embrace your feelings and being honest and communicative will attract people with the right intention as u do. Those that are avoidant do not have the skillset to be in a serious relationship ♥
I LOVE your videos and your vulnerability ! I am a Nurse in L.A. and have been on both sides of this fence (Vulnerability and rejection) -- as we ALL have. I've been rejected and I have had to reject plenty, that is life. But putting yourself out there like this is amazing -- you are attractive physically and mentally stimulating -- you will do just fine when the right one comes along. 🙂Come to L.A. and say hi & keep these upppp !
@@joeyzoom24 rejection is a part of life, it shouldn’t stop us from living ! Thx for your comment. Will defs have to visit LA (I’ve never been) at some point !
Kuya Joey you are the strongest people who win battles we know nothing about, it’s not a weakness per se but a strength to understand more of yourself that makes you you! 😊❤
soooooo real, lately I've been finding myself realizing that I'm just playing myself by not being vulnerable and playing the "he took 1 hour to reply, I'll take 2" game. the guy missed out big time on you, but glad it was still a learning experience for you
You have such a good energy. And so honest, Dude, Joey, you are so sweet, I really enjoy this content. Hard to believe you are single, you're a very handsome man.
Joey, really enjoy your videos and respect how you live. Your are so with it compared to me when I was your age. Keep enjoying life and thank you from the US.
Sometimes waiting is just two people thinking the same and both unsure to make a move, sort of a stalemate situation.... being proactive is empowering and often the understanding of the other persons situation makes more sense than all those scenarios in our head. Reality, sometimes difficult, is much easier to deal with. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and great to see that you eat really well😉
I always tell myself not to create a narrative that no one agrees with. We always tell children to speak up ,ask questions, and feel their emotions with no harm. As adults, we should do the same.
I relate to this so much, especially the part about time-matching/exceeding text responses (soooo pathetic and immature when you really think about it 😭😭😭😭). These days, I’m really trying to be more comfortable with showing vulnerability. I literally could be head over heels for someone but will refuse to send the first text 😭😭 I believe it all boils down to a fear of rejection. Thank you for making this video, you really have a way of putting complex emotions into a very aesthetic video 🫶🏾
Your maturity is truly ahead of your age. I wish I had your perspective when I was your age. You are strengthening your inner self as well as your physical. Stay true. Aloha
In the simplest terms, thank you. It is very refreshing to still have people like this with this type of mindset. I’m not sure why but everyone wants a god aura or something.
Thank you, i definitely needed to hear this, i feel as if my "vulnerability" was perceived as being pushy or rushing in a way since i got the "its moving to quick, i don't want to do this anymore" text. And its as you said where the date went really well, we were even planning multiple ideas since both of us really wanted to see each other again, but before that could happen he basically said that, he was feeling obligated to text back rather than want to, and felt claustrophobic from me always reaching out. Basically i guess, is there a fundamental line where it just becomes to much for someone and eventually become uninterested, and if so what did i do wrong to step over that line. Thank you, these topics are never easy to discuss and they really do help!
❤❤❤ this is so true. One of the guiding principals in my life also even when its hard. Truth will set you free ✨ thankyou for sharing your vulnerability with us. Bug hug ❤
The more I watch and get to know you, the more I see myself in you. We have so much similarly. I wish you all the best in your family because you deserve, wish I was in Australia I would definitely be your friend.
Enjoying your channel mate. Thinking of moving up to Sydney myself soon from Melbourne and your neighbourhood area looks amazing! Is it Darlinghurst or Newtown area by any chance?
Kumasta Ka! Another insightful and informative vlog Pinsan, well done! Trust me, Mr Right will turn up at the right time, i.e. when you're ready (as it did for my meeting my now Filipino husband). BTW, whereabouts was the Filipino restaurant? There aren't many in Sydney! Salamat po!🥰
I might be moving to your Country next year...i love your little apartment. Wondering, what part is it? Whats the name of your neighborhood if I was to look for an apartment in that area? Thanks!
Great insights and nice music. So yea, I have been alone 99% of my life. Every time I allow myself to be vulnerable, my heart ends up broken and I have to take anti-depressants. LOL. It is just easier being alone. Yet, it isn't truly living... I guess.
