Nonsense. Here's my advice to you, If you're afraid of fire stay out of the kitchen. So Mr cool who always keeps his composure, gets spooked by some drama from a girlfriend? Grow up dude, no risk, no gain
Why isn't the moral of the story to not sleep with women who you know you don't want to stay with? You're comparing yourself to a woman; if you get cheated on you won't throw a fit because you're a man... So you're expecting women to be like men because you grew up in a modern western country with feminism. All the women who can detach easily are just broken; the supply of sluts is dependent upon the supply of slut-makers. Her eratic change in behavior is akin to your eratic change in behavior: making love for months or years and suddenly being over it. And you both ended up making each other feel the same; powerless and destroyed.
I think it’s because women don’t really care about the man they’re with. When she says she loves you, she really means she loves that being with you puts her above other women in her group. A good BF/husband is an accessory to a modern woman, just like her bag or her bad guy on the side. Don’t be one of her accessories.
You weren't in a committed monogamous relationship and had no intention to be in one. Of course it all went to hell. There's no self respect in either party.
I was in a committed married relationship, she still divorced me after 25+ years taking all the usual things, children farm land, farm machinery, rental houses etc. Yes, we are Christian. Yes, we attended church. Etc. Even after receiving millions of dollars in asset, I still owed chlld support? There is little to no commitment with divorce rates over 50%. Period
although we didn’t live together, I had a similar experience, fellas. The moral of my story is when a woman starts acting crazy, start video recording. When the police finally arrived, she had told them that I had kidnapped her and hit her. I was able to finally show the cops the video where she had did that to herself and threatened me, and they ended up taking her to 3-day suicide watch as a result. Guys, If a girl ever acts like that, record her then press charges -and when you end up in the court room, do not go easy on her and drop those charges no matter how sweet she “acts” because if she’s doing this to you, she will def do this to somebody else who may very well be innocent also
The man are stupid, why do they want to live with a woman that not their husband that is wrong, the only woman you can live with is your wife . The best is to live with your old mother and also your sister if they living with parents
I haven’t lived with a woman for over 20 years and no matter how good or bad things go, I always have the peace of mind that I don’t have to deal with a woman in my home. To be able to come and go as you please is one of life’s greatest luxuries.
@@freedomfunwithjlbfriends7193 I don’t sit around all day watching porn. In fact watching porn is a terrible waste of time and it damages your mental health. I actually get off my ass and meet women. I’ve plenty female friends. Women aren’t bad, I’m just not gonna commit to a specific one.
Nothing you said in this video had any ounce of substance. Do you have any depth to you? How sad for her, to live with someone who didn’t give two sh*ts about her. All you basically said was “Is this the best I could do”, “I was on my way up, followers, money, status” You’re shallow bro, I think she dodged a bullet. 😅
I recall reading a few years ago about some movie star, don't recall who, who had a crazy stalker. Instead of calling the cops or getting a restraining order, he went on a dinner date with her, and he just complained the whole time and whined about his life ha ha. And it worked! Genius.
At 60, I've lived a life full of experiences, traversing the world and doing more than most could imagine. But with all that life has shown me, the most profound lesson I've learned is that true love-real, deep, enduring love-takes time to grow. It’s not about superficial attractions like looks or passion; it’s about understanding, patience, and a connection that goes beyond the physical. I've been with my partner for over 25 years, and every night, we still hold hands as we fall asleep. She knows me better than I know myself, and our love has grown into something pure and unwavering. We rarely focus on the physical, because our bond is rooted in something much deeper-an unspoken intimacy and an enduring love that only time and shared experiences can create.
@@emmap1159 We both don’t believe we need a legal chain and ball to cement our love together; it's just not how we think. Also, we are both financially very successful and independently wealthy, so there’s no need for us. Our sentiment encapsulates a modern perspective on relationships, where our focus is on mutual understanding, respect, and love rather than adhering to traditional legal frameworks. It reflects a strong sense of our individuality and confidence in the bond we share, highlighting that our connection is based on personal choice rather than societal expectations or financial necessity.
Most women are conniving, scheming, two faced bitches. It's in their DNA. Give it time brother. Once you stop providing for her, she'll look for someone that will, and you'll just be another distant memory.
mostly false, while yes it is an act before. It is an opposite act after the breakup to cope with the loss. All opinions have inertia but no solid foundation.
Women are like library books. You never want to read a book twice because you already know of how it ends. Just check it out, enjoy it, and return it for someone else to check out and enjoy.
3:59 no - she was the “best you could get” at the time you picked her. You likely began experiencing some success with business as the relationship progressed and decided you could trade up. People aren’t and shouldn’t be stepping stones, in either regard.
Lots of broken people. Broken society. The way to fix it is to get back to God and live the life He designed for us. All of the nonsense ends when you see through the lies and live a moral life and do things in the right ORDER.
My ex did all these things. She once threw herself erratically around the bathroom to get as many bruises as possible, then calmed down and gave me what can only be described as an evil smile… Terrifying. Never again.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Handled over 100 domestic violence cases. Listen to his story. I have seen it happen many times. The big problem in most jurisdictions is that the burden of proof is a “preponderance of evidence” in domestic violence cases, where it should be “beyond a reasonable doubt” (as in a criminal case). Vet very carefully before living with someone. Stay safe out there!
Conclusion : you wanted a beautiful women and she wasn't pretty enough for you so you stayed with her for a couple of months knowing you was waisting her time as she was too average ... And then she went mad .... I Think you were both guilty about this situation
39 got my own little place on a mountain top no woman is ever gonna move in with me. Once a man has lived thru pain, suffering, and misery like myself he knows his peace and quite is priceless.
