Ok perv thanks you for teaching simps how to be real mens,ill recommend you,and this stuff lead to what?Marriage or only hookup stuff?you may know somethings but still your stuff dont have a real iseful purpose,change girls lead to nothing,in the end will only be wasted time for mens,should teach mens how to force womens to get some Christian values by only dating for marriage the ones who have that values,that would obliged others to adapt,of course needed changed the laws too
Casey’s knowledge of women is very impressive. Where did he learn all of this tho? What books? UA-cam videos? There’s no way he was born with this knowledge. Just curious!
your point about woman not appreciatign comitment, is not accurate because you dont really need to avoid telling her if your in for the long term realtionship when she asks or else she feel there is no trust, somethings being hidden, and thatll kill realitonhsip. what yur talking about is actually a desire to play the game of deserving love, being desired... so that can mean responsing in a way she likes when she does certain things, etc. also novelty is interesting. i dont think this is specific to female except that female is interested in emotion, is emotionally random in part of menstural period due to hormones ie "i feel bad/excited/etc for no reason", shes afraid of risk ie tends ot be less willing to try enjoying the risk in playing rough and dirty outside or driving fast for fun etc (its why car insurance for females is less cost than males)... so she'll probably cope with life by relying more on emotional games... so this can be trying to figure what you like, get excited over what emotions and ideas you assosiate with a color of some art of soemthing etc. in attractiveness, pretty body in both genders is most inportant especially face, pretiness is symetry, certain ratios os distance between parts and size etc. you could measure by average immedate reaction of obsverver. then for men, woman will want to be submissive to man of socio economic strength including bodyily strength even if shes too young to know that bodily strength , including size, is more interesting in bed.... its socio economic not just any strength, she wont be so segsually interested if your strongly skilled at video games. then in both gender, trustworthiness is considered on the concious level of thinking. this is due to " natural selection ", which is good genetics passing on, how did genetics that are helpful and beautiful even start to exist? we dont know, but you can see this being real. you shouldve also explained to woman that man doesnt like woman who goe sbeyond her natural segsual shyness to get pshycally intimate with other men, this is mens nature, this is because then hiis sbperm quality and amount needs to compete with other mens and humans are wired to maxminize reproduction of the indiviuals genes , tis why we want to sirvive and do segsual stuff and need to compete to do it more than others, otherwise nature would have total socialism and no challenges on humans etc. also point out that woman emotioanlly bonds with man with phsycali intimacy immedatly while man takes multiple times through weeks to bond, which is why she emotionally misses all those guys especially parts of more attractive guys but the guy doesnt mind dumping her after pumping her with his stuff that comes out the water gun, which bye the way that could have SegsuallyTransmitedDiseases . so woman cant appreciate any one even very attractive man anymore after more of that subconciosuly, and conciously she cant appreciate man she realistically can have long term for her attractiveness level, so shes left forgotten with noone to genuinly care in a culture where instituions of morlaity have been subverted as yuri beznooov would say, a culture where peopel would rather express love while not meaning it in hopes of being loved, even avoiding telling the person advice she needs to hear in fear that people will dislike her... she never actually cared for the person. to protect from alimony and child support tax , usually on men for fund single motherhood lack of father figure stoicism for kids, theres co habitation "prenup" contract to protect eahc othre from future evil in case one of them or both of them become evil.
Hey I’m sorry if this is old and is well trying to help, but i am trying to study female nature but i am autistic which makes it harder due to lack of understanding my micro social Qs.
Absolutely spot on. These are things our fathers should have taught us growing up. Instead, we grow up amongst women, and end up effeminate. A man is not born, he's made
This is why the single motherhood by choice thing is so dangerous for society. There's a way around this. If this is your situation you need to find male mentors. Uncles, bosses, co workers, someone solid to look up to. Go and find someone that has good strong male values. Don't let your mom force a boyfriend or step daddy on you (but give him a chance if he's a solid man) The problem is how do you recognize what a good man is? That's the hard part. My mom was a single mom but my dad's side and my dad had me a lot of the time (about half the year) so I had my grandpa and my dad. When my dad died as a young man I found mentors. Good men to emulate and look up to. In a few cases I had mentors who were females that taught me to be a better man. Older women are the shit! Like my former boss Veronica. She was a pretty, single older woman. I think she had a crush on me (she wasn't bad looking) but my relationship with her was strictly professional and she taught me a lot. And I, her. And we had a good friendship until she got promoted and moved to another city and I got a better job and position and career So women can be a source too. But it depends on what kind of woman. My grandma was old school and she taught me a lot about being a man too. Drawing on inspiration from her brothers and her father. Who were all dead but very good and successful men in their day. My sisters who were raised exclusively by my abusive mom have all of her mental illness. (BPD, Google it and u will empathize with how I grew up and understand how a mother could abuse her son so horribly) Those poor sisters of mine. One is still a kid. The other just had a kid. And I can see the damage done. They didnt Have men to look up to. Not even me because they don't even see how I can fit into their life and be valuable. I'm just their estranged brother. They don't even believe men are worth anything. And they're just a wreck. Cockroach infested home. I had to kill mice and roaches last time I visited. I had to call the exterminator and talk to him for my mom. I had to teach my mom (she was 44) how to tell the difference between left and right and how to find directions (north south east west) I had to dust and clean up her living room for her. She's not like an abnormal woman. That's the thing. She's very normal. But normal has become horrid. As men we need to stand up and help the women in our life. And learn from them and not dismiss them entirely because they aren't perfect or have problems. We need to protect our girls. We need to protect our boys too. We need to fight for our kids. And not be so soft on them how society was with Gen Z and some later millennials. Things have been bad but we can turn them around. It starts with us.
As men we are the vanguard of civilization. We must protect it from all threats. Foreign domestic internal and external forces. Some of these threats are hidden in trusted institutions like fashion. Media. Music. Hollywood. Our own families. Government. School. The institution of marriage. Organized big religion. Big pharma. Our institutes do more damage than ISIS or China would ever dream of doing.
@@juanmccoy3066 you are wrong. It takes a true healed person to raise another person. Your gender as nothing to do with your capability of raising a child, regardless if your child is the same gender as you or not. I've seen many great men be raised by single mothers and I have seen many horrible men raised by both parents. This video is made to help men understand women and of course all you could get from it was a negative comment about women. Don't persuade people to think a way about a group of people based on your own experiences.
you're contradicting yourself. You grow up amongst women regardless cause there're women everywhere. if you are effeminated then you should know the female nature.
MOST women will never appreciate men for things we do and buy. Because they feel like it's our duty to take care of them. They will always be taken care of. If not you, then it WILL BE someone else. So be wise to never gauge her respect based on the things you do for her. Base the respect she has for the things she is doing for YOU. That's how women show appreciation. If she does nothing for you, then you are a sugar daddy and will never be anything more. Because when a woman loves, she wants nothing more than to care for and nurture that love.
Facts, I remember arguing with a woman that exaggerating this and looked like a horrible person. Now it all makes sense to me that every woman is like this but the woman I argued with was just more in depth with this. Woman want providers and masculine man because that's how it's always been, caveman went out to do the hunting and protection and many wasn't allowed to work back in western history. So they depend on man in the future, I mean how can you be a husband and father if you can't even provide. And a lot of the traits that woman like which is being tall, is because they represent masculinity and a dangerous man.
To point one, I've once read a note from a psychologist : When you do something for someone, you feel more connected than they do. Weird but true cause your brain needs a good reason why you do that. The other didn't act the same, he only receives. Happens sadly often when a man works off his ass to serve the family and suddenly comes the divorce and he is alone and ALSO unappreciated. And also between friends.. you give a credit in bad times and over time your friend nearly "hates" you cause he has to pay back... (happens to me)
This describes my life so well. I've never been able to understand it in quite this way. I thought I was the problem with choosing the wrong friends, my kindness to family members, in dating too. I thought people just take advantage of my kindness when they are in need but then stab in the back laughing.
thats exactly why you ask women to do things for you... "Hey on your way over, could you swing by the store and grab some coffee creamer"... you get the point
Point #8 is the key to everything! It's less about who is alpha and who is beta, because men still seem to want to think that it is about them. Most women are completely selb absorbed, especially the ones who don't have kids yet. So their choices in a mate are almost totally based on the stage of life they are in and what a man can provide to her based on what she requires at that particular time. In other words, you can be as alpha as you want to be by society's standards. A certain woman that you want will STILL not pick you if you're not offering whatever it is she values at that particuar point in her life.
