CAR CHAT | Gossip, Rumors & Cliques at Work
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- Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
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Hi y'all!! Coming at you with another Car Chat. Thank you to those who have been requesting this video for your patience, I think it's important to have an honest, open dialogue about this topic.
Gossiping is not just idle chatter. It's workplace bullying and it's important to stand up for yourself and others when you see this happening. Sending love & encouragement y'alls way. Hope this chat helps you if you're in a not so great situation right now..... remember, be a diamond :)
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I wish everyone had this mentality about work instead of making it all about status and who is "cooler". Like you said- it's work, not high school, not college social life, etc. I really hope I get into a company one-day that's more work oriented rather than gossip focused.
Going through all of your old work/accounting videos as I go through my first busy season. I appreciate this video, I get so hard on myself seeing people hang out (the seniors all freaking love each other) but I’m not there to make friends, I’m there to do work and I know I won’t be there forever.
thanks for sharing 😊 people at work place nowadays are acting like kids gossiping around as if they are paid to do that but you are right the best way to fight it is to just ignore them
omg i love you so much. i was just thinking about this the other day. Just started my career and this is what i'm currently dealing with right now. Definitely a nice refresher to hear that i'm not alone in this and i agree, its so stupid how people act like their in high school.
I whole heartedly agree. I check myself when I catch myself doing that because honestly I have other things to worry about like studying to pass my sections and learning. I'm not perfect but I try my best. Love your vids. ^_^
Thanks for sharing this. We are not all perfect, but must learn the importance of maintaining a positive environment at work because we wouldn't like to be the person at the receiving end. Thanks again for the inspo!
Thank you for this. I've been feeling down about quitting my last job but this video helps me feel that I made the right decision to leave. The culture was not for me.
thank you so much for this powerful message :D
Recruiting season is coming up. Can you do a car chat on that??? Please?
I love this!!! They hate us cause they ain’t us 😂
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I REQUESTED THIS SO LONG AGO I WAS SHOCKED & EXCITED TO SEE IT IN MY INBOX! Omg ❤️ /Long comment but maybe it'll make someone else who sees this vid feel better?/
I definitely agree that when it was happening, I was also really sad because I didn't understand WHY it was happening but hindsight is 20/20. One of the guys in the corporate position was a 29 year old PhD student when I was only a 19 year old intern who was in the same lab making (as far as he knew) the same money much earlier in life, and to boot he was a white supremacy style racist (it's funny how time reveals things that piece it all together). I was really OVERLY friendly and smiley and in retrospect that was just icing on the cake for why he felt the need to assassinate my work ethic (I talked to my bosses about it often and they were very pleased with me, but that other intern wasn't LOL).
The girl I referenced before, we actually worked together in a restaurant. I went to get another degree in a new place where i didn't know anyone so I thought a part time job would be a great place to make some pocket change and more importantly meet people. I know a guy who was always these great trips and friday night parties with ppl from Chili's where he worked so I was like "that could be me!" but um no. The place was full of girls and a lot of us were just REALLY catty. The one guy who was a host literally stood there, did his job, didn't say much, and everyone loved him but most of the girls hated the other girls. I ignored it and me because the other main host girl were getting on well. We'd talk so much that other workers would come up just to join our convos all day. But one day I declined taking a shift for her (she claimed she wanted to go to her nephews birthday party but i dont think that was true, but that was besides the point). After that she was pretty abusive. She started treating me like I was her personal employee (we worked the same job for the same pay). She would never let me actually greet customers or plan sections- she would supersede me and hand me menus and verbatim tell me things like "Take them to table 12". One time she was away for a long time and I sat people without her instead of making them wait, she literally dashed up to me as I was taking the customers up and yelled "WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!" then just spazzed out (no better way to explain it) and stormed off. I tried to see the managers but they would act like it was a two girl problem not one girl bullying another. Even when our managers would wear the headset radios, she would make very public digs and insults at me. One time I started crying and just told them I was leaving early for the night (which pissed the girl off because she was "first" cut or first in order to go home). The managers separated us completely. Now where sh*t really hit the fan was I had a conversation with one of the guys who was very gay and flamboyant about the LGBT. She leaned in listening but i just tried to ignore her and keep talking. The next time I came in the same guy came up to me and started apologizing and saying he didn't mean to offend me, asking why I felt the need to disclose we had a private conversation. I didn't know what he was talking about, and he said the entire restaraunt was talking about it. THIS PSYCHO 110 LBS BLONDE GIRL LITERALLY SPREAD A RUMOR THAT I WAS TRANSGENDER!! At this point she was there and I was not having it, I let her know in front of customers and everything that i was over her BS and she was a passive aggressive bitch scared of confrontation. She literally threatened me saying I didn't want her to get confrontational then stormed off in an angry huff to go "tell the managers". They called me in after and when I explained it, they were like "Oh no wonder, now it all makes sense" but they didn't do anything yet again except say that girls are mean and that even they get stuff said about them behind their backs. I pushed the issue but they would just be like they didn't know what I wanted from them, they tried separating us but it wasn't working, blah blah.
I quit that job. Over the phone. With 1 hour of notice. On a day when all the managers were there for a meeting. Started making 5x as much money a month elsewhere.
I appreciate this vid
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Hey guys! If someone with a small arm/wrist tattoo applied for an accounting job, do you think employers would get a bad impression?
*(I know you can't have one answer for all employers)