My last ex, about 5 years ago, made the exact same threat. I didn't take it seriously until the cops arrived at my house and told me I was under arrest. Now luckily for me, and believe me I was freaked out, especially because I didn't even know what lie she had told them, but these 2 cops asked me for a verbal statement, one after another and then they compared notes on what I had told each of them about every event of that night and agreed that they both received the same story from me. They then went and did the same with my ex, and she couldn't tell them both the same story, but she kept attempting to make her story juicier to both of them, and they ultimately came back and told me it was more than obvious she was lying. The cops then told me to relax, keep ZERO contact of any form with her (which was pretty easy to do at that point!!), and they drove her to her parents house and told her that if she reached out to me directly or indirectly there could be charges against her. I never heard from her again, and I've felt so incredibly blessed. It still do this day haunts me in so many ways of how it all could've unfolded, and also it disturbs me greatly that some women see this as an option to get back at someone when there are other women out there struggling to get away from actual abusers.
"it disturbs me greatly that some women see this as an option to get back at someone when there are other women out there struggling to get away from actual abusers." This is the point "BelieveAllWomen" idiots never get. These false accusations hurt not only the one accused but the real victims out there. Cops and judges need to act more like the ones you met.
Abuse can come in different forms and from either sex.. I didn't know what to expect from a video like this but I 100% agree with the logic here after seeing how abusive women use emotional manipulation to feel powerful.. I think this isn't taught enough. A man with a hurt ego will be much more likely to use violence, but a woman with a hurt ego will much more likely use emotional manipulation. I've been abused by my own sister, and I'm a woman myself. I would have preferred to have been punched because people would've believed it.
I'll say this. I've been through this and although she lived under my roof for under 6 months I made sure it was done cleanly. She gained over 50lbs in that short time and gradually stopped helping with cooking and cleaning. I ended up taking up the slack. S3x dried up as I wasn't attracted to her anymore as her personality changed. Combative, argumentative and hella lazy. I hate laziness with a passion. I was her ATM. I suggested she move out, back with her parents, and we'd go to therapy. She was out of the house so I changed the locks. We went to therapy (It's a scam don't do it... useless) I told her in the 2nd session, I want out. She went for half of everything so I made her a deal she couldn't refuse. Smartly she understood and took it without an argument. She knew I mean't business. 4 years later she reached out to me. I cut it short and told her to F off. Don't move in with them. They lie, cheat and steal. They'll turn everyone you love against you and threaten to do some crazy stuff. All the while trying everything in their power to make you weaker. She turned lifelong friends against me and I let it slide. In the end, they knew who was in the right and she ended up completely alone. That was 13 years ago and I've lived alone in my own home....in peace since....
I have similar situations.90% Of modern women are rotten evil, they don’t understand true love or have any qualities to be good mothers or wife’s or partners living alone is best thing you can do at this point.
Constantly trying to destroy your peace through arguing crying, manipulating and threatening is one of their top ten tactics to make your life miserable. Claiming that they'll call your parents and tell them that you were beating. Them and cheating on them is another tactic. They have no conscience when it comes to lying to try to get their way or just trying to make you miserable.
I've always thought with my big head since I was young, sadly it doesn't lead you anywhere better because at first you assume they're genuine people. They're not.
You're right. What he should be teaching his audience is how to spot a psycho. Instead he thinks all women are like that, which is false. I've been married 14 years and never experienced any of this
Don’t listen to this guy? What are you, a chick? You are saying that it’s bad advice when he says never move in with a woman unless you are married? This is rock solid advice in 1700, in 1800, in 1900, in 2000, and in 2100. In fact it was unheard of for many reasons up until just a few decades ago. Maybe you are just plain ignorant. There are millions of men who go through this type of thing and I am one of them. Even if you have a great girlfriend and she comes from a church family and she prays every night and she makes 6 figures not being married to her could set up trouble for you. Laws as far as domestic violence go are totally in favor of women and laws on residency are in favor of renters.
@@bestof4227 Lol, you idiot. Attila, the Hun, had literally dozens of children, and he never did any of those things. Society is tamed, natural selection is over, and weak douchebags like you are a big problem when fighting Feminism. "BAD FUTURE"? As if the world could get any more decadent than already is. Precisely, due to such matriarchal ridiculous culture.
Lived something similar, thanks you for sharing this. Was accused of rape by a girl I rejected, who was much younger than me. Got locked up in the police station and interrogated, police would not believe me that I rejected the girl because she is younger and rather attractive, and why she would do this. Until finally my dad could provide the camera footage from the residence where I live, and I could even provide video games logs that I was playing a game at the supposed time of the rape. Spent like 15 hours in jail next to junkies who were screaming and banging their heads on the walls in the other cells, one woman was literally designing on her wall with her blood, all of this because of this girl lie. I'll never forget that. Never underestimate the atrocities women are capable of when hurt in their feelings.
Should have filed a charge for false rape. It's people like you who create these monsters because you let them go without consequences. Rape is a serious accusation.
Should have filed a charge for false rape. It's people like you who create these monsters because you let them go without consequences. Rape is a serious accusation.
My ex wife just ended our 31 years marriage, It's harder than I would like to admit, but I've come to the same conclusion, I'm not going to bring a woman to live with me in my house, no way. Big hug from Chile.
I have lived with two women. The first one was a friend who needed a roommate. She was smart, funny, responsible, and attractive. She could have slept around with a new guy every day but she was a homebody. She was also someone who understood how men think, not did she accept it but she also thought like one...rare. She got a big promotion so she had to move and it was emotional for both of us. The second was my future wife and everything that our host talks rings true. I value peace, quiet, and serenity above all else and that's why I will never live with anyone ever again.
@@tomwalker389in a parallel universe yea but whose to say the first one wouldn’t have done the same thing? Remember actual roommate vs actual wife… Unless! OP had flings but I doubt bc she was a chill homebody
@@tomwalker389 you are so quick to fold dude. they are not that special. thinking that way is exactly how a seemingly amazing woman suddenly turns batshit and you realize she was two faced the whole time. why are all these simps STILL DESPERATE for marriagen EVEN with red pill knowledge?
