"When Can I Get Pregnant After Miscarriage?" OBGYN Answers: Should I wait? Get pregnant right away?

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  • @chloemurphy-ritland2110
    @chloemurphy-ritland2110 Рік тому +107

    My OB told me to wait 3 months after a miscarriage to try again. I then had an appointment with a fertility specialist the same week (had had 3 miscarriages) and he told me to absolutely try right away. Luckily I had a positive ovulation test strip the next day, and now have the most perfect little one week old I’m holding in my arms now. Ultimately, my husband and I made the decision that was best for us, and we are so glad we did! Everyone’s story is different though. Thinking of all the families out there still on their fertility journeys. 💙

    • @kattbrown4228
      @kattbrown4228 Рік тому +2

      So u tried right away after u had a miscarriage? Or u waited 1 or 2 cycles to try again?

    • @chloemurphy-ritland2110
      @chloemurphy-ritland2110 Рік тому +1

      @@kattbrown4228we tried right away. No cycle in between. Our miscarriage was an early first trimester miscarriage (we were about 5.5 week pregnant) and I ovulated pretty quickly after that resolved. Quicker than I expected so we were lucky I even caught it on the ovulation strip. He is our little healthy 10 week old miracle now!

    • @jesse20241
      @jesse20241 8 місяців тому

      What was your age and level of thyroid ?

    • @chloemurphy-ritland2110
      @chloemurphy-ritland2110 8 місяців тому +1

      I was 29 when we got pregnant, 30 by delivery. 28 and 29 with my miscarriages. Not sure my thyroid level but I know it was in the normal range.

    • @hm-hm20
      @hm-hm20 7 місяців тому

      when start pregnancy planing after miscarriage

  • @myproudmelanin5965
    @myproudmelanin5965 5 місяців тому +47

    Confirmed my miscarriage today at 8 weeks and 6 days and it is definitely a lot to process as it would have been my first child. 😢 I pray for each and everyone who has had to go through this.

    • @hotsashno1
      @hotsashno1 3 місяці тому +1

      Going through the same I was exactly 8 weeks. It's a lot to process and quite hard to think forward. But we'll take time until we are ready to try again. Hope you are ok

    • @myproudmelanin5965
      @myproudmelanin5965 3 місяці тому

      @@hotsashno1 I’m not but I get up everyday and try. It definitely is a lot to process because I didn’t think I could ever get pregnant then to lose my baby after thinking I would not ever have the chance to be a mother hurt like crazy. Not to mention I’m not exactly a spring chicken in the maternity world. It will happen again for us both! Got to keep believing in faith knowing that God is always in control.

    • @chidimmamandy7438
      @chidimmamandy7438 2 місяці тому

      Is painful lost mine at 8weeks is my first pregnancy...but we will try again is to early to give up hope and pls get tested of uti b4 trying again ...uti made me loose my baby

    • @kiraacker1276
      @kiraacker1276 Місяць тому +1

      That's when I had miscarriage.

    • @Chelseasomuchtalove
      @Chelseasomuchtalove Місяць тому

      I lost mine at 12 weeks 2 weeks ago 😭 my first aswell.

  • @RennStreaming-mc3wz
    @RennStreaming-mc3wz 6 місяців тому +32

    Just had a miscarriage yesterday. It’s my first and very heart breaking. I know we will get through this.
    Prayers for everyone who have been through this.

    • @shaniceprince8010
      @shaniceprince8010 5 місяців тому +2

      I had one last week which was my first pregnancy. We'll get through it.

    • @kelseybray8017
      @kelseybray8017 5 місяців тому +2

      I also miscarried a week ago, devastating, but we will get there one day

    • @emmac6046
      @emmac6046 5 місяців тому +1

      i began to miscarry my first pregnancy yesterday.. continuing today. it is genuinely so tough, but i want to try again right away because my husband and i felt so ready and excited and i just wanted my baby, prayers for your rainbow baby 🩷

  • @valentinaci7888
    @valentinaci7888 2 роки тому +184

    I miscarried at 5w4d (blighted ovum). Started bleeding naturally, but the doctor prescribed misoprostol too. Bled for 5 days, then 2 daysbrown discharge. Day 7 an ultrasound showed uterus was clean, all tissue was eliminated. Day 10 got a positive ovulation test. Day 11had sex. Got pregnant. Now I am 8 weeks 3 days pregnant struggling with nausea. Praying for everything to be ok. At 7w3d had some bleeding and ultrasound showed a hematoma. Haven't bled again til now.

    • @mudasirlone3785
      @mudasirlone3785 2 роки тому

      U again had intercourse after 11 days of miscarriage only isn't it risky?

    • @bossupathomewithtequila
      @bossupathomewithtequila 2 роки тому +10

      Thank for this detailed comment, it really helps. How’s everything going with your pregnancy so far ?

    • @valentinaci7888
      @valentinaci7888 2 роки тому +16

      @@bossupathomewithtequila Hi! I had an ultrasound again at 9 weeks. Baby was fine with a strong heartbeat. Hematoma was still there, but the doctor didn't seem worried. Now I am 12 weeks. No visible problems so far,just nausea still lingering and fatigue. I'll have another ultrasound at 15 weeks. I am travelling so I can't have one earlier. Wondering how the baby is doing..

    • @bossupathomewithtequila
      @bossupathomewithtequila 2 роки тому +3

      @@valentinaci7888 aww I’m so happy for you. I’m praying we have our rainbow this try. Have you ever thought about purchasing your own Doppler so that you can hear the baby’s heartbeat yourself?

