Tragedy In Thame: The Murders Of Michala Göl And Julie Sahin

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  • @sushanart
    @sushanart Рік тому +489

    Why do people think they can "change" this kind of a person?! The only one you can change is yourself. At the slightest abuse, mental, physical or emotional, change your own pattern and WALK AWAY. You can do it! 💖🙏🙌

    • @oxcolette
      @oxcolette Рік тому +19

      Females need to learn you can never fix them. No matter how much love you show they are still always broken.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому +38

      @@oxcolette Women not females

    • @marirothbauer5407
      @marirothbauer5407 Рік тому +14

      Totally agree with you 100# This was a very sad and disturbing case but not surprising.
      Why do these women stay with these controlling men and allow them to abuse them. There is plenty of help available knocking herself out to please this psycho who's personality she could never change. Never chase a man with these tendencies some countries have a culture of killing wives they are not happy with.
      This tragedy could have been avoided😢 at least the children are now safe from this monster.

    • @jimmycricket8170
      @jimmycricket8170 Рік тому +4

      ​@@olilumgbalu5653what's the difference between women and females?

    • @elizabethl169
      @elizabethl169 Рік тому +2

      Exactly

  • @sarahfrith1984
    @sarahfrith1984 Рік тому +206

    Too many sentences are concurrent - let’s have more consecutive sentences and keep these monsters behind bars for their lives where they belong!

    • @DianaSheward
      @DianaSheward Рік тому

      He should have had his head sawn off like he wanted to do to Michaela!I'm sick to death of these scummy b🤬s getting off with the most heinous of crimes.As long as you say that a murderer's life is more important than their victim's,the whole of the so-called justice system is skewed in favour of the criminals.🤬😡😠🔥🇬🇧❤️❤️❤️🐊🐊🐊

    • @soulflower8687
      @soulflower8687 7 місяців тому +5

      Absolutely. Concurrent sentences make no sense whatsoever. This guy basically got 36 years for two violent murders and the attempted murder of a third. Total joke. He will get out and reoffend immediately. There is no cure for psychopathic narcissists.

    • @StephenBartlett-n3x
      @StephenBartlett-n3x 19 хвилин тому

      The British justice system is also monstrous

  • @minini5571
    @minini5571 Рік тому +518

    She didn’t deserve this but she didn’t pay attention to any off the gigantic red flags, right from the beginning. When all your friends and family are telling you that someone is using you…listen!! She must have been very insecure.😢

    • @darkwoods1954
      @darkwoods1954 Рік тому +46

      Exactly! It's not like he tried to hide what a vile person he is or ever apologized yet she kept running back begging for more! You can't help some people.

    • @gabifgt
      @gabifgt Рік тому +18

      exactly. i feel like society still encourage women to keep the man and fight for the relationship to work ESPECIALLY when it’s an abusive one. it’s like we have to accept the blame for their abusive and inexcusable behavior so it’s our job to make it work, despite all the signs that we shouldn’t.

    • @darkwoods1954
      @darkwoods1954 Рік тому +17

      @@gabifgt Yes, society is to blame. Don't take responsibility for your own life and actions.

    • @gabifgt
      @gabifgt Рік тому +19

      @@darkwoods1954 that’s literally not what i said, but go off.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Рік тому +15

      @@gabifgt society doesn't do that. Not in UK.
      He was leaving, but she begged him to tay. Once again.
      And he did. To end it for good.
      Why not let him go? He didn't love her, he didn't treat him right. He wanted out.
      I don't get her at all. He brought nothing in to the relationship. He just used and abused her.

  • @susansage7218
    @susansage7218 Рік тому +642

    With the first verbal or physical abuse, it needs to be the last. No excuses or delays.

    • @fuckos4165
      @fuckos4165 Рік тому +24

      Love this ❤ should be said all the time

    • @mahoganylove5757
      @mahoganylove5757 Рік тому +10

      And thats the ONLY way it's going on over here. Shit crazy. 😮😢

    • @danlhendl
      @danlhendl Рік тому +7

      The very first sign of whatever may constitute verbal abuse? yelling? Oh pishaw!

    • @ibispaintfox1055
      @ibispaintfox1055 Рік тому +52

      It doesn't start on a first or second date. Probably not even a year into the marriage. My ex put his hands on me for the first time after 4 kids, moving me away from family, financially dependent, and 9 years into the marriage. Was he kinda mean in the beginning, sure everyone has on off day. Did I ever realize he was breaking me down, never. If red flags flew right away, nobody would be abused.

    • @fetus2280
      @fetus2280 Рік тому

      If only people would do that eh? Nope. In my world you get what you tolerate. If youre this stupid.. Sorry but you made the choice.

  • @SamKevinAntony
    @SamKevinAntony Рік тому +428

    The number of women who have lost their lives to vicious, egoistic and vile partners are truly alarming. 😕

    • @geneticfreak84
      @geneticfreak84 Рік тому +58

      The number of women who chase after vicious, egoistic and vile partners are truly alarming. 😕
      Cue the : oMg YoU'rE vIcTiM bLaMiNg rheeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

    • @auzieblo
      @auzieblo Рік тому

      Well, you kind of f.uckin are. Yes she shouldn't have got back with the abusive POS over and over again. But how do we know that even in this scenario he wouldn't end up murdering her anyway. We've seen it enough times.
      So yeah you are most certainly victim blaming, and not even in a round about way, you muppet.
      PS. You probably 'liked' your own comment, too 😅

    • @NickyBlue99
      @NickyBlue99 Рік тому +3

      ​@@geneticfreak84 Hey, you're victim blaming!!! OH EM GEEEE

    • @ibispaintfox1055
      @ibispaintfox1055 Рік тому

      What about the men who have suffered abuse from their vicious, egotistical, and vile female partners? Did you know abusive women actively seek out veterans with ptsd? In fact the numbers are so alarming that they teach veterans a class on how to avoid women like that, and keep safe mentally, as well as physically. Safe houses, are set up to look like flop houses to keep these men safe from their partners. It's not just women being abused, they are abusers too.

    • @TS-rd7oy
      @TS-rd7oy Рік тому

      Males kill the women. Don't sugarcoat it just saying partner. But she knew what he was and kept it going. Women must learn to live without males, because there simply aren't enough good ones out there.

  • @sarasayed5173
    @sarasayed5173 Рік тому +85

    My grandmother was used to say if a man raises his hands on you once don't be fooled he will do it again and again as he is hesitant just for once it will grew violent every time

  • @larajhilton
    @larajhilton Рік тому +272

    ‘He felt the children took the attention away from him’ 😳. What on earth did she find attractive about him?????Abusive husband, neglectful father, a bully….

    • @jeezus666
      @jeezus666 Рік тому +15

      How many red flags do you need to walk away? If not for you then for the sake of your kids. Jesus.

    • @TaroTaraufau
      @TaroTaraufau Рік тому +17

      Cases like these infuriate me,flag after flag after abuse after manipulation after stalking after threats and she STILL begged him to stay.Her blind devotion to this THING just bends my mind and breaks my heart.She played a significant part in her own destruction.

    • @Sparklecunt
      @Sparklecunt 11 місяців тому

      She honestly sounds sad and desperate and took the first thing that came along. Why else would she get pregnant before even leaving the country for the first time? She trapped herself a Turkish waiter! We should all aspire to such heights.

    • @kaatjeeeckhout8352
      @kaatjeeeckhout8352 9 місяців тому +2

      @@TaroTaraufau I absolutely agree! Nobody deserves to die but this young lady neglected all advise and all the red flags.. So sad!😢

    • @bhumphries1360
      @bhumphries1360 9 місяців тому

      Clearly none of you are educated about battered women's syndrome. Yet, find it necessary to trash her character. Did you completely have a slip of the brain and forget, HE killed her and her mother.HE is to blame! You don't need to tell me what type of character you have, you've already shown me with your ridiculous and disgusting comments.

