kid in vr talks about getting bullied... 2 years later
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Hi Dawabvle how are you?
Hey bro! Just think of them as your mind messing with you! Sometimes bully’s will be through something and throw their pain and anger on others! Maybe talk to them, ask them if they going through something but they could also just do it to make fun of you!
Hope this helped!
Sending good vibes to you always dawa ✨
We missed you dawa! 😁
I love how he just casually mentioned, oh yea i have scoliosis now.
You know it's really awesome that he gave that information out. I guarantee you he is MTHFR snp gene mutations.
It can cause a whole host of issues. Especially mental issues. These people cannot methylate properly. I'm part of that group. So is my son so is my mother my grandmother my aunt and three out of six of my cousins. It even extends into our extended family. Such as my grandmother's brother his three children, six out of eight grandchildren. I truly hope he sees my comment. They are very simple things that can help him methylate. Will help him actually process and make his own melatonin melanin and D3. Guaranteed he has oxalate issues as well. Bless him. Things such as folic acid can be a slow cell death for ourselves. It must change into another chemical before it changes into folate. That chemical gets trapped into our cells. That chemical actually is a chemical in the cyanide family. It's really sad that people don't know these things but I guess if you don't study genetics you would have no idea.
At least he seems to accept his condition and knows it all will be good.
I have scoliosis but it’s minor.
@@rubb3rlizard607 I hope you get better.
The height thing is so relatable tho.. Oh yeah im this and that but without scoliosis i would be so and so tall🥴
my jaw dropped when i heard his current voice
ah yes, the power of puberty
Puberty magic
Man, puberty hit my voice and height like a tricycle going a mile an hour :(
@@JourneysEnding how tall have you reached?
I'm 16 and a half rn and I'm 177cm tall
@@minecraftstation6422 I think the voice changes more drastically in America IDK why but at least it seems for me xd
Everyone that change voice that I know took some time to change voices, hell I took some time to change voice and a kid I know from America changed in like a week from a kid voice to a deep voice xd
I'm probably like 10 years older than he is, but I wanna be his friend.
@@puffmello2674 I think they're saying they just feel bad for him and wanna be his friend, like most decent people would.
@@puffmello2674 you do know that friendships don’t have the same age gap rules as romantic relationships, right?
That neoalien person felt so dumb they deleted their comment. Smh. Leave ur comment up and acknowledge ur mistake like a real one next time 🗿
@@aphr0d lel it only proves our point
@@cablekar what did they say..?
that guy is literally the coolest guy that ever lived
AGREED.
The way he talks is super eloquent and his stories are interesting and funny and relatable and I'm just so amazed at his self-awareness and thought processes. Insightful, really.
Wish him all the best!
Sure dude
Bap
I didn’t open the comments until right when he said that and I saw this at the same time👀
Mhm
This kid is so sweet, articulate, and clever. The way they are able to speak about there feelings and the way they perceive things is incredible
Agreed, this kid is very self aware for his age
Him talking about social anxiety is something I didn't realize I needed.
you need social anxiety?.. 😭
Yep, I’m totally self conscious like that in public spaces. I’m on medication for it, but it never really leaves you. ❤️
God said
“You got your train ticket?”
*proceeds to clip out his back*
I just had the same thoughts he said he had as he was telling the story and then I just cried in my bed. This was a weird experience
@Josiah No last name lmaoo
idk how else i should say it then.
Something about this all is so comforting. It‘s like talking to a friend, somehow I feel like he is so easy to get along with. I could listen to him for days, ngl.
I have ADHD and I have never heard something so accurate to how it feels. It's comforting to know that I'm not the only one feeling like this.
I don't know how young he is, but he's so well-spoken for his age.
He's really comfortable talking in VR.
I'm sorry but....
The floor is made out of floor.
@@kaylons NO... THIS CAN'T BE
@@ziwuri call the cops, this guy is committing arson.