You are going to end up alone... Selfishness attracts selfish people... If you say that you are "settling" with someone, that means you don't really like that person, you tolerate her at best. If the only thing that you have to offer is money, nice things and business success, you are only going to attract gold diggers. Nice gestures, interesting conversations and general compatibility is what makes a relationship work. Can you stand being in a room alone with your partner without doing anything and not having sex? No? Then that is a problem.
I 100% agree!!! Every relationship I’ve ever had has gone down hill the second she moved in. I’ve tried this with many diff women in my life and it’s always the same result. DONT DO IT!
Been there with my ex. She kept cheating, I wanted out, she would try to kill herself. She ended up being taken away by the police 6-7 times for suicide watch. But we were already married with 3 kids. :/ She'd threaten me too with lying to the police. I got reeeal good at recording things so they'd know how it really went down. But you're right, they can beat the hell out of us, we can do nothing. I won't hurt women.
@@BoostedPastime It destroyed my whole idea of a relationship and love. It's impossible for me to see women as moral agents... or even as decent human beings. Their whole shit is an act... it's fake.
@@hellucination9905 I agree and I would argue that it is similar to seeing people's faces before and after war. If you haven't seen there is a video on UA-cam of people's faces before and after war. Before they look young, disciplined and happy, after they look drained, serious and hardened or broken. It's pretty powerful
Feel for you brother. Me too - 2 young boys, she's run off with another Woman. Fuck all morals, just whiney wingeing BS... shattered me, now I'm seeing it as a true blessing - never realised I was really that unhappy. Should have never got with her and trusted my gut. That said, my boys are awesome. Need to get out of this mortgage with her (still living with her for their sake - for a while at least). It's rather funny now she realises she has zero power over me
1:30 going to stop right here. You dont know what you dont know. You have to have experience to life live. This video is the worst advice you could have possibly ever gotten. Do not watch it.
Dam I feel for you man, Lived with a girl for 2 years after dating for 7 years prior and it’s simply amazing how crazy, how hysterical, how illogical, and how straight up irrational women can get especially towards the end of a relationship. Panic attacks, hyperventilation nervous breakdowns, scouring your phone at 4 am while you sound asleep going through EVERY text convo spanning 3-4 YEARS worth of data from not only your friends but your parents as well lmao. Absolute psychotic mental ward level shit and them not seeing a single thing wrong with it lol. Good to know that I’m not alone in experiences like this. It’s important to remember fellas. Doesn’t matter how grounded, high class, elite you think that you are or how highly you carry yourself. You will deal with psychotic women who will use their chaotic nature to bring insanity to your life. Don’t take it personally cuz we’re all in it together
Two questions for you, because I've also dated crazy before. 1. Do you take any personal responsibility for selecting that woman with hindsight, because as men we can usually come to terms with when it was our own fault right. Did you see the warning signs way ahead of time and just ignored them? Because I've made that mistake before. 2. What was the vetting process for you like for the 7 years you dated prior? Is this like a 7 years on and off kinda thing. At least at the minute, I've been dating someone for close to 2 years treating it like a probation before considering moving in, surely after 7 years you were convinced it wasn't going to go down the way that it did with her?
Jeez so true :D once I found my ex girl friend in the last month of our relationship at 4 at night going through all of my fails claiming I'd taken naked pictures of here while she was asleep whereas the only naked pictures I had of her were the ones she sent to me 😂😂 This was a brutal night and she fought for her argument until 7 in the morning. I wasn't "allowed" to sleep. I locked her out of my apartment one week later and ended things before she could attempt to end me..
Women can ruin a man's life in a blink of an eye. I have been through hell with 2 of my ex girlfriends. Not even worth to tell all the story, it was an absolute nightmare
sounds like you were dealing with a narcissistic abuse situation my good friend 🩷please good god stop projecting that clearly very traumatic experience on all women and go to therapy❤️❤️❤️
Been in the exact same position. The right way to dump a cohabitant takes time, but it works. NEVER explicitly tell them it's over, they have to leave. Instead ignore them without being mean. Spend little or no time with them. Eventually they monkey branch to someone else and leave, believing they are dumping you, not the other way around. Takes time, but it works.
Thats actually a brilliant strategy. if you explicitly say it's over, get out or I'm leaving that is exactly what will happen. And the way you described, they will monkey branch off to someone else and eventually have no time or interest for you. And just leave of their own accord, no screaming, crying and. Borderline personality disorder fits.
Easy, vet your partners carefully and for at least a year before you get into a serious relationship, and only live with and have sex with the woman who has become your actual wife. It's not even complicated.
Too late- I learned the hard way. Had my own place . Moved in with emotional wreck of a girlfriend because I was going to have sex every day while I pay HER mortgage.. The daily sex lasted about a year, but as I lost my job due to COVIDEO and couldn't support her financially, her attitude and personality changed dramatically. After failing to find a job., she made living with her more uncomfortable. (no, she wasn't going to find a job) so I told her I can't live with you anymore and I bailed. I miss the sex, but don't miss the toxicity of that woman. BTW that was 3 years ago she's on #3 or #4 boyfriend since we split....yeah.. And yes- women lie about their body count.
Of course women lie about their body count but can you blame them? They know that the vast majority of men are going to judge them for it. Once the judgement is handed down, the perks stop. Women are the ultimate hustlers. Men will never believe what women truly are. The ones that don’t judge (Me) know what’s up. The biggest lie ever sold to men is that women want sex less than men. 😂
If you looked at your girlfriend sleeping every night thinking about how she's not "the best you can do" & how she's no as hot as your previous hookups, you deserved everything that came your way. You come across as someone with very little to offer in the way of emotional connection. Stick to hookups.