  • @cherriesinsnow
    @cherriesinsnow Рік тому +843

    Michala's desperation for making this relationship work is sickening and frightening.

    • @DinoCism
      @DinoCism Рік тому +124

      It’s not victim blaming to say that this behaviour validates abusers egos and is frustrating to watch for those who have never considered trying to get away with such behaviour.

    • @WhtGrl
      @WhtGrl Рік тому +75

      Thank you for saying so! I was on the same page. But people say it's victim shaming. After everything, this victim shamed herself and her family. Fr.

    • @WhtGrl
      @WhtGrl Рік тому +8

      ​@@DinoCismthank you!!!

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Рік тому +7

      Agree.

    • @inactiveme3744
      @inactiveme3744 Рік тому +38

      I will call her instigator instead of victim... so many red flags and still be blind to it. If only she stayed away the first time he hit her the crime will not happen. Don’t come to me for victim blaming because it is very obvious who is to blame. I am very very sad for the mother she does not deserve to die.

  • @theuprising4847
    @theuprising4847 Рік тому +254

    She never had a relationship with him...she chased after him trying to make him be what she wanted...horribly sad. He invested nothing in the "relationship." There was NO relationship ever.

    • @jamiew.6606
      @jamiew.6606 Рік тому +22

      This needs to be pinned! She should've let him go after he hit her... begging him to stay after the threats and physical abuse is where it went wrong. Such a tragic case.

    • @principecaprincipeca2243
      @principecaprincipeca2243 Рік тому +8

      Amen to this

    • @john-k6k6w
      @john-k6k6w Рік тому +2

      Spot On

    • @thehangingparsiple5692
      @thehangingparsiple5692 11 місяців тому

      Lol. She forced him to marry her? She forced him to have sex with her? She forced him to be jealous and controlling? She forced him to move to England?

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 8 місяців тому +4

      I bet he couldn’t understand why she wouldn’t just go away.

  • @carltongirl95
    @carltongirl95 Рік тому +85

    This is horrible that man is disgusting I hope each day he spends in prison is torture for him...he was so controlling and yet it was ok for him to sleep with any other female...the biggest red flag for me about him was when he only wanted his wife when she flew to Turkey and said his daughter was a hindrance...laughing smiling in court while putting the families and friend's through so much pain is what Physcopaths do (sorry if I got that wrong but it's almost morning here in Melbourne)...thankyou again for sharing this story with so much compassion 😪💜🇦🇺

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +6

      Psychopaths tend to do rather well in prison, unfortunately.

  • @kindnessalwayswins
    @kindnessalwayswins Рік тому +53

    He's a despicable waste of a human. May he rotten in prison for the rest of his life. I really hope these babies get a loving and caring home.

  • @midnightfenrir
    @midnightfenrir Рік тому +220

    A few weeks after giving birth she was pregnant? Jesus.
    My wife required stitches and couldn't walk for almost a week.

    • @asha4736
      @asha4736 Рік тому +67

      I suspect it wasn't entirely voluntary :(

    • @serenaDM
      @serenaDM Рік тому +9

      Everyones different. I was ok after 2 or 3 days on all 3 of my kids despite a few stitches. Did wait 6 weeks of course before resuming intercourse but could easily have conceived again if no precautions were taken as my period returned less than 2 months after the birth too (no breastfeeding).

    • @deevasquez1171
      @deevasquez1171 Рік тому +14

      Not everyone has a traumatic birth experience

    • @midnightfenrir
      @midnightfenrir Рік тому +15

      @@serenaDM I understand that. Our second time was like nothing happened. When her water broke my son was like "Yeah, I'm here." barely had time for the epidural to kick in.
      We went grocery shopping the day after.
      It's just an observation, not any kind of condemnation.
      I honestly didn't even know ovulation occurs that soon after giving birth.

    • @fawn2911
      @fawn2911 Рік тому +5

      male moment

  • @catatonia2001
    @catatonia2001 Рік тому +139

    What a total narcissist, he used, cheated blamed and abused her. Then had the nerve to claim that he “felt trapped” in the marriage?
    Not guilty? Like: It’s not my fault, they made me murder them.
    Why so desperately clinging to a man that is so obvious an as hat? Thinking she could “save” him or change him to the better. Not even after he struck her. As always, my heart goes out to the children, so sad.

    • @maryanncasciani3866
      @maryanncasciani3866 Рік тому +3

      Happens far too much.

    • @paulchristopher8634
      @paulchristopher8634 Рік тому

      Victim blaming that’s what it is

    • @catatonia2001
      @catatonia2001 Рік тому +1

      @@paulchristopher8634 do you mean that I am doing the “victim blaming”? No I am questioning her choice to stay. Not saying it’s all her fault, because that would be it.

    • @catatonia2001
      @catatonia2001 Рік тому +2

      @@maryanncasciani3866 sadly yes, because I almost did it myself, so I know first hand what it means.

    • @umabitr8157
      @umabitr8157 3 місяці тому

      Send your story first I think u r victim in ur life ur lovely speakar madam

  • @cogitoergospud1
    @cogitoergospud1 Рік тому +52

    Concurrent sentences means he only pays for one murder. There should be no such thing as “concurrent” sentences.

  • @gaylegoodman9097
    @gaylegoodman9097 Рік тому +33

    I commend the neighbor for quickly calling the police. I lived with an abuser, for 5 years. Luckily we never had kids! We always lived in apartments, and only once did someone call the cops. Even if you’re not sure of what is going on, please call police, especially if you know children are involved. The police don’t care if it’s a false alarm, but it is critical if it’s not.

    • @ryanisbelle6107
      @ryanisbelle6107 Рік тому

      Call the cops yourself, loser. 5 years!? It's time to admit you had a fetish.

  • @joytotheworld2024
    @joytotheworld2024 Рік тому +133

    Too many red flags and she had a lot of opportunity to leave him and move on with life without him, but she let her emotions get in the way. She brought her own killer to UK. People, please know your value! Look at that scumbag not even worth it.
    The poor children left to pick up the pieces!

    • @TheJemstar28
      @TheJemstar28 Рік тому +7

      She let her emotions get in the way??? Its called being human. Hindsight is 20/20.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +33

      ​@@TheJemstar28It ceased to be "hindsight" as soon as he started abusing her.

    • @TPH250290
      @TPH250290 Рік тому +10

      @@TheJemstar28 Yeah, who could have ever predicted that this abusive control freak would murder her!!! /s

    • @TheJemstar28
      @TheJemstar28 Рік тому +4

      Have any of you been in her situation?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +24

      @@TheJemstar28 No. Nor have I ever found myself inside the lion enclosure at the zoo. I submit that neither of these outcomes are down to my own dumb luck.

  • @lauraduplooy
    @lauraduplooy Рік тому +88

    I'm only at 3:00, and I'm already concerned about this man. Ladies, if you ever find yourself in a relationship which sees you doing all the work (in this case, traveling to Turkey), get out! It's already unhealthy before it ever really starts. RUN! While it may sound on the surface that I'm victim blaming, that is not my intent; rather, this case serves as a reminder to be ever vigilant. Be actively looking for red flags. Ask your friends, especially your male friends, if they see any red flags as your relationship progresses. Listen to them!

    • @shareenautar2689
      @shareenautar2689 Рік тому +16

      I'm 6 minutes in and I can't believe Michala kept returning to Turkey to be with this poor excuse of a partner/father...mothers, put yourself and your kids first always.

    • @darkwoods1954
      @darkwoods1954 Рік тому +6

      You can't help some people.

  • @kristiriley
    @kristiriley Рік тому +169

    This was absolutely horrible. & my heart goes out to those poor babies. What ended up happening with them, btw... Does anyone know? My only hope, is that they are ok today, & they've received all the love & care, & help, they truly deserve & need. ❤

    • @pegcarter6566
      @pegcarter6566 Рік тому +64

      They went to live with Mahmet, Julie's husband.

