@@PMMM7 it’s the deflection for me lol, it makes the most logical sense to date someone who wants what I want. Or at the very least focus on what I want and if a person can’t provide that, move on. Is that not what men do?
I'm intrigued by the concept of highest self and I remember you guys mentioning it before but what does it look like to speak to someone's highest self? Is there a video where you get more in depth?
Love this vid Shan. Jared has truly grown and it shows! I've noticed that he's become more confident since he started Enjoy the Podcast. Love your content!
I the argument segment taught me so much about myself; how I come off and how to rectify that. Maybe it’s the way it was explained. Thank you. This was a video I didn’t know I needed.
I appreciate the Tula promo of you two cleansing each others face. As a person who wasn't raised around that type of intimacy made me love ya'll even more. It's definitely a relationship inspiration i'm adding to my list. LOL
Wait, so m3n want women to assume it’s sexy time. But they want women to be direct about our demands?! These creatures make less and less sense to me every day.
No. The question the video addressed was: how can a woman get more sex out of her man? For that question to make sense the woman has to want something that she desires. It is a situational question. If you feel like you have to give more than you want to give, that question most certainly does not apply to you. And men almost always prefer direct communication to indirect communication. It's really, really, really not that hard to understand. Most of the dating and relationship advice and so on out there is truly terrible. So it's easy to pick up wrong ideas. One of the few channels out there that does a somewhat decent job is a new mode. Try ua-cam.com/video/VZ25tZ9z6uI/v-deo.html&pp=sAQA ... can be eye-opening.
I think this is great insight, but insight without tools isn’t that helpful. I love what you said about “speak to your man’s higher self”, but HOW? As you can tell from my lack of tact in this comment, delivery isn’t my strongest asset. So I can just walk to my mans like “alright, I’m speaking to your higher self. Not that crusty ass that leaves the toilet seat up and forgets to take out the trash. I’m talking to the elevated version of you. Okay, now…”. You know what I mean? HOW do we apply the knowledge you’re giving us. Give us the tools my guy!
@@MsSimixx I was just joking and reaching for connections cuz of the slim similarities with the colourés on his shirt n the flag haha #gayrights 💚🦚🧚🏽♀️🏳️🌈🌈
I needed to hear all of this right now. Thank you. Also, your face is probably breaking out bc you have a fragrance allergy. Try fragrance-free (and essential oil free!) products.
Nightwear suit is the best misnomer I have heard. Lingerie, sensual lounge wear, coming to bed in silk or satin robes and nothing else, coming to bed naked... Are all great suggestions. I loved all of these suggestions. They are both informative and practical while relatively easy to implement. You did an amazing job on this video Jared
Hello Jared . Thx for the video and the perspective but I think you should put more example to illustrate. I'm not sure I got the highest self concept well. So maybe an example or situation would have been helpful. Thx anyway. Keep the good work !
It's interesting everything Jared just said aligns with a book I read Love and Respect and it says women need love and men need respect and the things he talked about are really showing him respect - tell him he's competent and can take care of the family and works hard and let him be the man in the relationship - don't talk down to him, and be intimate and sexual, simple kind of
not gonna lie, I was rolling my eyes at the title of your video because I was misreading it as "how to make your partner...better." but it's actually very good advice! I love how you always address each parter as equals, but treating each other with mad respect. Good video!
I unknowingly already was doing this and wasn’t doing out of getting commitment I was just being SUPPORTIVE honestly Having PATIENCE when it’s needed And Giving respect and communication Without nagging and being passive aggressive
The whole king and queen concept frustrates me. It feeds into gender roles that don’t represent equality. How does a man treat a woman like a queen while also showing equality and vice versa? If this is something that is prearranged within sexual acts and what not, that is completely different, but otherwise it seems toxic. Not to mention this feels way too Hetero and gender binary based. I recognize Jared is speaking from his experience, but still. If it has to focus so much on that, probably not the best advice.
Such a good video...I think in a relationship each should respect desires and dreams outside of the relationship and not place demands on a person's time where they have to choose. It should be about supporting each other....because happiness and success is all sexy for people with goals. Everything else will fall in line
Was this video about how to get more sex or more commitment? Was there anything in it about getting more commitment? Even the beginning, how does complimenting a mans work get more commitment I’m not seeing any connection.