Casey, I’m surprised at the wisdom and knowledge you’ve gained at such a young age. I am 54, and realised all you’ve said and done at the age of maybe 48 (6 years ago), but even then I fell for a woman that turned out to be a nutcase once she knew I was committed. So now I’m single for a year and a half, although I have a good many options. One in particular… a woman I like, about 12 years younger. I’m honestly terrified shitless to get into another serious relationship. As you’ve confirmed, never live with a woman unless you’re married or wanna make a family. Otherwise it will become hell once the honeymoon stage is over. Of course I’m generalising, but let’s just say it’s NOT easy to navigate the relationship realm. Proud of you, man! Great to see a young man speak so honestly and helping other men, including me! Take care ✌🏻Ciao from Italy 🇮🇹
@@dattrax7 You should be, these woman today are strait up ruthless, and conniving as well, They will strait up look into your eyes and lie through their teeth. Telling you, strait up wicked...
best option i think is to just start video recording, showing her in an healthy state, then going to your friends/parents and stay there. Video shows that you did nothing to her and parents/friends can say youve stayed by them.
His description of her is spot on borderline personality disorder. BPD. Been there, lived that multiple times. Waited till I was 45 to get married, despite societal pressure. Married to the most healthy and supportive woman I could imagine. Now 11 years and 4 kids later. Take your time boys.
25 years in psychiatric and psychology and I would have to agree.She is from the dark triad and the B-clustter personality which is the Narciccist, Borderline or antisocial personality type.These people are manipulative and dangerous liars.This guy should have been video taping to protect himself from false accusations.
Guys, never break up with a girl in a private setting where things can get crazy. Go to a park or somewhere where it's both public and private at the same time.
This is exactly what I'm going through now. I met a girl last December, she came to my house where we shared the evening together. She then politely asked to come back the next 2 nights which I didn't see any harm in it for she was a sweet, soft spoken chick. Next thing I know she was obsessively clingy and weeks in would start bringing a few outfits for visits days at a time. Eventually after about a month I saw that we were on 2 different pages. I'm focused on improving my position in life wanting more, where as she was just looking for someone to latch on to with no aspirations or drive. She couldn't cook and constantly nagged the second she felt like I wasn't giving her time and attention. It got to the point where I'd tell her to leave. We would argue about the dumbest, least important things and I knew she wasn't the girl for me. When I would tell her to leave she always refused to willingly and told me that we were going to "figure" this out like a real couple would. Eventually I got fed up and threatened to call the police to remove her from my home because she literally wouldn't go no matter what I'd say and she told me she would tell them that I was abusive and I put my hands on her. 12 months later and I'm on misdemeanor probation for carrying her to the door and locking her out. They said because she was trying to fight to get back inside and I was "pushing" her that it was assault and I got a DV charge. The judge told me that no matter what the situation I CANNOT have contact with her since there was a no contact order. She was sitter in the pews as he was telling me this and she has continued to try to contact me. It's a sick joke.
Seems wrong to simultaneously discount their experiences while insulting them. Many women struggle to date, say there aren't many options.. this is one of those reasons. Men don't find as much benefit in a relationship with how they end up treated. Maybe society should just listen and hear them out. Try to understand where they are coming from as well. Obviously not all women are like this, but there are definitely those out there. I couldn't imagine being a man.. imagine being with a girl who lies about bc to trap them with a child as an example. Just because many men don't speak up about these issues, doesn't mean it is not affecting most of them. Social media, crumbling classes has added pressure to dating for men and women. We need to listen to these men. Many men in our lives most likely share these experiences.
It's not far from the truth. Had this exactly the same experience while dating in southeast Asia - before passport bro was a thing. Hope that someone else is learning, today's generation are lucky! All the knowledge is in your pockets. I didn't even have a smartphone growing up! I had to learn love stuff as it happened.
That is why so many many and many men after their first divorce no longer have the balls (including yours truly🤣🤣) to marry or live with a woman! Yet women can easily go on and get married again like nothing happened. .
Lifes' greatest lessons are always colored with experience. I've often wondered, is it me? Do I just attract 🤔 crazy women... or are all women crazy? As I grow old, I am starting to believe it's the latter. Don't fear being alone. This podcast echoed what millions of men feel. You are NOT alone.
@@slimshady8129 you need to get out of Canada to find a wife or go in country, most of the woman are un, I am repeating UNmarriageable in the cities of Canada.
Not sure I agree with your blanket statement. Sure, there are some difficult women out there who would be hard to live with, but surely that applies to men also... that's just being human. My point isn't even exclusively tied to this topic of living with women - using blanket statements to negatively classify any demographic of people is unjust in my eyes. We're all individuals and so should be treated as such - would you like to be labelled by others based off of my actions just because I'm also a guy? It's an interesting discussion anyway, and props for being so transparent - cheers for sharing
The problem is less so whether people are "good" or "bad," but rather, who does the legal system unfairly give the advantage to, which is obviously women. Men who marry and/or cohabitate should be aware that the legal system will not protect them, and statistically speaking, a man who marries/cohabitates is taking a massive risk. Women initiate no-fault divorce at a 90% rate and then are rewarded with alimony for it. I'm never taking that risk, no matter how good the woman seems.
Easy for you to say. You’ve never been a victim of a false domestic violence accusation. You would sing a different song if it happened to you like it did to me
@@IAmTheEggMan111 And you know that how, sorry? Shouldn’t assume things my man. Even to your point, I’d still judge that person on that wrongful act rather than extrapolating that to another 4 billion people
@@IAmTheEggMan111- Facts. I was a victim of false domestic violence accusation and was put in jail. People would often say just get over it and move on. But I would tell them, you would not say that had it happened to you. It changes you and you view things differently.
One of the biggest challenges for men with modern women is; modern women are very good in camouflaging who they really are at the beginning of the relationship. The rule of thumb nowadays is; never rush into marrying a woman no matter how much she seem to be loving. Put her to test, delay marriage until you're convinced that she's the one to marry. She needs to prove that she's the one to marry.
"Put her to test, delay marriage until you're convinced that she's the one to marry. She needs to prove that she's the one to marry." - Then she will feel humiliated. If it takes so long, if she has to prove herself etc. The relationship will become worse or she will divorce you later if you finally marry her.