@@shaktiriI think it can be, but men typically don’t have that standard most of men’s standard is “is she hot does she like me back and is she good in bed?” That’s it LMFAO
Crushed this one Casey. The acceptance of these characteristics of women is KEY. Even watching your videos from time to time keeps me grounded in my relationship. When you learn to accept how women are instead of trying to figure them out and reverse engineer them, it becomes WAY easier.
Yep.... I'm 61 now and this is pure gold!!!👌... Casey you're so young but you get it, congratulations man, you've done you're studies ... i wish i know it in my mid 20s But youtube wasn't around and my male friends are as dumb as i am.. And as old as i am, but in good shape and youthful.... i finally noticed how much influence my game has towards women...and its never too late...never give up until I'm died From the deep of my heart, really... thank you!
As a man in his mid forties, I can tell the younger generations EVERYTHING he said is 100% accurate. Either I've experienced this myself and paid a high price for learning the lesson or I've seen this play out on people I know also paying the price to learn the lesson.
I have a 22 year old son, if I were to sit my son down and tell him this he'd lose interest by #3. These steps come In time when growing with a woman. My oldest is 24 & married I find myself asking questions just to check his head. I've had to correct certain things in his way of relationship thinking but he's been with his wife since 8th grade. Like I said this is something that most men will have to learn the hard way unless they have a male figure that's "been there, done that" most males sadly do not have that.
For most men they won't learn it at all. We operate with a different underlying operating system: one that revolves around school yard rules, ethics and morals. Even divorce won't change a man until he becomes red-pill aware. At that point, he will decide that relationships with women are best at an arms length and only superficial, ie. friends with benefits.
Very true my father has been married 4 times he keeps getting up on that horse though. I think of him as emotionally handicapped but most will look at him as selfish and ignorant. I try and do the opposite in my marriage and the way I raised my sons.
@@patrickburns4821 I know how you feel buddy my father wasn't around and I was raised by a step dad who was emotionally and physically destroyed by what he went through in Vietnam. He did his best though. My best advice before getting serious about relationships is to get serious about a relationship within yourself. Self love is more important 1st then you'll guided to who will love you. You'll know what your worth is and how you want to be loved, except no less and give that person 100% that way there's no excuse "IF" relationships sour. And they will but always learn from your mistakes. Oh yeah and learn to look into the mirror and practice your sincere apologies they love that.
1. Investmens don't lead to attraction. * If you took her for a trip or bought something for her, It will not make her attracted to you in long term. 2. Logical sense in your head will never make emotional sense in her head. *Just accept it. 3. Commitment monogumously destroys intimicy in bedroom. * More time spent together ≠ more intimicy. 4. All women are slowly pulled towards danger. * Even if you are the highest value man she will still have that desire for that "bad boy". 5. Women value survival value and men value reproduction value. * women are attracted to social status. * men are attracted to looks etc. 6. All love is conditional. * If you change the love of your relationship of will chage too. 7. Just because the woman is attractive doesnt make her good or high value. * Look for loyality * Femininity * Good emotions 8. Women look for different men in different stages of life. * Younger women will look for different things than older one. 9. Attention is everything to women. * Women look for attention and you can use it as a tool. 10. Understand the statements of belif that hold you back. * Are your belifs holding you back?
@@frv6610 No!😂😂😂😂 Wth, no! (I am not even a believer btw), you can find real mature women who don't think like that but they are usually successful and look for a mature men,so, it depends on your maturity if they will stick around!
Agree. In other words, Be Mr. Right now (whatever that is at the moment) and accept she doesn't belong to you unless she gives herself to you(when she feels like it). Until then, don't give yourself to her. On the other hand, she doesn't have to do anything expect look pretty and bend over. Smh... "God is Great, Beer is good and people are crazy"
I AM 72 YEARS OLD...............I HAVE BEEN WITH 156 WOMEN IN MY LIFE. TWO THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER...............NEVER EXPECT TO MUCH FROM A WOMEN...AND NONE OF THEM.............. ARE WORTH IT. IF YOU WANT REAL LOVE IN YOUR LIFE.....GET A DOG.
That's not love. It's lust. If u get a dog, you like control and obedience. You're hoping a woman could be leashed and go by your rules so you get licked 😂
#1 is like trying to impress a woman through buying gifts for her. They typically become takers only. You'll become the constant giver hoping she'll change and accept you for you. Never gonna happen! She give what you want from her, to someone else.
There is a key to point 1: love language. It's not the woman thinking that you as a man has to give her gifts, if not, it's for you to understand the way they want to be loved. For example, for my dad is hard to express himself in words, so he buys gifts for my mom. My mom then gets angry, because those gifts are not normally asked for, or weren't a necessity in the moment. Her love language is words of affirmation, which means that she feels loved when you tell her you love her. With time they got to a middleground. Listening, paying attention, and communicating with them are the real keys. Principal love languages are: words of affirmation (self explanatory), quality time (spending time with the ones you appreciate the most as the important thing, even if you're in a room doing different stuff, is the feeling of being there and enjoying it), recieving/giving gifts (pretty self explanatory too), acts of service (helping someone when they need it, for example, the other person feeling lumbar pain, so it's difficult for them to stand up at that moment, and you wash the dishes for them because you felt the need to help them), and physical touch (cuddles, taking hands, kisses, you name it). We all have the five of them, but some are more dominant than others in people. As another example, my love language is dominated by quality time, words of affirmation and physical touch. It's not that I don't enjoy the others, but I feel loved more by the ones that I listed. Also, if you just think that spending money on someone to get loved back is gonna work, without having a previous bond/connection beforehand, and recieving gifts it's not their love language, you are wrong. We generally value more the social aspect before the attraction (point 5 you made). Edit: forgot to add that the love languages dominance can change thought time. For example, in the past I just had quality time dominating, but since I had my first serious relationship, words of affirmation and physical touch became dominant too. Some other points you named were interesting, and I could talk about them, but this comment got too long, haha. Good video, and greetings from Argentina (and yes, I'm a girl).
I really appreciate that you listed the different love languages. I feel like I learned something and upon a little self-reflection I think my love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service primarily. Thanks Miranda!
I asked my father and uncles, all WW2 veterans and married, for help to understand women. Standard answer " Women are a mystery". They were living in the dark and women back then liked it that way.
@@dian277 My Mother always spun dating advice towards womens advantage, every time. She said that when a woman has an affair its the husbands fault, because women are so pure in nature only a bad man would drive her to stray.
#1 is a perfect description of trickin #2 men use logic women use emotion correct 3# only applicable for desperate women who have zero impulse control or the ability to delay gratification. Men are selecting for sexual availability rather than commitment minded women who think and feel about intimacy differently. 4# women who lack a sense of self awareness and self preservation do this. #5 True across the board also explains why men select for sexual availability and also why the women they select lack other characteristics that equate to long term relationship viability. Corrupt social order demands dysfunctional status markers. #6 Unconditional love does exist but is rare and is wholly dependent upon the mans moral uprightness when in relationship with a woman capable of unconditional love. Unconditional love can be destroyed. So unconditional love is conditional and oxymoron. #7 True #8 this depends on the woman's values and goals. When looking for a long term partner women have to do the sifting because the culture has eliminated the father as gatekeeper. False portrayal will fail when you end up showing your true colors. And men always show their true colors. #9 Attention is paltry to women who know how to occupy their time. Quality over quantity preference is rare in women but does exist. #10 True a bad mentality leads men to create bad scenarios overthink and sabotage themselves amd women.
Another thing is to remember is to *take it with a grain of salt* when a woman tells you what she wants or what she believes, *it’s subject to change* and it tends to change with respect to the man she’s currently with or after.
I'm glad I found a good woman who completes me. We love each other and very much and are obsessed with each other. When I was single, it was rough approaching women and none of the advice I found worked. When I met my current girlfriend, I broke all the rules. I was honest with her, when she tried to friend zone me, I acted quickly and made her obsessed with me just by the way I started touching her and playing with her body. I took a chance and now she is obsessed with me. I'm glad I found her because I don't have time to play women mind games anymore.
Danger and “evil” is the survival instinct. If a man is dangerous, he can protect and fight things to survive. On the “evil” a man needs to be able to instill fear in a person as a boundary/warning to not mess with his people. Learn how to fight men, learn how to be independent before a woman comes into your life. Unfortunately she needs to know that she isn’t needed but you chose her to keep around.
Euhm dude are you alright? An 'evil' man is a narcisist and you do not need to be dangerous to protect and fight. You need to be strong and clever with the tools life gave you and that makes you POTENTIALLY dangerous. As for boundaries, just have a spine and never be afraid to walk away but never let that get in the way of your kindness and love.
