DEBATE: Are Some Women TOO Far Gone?
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Today, we're discussing whether women in this industry can redeem themselves and turn their lives around for the better. Let's get into it.
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The nice thing about Salvation is that it doesn't require approval from the Internet.
Very true. Salvation is for the Lord Christ to hand out to whom he wants and to whom seek him.
But is that what they want. You can see clearly people who had wrong doings going into christianity to seek public approval.
It does require you actually mean it, and this isn't just publicity stunt. Only time will tell if she's genuine.
@joanarc7963 How can you not question if she's genuine or not, it's not beyond her to fake this for publicity.
Only time will tell if she's genuine.
Love this take
I'm a pastor, when someone says they're too far gone to be a Christian, I ask them "how many Christians have you killed?".
When they respond with surprise, I teach them about the Apostle Paul who wrote the majority of the New Testament and before he was a Christian he was torturing and murdering the early Christians.
And not only that, but the Apostles were skeptical of Paul's conversion but he had a brother go on his behalf with him to the disciples and then they welcomed him. Believers should be skeptical of people who say they converted but that doesn't mean you don't work to disciple them and allow God to work in them to change their hearts and lifestyle.
Literally John 8:3-12 KJV
Or John 7:53 and onward depending on what version you have
Very true; also Paul’s story into becoming a Christian is one of the best!
Manassah also burnt his sons alive for a sacrifice to other gods and shed innocent blood everywhere. God forgave him and blessed him with being the longest reigning king in Jerusalem
What if they respond with a nonzero number? Not an edgy atheist here, genuinely curious.
This is UNDEBATABLE! No human is too far gone for the Mercy of Jesus Christ. Let’s get that straight!
Neo Christianity has become an absolute joke. You soft men are the reason we’ve reached this point. A murder is still murder
Jesus can have them if he wants but that's gonna be a hard pass from any self respecting man.
She can redeem herself but she can`t take back the million images of her on the internet
Maybe Hitler is to far gone
Yes in Jesus they are, but His blood cant keep her from the consequences of her actions, she had the free will to do so but God cant exactly strip her from all consequences. Its good in a way cause it'll make her faith stronger. Anywho God can do the impossible so its up to Him.
I pray she stay strong against these horrible and discouraging comments online. Praise God that she has made a change and I hope He keeps her strong on the journey!!
I’m a homemaker, wife, mother of 2 (soon to be three) and was a virgin until I met my husband. I knew a SAHM in my old neighborhood who would connected with a lot of- we both baked bread and loved being wives and mothers and believe in traditional, conservative values… and she admitted that between 18 and 21, she made porn. She got pregnant with her oldest at 21 and it changed her life. She changed her whole life, found Christ, finished college, became a teen crisis counselor, married the pastors nephew, and is now in her mid 30s, SAHM, happily married, five kids, house in the burbs, and is every inch a traditional, beautiful woman full of dignity and love. She is my proof that anyone can come back.
love this, & love that for her, glory to God
Man, i am happy for you and your husband, and i hope you guys have a fruitfull and happy life together. You sound like the type of person i would love being friends with - and i bet your husband is a great guy too!
However, i myself could never take a women like your friend seriously for a relationship, and i kinda feel sorry for her husband.
If i found out my wife did porn, i would feel like i was her " safe bet ", like she settled for me as a man, since in the case of your friend, she was, i imagine, a single mom who did porn when she met the " Pastors Nephew ". Also, given that she did that, i imagine she must be really pretty, so that would contribute to this view. Unless of course the first child of hers was with the pastor's nephew, but that was not what i understood. But them again, english is not my first language, so i might have made a mistake there.
But even so.
Imagine if her kid's friends find her stuff online? What will that make for their childhood?
They would be endlessly mocked for having a hoe mom, and would destroy their school years.
Or even her husbands friends. Imagine finding out his friends found her videos/pics and now jerk off to her. What would that cause?
To me it just sounds too complicated.
I just hopes nobody finds out, and that she appreciates that guy everyday, because that is a lot to accept for any man.
Womens never changed 304 always a 304 because She never changed she just saw the consequences of her own action on her baby that's why she just hope in or looking for a nice and positive person so he cleaned her mess 😢😢😢😢
she literally did porn and is now a sahm? thats absolutely disgusting
Yes. And her kids will fell in love in stories about her hoe past. 😂😂😂 She should tell them maybe on Thanksgiving dinner. 😂
Rahab, Mary Magdalene, the adulteress woman, Paul, the thief on the cross, the man with the legion of demons. this is just a few.
You dont have to marry them but dont act like God cant change them.
God can for sure change anyone. However Jesus says in Matthew 5:31 that if you marry a divorced woman it’s still adultery. Interpret that how you will but often the sacrifice of promiscuity and broken relationships is once they come to God he may no longer have intimate love in his plans for that woman but instead service too his church.
God commanded Hosea to marry a prostitute and stay with her when she was unfaithful. He determines who is to be married, not us.
Also, there are many instances even tdy like personal testimonies of God making ppl new (both men and women) and they still get married and are fine. So again, its up to God. Not us. we are not god. Ppl needa stop acting like it.
And people seem to be forgetting that it's all by the grace of God. Grace is defined as an unmerrited favor. Sure, by our standards, this woman is stained by her past and will have to shoulder that burden the rest of her life every time a well-meaning man (graciously and humbly i hope) rejects her. but if there is a man who wants to marry to her in spite of her past, it's because of God's grace on her life that he allowed her to become a wife. and it's on her to honor that grace by never going back to her sinful life of sex work.
Mary Magdalene is NOT the adulterous woman. At some point, calling women who were not prostitutes harams is just offensive.
Make mothers great again
The girl in the thumbnail on the right is now apparently a born-again Christian according to Benny Johnson 😊
Make Mothers Great Again!
Encourage women to be mothers, again.
We can only hope. 😅
@@devynselnes4282No such thing. Once a sloor, always a sloor
I know a druggie jailbird that found Christ in prison and completely changed his life. He spent and continues to spend the decades of his life as an awesome Christian man I would say it took 10 years, but his reputation for honesty and hard work became well-known and is still well known throughout our entiretown and County as well. It really depends on how hard are you gonna work to repair that reputation
Yeah, but he is a man. He hasn't destroyed his ability to pair-bond or be grateful, happy, satisfied, etc.
@@b.calvinsaul1909 You've fallen for some tragic myths. If you think men can't have their ability to pair bond affected by sex and depravity, you are clueless about the millions of men that are addicted to porn. They either can't get out of the house to even start a relationship, or they ruin the marriage they are already in. Then there's all the men that sleep around and can't settle w/ one woman. Don't fool yourself w/ useless stats and slogans that people say. The reality is in people's lives. it's not different or less than because it's a man. If you'd listened to her testimony, you'd know that she was numb before and nothing satisfied her. Now she is full of feelings, both good and bad and so grateful just to be feeling again.
@@b.calvinsaul1909 These don't apply to man? What are you saying?
@@b.calvinsaul1909Her ability to pair bond will affect her love life. But that has nothing to do with whether she has truly repented and has been saved by Jesus.
This actually reminds me of that story about people throwing stones at a prostitute in the Bible.
For real
that was a woman that was caught IN THE VERY ACT of adultery and yet Christ/God forgave her
@@DJLegends , this is true that Jesus forgave her. He also told her to stop sinning. You can tell who has really repented by their fruit, do they now follow Jesus or is it just lip service. Of note Jesus did not tell her to go find a husband, just to stop sinning.
@@DJLegends Yeah, Jesus protected her from her well-earned punishment, and told her to "sin no more".
Do you think that a woman that avoids consequences will ever learn to do better?
Was her act of adultery undone? Did she suddenly become a loyal and doting wife? Of course not.
@@b.calvinsaul1909 it depends since he said judge a person by the fruit they bear...
My take. Neither elevate them and believe everything nor try to put them down. let their new actions speak across time.
Up until she gets her rebellious phase again and blah blah blah as she rakes you through divorce court. That is the point pearl talks about. until laws change to make departing over "im just not happy" to not equal take all his sh*t on the way out.
Exactly.
Exactly right also the people judging her for"being and OF girl"clearly never knew of Mary Madelene a prostitute who became one Christ biggest followers
100% agree. If they really want to change we shouldn't put down their effort when WE are the one's that tell them they were doing wrong, but we also can't just take them at their word.
Smart take.
Last time I checked, christianity is the one religion most forgiving of sinners. It is 100% possible she is a true christian, St Agustin was also a hardcore sinner who became a saint. If she wants to change she really can, that's almost at the core of christianity
Agreed. But another youtuber confirmed her OF is still up. Redemption in Christ requires repentance as in sinning no more as Christ said
They aren't arguing she can't be redeemed to God, they are arguing that even if saved theologically, she's not entitled to a husband. The stain is still here, the flesh is tainted.