Excatly but in my culture this will be branded as wasting womans time or using her..cause shes someones daughter or sister …actually they think too highly of women and dont held them accountable
I think when you meet the girl your going to marry you will have an inkling straight away. People need to get back to dating instead of going straight into "relationships" you need to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince / princess
I went out with a gal that was just a friend. She took me out for my birthday. I drove, she did not have a car. Half way through the dinner, she got sauced on all the wine she was ordering. The conversation we were in went from nice, to combative and argumentative, because of her alcohol intake. She was creating a scene. I said I am done and I was going to leave. I started to get up and leave with out her, she grabbed my arm and told me to sit down and finish the conversation. I tugged it away from her, told her to find her own way home and I left. She lived only about 2 miles from the restaurant. Because of the way she acted with alcohol, I was not going to take her home in her state of mind and be accused of anything, while she was a mad drunk. She could say anything, and I would have to defend myself. I will not be a victim. If anyone wants to put you and your reputation at risk, WALK AWAY. Do Not risk anything with a lady, a guy friend or anything else, when their state of mind can remember nothing, but accuse you of everything. They become a liability to you, if they refuse to get control of themselves when you try and help, WALK AWAY and preserve yourself legally by avoiding trouble.
I thought a good girl was marriage material until I saw her alcohol intake and she would always become a legend and hostile, and combative. And drunken disorderly in public and start screaming at me and accusing me. I broke up with her when she was not drunk. And she just cried silently and that was it. She married some poor fool a few years after me and I feel sorry for him.
Zero tolerance for that from anyone. Even women friends can be and often are deadly. They will use you as a prop. But they always playing options. I stay away from them now except in professional settings. And I let people know quickly that I am a high value man with purpose. We can cooperate and collaborate with VALUE. But If they act out, cheat, lie, scream at me (or others) we are DONE. And no. No one can stay or move in here-no couch surfing, roommates etc. One relative can visit. That's it. The bible says it better to live on the corner of a roof than in a house with a quarrelsome woman. Indeed.
Got accused of "bad sexy actions" by a woman once. The only thing that saved me was saved text messages. That completely destroyed my trust in women. They are NOT to be trusted in any case.
Consider yourself lucky. Harvey Weinstein had saved text messages from women before and after his so-called "bad sexy actions" telling him how much they loved him, and he's still going to die in prison.
We aren’t all like that though … i dont know why you have to lump us all together it is quite damaging for good women who put in the effort it makes even us look like shit which is bs some of us are good if you would just see past that . I know its hard i’ve had shit experiences too with men but i dont hate all of them and lump them in as cheaters etc. just sayin
I've had girls attack me, break my phones and other shit, and one who kept trying to manipulate me into giving her attention by running and locking herself in the bathroom or bedroom and acting like she was gonna cut herself or overdose. That fucked my head up, because I knew it was emotional blackmail, but at the same time I didn't want her to hurt herself. That was the worst, thank god I got away from that.
@@nonsensicalwebby1663 Part of being in a committed relationship is a healthy sharing of each others’ burdens. It’s called interdependence (different from codependence). If that is no longer tenable for one reason or another, the solution is to dissolve the partnership, not stay in it with an attitude of “lol sounds like a ‘you’ problem.”
No disrespect but it doesn't sound like love from the beginning. Looking at your girlfriend at night while comparing her to other women doesn't feel like love.
@@tomaccino It's not a movie. It's just information. If all I want is to know what someone is saying, why wouldn't I try to get to the point as quickly as possible?
Here's why this guy is a narcissist. Outside of the rest of the story and whatnot, just a behaviour trait, he takes something small like his inability to sleep probably because he doesn't know how to not get off his phone at night and spins it into 'oh my brain is such a machine running all the time and im such an antrepreneur that yaddayaddayadda". Give me a break man, cut the humble bragging here. Lots of us can't sleep at regular hours and it's not because your brain is too small to handle THE MACHINE.
Right, and the fact he used to lie awake at night and watch her while she slept, and think “is THIS the best I can do?? 🤔.” And then flipped through his “mental Rolodex” of the far more attractive women he’s been with, and think “there’s no way I’m going to settle for this.” Like wtf my guy 😂
It's the truth though. Maybe you're lucky enough to have never experienced it. But if your mind is hyperfocused on something, you can lie awake on your bed for hours unable to fall asleep from the noise of your own mind. I've heard normal people talk about "the thoughts that keep them awake at night" so it can't be that unusual. He is drinking a cup of apparently coffee in apparently the evening, so if anything you could blame it on that. Yeah he tried to spin it as a positive trait. That's not narcissism though, it's just normal human behavior.
Especially the "I know it all and I'm going to teach you all about this" attitude, together with the thinking in classes + thinking he's special because he has some success in the gym and with his UA-cam channel. This is how 16 year old kids think. Narcissism? The funny thing is, the way he thinks about women is actually a reflection of what he is in some ways. On the other hand he does have some valid points here and there, but actually saying all women are like this just shows how bad his taste is.
@@ThevonMusic Forgot about that part. To start by saying that everything in his life was going up at that point and the first thing you think of is, gym bro, i could lift more at that time. This is how this guy measures success, in general. I hold it that his ex who was able to sleep earlier and better was probably happier and more succesful at things that actually matter. As a society we are plagued by shitty sleep patterns anyway so good on her.
@@Houshalter I also experience this, especially in my engineering line of work you think about solutions all the time and my brain is racing at night and in the morning. I've came up with solutions to issues during my morning shower. I don't try to spin that as OH LOOK AT ME MY MIND IS SO FOCUSED and pin it against my partner that happens to have a different sleep pattern. I'm not saying what he's talking about isn't true, it's just the intent behind it and the WAY he puts it and uses it to somehow up himself. It's clearly narcissistic. And I've just isolated ONE small bit of this whole cringe clip he is not self aware enough to not put out. His life was going up because he was lifting more at the GYM? Who created this guy honestly.
This video should be mandatory for young men to watch. My ex wife called the cops on me and lied, said I hit her. When the police showed up, they made her leave after she admitted lying. That was the end of our marriage. And she had put her hands on me in front of our sons a couple years earlier. It's scary. No one is looking out for young men.