@@onnol917 I think he’s talking about what the women perceive as dangerous or as an evil element, not what actually is. It’s the whole idea that a man would stop at nothing to protect what belongs to him, whether it’s morally righteous or not. “The ends justify the means” type of Machiavellian idealism. No limits. That doesn’t mean your truly evil though, you could be cuddling puppies the rest of the time but it’s the potential for danger and some people wear it on their sleeve. Whether it’s fake danger or not haha.
Here's the *_BOTTOM LINE and the HARSH TRUTH:_* You can have all the "game" you want; you can have the best sense of humor; you can _exude_ confidence; and you can understand all the female psychology you want - If she doesn't like what she sees, if she is physically unattracted to you, you have about a one in a thousand chance. In that case, your only option is status and money. - And they will never really love _you_ so much as they love the money and status... It doesn't matter if you think that's cynical on my part or cruel on the part of the female, but that's just reality.
I would rather have a woman respect me over love me. If you ask any guy I think this is the number one thing. So respect your self because if you don’t then no one will. Keep up the great work Casey.
Very intelligent. There are additional rules as well. Like a woman trying to quickly validate herself (rebound effect) getting out of a relationship where she is burning hot for you and then suddenly goes cold once validated (after sex and she thinks you desire her). Also, due to ego she will try to find a HV man to justify to herself she is better and deserves better than her ex, when this isn't always the case. They leave men with broken self confidence when the men truly did nothing wrong. These actions from women need to be called out and condemned.
I can reduce all this to one fact. If you want her for life, she MUST respect you for life. The deeper the respect the longer she will stay. Men make the mistake of chasing love instead of respect.
Man, Casey, you nailed it. I just thought women were given to playing games so as to control or dominate out of fear of being harmed; but they are not "playing games"! They have a different nature and they are on script with their nature! I have been so so ignorant and I'm 55 with a divorce 5 years ago after over 20 year marriage!!! That one about investments not leading to attraction is a huge one men like me just never seem to get! With my ex, my huge investments from pre-marriage, to rearing children (being the modern male doing my share in the home) and providing in all manner of ways at different stages, wasn't even remembered once I was struggling - forget getting appreciated. In my case, her way of acknowledging it, was to not go scorched earth on me. Men, we don't earn to provide for her...we earn for our own good and standing in society independent of her presence or not. Our parents could not teach this to us because for most of history, women were constrained in their ability to provide for themselves and so it seemed like the man's role was to earn so as to get and keep a wife or woman, and as long as he earned he was worthy and able to get a woman. She would stay because he was her means of livelihood. So he thought she was appreciating his provision! Not. This idea of man as provider and protector has been twisted. His standing in society and his ability to independently support himself is far more important, than his "provision for her needs" that she can meet on her own, in her own ways. His protection, is mostly about a covering from unwanted attention - spiritually, physically, socially, etc. She has created "law enforcement", security services, legal codes, to provide her with protection and staffed them appropriately with people who will default to her security (rightly so) against dangerous and predatory people.
One thing I do want to say is that there is such a thing as conditional love but it is not connected to romantic love. It is what the ancient Greeks termed as Agape (love based on principle) There are 4 kinds of love. they are: Agape (love based on principle, biblical love that God has for us in sending his son to die for us) Philia (affection, friendship) Storge (The love you have for family members) Eros (Romantic love) These all exist and are each different from the others whether or not we choose to acknowledge the actual terms. I mention this because this is at the heart of why the use of the term "unconditional love" that while referring to something that actually exists can be very confusing.
Have no idea why the algorithm lead me here, as a woman lol. I was lowkey excited to learn some shit I KNOW my parents slacked on, and from a man who doesn’t look like he’s about to tell me how much more value he has than me for simply existing… come to find I’m NOT the target audience😔 lol it’s ok tho if you’re reading this, the right lady friend will come into your life at the right time, corny but true. Until then, stand tall kings💕
I’m 20 and at this age I’ve learned more about women than I had my entire life before. What they say they want doesn’t line up with what they respond to. How they say they want a guy to behave doesn’t apply to the average guy. It applies to the guy above their level who they want to bring down to their level.
I've already accepted female nature. And I have made a smart choice: being single for life. "He who marries the Virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does better.- 1 Corinthians 7:38." So it is written
Why you watching this video your good then!! Everyone needs a woman man. Maybe your the exception but god made Eve for a reason too. Every time I go to the gym I come back in pain. But it makes me better. Women are tough but In the end once you have a good one, they make you better.
@@justicechiasson9056 nobody NEEDS a woman and not everyone WANTS a woman. If you don't need a woman for sex then she is useless to us if you are already a complete being on your own.
Very helpful! I liked the metaphor that thoughts can be a wolf in sheep's clothing. "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep." -J.C. John 10:11
@@hashashin7286 it’s weird, we love being together all the time, we don’t argue over petty things and the big things we try to understand how the other person feels. And probably the biggest thing it’s not physical but emotional connection we have that bonds us when we are intimate. I guess we got lucky.
@@miguelcadete2495 Thanks for sharing. Well done on finding one of the few good ones and being mature from your end too. Be sure to keep up the consistency. All the best to you.
😆 Casey, keep it up. To those that choose to listen, you will change their lives with how well you deliver these messages. Your unrelenting confidence alone will captivate young men, and your natural nature and choice of easily understood wordings will keep and guide their attention. Without a doubt you have already succeeded in bringing worth to this life you were given, the proudly held truth amongst those of us that keep an eye on those like yourself. Forward, young man, we will see you on the other side. ~Elyk
Thank you. I'm 59 and you taught me many things. Women were sooo different when I was younger and I've always thought the same way. I'm kind, supportive, loyal and I pay like a gentleman and the only thing I end up with is resentment.
i love the fact that men get stronger when dealing with rejection early on in life while women are having the time of their life picking and choosing who to date like they’re God while the men are hopping around pulling shit out of their jacket pockets trying to impress her. When men get older we’re more resilient cuz of all the character building we went through from experiencing rejection, and the women once they hit the wall lose their shit. And that’s when they go to therapy lol.
bro i legit just woke up and was about to have breakfast watching this, when u slammed ur hand into the camera lmao. It thought to myself calm it down is 7 am here. nice video as always chief!!!
This video simplifies female nature..God bless this man..I learned a lot from him..Whenever I come across any situation I ask myself how would Casey act in this situation..An older brother I never had.
#10 statements of belief is so true. If you think it's too good to be true it will be. If you think you're going to screw something up you will. Everyones calling it the law of attrcation these days but it's simply mind over matter. "God helps those who help themselves" "The architect of our own demise" "Self fulfilling prophecy"
this is so true. one day i was holding a bow of hot soup, i thought i was gonna drop it, then i did! another day i was cutting cabbage and i thought i would cut my finger, then i did again!
Disagree w 3; for immature women that may be true, but knowing theres commitment makes me invest in my relationship 10x, and that's how the good women ik operate. There's not really 24/7 time spent together bc work/errands/life, but the security allows us to give our full investment.
That may be true for the very beginning of a relationship, but the more time you spend with a man, it kills attraction over time. Women have a tendency to become "bored" of a man who they spend too much time with. I would propose that's the #1 reason why most divorces are initiated by the woman.
@@pepepez6335 I get that may be the majority, but i still stand w my point.. my attraction has only grown over time in past relationships- they ended it bc other women started interfering and made me seem crazy so they could go in ☠️ I think maturity makes women realize how much value there is in committing to one partner. Women are really clung to this weird idea of romantic perfection and expect basically God from a man, and never find enough in each one, which is why they keep trying to seek more and never find themselves ready to even think about committing I also think statistics are bit too soon to really definitely say why so many women are divorcing, esp while it's being so heavily promoted that ""strong courageous women"" leave their homes and their families behind and sacrifice everything for their career.. but that idea is already failing and shattering so hard. I'm really curious to see if over the next few generations we stabilize before it's way too late.
PUA is bullshit for sure when I was chasing sex and women and just salivating over them and following the PUA bs advice where did it get me ? No social circle (no females and males around) and no sex I created my own model to follow and for now I see good results .My social circle of women and men keeps getting bigger and bigger which leads to more options and of course to more sex .........All I did is stopped making sex the end goal of my interactions with women (I still flirt and touch here and there and talk sexual stuff) but only little bit so I don't end in the friend zone so I take the slow route of interacting with women I created my own way of getting from a (stranger to a potential friendship /actual friendship and sex later on) . I see that a lot more women chase me during the potential friendship phase .......when I contact them to see each other where we met for the first time (example of this is to contact a girl when you will have lectures,exams ..... to see each other in college if you actually met in college for the first time "you can also transition to invite her to other activities/dates outside of college later on and she will agree for sure") just don't ask them on a date at the first phone call you make with her (which is unpredictable because I show interest before that) .In other words taking things slow makes them chase you more .You will also have a better sex because of the connection you build (it won't be bodily fluids and empty flesh sex only) .
number 7 for me is a literally reality check! damn i wish i would of opened my eyes soon, might be some possible "Damage control" to assess in the coming month with a mistake i made. shit smh @myself
Gentlemen, brothers, comrades, what you need to do are 3 things. Understand female nature and move accordingly Do you. Be about your purpose, self-improvement and happiness Pick the woman who likes you first who makes you feel good. Like who likes you Do these three things and you won't go wrong. My grandpa, uncles, brothers , cousins and life experiences taught me these cold hard truths.