@@swagraptor5477 That’s a really evil perspective to have about other people.
Imagine a world without forgiveness.
Scary place...
This is absolutely true. Redemption through Christ is a beautiful thing. That being said, men not wanting to be with a woman who has done those things is perfectly understandable
Forgiving and forgetting are two different things. Once it's online, it's forever.
Christ doesn't care about online. Many people online are more discuting, if someone don't accept it, let it go, there plans of human on heart with good heart to find
The good thing about finding Christ, is that you don’t need the forgiveness of strangers online to be saved and forgiven. Just His forgiveness.
The damage is done. No men should take he seriously.
Everyone is redeemable. The only caveat is, redemption requires repentance. True repentance means that we've changed our ways and the old self dies. I sincerely hope that the OF girl is truly born again and her message is a powerful one that has the potential to bring thousands or millions of people to Christ. That is an incredible thing.
When we say the “old self died and we are born again” is one of the most misunderstood verses but it’s okay cause I get what you are saying. But just to clear out when it says we are born again it means that our state spiritually has now raised from death cause when we sins we died but when we accept Christ we are now alive again.
Ohhh, she is love and now she find God. Of course not, she is just mimicing everything she hear from her boyfriend. If you listen the things the told in whatever podcast , you wouldn't believe in the things she is talking now.
@@scluciano I did listened to that podcast way before she accepted it god. However, it don’t matter weather I believe her or not, I don’t know her but God does. She will have judge by him
@@melvinvasquezbonifacio6313 That's not in case, the case is She is wife material for you?
@@scluciano you want to still condemn her and you’ve shown that in multiple comments. Only God has the authority to damn and condemn people. God instructs to show forgiveness and kindness to ALL, let alone someone who’s recently come to salvation. She’s not looking for the approval of men or saying she’s looking for a husband, she’s just sharing her newfound joy of becoming a Christian. Sharing our testimony publicly, evangelizing and informing others who aren’t saved like her is a part of a Christian’s duties. She already has a large following, she might as well use it to spread the word of The Lord and that everyone has the same opportunity to come to Christ, just as she has. Whether she sticks to it is between her and The Lord. Until then, a Christian’s duty is to pray and wish for a person to stay in the path of God, not judge and condemn. Doing what you’re doing is going against Jesus’ teachings
A thief can stop being a thief, that doesn't mean anyone has to trust and accept them in your home, a drunk driver who crashed multiple vehicles can be sober for 10 years arguably changed, doesn't mean they are entitled to borrow your vehicle. All spiritual and religious overtones aside. People are more than justified to do risk mitigation with who they choose to associate with.
Thats what I thought. Good for her and for women like her, all the born again virgins. They made a good choice to better their lives and become closer to God. That doesnt erase their past, and it doesnt mean I will marry one of them. I dont judge them but I dont have to accept any of them in my life
Spot on. I say it this way; Jesus forgives, it doesn’t mean I have to forget.
@@mudza92 I think what's important is that we really do encourage them. Not with some caveat, but strait up encourage both men and women who are making legitimate changes. If they're not asking to date they don't need to know who would refuse. I think some people really want to tell them that they've messed up and couldn't be dated, and I think that's a little bit about the person saying it being angry, but of course, there are plenty of consequences that don't go away just because behavior changes and I don't think anyone should dictate who someone else should be attracted to.
@@ZIbroweedoh for sure, I do genuinely encourage them because they did make a good choice to change their life and thats deserving of encouragement. I would also never tell directly to someone that I dont wanna date her because of her past, especially not in person. This is just my general opinion about the topic, no need to tell someone that in their face. either way I dont like to make people feel bad about themselves if theyre trying to do good thing.
God says, "Also always guard your heart." No where does it say "forgive and forget". Forgive. Yes, but not forget. You don't hold their sins over them, but you recognize that they are prone to fail again...just like you are. The Lord's prayer makes it painfully clear. We give God our wholehearted approval when we say "forgive us our sins as we forgive others their sins." Just the same. So if you judge others for their sins then you give God the wholehearted approval to judge you just the same.
Doing OF or Adult Work is a bit like a criminal record. You can move on from it and change into a better person. However it will hang over you forever and often screw you over at the worst possible time. Like applying for a job.
It's unlikely you'll know.
Yep. And because most of them get into the porn world as young adults (early 20s), they often regret it later in life. Sadly, at that point, they have decades and decades of work in the porn industry that is permanently on the internet. It's a terrible thing that's happening to them. They didn't realize they were putting themselves into a cage when they started making pornography until *way* later in life. Young people make mistakes and I can't fault them for that, but I agree that getting into that line of work is (a) a conscious decision and (b) should not be forgotten easily. "The best predictor of future preformance is past preformance." Words are cheap, actions speak for themselves.
This is a reasonable view point. I used to tell my high school students that they needed to make the decisions in consideration of whether it would limit their future opportunities. I have tattoos. I purposely got them in places that I could choose whether or not they would be visible. They are also not gory, offensive or extreme, and have meaning to me, being of my own design. There are men who do not like women with tattoos, which I had to recognize going in to get them.
I seen a hardened serial killer say he went to Christ got let out and you guessed it killed two more people
Asking a man to look past a woman's past as a former p*rn star is the equivalent of asking a woman to look past a man being a registered s*x offender.
I like that you are able to have nuanced opinions on things! I think a big problem with the whole “once a bop always a bop” line of logic is that it discourages change. Isn’t it obvious that if someone feels like it doesn’t matter if they want to be better from now on, they’ll always be seen as who they were before, why bother?
@@Linksballs do you have a limit to that?
But if there's no line then why stop? That's the problem with forgiveness if it's unyielding. The so called "sinners" have no reason to feel regret or remorse so they'll either continue or just exploit compassion. There has to be a line. At least the line you illustrated in your comment absolves me of a burden I know I don't want.
@@nicholascoob1350 If there is a line that one can cross and be considered unworthy of redemption then why ever even consider changing? Just double down. So many people are full of guilt that they cover up by doubling down in their sin because they believe they're "too far gone". I never want anyone to feel like that, and Jesus definitely doesnt.
@@JohnAnderson-ev3lp why would i have a limit when God doesn't? Anyone can be forgiven. Even murderers who change their lives and repent and truly mean it in their heart. If murderers can repent and turn to Jesus then I'm pretty sure an onlyfans chick is not too far gone for God's love. I do think this particular girl is probably just clout chasing and something about her vibe doesnt feel genuine to me but no way to know for sure, and certainly doesn't say anything about others who may be in her position and want to change their lives while not platforming it
until i see you being married to a porn star or onlyfans girl. i dont think you saying all that stuff matters. coz for sure, you yourself wont take her.
As a Christian, No one is beyond forgiveness as long as that person is Sincerely repenting. God used people with flaws to show his Greatness. If you can't Forgive a person for their past You shouldn't be Forgiven for Your past Mistakes either! Everyone has been Misled in their life it's nothing new. Treat others how you'd like to be Treated.
Wrong. Not wanting to commit to a 304 isn't lack of forgiveness, it's understanding female nature and moving accordingly
Stop with that bullshit…. She found god after she made MILLIONS and realized no man will want to be with her.
Yeah there is a difference between going to church with someone and sharing a bed and a life with them. Considering someone’s past while making decisions about intimate relationships is not a lack of forgiveness if anything it’s Godly discernment.
theres a big difference between being forgiven by some god which no one can prove and men actually accepting her past as being not a problem now because shes "changed", any man who chooses her would be an idiot.
@@richardy2071but she doesn’t need your forgiveness lol. She is seeking forgiveness from Christ. No one is asking you to marry these women. Chill out
I once had a friend who was caught up in that s** work world, until she found Christ. I was in awe of the person she told me who she was versus what I know of her at that point. Christ can redeem, no matter what!
Your sky wizard isn’t real
@@Colton-wz5sh ok Napoleon you can leave
@@redhawkmillenium napoleon? That makes no sense. MAKE me bitch
SIMPPPPPP!!!!!!
When someone tells you something, don’t disbelieve them, but don’t believe them either. Live and let live.
No-one, absolutely no-one, is too far gone to be saved by Christ. Us, as Christians, should celebrate that she chose Jesus above the world. The Bible states that heaven rejoices everytime a sinner gets saved. We should rejoice too!
It's not about being her soul being saved, it's about her expecting to be rescued from her bad decisions just because she found Christ. Lots of women come to the church but their past is still there, the bad choices they made are still there, and they keep expecting that will wipe away everything. We can forgive them, it doesn't mean we have to just forget.