@haden3556 excellent point, I had to learn the hard way, and I tried to "make it work" w a sociopath. I was naive, as well as many other things. And I never wanted to set the example for my sons of walking out on them. Re: your comments about all women, I'll say this. It doesn't matter if it's all women, most women, some women or few women. What matters is that they're all capable. And we, as fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, etc could do a much better job of educating young men to identify the so called flags and help them understand these women are not worth their attention.
You don't need to even consider a relationship until the one with yourself is solid. Too many people shack up, not knowing who they are or what their traumas are. Keeps everyone on a perpetual cycle of misery. Learn early on to be alone and to discover who you are. You'll have more to offer someone once you've mastered "you." Playong "house" can wait.
Oh hell, Casey. I'm 59 years old and I've experienced the likes of this twice myself and heard about it so many, many times from other men and a few laughing women. You are guilty until you prove yourself innocent in a court of law. You are guilty because she said so. So listen up guys. Everything, and I mean everything, that Casey is saying in this video is 100% correct and true life. Do you really want a domestic violence conviction on your criminal record. It will limit the types of jobs you can get and of course, no guns for you, Mister out of control and dangerous woman hater. Make no mistake man, she'll do it with seething hatred for you.
In my village there is a saying that goes, "a crying woman is a dangerous woman" Many men fall victims to women because they tell themselves, they are different and it won't happen to them
Commented on your recent video on being the “side guy”.. Literally this happened to me as well with the same girl. Rage, screaming, accusations, degrading comments, shaming me, saying completely illogical things…then once I would go silent, pull away, and be “done” it would come to a point where she would fall on the floor, crying, shaking, vomiting, and just felt so bad for her. Then she would admit fault, be perfect, and life was great for a time. Over time it repeated but worse every time. I’ve named it the Cycle. Video evidence of her screaming, threatening my life (recorded with dim screen, held to the side..not obvious), evidence of myself attempting to de-escalate and actually converse, crazy texts, evidence of all these things made me much more comfortable with just walking away and not scared of her making false accusations or playing that card. Still was extremely tough
@@simplehousegirl9260 I mean, dont most of us enjoy riding roller coasters? Gotta get off the ride eventually though, once you start getting too dizzy and sick of it
How many guys out there are in unfulfilling relationships simply because they're too scaresd to break things off? Better sooner than later. Its so important to have reasonable standards in what you want in a woman but the only way to get that perspective is through experience.
Thank you for sharing. I feel bad for all your negative experiences with women. But, not every woman is a nightmare! We all attract certain people into our life. If you are suspicious, defensive, and non-trusting, you will attract exactly the same woman to come along. Perhaps take a time off for a while, relax, build self-security, and then see what sort of ppl appear in your life. The right woman will cherish and respect you, no matter what challenges life throws.
great advice, the amount of women hating is gaining momentum. It comes down to the fact that men are to cheap to invest in long term relationships because the prefer to stay infantile.
i started dating my wife @ 24. Just started a business and it was a rough go. now 12 years later we are married, Im in the best shape of my life, way more confident, making a great living, and I notice women eyeing me up sometimes. My wife on the other hand, went the complete opposite way. Gained tons of weight, doesnt care, unpleasant much of the time, refuses to eat better/exercise. I KNOW i could drop her in an instant and remain single, or score a top 15% woman 10 years younger than me. Its so hard to think about that and then come home to nagging. I do love my wife, shes been apart of my life for 13 years and is my family. I know she gave me her best years 18-30, and Now its my turn to give her my best years 35+ but its hard, esp when I know I could "trade up" as unfair as that sounds its very tempting. I almost wish i would have waited till 40 to get married, gave myself a chance to realize my full potential/value before committing to a woman.
Any person who can’t accept a break up has zero dignity ! Any person who falsely accuses or threatens a person is extremely toxic and dangerous. RUN for your life before they ruin your life.
I went through this same thing twice. Had an ex falsely accuse me, then a few years later in another relationship another gf at the time said “if you dump me I will do what your ex did to you” (meaning the false accusation). Luckily I had cameras everywhere in the apartment.
My wife drove me to rage with her emotional abuse and when I finally just told her "fuck you" she broke down hysterically crying. She threw our sons formula bottle maker into the wall and destroyed it ($400 machine). And then acted like I basically domestically abused her with words. All because I stood up to her. Women are so fragile it's insane.
YES. I'M 70 AND THIS IS GOLD. Old guy here again. Been with a ton of ladies in se Asia. And western too. It's actually fine to live with one or bring them in for a trial run.... BUT BE TOTALLY PREPARED for absolute hell when you end it. As in.... Ready to change the locks and pack up her stuff and put it in a safe place outside. Don't ever break up in your own place. There's an old old saying about no fury like a women scorned. No kidding... Be prepared as hell for any possibility. You and your belongings can be at serious risk of destruction. EXCELLENT VIDEO
Men think their woman is going to love him like his mother does. Sorry to say, its not even close, the woman is on the verge of leaving since the day you met her. She is plotting her options her whole life. Women keep that a secret.
false, even my mom chose her options over her kids and husband. And I know many people in that same situation 😂 more like a fathers love from my perspective and the people i know.
Women are only as faithful as their options. Do not live with a woman because there is too much to lose if she makes a false accusation that will result in criminal charges and irreparable damage to your reputation
My first girlfriend I lived in with was always getting drunk when I went to work and then would end up in jail and had me searching for her all over quite a bit. She then cheated on me so I left . I felt good to take control back then two hours later my brother in law who’s a cop came to my moms house and told me that she had jumped off a bridge and died. I was then crushed for over a year and never looked at a women for a long time.
Dig deeper, Casey. They say your external only reflects what's inside. Why did you get involved with her to begin with? Obviously there was no emotional intimacy between you two. If you withheld your authentic feelings in the relationship, do you have the right to blame the partner "they turned out to be a completely different person" in the end?