    • @aroundtheworld2367
      @aroundtheworld2367 2 роки тому +4

      I also miscarried in 5 weeks. Do you know how long do I need to wait to conceive again

  • @noinoi4202
    @noinoi4202 2 роки тому +359

    Going through a miscarriage right now, was my first pregnancy. Hope to have our rainbow baby soon 😞🤍

    • @preciouschilongo2380
      @preciouschilongo2380 2 роки тому +2

      Dame here

    • @truelovethings
      @truelovethings 2 роки тому +27

      I lost mine September 11th. Just got my period and i plan to try again as soon as i'm ovulating. I am already on prenatals and really praying for my baby as well. We will get through this❤

    • @geetaupadhyay8152
      @geetaupadhyay8152 2 роки тому +8

      @@truelovethings i lost mine on sep 9 and i got my periods, I'm also planning to conceive asap but here in India doctors recommend to wait atheist 2 to 3 months, now what to do

    • @Ruby-wl3se
      @Ruby-wl3se 2 роки тому +4

      Me just last oct6 I had my miscarriage and looking forward🙏

    • @geetaupadhyay8152
      @geetaupadhyay8152 2 роки тому +7

      @@Ruby-wl3se its really heartbreaking...hope we all get that good news again

  • @bethanysummers3377
    @bethanysummers3377 Рік тому +62

    I had a missed miscarriage, I hate the word abortion for a miscarriage. To me a abortion is a choice to end the pregnancy. I was shocked and kinda offended when my doctor said I had a missed abortion. I had never heard it being called a abortion before. I think it shouldn't be used when talking to women going through a miscarriage. Its hard enough as it is. Personally I didn't feel ready just after my miscarriage at all, my body feels all over the place with hormones, waiting until my period to decide if I will even try again as im 45. I have 2 older kids already.

    • @amylafornina1112
      @amylafornina1112 Рік тому +5

      Same with me when I go to the hospital doctors said my case is complete abortion. One doctor asked me what did I use for complete abortion not knowing what really happened. I just woke up one day and It just left me to soon. they also write my case as complete abortion. Everytime I hear that it tears my heart.

    • @emaleemorton2963
      @emaleemorton2963 Рік тому +5

      I agree!!! I found out Thursday we had a missed miscarriage. I was suppose to be 10w3d, baby stopped growing 6w2d, no heartbeat. Nothing about this was like an abortion. I 100% wanted to continue with my pregnancy. I’m so sorry you had a terrible experience. Sending you hugs, momma. ❤️

    • @jamiedouthit45
      @jamiedouthit45 Рік тому

      @@emaleemorton2963 same thing happened to me this is so hard I’m sorry for your loss an mines this is not what I wanted 😢

    • @livingwithcambriea
      @livingwithcambriea Рік тому +1

      Yes I hate that word being used instead of miscarriage.

    • @bethanysummers3377
      @bethanysummers3377 Рік тому +2

      The professionals really need to choose more empathetic words. My doctor is great in all other aspects, i think it is just what they are taught, it needs to change!

  • @kcamp295
    @kcamp295 2 роки тому +121

    I was told to wait until my hCG was back to zero before trying again so they could tell the difference between old and new pregnancy. 🤷‍♀️ starting trying again before that...Miscarried Oct 2020 and conceived again Nov 2020 with my rainbow baby.

    • @roriya8159
      @roriya8159 2 роки тому +7

      God bless you ❤️🙏❤️!
      Congratulations for your baby!!!

    • @rikkibeauprejose3333
      @rikkibeauprejose3333 2 роки тому +6

      Thank you for sharing and sorry for your loss but so happy for your rainbow baby! I just miscarried and am trying to figure out if it’s a good idea to try again. Did you wait two weeks after bleeding from miscarriage stopped to try conceiving again? Thank you.

    • @minasalman8253
      @minasalman8253 2 роки тому

      F

    • @rukkybless3304
      @rukkybless3304 2 роки тому +1

      Did u get your period immediately the following month?

    • @mudasirlone3785
      @mudasirlone3785 2 роки тому +1

      When u tried again after miscarriage?

  • @5stringsss834
    @5stringsss834 Рік тому +20

    I got the heavy miscarriage symptoms at exactly 12 weeks, and started bleeding 2 days before that.
    I'm 25 and we weren't trying with my husband, I just missed a day of pill and found out I was pregnant pretty soon after that. It was my first pregnancy and I was very excited but also very scared.
    Now I just feel agonising pain, I guess I didn't know how much I was in love with this baby until I lost it.
    Now I know for sure, I really want to be a mom, but I'm so scared of not being able to .
    In this pregnancy, I was spotting every few days, which I read is quite common and no reason to be alarmed but now if this happens to me again, knowing myself I will panic and binge read mumsnet posts.
    I just hope this was the most difficult part of my "becoming a mom" journey, and I hope to soon talk to my belly again ❤

    • @gullnaaz2353
      @gullnaaz2353 Рік тому +1

      I had also miscarriage one month ago now I want fast pregnancy

  • @azizahmuhammad3192
    @azizahmuhammad3192 7 місяців тому +7

    I had my first miscarriage (and hopefully my last) at 9wks and 6 days. The pregnancy was so unexpected as I thought I was done even being ABLE to try since I’m 42 and haven’t had a child since my fraternal twins 15yrs ago.
    The loss is incalculable.
    And yet…
    Apart from the grief, I’m realizing I want another & started doing research on how quickly I could try again.
    Thanks for the information. I hope-pray all moms who know this pain heal physically and mentally and are granted blessings and brighter futures with healthy babies to care for.

    • @LivingModestlyNaturally
      @LivingModestlyNaturally 2 місяці тому

      Has any woman ever had just one miscarriage and never get another one ever again during their child bearing years. I ask because it seems like many women have about 2 or more before things get better.

  • @karinaparra9989
    @karinaparra9989 2 роки тому +26

    It was recommended for me to wait at least 3 months before trying to conceive after my miscarriage due to psychological issues. They said it would give me time to accept and mourne my loss. I got pregnant withing 3 months. I don't regret waiting, but it probably would have been better to wait as I have never recovered from that loss and suffer anxiety and severe panic disorder since then. It's been 9 years.

    • @dr.martaperez
      @dr.martaperez  2 роки тому +7

      I’m so sorry you are suffering. Pregnancy loss can be extremely stressful and I hope you can access some mental healthcare to get yourself feeling better.