We NEED this from a males perspective to a female! The guys need tips toooooo
And from a guy who seems to "get it"... it's really good.
Fresh and Fit Podcast
@@spacenuggetdemonslayer9430 personally, i would avoid them
How to get more commitment from your partner: leave your partner and find one who wants to be committed to you
And end up dying alone with that mentality
@@PMMM7 fuck it lol
@@sicksadwrldgrrrl damn shame our women move like teenagers
@@PMMM7 it’s the deflection for me lol, it makes the most logical sense to date someone who wants what I want. Or at the very least focus on what I want and if a person can’t provide that, move on. Is that not what men do?
@@sicksadwrldgrrrl so it’s only what you want? Let me ask you, do you believe in God or will you deny HIM too?
I love how Ryu is always included in your content❤️
No it’s annoying
@@lerato3286 😂 why?
I'm intrigued by the concept of highest self and I remember you guys mentioning it before but what does it look like to speak to someone's highest self? Is there a video where you get more in depth?
She kinda does in her recent "How to Seduce Anyone" video where she mentions a seducing style of speaking to someone's highest self.
It is new age from 30+ years
Is it just me or did Shan’s voice get deeper after pregnancy, I love it; it definitely happened to Beyoncé maybe it’s just something that happens
I enjoyed this a lot. Thanks Jared.
why is this exactly what i expected to hear from a guy 💀
Lol for real tho. It was a nice ego boost video though! Like yup I really am doing the most 🤣🙄
Mannnn, this video was edited perfectly. A perfect mixture of information and humor. Kudos family! 😁
Love this vid Shan. Jared has truly grown and it shows! I've noticed that he's become more confident since he started Enjoy the Podcast. Love your content!
I got so tickled when he said matching nightwear suit 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
I the argument segment taught me so much about myself; how I come off and how to rectify that. Maybe it’s the way it was explained. Thank you. This was a video I didn’t know I needed.
Come in you boxers?....nah, how about take me out or clean the house lmao.
lol right, you gotta know your persons love language
I appreciate the Tula promo of you two cleansing each others face. As a person who wasn't raised around that type of intimacy made me love ya'll even more. It's definitely a relationship inspiration i'm adding to my list. LOL
Wait, so m3n want women to assume it’s sexy time. But they want women to be direct about our demands?! These creatures make less and less sense to me every day.
No. The question the video addressed was: how can a woman get more sex out of her man? For that question to make sense the woman has to want something that she desires. It is a situational question. If you feel like you have to give more than you want to give, that question most certainly does not apply to you.
And men almost always prefer direct communication to indirect communication. It's really, really, really not that hard to understand. Most of the dating and relationship advice and so on out there is truly terrible. So it's easy to pick up wrong ideas. One of the few channels out there that does a somewhat decent job is a new mode. Try ua-cam.com/video/VZ25tZ9z6uI/v-deo.html&pp=sAQA ... can be eye-opening.
@@fleetingfootnotes9133 Well that’s not what was showed. Communication around sex should always be direct.
Not me being single & taking notes. & definitely rewatching.
Nightwear suit 😭😭
Very good topics, especially the points about arguing. It's always good to be self-aware and straight forward with it. Gotta work on that myself too!
I think this is great insight, but insight without tools isn’t that helpful. I love what you said about “speak to your man’s higher self”, but HOW? As you can tell from my lack of tact in this comment, delivery isn’t my strongest asset. So I can just walk to my mans like “alright, I’m speaking to your higher self. Not that crusty ass that leaves the toilet seat up and forgets to take out the trash. I’m talking to the elevated version of you. Okay, now…”. You know what I mean? HOW do we apply the knowledge you’re giving us. Give us the tools my guy!
Okaaayy, Brady 👏🏽👏🏽 I will keep these tips in mind when my man pops into my life.
Literally took notes. I really enjoyed this video. More of these please!
Love it when Jared is representing the lesbian flag hehe love the representation, AND I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THE VID HEHE
where??