As a Weezer fan, I appreciate the fact you included that part where he just talks about being a Weezer fan
it's time to finally listen to weezer
@@syrmor I agree
He was actually singing Maroon 5 "Payphone" Weezer doesn't have any songs with those lyrics.
@@whome77 I know, but he still talked about Weezer
pay phone isn’t weezer it’s maroon 5
This guy is legit hilarious and sooo relatable. I can really see my 17y/o self when he talks. I’m almost 22 and things have gotten better which, thinking about it now, wow it’s insane that i actually feel such a relief and so happy
I absolutely LOVE his sense of humor. "I post sick raps, but they're actually not raps they're drawings." His comedic delivery and timing is perfect, and I think he's gonna turn out alright.
I was expecting his voice to get a little deeper but oh my god he sounds like he got five years older than the last time we saw him.
I know I thought I had misunderstood something and it wasn’t supposed to be the same person, until I read this comment
puberty slammed *HARD* here
Its like finding an old youtube video by some kid and then you watch their latest video
Called puberty mate
@@anhilo9716 it’ll slap even harder once he becomes a senior in high school. I swear from freshmen year to senior year the guys grow beards
I absolutely love how he just keeps talking! Like one question makes him tell so many stories which are so entertaining. It’s so cute ☺️
Yea, ADHD at it's finest 😄
This guy could kill doing stand up comedy . His punch lines actually hit hilariously. You can sense the seriousness behind it while at the same time he’s just sort of “yeah whatever” about it. His life experiences have given him a gift
Yeah, this is just in a convo off the top of his head. Imagine if he wrote stuff down
very much like...dmitri martin vibes, you know?
RIGJT ?
Idk but I think that's a common speech/thought pattern with ADHD
The first vr stand up comedian
this kid legitimately sounds so funny and sweet, I hope he is able to continue to work on his social anxiety and not get discouraged, i remember feeling the exact same way when I was his age
Turns out there are probably an insane amount of kids who struggle with something similar, but nobody listens to them and they never get the help or attention they need.
Truth. I have ADHD as well. I'm also autistic and struggle with a variety of mental health issues. People like us are everywhere, people just don't like to focus on us.
@@LycanthropyLobo 🙏 may the force be with you my bruddah
Or if people do focus on you, the response is that you get bullied or ignored, unfortunately
I got diagnosed with ADHD at 30. x.x I never knew =/
I have adhd but not that bad but bad enough that I need medicine
“God punched my back” I’m sorry but that’s hilarious to hear as a virtual Kermit punches the air
This kid is awesome. Hope he is able to get over his social anxiety. He’s pretty funny!
He won't if he perpetuates his nutritional deficiency.
@@mimszanadunstedt441 ... Yikes.
@@anobody4606 Psychology as a field ignores nutritional biology. If you are deficient in just a few minerals you can't use half your brain without a problem happening.
Social anxiety is easily curable. I don’t like admitting it, but I struggled with it for a very long time, then I got into fitness and now I no longer care what others think… it’s the process that makes you change the way you see yourself, and no drugs or alcohol in the world can change that.
Poor guy. I remember having exactly the same thoughts back when I was at school: "I already know all this, and they don't even know how to teach it, so what is the point of me even being here?" The American education system is so frigging broken. We're lucky we don't come out of it and immediately die.
I love the creative way he expresses himself: "God came down and punched my back", "By good good juice, I mean water". I hope he gets more good opportunities to be social and have fun because he's really not bad with people, not more than the average person at least, just very hard on himself.
That's what bullying does to you. You constantly get told what's wrong with you and ostracised to the point you can't see anything good in yourself and you internalise the pessimism and feel like you deserve nothing. Being hard on yourself is the manifestation of those being hard on you as a child.
Ouchies
Has nothing to do with the USA, public schooling is a thing all over the world.
@@lukasschmidt2478 Public schooling isn't the SAME all over the world.