@Casey Zander fantastic video! your video came up as a suggestion by youtube's algorithm and i'm glad to say this video was 13.5 minutes well spent. the biggest points to hit home (in the way you summarized and explained them) were points #2 and #1. especially #2, as to essentially why nice guys finish last, and alpha guys finish on her face lol. not sure how old you are (am guessing mid-20's?) but your wisdom is far beyond your age. i'm 48, and i sure wish people like you were around 25-30 years ago. that said, your videos are def a tremendous asset for guys today that are looking to succeed with women, and /or just succeed at avoiding unnecessary mistakes with women as well. my two cents to add, is that women should complement a man's life, not be the main focus. cheers from southern ontario, canada🍁
Can you please do a class on the difference between an alpha male & a narcissist? I believe I understand, but would like to hear it from a pro,much appreciation!
A narcissistic person, in a nutshell is someone that doesn't care about anyone else but themself and has an over-inflated sense of self-importance. Men who are truly 'alpha', are men who understand their capabilities and thus, what they can provide others. This determines their worth.
@@samengelage3521 A narcissist is also usually incredibly insecure, which keeps him stuck in his own little mind as a result of succumbing to the extreme fear , away from willing to learn, which is why many of them tend to stay incredibly stupid in certain things. (And yes, stupid. Ignorance is just a state of not knowing something, which can be learned.) When a narcissist comes face to face with a challenge, the first thing that he does is usually complain. An alpha understands his potential to solve them, and if he needs more grind to do it, he gets it no matter what, and inspires other men with the strength to do the same and work hard to achieve long term gratification. Narcissists are children who never grow up. And same goes to the entitled women who want to be EXACTLY like men and expect 6 figure sugar daddies.
@@jtowensbyiii6018 There's a difference between having the illusion of a strong personality and actually having it though. It only depends on you if you want to grow or remain a man-child. Narcissists do not believe they have weaknesses because they're too weak and narrow minded. But there are also people that realise and accept the existence of those weaknesses and fight to reduce their power over their lives, and not only that, but inspire the strength to do so.
You start to think after seeing all of this, what would it take for a woman to really fall for you? And is it worth the trouble? Dating shouldn't be this hard.
I'm now in my 40s and I'm charge of all my social situations that I go into. However because I'm now old, I have no chance with women anymore. Although I moved recently to a new state so I'm starting from zero again.
No .... the answer to number 1 is wrong. Here is the answer (and it's perfectly logical/no emotions at all): "I do appreciate you, but since when does putting out = showing appreciation? I showed appreciation by letting you watch what you wanted every damn night we were there, and by paying for that cruise we're going on this winter. You still don't feel appreciated simply because we didn't have sex? What about after we got back, when we did it like 5 times every day for a week straight, and I even let you [**********]?" (And by now we have realized that the dude is the one who is the whiny emotional ingrate in this given situation. Sorry if plying me with all those drinks in Cabo made me a little lethargic. And if sex was why you bought that trip, you should have told me beforehand so I could have dumped you first. I don't exchange sex for material things--that's right, I don't view things that way.) That seems truly illogical to me (to connect those two things--appreciation and sex), and I am a very logical person.
I wouldn’t say danger i would say excitement & adventure. We want an exciting guy who sparks in us our wild side. We don’t want him to be dangerous towards us. This is why most men are in prison. Women clearly don’t like danger. Clearly! But we like hotness & sexiness. Men who can protect us
So if all this is true. Is there any hope at all to have an actual happy marriage with a woman? If she’s always looking to upgrade or she’s naturally drawn to evil and danger, is she even capable of staying loyal to 1 man?
@@greetthemind not really sure. They just have too much access to other guys. Never in history has lt been like this. The top 20 percent of women in their 20s can get guys to fly to them from far away. Just work hard and stick to hobbies.
In arab we have common qoute saying that told : don't try to love women by your brain but love them by your heart only .. if u analysis them like that u difinitley will hate them and that is no good for man health .
Tom Leykis said younger guys who can’t get any should hook up with “older chicks”. That makes a lot of sense. The older chicks want the younger guys, the younger guys get some and experience for when they get older and begin to attract young girls, it’s a win win.
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️. Thank you for such a useful, relevant post. This set of 10 bullet points spell out in detail a lot of abstract concepts that have been rattling around in my mind. Some of them I have come to already on my own through being out there for so many years. Keep up the good work man…👏👏👏👏
Casey’s knowledge of women is very impressive. Where did he learn all of this tho? What books? UA-cam videos? There’s no way he was born with this knowledge. Just curious!
My mother is married witv my father for 50 unbelievable years. Everyday she critizices his way, how he is eating and he let her do it, never stops it....
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Ok perv thanks you for teaching simps how to be real mens,ill recommend you,and this stuff lead to what?Marriage or only hookup stuff?you may know somethings but still your stuff dont have a real iseful purpose,change girls lead to nothing,in the end will only be wasted time for mens,should teach mens how to force womens to get some Christian values by only dating for marriage the ones who have that values,that would obliged others to adapt,of course needed changed the laws too
Casey’s knowledge of women is very impressive. Where did he learn all of this tho? What books? UA-cam videos? There’s no way he was born with this knowledge. Just curious!
your point about woman not appreciatign comitment, is not accurate because you dont really need to avoid telling her if your in for the long term realtionship when she asks or else she feel there is no trust, somethings being hidden, and thatll kill realitonhsip. what yur talking about is actually a desire to play the game of deserving love, being desired... so that can mean responsing in a way she likes when she does certain things, etc. also novelty is interesting. i dont think this is specific to female except that female is interested in emotion, is emotionally random in part of menstural period due to hormones ie "i feel bad/excited/etc for no reason", shes afraid of risk ie tends ot be less willing to try enjoying the risk in playing rough and dirty outside or driving fast for fun etc (its why car insurance for females is less cost than males)... so she'll probably cope with life by relying more on emotional games... so this can be trying to figure what you like, get excited over what emotions and ideas you assosiate with a color of some art of soemthing etc. in attractiveness, pretty body in both genders is most inportant especially face, pretiness is symetry, certain ratios os distance between parts and size etc. you could measure by average immedate reaction of obsverver. then for men, woman will want to be submissive to man of socio economic strength including bodyily strength even if shes too young to know that bodily strength , including size, is more interesting in bed.... its socio economic not just any strength, she wont be so segsually interested if your strongly skilled at video games. then in both gender, trustworthiness is considered on the concious level of thinking. this is due to " natural selection ", which is good genetics passing on, how did genetics that are helpful and beautiful even start to exist? we dont know, but you can see this being real. you shouldve also explained to woman that man doesnt like woman who goe sbeyond her natural segsual shyness to get pshycally intimate with other men, this is mens nature, this is because then hiis sbperm quality and amount needs to compete with other mens and humans are wired to maxminize reproduction of the indiviuals genes , tis why we want to sirvive and do segsual stuff and need to compete to do it more than others, otherwise nature would have total socialism and no challenges on humans etc. also point out that woman emotioanlly bonds with man with phsycali intimacy immedatly while man takes multiple times through weeks to bond, which is why she emotionally misses all those guys especially parts of more attractive guys but the guy doesnt mind dumping her after pumping her with his stuff that comes out the water gun, which bye the way that could have SegsuallyTransmitedDiseases . so woman cant appreciate any one even very attractive man anymore after more of that subconciosuly, and conciously she cant appreciate man she realistically can have long term for her attractiveness level, so shes left forgotten with noone to genuinly care in a culture where instituions of morlaity have been subverted as yuri beznooov would say, a culture where peopel would rather express love while not meaning it in hopes of being loved, even avoiding telling the person advice she needs to hear in fear that people will dislike her... she never actually cared for the person. to protect from alimony and child support tax , usually on men for fund single motherhood lack of father figure stoicism for kids, theres co habitation "prenup" contract to protect eahc othre from future evil in case one of them or both of them become evil.
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Hey I’m sorry if this is old and is well trying to help, but i am trying to study female nature but i am autistic which makes it harder due to lack of understanding my micro social Qs.