@@WarlordShogun I thought it was about us not believing a word she said. Didn't she say she was saved and forgiven? Not that she'll never repercussions for her past choices.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
John 8:1-11 🙏
Great they found Christ and that is amazing! But doesn't change the fact that men just all the sudden need to accept her bad decisions of her past. This is common sense in dating that how a person is and their past matters on both sexes.
Amen. I am so happy for this woman!
True conviction in one's personal faith transcends the need for public validation. Those who hold genuine beliefs often prefer to quietly live out their faith, without the need to broadcast it to the world.
"This son of mine was dead, but has now come back to life. He was lost and has now been found."
Amen!
And just to clarify...redemption shouldn't JUST be possible, it should make us dance with joy. To see a soul come out of the darkness is one of the most glorious things to get to witness. I'm a sinner too, and I don't DESERVE forgiveness, but I am forgiven even though I sin again and again...she is forgiven too. I hope with all my heart she's being honest.
Jesus would've taken down the porn site before engaging in a baptism.
@@kylemcfarlan She didn't even take her porn site down
We are all the prodigal children of God, and we will be found, and The Lord our God will can to me I have forgiven you my little Children. That will be a site to hear and see that The Lord our God is a forgiving God.
I think there’s some confusion between religious salvation & getting a clean slate for relationships; As a Christian I rejoice in your conversion & pray for your continued path of holiness, but as a young man looking for a spouse I am under no obligation to view you with the same value as I would a woman who hadn’t done what you have. You are my sister in Christ, but you will never be my wife.
This is spot on.
Yeah I don’t know why this is so hard for people to understand.
@@PhoenixRiseinFlame I think they’re confused on what we’re talking about. They’re not understanding we’re talking about being with one of these women in a relationship and think the conversation is they can’t be saved.
This is one of, if not, the most reasonable take I've seen about this topic. "You are my sister in Christ, but you will never be my wife" is such a powerful, concise statement, and I don't see how this can be controversial to reasonable people.
There is a person for everyone, and maybe she'll find the man for her that is okay with her past and the things she's said (whether or not they are actually true). But no man HAS to be that person for her. No one is entitled to a relationship, and the more people pretend that the actions they take don't or shouldn't have an effect on how others see and value them, the more they will ruin potential relationships with others.
Bingo! This is the only answer. And actually the Bible dictates it; adulterers are not to be married or taken seriously (or depending on the time period may have worse fates!)
As a male I can tell you firsthand that MOST men aren't going to want to date a woman who's been ran through no matter HOW much self-work she does. Can you change as a person? Sure! But that doesn't erase the fact that it still happened.
I agree with you but the reality disappoints me
Where’s the room for mercy? Everyone can repent
The girl on the right and the thumbnail is apparently a born again Christian according to Benny Johnson 😊
True, but you'd have to know she's run through. Adults don't have the body count discussion, children do.
@@mr.frank-porton2770 Mercy isn't an antibiotic.
Brett's hair is not allowing me to focus lol. That left side be wildin'!!!!
I am a former porn star who was groomed into it by my modeling agent but I do still take complete responsibility for my time in porn. But my past does not define the person I am today. I am a wife, a mother of two beautiful children and daughter of Christ who has forgiven my sins when He saved me from that dark industry. It’s very sad to hear ppl talk about how a woman’s reputation or life is ruined even if they get out of the industry and, quite honestly, says more about that person than the ex porn star. I see myself as a better mother because I know how predators work and I’m more aware of the love my daughter needs so she’ll never go searching for it from the wrong people. I am a better wife because I am with a wonderful confident man who was able to see past the scars of a previous life and focus on the women who rosed out of the ashes, redeemed from grace. God brings good out of the darkest situations. Redemption is accessible to anyone. ❤
"It says a lot about people than ex corn stars" How would you feel if your children watched your content? that's the reason why people, men see that women like you are too much if a risk.
"I am with a CONFIDENT wonderful husband who accepts my p0orn0s videos" so would he be CONFIDENT, WONDERFUL if he doesn't accept your p0orn0s past?
THIS IS EXACTLY THE REASON MEN TALK SMACK ABOUT WOMEN LIKE, You put all these labels on men "Men are real men, confident if they accept my corn videos, men are inseccure or all those sh@ming tactics women like you use to n@me call men.
If you don't want to be criticcized STOP DISHING OUT, Men have no obligation to ACCEPT your corn videos past, it's men's choice and tbh women like you are a RISKY choice for men because not only rigg@d courts, but your corn videos or just you as a woman itself a bad deal to him.
"I am gr00med into doing" isn't that the same excuse EVERY WOMAN in 2024 uses? everything is everyone f@ult.
More power to you , if you're truly able to change your life. As long you don't glorify this "men are confident bs because he accepts my p0orn0" I don't have problem.
I am assuming you're a liberal before? changed your sh@aming tactic from men are in$secure if they don't want to date women who slept around to men aren't confident if they don't accept my old corn videos because God.
Just sh@ming tacctics changed
Just want to thank you for sharing your story
so happy you were able to turn your life around❤❤
yeah until people show your kids your content buddy
@@ETHANEXISTSIRLwhoever does that is not a kind person. OP can only control her actions, and she did by improving her life for the better. Whoever is so crappy of a person to willing show someone their own parents porn, needs to be taught how to be a compassionate MATURE person.
I had a girlfriend that had been abused and exploited from a young age. They got her on drugs as a teen and kept her at all these shitty run down houses. One day she overdosed and someone cared enough to take her to a hospital, social worker got involved, cops rehab therapy. I won't say she ever recovered, addiction always haunted her and she would have panic attacks and even violently lash out, but she was a lot happier and craved to do the most normal things.
I met her when a work friend invited me over and she was a friend of his girlfriend. She always dressed casual, hardly ever any make up, and when I asked her if she just wanted to go to McDonald's with me her face lit up like I had asked her to prom.
Unfortunately she relapsed and died of an overdose. She was only 22. So I won't say you can never change, but your past does stick with you.
Addiction to drugs doesn't just stick in your mind, it sticks in your body. I hope when you think of her you do so with grace because she was so badly damaged.
Aw man that’s heavy.
@@mesamom62 sexual immorality also sticks in your body
That's heart breaking man. 😢
Don't you think a literal addiction to drugs is a bit different than society hyping up women to do OF? Like, those are two completely different worlds.
I really hope this does become a trend, can you imagine the message it will send to the next generation of girls considering going into that industry
It alr should be shunned on😂💀 switching careers before Christ shouldn’t be a “trend”
Shes still doing onlyfools
it is all fake her of is still up. She is just another lying grifting 304 which most women are to be honest.
Reminds me of the Bart Simpson presto changeo death bed repentance. Gentlemen, do not accept a 304.
Trend? She's turning Christianity into a joke. Making it look like Christians will forgive anything without the person having to put in any effort into actually changing their ways.
She isnt "giving it all up." I 100% guarantee that she is keeping her millions of dollars that she made from OF.
Why would she not keep all her money?
Hallelujah!! I used to be a sex worker, witch/new ager, addict, and I had a radical encounter with God and gave my life to Christ.
He fixed the parts of me I thought were forever broken. It’ll be 3 years in 2 days!!
YOU ARE NEVER TOO FAR GONE TO BE SAVED. Jesus is so good
Amen
Amen!!!!!
We thank god
Me too!! I’ve been following Christ for 11 years and walked away from the sex industry and addiction. I now have a masters degree in social work and dedicated my life to Christ. I am also a part of a ministry with women who have also left the industry for Christ. ANYONE can go to Christ in faith and repentance and be saved!!
Amen!! 💜💜
People can change and I'm proof of that. A decade or more ago I was making terrible choices and I was backing the wrong type of people. But I grew up, finally. I'm 40 now; married with a child. We have our own home and I've never been happier. Life is good 😊
Good for you. Here’s my question: did you do things that your child is going to watch, on purpose or accidentally?
People can change, but you have to be aware of wolves in lambs clothing. Christianity could be a camouflage.
Look to her talking about her past, she talk like she is proud of her wrong doings.
people can 100% change - even OF girls. But that doesn't mean that they're deserving of a good life JUST because they decided to do a 180. No. Hold everyone accountable. Men understand this, women do not. They wanted equality - give it to them.
@@doyoulikecrystalgel I have to disagree with this, everyone deserves a full and happy life, I simply don't believe in converting overnight.
@@scluciano they will never have a happy life everyone will see her as a 403
One important thing to note is that people who truly become Christian are changed by God. It is a supernatural transformation. You go from living a life of sin to a life surrendered to God’s will for you. No one can change themselves but this isn’t an act of the persons will. I’ve gone through it myself. No matter how hard I tried to change myself, I never could until God intervened. I’m a completely different person now! All glory to God!
