My first time hooking up with a girl I told her I had done so with one other girl (which was a lie). She was my first time hooking up with a girl . The lie gave me the confidence I needed to hook up confidently. I told her three days later I lied and she was my first 😂. She said she couldn’t tell so obviously the lie worked in our favor . Also she’s my wife now soooo 😂😂
You just hooked up with a girl. I broke up with a girl 12 days ago because she was emotionally abusive and didn't care about how I feel. It's okay. I'm bisexual anyway and my relationship with men last more longer. I'm more meant to have fun with women and that's it. No strings attached
@Itsangie4now I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you find your person! Though I'd recommend going back to the actual term of DATING, which is going on dates and getting to know each other WITHOUT being in a relationship. The dating term can last over months if not years, and it makes your relationship, once in it, stronger. This is the best way to go about any relationship, so please choose the people you give yourself to wisely.
@aandi8738 I agree with you. I feel like there's just some people in the world who don't have time to go on dates and I should realize. If you don't care to go on a date with me... then you're not for me
Thank you for this, truly. I'm bisexual and am scared of sleeping with girls! This honesty is what so many girls need... I know it's super uncomfortable for you maybe? But like, seeing another feminine girl around my age going through what I am is so refreshing. Seriously, there's nobody else like you. So thank you Becca!! ♥️
If you need extra help, stevie boebi has some "how to" videos with visual props and detailed explanations on her channel that helped me understand logistics on being with a girl for the first time. Its scary but as long as you trust the person, everything will be alright.
Sleeping with girls is amazing. Its like getting to experience something intimate with your best friends. Their vagina feels soo good and youll love their taste. Im scared of bodily fluids so thats saying a lot. The heavy breathing and tension in their body is the best
As a lesbian, and longtime (friendly not insane) follower of Shannon/NowThisIsLiving since tumblr days, I want you to know how much you sharing your perspective is valuable, not only to your target demographic, but also to longtime out and proud lesbians like myself. My littlest sister is bi, fem, and scared of her first time and as a chill tomboy lesbian (like Shannon) it seems I just can't quite reach her/speak to her in the way she needs. I think this video is pretty perfect and I hope this will help her in ways I just can't. Thanks Becca 💙
I know you were like so terrified to make this podcast, but I literally think this is what the baby gays need, like you are doing nothing wrong, your intention is just to talk about your experiences with women and I think they’re so relatable so you slay girl! ILY💗
I m Scott, I used to be straight, tried a guy once and now I am definitely not straight. I am extremely bisexual and pretty close to being gay. Ty so much
Being vulnerable is hard and scary. Just ask, “does this feel okay?” Explore with your lady and yes consent! It’s okay to be the girl next door. It’s very adorable.
Thank you for sharing this Becca, genuinely. So many people are searching for answers to the same questions and it feels like no one ever wants to provide a raw, genuine, honest answer. Like you said it's always "ohh it just comes naturally..." or "You'll figure it out in the moment.." although that may be somewhat true, it's not helpful. At the end of the day, we pretty much all end up going through a point in time where we do/want to do something sexual for the first time, there is always going to be somebody who needs this. SO Thankyou Becca! P.S I love that blanket/throw where did you get it?
I admire you so much, and your vulnerability to talk about things that not a lot of people talk about. I’ve been out for 7 years now- and I’ll *never* forget the feelings before hooking up for the first time with a girl. And the feeling of “oh I could never” before that time. Also love what you said - “you can’t go wrong with the right person” …also LOL “Jason from finance doesn’t need me to preform for him” 😂 yes girl. You’re a gem. And I love you and Shannon❤❤
I love this so much. This is an experience most people don’t talk about. My wife was 26 when we met and I was the first woman she was intimate with and she didn’t tell me because she was embarrassed 😭 it ended up being great just because we have great chemistry together as people! It will never feel wrong with the right person ❤️
I had an intense emotional relationship with a woman when I was in my 20’s. We kissed a bit but never went there because she told me she was worried she didn’t know what she was doing. We remained friends and she introduced me to one of her friends who knew she was gay and never questioned it. Both are beautiful women. I’ve been with her friend for the past 17 years. We have a toddler, house, dog, etc. She’s been married twice, has two kids and I love her new hubby. Sweetest guy you’ll ever meet. Kids are adorable. We see each other at social gatherings because their friend group has been tight since middle school. There is still so much love between us, it’s insane. The chemistry, the affection, never dissipated. We stare at each other, smile a lot, compliment one another, pour drinks for each other, etc. Then we say our goodbyes until the next social event. Wonder if we’ll ever get together. Perhaps the fantasy is more magical and we should leave it at that. Who needs a messy affair? 😂 🙋🏻♀️ maybe… My first time with a girl a - I was 18. Lots of experience with boys so I figured a long as the other person was moaning I was doing something right 😂 I suppose it was an easy transition because I was young and had very few insecurities. I see lots of late in life lesbians who are intimidated by it but it really is just friction, if you’re doing it correctly, wet friction. Typically, if you like the way someone kisses or dances, you will like what happens in the bedroom. Pro tip: when you kiss her if you don’t feel tingly everywhere, move on. She’s not the one. The body knows even when the mind tries to convince us. Happy hunting Ladies! ❤
@@quiqui6424 Would my wife of 17 years be okay with me having a relationship with her BFF? Probably not. However after we got married she said we could bring a guy in for physical stuff but no kissing on the mouth. Sept 20th will be our 10 year wedding anniversary nothing has happened yet. We have a 2.67 year old now… she takes up all our time and energy but maybe when she’s older and more self sufficient we’ll revisit but I’ll be in my 50’s by then… life will be very different. I’m already feeling the effects of perimenopause and I’m only 41! It’s wild out here, ladies! Please take care of yourselves. Your health is everything! (Mental health included).