@@MsSimixx I was just joking and reaching for connections cuz of the slim similarities with the colourés on his shirt n the flag haha #gayrights 💚🦚🧚🏽♀️🏳️🌈🌈
I needed to hear all of this right now. Thank you.
Also, your face is probably breaking out bc you have a fragrance allergy. Try fragrance-free (and essential oil free!) products.
Nightwear suit is the best misnomer I have heard. Lingerie, sensual lounge wear, coming to bed in silk or satin robes and nothing else, coming to bed naked... Are all great suggestions.
I loved all of these suggestions. They are both informative and practical while relatively easy to implement.
You did an amazing job on this video Jared
was thinking the same thing lmao
Hello Jared . Thx for the video and the perspective but I think you should put more example to illustrate. I'm not sure I got the highest self concept well. So maybe an example or situation would have been helpful. Thx anyway. Keep the good work !
💯
Especially acknowledging the GOAL in conversations. Shit that’s super critical for conversations in general
Ppl would listen to eachother more
I liked how he called it a "Suit". (:
Bring him a glass of waatterrrrr lmfao 😂😂😂😭😭😭
It's interesting everything Jared just said aligns with a book I read Love and Respect and it says women need love and men need respect and the things he talked about are really showing him respect - tell him he's competent and can take care of the family and works hard and let him be the man in the relationship - don't talk down to him, and be intimate and sexual, simple kind of
Oh hello Jared what a pleasant surprise 😭
Hey Shan what course did you study?
not gonna lie, I was rolling my eyes at the title of your video because I was misreading it as "how to make your partner...better." but it's actually very good advice! I love how you always address each parter as equals, but treating each other with mad respect. Good video!
Can we get a longer video on this pleaseeeeeee??
Thank you Jared, I just had so many "… ohhh, duh!" moments lol
You and Shan are THE BEST.
Halfway through… and all I hear is .. stroke the mans ego all the time.. even if you don’t want to.
I unknowingly already was doing this and wasn’t doing out of getting commitment
I was just being SUPPORTIVE honestly
Having PATIENCE when it’s needed
And Giving respect and communication
Without nagging and being passive aggressive
This was a great reminder. Thanks Jared!
Jared has me rolling 🤣 😂 But good info!✌🏾
I wanted you to keep going after your ting ting rant 😂😂
The whole king and queen concept frustrates me. It feeds into gender roles that don’t represent equality. How does a man treat a woman like a queen while also showing equality and vice versa? If this is something that is prearranged within sexual acts and what not, that is completely different, but otherwise it seems toxic. Not to mention this feels way too Hetero and gender binary based. I recognize Jared is speaking from his experience, but still. If it has to focus so much on that, probably not the best advice.
More of this! Love Jared! First piece of advice is spot on
I'd like to hear the female perspective as well :)
Jared hit the nail on the head with this one
This man is so wise and intelligent 💕
It's called babydoll
Not “matching nightwear suit” 🤣
Such a good video...I think in a relationship each should respect desires and dreams outside of the relationship and not place demands on a person's time where they have to choose. It should be about supporting each other....because happiness and success is all sexy for people with goals. Everything else will fall in line
Was this video about how to get more sex or more commitment? Was there anything in it about getting more commitment? Even the beginning, how does complimenting a mans work get more commitment I’m not seeing any connection.
Great video I’m single but good for you preparation ❤️
I'd like to see examples of "speaking to one's highest self"..
Can you do examples of what you're speaking on?
Loved everything about this video. Thank you #shared 😘
Glad I resubscribed on my new account
Thank you for this perspective
“Waaaterrr” lmao
What is the song playing at the end of the video?
The glass of water 😂😂😂😂
Tula is also a brand of baby carriers.
This was really good
Love, it Jared! Thanks
So grateful for you guys
Loved this video🙌🏽🙏🏽💯💯💯
Thank you for sharing :)
This was really helpful
🧥drop that album
These were really good!!
I love this
Yes Jared!!!!!!
Loved it!!
I needed this yesss😊
Love this!!!!!!!!!!
This was great
❤️❤️❤️
So am I the only one that almost fell out when Jared said, “matching bra and panty suit” 🤣🤣 Clearly the “male perspective” ♥️♥️