    • @kristiriley
      @kristiriley Рік тому +40

      @@pegcarter6566 Thank you so much for letting me know! I'm glad they're with someone who loves them, & loved their grandmother & mother very much! This made me feel a bit better!

    • @Witchywop
      @Witchywop Рік тому +26

      ​@@kristirileyme too. He seems like a lovely man.

  • @jdesigns5945
    @jdesigns5945 Рік тому +154

    Why on earth would you ever be with a horrible man, spend your money to go see him as he cheats on you the entire time. I am sorry to say that she needed to put more value on herself and her children.

    • @meritaalvesa4366
      @meritaalvesa4366 Рік тому +9

      Ikr. The stupidest idea she ever done was to compromise with the guy repeatedly after he tormented her

    • @Quietriot1970
      @Quietriot1970 Рік тому +10

      Unless you ve been controlled or blinded by them you can never understand fully. So please show respect x

    • @fredajordan5704
      @fredajordan5704 Рік тому +5

      I absolutely agree, but there are women that want ro be treated badly . There are defenitely wome that look for bad boys, hard to comprehend but it`s a sad fact.

    • @EscargoTouChaud
      @EscargoTouChaud Рік тому +5

      @@fredajordan5704 If you have any knowledge of psychopaths and narcissists, you'd know that they are often extremely charming and intelligent, and will lovebomb in the beginning. They also consistently seek partners with high score of empathy and openness, who are left completely confused and vulnerable once they start showing their true nature. So, no, it's not that women want evil partners, but they fall for a seemingly nice and loving man whose brainwashing and hurt and rescue cycle make it very difficult to leave for the partner. But, sure, keep looking down on the victims of these heinous abuse and murder stories rather than being disgusted at the acts committed against them.

    • @madsdee7803
      @madsdee7803 Рік тому +2

      and her mother who he obviiously hated and disrespected...then murdered too.

  • @happytrails699
    @happytrails699 Рік тому +71

    she should have left that guy in Turkey .. her life would have been so much better

    • @aliasme-cc2qb
      @aliasme-cc2qb Рік тому +4

      Yes, she would have had a life to live. So sad.

    • @josi4251
      @josi4251 Рік тому +4

      She continued to "try to make it work." She could not do anything to save that relationship with a homicidal rageaholic.

    • @bostonb4kedbeans
      @bostonb4kedbeans Рік тому +6

      ​@@sebastianelytron8450a woman died and you thought this was necessary why?

    • @NickyBlue99
      @NickyBlue99 Рік тому +1

      ​@@bostonb4kedbeansCuz it was B-B-B-BASED!!!

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому +2

      Ironic...the guy was a total turkey too.

  • @777colin1
    @777colin1 Рік тому +34

    This is so sad. Very painful to listen to, but told without emphasis and easy to follow. Another very good Crime Drama. RIP: Michala and Julie, may the Angels give you wings to fly.

  • @sinead187
    @sinead187 Рік тому +154

    That poor little girl having to witness her father butcher her mother & grandmother breaks my heart.. He is evil personified!
    RIP Michala & Julie🌹🌹

    • @davidwright873
      @davidwright873 Рік тому +15

      men from Turkey? Prolly was never a good plan....How bout a local bloke? yeah?

    • @davidwright873
      @davidwright873 Рік тому +11

      there is this whole cultural thing, disparity thing going on....They didn't know that? Turkish men are weird..Im a man and I know this...Very odd set of decisions....

    • @Jessica-Lais
      @Jessica-Lais Рік тому +6

      @@davidwright873you’re right

    • @Robin_Coffins
      @Robin_Coffins Рік тому +10

      ​@@Jessica-Lais is he? Julie's husband was also Turkish, yeah? Portrayal of him in the video came across as a wonderful man. Doesn't matter where someone is from.. they all have the ability to do or not do awful things.

    • @jackflash743
      @jackflash743 Рік тому +3

      @@davidwright873 its terrible of course what happened to them. but i agree why would you want to go to turkey and let of them roger you etc whats wrong with an englishman

  • @heisyahweh7148
    @heisyahweh7148 Рік тому +71

    Before I started watching this episode, I wanted to recommend the case of Azra Gülendam Haytaoğlu for coverage. It happened in Turkey as well. I believe she went in for an interview advertised by a guy online when she went missing. Her dismembered body was eventually found 5 days later.

  • @katrinabeckmann5850
    @katrinabeckmann5850 Рік тому +55

    I am HIGH KEYYYYY mad at these people who HEARD him talking about murdering her, asking what would happen to their daughter if he did. HOW DO YOU NOT SAY SOMETHING. This man is disgusting. Cheating on his wife while abusing on her for being with someone else after HE broke up with HER. Stabbing two people 100 times is a kind of hate only a true narcissist could plead not guilty to.

  • @nowistime8070
    @nowistime8070 Рік тому +68

    the way the story is told I find it hard to understand why she was so fixated on this man..im not victim shaming....is this the product of not having a father figure? her mom was a good mom but a dad plays a crutial role

    • @j3611
      @j3611 Рік тому +5

      I do agree, in so many cases the abused partners are well balanced, happy & wonderful people; most with supportive families, then get attached to absolute train wrecks of partners who are literally waving red flags from the outset (after the lovebombing phase). I watch too much true crime to ever believe it'd be a genuine attachment, there's usually a motive especially with partners who take advantage of the relationship to benefit themselves in some way early on.

    • @BusyBody704
      @BusyBody704 Рік тому +11

      I can't understand it either and in my head berated her a bit but neither she nor her mother dserved such a terrible end. But I just can't understand why she kept chasing this 'man'.

    • @liverbird956
      @liverbird956 Рік тому +2

      Exactly. Having a good father in your life growing up is so important it teaches girls to adhere to certain standards of what a man should be, and how a woman should be treated by a man. What's expected what's acceptable and what isn't
      I believe not having her father in her life contributed to her bad choices in men.
      She brought this man into their lives which cost the life of herself and mother, these choices of partners these women make effect so many other people, those poor babies are now left with no family, it's absolutely heartbreaking.
      Why she was so fixated on this violent narcissistic abuser is beyond me!!

    • @SerenDipity64711
      @SerenDipity64711 Рік тому +1

      @@liverbird956 you are right a GOOD father is the basis of what all daughters will aim for in choosing a man in future relationships.

    • @lordtette
      @lordtette Рік тому +3

      We just saw a 'father figure' murder the mother and grandmother. You overestimate the need for men in the household when science says majority of the housework and child rearing is on the mother. And this video showed that.

  • @candicebergstrom4490
    @candicebergstrom4490 Рік тому +24

    It's tragic that Michala wanted to save a toxic relationship, & had a chance to be free of the abusive man she feared, but begged him not to board the plane.

  • @Rosie-wj1le
    @Rosie-wj1le Рік тому +40

    He showed so many signs of not wanting the marriage. A horrible man. Being single is sometimes much better, ladies.

  • @dianneennaid6437
    @dianneennaid6437 Рік тому +76

    I was friends with Michaela in our early teens then lost contact.
    She had a heart of gold. God bless her 😢

    • @neilmccarthy6912
      @neilmccarthy6912 Рік тому

      Garbage.. what part of the lie did you have to edit????