Absolutely spot on. These are things our fathers should have taught us growing up. Instead, we grow up amongst women, and end up effeminate. A man is not born, he's made
This is why the single motherhood by choice thing is so dangerous for society.
There's a way around this. If this is your situation you need to find male mentors. Uncles, bosses, co workers, someone solid to look up to. Go and find someone that has good strong male values. Don't let your mom force a boyfriend or step daddy on you (but give him a chance if he's a solid man)
The problem is how do you recognize what a good man is? That's the hard part.
My mom was a single mom but my dad's side and my dad had me a lot of the time (about half the year) so I had my grandpa and my dad. When my dad died as a young man I found mentors. Good men to emulate and look up to. In a few cases I had mentors who were females that taught me to be a better man. Older women are the shit! Like my former boss Veronica. She was a pretty, single older woman. I think she had a crush on me (she wasn't bad looking) but my relationship with her was strictly professional and she taught me a lot. And I, her. And we had a good friendship until she got promoted and moved to another city and I got a better job and position and career
So women can be a source too. But it depends on what kind of woman. My grandma was old school and she taught me a lot about being a man too. Drawing on inspiration from her brothers and her father. Who were all dead but very good and successful men in their day.
My sisters who were raised exclusively by my abusive mom have all of her mental illness. (BPD, Google it and u will empathize with how I grew up and understand how a mother could abuse her son so horribly)
Those poor sisters of mine. One is still a kid. The other just had a kid. And I can see the damage done. They didnt Have men to look up to. Not even me because they don't even see how I can fit into their life and be valuable. I'm just their estranged brother. They don't even believe men are worth anything. And they're just a wreck. Cockroach infested home. I had to kill mice and roaches last time I visited. I had to call the exterminator and talk to him for my mom. I had to teach my mom (she was 44) how to tell the difference between left and right and how to find directions (north south east west) I had to dust and clean up her living room for her. She's not like an abnormal woman. That's the thing. She's very normal. But normal has become horrid.
As men we need to stand up and help the women in our life. And learn from them and not dismiss them entirely because they aren't perfect or have problems. We need to protect our girls. We need to protect our boys too. We need to fight for our kids. And not be so soft on them how society was with Gen Z and some later millennials.
Things have been bad but we can turn them around. It starts with us.
As men we are the vanguard of civilization. We must protect it from all threats. Foreign domestic internal and external forces. Some of these threats are hidden in trusted institutions like fashion. Media. Music. Hollywood. Our own families. Government. School. The institution of marriage. Organized big religion. Big pharma.
Our institutes do more damage than ISIS or China would ever dream of doing.
@@juanmccoy3066 you are wrong. It takes a true healed person to raise another person. Your gender as nothing to do with your capability of raising a child, regardless if your child is the same gender as you or not. I've seen many great men be raised by single mothers and I have seen many horrible men raised by both parents. This video is made to help men understand women and of course all you could get from it was a negative comment about women. Don't persuade people to think a way about a group of people based on your own experiences.
Probably a little of both. Nature and nurture.
you're contradicting yourself. You grow up amongst women regardless cause there're women everywhere. if you are effeminated then you should know the female nature.
He never taught me this because he didn't have no fucking idea either.
My WW2 veteran Dad , twice married did not have a fkn clue either. All I got was " Women are a mystery".
XACTLY...My Dad or Step dad was clueless....im trying to teach my sons now...but they cant get their Freakn faces outta them I-Phones!!!🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🏳🏳🏳
@@beastmode4ever502thats your fault and your responsability to make them listen.
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MOST women will never appreciate men for things we do and buy. Because they feel like it's our duty to take care of them. They will always be taken care of. If not you, then it WILL BE someone else. So be wise to never gauge her respect based on the things you do for her. Base the respect she has for the things she is doing for YOU. That's how women show appreciation.
If she does nothing for you, then you are a sugar daddy and will never be anything more. Because when a woman loves, she wants nothing more than to care for and nurture that love.
Facts, I remember arguing with a woman that exaggerating this and looked like a horrible person. Now it all makes sense to me that every woman is like this but the woman I argued with was just more in depth with this. Woman want providers and masculine man because that's how it's always been, caveman went out to do the hunting and protection and many wasn't allowed to work back in western history. So they depend on man in the future, I mean how can you be a husband and father if you can't even provide. And a lot of the traits that woman like which is being tall, is because they represent masculinity and a dangerous man.
Exactly
To point one, I've once read a note from a psychologist :
When you do something for someone, you feel more connected than they do. Weird but true cause your brain needs a good reason why you do that. The other didn't act the same, he only receives.
Happens sadly often when a man works off his ass to serve the family and suddenly comes the divorce and he is alone and ALSO unappreciated. And also between friends.. you give a credit in bad times and over time your friend nearly "hates" you cause he has to pay back... (happens to me)
"No good deed goes Unpunished" as they say...., for a good reason,
This describes my life so well. I've never been able to understand it in quite this way. I thought I was the problem with choosing the wrong friends, my kindness to family members, in dating too. I thought people just take advantage of my kindness when they are in need but then stab in the back laughing.
My friends never pay me back
Same. I’m trying to find more contentment being alone because I don’t trust anyone anymore
thats exactly why you ask women to do things for you... "Hey on your way over, could you swing by the store and grab some coffee creamer"... you get the point
Point #8 is the key to everything! It's less about who is alpha and who is beta, because men still seem to want to think that it is about them.
Most women are completely selb absorbed, especially the ones who don't have kids yet. So their choices in a mate are almost totally based on the stage of life they are in and what a man can provide to her based on what she requires at that particular time. In other words, you can be as alpha as you want to be by society's standards. A certain woman that you want will STILL not pick you if you're not offering whatever it is she values at that particuar point in her life.
soooooooooooooo true, just look at dating sights, lol, women are a fffffffffffff joke, its all about my life style not what i can give to you.
Isn't it normal though? Some of those laws apply to men too, this one also in some degree.
@@shaktiriI think it can be, but men typically don’t have that standard most of men’s standard is “is she hot does she like me back and is she good in bed?” That’s it LMFAO
Crushed this one Casey. The acceptance of these characteristics of women is KEY. Even watching your videos from time to time keeps me grounded in my relationship. When you learn to accept how women are instead of trying to figure them out and reverse engineer them, it becomes WAY easier.
What is your biggest takeaway aBout women?
Well said
Yep.... I'm 61 now and this is pure gold!!!👌... Casey you're so young but you get it, congratulations man, you've done you're studies ... i wish i know it in my mid 20s
But youtube wasn't around and my male friends are as dumb as i am..
And as old as i am, but in good shape and youthful.... i finally noticed how much influence my game has towards women...and its never too late...never give up until I'm died
From the deep of my heart, really... thank you!
Keep it up my brother
@@animetiaco8839 thanx a lot 👍
Great to read that, man! 💪
You the man
Same thoughts, but 36 and married with kids...I'll be my best version (chase excellence) and max out my masculinity
As a man in his mid forties, I can tell the younger generations EVERYTHING he said is 100% accurate. Either I've experienced this myself and paid a high price for learning the lesson or I've seen this play out on people I know also paying the price to learn the lesson.
I have a 22 year old son, if I were to sit my son down and tell him this he'd lose interest by #3. These steps come In time when growing with a woman. My oldest is 24 & married I find myself asking questions just to check his head. I've had to correct certain things in his way of relationship thinking but he's been with his wife since 8th grade. Like I said this is something that most men will have to learn the hard way unless they have a male figure that's "been there, done that" most males sadly do not have that.
For most men they won't learn it at all. We operate with a different underlying operating system: one that revolves around school yard rules, ethics and morals. Even divorce won't change a man until he becomes red-pill aware. At that point, he will decide that relationships with women are best at an arms length and only superficial, ie. friends with benefits.
like i was....i feel cheated
Very true my father has been married 4 times he keeps getting up on that horse though. I think of him as emotionally handicapped but most will look at him as selfish and ignorant. I try and do the opposite in my marriage and the way I raised my sons.
@@patrickburns4821 I know how you feel buddy my father wasn't around and I was raised by a step dad who was emotionally and physically destroyed by what he went through in Vietnam. He did his best though. My best advice before getting serious about relationships is to get serious about a relationship within yourself. Self love is more important 1st then you'll guided to who will love you. You'll know what your worth is and how you want to be loved, except no less and give that person 100% that way there's no excuse "IF" relationships sour. And they will but always learn from your mistakes. Oh yeah and learn to look into the mirror and practice your sincere apologies they love that.
@@1978Trevino Men should love themselves & women should love their man more than themselves.
1. Investmens don't lead to attraction.
* If you took her for a trip or bought something for her, It will not make her attracted to you in long term.