@@quiqui6424 This is such bad advice because there is a big red flag here: she has been having feelings for this woman for over 17 years, since before she even met her wife. It's different to opening up your marriage in order to experiment together with her wife because of boredom or to test something new. This is something that can blow up 2 marriages, not just one. Also, we don't even know if her friend feels the same. Most probably in situations like this one from when she was young the best approach is to cut that person out of your life the moment marriage with someone else is on the table. That's because if you still feel like she is the one and you would be with her the moment she gives you a hint, even if it means dumping a spouse and kid, then that's not ok. That's what I would do because my life experience tells me if someone didn't give me a chance the first time we started doing something romantic... it means they weren't that into me. In my experience and from life stories I saw and heard, this type of friend will sleep with you when bored or when they have some trouble in the marriage, and then go back to their spouse. Meanwhile, you blow up your marriage, destroy the relationship with your spose and kid, and end up single, having to start over in a contentious environment with everyone around you having a bad opinion of you. And trust me that is exactly how it happens because if you've had feelings for over 17 years, you will feel jealous, upset, want to be with them all the time etc. You will want to divorce and you will want them to leave their marriage to be with you so you can have them all to yourself. The drama is not worth it for me. I simply cut people out to make life easier. No headaches.
It's okay to be a little uncomfortable or scared the first time. It's a new experience, of course it is destabilizing! But if the person you are with is a good person, she will be able to make you feel comfortable, no matter whether she is experienced or not. Personally, I don't agree with the "you fake it till you make it" stance concerning being naked in front of that person. On the contrary, I am very much in favour of open communication and showing your insecure and vulnerable side. It's not a performance, you won't get a grade afterwards. It's about being intimate with someone, and that means being "naked" in every sense of the word: physically, but also emotionally. Open up, be honest, and say (or just grab her hand and show...) what you like if what she does is not the best way, the right spot etc. Dare being yourself and real with that person.
My only time with a girl was so scary. I didn't know if we should take turns or if I should be initiating as well. So confused. And I was overstimulated/nervous so I couldn't "hit homerun" so she insisted on trying again and I focused really hard. It was successful that time, kinda.
omg girl this was so comforting. im 19 and ive been with my gf for over a year and im deathly terrified of hooking up, this vid made me feel so seen and 'normal' lol
You might be asexual! I remember being terrified and also waiting until i was 20+ for my first time. Turned out I'm a subtype within the asexual community lol (panromantic aegosexual). It was confusing to figure out since i felt the same about all genders.
Im married to a man , 30 years married on my 18th birthday..had boyfriends at school and kissed boys and girls but was a virgin when i met my husband. I fancy women more than men. Not sure what to do. Got 7 kids x
Becca Moore I just stumbled upon your channel. My name is Tim. I live in Oregon. I think your channel is amazing now I have to binge watch all of your episodes. Never stop doing what you’re doing. Never stop being yourself. Hold your head high and do yourself proud hope to hear from you soon my best to you, Tim.
My first time was 22 years ago… freshman in college. 41 now… been in a lot of relationships… men, women… but I feel more connected to women for sure. Just more comfortable.❤ much love to you.