    • @MsFlamingFlamer
      @MsFlamingFlamer 2 роки тому

      I am so sorry Karina ❤️

    • @ryneishab
      @ryneishab 2 роки тому +1

      I think that’s the only thing that would make me wait is having that high anxiety. Just scared to lose another one back to back. That’s why it’s best to wait until you feel comfortable emotionally regardless of if your capable physically.

  • @elizabethmichaud7238
    @elizabethmichaud7238 Рік тому +68

    Being pregnant again after a missed miscarriage is one of the scariest things Ive ever had to go through. Im at 19w now and i am starting slowly to become less anxious. But it's nerve wrecking for sure. I had a missed miscarriage at 10w but found out at my 13w ultrasound. Went through a D&C in january 2022, then they found out the same week I had HSILs, did the biopsies, CIN3 came out as the result, i had a leep in june and finally got the ok from my OB and from the people testing us in for genetic abnormalities (having a miscarriage at 25 years old from a down syndrome positive foetus apparently freaked out my doctor so she asked us to get tested for a bunch of things) to get pregnant in september and we were really lucky, I got pregnant on the first try ❤ waiting for our rainbow baby due in june 2023.

    • @Carribean_gurl
      @Carribean_gurl Рік тому +2

      Awww happy for you hun...❣🙏

    • @Angel-oo9bn
      @Angel-oo9bn Рік тому +4

      How is the baby,is everything alright 👍...pls do reply

    • @elizabethmichaud7238
      @elizabethmichaud7238 Рік тому +10

      @@Angel-oo9bn the baby is doing good, everything is going as plan so far. 31weeks and thriving ❤

    • @jayaoralsurgery1038
      @jayaoralsurgery1038 Рік тому +1

      Hey hows you and your baby❤

    • @elizabethmichaud7238
      @elizabethmichaud7238 Рік тому +1

      @@jayaoralsurgery1038 we are doing great! Thanks for asking! He came early (4w early), we had a lot of issues with breastfeeding but now he's 3 months old, and he's giving me the biggest cutest smiles when he sees me and he's giving my husband and I a lot of joy every day ❤

  • @maemillan_
    @maemillan_ Рік тому +6

    I just had a miscarriage a week ago and I am honestly scared to try again. I was told by my OB that I don’t have to wait 3 months to try again. I was 6 weeks pregnant and had no idea I was even pregnant.

  • @iamAusja
    @iamAusja Рік тому +12

    Currently going thru miscarriage at 5w4d, I am really just wanting to look forward into trying again

  • @estherkavubya8423
    @estherkavubya8423 6 місяців тому +5

    This is the most tomenting issue than ever,, may God help us all

  • @suchlovelylullabies
    @suchlovelylullabies 10 місяців тому +2

    This video was so helpful! Thank you! I've recently experienced a miscarriage at about week 6, and now a few weeks later it seems like my body is gearing up for ovulation. I've been using expectant management. So, hearing about these studies, while not robust is incredibly helpful to better understand what may be happening with me. Thank you for making this content, and yes! please do further research espeically if it's an easy project as you say with our modern health record keeping and it being SO common of an experience for many pregnancies.

  • @Toriispeakzhermind
    @Toriispeakzhermind 2 роки тому +29

    I got pregnant right away after miscarrying not on purpose now I have my 3rd baby girl. I miscarried the beginning of august and got pregnant the end had her May 17th

    • @AandM8
      @AandM8 2 роки тому +1

      Ugh I wish. I’ve never had any health issues and I work out and eat relatively healthy. I’m only 24. I had 2 miscarriages in like 6 months last year. Now I think I might be pregnant again. But I’m not telling family until I make it to 19 weeks. Both miscarriages happened the first day of week 8. If I am pregnant, I’m gonna be dreading the first 8 weeks. I always start spotting at week 5 😔

    • @Toriispeakzhermind
      @Toriispeakzhermind 2 роки тому +2

      @@AandM8 Don’t stress it or think about it you can speak it into existence I’ve had 3 total miscarriage at 15,16 and 22. I was told that I wouldn’t have kids and if I did get pregnant it would be a hard stick but here I am blessed with my 3 beautiful princess. When you stop trying that’s when it happens and the first 14 weeks are the most critical weeks I didn’t tell anybody but they dad, my mom and cousin and my sisters the first time until I reached 16weeks then I kept the second 2 to they dad, my cousin and my mom had a feeling. Whatever you do don’t let anybody stress you out and stay hydrated and get plenty of rest. I hope everything works out for you and the little one

  • @gabriellamorrow810
    @gabriellamorrow810 Рік тому +19

    Had my first miscarriage November 7th 2022… had a d&c November 17th 2022.. waited to have sex for three weeks. Had one period .. and fell pregnant accidentally after my period from December 20th-24th.. conceived somewhere from December 26th/27th. Currently measuring 6 weeks today.. but definitely anxious allll the time. Trying not to feed into the negative energy.

  • @queenawest8644
    @queenawest8644 Рік тому +6

    I had a miscarriage last week and I’m open to participating in the study.

  • @Eliszzyy
    @Eliszzyy Рік тому +9

    I really hope you or someone else conducts on study on this because it would be incredibly useful to parents who are already going through an incredibly difficult time. Thank you for making this

  • @akaojoan8650
    @akaojoan8650 Рік тому +4

    I have been trying to have a baby... it's now 8 months after my second miscarriage.. praying to have a child..

  • @jessicafreitag5111
    @jessicafreitag5111 Рік тому +10

    I wish you were my OB… you talk like I do! 😂 You’re so much more relatable than most doctors!

  • @martiniquebailey666
    @martiniquebailey666 Рік тому +3

    I had a miscarriage lately and now I'm too scared to try again and go thru that again.

  • @reneeagudeloworship
    @reneeagudeloworship Рік тому +8

    I found out I am having a missed miscarriage today. 12 weeks but baby measured at 9 weeks. This just sucks.

    • @emmac6046
      @emmac6046 5 місяців тому +1

      i officially began to miscarry yesterday and i had the same thing.. i was 8 weeks but baby was only measuring at 5w+3. i hope you get your rainbow baby 🩷

    • @LinetAyieta
      @LinetAyieta 2 місяці тому

      You will get in Jesus Name

    • @reneeagudeloworship
      @reneeagudeloworship 2 місяці тому

      @@LinetAyieta thank you, amen!