Hallelujah! It's truly a remarkable miracle, even greater than the creation itself, that a Holy and Righteous God would choose to save us, sinners, by paying the price demanded by His own righteousness through the Cross. We, as dead men, cannot save ourselves; it is only through His grace that we are called out of the grave, much like Lazarus. It's all because of Him, and it's a journey where the Holy Spirit guides us, convicting and revealing specific sins, leading us to repentance before God.
Prove god exists.
@@Scorpy666he has to, for the universe to exist. Now I could dive deeper but I've made my point. Now j ask you. Prove he doesn't exist
@amusedapple4933 Absolutely nothing you said is logically viable. The existence of something does not prove the existence of something else unless there is a direct and substantiated way to prove the two things are related. Furthermore, the burden of proof is on the individual who is saying a magical man exists in the sky... not on the individual saying he doesnt. The reason for that is because it "should" be easier to validate a notion (if it were a fact) than to disprove it.
@@amusedapple4933 nd if you dont think thats fair then explain to me why you cant prove to me that an invisible magical pink unicorn is sitting behind you right now.... You see how ridiculous it is to ask someone to prove something doesn't exist? It would be much easier (if it were a fact) for me to prove to you that there is infact an invisible pink unicorn sitting behind you.
Nala actually came to Michael’s show and had a long interview.
It was really nice and genuine 😊
Any woman who repents doing s** work is entitled to forgiveness, if they're being honest about it. However, they're not entitled to a husband.
And men are not God. We don't forgive sins.
Dont worry, someone will still be glad to wife her up. Just wont be you.
nobody is entitled to or owed forgiveness.
@@houseofhas9355👺
Who has the authority to forgive? If it is an entitlement absent duty, that makes it a right. If that's true, repentant criminals have the right to be forgiven and we know this isn't true or else life sentences or state mandated deletion wouldn't exist. Women should not get even *more* special favours for lacking a trouser wowser.
My favourite stories/ ppl are the ones where somebody messed up / made the wrong choices but found the courage to make things right. That is the beauty of the gift of life, we are able to redeem ourselves. Redemption can be ours if we truly want it, Pstar or not. I am proud of her.
"They will be known by their fruit." So, only time will tell. She should absolutely expect that it will be taken with some hearty skepticism.
No, time has nothing to do with it as Christ Jesus knows her heart. Time might tell you, but why should anyone care about that, right? Salvation and getting saved doesnt need my approval, neither my skepticism. I have nothing to do with it since salvation is of the Lord and Him alone (Jonah 2:9).
@HB_IE52829 I can agree with you to a degree, but why then did he say that you will know them by their fruit. He said that to make sure you would not be led astray by someone using Christ's name to fool you. We are absolutely called to judge someone by their fruit lest none be led astray. There's one thing I can say about what you're saying, there is a God and He forgives, but we're not Him and we are to use someone's fruit before we buy in fully to what they say. I pray her recommitment is real and true. So, yes, time will tell if her recommitment is real.
@@HB_IE52829We are tasked to judge the fruits of the labor. Only God can know the state of her salvation and it is not for us to judge, but we are to be wary.
If this is real, I'm proud for Nala. During her second appearance on the Whatever podcast they showed an image of what she looked like before her OnlyFans transformation and I remember thinking she looked so much more beautiful of a person as a whole than the girl who was sitting in front of the mic. I hope Brian has her on again once she's had some time to setting into this new life change of hers.
I kind of hope she never goes on that show again. She did a wonderful interview w/ Michael Knowles. All she'd be doing is feeding into the depravity and bitterness of the guys that watch that show and love to hate watch the kinds of women that Brian has on. Going on that show is like casting her pearls before swine.
We live in a vengeful, bloodthirsty society. We want to see people hurt and condemned, and forgiveness is the last thing anyone wants to give.
Those who refuse to forgive, will themselves not be forgiven, for they curse and tell off the one who can forgive in the first place. Their lot is most pitiable. May they find the mercy they refuse to afford others, and may it spring out from their hearts to the whole world.
I don't view it as our responsibility to forgive anyone other than ourselves or our family. You get run through on purpose? That's something you accept judgement for. Just like if you get a face tattoo or become a nudist. You took actions, now you bear the consequences. You wanna see bloodthirsty societies? Look at the middle east, North Korea, Sentinel Island, The Congo, Haiti, and many other places. You can literally be an albino gey fairy that identifies as a dragonkin in America and the law will protect you, if you're transgressed upon.
Or maybe people want people who make mistakes get their comeuppance? A OF-thot getting a happy ever after sounds like injustice to me.
“Wise men wonder while strong men die.” -breaking Benjamin.
@@josiahwright3751 Yeah only it's not a real war and real wars end with forgiveness too. Bad take.
As a Christian I am told to forgive but be wise. She will be judged by the fruit she bears if her change is real time will tell but we can’t forget that redemption is possible through Christ because if there isn’t a thing as redemption then we are all screwed because we have all fallen short of the Glory of God. You don’t have to trust her but it’s evil to hope for peoples downfall and to be void of grace. Who are you to condemn her. No one. Does not mean you have to choose her even if she changes. But Let time and God show her true colors
Amen. We’re ALL OF US just sinners trying to make it in this scary world.
Ephesians 4:32- for the believing brothers and sister who are hating, Romans 3:23- is ALL OF US
Very well written, Thank You. Yes, we are called to forgive, but we are not called to forget. To forgive is what God wants, but the sinner should not ask you to forget the sin. To forget the sin would leave the sinner free to repeat the sin and expect forgiveness again. The sinner that expects forgiveness and that you forget the sin, has not started on the road to redemption.
Paul is a wonderful example of this. Paul persecuted the Christians before he became a believer. Did some believers not trust Paul, yes they did not trust him. But God still used Paul. Paul while completely changing his life had to suffer through the distrust and those that would not work with him. Paul's entire life was a redemption story.
We have nothing to forgive a random stranger we will never meet. Not our job. It is also not our job to trust anyone for any reason.
@@Xander1Sheridan you must not be a Christian, but if you are and this is what you believe, then I strongly encourage you to read Matthew 18.
One of my favorite ways to explain this is simple : does the phrase "You'll always have the stain of your past and never be fully redeemed in this life." Sound like something God would say to you, or something that the Devil would say to you? You decide.
"But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." I live this way and truly believe that - "all the old has passed away, and behold, all is made new" praise Jesus for His redemption.
Philippians 3:13b-14!!!!!! ❤🎉😊
Amen 🙏🏻
Amen ✝️❤❤❤ Christ is king and the great redeemer ✝️
Yes, amen!!
These women not only did their foul deeds, but did them publicly. Seems they're just coming at the attention providing function of the internet from a different angle.
If they're sincere, let them enter a convent & not go on social media for the rest of their lives. Talk is cheap & you'll find born-again single moms with a past full of red flags in Mass every week, waiting for some fool to take the bait.
Yes, God forgives. He also requires restitution and repentance. The Raggedy-Anne-looking chick had dropped the paywall to her content to get new subs, then raised it to 8.99and now to $10 a month. Its a scam. Then again, using religion to shake the loose change from the gullible is a viable business plan in the world of the faithful.
Your ad transitions are immaculate.
Honestly, I can't possibly imagine believing someone is beyond redemption. If its porn stars, criminals, or anyone else that has done wrong there always has to be a path to redemption.
Amen 🙏🏼
If you were single and looking for a relationship would her past be a deal breaker though?
@@yasinmoradi9649That’s a decision that fully depends on the person. Maybe you’re someone that someone’s past wouldn’t be a deal breaker or maybe you’re someone that it is a deal breaker. If someone has been waiting their whole life until marriage, she may want a man that has done the same. And vice versa. Some people can look past a person’s past and that’s really great. But some people might not be able to.
yes. if she has a body count in the double digits or did s3x work then its a red flag and instant rejection@@yasinmoradi9649
@@yasinmoradi9649 yes of course, it cannot be undone
No one is "too far gone". But the path back to a clean life is difficult. Most of these women aren't looking to clean up their lives; they are looking to collect the benefits of such without having to take responsibility for their past actions.
You sound like a wolf. Get that heart right ❤
many people make mistakes in their lives, I'm sure you did too.
Before cancel culture became so popular those mistakes didn't tend to haunt them for the rest of their lives, branding them as something bad for something they did decades ago.
But yes, religion is very good at holding things against people for their entire lives. And I consider both Christianity and socialism to be religions in that regard.
@@jessica1877His heart seems right. Cleaning up your life would mean being ashamed of your prior immorality, repenting for it, such as giving away the proceeds of your immorality, making amends to those your behavior harmed. Proclaiming they found Jesus, while still living immodest lives is a meme.
I don’t think these women are necessarily living immodest lives. Maybe some are, but you can’t slander the many with their bad actions. Also, they probably don’t have the money to give away the proceeds. They probably haven’t saved it up.
