1. Being friend with a woman(not showing confidence and success with woman while hanging out) 2. Not having an online presence( ex. Instagram/social media) 3. Not leading the girl ( not just on dates but all areas of life. Having set intentions on spending time together) 4. Ties into point 3. Don’t spend so much time watching tv /video games/ or chilling. (Be the leader at all times/ be on your shit get out of your comfort zone) 5. Ties into 3 and 4 the girl should never work equal to you or worse outwork you. Always be the power figure in life and relationships. 6. *(trigger warning) living with the girl. Must understand if you live with girl the attraction goes down and negatively influences your thoughts and choices. Y’all welcome
I agree with a lot of points, but some of this advice is more to attract promiscuous/immature women, and not women who is attractive and respects themselves. Especially the social media advice. Video idea: attracting different types of girls, eg. Modest women, Girls into casual relationships, etc
9:17 Not everyone devotes their life to likes and validation my dude. Maybe some people don't want to have to post every single thing they do on social media & just want to live their lives. How is that sketch?
Ikr. I know so many people from my life including friends from elementary, high school and college who basically vanished off the face of the earth on the web. Why? They’re not using social media. A lot of people don’t think they need it and can survive fine without getting distracted all the time. And for real it’s actually possible. All you need is texting and calling. That keeps more intimate conversations alive and fewer distractions. I don’t know how distracted I get by instagram and before that Facebook. I’m forever tainted now.
Man, I just hate Instagram. I don't want to use it, even if it makes me less attractive. I only have an Instagram account for close friends, with around 30 followers. I don't like the idea of sharing my life with people I don't care about. I really don't want to use it.
*Constantly seeking validation or being overly needy can push people away fast. Instead, focusing on self-confidence and being comfortable in your own skin naturally makes you more attractive without needing constant reassurance.*
I have to say, as the dude coming out of the 6 year relationship and failed engagement… Kyle is spitting. The leading part is where I lacked and is something I learned about myself from work and reflecting on my failed relationship.
Bruh is dropping more gems than a clumsy jeweler 😂.. But on some real sh*t though I’m in a 5 year relationship and never really found it difficult to get girls.But these videos are priceless! Watching them inspires me to stay on my game 💪🏼
I agree with a lot of what this guy says even tho I’m probably not his target audience but I don’t completely agree with the IG take. I don’t have any social media and constantly meet and approach women. But I probably would still recommend it to most.
You will definitely feel better about yourself. If you conquer the things you feel a little uncomfortable about. And as you conquer you will become more comfortable.Whatever, Meet it head on without getting madd/ Hurt "Whatever" If you lose your cool you lose your ground....
I met the girl this weekend very beautiful and extremely attractive the date went great I was sticking to the dating rules Kyle has taught me in his tutorials, while totally being my self I was being playful, charismatic, and interesting. There was so much chemistry between us we ended up kissing and teasing each other. The night ended the girl went home ended the date with a hug and kiss. The girl followed up the same night said she had the best night ever and would love to see me again. Next day she definitely wanted to test me and played a little distant. I absolutely seen that coming gave her space then later on reached out and reassured her on my intentions and at the same time let her know that I don’t take shit and the energy gotta be replicated. She understood and was very happy with my response, now we’re planning a second date.
I love that it’s always the same girl in all the vids lol. You and your girlfriend have been locked in for a while! Such a cute couple, keep up the good content!🙏🏽
Hey, i watch your videos lately, because i love learning about psychology behind various behaviours in different areas of life. All of that seems to make sense more or less and it's interesting but as some people mention here... It may actually attract a really passive, promiscuous, basic girl that wants you to carry her on your back through the life. Like is it worth working your @ss off taking all responsibility for keeping attraction on you, and worrying that you may lose the girl because you're not leading her all the time? That leads to burnout, maybe depression if stacked with other things that are on you, because you have a girl that can't decide about herself, can't do this and that without your lead and have no creativity to propose any activities, changes, direction that you could take together to push your relationship to the higher level. I'm talking more about already being some time in relationship rather than picking up the girl. The things you mention in this video seem to be good at early stage, to give it a spark and ignite. But imo you shouldn't keep that fire alone all the time on your own, because you'll burn out.
Kyle I'd like to get an instagram started but I feel like making one and the girl seeing that I don't have any followers or barely any pictures would almost be worse than not having one at all Suggestions?
Your girlfriend has a good guy bc you seem to have your act together. You're considerate of how you lead and treat her❤ your advice is spot on!!! You have a lot of masculine energy which turns women on.
I spent way too much time partying playing games etc but now as head of sales for a big tech company it’s not realistic. Limited time even on weekends everything needs to be planned out.