  • @amnah10000
    @amnah10000 Рік тому +7

    I had a miscarriage almost two weeks ago and I am still bleeding, very light though and the contractions are gone, I was 8 weeks pregnant and I am devastated by this loss but I am in a better place today than I was two weeks ago, I am gonna try again as soon as bleeding stops

  • @fleon4274
    @fleon4274 Рік тому +4

    I never knew that this information came from two super small studies. Sheesh. Thank you so much for the information and the breakdown.

  • @ladyazalea3710
    @ladyazalea3710 Рік тому +3

    I had a missed miscarriage and had d and c.. last ultrasound there’s still left retained product of conception that’s why i was still bleeding for 3 weeks after d and c so this weeks i was ordered by my GP to do another ultrasound which is scheduled next week (Monday) just to double check, he told me, if the retained product of conception is still there then I will have to repeat D and C.
    I do want to try to conceive again once i am cleared with any left product of conceptions 🙏 also probably after 3 periods and when I am cleared by an OB 🙏

  • @brittanyclifford1989
    @brittanyclifford1989 8 місяців тому +1

    Hello, i just had a miscarriage on February 23,2024 I was 6weeks and 3days i went naturally with the miscarriage i didnt want a d&c or anything just naturally. Me and my fiancee have been together for 9years, in the past I tryed to get pregnant by him but that was a rough time but I have a 15year daughter and I haven't gotten pregnant in 15years now my daughter is my rainbow baby because I was 6weeks pregnant by her dad and I lost that one than 6months later I got pregnant with my daughter. Now I just turned 35 in March and my fiancee will be 45 in November. Feb 1st the heartbeat was good and strong than on February 23 there was no heartbeat and the embryo stop growing. Now that would have been our first child together. They said it was a chromosome but I have no idea what that means. But we are going to keep trying. Because it may just be me but I feel like Everytime I try for a boy I end up miscarriaging but get blessed with a girl.

  • @linam.2381
    @linam.2381 8 днів тому

    love this! Thanks for walking through the studies and enabling women to make a somewhat educated decision.

  • @wafahubroman8202
    @wafahubroman8202 2 роки тому +12

    Hi Dr. Does this also apply to those who have had a D&C?

  • @lauriecandlelover
    @lauriecandlelover 2 роки тому +6

    Currently dealing with mc and want to try again as soon as body is ready. Hope it doesn't take another yr....I'm almost 46. When I had mc 19 yrs ago took me 9mo to conceive rainbow baby.

  • @mahdissadeghi2456
    @mahdissadeghi2456 18 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @faithzulu3576
    @faithzulu3576 2 роки тому +17

    I need to get pregnant, lord please I beg you.

  • @joanasteinbuck6058
    @joanasteinbuck6058 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you! One doctor told me to wait 2 months, another 3, the internet says even more… I am so confused, but at the same time (emotionally) I cannot go through another D&C.
    In two weeks I have an appointment with a specialist, but until then I want to collect as much information as possible to properly discuss the next steps. So, thank you for this brilliant and helpful video!

    • @dr.martaperez
      @dr.martaperez  2 роки тому

      I’m so glad it was helpful!

    • @n0l990
      @n0l990 2 роки тому +2

      I can relate how u feel, last month I lost my baby at 20 weeks.. it feels like I lost everything...
      Bt my doctor told me wait to get my 1st cycle. she also told me that, it's not like it will be a problem if I get pregnant before that. She just suggest to wait, that's it.

    • @aroundtheworld2367
      @aroundtheworld2367 2 роки тому

      @@dr.martaperez Hi doctor, I had chemical miscarriage about one month ago (October 28).It has been 36 days since I had miscarriage. But there is no sign of period till now. Could you tell me when my period might arrive and is it normal to have late period after miscarriage. Thank you.

  • @nadiaonwuka9248
    @nadiaonwuka9248 2 роки тому +4

    Same here i loss mine August, but is well for i know God is in control

  • @romesasworldbeauty6525
    @romesasworldbeauty6525 11 місяців тому +4

    I had second miscarriage 2 weeks ago 😢it was very emotional to me 😢 I am 39 yrs old also worried about in next pregnancy … only hormonal imbalance and pcos ….
    What should I do next ???

    • @Samreenshahed
      @Samreenshahed 10 місяців тому

      First regular your periods
      Daily eat sprouts and drink beetroot juice eat chapathi daily

    • @SARAJACK82
      @SARAJACK82 8 місяців тому

      Try maca root search about it

  • @faithzulu3576
    @faithzulu3576 2 роки тому +9

    I just miscarried my man knows nothing yet. Praying for a rainbow baby. Lord please I beg you.

    • @jesusfollower6685
      @jesusfollower6685 Рік тому

      I pray God has blessed you with a baby my friend in Jesus name ! 🙏

    • @emmac6046
      @emmac6046 5 місяців тому

      i hope you have/will have your rainbow baby 🩷 God bless

  • @adrianaszentkiralyiova9340
    @adrianaszentkiralyiova9340 9 місяців тому +3

    I just had a second miscarriage 😢 it felt very bad and heart broken

    • @brittanyclifford1989
      @brittanyclifford1989 8 місяців тому +1

      Aww I'm sending my prayers to you. I know what your going threw I just had a miscarriage February 23 and I was only 6weeks and 3days. I have a 15 year old daughter who is my rainbow baby. I've been with my fiancee for 9years and this would have been our first child together and I'm still grieving in my own way because I felt like it was going to be a boy but than I had a miscarriage. My obgyn acted like she didn't want to answer my questions and just brushes me off. But we are going to keep trying and never loose our faith and hope.

