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We do not have to date at all. If we want, we can date for a brief time, then stay out of the chaos, then resume dating. But, no, we don't have to date. 🙂
Most securely attached people are already in a relationship. It's usually the insecurely attached that are left still dating. It's wise to guard our hearts. Meanwhile, working on developing a firmer boundary and securely attached communication style are better bets.
@@corichang And some people are maturer than the insecure people they happen to meet (as not all single people use dating apps) and they rightfully decide that they do not wish to "date." I've met more than a few miserable coupled people who are "securely attached." I believe in I do me; you do you.
I agree that it’s good to say thank you. Although, that won’t always translate into sustained effort from both parties. Things will fizzle if it’s not meant to be.
Lol. Must be difficult to remind people about a long distance relationship. “A relationship must be face to face.” Spanish women Fo Not Believe To Pay For A Man’s Drink and/or dinner. It is considered A sign of weakness. That is strong of you Jonathon to have paid. Have to consider funds before you men decide to take women out on a date.
I think abuse and trauma in childhood happens already if the parents don't make enough time for the children and don't support their hobbies... though often it's not on purpose, they just aren't able to do it... but it's a disadvantage for children.. lack of financial ressources, bad mental health in parents, all that is traumatizing the children
Men feel a la k of effort from a date bcz they are cheap. And those men should not expect sexual advances for purchasing dinner. That is not a way of showing appreciation. If a man cannot pay for dinner than how do women expect a man to protect her.
Today's, or UA-cam's, penchant for hyperbole is tearing down the sting & raw truths embedded in language. Words like "trauma" and "addiction" have been made impotent by applications to the mundane. Let's leave these words to their proper usage. To misapply them is to diminish the suffering of those who experience true addiction & trauma. What else do we have but our words to express the depth & gravity of these experiences. To dilute these words so profoundly is to diminish the authenticity and depth in the telling of such a specific type of human suffering.
Really? Why women need to hear these things, Jonathan? Aren’t they already doing this when they go out with someone and spend time together? Are we truly that f’ed up as a species 😂?
@@JonathonAslay Wow. Ok. Noted, for sure. I'm widowed (after an incredibly wonderful and fulfilling relationship) and not dating; I've found so much beauty in being in the world solo! However, I will file this away and will recall it if I ever forget how to be a human being having a conversation with another human being ; )
Inner work is a must for ourselves most importantly, not to mention if we wish to attract the same healthy energy from an external force who is doing their own. I believe when we carry the energy of gratitude and love inside our hearts, our eyes will sparkle from the light reflecting in our soul ✨💖💫 Xx Jonathan
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🦄 Right On Jonathon!
3 Great Words:
Appreciation, Grateful & Gratitude!
👍👍
Your videos are making a difference in my life & dating life. Thank you soo much. Your words do resonate with me.
That's awesome to hear!
What happened when you just don’t want to date anymore! Just don’t want to get hurt anymore.
We do not have to date at all. If we want, we can date for a brief time, then stay out of the chaos, then resume dating. But, no, we don't have to date. 🙂
Can you elaborate?
Most securely attached people are already in a relationship. It's usually the insecurely attached that are left still dating. It's wise to guard our hearts. Meanwhile, working on developing a firmer boundary and securely attached communication style are better bets.
@@corichang And some people are maturer than the insecure people they happen to meet (as not all single people use dating apps) and they rightfully decide that they do not wish to "date." I've met more than a few miserable coupled people who are "securely attached." I believe in I do me; you do you.
My mom decided to be alone and she is fine with that
I completely agree that expressing your appreciation for your man is so important. Awesome advice Jonathon! 🌟
Absolutely!
And men love when you give your power away to them and people please them. Ego.
Jonathon, the statements of gratitude you shared with your partner before sleeping is so darn sweet! Noted-
It’s important to show gratitude for your partner!
Johnathan.. always appreciate your outlook on dating…❤
Have a Happy Sunday 🎉
Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
I agree that it’s good to say thank you. Although, that won’t always translate into sustained effort from both parties. Things will fizzle if it’s not meant to be.
Yes
A true thank you means so much
My older sister calls it a “meat market.”
No my man would never allow me to pay for anything.
Is he your husband?
Lol. Must be difficult to remind people about a long distance relationship. “A relationship must be face to face.” Spanish women Fo Not Believe To Pay For A Man’s Drink and/or dinner. It is considered A sign of weakness. That is strong of you Jonathon to have paid. Have to consider funds before you men decide to take women out on a date.
omg a swap meet.. lol 😂
Lol 😆
I think abuse and trauma in childhood happens already if the parents don't make enough time for the children and don't support their hobbies... though often it's not on purpose, they just aren't able to do it... but it's a disadvantage for children.. lack of financial ressources, bad mental health in parents, all that is traumatizing the children
Yes, i agree..
Hey Jonathan!
HEY 👋 👋 👋
Thank you so much great advice❤
All your videos are making such a big difference in my life and can't get enough of them ! Wished I'd known of you sooner but that's okay too .
You are so welcome!
Men feel a la k of effort from a date bcz they are cheap. And those men should not expect sexual advances for purchasing dinner. That is not a way of showing appreciation. If a man cannot pay for dinner than how do women expect a man to protect her.
Just purchased ‘How to be an Adult in Relationships’ I’m grateful for the recommendation Jonathon. Can’t wait to get into it! 🙏💕🌟
You're going to love it!
The 7 love-languages
Yes
Today's, or UA-cam's, penchant for hyperbole is tearing down the sting & raw truths embedded in language. Words like "trauma" and "addiction" have been made impotent by applications to the mundane. Let's leave these words to their proper usage. To misapply them is to diminish the suffering of those who experience true addiction & trauma. What else do we have but our words to express the depth & gravity of these experiences. To dilute these words so profoundly is to diminish the authenticity and depth in the telling of such a specific type of human suffering.
Yes
Really? Why women need to hear these things, Jonathan? Aren’t they already doing this when they go out with someone and spend time together? Are we truly that f’ed up as a species 😂?
It's men's #1 complaint
@@JonathonAslay Wow. Ok. Noted, for sure. I'm widowed (after an incredibly wonderful and fulfilling relationship) and not dating; I've found so much beauty in being in the world solo! However, I will file this away and will recall it if I ever forget how to be a human being having a conversation with another human being ; )
Inner work is a must for ourselves most importantly, not to mention if we wish to attract the same healthy energy from an external force who is doing their own. I believe when we carry the energy of gratitude and love inside our hearts, our eyes will sparkle from the light reflecting in our soul ✨💖💫
Xx Jonathan
Exactly
Nope. A man pays. Ladies Do Not Settle For Anything Less. No!!!
Why?
Hi. I like your videos. How did someone comment on it 8 hours ago if you just sent it 20 minutes ago?
It was uploaded earlier
@JonathonAslay Thanks for responding.😊