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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @KyleMaxwell
    @KyleMaxwell 3 місяці тому +23

    I have told my kids their whole lives that the secret to happiness is low expectations. That applies to media consumption as much as anything else.

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      always fun to be happily surprised!

  • @roastbeefy0weefy
    @roastbeefy0weefy 3 місяці тому +1

    The Incredibles is so good dude

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      it’s … incredible

  • @Goolop77
    @Goolop77 3 місяці тому +19

    Great video! Suddenly, The Count of Monte Cristo isn’t at the bottom of a long list of Things That Will Change My Life (If i ever read everything on that list it’d be longer than the life I have left anyway lol) which honestly makes it way more likely I’ll read it anyway because I’m not waiting for the perfect time in my life to maximize Monte Cristo meaningfulness

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      yeah there’s just so much media in the world … even if you just go with the “10/10 top tier” stuff we’ll never get through it all. Plus we gotta have enough life left over after reading for the change to be worth it! but I hope you enjoy it if/when you get to it!

  • @zackhendrix4957
    @zackhendrix4957 3 місяці тому +4

    i will,however, continue to tell those i meet
    "YOU HAVE TO WATCH TIM DEMOSS ON UA-cam" because... they are indeed behind if they have not boarded this train

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +5

      going out and shaming people into watching this video would be a whole new level of irony

  • @radian1243
    @radian1243 3 місяці тому +6

    I think you are a prime example of someone who took Scorates' words "the unexamined life is not worth living" to heart. Thank you.

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +2

      this comment means a lot to me. I went through a program in college where we read the Great Books and this quote was presented as an unofficial theme for the program. My professors would be thrilled to hear it’s coming through in my normal life. Thank you!

  • @elizabethstreit5203
    @elizabethstreit5203 3 місяці тому +6

    These videos are so chill. I love it.

  • @vlocka8907
    @vlocka8907 3 місяці тому +3

    Great video! Thanks Tim! I'll give The Count of Monte Cristo a read someday. You should read Kafka on the Shore! Great book!

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      thanks for the recommendation! & thanks for watching ! :)

  • @margarethaines9310
    @margarethaines9310 3 місяці тому +8

    Love the subtleties of your thought process. I think you might like The Book Thief, by Markus Zusak 🙂

    • @drd8251
      @drd8251 3 місяці тому

      OMG! I just finished that book a couple weeks ago. Loved it, too.

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      thank you! I did read (and like!) that book a long long time ago but forget a lot of it. I still have a copy somewhere & might crack it open again. thanks for the recommendation!

  • @thehomelessteddycomics3346
    @thehomelessteddycomics3346 3 місяці тому +1

    You should checkout my books. Wonderful video and insights.

  • @isaaccullen8708
    @isaaccullen8708 3 місяці тому +2

    Honestly, never been a big reader, would often not even read the books I was studying at school.
    However, I’ve started getting into it recently whilst doing 75 hard and this video popped up on my recommended and our mutual love of La La Land is going to get me to read the count of monte cristo lol

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +2

      first off, totally have skimmed books I was supposed to have read in school (sorry if any of my professors are reading this...I promise I'm going back and reading the books now!) so no judgement. and hope you enjoy monte cristo! full disclosure, it has very little in common with La La Land other than the fact that I like it a lot :)

    • @isaaccullen8708
      @isaaccullen8708 3 місяці тому +2

      @@timdemoss hahaha don’t worry, not expecting a ryan gosling song in monte cristo!
      Would highly recommend Sapiens and Malcolm X as a couple of non-fiction reads if you haven’t already

  • @Michael-be1xu
    @Michael-be1xu 3 місяці тому +2

    Gosh i hate that im only realizing this now and remembering all the times ive done this so thank u so much T-T

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      ha I’ve done it so many times too. and honestly maybe it works sometimes! I’m just trying to get better at recommending stuff :) thanks for watching!

  • @JustkhaledII
    @JustkhaledII 3 місяці тому +1

    Again a great video
    Thank you

  • @HoratioAccel
    @HoratioAccel 3 місяці тому +2

    these videos are so cozy and thoughtful. definitely subbing for more videos

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      wow thanks so much :) so glad to have you around!

  • @kskgautam
    @kskgautam 3 місяці тому +5

    Just bought The count of monte cristo and The Magic Mountain yesterday. Will read it simultaneously from tomorrow. Such a coincidence that, suddenly you too, recommending that book❤❤

    • @danwroy
      @danwroy 3 місяці тому

      Great book

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      it’s a great one!