I think a big problem men have is actually nailing the dating and pick up part of things even if they aren’t in the right spot in their career and it makes them content. For me that was a big issue I felt like I can get any girl I wanted and it gave me confidence that nothing I did in my life matters I could just get the hottest girl with ease while playing video games and not being productive. Ultimately that catches up and you fall behind unless you scramble to fix things. To have a great career / amazing lifestyle / house etc like other women my age in their late 30’s early 40’s you need to be in a constant pursuit in the professional sense to improve your standing. When you go out to bars not being solely focused on women but also thinking of any type of valuable connections that can help you in the professional world.
Bro you help me alot 🎉🎉 My girlfriend always says she can even sleep because of my personality and she didn't know that I'm getting the tricks hear on UA-cam 😂😂
If you do all this stuff because you’re afraid of killing attraction with women, you’re already in the wrong mindset. It should be for YOU, not her. That’s just a bonus
That part about the video games hit hard. Is there balance? I play the hell out of Dota 2, more than I should. Is it best to quit it 100% or allow some time here and there. 🤔
I haven't read the comments. I like to hear distinct opinions, and he has good advice that sounds in line to others that teach on the same topic. But I fully disagree on the IG thing. If social media is NOT important to you, DON'T date someone that social media IS important to them. You'll be in hell.
It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them or to get men to be attracted to them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex. So yeah, when people and Society say that women have to learn skills or learn behaviors or how to communicate or how to talk a certain way in order to get men attracted to them, that women also have to learn how to meet men or how to get a danger how to get a boyfriend, it just makes me laugh and cringe and I just find it very stupid, it will never make sense to me as to why women have to learn or know dating skills when they don't have to do anything during the seduction or courtship phase. Because taking the lead and men having to lead the woman, approaching and hitting on, reading a womans signs of Interest and non interest, is obviously a skill that has to practiced and learned, done repeatedly in order to get better. Women just have to passively exist and do nothing and they can still get into a relationship or attract men and that obviously doesn't require any skill or any learning and when people say that it does require skills or learning on women's part, it just mind boggles me and it makes me mad and pisses me off. So yeah men have to do all of the learning and learn all of the skills and behaviors in order to attract women but women just have to exist and do nothing and they still get guys, that's why I get very annoyed that there are even dating coaches and relationship coaches for women.
You’re a successful guy, who is focused on success. Why the fuck I need a “good” instagram to attract girls? I’m successful, self confident, high value man. Having an instagram account doesn’t give me more or less chances with a woman that I would consider GF material. Don’t waste time watching tv or playing video games; but yeah!!! Waste your time building a super nice and cool instagram. Dude, some nice words and thoughts, but others……., really?
Eventually youll wanna work on your kids instead of guys on youtube. But you do need to build the empire first. But still , 34 isnt young. Should have kids soon
I agree with the cursing, Fing this and Fing that only AMS pulls it off because he’s from the hood , please stop , love your content but the f bomb every five seconds is beta weak to me, just saying
Bro being a man is to be a leader that’s our destiny, at the same time your points are to attract immature girls, it sounds like you have allowed the girls that are immature and ungodly to form the way you think on how to attract women, my advice listen to some biblical podcast, read the Bible and get to church so you can think like a real man, which is to attract one women lead her build a family lead them, and build a strong empire grounded in Christ, family and biblical values.
These are advices for 20 year to 30 year olds? I am 52 years old. No way I will whore myself on Instagram. That is for kids and whores. My children are also there, btw. 😂 Instagram is ok if you are 30 or younger. But otherwise, I very much doubt it as a good tool. But I'm fine with the other advices in the video.
A few things I hate about modern society. Swearing (I’m trying to detox myself of cursing too). I don’t get modern guys and women. Needing to be socially successful in order to get women and or men makes no sense to me. Social butterflies and people like that in fact feel shallow and phony to me. Body count too. None of these things are attractive traits for me at all. I’d far rather take a quieter girl who like me is dedicated to a job, to her family, still feels confident in who she is, her values than one of these women who qualifies others based on how good your insta is, how many friends you have and how many women you have sex with. A Christian with actual values for example and has standards. I in fact believe in premarital abstinence. I find a guy who is faithful, dedicated and shows their husband/father/family material far “sexier” than any of the guys mentioned. I’m tired of calling girls out for vaping that terrible stench in front of me or telling them that I just don’t like going to bars, being around groups. I’ve known plenty of guys who also say that they just don’t like hanging around in large groups. I’m like them.