Back in 2006 when I was younger and dumber I got involved with a girl and moved in with her. My lease was ending at my place and I was always hanging at her place so I moved in and we split the rent. Anyway after a few years things went psychotic and she threw me out and I told her I’m not leaving. I was paying 50 percent of the bills. She calls the police and even though I was paying half the bills the cops made me leave. So she filed a restraining order and a very long story short it was very hard to get all my stuff outta the apartment. I have been in several relationships and they all end up like this in some sort of insane drama. At 53 years old I realize your definitely better off alone. You don’t see many guys in my age range shacking up with women anymore. You have been thru the drama enough to see it’s not worth it
What's really crazy is the guys that beat them and treat them life a dog never get cheated on and they stay with them no matter what they do to them. Its like Machiavelli said: " If you cannot balance fear and love - it is much more safe to be feared." Forget that though I am not going to manipulate someone and treat them like a circus animal making them do tricks. I would rather be alone then have to put a bunch of energy into an inherent ingrate. Only some bum with no purpose has all that time for a female anyway. To men I would suggest if your leaving a woman always have witnesses around and record with audio, so you can prove you did not hit her. If they are really that psychotic you got no choice, but to get a restraining order.
One Christmas evening after exchanging gifts with my girlfriend at the time her doorbell rung at 2am in the morning. It was her ex boyfriend. She came back as I was getting dressed to leave and began to cry hysterically making excuses of why he randomly popped up at 2am on Christmas. It didn’t add up that a man showed up at her house at that time and wasnt a coincidence I said. She cried louder and threaten to delete herself if I left. I stayed the night to make sure she wasn’t going to do anything harmful to herself and left her ass once I got home. She wrote me letters and called me from different numbers. I ignored her knowing I dodged a bullet. All of this happened right after she asked to live with me. god works in mysterious ways man
You were blessed with the experience and discernment to see what was before you, and also the fortune of avoiding the negative path of actually living with her. Winning!
They operate like a snake... They can easily slither into your house and if you are not tactical and technically good, to get them out when their shit starts, you will be in trouble. I am telling you there will be a lot of damage in that house. Their problem is respect, their uncontrollable desire for control. Never in my house.!!!!!!!!!!
@@ITR1329 I’m the pretty typical story eh. Was married 25, I left a shit situation and divorced, 2 kids grown, lost half a military pension, 2 houses, thousands etc lol. Got unplugged, went through a period of typical red pill rage. Casey here was one of the first places I discovered. Like me, his tone and demeanor seems to have evolved. I guess when the stuff no longer pisses you off because you understand that it’s just human nature, you’re good to go, or at least I am. He and others have really been a blessing along the way for sure.
As a Christian godly woman. We are convicted by God to be honest, loving, respectful towards our husband. Nobodies perfect. Unfortunately most men choose women based off of their bodies and physical attraction. Not her heart, her character, emotional maturity and her convictions. I hope men wake up and take responsibility for their part in choosing the wrong partner. And vice versa.
Exactly. I'm a Christian woman and we were best friends for 10 years. He has never been happier and treats me like a precious flower. God is our foundation. Not the world. This post is awful.
Best video so far. I was in an abusive relationship with a master manipulator with Borderline Personality Disorder. Same thing, I started checking out of the relationship, she escalated the abuse to violence and suicide threats. Truly shocking
I spent about 5 years trying to get away from a borderline personality disorder woman. it was one of the most horrifying times in my whole life. no matter how abusive she was or how insulting hostile, combative or brawling she would never leave. That's part of the illness. you can even ask them if I'm worse than Hitler, As you say I am, why don't you just leave? Her response was she doesn't give up that easy! Boy I said really? You don't give up on Hitler, huh? Question mark her no. When I finally got rid of her I never tried to contact her again and never missed her a day in my life. B p d is one of the closest things the demon possession I have ever seen in a mental illness. But it is one of the most common mental illnesses for all women.
Once you go through at least 50 girls, you would know within the first month which one is normal, raised properly with a father present and which ones are borderlines, narcissistic or histrionics. This one might be borderline with abandonment issues as well as narcissistic diagnose criteria (rage). I had one of those back in the day, country’s’ beauty pageant winner. I called cops on her multiple times until I sent her packing. Best decision I made at the time- if they are threatening like that, walk away for a few minutes and call cops for assistance, telling them on recorded line your girlfriend is unreasonable and threatening. This will do magic, safest way to exist in current misandrinistic climate.
Truth. Just be careful because "man bad" is the automatic assumption when you call. The problem is most men can't get 50+ ladies with a tiny chance that one is a keeper. They are lucky to get 5 of lower quality. It's like finding a new Maserati at a used car lot. I've seen zillions of thirsty cels when I was in the Far East. Out of thirst they will marry, support an extended family, buy land they can't title, etc. Extreme thirst, like 40 years in the dessert (not just 40 days).
If you have a nuanced understanding of psychology, you can figure most of this out on the first date. I'd argue it's crucial for any man living in this cultural climate to take the time to learn this skill.
It's funny how women call men "incels" (meaning you don't get laid) and "misogynists" when men disagree with them. When really it's the simps and cucks who are the incels and misogynists. Men who agree with and respect women are the ones who haven't been laid, and they claim to love and respect women hoping it gets them laid, because deep down they see women solely as objects. It's the men who have been with a lot of different women, gotten laid plenty, and who have gotten a wide range of life experience with all kinds of different women who become aware of how women generally are, and therefore inevitably come to lose respect and love for women.
@@joseph6243 yeah, a borderline will tell you on the first date, that she's borderline. It's always one of three fantasies they have. Should you feel like, you wanna safe her, then you need to address your own issues. Should you carry on with her, you both get trauma bonded.
@@joseph6243 first a man needs to learn to understand what's peace, understanding of the silence and look within himself, once he has the peace. Weeding out people gets so much easier, you read through sentences and what do they say!!
