You sir are impressive! What a dad! So knowledgeable, and clearly a very loving and attentive caregiver. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man as capable with a baby as you are. I think it’s super cool that you are breaking down those societal gender stigmas to give your baby what he needs and to be the best father you can. Mad props!!!
I consistently see, and hear women being praised for the care/raising of babies and children. I almost never find that’s the case with men. I think this is because men are a lot less likely to be caring this deeply for a babies needs. As a society we tend to teach childcare to girls as they grow up (even giving them baby dolls at an extremely young age), but the same education is mainly not given to boys. Due to the lack of experience, and knowledge I think most men are too intimidated to take on more responsibility with the babies even if they are wanting to.
Thank you so much! As a new dad I’ve been stressed burning the midnight oil with my son and not figuring out why he gets fussy now with eating, but when you said just keep feeding him, it matched my thoughts on it! My wife and I were worried he might eat too much but I’m glad someone like yourself confirmed it for me. Thank you lots man, this is gold!
Omg. I don’t know if your a single dad but seriously, your amazing!! I’ve never in my life seen a dad so educated, dedicated and knowledgeable on taking care of a baby! Keep up the great work!!!!
I'm about to become a Dad in 10 weeks and got my first baby on way. Watching your video I feel has really helped me calm about the situation about crying and understanding it because it's the part I fear the most👍Great video and your baby is adorable... Keep up the good work and thank you for sharing...massive love and respect from Stockport Manchester UK😊😊
Awesome video! Love how straightforward and well explained your baby videos are. I thought your videos would just be goofy, but they’re actually real helpful. Thanks!!
Hello, I recently had my 4th baby last month (sep 25) I have my oldest son 13, two daughters 11 & 4 and now this little amazing baby boy. This video was wonderful, I wish I could have watched this videos 13 years ago with my 1st & 2nd kids, I was younger and didn't have much experience. Babies can get very fussy when their needs are not being met. I really enjoyed watching your video and throughout was telling myself" Yes, your right ....Yup". I know I am not perfect but I wished I knew what I knew now. With my new baby boy he would also cry a lot when he was younger and I always thought he was hungry. He would cry I would try to feed and he would push away, Never did I ever offer a pacifier to my other children but I thought he is sucking but spitting out the milk. When I introduced the pacifier to my baby right away I noticed the change his crying stopped, he wanted to be soothed. Why did I not think about offering it sooner? why didn't anyone tell me. I automatically remembered my daughter the now 4 year old and can still remember how much she would cry even after doing everything.The part I loved the month was the Gas topic you mentioned, My 4 year old has lots of gas tons! My 4rd baby cried a lot, she would grunt a lot and the pediatrician told me to give her liquid Xanax that was prescribed to her for reflex. We did give her the Xanax and within 4 months she got better. (is that what she really needed though)? She is now a happy 4 year old but when I think back from her birth-4months I get sad. I wish I would have offered her a pacifier or even tried to follow the steps you mentioned in your video. I respect all Pediatricians but sometimes I feel as if they don't fully explain or offer different teqiniques to help parents and baby. Again, this time around with new baby boy he also starting to grunt within a couple weeks I noticed..it was GAS!!! from observing and trying everything I realized when he didn't burp after a feeding thats when the grunting would be nonstop. Mostly at bedtime-midnight i would try burping him but my baby would be knocked out asleep, he wouldn't burp and I would lay him back down. He would grunt for 2-4 mins and continued to until I picked him back up again. Frequently I would be so tiered but knew if he didn't burp it would be even longer of no sleep of connately hearing grunting and a fussy baby. Some days he would burp right away and other times it would take longer but when he eventually did he would be sound asleep. I also purchased some organic probiotics drops that are safe for everyday and noticed that helps. Thank you for making this videos for parents who are in need of help. We can get frustrated and lose patience I would recommend everyone to watch this. Thank you again.
Just a thought about the sleep part. I noticed the belly rub was rhythmic. I listened to a guy, once, who said that he learned to deal with his insomnia by doing a simple drumming with his hands. First slightly fast then gradually slowing down until he felt sleepy. He said that rhythm is the key. The brain needs to settle into the gentle rhythmic cycle of sleep. Our whole life is based on cycles and rhythm actually. Anyway, it would seem that some sort of gentle rhythm, fast to slow, would calm the baby into a sleeping cycle.
Hey, what's up Some Guy in Korea. Today after watching this video, that i started watching about 3 weeks ago, I decided to sub you. I love how you're not at all pretentious and that all is real with you so to speak. Your tips are concrete!!! Thank you! I never really leave comments normally cos my articulation however you made an impression plus your baby is super cute. hoping all is well with you and yours and how old is your lil bundle of joy now? Love from the UK
I like the swaddling idea. However both of my babies rolled over a couple of hours after birth. I was extremely strong and so were my kids. I could move a couch by myself. LOL!
So I have a question if a baby cries even though you know you changed the baby diaper,2)you fed the baby,3)you held the baby for a good amount of time and etc.and nothing seems to work the baby still cries hysterically what then??? I have a niece she's still newborn about 1 month and something and she cries hysterically why??? Any solutions I can use? And for those who are assuming anything well bad no i am careful as possible and attentive even prepare ahead of time.and yes I do have a soul meaning so don't pre assume anything okay.