also I wonder how many ppl have a bathroom stall story bc one time in college a girl in my sorority pulled me into a stall and was like “I like you” and I was like “uh.. what?” she was like “…” and I was like “oh.. I’m sorry.. I’m not gay..😬” and she was not convinced but ended up leaving lmao. in hindsight ig she did clock me but I wasn’t ready to admit it to myself yet (still am not tbh)
As a married lesbian who once identified as bi (no, being married isn’t what “made” me a lesbian), wlw sx is more about what you WANT to do, not what you’re expected to do like heteronormative relationships may be, so don’t worry about that and just follow your instincts of what you wanna do! (Once I bit someone’s ear in the heat of the moment and instantly apologised but it was actually something new for us both and was surprisingly VERY well received 😅) And don’t be afraid to ask if it feels good when you’re doing something! It’s hot if it does, and if not, you’ll get a tip 😂 first time was definitely scary but by the next time I had plenty of fantasies to inspire me 😅
My bestie girl that asked about the guy at the end fucked me up bc it was me exactly a week ago I was “dumped”. Same situation, we spent a weekend together, nonstop talking and he was definitely love bombing me, talking about the future and moving across the country to be together. We met up Thursday, hooked up Saturday and he dumped me Wednesday. And to be honest when he called me and said I was moving too fast I laughed. He asked ME about the future and moving and kids. I never brought it up. But **I** was the one moving too fast. Men are comedic. I actually did want to be with him but clearly he didn’t want to be with me. And that’s okay.
Something i want to learn from you is the confidence 🥹🥹 i sit and appreciate from the corner 🤭🤭shy me can't do anything for herself 😂😂 Thank you for always letting the girls girl up much love 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
I think you are brave for putting this out there! I was born a lesbian and you are of the type that has made a choice. I love that you are trying to relay the love and self respect needed to be successful in a sexual relationship with anyone! Good luck to you and your partner. Godspeed
I had my first time with a girl at like 36, after knowing I was bi since I was 17. But for the longest time I didn’t want to have sex with a woman, I rejected a few girls that wanted to sleep with me, maybe I wanted to be something special since my first time with a guy was not special at all. I met this girl who I didn’t like that way at first, she was backpacking and we met on a dating app. I was surprised when she made a move, I thought we were kind of just friends, but then we kissed and it was nice, we kept texting and went to a party with my friends and I just kind of knew we would sleep together that day. We got back to my house and I told her I had never been with a girl in that way, but that she was not an experiment and I was sure. She told me that if it was an experiment it was also OK, lol, I think she was kind of afraid I was gonna develop feelings for her, and with her leaving that would obviously be bad. I have never been one to just lay there, I’m pretty active in bed, she took the lead, and truthfully, I didn’t find it all that special, kind of disappointed haha, I had been waiting a long time for that, maybe I had too much expectations. And when I was down there I got kind of bored lol. The nicest part for me was after when we cuddled and fell asleep. I mean, I still want to sleep with girls, but maybe it has to be with somebody I have feelings for? I don’t know, or someone I really like and desire. I love kissing women, more than men, but if I’m horny I think about men. Maybe I’m more romantic towards women and more sexually attracted towards men 🤷🏻♀️
"... what's like a sexy animal..?"😅I uncomfortably put some serious thought into that question and the only thing I could think of that was remotely sexy was a cheetah.
I really respect that you stayed classy and didn't spill the tea in graphic detail. Some things are better kept private and are not forfor public consumption
Maybe it’s because I’ve known I was gay since before I even knew what being gay was, but my first time was so fun. My first time with a woman was also my first sexual experience ever. I think because I’d already spent so much time fanatasizing and watching… material… that I was well equipped and just excited to finally be there and just have it happen (I was 20, so quite late for the first time). Really interesting to hear it from the perspective of someone having a later “gay awakening” and has probably never fanstasized about women sexually like people who have known their whole lives. Glad it was a success though. ;p
When i see a notification from your page, i literally get butterflies and cant wait to watch it. The day that i found this channel, it had a headline that made me want to know more, because, as a girl, I've never experienced romantic relationship with anyone but I've always known that i loved girls...watching this everytime you post, it gives me light (is it correct when i say light)...yeah but thats it and i love your channel soooo much❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙌🏾
People on the Internet make up stories about you guys and hate you guys. I don't know how to deal with it if it was me. I'm glad you're dating each other (both in the same industry). The fact that you trust and support each other makes the relationship even stronger. ❤
I feel so much for Sarah but honestly it sounds like he probably just went back to his girlfriend or just wanted to hook up. Guys are the worst. I had so many situationships where I thought we were great together and then just got like ghosted. Throw yourself into friendships and doing things you want to do and before you know it you’ll be moved on from him!! ❤
i’ve never done anything with a girl and i’m only out to a few people but i know i like girls and sometimes question whether i like guys at all 😭 but im going to uni in a few weeks so hopefully something will happen then
A remarkable achievement. This content provider has, through sentence fragments that don't go anywhere, repetition, and obvious tautology, has somehow crammed ten minutes of material into a mere half hour. It's like trying to talk to a four-year-old.
if you haven't already you should learn about compulsory heterosexuality. that might be what was contributing to centering men in your idea of what your life would be and the performative stuff
I was so nervous and laughing the first time i was with a girl, who i wa super close to at the time and ended up dating 4 years after, but she got so upset that i was laughing and called me childish 🥴 like girlll you're the one that wanted to take my virginity so bad whatchu expect!?????