  • @Miss_ESL
    @Miss_ESL Рік тому +162

    This case is so frustrating. I understand being in an abusive relationship is so difficult to get free from, but there was literally countries in between her and abuser and she kept on going back again and again. I understand somebody having emotional control over you, but in these cases the abuser has usually isolated their victim from their support network so there is nobody there to turn to. In this case she was surrounded by family and friends telling her to get away and giving her every opportunity to do so. She seemed to be obsessed with this man, despite having others in her life who could give her the same attention; her obsession with him specifically reminds me very much of Jodi Arias's obsession with Travis Alexander. He made it clear he didn't want a serious relationship with Arias but always rewarded her stalker behaviour with sex and gratification and it cost him his life.
    In this case, Ensar made it clear he wasn't that bothered about Michala and saw her as a means to get out of national service and ultimately his country, yet she continued to chase after him. What happened to her (and her mother) is nobody's fault but his, he made the decision to murder and that is on him alone, however I don't think this can be treated as a "normal" case of of DV/IPV because she actively chose (despite having distance and a support network to advise her) to continue pushing for a relationship with a man who had proven himself time and again to be violent, selfish, and uncaring.

    • @bluesioux9538
      @bluesioux9538 Рік тому +9

      Sounds exactly like ppl that are addicted to meth, heroine, crack, etc. It is so plain to see that their very lives are being sucked out of them--all of us are telling them--the mirror is cracking from the ugliness, they will do all sorts of unspeakable things to get the next hit....you can change all the outward circumstances but the heart has a lie in it. Only knowing the truth shall break that bondage and free them.

    • @sheribrougham4863
      @sheribrougham4863 Рік тому +15

      Totally agree. Women needs to get their heads out of their rear ends and do what's right for their kids not themselves.

    • @ColeyMing
      @ColeyMing Рік тому +13

      It really annoyed me how she kept going and trying it’s unbelievable

    • @michelles1489
      @michelles1489 Рік тому +4

      Some people don't get that until your in that type of situation, you don't know how you may be stuck in it.

    • @lotharsoran3604
      @lotharsoran3604 Рік тому +3

      I've attempted to explain in my reply to this video, as it is not a conscious decision people make. It's rather long, but I'd urge you to read it, in an effort to try to make sense of why.

  • @susanelliott6586
    @susanelliott6586 Рік тому +69

    I can't get my head around the fact that no matter how much abuse a partner give's someone,they cannot see that this is NOT how a marriage/relationship should be.I've been married for 49 years and love my Husband dearly,but had he shown any of these signs i would have been OUT.Maybe its because i'm a strong person,i don't know,but this relationship showed so many red flags,and ignoring these cost her her life as well as her Mothers.It's very sad😢

    • @echoecho4590
      @echoecho4590 Рік тому +7

      The abuser wears them down. They don't start out like this and with a clear narcisist like that man, he would have love bombed her to manipulate her into thinking the relationship was worth something. She was a victim and we should never victim blame.

    • @dianebrown488
      @dianebrown488 Рік тому +3

      @@echoecho4590 She was a victim. I totally agree but she made her choice. If this attack came out of nowhere (with no previous signs, indicators or acts of violence) then I understand but as soon as he laid his hand upon her, she should have walked away. By returning to him or having him back, only allowed his behaviour. She was a victim but she was also ...unfortunately ...an enabler.

    • @chart2165
      @chart2165 Рік тому +4

      It is never that simple sadly

    • @wilymommy418
      @wilymommy418 Рік тому

      Yeah you’re just so strong lmao. What you are is clueless.

    • @SBlondieful
      @SBlondieful Рік тому

      ​@@dianebrown488honestly until your in the situation you truly can't understand it. I was with my ex husband for years until we started having these fights that would end with him having a gun pointed to my head or him taking a pillow and trying to smoother me with it. As time went on it would happen more and more, I got to the point I'd have 911 dialed on my phone getting ready to push send. It's hard to explain why any person would put up with it. I truly believed that are relationship was going to end with him killing me and the him killing himself. Even though I thought that I still stayed in the relationships. It's hard to explain but I felt ashamed for anyone to know what was going on. Alot of times these scary situations would happened randomly and rarely happened. So you justify to yourself why you stay. It's very hard to explain why someone would stay in abusive relationships.

  • @Goldiegirl2009
    @Goldiegirl2009 Рік тому +55

    This case is so horrific and this guy is pure evil. Why, why why are his sentences running concurrently? They should be consecutively especially for the brutality and his behavior in court. Wish she had listened to her mother and got away from him. RIP Michala and Julie.

  • @bluesioux9538
    @bluesioux9538 Рік тому +85

    Ladies/guys: I know it's hard to turn your back on someone being this way to you. You want to be fair, some of it may be you hard to get along with, you desperately want to give them another chance & leaving can be a painful path & you just aren't that strong: you will suffer more, your children will learn to live like this and even tho it means letting go of that 1 person that you say loves you, take that chance, give yourself time to heal and to really see if this is how a real relationship goes. You aren't a failure, you're not wrong, you do deserve peace & to live. You are worth it....

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +21

      Sadly, everyone who understands this doesn't need to hear it - and anyone who needs to hear it won't understand.

    • @laliciaj1
      @laliciaj1 Рік тому +1

      That was such an astute comment. Thank u

    • @laliciaj1
      @laliciaj1 Рік тому

      To bluesioux

    • @bluesioux9538
      @bluesioux9538 Рік тому

      @eadweard. I can't agree with you. True, the mindset is strong that holds one in this bond & many can't/won't shake it; but there are too many victors standing on the other side of that line in the sand, that are calling out & reaching out to others who are still in it. They made it, they've "come back from the dead" & they are the living proof that it can be a reality for someone else. And how did they come about that choice? They heard someone, somewhere-whether in person or on the radio or in a video or read something that gave them the tiniest spark of hope. Those ones don't necessarily understand it all; with time & counseling & support, they will learn the how's & whys. And in my own belief, a relationship with God is crucial for this freedom. Not a god who is condemning & blasting them but the one who refused to condemn the women who was in adultery; the one who didn't condemn the woman being out in public with some kind of disease & could make everybody "unclean" but instead allowed his power to go out to her & told her to go in peace. These need to know what love is, how it behaves, why it is powerful because most don't know. And then they need to freely receive that love-from the Author-for themselves.

  • @furiousflower
    @furiousflower Рік тому +33

    Every single decision these women made went against the very basic principles of self-preservation. It's literally like running through traffic and being dismayed when a car hits you. How many warning signs did they ignore?

    • @Dehydratedpencil
      @Dehydratedpencil Рік тому +1

      Love can be a double edged sword.

    • @jeezus666
      @jeezus666 Рік тому +4

      @@Dehydratedpencil not when there's kids involved. Don't give a shit about your safety? Then at least think of your kids. He could've easily killed the kids as well.

    • @Dehydratedpencil
      @Dehydratedpencil Рік тому +1

      @@jeezus666 A charismatic manipulator can make a weak minded person neglect even their kids.

    • @jeezus666
      @jeezus666 Рік тому

      @@Dehydratedpencil sure, but that's on them, it's not love that's at fault.

    • @Dehydratedpencil
      @Dehydratedpencil Рік тому

      @@jeezus666 It's on both parties.

  • @jessicaellina3878
    @jessicaellina3878 Рік тому +88

    Heartbreaking. A doomed relationship from the beginning, so many red flags in that demented demons behaviour. Hindsight is a wonderful thing after the event, but it won,t bring back Julie and Michela. Hope the children are in good hands and know that they were so loved by their mum and gran.❤

    • @mazzaf7575
      @mazzaf7575 Рік тому +9

      You don’t need hindsight for this one. He was abusive and controlling long before he got to the UK but she still wanted to keep the relationship going and married him. He was the same in the UK and she had the opportunity to be rid of him but she begged him to stay. I know she grew up in a single parent family and didn’t want that for her children but I simply cannot understand why she would fight so hard for such an awful relationship. I know she was a victim of abuse but she was actually in a unique position of being able to keep him in another country and away from her.

    • @patriciaoreilly8907
      @patriciaoreilly8907 Рік тому +1

      ​@@mazzaf7575👍

  • @G-Star-Raw
    @G-Star-Raw Рік тому +17

    What is it with these woman they go on these holidays and meet these same old type of blokes, he was never even interested in her, sad and desperate and hurts innocent children.