    • @adrianaszentkiralyiova9340
      @adrianaszentkiralyiova9340 8 місяців тому +1

      To be honest, I had a big fear 😨 of loosing but this time I will not have the fear again and also I don't smoke anymore and drinking any bad drinks vitamins are include also now.I wish you also just positive energy and a luck ❤

    • @LinetAyieta
      @LinetAyieta 2 місяці тому

      The Lord is faithful. I had a miscarriage at 9 weeks and 3 days. Am waiting my body to regain then I try again. Am not losing hope. I will keep trying will the help of the Lord

  • @mariamoses4890
    @mariamoses4890 2 роки тому +25

    My hcg levels went down to level 1 on the 6th of this month after miscarriage on the 18th of last month. I took a pregnancy test on the the 21st (2 days ago) and I have had 5 positive tests! It looks like I’m pregnant again but I’m a little unsure because of the miscarriage.

    • @n0l990
      @n0l990 2 роки тому +9

      same here, I lost my baby at 20 weeks in May 6. I took my hcg test at home after 2 weeks, it was a faint line, and at 3rd weeks it was almost gone. Bt another 2 weeks later I got a positive dark line. I was confused. Then I go to hospital and the nurse got angry when she heard I tried again right away.. then she talk to the doctor and said it could be a new prengnancy or not, they can't tell for sure, and if it is another pregnancy then I'm about 3 weeks pregnant, so they rescheduled my appointment for an ultrasound after 5 weeks.. so by then I can be sure if it's an another pregnancy

    • @rikkibeauprejose3333
      @rikkibeauprejose3333 2 роки тому +12

      @@n0l990 that’s not right for the nurse to get mad at you! I’ve seen all over that there is no evidence that you have to wait. I only hear waiting at least a week or two after miscarriage too start trying to avoid infection.

    • @acaryiebarbie2577
      @acaryiebarbie2577 2 роки тому +2

      Same here… I had a ectopic pregnancy and had my right tube removed on the 7-7-22, I tested negative on the 7-18 and tested positive again on 8-3-22 I’m so lost on what to do

    • @rikkibeauprejose3333
      @rikkibeauprejose3333 2 роки тому

      @@acaryiebarbie2577 I’m so sorry you went through that. I can only imagine the conflicting emotions you’re having. I would talk to your doctor and if they say it’s safe then proceed but have them closely monitor you. I wish you the best of luck for a healthy pregnancy!

    • @n0l990
      @n0l990 2 роки тому +2

      @@acaryiebarbie2577 it looks like u r pregnant again sweety.. best wishes for u.. hope everything will be fine.. God bless u

  • @amrutha356
    @amrutha356 Рік тому +2

    I am going through a miscarriage right now . They found 6 week growth after that there is no heartbeat and no growth. Through medical management they take it out 😢😢

    • @Victoriagenix
      @Victoriagenix Рік тому

      I’m the same, just 3 weeks ago, I was 6 weeks and 3 days, but there’s no heartbeat and I was bleeding, did usg a week later and found out that my uterus was already empty.
      Looking forward for getting pregnant again

  • @marta3431
    @marta3431 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for your video. What are your thoughts on these papers ‘trying to conceive after an early pregnancy loss’ by Schliep et al and ‘Interpregnancy interval after pregnancy loss and risk of repeat miscarriage’ by Sundermann et al?

  • @KatamBahayPersonalLifeStyle
    @KatamBahayPersonalLifeStyle 2 роки тому +1

    I got my miscarriage last week and im thinking when can start to get pregnant again

  • @ambengfan
    @ambengfan Рік тому +1

    Miscarried in April, conceived in May, miscarried in June. We are 37yrs. Our obs is playing the waiting game. Any suggestion as to what we do now?

  • @gamalielgarciabanas3709
    @gamalielgarciabanas3709 2 роки тому +3

    My wife got miscarriage at 15weeks and got cleaning procedure in her uterus, just asking if is it fine after the surgery to feel blotted and a bit of pain.

  • @melissabih9051
    @melissabih9051 Рік тому +1

    Please what does D and C mean please

  • @Adoranimals
    @Adoranimals 2 роки тому +4

    I'm having miscarriage right now, at 6 weeks of being pregnant with my third baby...I've never had any health or fertility issues in my life before..conceived my 2 kids easily before..this third pregnancy just happened when I caught covid.i.didnt know I was pregnant when I caught covid.so I think covid is what caused my miscarriage..I'm bleeding since Saturday and I haven't even seen any doctor..I just want it to end naturally. How many months to wait till trying to conceive again?

    • @sallyngo6288
      @sallyngo6288 2 роки тому

      I just had a miscarriage too, about 4 weeks of being pregnant. I had Covid just a week before I knew I was pregnant too.

    • @estherstara7111
      @estherstara7111 2 роки тому

      6week was a small foetus wait two weeks and start with folic acid and trying for another baby too..good luck

    • @lushfanatic8028
      @lushfanatic8028 2 роки тому

      I had the flu around 2 weeks before I had mine. Fevers close to 103. 😞

  • @wolfgod-zq9vp
    @wolfgod-zq9vp Рік тому +2

    Can a glosuce drink make a miscarriage

  • @emeraldaytona5376
    @emeraldaytona5376 2 роки тому +2

    I was miscarriage last november 5, 2022 just 17 weeks & 1 day due to incompetent cervix. 😥

  • @Bluebaby422
    @Bluebaby422 13 днів тому

    I am going through a threatened miscarriage right now

  • @carmellaschwab4339
    @carmellaschwab4339 9 місяців тому

    Have there been new data or ongoing studies since the video was first created?

  • @aqgirl1986
    @aqgirl1986 2 роки тому +5

    I had a D and C procedure cuz my babys heart beat has stopped in the 7th week n I was on my 8th week when I found out I was having a missed miscarriage. I'm feeling so depressed n stressed out as this this my first pregnancy and I was having so much hopes. I'm frightened that this will happen again when I conceive again. I heard ppl saying there are side effects after a D and C like asherman syndrome n stuff, are these something to be concerned before trying again? Also I don't want to wait any longer, I wanna get pregnant again n have the whole pregnancy feeling again soon. My doctor recommended me to wait 2 months before trying again. And why did my baby's heartbeat stop on week 7?