Your video is impressive as your work for your baby as a father... Can you help me with a matter? It will a great to me... I breast feed my baby so I don't know how much milk he drinks. If there is any problem like gas, discomfort or anything else, the only solution my baby demands is feeding... I m confused abt his all sign. Pls help me if you can...
Hey hii my baby is 3 month old from 4 days he is not coming for burping nd cry after feed I tired to come him shoulder but he satrted cry what shoul I do please reply I m waiting sir
🥰 babies need love and proximity with parents. I am not in love is separating babies from parents too early for this reason. adorable.. happy parenting..
I need atention, help me? I Just wondering about why adult crying less, and i think the reason is more condition when we know how to do i many situation. Children dont know, so cry to get atention and tell is they need help 😂
This is honestly one of the most beautiful videos I've ever seen in my life. I choked up a bit at your pure gentleness.
My fiance and I are watching you and consider you dad of the year. You rock.
You sir are impressive! What a dad! So knowledgeable, and clearly a very loving and attentive caregiver. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man as capable with a baby as you are. I think it’s super cool that you are breaking down those societal gender stigmas to give your baby what he needs and to be the best father you can. Mad props!!!
I consistently see, and hear women being praised for the care/raising of babies and children. I almost never find that’s the case with men. I think this is because men are a lot less likely to be caring this deeply for a babies needs. As a society we tend to teach childcare to girls as they grow up (even giving them baby dolls at an extremely young age), but the same education is mainly not given to boys. Due to the lack of experience, and knowledge I think most men are too intimidated to take on more responsibility with the babies even if they are wanting to.
@@lilys.5268 Agree with you completely
Lily S. I have to agree.
Great dad
@@juns597 takes so little for women to feel jealous. 🙃
Thank you so much! As a new dad I’ve been stressed burning the midnight oil with my son and not figuring out why he gets fussy now with eating, but when you said just keep feeding him, it matched my thoughts on it! My wife and I were worried he might eat too much but I’m glad someone like yourself confirmed it for me. Thank you lots man, this is gold!
Omg. I don’t know if your a single dad but seriously, your amazing!! I’ve never in my life seen a dad so educated, dedicated and knowledgeable on taking care of a baby! Keep up the great work!!!!
We need more dads like you
I'm about to become a Dad in 10 weeks and got my first baby on way. Watching your video I feel has really helped me calm about the situation about crying and understanding it because it's the part I fear the most👍Great video and your baby is adorable... Keep up the good work and thank you for sharing...massive love and respect from Stockport Manchester UK😊😊
Awesome video! Love how straightforward and well explained your baby videos are. I thought your videos would just be goofy, but they’re actually real helpful. Thanks!!
Baby seems cruel to me if your baby is miserable in it please take him out of it if he likes it maybe ok I forgot to insert the word swaddlinhg
Hello, I recently had my 4th baby last month (sep 25) I have my oldest son 13, two daughters 11 & 4 and now this little amazing baby boy. This video was wonderful, I wish I could have watched this videos 13 years ago with my 1st & 2nd kids, I was younger and didn't have much experience. Babies can get very fussy when their needs are not being met. I really enjoyed watching your video and throughout was telling myself" Yes, your right ....Yup".
I know I am not perfect but I wished I knew what I knew now. With my new baby boy he would also cry a lot when he was younger and I always thought he was hungry. He would cry I would try to feed and he would push away, Never did I ever offer a pacifier to my other children but I thought he is sucking but spitting out the milk. When I introduced the pacifier to my baby right away I noticed the change his crying stopped, he wanted to be soothed. Why did I not think about offering it sooner? why didn't anyone tell me. I automatically remembered my daughter the now 4 year old and can still remember how much she would cry even after doing everything.The part I loved the month was the Gas topic you mentioned, My 4 year old has lots of gas tons! My 4rd baby cried a lot, she would grunt a lot and the pediatrician told me to give her liquid Xanax that was prescribed to her for reflex. We did give her the Xanax and within 4 months she got better. (is that what she really needed though)? She is now a happy 4 year old but when I think back from her birth-4months I get sad. I wish I would have offered her a pacifier or even tried to follow the steps you mentioned in your video. I respect all Pediatricians but sometimes I feel as if they don't fully explain or offer different teqiniques to help parents and baby.
Again, this time around with new baby boy he also starting to grunt within a couple weeks I noticed..it was GAS!!! from observing and trying everything I realized when he didn't burp after a feeding thats when the grunting would be nonstop. Mostly at bedtime-midnight i would try burping him but my baby would be knocked out asleep, he wouldn't burp and I would lay him back down. He would grunt for 2-4 mins and continued to until I picked him back up again. Frequently I would be so tiered but knew if he didn't burp it would be even longer of no sleep of connately hearing grunting and a fussy baby. Some days he would burp right away and other times it would take longer but when he eventually did he would be sound asleep. I also purchased some organic probiotics drops that are safe for everyday and noticed that helps.