2. Logical sense in your head will never make emotional sense in her head.
*Just accept it.
3. Commitment monogumously destroys intimicy in bedroom.
* More time spent together ≠ more intimicy.
4. All women are slowly pulled towards danger.
* Even if you are the highest value man she will still have that desire for that "bad boy".
5. Women value survival value and men value reproduction value.
* women are attracted to social status.
* men are attracted to looks etc.
6. All love is conditional.
* If you change the love of your relationship of will chage too.
7. Just because the woman is attractive doesnt make her good or high value.
* Look for loyality
* Femininity
* Good emotions
8. Women look for different men in different stages of life.
* Younger women will look for different things than older one.
9. Attention is everything to women.
* Women look for attention and you can use it as a tool.
10. Understand the statements of belif that hold you back.
* Are your belifs holding you back?
If you are thinking while watching this "my woman isn't like that. She is special. she is an exception."
That is not true. There is no exception
THERE IS! In fact there are MANY exceptions! That are the immature women, not the real ones!
@@АнтонияКараджова-к1у where are the real ones?
(for ex.ME and my mother!)
@@АнтонияКараджова-к1у and where can we find women like you, in church?
@@frv6610 No!😂😂😂😂 Wth, no! (I am not even a believer btw), you can find real mature women who don't think like that but they are usually successful and look for a mature men,so, it depends on your maturity if they will stick around!
Agree. In other words, Be Mr. Right now (whatever that is at the moment) and accept she doesn't belong to you unless she gives herself to you(when she feels like it). Until then, don't give yourself to her.
On the other hand, she doesn't have to do anything expect look pretty and bend over.
Smh... "God is Great, Beer is good and people are crazy"
My morals and values don’t allow me to tolerate the type of women you have described.
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I AM 72 YEARS OLD...............I HAVE BEEN WITH 156 WOMEN IN MY LIFE.
TWO THINGS TO ALWAYS REMEMBER...............NEVER EXPECT TO MUCH FROM A WOMEN...AND
NONE OF THEM.............. ARE WORTH IT. IF YOU WANT REAL LOVE IN YOUR LIFE.....GET A DOG.
156 that's to many to be able to remember in your head, you must have written them down.
That's not love. It's lust. If u get a dog, you like control and obedience. You're hoping a woman could be leashed and go by your rules so you get licked 😂
@@ashleysoldera8414 I like the way you put it
Sure 😂😂😂 xy
#1 is like trying to impress a woman through buying gifts for her. They typically become takers only. You'll become the constant giver hoping she'll change and accept you for you. Never gonna happen! She give what you want from her, to someone else.
God’s love for his children is unconditional. He will neither leave or forsake you.
Amen 🙌🏿🙏🏿
And sadly that's why people shit on him 😞
God doesn't exist. And if he did, he's an indifferent prick that doesn't care about any of us. Get over yourself
What a utterly pointless statement. Unless you're trying to fuck God. Are you? Trying to fuck God?
And yet i still dont know how to serve to him😔
There is a key to point 1: love language. It's not the woman thinking that you as a man has to give her gifts, if not, it's for you to understand the way they want to be loved. For example, for my dad is hard to express himself in words, so he buys gifts for my mom. My mom then gets angry, because those gifts are not normally asked for, or weren't a necessity in the moment. Her love language is words of affirmation, which means that she feels loved when you tell her you love her. With time they got to a middleground. Listening, paying attention, and communicating with them are the real keys.
Principal love languages are: words of affirmation (self explanatory), quality time (spending time with the ones you appreciate the most as the important thing, even if you're in a room doing different stuff, is the feeling of being there and enjoying it), recieving/giving gifts (pretty self explanatory too), acts of service (helping someone when they need it, for example, the other person feeling lumbar pain, so it's difficult for them to stand up at that moment, and you wash the dishes for them because you felt the need to help them), and physical touch (cuddles, taking hands, kisses, you name it).
We all have the five of them, but some are more dominant than others in people. As another example, my love language is dominated by quality time, words of affirmation and physical touch. It's not that I don't enjoy the others, but I feel loved more by the ones that I listed.
Also, if you just think that spending money on someone to get loved back is gonna work, without having a previous bond/connection beforehand, and recieving gifts it's not their love language, you are wrong. We generally value more the social aspect before the attraction (point 5 you made).
Edit: forgot to add that the love languages dominance can change thought time. For example, in the past I just had quality time dominating, but since I had my first serious relationship, words of affirmation and physical touch became dominant too.
Some other points you named were interesting, and I could talk about them, but this comment got too long, haha. Good video, and greetings from Argentina (and yes, I'm a girl).
I really appreciate that you listed the different love languages. I feel like I learned something and upon a little self-reflection I think my love languages are words of affirmation and acts of service primarily. Thanks Miranda!
Your welcome!
thank you for explaining this in detail. Some men need to learn why money isn't working instead of whining over it
If you're a man who knows what he wants, understands this and stick to it then pretty much all the work is done.
I asked my father and uncles, all WW2 veterans and married, for help to understand women.
Standard answer " Women are a mystery". They were living in the dark and women back then liked it that way.
i bet you'd find better answers if you ask your mother and aunts.
@@dian277 My Mother always spun dating advice towards womens advantage, every time. She said that when a woman has an affair its the husbands fault, because women are so pure in nature only a bad man would drive her to stray.
You’re one of the very best of the “Manosphere.” Thank you for your work fr.
#1 is a perfect description of trickin
#2 men use logic women use emotion correct
3# only applicable for desperate women who have zero impulse control or the ability to delay gratification. Men are selecting for sexual availability rather than commitment minded women who think and feel about intimacy differently.
4# women who lack a sense of self awareness and self preservation do this.
#5 True across the board also explains why men select for sexual availability and also why the women they select lack other characteristics that equate to long term relationship viability. Corrupt social order demands dysfunctional status markers.
#6 Unconditional love does exist but is rare and is wholly dependent upon the mans moral uprightness when in relationship with a woman capable of unconditional love. Unconditional love can be destroyed. So unconditional love is conditional and oxymoron.
#7 True
#8 this depends on the woman's values and goals. When looking for a long term partner women have to do the sifting because the culture has eliminated the father as gatekeeper. False portrayal will fail when you end up showing your true colors. And men always show their true colors.
#9 Attention is paltry to women who know how to occupy their time. Quality over quantity preference is rare in women but does exist.
#10 True a bad mentality leads men to create bad scenarios overthink and sabotage themselves amd women.
Bullshit 😂 males are emotional as fuck they literally don't have a brain 😂😂😂
Another thing is to remember is to *take it with a grain of salt* when a woman tells you what she wants or what she believes, *it’s subject to change* and it tends to change with respect to the man she’s currently with or after.
I'm glad I found a good woman who completes me. We love each other and very much and are obsessed with each other. When I was single, it was rough approaching women and none of the advice I found worked. When I met my current girlfriend, I broke all the rules. I was honest with her, when she tried to friend zone me, I acted quickly and made her obsessed with me just by the way I started touching her and playing with her body. I took a chance and now she is obsessed with me. I'm glad I found her because I don't have time to play women mind games anymore.
facts all this game talk just boggles me
Danger and “evil” is the survival instinct. If a man is dangerous, he can protect and fight things to survive. On the “evil” a man needs to be able to instill fear in a person as a boundary/warning to not mess with his people. Learn how to fight men, learn how to be independent before a woman comes into your life. Unfortunately she needs to know that she isn’t needed but you chose her to keep around.
Euhm dude are you alright? An 'evil' man is a narcisist and you do not need to be dangerous to protect and fight.
You need to be strong and clever with the tools life gave you and that makes you POTENTIALLY dangerous. As for boundaries, just have a spine and never be afraid to walk away but never let that get in the way of your kindness and love.
@@onnol917 I think he’s talking about what the women perceive as dangerous or as an evil element, not what actually is. It’s the whole idea that a man would stop at nothing to protect what belongs to him, whether it’s morally righteous or not. “The ends justify the means” type of Machiavellian idealism. No limits. That doesn’t mean your truly evil though, you could be cuddling puppies the rest of the time but it’s the potential for danger and some people wear it on their sleeve. Whether it’s fake danger or not haha.
Here's the *_BOTTOM LINE and the HARSH TRUTH:_*
You can have all the "game" you want; you can have the best sense of humor; you can _exude_ confidence; and you can understand all the female psychology you want -
If she doesn't like what she sees, if she is physically unattracted to you, you have about a one in a thousand chance. In that case, your only option is status and money. - And they will never really love _you_ so much as they love the money and status... It doesn't matter if you think that's cynical on my part or cruel on the part of the female, but that's just reality.