2X it. i've been doing it for a couple of years now with all of the long-form videos that i watch and i wish i had discovered that feature years ago. it would have saved me a lot of time. it's a wonderful time saver, you just need to get used to people talking faster
1. Being friend with a woman(not showing confidence and success with woman while hanging out)
2. Not having an online presence( ex. Instagram/social media)
3. Not leading the girl ( not just on dates but all areas of life. Having set intentions on spending time together)
4. Ties into point 3. Don’t spend so much time watching tv /video games/ or chilling. (Be the leader at all times/ be on your shit get out of your comfort zone)
5. Ties into 3 and 4 the girl should never work equal to you or worse outwork you. Always be the power figure in life and relationships.
6. *(trigger warning) living with the girl. Must understand if you live with girl the attraction goes down and negatively influences your thoughts and choices.
Y’all welcome
thanks, the owner channel shud make resume
I agree with a lot of points, but some of this advice is more to attract promiscuous/immature women, and not women who is attractive and respects themselves. Especially the social media advice. Video idea: attracting different types of girls, eg. Modest women, Girls into casual relationships, etc
9:17
Not everyone devotes their life to likes and validation my dude.
Maybe some people don't want to have to post every single thing they do on social media & just want to live their lives.
How is that sketch?
The guy is from Jersey. What the fuck do you expect lmao
Ikr. I know so many people from my life including friends from elementary, high school and college who basically vanished off the face of the earth on the web. Why? They’re not using social media. A lot of people don’t think they need it and can survive fine without getting distracted all the time. And for real it’s actually possible. All you need is texting and calling. That keeps more intimate conversations alive and fewer distractions. I don’t know how distracted I get by instagram and before that Facebook. I’m forever tainted now.
Man, I just hate Instagram. I don't want to use it, even if it makes me less attractive. I only have an Instagram account for close friends, with around 30 followers. I don't like the idea of sharing my life with people I don't care about. I really don't want to use it.
Well then you’re going to be less attractive to women, that’s what the videos about dude
If a girl whose number I got ghosts me because she couldn't find me on IG, I consider I dodged a bullet.
*Constantly seeking validation or being overly needy can push people away fast. Instead, focusing on self-confidence and being comfortable in your own skin naturally makes you more attractive without needing constant reassurance.*
I have to say, as the dude coming out of the 6 year relationship and failed engagement… Kyle is spitting.
The leading part is where I lacked and is something I learned about myself from work and reflecting on my failed relationship.
Bruh is dropping more gems than a clumsy jeweler 😂.. But on some real sh*t though I’m in a 5 year relationship and never really found it difficult to get girls.But these videos are priceless! Watching them inspires me to stay on my game 💪🏼
Same here 👌🏻👏🏻
@@rubenbarbosa890 Not same here💯
Thank you Kyle for breaking things down! There are nuances that I get and the reason your video took a little time. Great Video!
I agree with a lot of what this guy says even tho I’m probably not his target audience but I don’t completely agree with the IG take. I don’t have any social media and constantly meet and approach women.
But I probably would still recommend it to most.
Me not being allowed to get ig 😭
You will definitely feel better about yourself. If you conquer the things you feel a little uncomfortable about. And as you conquer you will become more comfortable.Whatever, Meet it head on without getting madd/ Hurt "Whatever" If you lose your cool you lose your ground....
Thank you for sharing bro I went to some similar . I lost my drive when I was with my ex every day and lost everything . I’m in a better place now
Kyle...you make us smile.
Best content creator & male community communicator on the Tube
Dude, you have low expectations.
I'm not getting and Instagram sorry I can approach
I met the girl this weekend very beautiful and extremely attractive the date went great I was sticking to the dating rules Kyle has taught me in his tutorials, while totally being my self I was being playful, charismatic, and interesting.
There was so much chemistry between us we ended up kissing and teasing each other.
The night ended the girl went home ended the date with a hug and kiss.
The girl followed up the same night said she had the best night ever and would love to see me again.
Next day she definitely wanted to test me and played a little distant.
I absolutely seen that coming gave her space then later on reached out and reassured her on my intentions and at the same time let her know that I don’t take shit and the energy gotta be replicated.
She understood and was very happy with my response, now we’re planning a second date.
dem, happy for u brother
Good for you man
Kyle can you start to put time codes in the video?
It does not make sense to be able to skip if the content he's posting require a specific flow of concepts.. Like it really does not.
I love that it’s always the same girl in all the vids lol. You and your girlfriend have been locked in for a while! Such a cute couple, keep up the good content!🙏🏽
There are some amazing life lessons in this video which are not easy to find in one place anywhere else!