@@anobody4606 No, you're right, being indoctrinated in Japanese is probably a much nicer experience I would be guessing.
*sings Adam leviene
"It's weezer hopefully"
This man is a comedy genius lmao
_meanwhile syrmor stares_
Wasn't it Payphone by Maroon 5?
@@danvexwx6926 yes, whose lead singer is adam levine
@@foodisgood5665 Ah, I see... The more we learn then, but how would he relate it all to Weezer?
@@danvexwx6926 thats the joke
I want to hug this guy, he seems like he needs it.
If mirrors had a flavour, I think it’d probably taste like tongues.
Ohno please
🧐
What? Why tongues? Lmao.
@@twiggy1253because you taste your reflection of the tongue I guess
This makes a lot of sense, I was also thinking water cause water do be reflective
the world really misses out with Dawa having the social anxiety. His humor is great and he has perfect timing for pauses. It would be a pleasure to hear him talk in person.
Man, this is amazing. I'm 35yrs old but still related so hard to a lot of the experiences he talked about. Plus I've been thinking how much I'd love to be able to draw and animate but currently can't, so the "you need to draw, bitch" is good advice all around.
“What song is that?”
“Idk something by Weezer hopefully”
“Are you a big Weezer fan?”
“Only their first two albums but you’re not allowed to say you’re a fan of their second one”
He summed up every fucking Weezer fan in one go. Despite Dawabvle being socially anxious, he’s hilarious.
Facts Pinkerton is so good
@@zevenup yeah but raditude is better im sorry i dont make the rules
@@ofresco2 facts man "Im Your Daddy" saved my life
Saying you like the second album is a secret rule that we all know 🥲
hahah havent even seen the whole vid yet and this made me stick around
As someone with ARFID, scoliosis, and ADHD the
*"does spaghetti look like worms"* part had me dead 💀
if i may ask what's arfid?
man i actually loved just watching this guy talk about his problems
Mad love for this kid. I think the hardest part is accepting that, if you're yourself and people don't like you, it's actually saving you time in making friends you'd want to have.
it’s good to see him again, and it seems puberty hit him as well
It hit him like truck-kun to an isekai anime protagonist.
@@arodnoir3092 I don’t watch anime so I have no idea what the fuck that meant😂😂
@@Heisenberg000. well the joke wasn't for you
@@StrawberryDreamsicle well my joke wasn’t for you
@@Heisenberg000. And every isekai anime there is a cliche or a where a truck comes barreling through a stop light and kills the main character and they get transported to another world and so the Internet has taken the name truck-kun.
"what would mirrors taste if they had a flavor?" Man that is straight up material for a literature nobel Prize. Honestly... that shows a really creative mind.
People with ADHD, I can confirm as one of them with really severe ADHD, are super creative and we can think of things that your brain wouldn’t think to think of in ages..like what would a mirror taste like??
@@moony2543 if were thinking with mirror logic, it would taste like the thig it would be reflecting, so it would just be T O N G U E
it would taste like…water probably.
It’s ADHD lol 😂
Omg AGREE
The art thing happens to me too!!! I’ll be putting art online and people would go “wow this looks good!” And I’m like “are u saying that to be nice? Or is it because it’s genuinely good? Is it good enough for people to think of? To zoom in on the colors and details? Did I improve in ur eyes? Am I really even improving?”
This dude sums up the situation so well :)
The great king is back
Come home plz
I have no anemo and I have a lot of pyro so why you gave me C1 Diluc
@@DEEZ_N4T same I lost the 50/50 and got Diluc
I ended up grinding primogems until I finally got kazuha on my 62nd wish :D
Thank you for coming home
Been wondering how he’s doing.