    • @keniahtfield9290
      @keniahtfield9290 2 роки тому +3

      You are not alone,this is happening to me right now and I’m broken into pieces.
      I read somewhere today that it’s to do with the chromosome more likely

    • @MsFlamingFlamer
      @MsFlamingFlamer 2 роки тому +9

      I’m so sorry to both of you on your losses. I just wanted to give you guys some hope. I also had a D&C for a missed miscarriage at 7 weeks. I was able to get pregnant again and I didn’t experience any scarring or anything negative from the D&C. I understand how terrible and heartbreaking it is. It was the worst thing I’ve ever had to go through in my life. But there is hope. ❤️

    • @florrodriguez3479
      @florrodriguez3479 2 роки тому +2

      I am so sorry for your loss! I am going through the same situation. It was my first pregnancy too(my first round of IVF). You are not alone. I just had a D&C yesterday and the emotional pain is so much worse than the physical pain! I hope and pray everything goes well for you on this journey!

    • @ebainchoung1689
      @ebainchoung1689 2 роки тому

      Please how long did you wait before trying again 🙏🏽

    • @MsFlamingFlamer
      @MsFlamingFlamer 2 роки тому

      @@ebainchoung1689 I started trying again as soon as my next cycle. Doctored ok’ed it. Please speak with your doctor 🙏🏾

  • @ashleighhislop9392
    @ashleighhislop9392 2 роки тому +2

    Hi, I obviously will ask my Dr. but I'm not yet seeing an OB/GYN, and I don't really trust my GP to know. I conceived via Clomid (After 2 years of infertility) and have just miscarried (am still miscarrying) at just around 6.5 weeks. For the purposes of doing another round of Clomid should I wait a cycle for a normal period/cycle date? Or can I count the start of the current bleeding as Cycle Day 1?

  • @sadiadilshad2512
    @sadiadilshad2512 6 місяців тому

    I had my miscarriage(blighted ovum) yesterday.... Before that spotting for 3days and yesterday start to bleed... Heavy bleed.. Now I'm going to see a doc hopee everything goes well.. With everyone.. And being able to hold are rainbow baby in future🔮❤.

  • @angelnwoke9263
    @angelnwoke9263 9 місяців тому +1

    Just went through that but my doctor said i can convince once I stop feeling pains, that is to have constance sex before my metrication. Is it possible

  • @danielar19
    @danielar19 4 місяці тому

    Hi ! To the ones who, wanted to wait a little but not right away, what preventive methods you used? Pills? Or ? Because i am not sure if i should get back on the pill... if might be only for a couple of months wonder if will mess up my hormons to use them for a short period

  • @youngc521
    @youngc521 9 місяців тому

    My doctor told me 3months after my d&c surgery.

  • @Stephymo
    @Stephymo 2 роки тому +2

    Have to take one or two more blood hcg to see if it’s back to pre pregnancy. My obgyn told me that I should try again after I had my first period

  • @zarqas6048
    @zarqas6048 2 роки тому +2

    i had frst miscarih at week 17 and other one at week 21 ...now one month ago to secnd miscarig ..how much wait i do for next pregnency?

    • @cynthiafertilityqueen
      @cynthiafertilityqueen 2 роки тому +1

      3 to 6 months i lost my baby at 17 week

    • @zarqas6048
      @zarqas6048 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiafertilityqueen oh..u concived naturly?

    • @cynthiafertilityqueen
      @cynthiafertilityqueen 2 роки тому

      @@zarqas6048 im not pregnant not but my doctor said 3 to 6 months to be on the safe side but i did conceive my first baby with Clomid miscarriage her at 17week due to food i wish you luck im also at my 6 months so it’s safer now to try again wishing baby dust to you all

    • @zarqas6048
      @zarqas6048 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiafertilityqueen thankyou😭

    • @zarqas6048
      @zarqas6048 2 роки тому

      @@cynthiafertilityqueen clomid help to concive?

  • @shasworld897
    @shasworld897 2 роки тому

    Doctor, can u pls Clarify my doubt...
    My last period date on sep 1 1st 2022.
    When I was 6 weeks pregnant, mild spotting noted on 42nd day (oct 12) then had heavy bleeding on the next day. Miscarriage confirmed on Oct 14 . My gynec recommend to take misoprostol for 3 days. Then bleeding stopped on
    Oct 18.
    ->My question is when do I ovulate after miscarriage. ->After how many days of miscarriage, my fertile days have started ?
    If it is up to 2 weeks after miscarriage then my ovulation date on Oct 28th ?
    ->If we had intercourse after oct 28th , do we get pregnant?

  • @kellyx8347
    @kellyx8347 2 роки тому

    I had miscarriage in april, had another 1 in October, Iv started agen straight away as it felt right for me, I suffer with pcos and my periods are never regular...

  • @martiniquebailey666
    @martiniquebailey666 Рік тому

    I also never went for follow up blood tests .....I am so confused about how I feel

  • @KhushbooSaini-uk1tp
    @KhushbooSaini-uk1tp 9 днів тому

    Had 2 missed abortions at 8 weeks.

  • @jjlsquad2195
    @jjlsquad2195 2 роки тому

    I wanna know what to do. I took a few pregnancy test 4 days ago and got a positive and took one today and it’s negative and I just got my period

  • @hajiazainabayokaoyinlohun135
    @hajiazainabayokaoyinlohun135 2 роки тому +2

    I lost my baby May 26
    Pls when should I try conceiveing again

    • @FAiRWARNiNG_Podcast
      @FAiRWARNiNG_Podcast 2 роки тому +1

      I lost mine 2 weeks before you lost yours. Stay strong queen! We are pregnant again. My OB told me to wait for at least one menstrual cycle to complete after my miscarriage.

    • @hajiazainabayokaoyinlohun135
      @hajiazainabayokaoyinlohun135 2 роки тому +1

      @@FAiRWARNiNG_Podcast wowwwww
      So happy for u
      Av done 2 more period after den
      Still yet nothing for nw
      I tap from ur blessing❤💯
      Is there anything u use plssss

  • @katieoconnor3057
    @katieoconnor3057 2 роки тому +9

    I had heard that the cervix being more open after a pregnancy loss can lead to easier conception- is that true?