Amazing Content Brother
🙏👑💪😤🙏❤️
Love And Respect From Sweden 🇸🇪
Hey, i watch your videos lately, because i love learning about psychology behind various behaviours in different areas of life.
All of that seems to make sense more or less and it's interesting but as some people mention here... It may actually attract a really passive, promiscuous, basic girl that wants you to carry her on your back through the life.
Like is it worth working your @ss off taking all responsibility for keeping attraction on you, and worrying that you may lose the girl because you're not leading her all the time?
That leads to burnout, maybe depression if stacked with other things that are on you, because you have a girl that can't decide about herself, can't do this and that without your lead and have no creativity to propose any activities, changes, direction that you could take together to push your relationship to the higher level.
I'm talking more about already being some time in relationship rather than picking up the girl.
The things you mention in this video seem to be good at early stage, to give it a spark and ignite. But imo you shouldn't keep that fire alone all the time on your own, because you'll burn out.
I’ve been an og sub, this dude live pulls were crazy
Kyle I'd like to get an instagram started but I feel like making one and the girl seeing that I don't have any followers or barely any pictures would almost be worse than not having one at all Suggestions?
Keep ‘em coming coach 💪
Savage video brotha.. Kyle droppin bombs 💣 again haha
I am 55 and I wish I would have learned this 30 years ago
Your girlfriend has a good guy bc you seem to have your act together. You're considerate of how you lead and treat her❤ your advice is spot on!!! You have a lot of masculine energy which turns women on.
Great video and one of the rare ones on relationships. How did you notice you made these mistakes?
I spent way too much time partying playing games etc but now as head of sales for a big tech company it’s not realistic. Limited time even on weekends everything needs to be planned out.
Solid vid. The excessive cursing makes you look more immature and try hard but im sure you'll change that when you get older.
Get some testosterone booster or something. If all you picked up from this vid is cussing, your masculinity level is low.
Thanks for the videos. Interesting to watch
Thanks for touching on the relationship advise. 3,4,5 as well! Makes sense 🤔
I think a big problem men have is actually nailing the dating and pick up part of things even if they aren’t in the right spot in their career and it makes them content.
For me that was a big issue I felt like I can get any girl I wanted and it gave me confidence that nothing I did in my life matters I could just get the hottest girl with ease while playing video games and not being productive.
Ultimately that catches up and you fall behind unless you scramble to fix things. To have a great career / amazing lifestyle / house etc like other women my age in their late 30’s early 40’s you need to be in a constant pursuit in the professional sense to improve your standing. When you go out to bars not being solely focused on women but also thinking of any type of valuable connections that can help you in the professional world.
Bro you help me alot 🎉🎉
My girlfriend always says she can even sleep because of my personality and she didn't know that I'm getting the tricks hear on UA-cam 😂😂
I assume you were the one that asked her out and hit on her
Props to how far you've come from your past bro.
Please tell me what women bring to the table
Thanks Kyle i will implement this into my life thank you so much.
Love your videos, they’re helping me be who I want to be
This I needed to hear. I have had my feet of paddles for a while now
Good video Kyle. Your on a good path and remind me of some important points.
If you do all this stuff because you’re afraid of killing attraction with women, you’re already in the wrong mindset. It should be for YOU, not her. That’s just a bonus
happy to see big brother with epic mindset
Thanks for putting the info out man
That part about the video games hit hard. Is there balance? I play the hell out of Dota 2, more than I should. Is it best to quit it 100% or allow some time here and there. 🤔
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Amazing video
Think of it like this.. Anything that puts you in a weaker position is an attraction killer.
nice conlculison, brother
Shit tests are not necessarily for being passed. If you feel disrespected with the shit tests, put that relationship in the bin and move on.
Wow, absolutely true, pay attention to this guy
What was tip 4 again
great video . thank you ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
Please make chapters 😂
very nice video my friend
True love is dead. Im convinced it doesn't exist in this society anymore. Sincerely a different world we're in.
It sucks to think that’s actually true. Hopefully you find it. It’s not dead at all
I’ve been loving these longer videos as of late!
I disagree with social media 😂
I haven't read the comments. I like to hear distinct opinions, and he has good advice that sounds in line to others that teach on the same topic. But I fully disagree on the IG thing. If social media is NOT important to you, DON'T date someone that social media IS important to them. You'll be in hell.
Where did you meet your girlfriend
Good stuff
Why should anyone be trying to sell themselves. We are human , not products sitting on a supermarket shelf screaming BUY ME PLEASE.
14:37 was funny af 😂
It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them or to get men to be attracted to them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex.