Meeting people like them is exactly why I'd love to get into vr chat. It seems like we've been through some of the exact same things. I've been bullied all my live, I have ADD, I struggle with depression and anxiety, etc. Several years later and I'm still struggling with life. Sometimes having someone to talk to is all that we need to get through the day.
the kid talking about his experience going to the mall alone hits close to home. thats why i dont go to the mall ever i just do my shopping online lol. even as a woman, im overly cautious about how others perceive me (like as a threat or not, if they think im weird or not, if im grossing them out etc) and just feel the need to RUN if i get a vibe tht they r scared or weirded out by me. as u get older u learn how to cope with things a bit better but those thoughts and feelings are still there. like i cannot go to the grocery store more than once a week, i lock my car 3 times, among other "routines", yeah social anxiety + adhd is quite the experience isnt it? i could rant forever but i think this is enough for a yt comment lol
That sounds kinda like ocd, it's not uncommon to have ocd if u have adhd (I have both lol) but it can be kinda hard to tell because ocd like. Feels rational to you on some level. Like you know it isn't but it's not as crazy as like "I have to tap this 3 times or the building will set on fire" which I feel like a lot of people make it out to be, sometimes it's just like "if I don't breathe as quietly as possible while I'm on this bus everyone is gonna look at me and think im a weirdo who breathes funny" which is fucking absurd because you can't even hear weird breathing on the bus it's so loud in there and I'm not even breathing weirdly when I just breathe normally but I get so paranoid and anxious about it that I have to just give in and breathe weird so that no one thinks I breathe weird, it's dumb but it doesn't feel dumb because it's a thing that could feasibly happen it just most likely won't
I feel you on the paranoid fear of being percieved as threatening or disgusting tho I'm dealing way better with my social anxiety and accepting that it's not my fault if people see me that way but some situations it just really messes with me, I can't date because I'm too scared of people being grossed out or getting angry that I think I have the right to ask for a date when I'm so repulsive but I don't even think I am??? It's just been bullied into me basically and it's really hard to get it out, shit sucks
Question, do you have ADHD? Because I’m starting to notice a pattern with overthinking and ADHD
same i am really scared of how people think of me that it forces me to just freeze and not even say a single word at all. which is why I socially want to be irrelevant (usually in school) so not much attention gets to me and there would be less judgement and anxiety.
TheGuyWithAHoodie there could be a pattern of overthinking with ADHD but it's not always the case. Paranoia or being overly cautious hasn't been my experience with ADHD. I don't worry too much about how I'm negatively viewed and instead try to actively have positive thoughts about people and even positive interactions. Even if that's just a smile .. or complimenting someone in my head. Funnily enough, the more I do this, the more I think they're thinking positively about me too. I used to be quite insecure in my youth about how others viewed me, and this change of pattern helped me so much. but like the original commenter noted, there's always a worry about a threat being around the corner but that could just be healthy caution (being vulnerable in some way makes u feel like this). As a woman I definitely have this thought in the back of my mind
Bro that shit dodging strangers and feeling like you’re being laughed at is what I feel a lot. Not in a demeaning way but try to tell yourself I’m not that important people aren’t basing their days on my actions
Love inconveniencing myself so I can avoid speaking to someone.
I wasn't even homeschooled, and I'll still run away from someone I recognize in public.
You'll become a lot less concerned what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they think of anyone but themselves.
@@ShadowWizard123 I can at least speak for myself that I can get anxious just from having to talk to others, and not necessarily conscious worrying about what they think of me. But yes, agree, as a fellow human being, I'm usually caught up in my own shit. I do notice little things people do, but I'm just a creepy people watcher, so I don't set the standard.
I cant leave the house without headphones so I can act like im the only person in public. Hate being looked at and hearing all the people in public. Crazy how many people are so agoraphobic.
Never seen an interview format like this before. Very interesting, well done
Guy 1- Goes on a whole spiel
about his 8th grade math teacher
Guy 2- What do you think I asked you?
Guy 1- Uhh...
Guy 2- I asked you if the way you mange your ADHD has changed in the last 2 years.