I'm 24 and after 5 years relationship with a man (went wrong) I'm falling for a woman and I'm so scared😂 so thanks because it's the video that I needed. Yesterday we just pet each other a little and I was already turn on by that and I felt that sense of "oh, maybe I actually would know what to do"
All I can say is thank you and it's because of you that I am reading and studying the Bible again. Thank you for sharing your life with us and for your service to the Lord 😊😊🎉🎉
Okay a few things lol. Definitely don't fake anything when hooking up with anyone. U either are down or you just say nah i ain't feelin this. Also I would 100% recommend hooking up with a already experienced woman unless she's just a lesbian already then thats even better she'llbe more experienced. If she's gonna be your first time in bed, then you definitely wanna hook up with someone who knows what they are doing!! Then you can decide truly if it's something your into or not. 98% of the time your gonna fall hard because women are just beautiful and irresistible in every way ❤ And thers no bases 😂 Just be yourself and enjoy the experience for all it is. It's not rocket science, it's just making love ❤❤❤
Becca! Stop being worried about what people will think about your opinion, dude!! Ppl come to your podcast to listen to your opinion and tbh, you could change it 5 times and every time, you'll still have someone who disagrees or is offended Abt something. Lock in to who you are, talk about what YOU know and remember that it's NORMAL for ppl to disagree. Unfortunately, it's also normal for ppl on the Internet to be insane Abt shit they disagree with, just remember who you are, reflect if you need to, and trust yourself. You seem super worried Abt reactions and if you're saying the "right" thing. You're saying the right thing for you, but that's perfect bc that's what ppl are asking you for--your perspective!! You got this, girl. Be nice to yourself
My first time hooking up with a girl I told her I had done so with one other girl (which was a lie). She was my first time hooking up with a girl . The lie gave me the confidence I needed to hook up confidently. I told her three days later I lied and she was my first 😂. She said she couldn’t tell so obviously the lie worked in our favor . Also she’s my wife now soooo 😂😂
Congrats, you gays!! You did it, lol
You just hooked up with a girl. I broke up with a girl 12 days ago because she was emotionally abusive and didn't care about how I feel. It's okay. I'm bisexual anyway and my relationship with men last more longer. I'm more meant to have fun with women and that's it. No strings attached
@Itsangie4now I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you find your person! Though I'd recommend going back to the actual term of DATING, which is going on dates and getting to know each other WITHOUT being in a relationship. The dating term can last over months if not years, and it makes your relationship, once in it, stronger. This is the best way to go about any relationship, so please choose the people you give yourself to wisely.
@aandi8738 I agree with you. I feel like there's just some people in the world who don't have time to go on dates and I should realize. If you don't care to go on a date with me... then you're not for me
@@Itsangie4nowThen wtf are you doing on a video about wlw relationships? Go date men and be happy, good luck
"Jason from finance does NOT need me to perform for him" LMAOO
that made me laughed so hard 😂
"This woman has rights" sooooo true
i had to learn FAST
@@becccamooore you should get an award from the lesbian community I mean it
Time stamp?
@@becccamooore❤
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Thank you for this, truly. I'm bisexual and am scared of sleeping with girls! This honesty is what so many girls need... I know it's super uncomfortable for you maybe? But like, seeing another feminine girl around my age going through what I am is so refreshing. Seriously, there's nobody else like you. So thank you Becca!! ♥️
OMG you made my day ILY!!
If you need extra help, stevie boebi has some "how to" videos with visual props and detailed explanations on her channel that helped me understand logistics on being with a girl for the first time. Its scary but as long as you trust the person, everything will be alright.
Sleeping with girls is amazing. Its like getting to experience something intimate with your best friends. Their vagina feels soo good and youll love their taste. Im scared of bodily fluids so thats saying a lot. The heavy breathing and tension in their body is the best
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“You can’t go wrong with the right person for you” omg Becca 🥹🤌🏼❤️
Forreal that line actually healed me
lmao “are there four bases before home in baseball?” spoken like a true femme
me af 😭😭
If you count the "on deck circle" then that's five bases including home plate.
“This woman has rights” took me out 😭😂
The way you are opening up to us. I thank you. None of this is easy or simple. We thank you.
'Is it sparks or is it anxiety?' WOW... so simple but honestly so profound that really hit me!
“Sexy wolverine” 🐺😂 Your willingness to spill is so endearing!