    • @dr.martaperez
      @dr.martaperez  2 роки тому +3

      I think that is someone’s “hypothesis” but I’ve never seen data around increased chances of successful pregnancy after miscarriage. But it could be true, it just hasn’t been studied. If there is; the underlying reason could be any number of body changes.

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 Рік тому

      I doubt it. For a cervical opening to help, the cervix's normal state has to hinder conception in comparison. In the lab, the vast majority (~90%) of mature eggs are successfully fertilized, yet the percentage of fertilized eggs that turn into chromosomally normal blastocysts is about 21% per my clinic's estimates for women aged 28-35, and each of those has a 60-70% chance of becoming a successful pregnancy. So essentially, each fertilized egg in the lab has about a 13-14% chance of leading to a successful pregnancy. This is LESS than the chances of a typical couple conceiving naturally each month. Given these circumstances, it would appear that a typical couple must also have 90% or more of their eggs fertilized for them to have the chances of conception they do. And if that's the case, the cervix couldn't have hindered things because it could only hinder fertilization, not development. Therefore, a cervical opening wouldn't help because enough sperm are getting across to fertilize most of the eggs even without the opening.

    • @menakaasokan2746
      @menakaasokan2746 Рік тому

      @@catinabox3048 o

  • @marina_smid4826
    @marina_smid4826 Рік тому

    I had a missed miscarriage. So scary. I think I just found out that I’m having our rainbow baby. Which is also scary now.

  • @meganthornton7635
    @meganthornton7635 2 роки тому +1

    Hi I went in due to bleeding on the 19th of August was confirmed I'd lost the baby but my HCG took forever to leave X but I've still not got my cycke to return X can you fall pregnant with our a cycle returning xx

  • @ericagoehring1089
    @ericagoehring1089 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this!

  • @kaisaan5
    @kaisaan5 Рік тому

    Had a dnc on second pregnancy loss and im still bleeding dr. said four to six weeks

  • @prasadparab6050
    @prasadparab6050 Рік тому

    Hi we loss our baby after stillbirth. How much gaph we have to take for planning again for pregnancy.

  • @tiktokfunday81
    @tiktokfunday81 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Dr I have 3 miscarriages in a row and all were anembryonic pregnancies only yolk sac visible no fetal pole was seen in all pregnancies all my and my husband's test are ok according to the Dr here what to do now?

  • @goryjowi7747
    @goryjowi7747 Рік тому

    For the last two weeks am seeing white and sticky and today I see mucus is sticky pinchy breast pinchy on both sides of abdomen what's wrong with me

  • @maryorchison4100
    @maryorchison4100 10 місяців тому

    Could I conceive if I still had the gestational sac in me left over from my miscarriage?

  • @riaria1657
    @riaria1657 Рік тому

    I had a miscarriage 6 months ago. Since then i had 4 periods. My cycle was ranging from 32-35 days. 3x of my periods were on time on 32 days. My last period was on day 39 and it lasted for 3 days instead of 4!. I thought maybe it was hormonal imbalance this month i am using clear blue digital since 8 days i had high fertility i am cd 28 and no sign of ovulation! Am i ovulating?

  • @lhingpinenghangshing8792
    @lhingpinenghangshing8792 2 роки тому

    Going through 2 miscarriage right now.7 weeks and 4 days. When should we try again?

    • @free-fire_gaming2619
      @free-fire_gaming2619 2 роки тому

      I had a miscarriage 2 weeks now from first date bleeding stopped Sunday and I think I am going to try again am not waiting for ovulation as it can be hard to detect atm

    • @M2theOE
      @M2theOE 2 роки тому

      I had one this past Friday at 7 weeks 5 days. Doctor said I can try again after my first full period.

  • @catecate5964
    @catecate5964 Рік тому

    Can I get pregnancy after incomplete abortion

  • @psycholojist3
    @psycholojist3 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the informative video. I appreciate when doctors provide scientific research data. A lot of doctors will provide their "opinions" in terms of this topic because it is what has been said in the field. Based on the current evidence exists it appears that conceiving after miscarriage is up to the patients' physical and mental health status.

  • @gurbeto5298
    @gurbeto5298 2 місяці тому

    Had miscarriage at 10 weeks i only bleed 4 days and i wanted to try asap is it safe to do so or not. No period yet?

  • @AaronRooplall
    @AaronRooplall Рік тому

    Hey guys I have a question if I have PCOS and did a DC after the DC is it possible I get pregnant?

  • @rukkybless3304
    @rukkybless3304 2 роки тому

    Please dr do I get my period back the following month after a 5 month miscarriage?

  • @Infinite_InsightZ09
    @Infinite_InsightZ09 2 роки тому

    Do you have a video that has a basic explanation about the various phases of PMS when to conceive etc

  • @naimamahamaud5622
    @naimamahamaud5622 Рік тому +1

    I have 12weeks miscarriage 😢 painful days 😢

  • @usbakhan3dartist
    @usbakhan3dartist 13 днів тому

    I had my pregnancy in 2022 September than i had to abort it in 11 week due to Multiple congenital anomalies and than again in September i got pregnant and than in 9 week i found out in my ultrasound about blighted ovum than it was a miscarriage so had to do D & C ...now i feel hopeless 😭

  • @shabeenashabeena.r6891
    @shabeenashabeena.r6891 2 роки тому

    Hai mam .first pregnancy tablet taken .but my question is any problems to next pregnancy.. so please help to me mam

  • @jessicafreitag5111
    @jessicafreitag5111 Рік тому +3

    My miscarriage was one day shy of the second trimester 😓

  • @jamiblumhorst3724
    @jamiblumhorst3724 2 роки тому +3

    I have recently gone through a molar pregnancy and I don't feel like there is enough information spoken in an "everyday voice." What I mean be that is that the information if VERY clinical and not down to earth. I (among other women I'm sure) would LOVE if you would help us understand this topic better. Just an idea :) Thank you for sharing your knowledge!!