    • @millwallholdings
      @millwallholdings 7 місяців тому +1

      English girls have a rep in these places of being easy

  • @Jussyi
    @Jussyi Рік тому +23

    And Julie, MaKayla’s Mom allowed this physical abuser to come inside her home to live. After seeing her daughter get hit over and over. Despicable.

    • @Bb96_
      @Bb96_ Рік тому +2

      Yep!! I agree. Why???

    • @aromaladyellie
      @aromaladyellie Рік тому +4

      @@Bb96_probably because it’s easier to keep an eye on him when he’s in the house. It’s easier to call help to you when you’re right there. Michala would have gone to see him or moved out with him and possibly been brutalised worse.

  • @priscamolotsi
    @priscamolotsi Рік тому +38

    Why was she so desperate to keep this rubbish man?!

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому +87

    Imagine fighting so hard for your abuser and eventual killer to come live with you when there was so much distance which kept you safe. And ignoring your mother's advice and friends' advice. I'm finding it hard to feel sorry for someone like this. I feel sorry for her mother who lost her life due to her daughter's poor decisions and also feel sorry for her children who are now orphans. The only thing is they won't have to put up with a violent father and hopefully were placed with a family that is much more peaceful.

    • @laddydot
      @laddydot Рік тому +17

      I agree. Getting pregnant with that guy so quickly was the first mistake, and then trying to help an abusive husband move to your country is beyond me. In my opinion, she was too naive and did not have her children's best interests.

    • @Danza.Estelar
      @Danza.Estelar Рік тому +8

      This kind of thought is so disgusting and sad. You're putting the blame on a woman who was a victim of abuse.
      And saying that you find hard to feel sorry for "someone like this", indicates an obvious lack of empathy.
      The only responsible for all this tragedy was her psychopath husband.
      Please educate yourself before making such commentary.

    • @roscojayco5527
      @roscojayco5527 Рік тому +13

      ​@@Danza.Estelarshe picked him out of all the men on this planet, where was her spiritual discernment its there for a reason.

    • @AngelaMerici12
      @AngelaMerici12 Рік тому +9

      ​@@Danza.EstelarEmpathy is not something you feel for everyone or every sad situation, that's how you end up de@d.

    • @xMsNoobx
      @xMsNoobx Рік тому +2

      @@Danza.Estelarshe was a goose

  • @Codehead3
    @Codehead3 Рік тому +19

    That monster should never be released from prison!!!

  • @budaluke
    @budaluke Рік тому +7

    Another fantastic video from Truly Criminal. Having a lazy Saturday and was glad to see a new video posted. Very sad though, what a tragedy =(

  • @dietdrpepper15
    @dietdrpepper15 Рік тому +26

    We need to study people IN abusive relationships. So we understand the best most effective ability to reach the person, so they leave quicker being abused and how to make sure they NEVER return to the abuser again.

    • @Dee-JayW
      @Dee-JayW Рік тому +3

      well, we tell our stories all the time but few people are interested. I would be happy to be part of such a study! Although we know so much already, coercive control, financial emotional sexual an physical abuse. The most important point to know is the control is insidious, you have no idea you are being broken down.

    • @dietdrpepper15
      @dietdrpepper15 Рік тому +2

      @@Dee-JayW I know, and I think that’s why people get frustrated(having not been through it), because facts aren’t listening to, and reasoning doesn’t seem to work. So if we could study what reaches people easier, how to talk around people’s emotions and help them leave sooner, might save lives. And an entire system set up to help victims live safely away from abusers since that’s the most dangerous time, when they are leaving. For me(again never been in an abusive relationship so huge grain of salt please) abusive victims need to be seen as participants WHEN children are involved. At 18, there isn’t much it seems others can do if someone wants to stay with an abuser BUTTT if you allow a child to be abused/see abuse and they didn’t get them out, nah, you can do risky things but don’t bring children into it. That’s cruel.

    • @lordtette
      @lordtette Рік тому +2

      They do study, you haven't heard it takes on average 14 times to leave, or how therapist have to come up with escape plans with their clients? What we need is awareness; open hearts and ears, and the victim blaming to stop.

    • @dietdrpepper15
      @dietdrpepper15 Рік тому +1

      @@lordtette Its actually 7. But sorry that aint good enough. I understand the victim's mind is warped and their perception IS flawed because of their abuser. But there has to be more we can learn. There has to be better ways to to help people before it's too late. I feel for victims but my patience start to go when CHILDREN witness or become victims too. That is when some actual victims should lose their status. There must be better ways to get these people out. I just think we need more understanding on how the abused mind is functioning and how to quicker and permanently get them to see reason. But women(mostly) barely get any attention in the medical field. So it isn't surprising that we don't have answers or better tools to help something that affects mostly women.

    • @sheribrougham4863
      @sheribrougham4863 Рік тому

      ​@@dietdrpepper15what they need to do is take the kids off the victim for failing to keep them safe. Then they have a choice. Kids or him. Quickest way to get a victim to respond. Worked for years with domestic violence and its the same old story but I love him. It's not love it's manipulation and the cycle. They did a massive study in nz and the top answer from woman was that they can handle the pain of the broken bones and bruises. They can't handle their hearts breaking. They only way to stop the abuse is to take the kids away. The courts also need to take domestic violence more serious and give longer sentences so the women are protected and given supportive time to heal. It should also be mandatory to go to a domestic violence course for women so they learn what they think is love is not and that their children are being destroyed.

  • @jeremyandrestevenson2313
    @jeremyandrestevenson2313 Рік тому +2

    Love it when i see T.C have just posted I always stop what I'm watching or doing and click play for T.C latest story. X

  • @loveforeignaccents
    @loveforeignaccents Рік тому +45

    I wonder who is raising the children. Hope they are still together and have gotten/are getting all of the help -- and love -- they need. Feel bad for them, as well as Mehmet. Anyhow, thanks again for another stellar job covering such a tragic situation and enjoy the rest of your weekend!!
    EDIT: Also feel terrible for Michala and Julie, obviously, and Casey, too. I can't imagine her being able to get out of her mind the events that took place that night.

    • @pegcarter6566
      @pegcarter6566 Рік тому +11

      They live with Mahmet, Julie's husband.

    • @loveforeignaccents
      @loveforeignaccents Рік тому +8

      @@pegcarter6566 Glad to hear it and thanks for the info.

  • @amodernalchemist432
    @amodernalchemist432 Рік тому +34

    Shoulda left him after being punched. Why would she be so obsessed with a misogynistic, controlling, narcissistic, POS sociopath, who showed her no real love!?

    • @notme-vg5bd
      @notme-vg5bd Рік тому +3

      because "REAL man"...

    • @Paratet
      @Paratet Рік тому +9

      It's really hard to understand, especially because he was in a whole other country for most of their relationship. He literally said, "I'll cut your head off" and she still fought to get him in the country.

    • @amodernalchemist432
      @amodernalchemist432 Рік тому

      @@notme-vg5bd real men don't beat up or kill their wives and their mothers in law ffs! That's what cowardly, controlling psychopaths do when things don't get their way, people don't do what they want them to do or when they don't get what they want...they resort to abusing animals, children and women because they're weak little cowards that can't fight fair. Pick on people smaller and weaker to make themselves feel powerful and in control but in reality it's viewed as extreme cowardice, by us *real men* in society. It's totally wrong to treat anyone that way especially women and children ffs. You're *not* a god and don't you ever forget that you *are not* better than anyone else on this planet, that includes females! 🖕🤡

    • @amodernalchemist432
      @amodernalchemist432 Рік тому +4

      @@Paratet Exactly, not only did he treat Michala like shite but her mother too plus, he never wanted the kids around either!? I mean, everything about the man is an enormous red flag with bold text saying *"I'M A SELFISH, SEXIST POS! I WILL MAKE YOU SUFFER!!"*
      Mehmet should've also told Julie and Michala what the POS said to him when he was drunk. It could've saved their lives and his VISA could've been revoked for uttering death threats. Sure, he was intoxicated but sometimes people say what they mean or do what they say when they're inebriated. The alcohol gives them the "liquid courage" to finally say what's been bothering them or act out the threats that they've been threatening. I place a large part of the blame on him because of that simple fact, holding back important information that was imperative to the well being of Michala, her mom and those poor little kids who now have to grow up without their mother and grandmother. And the poor, daughter witnessing them both being murdered by her father, which will no doubt be terribly traumatic for the rest of her life! Something as horrendous as this would be remembered even by 2 yr old. Their closest bonds were severed in an evil and tragic manner.

