Why We All Lose When We Talk About Virginity | Shelby Hadden | TEDxSouthCongress

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @jennav9883
    @jennav9883 4 роки тому +33

    What an amazing talk. Watch this, share this, do more of this. So happy that Shelby exists and is brave enough to share her story and her brain with the world.

  • @THEDUBMAU51
    @THEDUBMAU51 4 роки тому +10

    Awesome to watch an empowering speech about something some would be too nervous to talk about openly. Very encouraging for anyone that might have something in their life they need to talk about.

  • @susannahbannon959
    @susannahbannon959 4 роки тому +51

    Everyone needs to see this groundbreaking talk. Thank you, Shelby!

    • @AAA-je2qg
      @AAA-je2qg 3 роки тому

      A haram to present pictures or videos of women not wearing the hijab or appropriate clothing, and a mistake to present girl.

  • @marisadecandido6386
    @marisadecandido6386 4 роки тому +17

    Wow. What a powerful talk. I laughed, I cried...I loved it. Thank you Shelby for sharing your experience. It can't be easy, but it's needed!

  • @michaelvance1118
    @michaelvance1118 3 роки тому +18

    This girl made me cry! Much respect for your honesty and class ! I wish I could have met more girls like her when I was younger! But the exact thing she was talking about had already begun ruining their perspective and mine as a guy by that time. I couldn't agree with a girl more than this one ! She is such a classy lady!! Thanks

  • @tife2706
    @tife2706 4 роки тому +12

    Thankyou, Shelby! This talk is the best TedTalk I've ever seen. Such an important topic you're spreading awareness about. ❤️

  • @anktran6903
    @anktran6903 4 роки тому +17

    THANK YOU for speaking up Shelby! ❤ This was so relatable and I found your message so empowering. Thank you for spreading this important message to the world!

  • @dawntedesco4525
    @dawntedesco4525 4 роки тому +8

    Great talk and contribution to awareness which is so important.

  • @karenswenson1087
    @karenswenson1087 4 роки тому +9

    Shelby, this is a beautiful talk! Thank you!

  • @YvetteVB
    @YvetteVB 4 роки тому +9

    Thank you for giving the world this different perspective !

  • @kysna777
    @kysna777 4 роки тому +6

    One of the best Ted talks! ♥️

  • @baileyprice9451
    @baileyprice9451 4 роки тому +6

    This is amazing and beautiful and exactly what I needed to hear, thank you Shelby ♥️

  • @wellrideuponanomnibus2536
    @wellrideuponanomnibus2536 3 роки тому +5

    What a charming and sincere lady ! 😊

  • @minhanhnguyen2564
    @minhanhnguyen2564 3 роки тому +5

    Such a powerful talk. Love it so much

  • @sarahmulcahy8218
    @sarahmulcahy8218 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you Shelby for a refreshing perspective. Beautifully put 👏

  • @stephaniepersin4145
    @stephaniepersin4145 3 роки тому +28

    Screwing doesn’t make you a genius or grown up. Animals in heat do it.

    • @Roan.bot.
      @Roan.bot. 11 місяців тому +1

      And yet it seems a bunch of us can’t even accomplish that.

    • @heisenberg9595
      @heisenberg9595 2 місяці тому

      ​@@Roan.bot.well not accomplishing that isn't even a big thing

  • @selda_KZ
    @selda_KZ Рік тому +4

    Idk why but I felt so scared at the end when she said it had some pain. I mean nobody really talks about how the pain is gonna be. How's the pain? How much pain is gonna be?

    • @sallyjrwjrw6766
      @sallyjrwjrw6766 Рік тому +2

      You're using a muscle you've never used before. It's like lifting a heavy weight in the gym.

    • @SarahHope883
      @SarahHope883 9 місяців тому +1

      I think it’s different for everyone.

  • @francis_clavel
    @francis_clavel 3 місяці тому

    Great talk!

  • @MasseuseMassageChairs
    @MasseuseMassageChairs 3 роки тому +2

    Wow! Great video!

  • @peterphoenix6471
    @peterphoenix6471 Місяць тому

    great story ❤

  • @CosmicEngimas
    @CosmicEngimas 3 роки тому +3

    Hey I know her! She’s incredible!!!

  • @gabrielgkabelen4780
    @gabrielgkabelen4780 3 роки тому +2

    Purity...best speech ever.
    Thanks

  • @abdolvakilfazli2488
    @abdolvakilfazli2488 3 роки тому +4

    For those who are not aware of Islam and how the Quran addressed this issue I have to say according to the chapter called "Al Nesa", meaning"Women", it is recommended for men to marry women of the same greed. It is recommended to find a woman from your own creed and if you are pious, it is recommended to, find the same woman. And the criteria is only based on what woman claims. and it explicitly says that do not look so much into what was the truth. So, it is not a religious issue but it is rather a cultural issue.

  • @trefani4532
    @trefani4532 3 роки тому +3

    Perfect.

  • @dmankefor2417
    @dmankefor2417 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you

  • @ulrohermit1369
    @ulrohermit1369 Рік тому +2

    Virginty will always be a defining attribute in finding a mate .

  • @michaelvance1118
    @michaelvance1118 3 роки тому +10

    Virginity is just another word for, ignorance. We all gotta take our lumps eventually. Virginity is a respectable thing. it sucks that social pressure manipulates both sexes to go there too young. But just like Alan is morislutt said " I recommend getting your heart trampled on to anyone.

  • @shikhavats7898
    @shikhavats7898 2 роки тому

    Thnk u

  • @sofia2584
    @sofia2584 3 роки тому +4

    She is so necessary

  • @mrsjupiter9310
    @mrsjupiter9310 2 роки тому +1

    Hetero- normative. ( Thank God ....that can be gotten over .....)

  • @nonho8739
    @nonho8739 4 роки тому

    good

  • @martaecala
    @martaecala 2 роки тому

    so beautiful🥹

  • @krishti236
    @krishti236 3 роки тому +1

    ❤️

  • @zeynepsahin8202
    @zeynepsahin8202 3 роки тому +1

    31

  • @azaleamarietalal8357
    @azaleamarietalal8357 3 роки тому +4

  • @AAA-je2qg
    @AAA-je2qg 3 роки тому +3

    A haram to present pictures or videos of women not wearing the hijab or appropriate clothing, and a mistake to present girl.

    • @soniaakabonusgrandma3338
      @soniaakabonusgrandma3338 2 роки тому +2

      Why do you say this same comment in so many videos? It doesn't even translate well? What are you trying to say? Is this hate speech?

    • @yourdailydoseofreality3219
      @yourdailydoseofreality3219 2 роки тому +1

      Lol. On what planet do you live in? Educated people don't believe in your ridiculous religion.

  • @gingermarie1760
    @gingermarie1760 3 роки тому +3

    Jesus said in Mark 1:15 "And saying, the time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand, REPENT ye,
    and believe the Gospel." Jesus said in John 14:15 "If you love Me, keep My commandments." Revelation 21:8 "But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone..."

  • @selda_KZ
    @selda_KZ Рік тому

    Idk why but I felt so scared at the end when she said it had some pain. I mean nobody really talks about how the pain is gonna be. How's the pain? How much pain is gonna be?