I would rather have a woman respect me over love me. If you ask any guy I think this is the number one thing. So respect your self because if you don’t then no one will. Keep up the great work Casey.
Just came across your page. 25 year old dude, and I needed to hear this! Thank you!
Very intelligent. There are additional rules as well. Like a woman trying to quickly validate herself (rebound effect) getting out of a relationship where she is burning hot for you and then suddenly goes cold once validated (after sex and she thinks you desire her). Also, due to ego she will try to find a HV man to justify to herself she is better and deserves better than her ex, when this isn't always the case. They leave men with broken self confidence when the men truly did nothing wrong. These actions from women need to be called out and condemned.
litteraly just happened to me lol
I can reduce all this to one fact.
If you want her for life, she MUST respect you for life.
The deeper the respect the longer she will stay. Men make the mistake of chasing love instead of respect.
respect goes both ways
Man, Casey, you nailed it. I just thought women were given to playing games so as to control or dominate out of fear of being harmed; but they are not "playing games"! They have a different nature and they are on script with their nature! I have been so so ignorant and I'm 55 with a divorce 5 years ago after over 20 year marriage!!! That one about investments not leading to attraction is a huge one men like me just never seem to get! With my ex, my huge investments from pre-marriage, to rearing children (being the modern male doing my share in the home) and providing in all manner of ways at different stages, wasn't even remembered once I was struggling - forget getting appreciated. In my case, her way of acknowledging it, was to not go scorched earth on me. Men, we don't earn to provide for her...we earn for our own good and standing in society independent of her presence or not. Our parents could not teach this to us because for most of history, women were constrained in their ability to provide for themselves and so it seemed like the man's role was to earn so as to get and keep a wife or woman, and as long as he earned he was worthy and able to get a woman. She would stay because he was her means of livelihood. So he thought she was appreciating his provision! Not. This idea of man as provider and protector has been twisted. His standing in society and his ability to independently support himself is far more important, than his "provision for her needs" that she can meet on her own, in her own ways. His protection, is mostly about a covering from unwanted attention - spiritually, physically, socially, etc. She has created "law enforcement", security services, legal codes, to provide her with protection and staffed them appropriately with people who will default to her security (rightly so) against dangerous and predatory people.
One thing I do want to say is that there is such a thing as conditional love but it is not connected to romantic love. It is what the ancient Greeks termed as Agape (love based on principle)
There are 4 kinds of love. they are:
Agape (love based on principle, biblical love that God has for us in sending his son to die for us)
Philia (affection, friendship)
Storge (The love you have for family members)
Eros (Romantic love)
These all exist and are each different from the others whether or not we choose to acknowledge the actual terms.
I mention this because this is at the heart of why the use of the term "unconditional love" that while referring to something that actually exists can be very confusing.
Have no idea why the algorithm lead me here, as a woman lol.
I was lowkey excited to learn some shit I KNOW my parents slacked on, and from a man who doesn’t look like he’s about to tell me how much more value he has than me for simply existing… come to find I’m NOT the target audience😔 lol it’s ok tho if you’re reading this, the right lady friend will come into your life at the right time, corny but true. Until then, stand tall kings💕
100% Agree. [I'm 19] and I started realising these things myself, it's actually hilarious how I found this video at the same time.
I’m 20 and at this age I’ve learned more about women than I had my entire life before. What they say they want doesn’t line up with what they respond to. How they say they want a guy to behave doesn’t apply to the average guy. It applies to the guy above their level who they want to bring down to their level.
Casey the type of guy looking at the nutritional section in females
I've already accepted female nature. And I have made a smart choice: being single for life. "He who marries the Virgin does well, but he who does not marry her does better.- 1 Corinthians 7:38." So it is written
Amen!
Why you watching this video your good then!! Everyone needs a woman man. Maybe your the exception but god made Eve for a reason too. Every time I go to the gym I come back in pain. But it makes me better. Women are tough but In the end once you have a good one, they make you better.
@@justicechiasson9056 Cela ne vous regarde pas. Occupez-vous de vos affaires et je m'occuperai des miennes.
@@justicechiasson9056 nobody NEEDS a woman and not everyone WANTS a woman. If you don't need a woman for sex then she is useless to us if you are already a complete being on your own.
@@DanteWesker612 you look so cute!
Very helpful! I liked the metaphor that thoughts can be a wolf in sheep's clothing. "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep." -J.C.
John 10:11
The shepherd is an agent of - the butcher ;)
My wife and I have been together every day 24 7 for the last year working together and having life after work and our Intimacy is off the charts.
How are you managing to keep the spark increasing if 24/7 around eachother? Mind sharing insights thanks
@@hashashin7286 it’s weird, we love being together all the time, we don’t argue over petty things and the big things we try to understand how the other person feels. And probably the biggest thing it’s not physical but emotional connection we have that bonds us when we are intimate. I guess we got lucky.
@@miguelcadete2495 Thanks for sharing. Well done on finding one of the few good ones and being mature from your end too. Be sure to keep up the consistency. All the best to you.
@@hashashin7286 you are welcome
@@hashashin7286 good ones attract the good ones 👌
Preaching my brother! Words of power!!
Loyalty is not a feminine trait.
😆 Casey, keep it up. To those that choose to listen, you will change their lives with how well you deliver these messages. Your unrelenting confidence alone will captivate young men, and your natural nature and choice of easily understood wordings will keep and guide their attention.
Without a doubt you have already succeeded in bringing worth to this life you were given, the proudly held truth amongst those of us that keep an eye on those like yourself.
Forward, young man, we will see you on the other side.
~Elyk
Couldnt agree more
Thank you. I'm 59 and you taught me many things. Women were sooo different when I was younger and I've always thought the same way. I'm kind, supportive, loyal and I pay like a gentleman and the only thing I end up with is resentment.
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i love the fact that men get stronger when dealing with rejection early on in life while women are having the time of their life picking and choosing who to date like they’re God while the men are hopping around pulling shit out of their jacket pockets trying to impress her. When men get older we’re more resilient cuz of all the character building we went through from experiencing rejection, and the women once they hit the wall lose their shit. And that’s when they go to therapy lol.
😆 THe last point
Everyone can and should benefit from therapy
@@xlaythe therapy does nothing
@@lv1543 it sure can do nothing, or something, depends on what you get out of it (just like with all of life)
Young girls are in therapy these days too
So intuitive. Great break-down Casey!
I’ve seen a lot of videos centered around this topic but you my friend explain it eloquently 👌🏽
Do not I repeat do not marry a beautiful gorgeous woman. There's even a song about that
Bro bro bro!!!!! You are doing something magical undoubtedly. Really appreciate that. Keep making man full stack.👍
bro i legit just woke up and was about to have breakfast watching this, when u slammed ur hand into the camera lmao. It thought to myself calm it down is 7 am here. nice video as always chief!!!
This is the most valuable video ever made on the topic in my opinion. All the best man. Thanks for sharing this.
This video simplifies female nature..God bless this man..I learned a lot from him..Whenever I come across any situation I ask myself how would Casey act in this situation..An older brother I never had.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.”
22 year old I always had female for the simple fact I can balance bad boy vs high value man neck full of tattoos but I be on my grind
YES KING CASEY KEEP EM PUMPIN'!
Aw this is so true thanks for the video!
#10 statements of belief is so true.
If you think it's too good to be true it will be.
If you think you're going to screw something up you will.
Everyones calling it the law of attrcation these days but it's simply mind over matter.
"God helps those who help themselves"
"The architect of our own demise"
"Self fulfilling prophecy"
this is so true. one day i was holding a bow of hot soup, i thought i was gonna drop it, then i did! another day i was cutting cabbage and i thought i would cut my finger, then i did again!
The 7 resonates with me so hard bro, thank you, i used to hate you for no reason but after this video i'm subscribed dog... thank you
Disagree w 3; for immature women that may be true, but knowing theres commitment makes me invest in my relationship 10x, and that's how the good women ik operate.
There's not really 24/7 time spent together bc work/errands/life, but the security allows us to give our full investment.
That may be true for the very beginning of a relationship, but the more time you spend with a man, it kills attraction over time. Women have a tendency to become "bored" of a man who they spend too much time with. I would propose that's the #1 reason why most divorces are initiated by the woman.
@@pepepez6335 I get that may be the majority, but i still stand w my point.. my attraction has only grown over time in past relationships- they ended it bc other women started interfering and made me seem crazy so they could go in ☠️
I think maturity makes women realize how much value there is in committing to one partner. Women are really clung to this weird idea of romantic perfection and expect basically God from a man, and never find enough in each one, which is why they keep trying to seek more and never find themselves ready to even think about committing
I also think statistics are bit too soon to really definitely say why so many women are divorcing, esp while it's being so heavily promoted that ""strong courageous women"" leave their homes and their families behind and sacrifice everything for their career.. but that idea is already failing and shattering so hard. I'm really curious to see if over the next few generations we stabilize before it's way too late.