    • @umabitr8157
      @umabitr8157 3 місяці тому

      ​@@amodernalchemist432so because the love is blind she can't find true or real love on her he is, if suppose she is such a clever cannot like you madam

  • @kellie5476
    @kellie5476 Рік тому +59

    The perfect way to spend a stormy Saturday evening is with a Truly Criminal upload. 💕 EDIT: The victim blaming in the comments is very disheartening.

    • @michellemueller7288
      @michellemueller7288 Рік тому +11

      I wish it was stormy here, we've got a heatwave and we're all dieing. Yes I hate when people victim blame it's not right.

    • @wutangalex
      @wutangalex Рік тому +3

      I know. It’s easy to blame someone else when you haven’t walked in their shoes. The fact is - no-one deserves to be murdered for any reason. No matter how many people think they were stupid or selfish. It’s as bad as saying a drunk woman asked for it.

    • @SamKevinAntony
      @SamKevinAntony Рік тому +15

      Victim blaming is easier than holding perpetrators accountable for their actions I guess.

    • @kellie5476
      @kellie5476 Рік тому +19

      @@SamKevinAntony Agreed. I once did some research on the psychology of victim blaming and apparently it can stem from some people not being able to believe that bad things could happen to good people so they create narratives to feel safe in their own lives.

    • @katrina3596
      @katrina3596 Рік тому +14

      It really is disheartening. I'm sorry she had to meet such a monster she and deserved much better. The only person to blame here is him and his own actions.

  • @jennahd5320
    @jennahd5320 Рік тому +50

    Devastating to hear! Mehmet accepting the children with open arms! God bless them❤

  • @maxine3587
    @maxine3587 Рік тому +26

    I think there should be extra time added for people who behave so disrespectfully to the deceaseds family in court.

    • @Macho_Fantastico
      @Macho_Fantastico Рік тому

      Absolutely agree.

    • @AngelaMerici12
      @AngelaMerici12 Рік тому +2

      I think they should have the de@th penalty.

    • @maxine3587
      @maxine3587 Рік тому +1

      @@AngelaMerici12 I can't argue with that.
      For the most heinous crimes, yes.

  • @jademcqueen5474
    @jademcqueen5474 Рік тому +12

    Disgusting, my ex was turkish he raised his hand to me and my dobermann attacked him and i left.

    • @Bb96_
      @Bb96_ Рік тому +1

      Turkish men are wild

  • @janem5900
    @janem5900 Рік тому +11

    It is so important for young women to be educated and empowered so they have zero tolerance for abusive controlling males.

  • @lornaginetteharrison7168
    @lornaginetteharrison7168 Рік тому +32

    I’m desperately trying not to victim blame, but why the hell would you continue to endanger your own and your children’s lives by repeatedly going back to someone who has clearly demonstrated how violent and abusive they are? He couldn’t have any more red flags. And then she decided to marry him! It’s not like she was financially dependent upon him or isolated from her family and friends. But she kept pleading with this adulterous, threatening POS to give it another try. Even if you don’t care about your own life, why did she continually put her kids at risk? She must have been out of her mind.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +9

      Victim blaming is a morally idiotic concept. It's perfectly appropriate to blame someone - victim or otherwise - for something they have genuinely done wrong.

    • @olilumgbalu5653
      @olilumgbalu5653 Рік тому +1

      I feel like British women are even more willing to put up with domestic violence than American women. For some reason, I find that strange, like British women should be more advanced in their thinking than American women. British men should renamed Brutish men. I know this video is about a guy from Turkey but plenty of other videos where the perp is a British/Brutish man.

    • @roscojayco5527
      @roscojayco5527 Рік тому +3

      Alot of women are just as sick as the men they attract. Its no victim blaming both were drawn to each other for whatever reason. 2 people ended up dead and one in prison. One most be careful whom they choose to date because they may just pick the devil.

    • @wilymommy418
      @wilymommy418 Рік тому +3

      An abuse victim suffers constant mental/emotional turmoil, hence they are not in their right minds and pretty much, as was proven here, cannot be considered smart enough to do what’s best for them. The abuser has so much control and it’s something you can’t understand unless you’ve personally seen it or endured it. It’s fine to say she wasn’t in her right mind and that contributed to her death, but it’s not okay to suggest that she wanted to be stabbed to death. Not saying you suggested that though.

    • @lornaginetteharrison7168
      @lornaginetteharrison7168 Рік тому +2

      @@wilymommy418 But it’s not as though he was holding her somehow in this relationship. He wanted to leave her on several occasions, wasn’t happy in the UK, had multiple affairs with other women, but she kept pleading with him to stay. If she so desperately wanted an out from the situation, why would she keep hanging onto him? He gave her plenty of opportunities if she had wanted to protect her kids and family, but she actively fought for him to stay with her, even knowing what a risk he was to her children’s and wider family members’ safety. And as I said, she had the support of all of her family and friends, she wasn’t cut off from them, and she was financially independent herself, she wasn’t reliant upon him for her and her kids’ money. She had options if she’d wanted to take them.
      I can understand how people get trapped in an abusive relationship when they’re isolated from outside support from friends and family, and when they’re financially dependent upon their abuser. This definitely wasn’t one of those cases though.
      It seems more that she was just determined not to have a failed relationship. She couldn’t accept that and didn’t want anyone else to have him, and she’d do whatever it took to hang onto him, including putting her kids at risk. They didn’t matter to her as much as hanging onto her man.
      No matter how twisted her relationship was with him, you just don’t put your children’s lives in danger. That’s unforgivable. I thought there was supposed to be an overpowering protective instinct in mothers to keep their children safe. But their needs were secondary at best to her. She thought that it was acceptable to put them in danger, just so long as she could hang onto this she absolute catch of a POS man, despite him wanting to leave her.
      And I emphatically did *NOT* say anything even alluding to her wanting to be stabbed to death. In one sentence you put words in my mouth and say that it’s not ok that I suggested "that she wanted to be stabbed to death", and then you admit that I didn’t in a kinda passive aggressive way. Why would you even make that untrue accusation in the first place? Please edit your comment to remove your lie.

  • @mistyscott2823
    @mistyscott2823 Рік тому +4

    Yayy New Video,🙌🙌, Have a Great Weekend, Thank you for all your hard work and Dedication.❤️

  • @ChichiLibra1012
    @ChichiLibra1012 Рік тому +11

    Jealous of his own children getting more attention than him, what a hateful human being

  • @Siberialover
    @Siberialover Рік тому +9

    I'm a massive fan of you're channel girl, your fabulous so please keep posting these amazing videos ❤😊xoxo

  • @markcarpenter6020
    @markcarpenter6020 Рік тому +75

    It's funny how many women underestimate the difference in customs with men from other countries. No matter how open minded a person is we are highly influenced by the cultures in which we are raised. And those influences are deeply ingrained. Be very very careful when dating men from cultures that see women as completely subservient. To be fair it does run both ways. Women from foreign cultures can easily lose respect for men that don't match up with their cultures views of manly, but it is usually not physically dangerous like it can be for women.