@HedgehogsAreBetterThanYou assuming most of these woman are pretending like the main comment I replied to says is not right. Yall all need to stop being small minded. Once someone starts and backslides its because they need alot of help and probably don't have good mentors during this time. Pray for them and stop acting like yall are saints. No one will start trying unless deep inside there is conviction to do better.
Twitter is hell on earth.
On a lighter note, Brett, I don't think you'll see this, but honestly, thank you.
Although I don't agree with you on every single thing, I do agree with you on a whole lot.
In my year of watching your content, I have been grateful to you and the strength you have to say the things that are on my mind that I am not strong enough or loud enough to say publicly...
Thank you.
Whoever sees this, I hope you have a fantastic day.
God bless.
No one is too far gone. Giving your life to God, asking Him for forgiveness, and truly changing your choices and actions will redeem you.
Accepting that they have changed their ways/turned their life around is one thing. Considering them as a candidate to be the mother of your children is completely different.
If God can redeem Rahab (the prostitute at Jericho) into a mother in Jesus's lineage, then God can redeem this woman to be a mother, too. We should leave it up to God and His walk with her rather than our standards.
@cutethulu_xo Right. Tell your son that when you get a look at the videos his new girlfriend made with 3 guys at the same time.
@@cutethulu_xonone are beyond redemption but many will not see it because they don't truly believe and man has the freedom to lie about his path
@@danh2716that’s what I was thinking lol
What about the men who do the same? Should they be considered worthy of fatherhood?
Why do these people have to come out publicly? Why can’t they just disappear quietly? Change their names and/or just stop using their “stage names”. Heal themselves in the best way possible as to be able to commit and pair-bond with a partner. To truly be at peace with themselves and to bring that peace to their partner.
Why? Because they aren't sincere, that's why. They want clout and recognition and followers and likes for doing the right thing. They want the world to worship them. And some fools do, just read the comment section here, it's full of people who think simping is a Christian virtue. They will INSTANTLY believe a girl who claims to be born again is sincere, no questions asked. Not even when she is literally making a stage act out of it.
because they need to show people who still wear the shoes they used to wear that it can be done.
What hope is there for us to live in a society of ex-porn stars if we continue to push this idea to currently active porn stars that there is nothing they can do in life to leave and change.
all hiding it does is allow for the myth that they can't ever leave that life to thrive.
@fireemberess you've described the best case scenario. The other scenario is that she is doing this for attention. If we are expected to just pretend her past never happened and that it's fine now. Modern women won't change. They'll use religion as a cop out to get out of the consequences of said lifestyle.
My brutal take is simple. Normalize shaming and shunning this type of behavior in women. If women wait until marriage, then men have to wait for marriage. Boom. Morals over degeneracy.
IT may be trying to point out to people you can change. She was apparently quite a notable figure in the OF world and now she has changed. A "let your light so shine" moment so to speak.
As for how people should react in general to a repentant sinner, see the parable of the prodigal son. With a reflection on the words said to the "good son". I am not saying any given person is obligated to be interested in this woman. No person is ever obligated to be interested romantically with anyone ever. But hard as it is the Christian duty is to let the repentant sinner change, support them for it, and celebrate with them for it.
@@neodigremothat story isn’t applicable. Her sins brought her millions of dollars and fame. The prodigal son lost everything and begged at the feet of his father. Nala’s father, a preacher, doesn’t want contact. There is something we don’t know.
It's indeed possible for people to change and be redeemed. As you said, it all comes down to personal growth, adapting to changes and making amends for past actions. Everyone deserves love and should be given a chance to change their lives around.
*No*
this standardless society is why we're in this mess, trash like them _need_ to be the examples that are made out so people won't take such a dumb path in the first place.
Stop trying to save _everyone_ you can't and never will. 💊
No they don't. No one deserves anything that's a bold faced lie
@@bensheard3969Yes they do, it's literally the core principle of Christianity/Catholicsm that god forgives everyone, he will still punish you for the things you did of course but at least you wont go to hell.
@@Dragonk116 I'm not talking about Christianity im talking about reality
Great, so you're giving these heauxs an easy escape of their consequences. Be a sl*t, make your money, then be 'born again' and none of it matters.
The goal is to force young women into understanding this behavior is unacceptable and to stop them doing it in the first place - not to perpetuate it while also giving them a consequence free solution.
Nobody is too far gone, so long as they desire to step back from the ledge over which they stand.
No matter what side you're on, you should agree that the change is positive for these people 🙏
She changed Nothing. Still doing dirty things
If it’s real, sure
Yea no
Nope. Adopting bigoted views is always wrong. Sex work is not immoral.
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 adopting degeneratic leftie views are always wrong. Sex work is bad.
That's how my husband and I got together! I literally had just started an OF account and was ready to take that path and we started talking as friends and he encouraged me through verses and prayer and boom, 6 months later I'm marrying the man and this year will be our 4th year married, 3 kids in, it's amazing 🥰
Disgusting
@@uwotmate-d3mkeep your opinions to yourself son
This is interesting because it seems as if it was a two way street. Both of you almost went down a horrible path. With you almost being a distributor and him being a consumer. God ironically pulled you both out of it. Very cool indeed
Hmmm. This sounds off.
sad for your husband
The people who say that redemption is impossible. Truly answer my this questions like from the bottom of your heart, "Have you always been sinless?" "Who made you the judge?"
It is not about being sinless it is about hypocrisy and using religion to rebrand your content.
🤨 so let me counter this rapist and murders should have not consequence then right? Because that can take only one moment and be only once.
You seem to think there should be no repercussions for your actions. Can you be saved and forgiven in grace yes. Does this mean you get off from all consequences no.
@@jimmybarreto5480 how can you tell what's in the heart? What I am saying is that what if your words and judgement stops somebody from truly change. What if God is bringing that person back to him little by little but your words is scaring them away and thinking that they don't deserve forgiveness. I don't know about these people on the internet. But I am talking about a common person POV.
@@jimmybarreto5480 besides in my comment I am talking about redemption not about hypocrisy. That is a different matter.
@@tylerrobbins8311 🤦🏻♀️ Redemption is literally about facing consequences of your actions. It's about accepting that you have sinned and making effort to change yourself for the best. In rapist and murderer scenerio, they can redeem themselves by surrendering. All I am saying is No one should be denied a chance to change.
Stay at home EX wife over here! We choose to co-parent our children like this and I agree to do RESPECTABLE side work as well as my livelihood being a landlord. This way I can be home for the boys and take care of our family home we own together. I feel extremely blessed and grateful to live this life as a full time mom! Bring a mom is the biggest blessing God ever gave me. I take this job He gave me very seriously
I don't disagree that woman who have come out of pornography based work are deserving of love, a family and a future. The problem is that their reputation will haunt them, making it exceedingly more difficult to achieve those things. That is one of the consequences from doing that work of work, few men are willing to settle down with a prostitute.
Her friend, I think turned boyfriend, was part of her conversion though.🙃
You’re saying you agree that she is not deserving of those things? Just trying to understand with all the negatives. Don’t disagree, means I agree.
The prophet Hosea did. I am not saying that men are obligated to ignore a woman's past. But then neither are women. Maybe something we aren't acknowledging is the other side of the coin. Many Christian or professing Christian men are caught up in porn. Should a woman ignore that when preparing for marriage? What I am talking about is not the occasional use of Playboy from years past, which my husband gave up when he converted to Christianity. Today's point is ever present and hard core. I have seen it break up Christian marriages. Should a woman refuse marriage to a man who has engaged in that? Well, it's up to the woman. But I think it is true that even though there is a certain number of women who have these pages, there are a lot more men who are consuming them and worse pages. So yes, not many men want to marry a prostitute, but then not many women want to marry a john who practices daily. Who can get married then? With mankind it is impossible but with God all things are possible. The answer will vary from couple to couple.
I get it. You aren't afforded any kind of deniability. But you don't get onlyfans girls without a huge number of men watching. It's like in a village. Ok, so people can say 'Jane is the village bicycle', but all of the men who shared her bed get anonymity. She's treated as akin to a disease but the people whose arms wrapped her get to denounce her. When you look at the stats around viewership, men (and a surprising number of women) are morally complicit. So in terms of the stigma, I think there's some fairness to the idea of 'let he who is without sin cast the first stone'. The Christian view is that everyone is worthy of hell, so might as well have an ounce of humility.
Let's agree to disagree. I HIGHLY doubt any of the sex workers can last beyond a single decade. The tiny amount that do, won't get beyond the 2nd decade in their marriages. That's all biology and sociology, by the way. You have to factor in how chaotic western economics has become. I've noticed most women are searching for the most money gained versus the least amount of work involved. They will do ANYTHING to achieve those 2 things.
If you do want to include religion, God isn't going to let any of them into New Jerusalem. I don't think **I** am going to get into New Jerusalem, and I am many times more righteous than they are.