    • @dr.martaperez
      @dr.martaperez  2 роки тому +2

      Great idea, this could be a very helpful video, will add to episode list

    • @jamiblumhorst3724
      @jamiblumhorst3724 2 роки тому

      @@dr.martaperez I sent you a message on Instagram too. If I can be of any help from an everyday women’s perspective, let me know! 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @roshnimanik4549
    @roshnimanik4549 Рік тому +1

    This wasn’t very helpful there was no actual definitive answer

  • @cynthiacano4124
    @cynthiacano4124 2 роки тому

    Has any one here miss carried twice in the first trimester ? 😢

  • @LorraineR-ux8df
    @LorraineR-ux8df 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow thanks, no matter if you’re 40 or whatever, after reading Dobbie Nerkstrol's guide, I ended up pleasantly surprised. Within 60 days anyone can get pregnant, feeling the changes in your body the first few weeks. After go’ogling her I understood it's not a miracle kind of thing like the title suggests, but you can bet you'll boost your chances.

  • @innovspice2968
    @innovspice2968 8 місяців тому

    Isn’t it disgusting that woman’s health is just not prioritized? So many woman goes threw pregnancy and miscarriages, why the hell aren’t there enough studies so we know what’s best for our body’s and our future baby? It’s shameful.

  • @Mrs.J.B
    @Mrs.J.B 2 роки тому

    I had an ectopic last September and then again a miscarriage this April. Hubby and I been trying to get pregnant since June, but still nothing. Is it normal to always have like an uncomfortable sensitivity in the area where you had the ectopic?

    • @d4nielaxx783
      @d4nielaxx783 2 роки тому +2

      I also had ectopic pregnancy and a miscarriage. Everytime I’m on my period the side I got my tube removed it hurts till this day and I also suffer from shoulder pain still till this day too.

    • @Mrs.J.B
      @Mrs.J.B 2 роки тому +1

      @@d4nielaxx783 have you been able to get pregnant since though?

    • @Mrs.J.B
      @Mrs.J.B 2 роки тому +1

      @@d4nielaxx783 I also have the shoulder pain, mainly on my right side.

    • @d4nielaxx783
      @d4nielaxx783 2 роки тому +1

      @@Mrs.J.B yes I have I just went through another miscarriage at 7 weeks so had 2 miscarriages after my ectopic, currently trying again hoping this time round then baby sticks

    • @d4nielaxx783
      @d4nielaxx783 2 роки тому

      @@Mrs.J.B i get my shoulder pain on my left side but got my right tube removed

  • @princessjzebguwa809
    @princessjzebguwa809 2 роки тому

    i am pregnant right now my doctor said that my baby don't have a heartbeat this is my 4th miscarriage and i had ectopic pregnancy

  • @shashingdianon463
    @shashingdianon463 2 роки тому +2

    Got my d&c 3days ago to my first pregnancy..
    Im afraid to be pregnant again coz im 40y.o...😔😔😭😭😭

    • @ebainchoung1689
      @ebainchoung1689 2 роки тому +2

      I really pray this month is your month as am praying for me I’ll say a word for you too🙏🏽❤️

    • @costeen6749
      @costeen6749 2 роки тому +7

      I have two different friends one is 48 and just gave birth to her first five months ago and my second friend also gave birth to her first at 48 and now she's 50 and just gave birth to her second(both friends got pregnant naturally)..get prenatal tests done..live a healthy lifestyle also take prenatal vitamin..folic acid and trust ur body..if your body didn't allow the baby to be viable then there was a reason..as long as ur getting ur period you can get pregnant,dont let anyone tell u otherwise ..God makes miracles happen everyday sweetie .

    • @glenngwenya1084
      @glenngwenya1084 2 роки тому +1

      @@costeen6749 Thank You so much♥️❤️❤️

  • @goryjowi7747
    @goryjowi7747 Рік тому

    Pla reply

  • @LilJigglypuff999
    @LilJigglypuff999 Рік тому +1

    I just had my second miscarriage. Have to go see my gynecologist today and most likely will be getting a D & C again. 😔

    • @sarahharrison4780
      @sarahharrison4780 Рік тому

      Iv just had my 4th MC and so understand. I wish the world had better answers

  • @MrPakistan123
    @MrPakistan123 Рік тому

    Please reply me
    I had abortion through pills at 10 weeks, i had bleeding for 3 weeks and now my discharge is clear, now my question is can i plan for baby now or should i wait for my next periods (menstrual cycle)?

  • @audreyg.tremblay6398
    @audreyg.tremblay6398 2 роки тому

    Hi ! I had a miscarage but My bCG is still hi! How can I track my ovulation date when my LH and BCG tests are positive all the Time :(

  • @LanaJ-wf8lf
    @LanaJ-wf8lf Рік тому

    If everything goes well this should do the job. But listen, there's one factor that's usually overlooked that can considerably speed up the process, unfortunately I do not have it at hand, but it can be go’ogled Dobbie Nerkstrol's Infertility Cure, I think.

  • @faithzulu3576
    @faithzulu3576 2 роки тому +1

    God I beg you.

  • @loveobviously
    @loveobviously 2 роки тому +11

    We had a missed miscarriage in March 2022 so not long ago at about 9weeks, we just found out we’re having another baby.
    My other half is in their early 30’s,What are the chances of having a viable baby after the first loss not very long ago? I’m the one obsessed with find research and data right now, I’m hopping this one will be healthy and safe

    • @costeen6749
      @costeen6749 2 роки тому +2

      I had a missed miscarriage in March as well..it was my second within a year but i also have four kids..so i guess I've learned to trust my body .Hope ur pregnancy is going well sweetie, wishing u all the best ❤️

    • @catinabox3048
      @catinabox3048 Рік тому

      Most women have had a miscarriage or two. The chances of carrying a baby to term doesn't change with a single miscarriage. Even two isn't considered problematic. It's when you get to three miscarriages that your risk goes up, because having three or more miscarriages is indicative of some sort of problem.

  • @josiahisioma8213
    @josiahisioma8213 2 роки тому +2

    I loss my tiwns baby can de nest be pargrant be tiwns