Well I think his answer pretty much speaks for itself.
that cracked me up cause it always happens to me, i go off on some tangent and completely forget what the question was
I have adhd and I do that
when he was describing his social anxiety i just slowly realised that was exactly the same as how i think and feel.
"I post sick raps but they're not raps and they're drawings"
Convinced me to subscribe immediately
Read my mind
@@absarqureshi8608 Read my mind
Dude is genuinely funny.
I'm almost 30 and it still amazes me how much a guy's voice will change in literally just a year or two.
My voice changed when I started 6th grade. I did not know this around the time, but everyone would point out how my voice deepened. It is to the point where it is not even surprising anymore if the newer generation were to have a deeper voice around 6th grade. Well, that is just my experience. I am currently 15 years old.
You don't no how much I needed this today 💙
"I ran away from a girl I like at best buy."
"So I'm basically like the coolest guy that ever lived."
Lmao this guy is funnier than most guys with height.
That's how a lot of really short people are. They're witty because they kinda have to be or people will just step all over them.
@@ironhead1177 idk man, i was the shortest in my grade but ive only gotten positive interactions out of it in my 18 years... depends where you grow up i suppose. like you said, i feel like your personality is more of a factor to getting bullied (i.e if you're a very quiet person, or maybe if you're really annoying)
@@homeyworkey Yeah you're probably right about the personality thing. Where I grew up, a lot of the short kids were known for insulting people and fighting a lot, but losing almost every time. But most people left them alone because they didn't want to deal with their short tempers. But that's just my community, cant speak for other places.
@@ironhead1177 That's such a weird and false take. Either you're witty or you aren't, it's not something you develop as a defense mechanism. People who try hard to be funny/witty typically fail at it catastrophically and come across as just corny, cringe and, you guessed it, tryhard instead.
@@raccoonchild If you don't agree with me that's cool, but a lot of people do develop "wit" as a defense mechanism. No one is born with any trait and if you're talking about people who "fail" at it, I'm guessing you are talking about people who are not actually witty but try to be.
Hey, I relate to him a whole lot. I am currently 15. I was diagnosed with a growth hormone deficiency and hypothyroidism at the age of 8/9. All my life I have always been misunderstood and mistaken as a young child (10 or so). It is really frustrating, I know. Dude you have gone through a lot I wish that we didn't and don't have to deal with it. You seem like the best person to be around. I am currently going into Junior year in high school and I am not looking forward to the people who don't understand what I go through. Height and weight suck when you can't help it haha and it affects the social aspect of our lives. Anyways, I just had to share. This made me not feel so alone knowing that other people have had to put up with it.
Ever considered HGH shots?
for when he talked about scoliosis, my friend had scoliosis and got surgery for it. she spent MONTHS trying to relearn how to walk and it took her a few months to be able to walk again. she has the metal rods in her spine and yeah she has a large scar on her back. she’s so brave and she has recover now because she got the surgery in summer of 2020.
Months? Wow I can’t imagine. We got out surgeries in the same time frame but I was up and going by the second day after surgery. I hope she’s okayyyy 😭
@@jordansprings4954 Spinal surgery is invasive and intense.
@@cablekar Ik I’ve had it 😭
I knew a guy who had the surgery with great results. Straightened his spine, relieving him of curvature and pinched nerves. His discs were beginning to be compressed, too. One week in hospital, was able to carefully walk by the time he went home. Turns out he gained TWO inches in height!! Yeah, he’s got the long scar, but he’s able to joke lightly about it.
I hope this kid becomes successful and happy. He deserves it.
Symor is so nice listening to him talk about his anxiety and everything. ❤️🥺
“What would mirrors taste like if they had a flavour” I felt that one deep down
Dang, his voice went deep since 2 years ago. Also the thing about meeting with people from school now is also happening with me. Every time I see someone from school in public, I just panic and go to the opposite of where they're going I don't even know if people would recognize me 'cos of the masks but also I got glasses and changed my hair colour since.
Take control, assert dominance - come say hello before they do.
