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  • @lvoebags1187
    @lvoebags1187 2 роки тому +7

    I'm going through loss right now. Our baby boy had no heartbeat at 16 weeks. We're devastated 😢 💔 Thank you for sharing!

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  2 роки тому +1

      I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I am sending you so much love and strength. Please reach out if you need anything, I know how difficult and isolating losing a baby can be. I will keep you and your little boy in my prayers. Stay strong mama!

    • @ManifestingwithShawny
      @ManifestingwithShawny Рік тому

      So sorry to hear it… my water brook prematurely at 18 weeks.

    • @JannatulFerdous-ri3gq
      @JannatulFerdous-ri3gq 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ManifestingwithShawnyare you pregnant again?

  • @margaretabeer7448
    @margaretabeer7448 4 роки тому +2

    So overwhelming and heartbreaking! I am so grateful you have healthy Paxty now. Love you!

  • @Charlotte-hs5je
    @Charlotte-hs5je Рік тому +2

    It's a terrible situation to be in. The joy of pregnancy is a journey of fear and anxiety. Everyone always believes that once you are out of the first trimester, you are safe, I used to myself, I've had first trimester losses, but this year I lost my first son 4th January at 17+ weeks, I fell pregnant a few months after and loss another son at 21+ weeks on the 1st September, currently waiting on results for the blood tests, post mortem and genetic testing 😢 and still very confused about the whole situation, and feel that when you go through this, you have waves of emotions ie guilt, anger, confusion, sadness and when you don't get answers to why this happens, you can drive yourself insane with it all.

    • @poojasinha3396
      @poojasinha3396 Рік тому +1

      Prayers for you

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  11 місяців тому +1

      I am so incredibly sorry for your losses. I am sending you lots of hugs and strength. It is such a horrible state to be in.. I remember it all to well.. but I hope my journey gives you hope that there is a light at the end of the tunnel.. it might be a long dark tunnel but their is an end and you will get to your light! Lots of prayer! And please know that I am always hear for you to vent, chat, etc. I respond faster to my DM on insta so if you ever need anything please dont hesitate! I started this youtube as an outlet for me to process my feelings and to help others so please if you need anything let me know!

  • @MaryMacElveen
    @MaryMacElveen 3 роки тому +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. Having been there 32 years ago, my heart breaks for you both. My prayers are with you and just hang onto each other. 😥❤🙏

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  3 роки тому

      Thank you, I am sorry for your loss. ❤️

  • @caramal8207
    @caramal8207 7 місяців тому

    I am so sorry for your loss. Just went through the same experience and watching videos online to feel more supported. We lost our baby boy at 18 weeks pregnancy. God bless his soul and your baby’s. God has plans for everyone. I hope you are feeling better.

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  6 місяців тому

      Thank you so much. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss! I wish you all the best and that you are recovering well physically and emotionally! prayers for you and your family!

  • @meenalpa
    @meenalpa 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story very sorry you had to go through that. Going through something similar baby has passed. The pain is indescribable 😢

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  2 роки тому

      I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Please let me know if you ever need someone to talk to, losing a baby is such an isolating experience. I hope you have a wonderful support system. I am sending you a virtual hug and lots of strength! Stay strong mama

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  2 роки тому

      And I apologize for just responding now, I had some personal health things going on and didn’t see your comment until today. Sending you lots of love

  • @Heartforheaven
    @Heartforheaven 3 місяці тому

    Wow this is the same as me, I went for a non medical gender reveal, only to be told my baby had died. No heartbeat. 16 weeks. They were amazing though and immediately got me an emergency ultrasound to confirm with a proper clinic. They confirmed and I rushed to the ER. I’m sorry you didn’t have that experience.

  • @whatmattersmost4
    @whatmattersmost4 3 місяці тому

    I am so sorry for your loss. It is honestly the worst trauma a couple can experience.
    We have recently lost our twin boys to TTTS. Our doctors told us that additional ultrasounds starting at 17 weeks, because of the risks associated with identical twins, would suffice - but in our case our sons already died at 16 weeks. It was however only discovered during the 17 weeks scan that both had no heartbeat.
    I will forever ask myself whether an earlier scan could have saved them. 😔

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  3 місяці тому

      I am so incredibly sorry for the loss of your precious boys. I know its hard not to but please try to not ask yourself those questions.. I know I still struggle with the "what ifs" but I now try to block myself from going down that road bc it only adds to more saddness. I hope you are recovering as best as you can both physically and emotionally. I also hope my account brings you some joy as I am now on the other side of things and hope that gives you hope for the future. Sending you a big hug and you and your boys will be in my prayers

  • @Jlitt-yw2zm
    @Jlitt-yw2zm Рік тому +2

    This was so sad. We just lost a baby girl at 21 weeks 3weeks ago and are dealing with it now. Its very hard and my gf is worse than i am. Ty for your story