    • @PatataSimbolica
      @PatataSimbolica 3 місяці тому

      I really want to read the magic mountain

    • @kskgautam
      @kskgautam 3 місяці тому +1

      @@PatataSimbolica buy the book, and we could read together 😊

  • @eunicealtalo5408
    @eunicealtalo5408 3 місяці тому +1

    I think this is the reason about why i don't like midsommar 😭

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      haven’t seen it yet but totally get what you mean! if you do think you’d like it tho don’t let people recommending things “wrong” stop you from trying it out :)

  • @shougatea
    @shougatea 3 місяці тому +2

    this is actually really helpful. i can get really excited about the things that mean a lot to me and can unfortunately overhype them. the “this book changed my life” line is definitely something I’ve said. but i can struggle with social nuances so i wasn't really aware of what i was doing wrong or how to fix problem. thanks a lot for the advice ♥️

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      I wouldn’t say it’s “wrong” per se so don’t get too worried about it :) maybe it works in some cases! Depends on your relationship with the person too. But yeah I’m glad this was helpful!! Have fun recommending things! :)

  • @lillybrooks7662
    @lillybrooks7662 Місяць тому

    The best thing that I’ve heard about how to recommend a book or movie or whatever is to simply say to the person “oh gosh how I would love to be able to watch that again for the first time!!!” (Or read it, or whatever…) I think THIS is the perfect response…

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  28 днів тому

      that's a terrific way to do it! someone recommended the Harry Potter books to me that way recently (I've never read them surprisingly)

  • @prickyguy2353
    @prickyguy2353 3 місяці тому +1

    Love the video, I have a question tho.
    For someone who wanna read but feel like it's a shore, when I begin to read I can't stop but I also don't wanna start too cause i feel it's boring.
    What's the good rhythm of reading or solution you can suggest?

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +2

      I’d say if it feels like work / feels boring, you might want a different book. Totally depends on what you’re interested in but I’d stay away from big/heavy/dense books if you’re just trying to start a habit. as far as a habit goes, you could try incorporating into your nighttime routine - just read a few pages til you get sleepy. (And if it’s still boring…well, it’ll help you fall asleep :) )
      Or a few pages in the morning. That could be fun. Really whatever works for you - the main step would be to find a book you actually want to read :)

  • @danwroy
    @danwroy 3 місяці тому +1

    What are About Time and Endurance

    • @LoganBooger-ke2iw
      @LoganBooger-ke2iw 3 місяці тому

      About Time is a movie and Endurance is a book about Ernest Shackletons voyage to the South Pole. I would also recommend both!

  • @gbpferrao
    @gbpferrao 3 місяці тому +2

    cool visuals

  • @etterathe
    @etterathe 2 місяці тому

    You must be a great teacher

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  2 місяці тому

      I have a lot to learn! but I think I've gotten better since my first year at least :)

  • @noelmarkham
    @noelmarkham 3 місяці тому +1

    What do you mean you've never seen Blade Runner?

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      shhh - who told you??

  • @JustkhaledII
    @JustkhaledII 3 місяці тому

    Again a great video
    Thank you

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      thank you for watching! always good to see you :)

  • @Balakay_Adkins
    @Balakay_Adkins 3 місяці тому

    Would you believe me if I told you I read the Count of Monte Cristo 5 years ago and also really loved it?
    It doesn’t sit in the number one spot of favorite book for me, but man it is such a gripping story. I’ve never rooted for a protagonist as much as I have with that book. He overcomes what seems like insurmountable odds, and becomes completely transformed in the process of seeking his revenge - turning into a legend.
    despite how much you root for the guy, the end of the story also shows that if you spend your life seeking out revenge like him that you can certainly get it, but it’s a much lesser existence. The terms that Mercedes and The Count ended things on filled me with a deep sense of melancholy for how much those two lost

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      totally believe you :) and it’s okay - number one books by definition are pretty rare!

  • @toby.demoss
    @toby.demoss 3 місяці тому

    Bars. I feel behind on certain things that should be FUN. Thanks Tim!!

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      it’s so fun!! thanks tob

  • @lipertinni
    @lipertinni 3 місяці тому +1

    thank you!!

  • @veromirko7032
    @veromirko7032 3 місяці тому

    Great! Gonna check out that blog.

  • @grdn1909
    @grdn1909 3 місяці тому

    great video as always

    • @grdn1909
      @grdn1909 3 місяці тому +1

      i'm definitely checking the count of monte-cristo

    • @vlocka8907
      @vlocka8907 3 місяці тому

      let me know how you liked it when you finish it

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      so glad to hear it! it’s long … so fair warning :) I hope you enjoy!

  • @jade8676
    @jade8676 3 місяці тому

    Love your vids❤

  • @marklee81
    @marklee81 3 місяці тому

    Great audiobook version of The Count of Monte Cristo: watch?v=V2Km64WJ8Q4

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому +1

      thanks for the link! I’m terrified to even look at how long it would take to have this read out loud…

    • @timdemoss
      @timdemoss  3 місяці тому

      Oh I don’t think this link works actually. maybe edit with an update