As a Catholic, it has been one of our teachings to hate the sin and love the sinner. Yes, there are a lot of things that these women has done and yes it cannot be erased from their past. But, let us all remember that your past does not define your future. If you genuinely want to change for the better and follow Christ, then my brothers and sisters, we welcome you with open arms. We are not perfect as well, but as what Jesus said in Luke 5:32, "I have not come to call the righteous, but all rhe sinners to repentance". 😇
Amen and to repent means to have a change of mind but sadly many think it's turning from sin which isn't Biblical,you turn from your sin as you change your mind. Jesus always said he who believes in Me has everlasting life,not he who turns from their sins and believes in Me. Jesus is definitely for us not sinning,when He heals somebody or saves,He always says go and sin no more but He also knows we fall short and isn't demanding us this religious path and giving us heavy burdens to bear. Once Jesus said there's more joy in Heaven over one sinners who repents than over 99 righteous who need no repentance and if repentance was turning from sin then they wouldn't be called righteous by Jesus and He wouldn't say they don't need repentance because there's always something to repent of,we do sins we aren't aware of even. Therefore it is only by God's grace through our faith we're saved as Paul told us. This sister is saved,i think she received the gift of salvation and Holy Spirit by believing in death,burial and resurrection of Jesus and then went to baptise to show her dedication to Christ,that she loves Him. Hallelujah! God bless.
@@YeshuaSaves726this seems like a weird semantic game. If one decides to turn to Christ and repent of their sins, one cannot change their mind but keep living in sin, and neither can one not change their mind and stop living in sin. These are one and the same action. To split the smallest of hairs over “repent means change your mind, not turn from sin” seems unnecessary. Obviously if you give your life to Christ, you’re going think differently, engage with people and reality differently, and this will naturally lead to a reduction, and in some cases, an elimination of certain sins.
Wonderful to have someone Saved, but ask *millions* of young men - Salvation does not mean you're entitled to a spouse, wealth, etc. She may be our sister in Christ, but that does not entitle her to become a wife & I would not recommend any man take that risk (nor put their hypothetical child through that trauma!)
well stated
@birthemuller7310that includes people who behave like they have never sinned, or at least their sin wasn’t that big. Technically, none of us is “clean” enough to warrant a relationship by that token. It is up to each individual person to decide what they are willing to live with, and as the number of Christian and Protestant religions indicate, it is always up to interpretation.
No one is saying she is entitled to anything.
" It is up to each individual person to decide what they are willing to live with" exactly but why so many women act as if men are obligated to marry women like these, stop DICTATING WHAT MEN SHOULD WANT AND WHO MEN SHOULD MARRY IT IS HIS AND HIS ONLY CHOICE@@TheBaumcm
Thanks for covering this Brett. It’s amazing to see a large UA-cam creator highlighting these stories. No one is too far gone from God’s mercy and grace. Seeing this story gave me chills. Every knee will bow!! ❤
Brett, you should mention the DW+ interview that Candace Owens did for her “Taboo” series in which she interviews former XXX-star who confessed, repented, converted, married a minister, and now helps full-time in christian ministry. Pretty inspiring.
My issue is, women will see men accepting these redeemed women and expect this to be the norm. They'll try to get the best of both worlds. Actions have consequences. God will forgive you. Men need a responsible woman.
The solution to that is strong families with humble parents and open lines of communication. The women who end up in these industries don't tend to do so because it seemed like a really positive decision for their future. They usually come from a lot of dysfunction and almost never have a good relationship with their father. So long as divorce remains a socially acceptable solution to marriage difficulties that industry will likely not want for participants.
Exactly this.
“Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” John 8:7
Amen! We are all sinners and have fallen short. Anyone who says they haven’t is a liar.
Im so sick of degenerates using that Bible verse to shield against criticism
So sick
Condemning to death and shunning are 2 completely different things.
Interestingly, no, they’re not biblically. Several times throughout the Torah there are commands requiring someone to be “cut off from his people” if transgressed. We don’t know if that means exile or death. To the ancient Hebrews, that was more or less the same fate.
There’s no debate, however, what it means in Christianity. St. Paul was murderer of Christians. He had authority in the church as an apostle, and not just an apostle, but the apostle to the gentiles. If the Christians of the day could forgive him THAT past, then there’s no reason at all for any Christian man to say that a woman should be shunned because of her sexual past when she’s trying to change.
This story isnt over. The enemy is not letting her go this easily. She will be under attack. She will need prayer.
Simply, her soul can still be saved but her reputation can never be.
Reputations are held up by humans, not Christ. We lack the ability to forgive in the way Christ grants us forgiveness. This is only a sign that we as a people need to move closer to Christ and treat one another the way Christ would treat us.
Her reputation/past is now a part of her living testimony. What a powerful amazing God we have.
@@005connect9 Correct brother. If she wholeheartedly surrender, courageously admit her sins and humbly ask for forgiveness from Christ; she will be forgiven. However, humas are different. If her videos of lasciviousness and perversion is exposed to fellow faithful (which is inevitable), this will undoubtedly be faced with disgust, shame or even discrimination. This is humanity in its core much like how Adam and Eve felt when they were stripped of total innocence.
Okay Whatever Satan
Pharisee comment
Repentance is real. However, so is free will. If a man does not want a woman because of her past, that is his right. That doesn't mean she isn't redeemable, but it's a man's decision if he's OK with that or not.
Are you speaking as a Christian? I think there's a big problem if a Christian holds a person's past against them when Jesus has already forgiven them.
@@redhawkmilleniumwhy is there a problem? God says “love your own neighbor” not “thou shall not have preference”
@@Hanako-San100 I said there's a problem with holding past sins against a person when Jesus has already forgiven them. Forgiveness IS love.
You have a right to choose who you want to be with. Just don’t condemn others. We are all sinners and have fallen short.
u can forgive yet uphold ur own standards n boundaries. I'm unmarried n also a virgin n if I'm not willing to marry a guy who has had sex with countless girls before, am I a hater? No. Does this mean there is no forgiveness? No. In fact there is nth for me to forgive because this is between that person n God.@@redhawkmillenium The bible clearly stated the sacredness of the union of flesh between man n woman joined in marriage. God designed us to have sex within the boundaries of a marriage covenant. There's nth wrong with me wanting my marriage sacred n not having lay beside someone who has laid with countless women before.
Brett I’m Catholic and for anyone who claims that they are a Christian and cannot forgive a sinner, they are not a true Christian! Like Jesus said those without sin cast the first stone! Amazing how it’s almost impossible to actually find one ! I do forgive although like every other human I find it difficult to forget ! But that also won’t stop me from supporting that person if they truly are sorry and try to the best of their ability to not sin again. Because that’s what God wants us to do !
Amen
Yeah no
Fkk that
Certain people don't deserve it
A god of jesus was a god. Jesus was a half god. You people don't know in what you believe. And Father of Jesus In old testament had different laws . Like you don't believe. You die. 😂. Religion is so funny. Especially when you chosen some parts from old book , putting in new one and there you go . You have bible. Great stories. Like lord of rings.
@@user-ru6lw4vt2pyou have no idea what you're talking about
Right???
That Pearl girl is too much. I have often thought she may actually hate women...
If God can forgive then so can you. Living in hate/not forgiving doesn't hurt anyone but yourself.
I have been watching her for a few weeks and watched a good amount of her videos. She really has restored my views on the younger generations. Love her views on topics. She is real fair and speaks truths. 👏🏽
I admire anyone who decides to change their life for the better. You can't undo the choices, but, you can learn and move forward for the better. That takes courage and self awareness.
Amen!
Can you be spiritually redeemed? Of course. But that doesn’t guarantee anything here on earth. Your reputation will follow you and your kids/family
Noone is too far gone. We can't be the judge of such things. What can be too far gone are the consequences of someone's actions. If your actions, and the consequences thereof are so far outside of societal norms that no one wants to associate with you, then you reap what you sow. You can change, but you still must deal with the consequences of your actions. Most people lack the courage and commitment to make that difficult journey but you never know who can make it.
What beautiful and powerful conversions. I quite literally cried when I heard those testimonies, praise be to God!
Rebelled: Went and exposed her body online
Independent: Sold her body to men
The argument was never about denying her right to turn to Christianity (though obviously many doubted her sincerity). It was people pointing out that while she can be saved spiritually that in the real world most men would still not be interested in marriage with her due to her past. This is not the same thing as saying she can't be forgiven or become Christian. It's pointing out a social ramification that is independent of her religious journey.
What was interesting to me was how many traditional, Christian women went to bat for her and were angry that men were saying she still wouldn't make good marriage material. I would think a Christian woman would agree and for example be bothered by her own son bringing a girl like Nala home. Though it seemed like quite a few didn't want to agree to the premise strangely.