So yeah, when people and Society say that women have to learn skills or learn behaviors or how to communicate or how to talk a certain way in order to get men attracted to them, that women also have to learn how to meet men or how to get a danger how to get a boyfriend, it just makes me laugh and cringe and I just find it very stupid, it will never make sense to me as to why women have to learn or know dating skills when they don't have to do anything during the seduction or courtship phase.
Because taking the lead and men having to lead the woman, approaching and hitting on, reading a womans signs of Interest and non interest, is obviously a skill that has to practiced and learned, done repeatedly in order to get better.
Women just have to passively exist and do nothing and they can still get into a relationship or attract men and that obviously doesn't require any skill or any learning and when people say that it does require skills or learning on women's part, it just mind boggles me and it makes me mad and pisses me off.
So yeah men have to do all of the learning and learn all of the skills and behaviors in order to attract women but women just have to exist and do nothing and they still get guys, that's why I get very annoyed that there are even dating coaches and relationship coaches for women.
If you don't want IG, you most likely also don't want a woman who posts her life on IG, so don't do it.
Yeah but that hard to find ..
You’re a successful guy, who is focused on success. Why the fuck I need a “good” instagram to attract girls? I’m successful, self confident, high value man. Having an instagram account doesn’t give me more or less chances with a woman that I would consider GF material.
Don’t waste time watching tv or playing video games; but yeah!!! Waste your time building a super nice and cool instagram.
Dude, some nice words and thoughts, but
others……., really?
I gotta question what happens if u make more money than the girl have the looks and discipline but your not the smartest guy
I acknowledge you sir ☝️
Lol “month 2”, try being told there’s no “connection” after every rejection. “month” that’s hysterical.
Eventually youll wanna work on your kids instead of guys on youtube. But you do need to build the empire first. But still , 34 isnt young. Should have kids soon
GS KYLE
I agree with the cursing, Fing this and Fing that only AMS pulls it off because he’s from the hood , please stop , love your content but the f bomb every five seconds is beta weak to me, just saying
How to get more women: have a bunch of women
True facts
Your current gf is like 3/10 Kyle but wishing you good luck😊
LFG 🔥🔥
Bro being a man is to be a leader that’s our destiny, at the same time your points are to attract immature girls, it sounds like you have allowed the girls that are immature and ungodly to form the way you think on how to attract women, my advice listen to some biblical podcast, read the Bible and get to church so you can think like a real man, which is to attract one women lead her build a family lead them, and build a strong empire grounded in Christ, family and biblical values.
Bro its too long 40 minutes please make it 10 minutes
These are advices for 20 year to 30 year olds?
I am 52 years old. No way I will whore myself on Instagram. That is for kids and whores. My children are also there, btw. 😂
Instagram is ok if you are 30 or younger. But otherwise, I very much doubt it as a good tool.
But I'm fine with the other advices in the video.
damn..i am too old for this shit.
Bro, why do always have to cuss in your vids? Just get your point across without it
A few things I hate about modern society. Swearing (I’m trying to detox myself of cursing too).
I don’t get modern guys and women. Needing to be socially successful in order to get women and or men makes no sense to me. Social butterflies and people like that in fact feel shallow and phony to me. Body count too. None of these things are attractive traits for me at all. I’d far rather take a quieter girl who like me is dedicated to a job, to her family, still feels confident in who she is, her values than one of these women who qualifies others based on how good your insta is, how many friends you have and how many women you have sex with. A Christian with actual values for example and has standards. I in fact believe in premarital abstinence. I find a guy who is faithful, dedicated and shows their husband/father/family material far “sexier” than any of the guys mentioned.
I’m tired of calling girls out for vaping that terrible stench in front of me or telling them that I just don’t like going to bars, being around groups. I’ve known plenty of guys who also say that they just don’t like hanging around in large groups. I’m like them.
This Kyle for 6 year relationship he dont live with the girl 😂😂😂 and even recommend it
@@acdragonrider shut up
@@trujefe7367why you triggered, normie?
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Who in the world has 40 min for that?
put it on in the background & go get a workout in
Put it on the background while you work, game or whatever
2X it. i've been doing it for a couple of years now with all of the long-form videos that i watch and i wish i had discovered that feature years ago. it would have saved me a lot of time. it's a wonderful time saver, you just need to get used to people talking faster
I even paid for Premium UA-cam, got no time to waste on TWO unskippable ads
Me ☝🏻
fekkk what a great hard-hitting video
Now, I'm gonna have to get a decent ig account. That thing must have cobwebs on it by now...
💪💪💪💯💯💯
8:30 That’s BS advice, Kyle.
Bruh! Lose the tank top and stop the cursing. You come across weak cussing all the time. Had to stop watching.
Wow
First
You sound like a narcissist