I stopped giving my power to people and started be responsable for myself, my feelings, Stability, my mental health. Most people disappear from my life.
This is great! I'm not sure if this is your experience, but after retaining my energy and taking responsibility for self, I realized how I was propping everyone else up and getting no where, feeling drained and angry. Feeling freer, lighter, and moving forward, now!
@spiral cósmica Same. Maybe you are dissatisfied with the few social contacts. I am sometimes, but mostly I'm very happy und satisfied. I also made new, valuable contacts. My life is much better than before. 🍀
Completely true, but we, at least I, often forget when dealing with a family bully. Fortunately thanks to the videos of this channel I'm solving my family situation
I agree, we need to learn to take responsibility for ourself 😊 but the journey has been a lifelong task for me. As a child and young woman I had no role models around me so i really did not know what it ment when someone talked about beginning to take responsibility for myself. So i had to look for role models and start transforming all the kaos of feelings within me. What i had learned i had to unlearn and people who knew what it ment had to teatch me as an adult how to begin taking responsibility for myself 😊 allthough i have had a life with a lot of struggles i am at age 53 in a place in my life where i feel almost at peace with myself and my relationchips (the few i have today 😉)and for me that is huge and i am greatfull for the effort i have put into this task in my everyday life througout my 53 years of life ❤️ thank you for sharing your reflections on life, they help me maintain focus on my journey ❤️
I was going to reply to his message but when I read yours you said everything I needed to say. I thank you I am with you Namaste. I am wee bit older... turning 69 this month! And I feel great about it! our paths have been similar
I think most of us need to re-parent ourselves. We need to take control of our lives. Yes, we were unloved, unwanted, neglected, invalidated, ect. They might have even been abusive situations but taking responsibility means we acknowledge what happened (the other person's part in our hurt) to us but it also means we have the power to nurture ourselves, heal our own wounds, we simply have power to take back our power.
Years ago I would constantly phone Helplines because I was trapped in a victim mindset. I wish someone had said this to me back then. Maybe I would have taken the power back from those that didn't care
So very true. I have begun to realize the power within myself. We cannot change the behavior of others, and we owe them nothing at all. Well said, Nada. I know this video is old, however, I find the content in your advice very helpful. I recognize your respect for helping us reach our highest potential and maturity. Also, I love the way you dress. It expresses your uniqueness in a most fashionable manner. Thank you.
moved to Ecuador to live with lower cost of living, considerate and thankful people. People have less materialism but also more happy and real. im not saying its perfect, but ive been here 10 years now, and I have no plans on ever moving back. I fully took responsibility when I realized there was such a long list of things I didnt like about the US.
Great content, man! "When you change the way you see things, the things you see change!" I'm not certain who said that, but I think it's very relevant to what you are saying.
So very well put, again. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful gifts of wisdom, insight, clarity and the ability to communicate with such simplicity and lucidity. I have been tired of going round in circles for years upon years. This has really served to clear the way through some of the ridiculous blockages my mind tends to create. Many thanks again. May your hopeful messages spread far and wide!
Simple way to change your life starting TODAY..... Be brutally honest with yourself at ALL times. No exceptions! Live your life based on YOUR truth. Easier said than done... It's a process and must be willing to take full ownership for yourself! You will not grow based on lies and lying to yourself. Continued effort and diligence in honoring ALL of your truths and accepting yourself over time will bring you to your full power!
Love this message...I've had to learn to recognize when I was acting or feeling the victim....what a wonderful sense of empowerment I've discovered when I realize and learned and practiced my own ability to conjure my own life. Not saying it's perfect, but vastly improved. Thanks so much for sharing.
Another amazingly delivered message. This is the truth i realised this past week. Now im embracing it and choosing to live it. I may slip at times, but i know it now. Thank you thank you thank you! You are my guru man to go to, except ypur teachings come to me.💓
This is such a great channel, every time i see your videos i find such a peace in me, i'e trying to put in work this thoughts and i find them very usefull. Sometimes it's hard to understand this world and become peaceful about it, but you really help sir. Thanks.
I am most grateful to have a roof over my head ,heat ,water and a warm bed to sleep in . I do not hate me nor my life .I am learning to not put myself in the position of being victimized but you would be surprised at how many people who have put me in this position . so i have wised up and people do not like this change .People will steal from you while you watch them do it then shrug their shoulders at you knowing if you even try to take your things back you could go to jail . Some claim I have trust issues I say i have learned who not to even let in my house because of their behavior .The person who ripped me off more than once also told me I had trust issues .
