it, and set boundaries that should never be crossed again after lesson learned. God bless .
That’s why I’m learning boundaries with female “friends” in dating! Not blind to the other sex- just want to know that if I’m the one there’s no other need for others!
I’m sorry you went through this.
@Mariposa0101 Thank you for saying that. He didn't break me. I stay ready just in case. Lesson learned that won't be repeated ever again.
Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir.
That's why you always practice being alone even in the midst of others. It is not hard to do. It takes practice and skill with your mind shifting in and out of realities Just excuse yourself a little bit at a time when surrounded by others at a gathering, or large event. Go to the restroom for a little bit and close the door and lock it if possible. Go into a changing room and lock the door if you can. Do this a little at a time and gradually work yourself mentally of being alone even around others.
When the time comes and it will for them all to suddenly, or slowly disappear from your life as you grow, or outgrow them you will not miss them as much as opposed to being used to seeing or being around them regularly. This exercise works automatically and even when using technology. The phone is a good tool to use as well. Just start turning on to off silence mode or anything else that regularly connects you to others. You are not isolating yourself just getting into the habit of knowing how to turn off the noise of people while in their presence.
AMEN!!! Going through this now. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿
YESSSSS DENZEĹ, YOU ARE SOOO AMAZING.. THANK YOU SIR FOR DROPPING THESE PEARLS TO US.... WE LOVE YOU, WE HONOR AND RESPECT YOU. GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL WIFE AND FAMILY AS WELL.
I went back after a break up, it happened only once, never again. You waste your time caring and repairing and the reason you left comes into the picture again. Spend the time that you would be crying, feeling sorry for self, going on dates talking about the ex to a date on self improvement and self respect.
WOW! THAT WAS SOO MIGHTY.. SO RELAXING TO LISTEN TO THIS WAS SO POWERFUL AND ESPECIALLY FROM YOU. I BELIEVE YOU ARE A MAN OF GOD. THANK YOU........
Some simply have no contrition.
Well said, you're😊 so accurate to the point
Thanks so much for this wisdom on a divine personal relationship and the healing process when the time comes to disconnect and move on.
Wow!!! I'm sending this Out to my friends 🎉🎉🎉yeassssssss
Do they really realize it, why do they act that you never existed and hurting you so bad that you start question yourself worth picking up the pieces he left you with
They're not acting Hun, most men are too busy caught up with their new flame. Thought of you is typically the last thing on their minds.
@haitiqueen0119 so true that until reality hits them then I am at no surprise I hope it hurts like hell
@@haitiqueen0119 Yes and it seems like they don’t think about the old girl they left until their new flame cheats
They know but choose someone/something else to not focus on pain. You have to always remember your own self worth and that you matter too.❤
I Love this!!!
Denzel you have hit nail on the head but I'm had enough of my partner,s bad behavior and yes he wants me back I just don't trust him anymore we have loads of history he has broke my heart 💔 in many pieces 💔 I'm so done with this relationship enough is enough
Yes Denzel you on point
SO CLOSE YET SO FAR 😮😢
Excellent. I ❤ Denzel Washington reading this too.
Very well written
Adesso ho capito perché lui ha fatto tanti film e sicuramente così come me nella vita ho imparato nella strada nella vita e nella mia curiosità è un po' di tutto e lui ha fatto un risuono di tutti i film e le cose che lui ha imparato e sta facendo questo discorso bello è bravissimo. Denzel Washington sei un grande
So true well said ❤ for sure
Thank you, Denzel, for this. It gave me some clarity! I saved this so I can listen again.
Thanks for this video i had someone that just stop talking to me out of the blue and he never told me why and i also had another guyfriend i stop talking to because talking to him was messing with my peace so i let it and him go
Great attitude, just know you're not the issue and if they choose not to talk to you to, so be it! A lot of these men I find go above and beyond to have contact with you then suddenly become quiet, expecting you the lady to chase them. They get a kick out of that. You sound to me like a woman with standards as myself, let them play their own games and move forward as you stated in comment.
@@haitiqueen0119Amen, fellow Queens. He also forgot to mention that is heavy hobosexual season, too.
Thankyou for the kind words i needed to here that
That was insightful Thank you. Love your voice.
TRUE FACTS ❤
SO TRUE BRO .GOD BLESS
I needed to hear this so badly- I left my fiancé after 6 years as I am lining up to the Word & obeying my Lord- I could no longer put up with his cannabis & porn addictions-both totally contrary to God’s desires for us- he instantly found a replacement but tried to keep me there in case he couldn’t get her to date him. They are together but she is very self absorbed ( like he is- narcissist) I am holding strong -after hearing this I feel he will eventually regret his decision. I will hold strong as he really hurt me.
Been here done this didnt answere a text or call for a year and when I allowed him back good at first but went same waythis showed me that
leapords dont change their spots just their hunting habbits!
Profound truth!!!💙
When I was ready to admit I was the chaser, begging him, and ready to walk away, he wakes up and wants to declare undying love, with an apology. It's hard to believe he's being true at this point.
Denzel Washington You Are Correct Book of Eli✝️
Thank you. I really needed this. Gave my all, but it was not reciprocated. 😮💨
💯 TY Denzel ~
I bin there on bouth sides .Missing & Being Missed 😢
I Enjoyed This Content Very Much 🤗
I just got the proof 😊
Great Topic
Powerful message😮😢
2 yrs 1 month. Still havent heard from him. Broken hearted. Loss of hope.
😊😊no contact is the last chance you have reconcile I’ll give you a clue how to say GOODBYE 😢 Everything you want isn’t always good for you let things in divine timing open up for you. It will show you who and what they are and you know whether to let them come back or let them go.