Nala hasn't even deleted her onlyfans yet, and I highly doubt she will be giving up the fruits of her "labor" aka money, shoes, bags, car, ect, that she bought from her OF earnings.
That’s a fair assessment and what I like about your comment is that you see the nuance. There are many saying she isn’t entitled to a relationship but the fallacy is that anyone is entitled to one. Some guys may see it as a no go, others may see only the here and now and as long as she is honest about her past, I see no issue with her pursuing relationships. Not all Christian men have families to answer to and some men might consider her worth it. I would not choose to engage with a man who was promiscuous, although there is much less stigma around it, so I don’t know why any woman would expect men to just ignore her past. In truth, we all have our own interpretation of the Word, a truth evidenced by the sheer number of denominations just within Christianity. Unless you are God himself, we cannot Know, especially when people pull stuff out of context. All we can do, is live our lives as best as we can, knowing full well we’ll screw up just as much as we get right.
Also, how do we know if she's being truthful. God knows but we don't.
most women will stick together no matter what. they lack zero accountability and would never put themselves in men's shoes
Anyone in Christ is a new creation. God can restore her future and give her a wonderful husband. With God all things are possible. Some basic beliefs of Christianity. 😊
$100 million in the bank makes it easy to "repent"
They always turn to god when they made enough money. I don't buy it either.
Well said.
So said the cynical/self-righteous person.
@@zaydawg14 Isn't it interesting? Tramps get charity, but the simps don't have any to spare for other guys.
Okay Satan
Today i cried a waterfall seeing 3 people get baptized and this warmed my heart to see. Baptisms always get me choked up.
@@The_nail_girl your going to cry more when they go back doing what they used to do
Nala not only said her fantasy was to cheat but she loves to cheat. May God have mercy on the poor soul that chooses to marry her.
God can change anyone if they are willing to obey, repent, and listen to him. Is it possible she could fall back into that life? yes. But instead of attacking her pray for her not to, honor her and God by praying for her. Then see how God will bless you.
@@josiahwright3751I guess I’m screwed 😂 although my marriage certainly doesn’t feel like a minefield or tennis match. I guess it’s just a risk I’m willing to take
Did you not read Hosea? God told prophet Hosea to marry a harlot and told him she will cheat on him but Hosea was to keep on going after her and love her and eventually they had children together and didn't cheat and this was to show whole Israel how she behaves forwards God and yet how much God loves us. Catch this,the first person Jesus told the Gospel to was the adulterous woman at the well,she is representing both Jews and Gentiles and she was shown the love of God by Jesus.
I believe this woman is changing and will keep on changing and it's not by her own power but God's power because i believe she truly is born again,praise God. God bless.
@@josiahwright3751 choosing not to put a parachute on in the first place is the same as choosing not to get married despite the risk of failure. (Granted some men are called to celibacy) Tbh, men my whole life told me marriage was this burden full of financial risk and restriction, but it has been literally the opposite. I think most guys choose who they marry based on a feeling rather than a calling from God and that’s where we see this divide. Even if I got divorced and worst conceivable thing happened, I still got Jesus and I’m still going to be the man he called me to be. I think if you put God at the center of your marriage and your spouse does the same then why would God break apart something he bound together?
@@NormalLion you just stoopid son
Michael says all the time that the law is a teacher. He should articulate that the divorce laws are awful and should be changed.
Did he say they didn't need change?
@@fuzzybacca4997He won't advocate a political position to do it, or he would say it.
He repeatedly said the laws are bad and should be changed. He also said people shouldn’t wait for them to change in order to get married and start their lives.
As a Catholic as well, I’m sure that his position is that no fault divorce is horrible for society. Pope Pious the XII wrote about this decades ago and predicted the current political and social situation. It all stems from the acceptance of contraception and divorce. In that order. If Michael agrees with the church teaching he will agree on this point. Practicality speaking though no fault divorce severely discourages men financially from getting married. However, it’s a Pandora’s box issue. Only changing our society’s moral structure at this point will solve the myriad of problems.
@@TiffanyG1992How is that different to saying "Yeah drugs are bad and you should be concerned about them, but don't worry about doing them, just take the risk"?
tbh even these attention seeking instagram womans cross the line for me.
As they should! A loyal well adjusted woman will not be seeking validation from internet strangers, she will likely not have any pictures online.
Same buddy, I really cannot feel any type of attraction to a chick covered in makeup with lip injections, the weird Kardashian shape etc.
No offense to girls like this ... but it's gross
Yeah. Let alone born again ex-pornstars. If I was single I wouldn't be taking a risk on them ever.
Those who say: "I believe and encourage her testimony, but I wouldn't marry her", newsflash: She doesn't need you, she just got married. Her husband, who was just a friend, and his mother helped and prayed for her conversion.
I do believe in redemption and that a person can change their ways. However at the same time we shouldn't totally ignore what Pearl and others caution about watching people's actions more than just listening to their words. While it looks great that Nala is changing her OF account to something more wholesome, the greater wisdom would be for her to leave the site altogether when she can so she doesn't fall back into temptation. Let's not lie to ourselves OF is synonymous with porn no matter how hard they try to say otherwise.
That is a very good point. I don’t want to hear “I’m sorry” or “I’ll do better”. Just show me.
I'd NEVER date an ex-sex worker. And I think a lot of other good men wouldn't either. But when you go out in the real world, and take a look at what the majority of men are like.... these ex-pornstars will always have options. They may never need to learn their lesson.
it is okay, no self respecting man would not marry her, even if he did it is his burden to bear. EVERYONE will face the consequences one way or other way
Here’s my personal take, I who have a promiscuous past of my own (70+ different women over 5-6 years): in theory, I would be open to a woman with a past, be it promiscuity, stripping, or even OF, but ONLY if she condemned said past, knew that it was wrong, regretted it, and had truly changed her life.
Of course stigmas can remain for a long time, as even I can attest to from when I first returned to my faith; but, overtime, people took it seriously, for the simple fact that I took it seriously.
Yeah but we shouldn't be having the body count discussion anyway. It's for children. Now, if we're talking OF or something, yeah that should be disclosed if randos on the street may recognize you and harass us. I'd like to know if that's a possibility. But her going on a wild streak in college or maybe after a divorce, I don't need to know that shit. I'm in my 40s, we all have a past. And besides, a body count discussion would not work out well for me....I'm up there too. Mature adults simply don't ask how many partners there have been. Not one single woman ever has asked me and I never asked them.
@@Swearengen1980And how many long term relationships have you had?
@@Swearengen1980No the body count discussion is valid. Sex is a symbolic gesture of commitment and if you’ve abused that then your partner should know what they’re getting into. Whether they should keep you around or not if their decision to make but they are allowed to make that decision
And I respect that! This is what I found so disgusting. Holding women’s past as unredeemable and men looked past. I saved myself till marriage, including kissing and desired to marry a man of the same standard. It’s okay. I just can’t stand hypocrisy as I saw many men being hypocrites
Are you disclosing and condemning your own past in that scenario?
They may be redeemable from a religious perspective but as a guy who is saving myself for the right one I expect the same in return.
I would respect those who genuinely change but I am not comfortable accepting one of them as my partner and I think many would agree with me on this.
As much as forgiveness is important there is also a question of accountability. Your choices will always have consequences.
I would still wish them the best though. I'd recommend finding someone who is in a similar position - a former sinner who has left it behind.
We are all sinners. However, I see your point about being with someone with similar sexual past. In saying that, I’ve come across Christian guys who have done everything but intercourse and consider themselves “pure” and won’t marry someone who has been with 1 to 2 people lol. I find that somewhat odd lol
@@popcorn58138 That is odd indeed and kind of hypocritical but again it depends honestly. In modern society and its hypersexualized culture it is just too easy to fall into this. But yeah I do get your point though. By the way I'm not actually very religious myself and I didn't exactly say this from a religious perspective. I just used the word sinner for lack of a better term. But I do definitely understand the religious perspective as well. I'm more of a social and moral conservative than a religious one so my opinion was based on that.
She's still sitting on stacks on stacks on stacks of money, this was her plan the whole time. From the beginning, it was a road map; make millions, then claim new life. Anything for continual views.
Exactly. Build up a material bankroll in this world, cash out for social capital when your stonks are starting to dip so you don’t have to face the consequences in this world or the next. That’s why Christianity is not respected today; it’s eminently exploitable in this way, and what’s more, the doctrine fully encourages this behavior.
You can change in the present but can NEVER change your past.
She changed for the better, but her past actions will be part of her cross.. this is a big win regardless and i hope more girls are influenced to do the same
Would you prefer she remains in OF forever?
No but you can move along I think humans stay so hyper focused on their past because they want that person to feel bad. At the end of the day, nobody cares. Out of billions of humans on this planet… does it really that matter lol ?