“is it sparks or is it anxiety” realest shit ever HAHA
As a lesbian, and longtime (friendly not insane) follower of Shannon/NowThisIsLiving since tumblr days, I want you to know how much you sharing your perspective is valuable, not only to your target demographic, but also to longtime out and proud lesbians like myself. My littlest sister is bi, fem, and scared of her first time and as a chill tomboy lesbian (like Shannon) it seems I just can't quite reach her/speak to her in the way she needs. I think this video is pretty perfect and I hope this will help her in ways I just can't. Thanks Becca 💙
You watched too much porn
"I just don't think that the guy deserves all that" so true they really don't
And yet the amount of unicorn hunters in lesbian app is massive , or women dating you just to reveal they were married all along
I know you were like so terrified to make this podcast, but I literally think this is what the baby gays need, like you are doing nothing wrong, your intention is just to talk about your experiences with women and I think they’re so relatable so you slay girl! ILY💗
'' You can't go wrong with the right person for you '' 💯
Anything will feel good if the vibe is right between you two ❤
😭 😭
I m Scott, I used to be straight, tried a guy once and now I am definitely not straight. I am extremely bisexual and pretty close to being gay. Ty so much
hi! i commented awhile ago and said i had a crush on this girl, she actually asked me out like the day after and now we are almost official :')
congrats!!! :)))
YAY congrats omg.
Think it great /Nice if they may include a watcher!
Being vulnerable is hard and scary. Just ask, “does this feel okay?” Explore with your lady and yes consent! It’s okay to be the girl next door. It’s very adorable.
Thank you for sharing this Becca, genuinely. So many people are searching for answers to the same questions and it feels like no one ever wants to provide a raw, genuine, honest answer. Like you said it's always "ohh it just comes naturally..." or "You'll figure it out in the moment.." although that may be somewhat true, it's not helpful. At the end of the day, we pretty much all end up going through a point in time where we do/want to do something sexual for the first time, there is always going to be somebody who needs this. SO Thankyou Becca!
P.S I love that blanket/throw where did you get it?
I admire you so much, and your vulnerability to talk about things that not a lot of people talk about. I’ve been out for 7 years now- and I’ll *never* forget the feelings before hooking up for the first time with a girl. And the feeling of “oh I could never” before that time. Also love what you said - “you can’t go wrong with the right person” …also LOL “Jason from finance doesn’t need me to preform for him” 😂 yes girl. You’re a gem. And I love you and Shannon❤❤
I love this so much. This is an experience most people don’t talk about. My wife was 26 when we met and I was the first woman she was intimate with and she didn’t tell me because she was embarrassed 😭 it ended up being great just because we have great chemistry together as people! It will never feel wrong with the right person ❤️
I had an intense emotional relationship with a woman when I was in my 20’s. We kissed a bit but never went there because she told me she was worried she didn’t know what she was doing. We remained friends and she introduced me to one of her friends who knew she was gay and never questioned it. Both are beautiful women. I’ve been with her friend for the past 17 years. We have a toddler, house, dog, etc.
She’s been married twice, has two kids and I love her new hubby. Sweetest guy you’ll ever meet. Kids are adorable.
We see each other at social gatherings because their friend group has been tight since middle school. There is still so much love between us, it’s insane. The chemistry, the affection, never dissipated. We stare at each other, smile a lot, compliment one another, pour drinks for each other, etc. Then we say our goodbyes until the next social event.
Wonder if we’ll ever get together. Perhaps the fantasy is more magical and we should leave it at that. Who needs a messy affair? 😂
🙋🏻♀️ maybe…
My first time with a girl a - I was 18. Lots of experience with boys so I figured a long as the other person was moaning I was doing something right 😂
I suppose it was an easy transition because I was young and had very few insecurities. I see lots of late in life lesbians who are intimidated by it but it really is just friction, if you’re doing it correctly, wet friction.
Typically, if you like the way someone kisses or dances, you will like what happens in the bedroom.
Pro tip: when you kiss her if you don’t feel tingly everywhere, move on. She’s not the one. The body knows even when the mind tries to convince us.
Happy hunting Ladies! ❤
Do you think your partner would be open to opening up your relationship at all?
@@quiqui6424 Would my wife of 17 years be okay with me having a relationship with her BFF? Probably not. However after we got married she said we could bring a guy in for physical stuff but no kissing on the mouth. Sept 20th will be our 10 year wedding anniversary nothing has happened yet. We have a 2.67 year old now… she takes up all our time and energy but maybe when she’s older and more self sufficient we’ll revisit but I’ll be in my 50’s by then… life will be very different. I’m already feeling the effects of perimenopause and I’m only 41! It’s wild out here, ladies! Please take care of yourselves. Your health is everything! (Mental health included).
@@quiqui6424 This is such bad advice because there is a big red flag here: she has been having feelings for this woman for over 17 years, since before she even met her wife. It's different to opening up your marriage in order to experiment together with her wife because of boredom or to test something new. This is something that can blow up 2 marriages, not just one. Also, we don't even know if her friend feels the same.