    • @athenafearon3853
      @athenafearon3853 Рік тому

      You can't say that because white men do this crime the most

    • @redember9380
      @redember9380 Рік тому +1

      Silly comment..Just look at this channel,,,plenty of english men are doing the same..this is an evil act ..nothing to do with culture.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +6

      ​@@redember9380Plenty of Englishmen eat sushi. Does that mean it isn't more prevalent in Japanese culture?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому

      ​@@athenafearon3853White men murder their wives the most? What are you basing that on?

    • @telliturna4998
      @telliturna4998 Рік тому

      of course...as a Turkish woman I love to be beaten up everyday and I cant imagine a life with a loving and caring man and as my culture goes I despise him whenever he respects me...cause uhmm... gimme a clue... oh yes...its in my culture and in my genes and probably in some other parts of myself... my dear dear weaver, I wish you could wake up from subservient eastern women dreams and pay a visit to Turkey so you can experience what a real Turkish girl could do to you . must go now.. my partner started gagging!

  • @Macho_Fantastico
    @Macho_Fantastico Рік тому +14

    It's sad she didn't see him for the piece of s**t abuser that he was. He makes me sick. If she had only listened to her mother. He's an absolute monster.

  • @jacquiewilliams899
    @jacquiewilliams899 Рік тому +12

    Nobody deserves this but being a mother I don't understand why people keep going back to their partners who do this

  • @savvi3128
    @savvi3128 Рік тому +39

    Being from a third world country who has these vile men in large numbers, my only advice to western ladies is that please, if you considering travelling to such places and find these 'men' attractive, sexy, and exotic due to their "dominating" behaviour, please curb yourself and convince yourself that it is very temporary.
    Find someone who matches the values you stand for.
    This is not a victim blaming, this is something from experience, genuine care and concern for well-being.
    Good, kind hearted ladies from the west don't realise the difference between a facade and real patriarchal personality us men from third world are conditioned for.
    Voilence against women, are not only tolerated but sometimes accepted-often by other men, but also by the mother-in-law for instance.
    My point is, please do think about your own well-being and believe in your intuition, listen to your friends and family and make very sure that the values match.
    That is all I have to say. Hoping the survivors in this video find solace.

    • @SerenDipity64711
      @SerenDipity64711 Рік тому +4

      well said👋

    • @tazask7269
      @tazask7269 Рік тому

      That's such a disgusting comment, how many white women are murdered by their white boyfriend/partner/husband in European countries??
      Mehmet was from Turkey and wasn't a monster was he?

    • @whitetiger39619
      @whitetiger39619 11 місяців тому

      She was a jezzebel, she slept with strange men from third world countries outside of marriage, cheated on the man of her children, she walked in sin and died a sinners death

    • @kianodoganofficial
      @kianodoganofficial 9 місяців тому

      Well, as someone from Turkey, (not a 3rd world country) you are victim blaming. And according to the first world country standarts, you shouldnt. You should just blame the killer, shouldnt say what women should be doing, and move on.

  • @emilygilbeyful
    @emilygilbeyful Рік тому +7

    I live a couple of miles from thame and worked there and parked by their house when this happened. Seeing that guy marching about the highstreet still haunts me. That takeaway shop still makes me think of this too.

  • @kabra72
    @kabra72 Рік тому +40

    I feel so sorry for the kids...paying for the adults egotistical behaviours!

    • @nathanb5923
      @nathanb5923 Рік тому +2

      Which adults in this case? The murdered women too?

    • @scheezy
      @scheezy Рік тому +14

      ​@@nathanb5923She had plenty of opportunities to leave and keep her kids and herself safe. Nobody deserves to be killed but the signs were all there, she chose to ignore them.

    • @orinorio1
      @orinorio1 Рік тому +2

      @@scheezy Spot on. Your view can be seen as cold but its the truth.

  • @nadinejackson3740
    @nadinejackson3740 Рік тому +13

    That poor little girl being put in the position where she had to watch her mom and gramma get butchered. It takes pure evil to do that to your own child.

  • @itz-luigi1210
    @itz-luigi1210 Рік тому +33

    Mehmet was kinda in on it. He knew he meant it but figured it was husband business as well as not really caring that much either way

    • @bieni78
      @bieni78 Рік тому

      Disgusting comment

    • @mikahperez3480
      @mikahperez3480 Рік тому +7

      i agree

    • @charlmillions2028
      @charlmillions2028 Рік тому +4

      The fact he basically told him he was going to do it and mehmets like Meh

    • @Lanesha.angelica
      @Lanesha.angelica 9 місяців тому +2

      I been waiting for this comment

    • @Lanesha.angelica
      @Lanesha.angelica 9 місяців тому

      Yes exactly he said this multiple occasions to him I would’ve been called the police on him never would’ve let a drunk man who talking about killing harming or just talking about my wife crazy in any way leave where I’m at no matter where I’m at

  • @dasjuggernaut1
    @dasjuggernaut1 Рік тому +10

    Ladies, if a man raises his hand to you in anger he will do it again. You need to pack you stuff and get as far away from him as possiable. No matter how much you love him, he does not really love you.

  • @paularodrigues7440
    @paularodrigues7440 Рік тому +6

    Thank you sweet lady...nice job❤

  • @savannahleeross7373
    @savannahleeross7373 Рік тому +5

    Always so happy to receive this notification!!! Thank you Truly Criminal ✌️

  • @ezekielchic08
    @ezekielchic08 Рік тому +11

    Mehmet should be charged for not saying anything. He knew how abusive that monster was and never mentioned what he said? Come on!

    • @sparky21737
      @sparky21737 Рік тому +2

      I mean he also told mikalya he would cut her head off and kill her and she still went back. Mehmet saying something would probably not have changed anything

  • @indianastones6032
    @indianastones6032 Рік тому +14

    Him blaming everyone else for the results of his own actions speaks volumes about him!!! Two beautiful women are now gone and two children without their mum and grandma/gran/nan all because he wasnt man enough to take responsibility and or even bother to try and make himself the husband and father his loved ones deserved!! What an arsehole of a human

    • @kerrylevey8746
      @kerrylevey8746 Рік тому

      @indianastones6032
      Perfectly said! Some of the comments on here are blaming Michala for not kicking this cretin to the kerb. But I see her as a true victim, who loved the father of her kids and wanted them all to be a family. And there is nothing wrong with that! What WAS wrong was his total disregard for his wife, children & mother-in-law! As you say, he IS a true arsehole!! 😤😡🤬
      RIP: Michala & Julie 💔💓💔

  • @venvibe9202
    @venvibe9202 9 місяців тому +5

    I feel sorry for her mother and her kids. She took rubbish from dumping site and brought it home thinking she would turn it into something good, but she was dead wrong. I don't understand why did she ignored all the warnings and red flags? He's a monster, he should've been given the D/Penalty for what hed did to them.

  • @LalaBLAHBLAH100
    @LalaBLAHBLAH100 Рік тому +10

    This is so tragic but was also avoidable. She was given ample opportunities to leave her abusive partner, which many women in abusive relationships don’t have. She had a support system pleading with her and he lived in a whole different country! She could’ve found a loving partner who cared for her and her children😢 To me, it is clear she had little-to-no respect for herself making her have this incessant need to be with him. If you have little value for yourself, then that is how you are going to be treated. This man knew that he could cheat on her and abuse her all he wanted and she wouldn’t leave. It’s a shame… Overall though the fault is in him and there was no excuse for his actions.
    No man, including the father of your children, no matter how attractive, successful, intelligent, athletic, etc. he is is worth abusive and disrespectful behavior.

  • @M.B.ChalliesNZ
    @M.B.ChalliesNZ Рік тому +7

    Culture will always out. Notice he didn’t attempt to kill his SON

  • @annastasiashandele8047
    @annastasiashandele8047 9 місяців тому +5

    I pray my daughters have self confidence and high self esteem not to allow such in their lives

  • @madsdee7803
    @madsdee7803 Рік тому +5

    She had her mother killed too. She was told not to get back with him and she still did it (because he was cute or something). She must have loved the drama of having a husband "abroad"...while he was off cheating and abusing her when they were together...and she still ignored it for the excitement.