Be the threat that you fear - initiate contact first.
If you do it first then you are catching them off-guard and not the other way around.
😂😂
But if you actually do that, you don't even need to say much: "hey, how you doing?" "Cool, cool, alright I gotta go. See you later"
I always feel awkward in public aswell. Like if I’m behind someone too long I get nervous that they think I’m following them.
I could listen to this guy talk forever dude
right
Same he also lowkey just seems like a SUPER chill guy to just hang with and talk to
Oh man getting anime time skip flashbacks but seriously tho I've been there I'm happy i don't have to go to school anymore and sadly during my school year's i realized I'm not college material
It's okay. A lot of people arent college material. Dont let that lead you to thinking that you wont be successful. College saddles you with a lot of debt as well.
@@justsomeguy4099 Well said. College didn't work out for me but I learned that it's not what I wanna do and that's what it's all about.
@@justsomeguy4099 god bless America
That's all good. College is a scam anyways.
@@mortis3732 college is a wonderful resource. You should’ve used it
Bro this shows that you’re not the only one if you think you are. Everyone’s situation is different but so many of the experiences that my guy explained are extremely relatable. Like the people thinking your following them, completely zoning out and doing the “Sherlock homes stuff”
When he took off his headset Kermit’s movements were funny af
me being a contemplative artist with adhd that woke up at 2 pm today and hasnt drawn for a few days and is going into art school after the summer- this video as a whole meant a lot to me, but i swear- just the "you need to draw more.. bitch." at the end has revived not only my career going forward, but me as a person entiRELY LMAO
Magnesium exercise and zinc deficiency~
oh my god same
I could listen to this kid speak forever. I hate how ruthless kids can be. It’s like they destroyed his self esteem before he was even able to develop it and find out who he is.
Listening to Dawa's dreams of being an animator really made me smile. Keep drawing and make it happen, cap'n
He's very mature for his age. I mean ADHD aside he has a pretty good view on the world. Ignore the haters, kid...in 10 years they're gonna look back and cringe at themselves.
I’m crying because this is really relatable. Most my anxiety is in public, school is a problem, I have no friends.. *mental breakdown*
*_comfort over ze internet_*
Honestly same
Okay so avoidance isn't a great strategy for dealing with anxiety but neither is constantly exposing yourself to triggers, the method to deal with this is essentially confronting your problems by avoiding them, which sounds stupid but hear me out. If you acknowledge and accept that you have a mental health issue that is obstructing your ability to succeed in a school environment, you need to tell people that AND tell them what you need from them to be able to manage that issue so you can improve. It won't always go well and that is hard to deal with, but it's worth trying because when it does work it makes everything so much easier. Maybe you need a special pass or something that allows you to leave class and go to a quiet space where you can still be supervised but have less people around you, wherever that may be. Maybe you need private meetings with your teachers to help you break down assignments into smaller less overwhelming steps so it takes less mental energy to make progress. Things like that that help you avoid your triggers without avoiding your responsibilities completely. If you can communicate your problems in a way that shows you want to do well and are willing to put effort in to improve it can really help convince people that you aren't trying to use your mental health as an excuse to get out of stuff, and that you are capable of doing what's expected of you provided you have the right supports.
I mention school first because it's easier to improve that anxiety than social anxiety at first, but once you start thinking about strategies like that and practising them you'll be able to start applying the same kind of thinking to social anxiety and that can give you just enough confidence to still function while you try to work through and process your insecurities and learn to love yourself, because that's really hard and takes a long time but it's much easier when being insecure isn't making you too scared to leave the house unless you have to
Same here :(
As someone who has some skills in drawing, I totally get what he was saying when he talked about people saying it's good but you don't think it isn't. But the thing is that at the beginning it's that but afterwards it's "damn you're really good" and you know they mean it but you see every flaws in your creation and so you're just like "meh, idk".