Thank you for making this videos for parents who are in need of help. We can get frustrated and lose patience I would recommend everyone to watch this. Thank you again.
Our 2 month old does same. What was the organic probiotic that you got for him?
Taking down notes, you got some good advice
Ur poor wife. Give her some credit below. 👇🏽👇🏽👇🏽
This literally just saved me! He needed to burp and I didn’t know😪 he’s fast asleep now thank you!!
Just a thought about the sleep part. I noticed the belly rub was rhythmic. I listened to a guy, once, who said that he learned to deal with his insomnia by doing a simple drumming with his hands. First slightly fast then gradually slowing down until he felt sleepy. He said that rhythm is the key. The brain needs to settle into the gentle rhythmic cycle of sleep. Our whole life is based on cycles and rhythm actually.
Anyway, it would seem that some sort of gentle rhythm, fast to slow, would calm the baby into a sleeping cycle.
Good info, but holy hell what is that music?!?
thank you for the details Sir! , this is very helpful for me! first time daddy!
I enjoyed the video and tips, even though I went through it already with my own son just 4 years ago. It’s awesome being a parent.
This deserves more views
No reason why he's a certified casual,he's an pro at being a dad lol
Wow thank you, you are a good teacher and dad🙏🙏
Thanks dad
Hey some guy, I really liked this video, please post more
This video is gold. My baby literally just woke up crying after sleeping for 5 mins and as soon as I picked her up, she burped three times.
Hey, what's up Some Guy in Korea. Today after watching this video, that i started watching about 3 weeks ago, I decided to sub you. I love how you're not at all pretentious and that all is real with you so to speak. Your tips are concrete!!! Thank you! I never really leave comments normally cos my articulation however you made an impression plus your baby is super cute. hoping all is well with you and yours and how old is your lil bundle of joy now? Love from the UK
I always slightly pull the bottle if they let me remove it they are done for the moment if they resume to suck they aren’t done
Fantastic! Where were you when I was bringing up three babies! OY
I was still in my father's ding dong.
Some Guy in Korea 😂😂
"and your wife is driving you nuts"...😅
I can relate to that what you just said at the end of the video. Hahaha.
I like the swaddling idea. However both of my babies rolled over a couple of hours after birth. I was extremely strong and so were my kids. I could move a couch by myself. LOL!
Thank you so much. We have a baby coming in a week or less. These advices are very importabt
Samira Asadi this advice* 🙏🏻❤️
I'm waiting for the video "When your wife driving you nuts"
Thats funny you got my like
Great stuff man! Post more videos when you're free
Thanks Sir but I don’t know what to do with my baby is crying too much. I tried everything
Thank you this was very helpful!
Great tips Daddy..
Thank you. Its really helpfull gonan apply it ro my 2month old baby
Thank you, it all make sense now.
Thanks. Let's see if it really helps or not. Hope it works.
Awesome video!
That's amazing, thanks a lot from México
Great video!
I'm the 100th like , this is so helpful thank you for this video ✌😀
Imagine the baby has an itch on his back and mom giving him the bottle :D
Good advices!
You forgot hot or cold
Great video and great dad!
Just wondering what is in the bottle
Thar’t was so helpful thanks man
Thank you so much
So I have a question if a baby cries even though you know you changed the baby diaper,2)you fed the baby,3)you held the baby for a good amount of time and etc.and nothing seems to work the baby still cries hysterically what then??? I have a niece she's still newborn about 1 month and something and she cries hysterically why??? Any solutions I can use? And for those who are assuming anything well bad no i am careful as possible and attentive even prepare ahead of time.and yes I do have a soul meaning so don't pre assume anything okay.
Life is Strange B4 the storm maybe she just needs to cry.
Could be colic?
Amazing video
Your video is impressive as your work for your baby as a father... Can you help me with a matter? It will a great to me...
I breast feed my baby so I don't know how much milk he drinks. If there is any problem like gas, discomfort or anything else, the only solution my baby demands is feeding... I m confused abt his all sign. Pls help me if you can...
You would make a fantastic Nanny. Do you need a job?
'Why babies cry' why do you cry? what makes you cry?
Heyy you are awesome buddy.
This is very helpful to me
Thanks man - wife is due soon, so doing my baby prep.
Wooooow great video!!!!
Hey hii my baby is 3 month old from 4 days he is not coming for burping nd cry after feed I tired to come him shoulder but he satrted cry what shoul I do please reply I m waiting sir
🥰 babies need love and proximity with parents. I am not in love is separating babies from parents too early for this reason. adorable.. happy parenting..
You’re awesome 💙💙💙!
Babies needs love from their parents ❤
Well done !
Useful tips there :)
Mama's milk is best. Not mans formula
great vid. excellent.
Thanks brother ❤️
Thanks buddy
He so cute!
Very nice
I need atention, help me? I Just wondering about why adult crying less, and i think the reason is more condition when we know how to do i many situation. Children dont know, so cry to get atention and tell is they need help 😂
*us
R u doing some job.
Mf cries all day
Should've talked cause I ain't listening allat 🗣
Tnx
thxs u
U talk so much
Sry
at 3.58 you are massaging the baby's tummy the wrong way!