  • @juannlohan3943
    @juannlohan3943 10 місяців тому +6

    He'd be on death row here in Texas. And we don't bluff.

  • @Jay_Dee_Jay
    @Jay_Dee_Jay Рік тому +9

    So many red flags that she didn't take serious.

  • @mahoganylove5757
    @mahoganylove5757 Рік тому +8

    Absolutely horrible....I explain all the time some children have no real experience of examples of healthy relationships or abusive relationship....therefore they dont know what either looks like or how to handle either. Sad 😢

  • @loveforeignaccents
    @loveforeignaccents Рік тому +19

    He said he felt "trapped in the marriage"... he must be delusional cuz he was living his life as though he never took on any sort of marriage vows; also seemingly didn't even care for his children, as they created competition for the attention he so desired. I'm frankly surprised he dropped his daughter off to safety; wonder why he didn't take his son as well.
    Anyhow, still watching and hoping justice is going to be served.
    EDIT: I will never understand the point of issuing sentences that are to be served concurrently; that is no justice. Just hope he never gets out!!

    • @goblin-night
      @goblin-night Рік тому

      Yeah, they should be forced to just add to the sentence or if not then simply leave out this "concurrent sentence" crap that doesn't mean anything but fools a lot of the public.

    • @SerenDipity64711
      @SerenDipity64711 Рік тому

      trapped in the marriage was a poor excuse. He wasn't trapped at all. He was having affairs and living a life with zero commitments. If Julie hadn't lived with them it wouldn't have made any difference. He was a weak and horrible person and used Michaela , by marrying her to get a visa .That's all he wanted. I don't believe it when he said he missed Turkey it was his choice not to get on that plane back.

  • @MrMichaellee5353
    @MrMichaellee5353 Рік тому +7

    So very sad.....but she picked him!

  • @suzannebaxter2888
    @suzannebaxter2888 10 місяців тому +4

    I know a few English women who have gone on holiday and come back claiming they've met the love of their life and I actually laugh at them. I worked for over 10 years as a holiday rep in Majorca Menorca, Ibiza and Spain mainland. The Canary Islands, Algarve Numerous Greece islands and destinations. Turkey and Cyprus. Certain British women used to have a terrible reputation which tarnished the nice English ladies who just wanted a holiday. I used to pick up the holiday makers at the airports to take onto their accommodation. What the holiday makers didn't see were the men from said country also at the airport picking out their targets. Nearly 90% of them are married with children but they are back in their own village and the man comes to the coast for work and sends money back. All these silly woman are been played and are warned by their reps that what they hear is lies. Do they listen hell no. As they wave good by to one they're waving hello to their next target if you knock them back it doesn't matter some one else will do. Always keep that in mind

  • @desislavaplamenova8191
    @desislavaplamenova8191 11 місяців тому +1

    I am watching this channel because of the voice. 😅The most calming voice in the world…

  • @ibjensen8626
    @ibjensen8626 Рік тому +5

    We need to be more aware of when loved ones put themselves at risk. She met a guy in Turkey. Then goes to Turkey again to be with another guy. When he threatened to cut her head off she begged him to come back having small kids in the house. People like her need help. Long before it gets to this.

  • @m.axin.e
    @m.axin.e Місяць тому +1

    Please - once someone puts their hands on you, leave. Even if you have children. Get help from a local service so you can leave as safely as possible. No one deserves this. Nothing/ they won't change.

  • @WellISaidIt
    @WellISaidIt Рік тому +14

    what happened to the children? who is looking after them?

    • @athenafearon3853
      @athenafearon3853 Рік тому +2

      Hopefully family and not the man he gave his daughter to

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому +1

      ​@@athenafearon3853What did Mehmet do wrong?

  • @olgaath1511
    @olgaath1511 11 місяців тому +2

    A fatherless woman is often unable to form a healthy relationship as she never had a father to teach her how a man should behave and act and what she’s not supposed to tolerate in a relationship. Such a sad story.

  • @megansulter9804
    @megansulter9804 Рік тому +5

    I haven't watched one of these good videos in a while!

  • @suyashrahatekar4964
    @suyashrahatekar4964 Рік тому +7

    She crossed the limits of naiveness.

  • @alambyant
    @alambyant Рік тому +4

    This is very common for Muslim men to treat women this way.

  • @kathrynshields8221
    @kathrynshields8221 Рік тому +5

    HE WAS A SCUMBAG!!
    Poor choice........she was used
    And he certainly didn't want children!!
    First sign of violence, run fast.

  • @Jan-qy5rk
    @Jan-qy5rk 9 місяців тому +3

    He loved the idea of a visa, period

  • @ASimon-ut2xe
    @ASimon-ut2xe Рік тому +7

    This is going to cause a lot of comments, but why do girls marry these jerks from completely different cultures. It nearly always ends in tears, or the kids being snatched.😢

  • @niominati
    @niominati Рік тому +10

    Wow that wedding picture is so telling the way he’s turned away from her ‼️🫨. Rip😢

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому

      Irrational nonsense.

    • @niominati
      @niominati Рік тому +4

      @@eadweard. it’s called subconscious body language

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Рік тому

      @@niominati The entire concept is pseudo-scientific drivel.

    • @SerenDipity64711
      @SerenDipity64711 Рік тому +2

      he even blamed her for him having to do his National Service!!!!

    • @niominati
      @niominati Рік тому +1

      @@SerenDipity64711 ya that’s crazy like dude you just got a green card and a opportunity for a better life and this is what you do! Sick. Atleast his dumb ass did it in the uk so he will actually serve time.

  • @sidstovell2177
    @sidstovell2177 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for the superb work. But I have listened to too many of these stories. Those of us who have never been in that kind of relationship, will never understand these poor women.
    I feel for the children.

  • @micheleshively8557
    @micheleshively8557 Рік тому +5

    Narcissistic monster. Too many in this world! Hope the kids are doing well and getting everything they need

  • @CandiceVidito
    @CandiceVidito Рік тому +5

    Enzar Gol deserves to rot in prison! RIP Michala & Julie

  • @thecorvus100
    @thecorvus100 Рік тому +4

    Woman starts dating a middle eastern man who suddenly becomes controlling and abusive. Wow. Never heard this one before. 🙄

  • @borgstef
    @borgstef Рік тому +6

    she had multiple chances to get rid of him....

  • @AlanFleming7499
    @AlanFleming7499 Рік тому +5

    The amount of times I have heard stories about men like this despicable man who are totally controlling and abusive to a woman is very depressing. As a man in his 40s who finds it difficult to attract women but would love to have a woman in his life and if he did would feel so lucky and would do anything to try and make her happy I find it so hard to watch these kind of cases.

  • @yolandascholten2012
    @yolandascholten2012 5 місяців тому +1

    He lived in Turkey! This was one abuser you could have escaped by simply getting on a plane and leaving. Why did she continue to go back for more. Extremely sad and heartbreaking.

  • @Plainejan
    @Plainejan Рік тому +5

    "The Best Predictor of Future Behavior Is … Past Behavior" once is enough leave.... no more giving chances

  • @kberry
    @kberry Рік тому +16

    I mean... normally women try to get away from abusers and its difficult but in this case your abuser is trying to get away from you and you're begging him to stay?

    • @roscojayco5527
      @roscojayco5527 Рік тому +1

      She was just as toxic, both of them were sick individuals who found each other.

  • @mikehat7652
    @mikehat7652 Рік тому +8

    Average Turkish man dating experience

  • @tanyachristensen5330
    @tanyachristensen5330 Рік тому +3

    So frustratingly heartbreaking.