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  Рік тому

      I am so sorry for your loss! I apologize, for not seeing your message until now. I hope you and your girlfriend have found ways to navigate this time.. it is a very painful road. Please tell your girlfriend to reach out if she needs to, I am quicker at replies on my instagram @nathaliesophia

    • @Jlitt-yw2zm
      @Jlitt-yw2zm Рік тому

      @@NathalieSophia Ty and no worries. it is still very difficult and she is now seeing a therapist. many nights she cries herself to sleep. It is very painful because we basically had to deliver a dead baby. she had an infection in her uterus and something about amniotic sludge. we never really got answers. does it get easier with time? also how long after did you guys get pregnant again and what was the suggested time to wait? her doctor said 3-6 months but also we have been going to doctor to make sure her uterus is healed and we are going to try again in september. i will let my gf (fiance now) know that she can contact you.. ty again

  • @nicoleparisi7855
    @nicoleparisi7855 Рік тому +3

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I just lost my girl November 11th. I was 19 weeks. I hope we get answers ❤

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  Рік тому

      I’m so incredibly sorry you are going through this, my heart breaks for you. I hope you guys get answers but unfortunately sometimes there are no answers which is really difficult. I’m sending you lots of love and strength and we will be praying for you! Please reach out if you need anything, I know how isolating this time can be ❤️

  • @mathematorials2780
    @mathematorials2780 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing and so happy you got your rainbow babies ❤ I just had a 20 week loss in February and it’s been excruciatingly difficult. If you don’t mind me asking, what clotting disorder did they find for you?

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  Рік тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. I have PAI-1 gene polymorphism. I have had some other health things come up recently and a different hematologist does not give much credit to that diagnosis and that normally he would not recommend any blood thinners but looking at my history of pregnancy losses and the only successful ones were with the blood thinners he says it’s something that obviously worked for me. I apologize for now only getting back to you. Please don’t ever hesitate to reach out(I respond faster on Instagram) and if you need anyone to vent or cry to I am always here! I know how painful this time is and I hope I can give you hope that things will get better and although time does not heal it all, it will all become easier. Sending you so much love and I will keep you in my prayers ❤️❤️

  • @kaylie3296
    @kaylie3296 2 місяці тому

    I lost my baby at 18 weeks, water broke and went to emergency room and the tech there told me had a heartbeat. 1 hr later, he was pulled out. Worst day of my life.

  • @evawells2501
    @evawells2501 Рік тому +1

    I'm so sorry My Neice was 5 months and 2 weeks And Her baby boy passed away and we have no answers why and My Neice is devastated thank You for sharing I am so sorry.

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  Рік тому

      I am so sorry for your Niece. I will keep her and your family in my prayers. Big hugs to you!

  • @TiaGLDN
    @TiaGLDN 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so sorry for your loss…

  • @agens6449
    @agens6449 3 роки тому +2

    Going through a similar situation myself right now. It’s just unspeakable. Thank you for this video, it’s nice to know I’m not alone in that.

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  3 роки тому

      I am so incredibly sorry for your loss, please let me know if you ever need someone to talk to. I know how isolating it can be. Sending you lots of love and comfort during this difficult season.

  • @jmm639
    @jmm639 10 місяців тому

    I so so sorry! God collected another angel. But honestly shame on the other sonographers they should know and even if they weren't sure they should've referred you to a doctor.

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  6 місяців тому +1

      100% agree, I still struggle when i think back to those days.. I wonder if those sonographers ever think about the "mistake" they made when they didnt speak up and send me elsewhere

  • @arliba4518
    @arliba4518 Рік тому +2

    first of all my english may be bad. my wife was lost her girl october. that was 20 weeks and 4 day. everything is good fluid is good. baby doesn't move . its second times . nobody can't say how it's happen. i don't known what should i do. i'm from myanmar.

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  Рік тому

      I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is always so difficult when there are no explanations. For us it helped switching providers sometimes a new provider can provide a new outlook or give a different perspective. Please send your wife my love and let her know how strong she is and that she can and will get through this difficult time! Big hugs to you both!

  • @sonalishinde7245
    @sonalishinde7245 6 місяців тому

    I also lost my baby at 6 month pregnancy due to some complicaion to baby... 😢😢😢its very very painful emotionally and physically😢😢😢😢

    • @NathalieSophia
      @NathalieSophia  3 місяці тому

      I am so sorry for your loss. I apologize for just seeing your message now. I hope you are recovering both physically and emotionally. Again I am so so so sorry, it is such an awful thing losing a baby.

  • @mikita1166
    @mikita1166 10 місяців тому +1

    When there is little amniotic fluid you have to rest in bed for a few days and drink large amounts of Gatorade My friend was able to save her son that way

  • @barcode148
    @barcode148 4 роки тому +1

    So sad!