@@Singedbeast wouldn’t make a difference if she quit. You don’t stop being a whore. It’s a title she will hold for the rest of her life.
@@Singedbeast No, but there's also no chance that I'd marry a woman that has done what she has done.
Thanks, Coop, Prayers for strength and faith in that former OF girl's new life.
My pastor (also my dad 🥰) always says as long as you’re breathing there is a chance for grace.
The way I see it: this woman should absolutely be accepted if she wants to change her life and follow Christ. ALSO, no man should ever be shamed for not wanting to date or marry her. Both of these things can be true. Jesus accepts everyone where we are at, and he is overjoyed to have her in the Kingdom. He never said there wouldn't be consequences for our past actions.
Why would someone shame a random man for not wanting to date someone he doesn’t know? If you’re saying she doesn’t deserve to experience the joy of family life and a committed relationship because of what she did in the past, then you would deserve criticism.
@@pukupuku I didn't say that. I wish her the best and hope she finds what she is looking for, but I do know that she will come across many men in the church who will treat her with respect but not want to date her.
My guess is it will turn out like this: After sometime in reflection and pursuing Christ, she will slowly get back into the dating scene, and she will likely try to get the attention of men that she has come across. She has made herself fairly widely known on podcasts, Tiktok, instagram, etc as a former onlyfans and adult entertainment actress, so she will likely be recognized in some capacity. Many men will not want to date her and just treat her as nothing more than a friend or good acquaintance. It may even come to a point where she asks a man out and he says no; or a man later finds out after a bit of time dating about her past and it doesn't sit well with him and can't get over it. These are the men who should NOT be shamed.
@@pukupukuYou're sexual past absolutely matters
What I hate is that when people choose to transition everyone is so supportive and rave about how brave they are but this thing is just as difficult. Like bro someone tries to make a positive change in their life and suddenly everyone is skeptical.
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Do not get fooled
She is grifting christians
Because most of this is performative. God even says not to make a show of your prayer. She could have made the change privately and disappeared from the internet sphere.
@@jofieji5312 Sharing your testimony is not wrong. I think it's crazy to suggest that she shouldn't share her message which could inspire numerous other believers. How do you know it's performative and not genuine? Imagine reading Paul's letters where he talks about how much he's suffered for the sake of Christ and thinking to yourself "Man, Paul really shouldn't have shared his spiritual success stories. God says not to make a show of your prayer, so he should have made the change privately instead of using it to inspire others."
@@xa1551 I was just saying a way that she could have dodged all backlash. Maybe her “testimony” did help some but her public stating her change is what opened her up to public scrutiny. That being said comparing Paul and appointed apostle mentioning some of his past in small spurts while also writing dozens of inspired letters that have way more content then just his “testimony” is a big stretch in reference to a woman who was just putting her butt online for attention. Paul was a religious zealot he was never an unprincipled man he was just on the wrong side. A lot of modern Christian “testimonies” have always seemed performative too me. No other apostle gives their “testimony” we don’t know any of their past misdeeds. In fact I don’t think the word testimony is used in that context much if at all in the gospels.
Dude. Her onlyfans is still up...
Reminder: Pearl only major relationship was with a homeless man who she moved into her families home. This is who you want relationship advice from?
Who ended up marrying an older woman after they broke up 😂😂😂
That’s tough but ngl people who are single usually give the best relationship advice
So you agree with Pearl and women can't redeem themselves? Or is this an argument of authority? In that only people with personal experience can talk on a topic, which means the people with endless relationships, sexual or otherwise are the experts.
Women can redeem themselves yes; but there are men who will see the past and avoid them.
Just because you’ve been in 45 relationships doesn’t make you an expert on them. Tbh you should be giving people advice on what not to do. 😂
*Just because we forgive them doesn't mean we men have to marry them.*
Once she made her bag… she now wants to be forgiven for how she did.
One of my favorite things my church does is every month, after the sermon the pastor would introduce a person or couple and they would give their testimony to redemption.
These were testimonies from people of ALL the walks of life.
These same people are volunteers within the church making up staff, members, pastors etc. That church is a place full of broken people and a great reminder to me that if they can change so can I.
After seeing hundreds of testimonies and seeing them lived out I do believe that ANYONE can be saved if you truly repent and turn away from your old life.
90% of people don't continue the lifestyle, or they sin in secret
I believe that these women believe that religious institutions can repent them. More power to them. Are they still going to be "saved" a year later, 2 years later? I just retired from 23 years in law enforcement. Do you know how many offenders told me that they were done? Do you know how many substance abusers get clean and swear they are done? As a man looking for a wife I would not gamble my minute fortune or my emotional well being on that miniscule chance that the conversion is permanent.
One google search and you can still find everything. Internet is forever
I agree Brett. I pray for these people daily and will say I have been quick to judge which is wrong. Some of these women do this because they don't have a good support system or don't know who to listen to. The best thing we can do is pray for them and hope they find God.
"Don't be a stumbling block for someone who is coming out of sin"
I agree. The people giving her negative feedback on her conversion and calling her ran through are only scaring her away from Christ. Growing closer to God is a journey and may God be with her ☦️
@@helenma4176They can only scare her away from Christ if she is insincere... which she is.
Such gullible
@@helenma4176 Shut up
@@loganblackwood2922 wow, you should tell the writers of the Bible that! They could take some notes from all your infinite wisdom! 🙄
You cannot make a housewife out of a 304. She (and others) may speak the right words now, but I seriously doubt any of them will be able to stay faithful to their men.
Yes, that is the question -- how long? Is it like an addiction for some people? Has their brain been changed?
If her conversion was legit it would have been OFFLINE.
Those who cannot forgive someone for their past just show the reflection of their own hearts. "He who is without sin cast the first stone." People should be glad she found her way back to God whether its genuine, or not that is between her and the Lord. If we can't believe in a sinner's redemption what kind of Christians are we.
Your sky wizard isn’t real
Jesus also promises that the same level of forgiveness we extend to people is what he extend to us. If that's not sobering enough, I don't know what is.
Christ came even for you, Colton. He's not some magic genie or Wizard who comes down to grant your wishes.@@Colton-wz5sh
Forgiveness doesn't mean intimate association.
So you would let serial rapists and murderers into your home?
You've forgiven them, have you not?
Oooh so you don't want criminals that can potential fuck your life, in your house?
That's how I think about women with many sexual partners, I don't want filth in my house, they can ruin my life.
They are both correct. Michael is correct from a Christian standpoint that once a woman repents of her past transgressions, she is pure in the eyes of God.
But Pearl is correct that from a societal standpoint, an ex-porn star is going to struggle to find a quality man who can overlook such a past. It's hard to overlook something that's still online someplace, able to be found to humiliate the woman's family at any point in the future.
Watch her original video. She's not addicted to her money or sex; she's addicted to her power status as a top percentile model. Pearl's prediction that she'll use this new status to pivot toward a Gospel influencer is spot on. She can't live without the attention.
Maybe she can't, maybe she can. She may also do a lot of good by being as public about her faith and the horror of that industry as she used to be with her body. We'll see what choices she makes from now on! But that's all we'll be able to judge, not her heart, which God alone sees.
Do you believe prostitutes/pornstars can repent and be saved.
@Cationna I do wish her well. You're right, I don't know what's in her heart. But you can't see how this could hurt churches? If she's just as camera-thirsty and domineering as she was on Whatever, then it's the same old girl decorated with a crucifix, and people may see that conversions are superficial.
@michaal105 absolutely. And I'm rooting for her sincerity. But I also doubt it. I'm happy to be wrong.
Redemption requires admitting any wrongdoing and being genuinely apologetic and/or regretful. There aren't many folks currently under the age of 35 that are capable.
You're giving millennials too much credit. Change that number to 50
@@orcabolgsweetie2430, I know. I was trying to be generous. 😁
In reality, anyone younger than me is insufferably entitled, and anyone older is a curmudgeon know-it-all 😉
I have a friend that got into the porn industry like 10 years ago. We didn't really know each other back then. She was very young and had no guidance back then. She only did it for like 5 months. After one hardcore video she broke down crying after the shoot, realized this was not a good idea, flew back home and never did it again. Her life is still destroyed, you can google her and see her work easy. Can't get a serious relationship going, men find out and leave, or the ones that stay...really aren't worth having. I feel bad for her.
I have zero sympathy for her. She had all the options in the world and that's what she chose. Maybe her life's purpose is being a lesson to other women.
I wish her all the best wishes for a change, I hope happiness may make a return to her live
Name for reaserch purpose?
@@simoneracioppa5733 Yeah...pig lol
"the ones that stay...really aren't worth having"
Think about that for a bit. thiiiink about that for a bit
Absolute W!!!!!! Brett is the world's most open minded conservative