I think the power to change my life are simple things like reading, talking with others that disagree with me, writing, gardening, watching the full moon cross the range (REO speedwagon), exercising, cooking, shopping for good food. It doesn't include tweeting, posting videos of me on UA-cam, snapchat (I'm actually not sure what that is and don't care). You know, real-life stuff that involves real-life stuff.
So if we pay attention to every situation stay involved but not so much lead then we are bound to cone out alright or even better in every single situation. To do this requires being alert from the time you wake from slumbers til time to create slumbers
This is interesting. I try to make things happen by breaking them down and putting small tasks in my schedule daily. I am also working on boundaries. I do feel very alone as I cut out social media plus most groups I was in. I'm happiest around activists or alone. I don't like to socialise unless there is a reason for it like a goal. I feel like most people think I'm a weirdo but I care less than I did yesterday.
Greetings! Thank you for good insight. Everything you say is rigth. However, the victims, or "victims" feel powerless. That is how their victim mentality deveoped, whuch led to attracting more situations that would confirm that powerlessness. Can you connect the sense of power and the victimhood mentality? That might trigger something within those who often perceive themselves as victims. I, obviously, had such mentality and maybe still do sometimes. But it is a vicious spiraling circle. How can the "victims" start gatherng their power back? Simply saying that they can is often not enough. Thank you
First you have to be aware of any resistance towards a situation or person, because at that moment or even after that moment you may not realize you are victimizing yourself (that you are doing it to yourself). You may feel like a victim of the situation and doing the blame game (pointing towards others). So you will feel all kinds of emotions (pain, anger, hurt, sorrow etc). These emotions are an outlet of unresolved issues of the past from childhood. It's when you still can feel the emotion, like the next day and your mind keep having all kinds of negative thoughts, that's the right time to go inward, do introspection. You can do this by meditation or journaling. Ask yourself what the lesson of that situation is you need to learn, keep asking all kinds of questions whatever comes up. Don't try to steer it, don't try to come up with answers. Make sure that the questions you ask are about you and not the other person (not why is he so mean or something like that) and what you can or need to do, what was your contribution to the situation. You may start to feel very emotional and cry. Let the emotion come whatever it is, as it is ready to be released. Be willing to let the answers come to you. You will get so much insights and you will come to realize that you were responsible for that situation and why. Hope this will help you on your healing journey.
Stop doing things for people. You may be a nice person who always says yes when you really want to say no. A simple, “No I can’t do that at the moment as I am busy.” Be nice to yourself, and don’t feel guilty for saying no. If they feel it is ok to ask a favour, then you have to right to say no. Let them take the responsibility to do things for themselves.
Appreciate your channel for the practical examples of how to approach sticky aspects of life ...Would find it helpful to hear your approach to becoming overwhelmed by sadness for loved ones who take their own lives or become lost to addiction? I find the pain of others so much harder to let go of than personal pain...
.very insightful perspective. WHen it comes to people living together (husband and wife) do you think making these changes within rather than confronting the person about the issue at hand is the better way forward? Im interested to know what you think about that.. I confronted my partner today about not being 'there' emotionally (for a hug and support) after my son with autism had a meltdown.. I wonder if its better to learn to let him have his space before expecting him to feel ready to be supportive to me, but I also feel like its a normal emotional response to be emotionally available just to hug each other after difficult times .. whats your perspective on that? (:
I have a question are there any videos on this channel that you can come up with on how to deprogram yourself because I need those I have taken responsibility for myself but I have so much of an issue on how to deprogram myself can you help I would appreciate it greatly and thank you for your video this one especially I need help on figuring out how to deprogram my thoughts because I'm really I'm going to state of learned helplessness I guess and it's not easy when you don't have a support system or Network and having a disability has more to do with it than anything I'm resented by most people I'm dealing with right now and I have taken responsibility for that fact and I'm doing doing my best to work on how not to be resentful toward them because I know there are more individuals who are out there willing to help but I can't find them so I'm trying to be the change I want to see and I keep getting I hit roadblock after roadblock can you help I need to figure out how to deprogram myself
@@devlevine2782 no I haven't but I have found a couple of people who I can talk to about this kind of thing if you need to deprogram someone told me that you need to trust yourself your intuition in practice visualization and manifestation I have been doing that for almost 2 years now and it's getting better I'm getting better at it but I think deprogramming starts with changing your perception because deprogramming starts with being able to think for yourself to be free to speak for yourself and to just be yourself if you need any more on this subject get back with me I'm not on Facebook or anything I usually use UA-cam for commenting and replying to people thank you for the reply by the way sorry I'm being long winded but I'm a natural speaker I guess I will be looking around for videos I'll keep your reply to this comment in my bookmark if I can and then I will let you know if I hear anything else
Write a list of daily affirmations that you feel are true for you. I Am Worthy of Love, etc. Read/Meditate on them every morning. Change your thoughts, change your life.