Most probably in situations like this one from when she was young the best approach is to cut that person out of your life the moment marriage with someone else is on the table. That's because if you still feel like she is the one and you would be with her the moment she gives you a hint, even if it means dumping a spouse and kid, then that's not ok. That's what I would do because my life experience tells me if someone didn't give me a chance the first time we started doing something romantic... it means they weren't that into me.
In my experience and from life stories I saw and heard, this type of friend will sleep with you when bored or when they have some trouble in the marriage, and then go back to their spouse. Meanwhile, you blow up your marriage, destroy the relationship with your spose and kid, and end up single, having to start over in a contentious environment with everyone around you having a bad opinion of you. And trust me that is exactly how it happens because if you've had feelings for over 17 years, you will feel jealous, upset, want to be with them all the time etc. You will want to divorce and you will want them to leave their marriage to be with you so you can have them all to yourself. The drama is not worth it for me. I simply cut people out to make life easier. No headaches.
So good advice. Thank you. Dance and kiss are so big key before sex.
Oh my gosh, I feel so bad for your partner. This isn't something your supposed to brag, your wife does not deserve this treatment from you.
It's okay to be a little uncomfortable or scared the first time. It's a new experience, of course it is destabilizing! But if the person you are with is a good person, she will be able to make you feel comfortable, no matter whether she is experienced or not. Personally, I don't agree with the "you fake it till you make it" stance concerning being naked in front of that person. On the contrary, I am very much in favour of open communication and showing your insecure and vulnerable side. It's not a performance, you won't get a grade afterwards. It's about being intimate with someone, and that means being "naked" in every sense of the word: physically, but also emotionally. Open up, be honest, and say (or just grab her hand and show...) what you like if what she does is not the best way, the right spot etc. Dare being yourself and real with that person.
Shannon has rights LOL! This is my favorite podcast. ILY Becca!
ILY!
My only time with a girl was so scary. I didn't know if we should take turns or if I should be initiating as well. So confused. And I was overstimulated/nervous so I couldn't "hit homerun" so she insisted on trying again and I focused really hard. It was successful that time, kinda.
Thats why communication goes a long way;)
omg girl this was so comforting. im 19 and ive been with my gf for over a year and im deathly terrified of hooking up, this vid made me feel so seen and 'normal' lol
You might be asexual! I remember being terrified and also waiting until i was 20+ for my first time. Turned out I'm a subtype within the asexual community lol (panromantic aegosexual). It was confusing to figure out since i felt the same about all genders.
"you can cheat on your bf if you want, im not the police" lol
Some of us have had no experience. Not even a kiss 😂
Awwww sorry to hear that 😕 Any updates at all 🤔
Been refreshing dying to know what you were scared to upload… now I get it haha I love this
HAHA goodbye
This is literally the same experience I've had whoa. So refreshing to listen to! Thanks for opening up 💛
Never clicked so fast in my life I’m always so excited to watch your pod 🫶
stop ily!!!
absolutely LOVE the glowup in your promo vids and thumbnails!!!!!! so proud of you
watching p**n and the take away is the lightening is not realistic is so funny 😂
I remember my first time with my gf changed my life and I love her even more than I already do.
As a bi fem, thank you! Im so scared to hook up with a woman, this makes me feel better
Glad I found your channel 'cause you're totally too funny and super entertaining . Good job on conveying the dynamics of your new experience . Kudos !
Genuinely appreciate you being so real about this!
I'm cracking at "first base is boobs then the hand stuff"😂😂😂
it was so fun to watch. thanks Becca for sharing!!
I'm a lesbian and didn't have my first time with a woman until I was 30
Thanks again Becca, you really help me in my coming out, i still feel so scary about it, your words talk to me, support your videos ❤❤❤❤❤
Congratulations on 10k Becca. This is can't miss content
It’s 3 in the morning and i’m not even tired anymore haha
hahaha i’m so sorry
Im married to a man , 30 years married on my 18th birthday..had boyfriends at school and kissed boys and girls but was a virgin when i met my husband. I fancy women more than men. Not sure what to do. Got 7 kids x
This podcast is so addictive 😂😂😂 lmao I have mannnny deadlines but I never skip an upload
Becca, the police don't arrest people for cheating 😂😂
well they should.
Becca!!! I followed you from your tik tok a while ago. I was on Spotify recently and saw your podcast! Love it already 🥰
Shannon here making the straights gay 😂
Becca Moore I just stumbled upon your channel. My name is Tim. I live in Oregon. I think your channel is amazing now I have to binge watch all of your episodes. Never stop doing what you’re doing. Never stop being yourself. Hold your head high and do yourself proud hope to hear from you soon my best to you, Tim.
My first time was 22 years ago… freshman in college. 41 now… been in a lot of relationships… men, women… but I feel more connected to women for sure. Just more comfortable.❤ much love to you.