I know this is late but a great way that's helped my social anxiety (I have crippling anxiety going grocery shopping) is listening to music because I'm focused on the music so when I get the paranoia about people looking at me I just remember I'm listening to music so I refocus on that because ADHD
the way he just throws the mcdonald’s cup lmao
XD
YEET
His voice dropped so much omg. He's adawable.
The part where he’s talking about “does spaghetti look like worms?” had me on the floor
"I post sick raps but they're not raps and they're drawings" Man his humor has improved in the last 2 years, that one got me good.
He’s the guy version of me, him talking about his dream of doing animation how he grew up with it was like hearing myself, I also have social anxiety and would do that exact same thing he did at the mall, I’m 21 now and still like that, afraid of going out
same! i’m his age but a girl! these 16 minutes were so comforting cause i understood every little thing he was saying. i’ve felt and experienced (to a degree) of what hes talking about and all that
i am the exact same as well i am also 21
i feel less weird now knowing that other people are like me / went through similar things
Him talking about school is so relatable. Iv always had to do double takes on videos or reread stuff I just learned bc I would watch the video or sum and realized I didn’t focus the whole time. This would just go in a loop. So many times Iv just broke down and cried. It rlly feels the worst watching and knowing other people can do this easily while I sit here at the same age- struggling to do the same.
"I'm walking, so I'm like this-"
*proceeds to teleport on top of the table*
1:57 i fking spat my drink out when i saw that squating kermit just died laughing
hahaha :)
For real it is the best pose, lol
my paralysis demon be like
He was twerking too.
Vr really helps with your social skills trust me. A year ago I used to hate talking to new people and I felt like trapped and got so nervous when I had to approach a new person. At one point it was so bad that my face would turn red and my eyes would start watering. Since playing vr for about a year now I have gained so many social skills and feel confident when talking to people.
Sadly, I can really relate to him about his thought process at the mall
when he says he is trying to go into art school: 😳
hopefully he gets in..
Third Reich noises intensify
😶
hahaha i was just gonna comment something like this
@@GPickle32 we do quite an extensive amount of trolling
This kid is seriously hilarious. Seems like someone I would’ve been great friends with at school.
“What’s scoliosis?”
“It’s genetic, I’m gonna give it to you and you’re gonna be in pain.”
“Oh.”
THE COMEDIC GENIUS OF THIS GUY RIGHT HERE. I also have adhd I want this dude to be my best friend
Hey brother.....if ya don't mind, can I know more bout adhd from ya??
oh shoot
@@nikhilpatro6376 it sucks I have it too and it makes it very difficult to focus in highschool. It also makes me seem less mature this is because I'm always hyper if you compare me to the normal person.
ADHD is not a real disability
hearing people talk seemingly so comfortably with someone about their problems makes me lowkey wanna talk with people about mine too but i don’t wanna bore ppl about it sidksjdjei
I feel like the youtube recommendations know that I've waited 2 years for this video
"I post sick raps but they're not raps and they're drawings"
Instant favourite human.
I have ADHD as well and I love drawing and animation, so everything he says is so relatable lmao
And ur right, i really should draw more. Such wisdom
bvle would be great in public speaking. he's got that movement, the perfect flow and segways and appropriate setups and punchlines to make the talk less depressing.
I'm homeschooled and can confirm that I've literally had points where I didn't leave my house for anything for like 2 years at a time. I am really fuckin weird socially, I say weird or creepy stuff cause it makes them laugh and that makes me feel better but they never really like me or want to be friends. But like, other than that, I'm good 👍.
If you're uncomfortable interacting with people they pick up on that and that can be part of why they don't really want to be friends, they can see you aren't really comfortable and so its kind of awkward and that makes them want to end the interaction because it's awkward and uncomfortable for everyone, but it isn't because of who you are, it's because you're afraid of them. Try going out in public in places or at times where there aren't so many people around, I used to just go on walks around my neighbourhood at first, as long as you're going outside somewhere you may be perceived by a stranger that's a good start, don't go too out of your comfort zone too quickly or it'll make it worse.