I think you, like many others these days, are misusing the word "vulnerability". If you are vulnerable you are easily hurt - surely not a good or desirable thing. I think what you are talking about is not avoiding expressing your feelings for fear of being hurt or embarrassed i.e. making yourself vulnerable.
You look soo good being vulnerable
Great tips, Great food and Great lighting
@5:22 I looooooooove the shirt REAL BADD
@@TheHeatInColorPodcast thank you! I’m really happy you liked it. And yes that’s one of my fav gym shirts 💪🏾
people are afraid of being awkward or rejected/failing but doing new things requires both. great advice im still learning this
Such great advice 👏 👌 👍
Something about this video makes me want to revisit 'NOT PRETTY ENOUGH' by Kasey Chambers 😊 the ultimate ode to vulnerability 😮
There’s nothing more attractive than vulnerability
Couldn’t agree more
embrace your feelings and being honest and communicative will attract people with the right intention as u do. Those that are avoidant do not have the skillset to be in a serious relationship ♥
@@zraiderz yes this! you’re so right 🙌🏼
I LOVE your videos and your vulnerability ! I am a Nurse in L.A. and have been on both sides of this fence (Vulnerability and rejection) -- as we ALL have. I've been rejected and I have had to reject plenty, that is life. But putting yourself out there like this is amazing -- you are attractive physically and mentally stimulating -- you will do just fine when the right one comes along. 🙂Come to L.A. and say hi & keep these upppp !
@@joeyzoom24 rejection is a part of life, it shouldn’t stop us from living ! Thx for your comment. Will defs have to visit LA (I’ve never been) at some point !
Kuya Joey you are the strongest people who win battles we know nothing about, it’s not a weakness per se but a strength to understand more of yourself that makes you you! 😊❤
@@patrickdaveserquina6719 thank you 🙏🏼 kind words, truly
Being vulnerable and honest about what you want is a good thing.Even rejection can be a good thing.Love your videos Joey!.😎
@@leedaniels7196 yesss, fearing rejection only makes you miss out on things!
@@joeyroey Absolutely Joey!.👍
soooooo real, lately I've been finding myself realizing that I'm just playing myself by not being vulnerable and playing the "he took 1 hour to reply, I'll take 2" game. the guy missed out big time on you, but glad it was still a learning experience for you
Yeah, why do we do that hey? We’re only playing ourselves 🤣 best to stay authentic
Joey, excellent video. Showing your kind sweet vulnerability is refreshing. Once again you have such great energy. Have a good week my friend. ❤
Appreciate the kind words! 🫶🏼
You have such a good energy. And so honest, Dude, Joey, you are so sweet, I really enjoy this content. Hard to believe you are single, you're a very handsome man.
@@aceautonewportky you’re too kind, thanks for making my day!
Joey, really enjoy your videos and respect how you live. Your are so with it compared to me when I was your age. Keep enjoying life and thank you from the US.
Thank you! 🙏🏼 I’m glad you’re enjoying them
Sometimes waiting is just two people thinking the same and both unsure to make a move, sort of a stalemate situation.... being proactive is empowering and often the understanding of the other persons situation makes more sense than all those scenarios in our head. Reality, sometimes difficult, is much easier to deal with. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and great to see that you eat really well😉
Brilliant video. You articulated the subject beautifully.
I always tell myself not to create a narrative that no one agrees with. We always tell children to speak up ,ask questions, and feel their emotions with no harm. As adults, we should do the same.
Agree 👍🏽
Another great upload dude ...vibe was so relaxing and topic was so refreshing...shows great strength and personal growth. Sweet. 😊
Thanks for joining me on my journey 🙌🏼
I relate to this so much, especially the part about time-matching/exceeding text responses (soooo pathetic and immature when you really think about it 😭😭😭😭). These days, I’m really trying to be more comfortable with showing vulnerability. I literally could be head over heels for someone but will refuse to send the first text 😭😭 I believe it all boils down to a fear of rejection. Thank you for making this video, you really have a way of putting complex emotions into a very aesthetic video 🫶🏾
@@ifofanah1We’re self sabotaging ourselves 😂 next time send that first text ;)
You must be true to yourself!! It’s taken me a long time to get this way. You are a very handsome guy!! You will find the right person. Big hugs 🤗
Your maturity is truly ahead of your age. I wish I had your perspective when I was your age. You are strengthening your inner self as well as your physical. Stay true. Aloha
@@patuki6133 had to learn to be mature the hard way, thanks for your comment 🫶🏼
It’s like every feeling I’ve ever had you have a video for it!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@The_official_jaijai I’m glad! I’m open to video suggestions
Being yourself and honesty are powerful . Love your vid mate!!♥️
Thanks Mr Sizzle! Your euro vlogs are making me jelly being stuck in Sydney 😂
@@joeyroey Sydney is BEAUTIFUL! I wouldnt mind bein' to stuck there tbh. 😍hope to visit there in the near future
@@ItsJonsizzle defs come visit, I’ll show you around 🌊 ☀️
In the simplest terms, thank you. It is very refreshing to still have people like this with this type of mindset. I’m not sure why but everyone wants a god aura or something.