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💙💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💙💚💚💚💙💙💚💚💙💙💙💚💚💙💙💚👵👱👼 I don't have a daddy are our grandmother I'm really scared of the dark and everything else the my friends don't like me but something was going to happen to him but I watched everybody just be happy and okay I'm really scared of dogs
I stopped giving my power to people and started be responsable for myself, my feelings, Stability, my mental health. Most people disappear from my life.
This is great! I'm not sure if this is your experience, but after retaining my energy and taking responsibility for self, I realized how I was propping everyone else up and getting no where, feeling drained and angry. Feeling freer, lighter, and moving forward, now!
@spiral cósmica
Same.
Maybe you are dissatisfied with the few social contacts.
I am sometimes, but mostly I'm very happy und satisfied. I also made new, valuable contacts.
My life is much better than before.
🍀
Same here. Those people leave because they can no longer take from you. But then there’s room for better people to come in.
New people star showing up.
I met an oracle woman last weekend in sedona it was amazing hiking at 2 a.m by the stars by devils bridge.
It was amazing.
I'm new to your videos and I mentioned one of them to my awesome 19 year old daughter and she said, "Oh I watch his videos all the time".
I smiled.
Really gives me hope for the next generation : )
I loved when you said, the only power others have over us is the power that we give them.
Eleanor Roosevelt is known for quoting that.
This comment made me realise something deep❤️
Such a great realization
OTHER people are your tiniest problem.
REMEMBER...wherever you go, your devil goes, too.
Completely true, but we, at least I, often forget when dealing with a family bully. Fortunately thanks to the videos of this channel I'm solving my family situation
Yes sir, thank you. I learned many yrs ago we must unlearn our behavior and learn a new one. It starts with how we think.
Please keep inspiring people with your magical and inspiring wisdom 🙏
I agree, we need to learn to take responsibility for ourself 😊 but the journey has been a lifelong task for me. As a child and young woman I had no role models around me so i really did not know what it ment when someone talked about beginning to take responsibility for myself. So i had to look for role models and start transforming all the kaos of feelings within me. What i had learned i had to unlearn and people who knew what it ment had to teatch me as an adult how to begin taking responsibility for myself 😊 allthough i have had a life with a lot of struggles i am at age 53 in a place in my life where i feel almost at peace with myself and my relationchips (the few i have today 😉)and for me that is huge and i am greatfull for the effort i have put into this task in my everyday life througout my 53 years of life ❤️ thank you for sharing your reflections on life, they help me maintain focus on my journey ❤️
I was going to reply to his message but when I read yours you said everything I needed to say. I thank you I am with you Namaste. I am wee bit older... turning 69 this month! And I feel great about it! our paths have been similar
I think most of us need to re-parent ourselves. We need to take control of our lives. Yes, we were unloved, unwanted, neglected, invalidated, ect. They might have even been abusive situations but taking responsibility means we acknowledge what happened (the other person's part in our hurt) to us but it also means we have the power to nurture ourselves, heal our own wounds, we simply have power to take back our power.
Exactly what i needed to hear today. Thank You brother! Much love
Wow! Thank you for this Powerful Message!
Years ago I would constantly phone Helplines because I was trapped in a victim mindset. I wish someone had said this to me back then. Maybe I would have taken the power back from those that didn't care
Amen! Shalom!
So very true. I have begun to realize the power within myself. We cannot change the behavior of others, and we owe them nothing at all.
Well said, Nada. I know this video is old, however, I find the content in your advice very helpful. I recognize your respect for helping us reach our highest potential and maturity.
Also, I love the way you dress. It expresses your uniqueness in a most fashionable manner. Thank you.
I really appreciate your content. Very useful information and I resonate with it 100%
Each word you speak is so powerful. I get it !! Thank you 😊
You are my new spiritual advisor
"We're that someone that we're waiting for." 🤯😳😥😮😁
So I was the person I was waiting for. Wow! That is such a breakthrough for me. And said so simply. I feel such joy flooding through me. Thank you.
"Difference between excuse and explanation" Yes!
I liked who I was and that is why I wanted my environment to change.
moved to Ecuador to live with lower cost of living, considerate and thankful people. People have less materialism but also more happy and real. im not saying its perfect, but ive been here 10 years now, and I have no plans on ever moving back. I fully took responsibility when I realized there was such a long list of things I didnt like about the US.