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❤❤❤❤ 100 percent true!!
Men move on within weeks. They underneath another woman really quickly even if they are hurting and in pain !!! Women move on differently!!! Oh he will MISS you. My EX husband did the same thing years back!!! Re marry someone else and Had a bigger wedding and all. And another kid. Etc. Found out he’s been talking about me to my family etc and how he misses “us”. It took him years later to realize I was a GOOD woman and it was too late by that time. I moved on. Even in pain I Moved on. And then he left that Wife and MARRY his 3rd wife… 🤔🤦🏾♀️… Had children etc. And HE STILL trying to convince himself I will be his friend by sending me a facebook request?! This was recent. I keep denying his request. He sent it 3-4 times. I even saw him friends with my Siblings and Family and mutual friend still on social media SMH! 🤦🏾♀️ and They all talk still and I DON’T. Feels awkward that the family don’t understand it’s OVER. And I AM GONE. - This is almost 16 or more years now. He still there and I am done!! And I was told he is in the church now and supposedly a “Christian “. Now he wants to communicate with me after his Abuse, and lies and cheating and etc. I am Over him and over it. His a Virgo!!! ♍️ Virgo men when they will try control and manipulate etc. I am sure anyone is this way!! But even though if I forgave him. I don’t want to GO BACK TO THAT GARBAGE 🗑️!!! Just leave me alone and continue to move on sir. This is with any of my ex’s they get with a NEW woman and marry or whatever and still trying to “See what I am up to” and I feel sorry for those other woman they be with. Smh. 🤦🏾♀️.
I want to find and be with my PERSONs. Who don’t go out his way to lie and hurt me. Etc. I deserve a love that builds new foundations, understanding, love, kindness , friendship, support and trust. I love to travel and do whatever it takes to keep my sanity and peace and happiness. If we aren’t on the same page, I want us to be able to COMMUNICATE with Understanding and RESPECT!! And don’t seek it elsewhere but with each other. Look out for each other even when it comes to our families etc. ❤❤❤. I don’t see a Masculine man this way anymore. Or probably never. I rather be single and die alone than to be miserable chasing behind false dreams and hopes. Thanks for this. Video 🎉
Awesome ❤
He has replaced me already, after 5 years, he replaced me with in 2 months and now with her 5 months, and I agave a hard time moving on. Don’t help he lives next door to me, actually brought me to this apartment to be close to him until we married
It’s already been 3 1/2 months … not sure what reason he would think he could come back …
My situation now....
With some people it can be very delicate to do. A friend of mine's husband committed suicide after she left because he could not handle her being gone. So, you must use discernment with people who are week, or who has become accustomed to you. the longer you stay with this type of personality, the more challenging it becomes for them to let go. Have a talk first, if this is the case. Always use discernment. These are good videos but the idea for some is not always practical, or a rational move.
It's a sad reality that boy's moved on so quickly and due to lot's of social media app and stuff they have multiple options to opt out anyone and they won't allow themselves to realize the things and work upon them. And realize the absence of that person
What do you do when he's cheated but then pops up at random places you are but still says he doesn't want you. I think it's his pride that wont allow him to say what he really feels. He left years ago, with his whole chest, now he pops up and keeps talking about me to our son, comparing me to the current girlfriend, its wild, I just keep my mouth shut and keep moving
What you do is keep it moving. Don't look back sweetheart. Thank him for giving you your son but keep it moving. Don't talk to him because that's designed to keep you in the past. His season in your life is over! There is a ribcage of a man that you were made to fit. He will find you. In the meantime, enjoy life, give God his glory and live.
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He will never see my face or hear my voice, MEN WANT THEIR FREEDOM
I do have an idea this is what happens.. but I have learnt further.. but it's not the reason they always come back Ladies! Others just know that we are still in love and naive enough to let him in again until he does it again because he has zero remorse and doesn't love you anymore to care about how you feel.. that's happened to me before..
What is meant to be will be!! Fate ( God's Will) is a Mighty Hunter. God draws back His arrow it will hit the target....100% on target!!! Where i am comes good things with me. God is with me!!!! It is to God's Glory...not mine. Far be it for me....to force anyone to stay or go for that matter. God offers us a free choice....only each of us can choose for ourselves.
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I wouldn’t take them back. Usually they left because they didn’t see the value of you. They left because they want to try with new woman during the silence. There is someone already or they want to meet another woman that’s why they initiate no contact. And…. They only come back if it didn’t work out. Otherwise they’d make you the old chestnut and piece of nostalgic memory.
AMEN😊
Does this message resonates with the partner who chose to cheat? Because I don’t think he cared about how he had hurt me. I doubt it if he will come back. This is so awful….
You are sooooo on point Denzel...speak that Truth..
Hopeful he heals and learns..😊😊😇😇😇🤗🤗🤗...Thankyou ... appreciated 🩷💚
Is it me, although I love and appreciate the messages, but, it seems like the video is relatively repeating itself…
said the same shi that an ai video voiced by an ai generated denzel😭
@ yes, honey. Don’t get me wrong. We love and appreciate the message. I got it the first go round. lol
true
Does this video ever end 😏👍🏻
I walked away because I felt like, this man is going to kill me😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
No, they come back to regain your trust only to smash it again.
Only God can change a shell of a man and show him who he is and then show him how to love others .
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Denzel 😩🤗
LET THEM STAY WERE THEY ARE ONCE A SNAKE ALWAYS A SNAKE .STRAIGHT UP.OVER AND OUT.
Awsome
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Ciao Denzel Washington sono una sua grande fan e volevo sapere se questo è una cosa che tu hai letto che ti hanno scritto oppure lo stai dicendo perché lo senti dentro e esci dalla tua intelligenza? 😘