I loved de Bossa Nova sound at the beginning :)
@@adrian.henriq very relaxing 😌
Thank you, i definitely needed to hear this, i feel as if my "vulnerability" was perceived as being pushy or rushing in a way since i got the "its moving to quick, i don't want to do this anymore" text. And its as you said where the date went really well, we were even planning multiple ideas since both of us really wanted to see each other again, but before that could happen he basically said that, he was feeling obligated to text back rather than want to, and felt claustrophobic from me always reaching out.
Basically i guess, is there a fundamental line where it just becomes to much for someone and eventually become uninterested, and if so what did i do wrong to step over that line.
Thank you, these topics are never easy to discuss and they really do help!
It’s never too much for the right person. Remember that 🫶🏼
❤❤❤ this is so true. One of the guiding principals in my life also even when its hard. Truth will set you free ✨ thankyou for sharing your vulnerability with us. Bug hug ❤
@@thekajalflaneur I’m glad you resonate with it 👌🏼
The more I watch and get to know you, the more I see myself in you. We have so much similarly. I wish you all the best in your family because you deserve, wish I was in Australia I would definitely be your friend.
You must be a pretty great person then! Haha
The little mole you have is so cute 🥰
I used to hate it but now I love it 🤣
I think you are very nice person, I live by myself to here in Edmonton but I have a sister and a brother is close to me
❤
Man you are telling the story of kf my life!
Have a good day Joey!
@@Areloghy thanks 🙏🏼
@@joeyroey You’re Welcome.
I love this, ty !
@@davidfanene9218 🫰🏽
Enjoying your channel mate. Thinking of moving up to Sydney myself soon from Melbourne and your neighbourhood area looks amazing! Is it Darlinghurst or Newtown area by any chance?
Love the vid ❤
@@jrome9825 thanks 🫶🏼
Bossa Nova opening. Nice.
😌 🍃
Brazillian song
@@marcosandresnt 🙌🏼
Kumasta Ka! Another insightful and informative vlog Pinsan, well done! Trust me, Mr Right will turn up at the right time, i.e. when you're ready (as it did for my meeting my now Filipino husband). BTW, whereabouts was the Filipino restaurant? There aren't many in Sydney! Salamat po!🥰
Let’s chon in Sydenham. It’s amazing! Give it a try. Also thank you 🫶🏼
Name of the filo restaurant please,food looks delicious
Let’s Chon - Sydenham
🥰🥰🥰🥰⚔️
@@brashawnsiriboe 🙌🏼
I would not reject you, be nice to meet you and hang out, go to the gym for dinner, etc.
@@briansullivan4873 you’re too kind 😃
I might be moving to your Country next year...i love your little apartment. Wondering, what part is it? Whats the name of your neighborhood if I was to look for an apartment in that area? Thanks!
Great insights and nice music. So yea, I have been alone 99% of my life. Every time I allow myself to be vulnerable, my heart ends up broken and I have to take anti-depressants. LOL. It is just easier being alone. Yet, it isn't truly living... I guess.
@@bg147 unfortunately that’s what we gotta do, risk heartbreak for the potential of happiness. It’s worth it though !
@@joeyroey Thank you
hmn.. kare-kare, yum
My fav 🤤
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@@ChaserCandy-rl5ro 🙌🏼
I think you, like many others these days, are misusing the word "vulnerability". If you are vulnerable you are easily hurt - surely not a good or desirable thing. I think what you are talking about is not avoiding expressing your feelings for fear of being hurt or embarrassed i.e. making yourself vulnerable.
ASAWA you cute 🙏🔥
You are cute ❤❤❤
Thanks !🙏🏼