Every word you said hit home. Thank you 🙏
Great content, man! "When you change the way you see things, the things you see change!" I'm not certain who said that, but I think it's very relevant to what you are saying.
Wayne Dyer said it! 🥰😇😊❤
So very well put, again. Thank you so much for sharing your wonderful gifts of wisdom, insight, clarity and the ability to communicate with such simplicity and lucidity. I have been tired of going round in circles for years upon years. This has really served to clear the way through some of the ridiculous blockages my mind tends to create. Many thanks again. May your hopeful messages spread far and wide!
Blessings to you!
Everyone has the power to do everything.
Beliefs and fear are what hold people back mainly due to social conditioning and programming from the news
Simple way to change your life starting TODAY..... Be brutally honest with yourself at ALL times. No exceptions! Live your life based on YOUR truth. Easier said than done... It's a process and must be willing to take full ownership for yourself! You will not grow based on lies and lying to yourself. Continued effort and diligence in honoring ALL of your truths and accepting yourself over time will bring you to your full power!
Love this message...I've had to learn to recognize when I was acting or feeling the victim....what a wonderful sense of empowerment I've discovered when I realize and learned and practiced my own ability to conjure my own life. Not saying it's perfect, but vastly improved. Thanks so much for sharing.
This is exactly what I wanted to hear. Thanks Nada.
Another amazingly delivered message. This is the truth i realised this past week. Now im embracing it and choosing to live it. I may slip at times, but i know it now.
Thank you thank you thank you! You are my guru man to go to, except ypur teachings come to me.💓
Be the change you wish to see in your life!
Thank you my brotha.
Very important to learn in life
Amen 🙌
Thank you !
This is such a great channel, every time i see your videos i find such a peace in me, i'e trying to put in work this thoughts and i find them very usefull. Sometimes it's hard to understand this world and become peaceful about it, but you really help sir. Thanks.
Yes love the video to
🤯BUSTED!!! Yes that is absolutely it! Thank you
I'm getting there, but thanks for explaining in a way I understand.
I'm going through a very transformative journey right now in my life and your videos are so helpful and thought provoking. :)
Called me out, thanks I needed that 🤣💯👐
Thank you
i agree wholeheartedly!
I am most grateful to have a roof over my head ,heat ,water and a warm bed to sleep in . I do not hate me nor my life .I am learning to not put myself in the position of being victimized but you would be surprised at how many people who have put me in this position . so i have wised up and people do not like this change .People will steal from you while you watch them do it then shrug their shoulders at you knowing if you even try to take your things back you could go to jail . Some claim I have trust issues I say i have learned who not to even let in my house because of their behavior .The person who ripped me off more than once also told me I had trust issues .
Amen!
👍🙏✌️
Thank you' spot on .love and light to you.
Like ur talks great
I need to wait
Thank u so much to
Thanks brother.
I think the power to change my life are simple things like reading, talking with others that disagree with me, writing, gardening, watching the full moon cross the range (REO speedwagon), exercising, cooking, shopping for good food. It doesn't include tweeting, posting videos of me on UA-cam, snapchat (I'm actually not sure what that is and don't care). You know, real-life stuff that involves real-life stuff.
Love your channel!!
Thanks
I love my mom to
Thank you.
Gracias!! Greetings from Mexico! Namaste :)
Beautiful, thank you so much ❤️
Thank you .torally understand what your saying .
So if we pay attention to every situation stay involved but not so much lead then we are bound to cone out alright or even better in every single situation. To do this requires being alert from the time you wake from slumbers til time to create slumbers
Thank you!!!
This is interesting. I try to make things happen by breaking them down and putting small tasks in my schedule daily. I am also working on boundaries. I do feel very alone as I cut out social media plus most groups I was in. I'm happiest around activists or alone. I don't like to socialise unless there is a reason for it like a goal. I feel like most people think I'm a weirdo but I care less than I did yesterday.
Greetings! Thank you for good insight. Everything you say is rigth. However, the victims, or "victims" feel powerless. That is how their victim mentality deveoped, whuch led to attracting more situations that would confirm that powerlessness. Can you connect the sense of power and the victimhood mentality? That might trigger something within those who often perceive themselves as victims. I, obviously, had such mentality and maybe still do sometimes. But it is a vicious spiraling circle. How can the "victims" start gatherng their power back? Simply saying that they can is often not enough. Thank you
First you have to be aware of any resistance towards a situation or person, because at that moment or even after that moment you may not realize you are victimizing yourself (that you are doing it to yourself). You may feel like a victim of the situation and doing the blame game (pointing towards others). So you will feel all kinds of emotions (pain, anger, hurt, sorrow etc). These emotions are an outlet of unresolved issues of the past from childhood.