Whatever you do don't bring up the fact that no one really likes you or wants to be friends with you with anyone you're still getting to know, it can be really off-putting to potential friends as it pushes them away, you're almost claiming it as part of your identity, so people will assume you don't want to be friends with them, which isnt what you want. Saying weird and creepy stuff is similarly off-putting and they're more likely to be laughing because they're uncomfortable if you say stuff like that, it isn't helping you.
You may not be aware of it yet but a lot of these things are subconscious ways to avoid the fear of rejection by making yourself easy to reject, so that you have control over it and it can't be weaponised against you. This isn't your fault but it's also not good for you and you're gonna have to teach yourself not to do it anymore, which is scary because you have to let go of your control so it's best to work towards it slowly to avoid triggering your anxiety. Start with what I suggested first about going out in public more, build up confidence so you can exist comfortably in public and that will make it easier to start interacting with people as just yourself instead of acting weird on purpose.
It's okay to be weird, people won't hate you for it, but you have to be comfortable with your weirdness and accept what makes you who you are for people to start liking you for it. You can do that, it's not easy but it's the most important step, other people can't feel comfortable around you until you can feel comfortable with yourself. Plus it's way easier to live even without friends when you stop blaming yourself for other people's opinions of you, what they think is their fault, it's up to you to decide if it matters or not.
@@butasimpleidiotwizard Damn that's some solid advice, I'm doing better than I was before cause I got a job and I'm not too weird if I have something else to do. I'm gonna start doing my best to not say creepy stuff cause I watched some true stories about how it can go too far and get me in jail (like making a gun related joke)
Idiot Wizard this is an amazing comment. I could implement in my own life -- this is great advice for anyone who hasn't had diverse interactions with others in awhile. Thanks idiot wizard :) !
Timmytomato good luck Timmy
Fantastic editing syrmor
I love that he always looks at the best outlook on negativity. Good things are coming his way!
8:53 is my favorite part omg 😭 when he says “let’s go to da mall!” in that voice with those hand expressions i just want to sit here and watch him just talk about his life forever
Such a perfect video. I’m 28 now, and I can relate to this kid so much because its just things I have not quite yet, accepted? Having the same issues, minus the scoliosis, I feel terrible for him.
I will say, as a teacher, this is really informative. Thanks for sharing your story, Dawabvle.
This guy had so much to let off his chest, thank you for being an ear to listen to
"God came down and punched my back." You have a great sense of humor, my man. 😂
The way he talks about animation and growing up with cartoons and being inspired and shaped by them, I can heavily relate. I’ll be looking forward to his future works
9:13 he hit that cup throw so naturally like damn bro
I need more for some reason this is very therapeutic
That Kermit on the left in the third clip had me dead 💀
Can I please be friends with this guy? He seems so chill, and I can just imagine him being easy to talk with. I wish I had a friend like him, I swear bro :’)
I have mild scoliosis and now I'm fucking terrified of it getting worse, thanks man.
As I was watching this video I couldn’t help but think how everything u described about how u feel around other people is just like me. Like when I make a cool drawing or I write a cool short story I always think like “is this actually cool or is that just what I’m thinking but everyone else is laughing at me in their heads?” I feel u bro. I feel u.
I have the same unbearable social anxiety as him. Everything he described in the mall story is exactly what happens to me when im in public around people I dont know.
"I have to see the doctors like every six months about my short... They're like, Are you short? Yes. Okay."
Oh man I laughed so loudly.
This guy is hilarious.
yeah the insomnia that comes with it and the overthinking at night can make a wreck out of you real fast
When Dawa was talking about animating I related so hard. Whenever I finish a drawing it feels so good to be able to go, I like that and genuinely mean it.
I wanna be friends with this guy, he seems so sweet 🥺
older him is really good with the stuff he's going through if that was me my mentality would not be good with that