I realized that I’m a lesbian a few weeks ago, ik this was probably uncomfortable for you to make lol but it was so helpful!!
I love your stories. They are so real and so relatable
also I wonder how many ppl have a bathroom stall story bc one time in college a girl in my sorority pulled me into a stall and was like “I like you” and I was like “uh.. what?” she was like “…” and I was like “oh.. I’m sorry.. I’m not gay..😬” and she was not convinced but ended up leaving lmao. in hindsight ig she did clock me but I wasn’t ready to admit it to myself yet (still am not tbh)
As a married lesbian who once identified as bi (no, being married isn’t what “made” me a lesbian), wlw sx is more about what you WANT to do, not what you’re expected to do like heteronormative relationships may be, so don’t worry about that and just follow your instincts of what you wanna do! (Once I bit someone’s ear in the heat of the moment and instantly apologised but it was actually something new for us both and was surprisingly VERY well received 😅)
And don’t be afraid to ask if it feels good when you’re doing something! It’s hot if it does, and if not, you’ll get a tip 😂 first time was definitely scary but by the next time I had plenty of fantasies to inspire me 😅
My bestie girl that asked about the guy at the end fucked me up bc it was me exactly a week ago I was “dumped”. Same situation, we spent a weekend together, nonstop talking and he was definitely love bombing me, talking about the future and moving across the country to be together. We met up Thursday, hooked up Saturday and he dumped me Wednesday. And to be honest when he called me and said I was moving too fast I laughed. He asked ME about the future and moving and kids. I never brought it up. But **I** was the one moving too fast. Men are comedic. I actually did want to be with him but clearly he didn’t want to be with me. And that’s okay.
Sorry to hear that beautiful but not all us guys are like that 💯
I don't recommend a three-some with a girl and a guy. It is just a waste of time, truthfully, if you want to be with a girl.
Something i want to learn from you is the confidence 🥹🥹 i sit and appreciate from the corner 🤭🤭shy me can't do anything for herself 😂😂
Thank you for always letting the girls girl up much love 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
I think you are brave for putting this out there! I was born a lesbian and you are of the type that has made a choice. I love that you are trying to relay the love and self respect needed to be successful in a sexual relationship with anyone! Good luck to you and your partner. Godspeed
That’s pretty gay fam
well yes!
Hey Becca I laughed really hard at 11:00 when you were talking about baseball. 😂😂😂
I had my first time with a girl at like 36, after knowing I was bi since I was 17. But for the longest time I didn’t want to have sex with a woman, I rejected a few girls that wanted to sleep with me, maybe I wanted to be something special since my first time with a guy was not special at all. I met this girl who I didn’t like that way at first, she was backpacking and we met on a dating app. I was surprised when she made a move, I thought we were kind of just friends, but then we kissed and it was nice, we kept texting and went to a party with my friends and I just kind of knew we would sleep together that day. We got back to my house and I told her I had never been with a girl in that way, but that she was not an experiment and I was sure. She told me that if it was an experiment it was also OK, lol, I think she was kind of afraid I was gonna develop feelings for her, and with her leaving that would obviously be bad. I have never been one to just lay there, I’m pretty active in bed, she took the lead, and truthfully, I didn’t find it all that special, kind of disappointed haha, I had been waiting a long time for that, maybe I had too much expectations. And when I was down there I got kind of bored lol. The nicest part for me was after when we cuddled and fell asleep. I mean, I still want to sleep with girls, but maybe it has to be with somebody I have feelings for? I don’t know, or someone I really like and desire. I love kissing women, more than men, but if I’m horny I think about men. Maybe I’m more romantic towards women and more sexually attracted towards men 🤷🏻♀️
"... what's like a sexy animal..?"😅I uncomfortably put some serious thought into that question and the only thing I could think of that was remotely sexy was a cheetah.
I really respect that you stayed classy and didn't spill the tea in graphic detail. Some things are better kept private and are not forfor public consumption
Maybe it’s because I’ve known I was gay since before I even knew what being gay was, but my first time was so fun. My first time with a woman was also my first sexual experience ever. I think because I’d already spent so much time fanatasizing and watching… material… that I was well equipped and just excited to finally be there and just have it happen (I was 20, so quite late for the first time). Really interesting to hear it from the perspective of someone having a later “gay awakening” and has probably never fanstasized about women sexually like people who have known their whole lives. Glad it was a success though. ;p
LOVE THIS BECCA!!
youre so real idk how to describe it
When i see a notification from your page, i literally get butterflies and cant wait to watch it. The day that i found this channel, it had a headline that made me want to know more, because, as a girl, I've never experienced romantic relationship with anyone but I've always known that i loved girls...watching this everytime you post, it gives me light (is it correct when i say light)...yeah but thats it and i love your channel soooo much❤️❤️❤️❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙌🏾
People on the Internet make up stories about you guys and hate you guys. I don't know how to deal with it if it was me. I'm glad you're dating each other (both in the same industry). The fact that you trust and support each other makes the relationship even stronger. ❤
lol i’m not the police made me crack up
tuesdays are the best day of the week
ILY
Lmao. Sharing clothes is the best part!