Thank you my brother! This is the best explanation of game and the dynamics of female nature I've heard so far. Keep up the good work Uncle Z
Hit the nail on the head. If I could only share this video with some of my buddies who couldn't pick up a chic in a brothel.
You deseve more subs. You give real life advice for men to better themselves and not PUA bullshit.
Salute to you💯
He gon get there
PUA is bullshit for sure when I was chasing sex and women and just salivating over them and following the PUA bs advice where did it get me ?
No social circle (no females and males around) and no sex I created my own model to follow and for now I see good results .My social circle of women and men keeps getting bigger and bigger which leads to more options and of course to more sex .........All I did is stopped making sex the end goal of my interactions with women (I still flirt and touch here and there and talk sexual stuff) but only little bit so I don't end in the friend zone so I take the slow route of interacting with women I created my own way of getting from a (stranger to a potential friendship /actual friendship and sex later on) . I see that a lot more women chase me during the potential friendship phase .......when I contact them to see each other where we met for the first time (example of this is to contact a girl when you will have lectures,exams ..... to see each other in college if you actually met in college for the first time "you can also transition to invite her to other activities/dates outside of college later on and she will agree for sure") just don't ask them on a date at the first phone call you make with her (which is unpredictable because I show interest before that) .In other words taking things slow makes them chase you more .You will also have a better sex because of the connection you build (it won't be bodily fluids and empty flesh sex only) .
Monday afternoon 14 March 2022. Congrats on 260K subscribers. Great info, as always. Helps me in my marriage. Take care and all the best.
At least ONCE in this life, I am going to MEET you and shake your hand! SPOT ON SIR, for what you said!
I feel good all of a sudden.
They say there are only two tragedies in life; the first is not getting what you want, and the second is getting what you want.
number 7 for me is a literally reality check! damn i wish i would of opened my eyes soon, might be some possible "Damage control" to assess in the coming month with a mistake i made. shit smh @myself
I follow the law of investing the least in a woman but extracting the most. Its the most flipped script approach but it works.
Gentlemen, brothers, comrades, what you need to do are 3 things.
Understand female nature and move accordingly
Do you. Be about your purpose, self-improvement and happiness
Pick the woman who likes you first who makes you feel good. Like who likes you
Do these three things and you won't go wrong. My grandpa, uncles, brothers , cousins and life experiences taught me these cold hard truths.
Casey drops another gem 💎
@Casey Zander fantastic video! your video came up as a suggestion by youtube's algorithm and i'm glad to say this video was 13.5 minutes well spent.
the biggest points to hit home (in the way you summarized and explained them) were points #2 and #1. especially #2, as to essentially why nice guys finish last, and alpha guys finish on her face lol. not sure how old you are (am guessing mid-20's?) but your wisdom is far beyond your age.
i'm 48, and i sure wish people like you were around 25-30 years ago. that said, your videos are def a tremendous asset for guys today that are looking to succeed with women, and /or just succeed at avoiding unnecessary mistakes with women as well.
my two cents to add, is that women should complement a man's life, not be the main focus.
cheers from southern ontario, canada🍁
This is well put together and explained. Thank you for this.
Woman here: this is a very relevant and useful video for men to understand the female nature 👏
Can you please do a class on the difference between an alpha male & a narcissist? I believe I understand, but would like to hear it from a pro,much appreciation!
A narcissistic person, in a nutshell is someone that doesn't care about anyone else but themself and has an over-inflated sense of self-importance. Men who are truly 'alpha', are men who understand their capabilities and thus, what they can provide others. This determines their worth.
@@samengelage3521 A narcissist is also usually incredibly insecure, which keeps him stuck in his own little mind as a result of succumbing to the extreme fear , away from willing to learn, which is why many of them tend to stay incredibly stupid in certain things. (And yes, stupid. Ignorance is just a state of not knowing something, which can be learned.) When a narcissist comes face to face with a challenge, the first thing that he does is usually complain. An alpha understands his potential to solve them, and if he needs more grind to do it, he gets it no matter what, and inspires other men with the strength to do the same and work hard to achieve long term gratification. Narcissists are children who never grow up. And same goes to the entitled women who want to be EXACTLY like men and expect 6 figure sugar daddies.
Nothing, an alpha male IS a narcissist too stupid to realize that term was proven wrong before he was even born
@@jtowensbyiii6018 There's a difference between having the illusion of a strong personality and actually having it though. It only depends on you if you want to grow or remain a man-child. Narcissists do not believe they have weaknesses because they're too weak and narrow minded. But there are also people that realise and accept the existence of those weaknesses and fight to reduce their power over their lives, and not only that, but inspire the strength to do so.
Uncle C has taught me more than my own father has
You start to think after seeing all of this, what would it take for a woman to really fall for you? And is it worth the trouble? Dating shouldn't be this hard.
Brilliant. Thanks for the upload ❤️
I'm now in my 40s and I'm charge of all my social situations that I go into.
However because I'm now old, I have no chance with women anymore.
Although I moved recently to a new state so I'm starting from zero again.
Great explanation! Thank you for sharing this.
Every woman, gf and wife should watch this video
Your content is gold
No .... the answer to number 1 is wrong.
Here is the answer (and it's perfectly logical/no emotions at all):
"I do appreciate you, but since when does putting out = showing appreciation? I showed appreciation by letting you watch what you wanted every damn night we were there, and by paying for that cruise we're going on this winter. You still don't feel appreciated simply because we didn't have sex? What about after we got back, when we did it like 5 times every day for a week straight, and I even let you [**********]?" (And by now we have realized that the dude is the one who is the whiny emotional ingrate in this given situation. Sorry if plying me with all those drinks in Cabo made me a little lethargic. And if sex was why you bought that trip, you should have told me beforehand so I could have dumped you first. I don't exchange sex for material things--that's right, I don't view things that way.)
That seems truly illogical to me (to connect those two things--appreciation and sex), and I am a very logical person.
I wouldn’t say danger i would say excitement & adventure. We want an exciting guy who sparks in us our wild side.
We don’t want him to be dangerous towards us. This is why most men are in prison. Women clearly don’t like danger. Clearly! But we like hotness & sexiness. Men who can protect us
So if all this is true. Is there any hope at all to have an actual happy marriage with a woman? If she’s always looking to upgrade or she’s naturally drawn to evil and danger, is she even capable of staying loyal to 1 man?
The danger isn't just her leaving you. It's her staying but being unhappy and taking it out on you.
@@GUITARTIME2024 right. So is there hope at all to keep a woman happy and loyal to one man?
@@greetthemind not really sure. They just have too much access to other guys. Never in history has lt been like this. The top 20 percent of women in their 20s can get guys to fly to them from far away. Just work hard and stick to hobbies.
In arab we have common qoute saying that told : don't try to love women by your brain but love them by your heart only .. if u analysis them like that u difinitley will hate them and that is no good for man health .
How does 1 account for HAPPY BIG, stable families - often RELIGOUS to boot!!!
Tom Leykis said younger guys who can’t get any should hook up with “older chicks”. That makes a lot of sense. The older chicks want the younger guys, the younger guys get some and experience for when they get older and begin to attract young girls, it’s a win win.
only on #2 and you've shared TOOO much knowledge
Well my father hadn't taught me that 😀 anyway Powerful content broh
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I have learned those the hard way. Wish you posted it 15 years ago :)
The Man, The Myth, The Legend
Truth I came to this realization after many breakups and heartaches
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️. Thank you for such a useful, relevant post. This set of 10 bullet points spell out in detail a lot of abstract concepts that have been rattling around in my mind. Some of them I have come to already on my own through being out there for so many years. Keep up the good work man…👏👏👏👏
BEAUTY IS JUST FOR A MOMENT
I’m 60 and I watch this guy.
Casey’s knowledge of women is very impressive. Where did he learn all of this tho? What books? UA-cam videos? There’s no way he was born with this knowledge. Just curious!
All respect to my parents but my dad never did teach me this kind of stuff. He’s a beta male slave to my mother.
Mine too
My mother is married witv my father for 50 unbelievable years.
Everyday she critizices his way, how he is eating and he let her do it, never stops it....
@@tarkiidam6036 sounds familiar
@@tarkiidam6036 bc he doesn't care to improve
This is good 4 Men and women. Great insight. Not all females but majority of all have this mindframe and this will save alot of wasted time.
This handwriting makes it easier to understand
Banger content bro🔥
Well you taught us now
Learned #1 the hard way
Eve and the snake! 😉thank again KC