It's when you still can feel the emotion, like the next day and your mind keep having all kinds of negative thoughts, that's the right time to go inward, do introspection. You can do this by meditation or journaling. Ask yourself what the lesson of that situation is you need to learn, keep asking all kinds of questions whatever comes up. Don't try to steer it, don't try to come up with answers. Make sure that the questions you ask are about you and not the other person (not why is he so mean or something like that) and what you can or need to do, what was your contribution to the situation. You may start to feel very emotional and cry. Let the emotion come whatever it is, as it is ready to be released. Be willing to let the answers come to you. You will get so much insights and you will come to realize that you were responsible for that situation and why. Hope this will help you on your healing journey.
Stop doing things for people. You may be a nice person who always says yes when you really want to say no. A simple, “No I can’t do that at the moment as I am busy.” Be nice to yourself, and don’t feel guilty for saying no. If they feel it is ok to ask a favour, then you have to right to say no. Let them take the responsibility to do things for themselves.
I don't want to wait forever...
🙏🙏🙏❤️
Omg!!!!!! This was such a very very good video!!! This will help me a lot !!Thank you❤️❤️❤️
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Brother , can you make longer vlogs ? What you have to tell , i could listen for hours . Bless you and stay strong .
Appreciate your channel for the practical examples of how to approach sticky aspects of life ...Would find it helpful to hear your approach to becoming overwhelmed by sadness for loved ones who take their own lives or become lost to addiction? I find the pain of others so much harder to let go of than personal pain...
Naturally dissolved, when we stop being addicted to emotional swinging
What is the best way to approach changing oneself? Should I list all things I would like to change about myself and pick one? Or something else?
Hello dear worry no more because Dr olworo have the answers to all your problems
Thank u for weakening me up to ok
You’re so chill. Can we be friends?
How could I tell you thank you again, Gracias.
.very insightful perspective. WHen it comes to people living together (husband and wife) do you think making these changes within rather than confronting the person about the issue at hand is the better way forward? Im interested to know what you think about that.. I confronted my partner today about not being 'there' emotionally (for a hug and support) after my son with autism had a meltdown.. I wonder if its better to learn to let him have his space before expecting him to feel ready to be supportive to me, but I also feel like its a normal emotional response to be emotionally available just to hug each other after difficult times .. whats your perspective on that? (:
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Explain ....?
I'm sorry about everything ok love this video to ok love my bothers to ok
I have a question are there any videos on this channel that you can come up with on how to deprogram yourself because I need those I have taken responsibility for myself but I have so much of an issue on how to deprogram myself can you help I would appreciate it greatly and thank you for your video this one especially I need help on figuring out how to deprogram my thoughts because I'm really I'm going to state of learned helplessness I guess and it's not easy when you don't have a support system or Network and having a disability has more to do with it than anything I'm resented by most people I'm dealing with right now and I have taken responsibility for that fact and I'm doing doing my best to work on how not to be resentful toward them because I know there are more individuals who are out there willing to help but I can't find them so I'm trying to be the change I want to see and I keep getting I hit roadblock after roadblock can you help I need to figure out how to deprogram myself
Thats exactly what I'm looking for also have you had any luck in finding any?
@@devlevine2782 no I haven't but I have found a couple of people who I can talk to about this kind of thing if you need to deprogram someone told me that you need to trust yourself your intuition in practice visualization and manifestation I have been doing that for almost 2 years now and it's getting better I'm getting better at it but I think deprogramming starts with changing your perception because deprogramming starts with being able to think for yourself to be free to speak for yourself and to just be yourself if you need any more on this subject get back with me I'm not on Facebook or anything I usually use UA-cam for commenting and replying to people thank you for the reply by the way sorry I'm being long winded but I'm a natural speaker I guess I will be looking around for videos I'll keep your reply to this comment in my bookmark if I can and then I will let you know if I hear anything else
Write a list of daily affirmations that you feel are true for you. I Am Worthy of Love, etc. Read/Meditate on them every morning. Change your thoughts, change your life.
🙏🙌🤲☮❤☀️🔮💫
💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💙💙💙💙💙💚💚💙💙💙💙💚💚💙💚💚💚💙💙💚💚💙💙💙💚💚💙💙💚👵👱👼 I don't have a daddy are our grandmother I'm really scared of the dark and everything else the my friends don't like me but something was going to happen to him but I watched everybody just be happy and okay I'm really scared of dogs
Like a job at the bank.
The problem is their is two much English around the world, so why should we change.
Actually, I'm more keen in asking whoever or whatever that is, who or that brought me into Life ; this world this pethatic Human Race.
Thank you