You are adorable and a total crack up. You go girl ❤
omg ily!!
Becca Moore, nice video keep up the great content
Thank you for sharing your experience!! I know it will mean a lot to people that goes through the same thing of lack of content of this topic. ❤
I never believed the pillow princess allegations
is being a pillow princess a bad thing?
@@maceysvibes333yes it’s mostly used in a pejorative way
@@DHU11 how so?
@@maceysvibes333it depends who you’re asking, some don’t mind a pillow princess
You give great advice to talk about what you like and want, and to be casual about it.
I feel so much for Sarah but honestly it sounds like he probably just went back to his girlfriend or just wanted to hook up. Guys are the worst. I had so many situationships where I thought we were great together and then just got like ghosted. Throw yourself into friendships and doing things you want to do and before you know it you’ll be moved on from him!! ❤
12:20 I love you Becca Moore😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾i mean this is so relatable ....yeeeeeh🙌🏾🙌🏾😂😂😂😂
“I don’t think the guy deserves all that” ☠️
NOT not my tea, It's NOT MY CUP OF TEA, it comes from north east England. Congratulations I hope it works out for you both
Aww…Thanks for sharing! Your story made me think about my first with a woman⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️❣️You’re a pretty young lady, but not as beautiful as her❣️
It actually wasn’t click bait. And anyone who thinks it is …. Not for the girls
Shannon better be worshipping this girl.
i’ve never done anything with a girl and i’m only out to a few people but i know i like girls and sometimes question whether i like guys at all 😭 but im going to uni in a few weeks so hopefully something will happen then
A remarkable achievement. This content provider has, through sentence fragments that don't go anywhere, repetition, and obvious tautology, has somehow crammed ten minutes of material into a mere half hour. It's like trying to talk to a four-year-old.
head lesbian is wildddd
I love this podcast. She says everything that goes through my mind. 😂
Adore you Becca!!💘
if you haven't already you should learn about compulsory heterosexuality. that might be what was contributing to centering men in your idea of what your life would be and the performative stuff
I was so nervous and laughing the first time i was with a girl, who i wa super close to at the time and ended up dating 4 years after, but she got so upset that i was laughing and called me childish 🥴 like girlll you're the one that wanted to take my virginity so bad whatchu expect!?????
first time watching ur vids and this is fire
keep doing what your doing every young person out there need to hear you i'm 69 my partner is 78 now should be easier to be gay
I'm 24 and after 5 years relationship with a man (went wrong) I'm falling for a woman and I'm so scared😂 so thanks because it's the video that I needed. Yesterday we just pet each other a little and I was already turn on by that and I felt that sense of "oh, maybe I actually would know what to do"
All I can say is thank you and it's because of you that I am reading and studying the Bible again. Thank you for sharing your life with us and for your service to the Lord 😊😊🎉🎉
Okay a few things lol. Definitely don't fake anything when hooking up with anyone. U either are down or you just say nah i ain't feelin this. Also I would 100% recommend hooking up with a already experienced woman unless she's just a lesbian already then thats even better she'llbe more experienced. If she's gonna be your first time in bed, then you definitely wanna hook up with someone who knows what they are doing!! Then you can decide truly if it's something your into or not. 98% of the time your gonna fall hard because women are just beautiful and irresistible in every way ❤ And thers no bases 😂 Just be yourself and enjoy the experience for all it is. It's not rocket science, it's just making love ❤❤❤
Love you and Shannon! ❤
ily!!!
becca this eats I literally love you!
i literally love you!!!!
Great episode as always 👏👏👏😊❣️ sad bear bear, didn’t make an appearance though🥺❣️
Becca! Stop being worried about what people will think about your opinion, dude!! Ppl come to your podcast to listen to your opinion and tbh, you could change it 5 times and every time, you'll still have someone who disagrees or is offended Abt something.
Lock in to who you are, talk about what YOU know and remember that it's NORMAL for ppl to disagree. Unfortunately, it's also normal for ppl on the Internet to be insane Abt shit they disagree with, just remember who you are, reflect if you need to, and trust yourself. You seem super worried Abt reactions and if you're saying the "right" thing. You're saying the right thing for you, but that's perfect bc that's what ppl are asking you for--your perspective!! You got this, girl. Be nice to yourself
24:31...Okay, I didn't like this part. People shouldn't be cheating on people, no matter who it is.
Yeah weird vibes immediately turned it off