Am just here to say love is a beutiful thing❤ Having been married for 14years, i wouldnt trade it for the world. Having kids, seeing them grow and participating in that process has been the happiest part of my life. Work and making money are good too, but fatherhood has my greatest joy. I know the red pill movement demonises marriage but it just depends who you marry. Just become better at choosing women. Dont go only for looks but humility. Most of these horro stories come because of going for looks alone
@@sundown6748 thanks and congratulations on 25 years. Wishing you more years going forward. I hope to reach that number too😊 Finding a person you can live with happily for that long is truly a blessing
I related to this so much. Down to little details like how my ex wrapped her whole body around my leg to try and stop me from leaving. She did much more than that too to stop me from leaving. Even when I told her I wasn’t leaving her, I just need to be away from her for a few hours, she wouldn’t allow it. And like you said your options are so limited as a man in confrontation with a woman. Also so true what you said about women having little to no ability to handle rejection because they don’t face it like guys do. I ended up going to jail multiple times and paying thousands to courts and lawyers for domestic violence cases. So consider yourself lucky.
While this woman definitely sounds bizarre. You were still a great jerk. That’s the problem with premarital sex. Just in the middle of an inmate relationship designed strictly for marriage. You just decide. You can get better. You’re making all the money. And announce you want to delete the relationship. I would say you were the initial jerk.
I’ve experienced several suicide attempts by my ex girlfriends and assaulted by them. I was also falsely accused of abuse by them and cheated on. When women don’t get what they want or a man decides to leave 99% of the time women will go berserk shiittt bat crazy so yeah I agree with you don’t risk it it ain’t worth it.
Thx for ur transparency man. That’s bad ass I’ve experienced this type of evil too. What’s sad is that there are men in jail/prison right now because of this type of evil.
He didn't learn anything useful from his situation. Men need to record themselves 24/7 (bodycam, etc). There are cases of women accusing men of assault and ruining their lives when they never even met. That's right, a woman doesn't need to have EVER seen you to accuse you and ruin your life.
This is a GREAT act of public service. I have advised many friends to never live with a woman and they laugh at me and say, “this is different.” Two years later they are wishing they had listened to me.
My friends had this thing of live with a girl, it will be good. I am just thinking these stupid people don't understand, a woman is out there gives me a chance to dress good, hunt but also stay in contact with others, bring my friends, have a life but if I live with a girl, fml.
I completely agree with everything you said, brother. It's a difficult and painful lesson to learn but unfortunately all real men who desire to live thier own lives free from the old school mentality of believing that a woman makes your life complete, have to experience this nightmare.
I had this happen to me. I tried to leave the apartment, she tried to block me, I tried to leave anyway, and then she called the cops and accused me of hitting her and being threatening to her, when all I did was try to get out and get a time-out from her crazy and totally irrational screaming argument. The apartment was mine, I was paying for everything, and yea, you get the drift. Luckily when the police came, and they talked to us separately, the police officers came to me and told me that they could see nothing was done, and that she had over-reacted a hell of a lot. So they just left and told us to get counceling. That day changed everything. I still gave her a 2nd chance that lasted a long time, but could never ever trust her the same way ever again, cause she had shown me what crazy shit she would do just to get her way... Ever since, I would never consider getting married, I would never consider living with a woman without having proper contracts in place, and if I ever end up in a similar situation ever again, I will record the audio of the argument just to have some evidence in case I ever experience something like that again. Some of these women are batshit crazy, and they are really willing to play insane cards like this and use their position as the "weaker sex" to their advantage, and they are willing to totally destroy a mans career and reputation just to get their way. It's so disgusting, while at the same time they go out and preach about "girl power", empowering women, being a strong woman and so on in social media. It's disgusting to witness the double-standard and hypocrisy that some modern day women have. And sadly it took almost two years and a huge argument for this to reveal itself, so... Tread carefully guys.
Watching this video 6 months after it was made. I have also had a women falsely accuse me of domestic violence because I told her to leave MY APARTMENT. She texted the police on her Apple Watch, it was so evil I’ve never experienced anything like it. I figured the cops would come, see how she has no marks or no signs of bruising they would leave. Despite no marks or any sign of abuse on her I was arrested and spent 3 nights in jail…When prosecutors actually saw the evidence, or lack thereof, charges were dropped. The whole experience screwed me up mentally and cost me a high paying job because of it.
A woman who is willing to file a false domestic violence charge against you can ruin your life with a simple phone call and there is nothing you can do to stop it…even if you’re innocent. Those who think otherwise are naive and haven’t experienced the system firsthand…like some of us
Well said. And there is no evidence required. You WILL go to jail. The one with the balls always gets taken away. You will lose your property. You will get a life time criminal record. The female judge WILL screw you over. The bent cop WILL believe the woman. The law is an ASS. Fu.. women and FU.. bent cops.
If you had your life ruined by a single phone call it means you are powerless and that itself should be your main worry. From intellectual standpoint, you have nobody to blame but yourself. From moral standpoint, you can blame the person who did that to you and ask yourself why would you get involved in the first place. This would never happen to me not only because I'm aromantic but also because I would have taken precautions in advance.
@@portalsevilThen you're a sitting duck that is just waiting to be picked off by a girl with borderline personality disorder. The fact that you think you can't be reached is proof that you can be
Why dont u guys use the good old counter. "If u call the cops and i get charged, be sure that i will hunt u down in ur sleep". If that doesnt work u'll have nothing to lose since she already ruined ur life.
I had the exact same scenario play out for me, the girl I thought loved me and cared about me threated me with police reports and even went as far as to slander my name to her circle and even my circle. When I walked away from the relationship all this came out from the person I thought wanted the best for me.
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Never ever live with an Anglo-saxon woman. They are not wife type - for men. They are not mother type - even for their own children.
Nonsense. Here's my advice to you, If you're afraid of fire stay out of the kitchen. So Mr cool who always keeps his composure, gets spooked by some drama from a girlfriend? Grow up dude, no risk, no gain
Oh, and on top of that, if you wanted weasel out of a relationship, you could do the OPPOSITE of what you're teaching, and she'd drop you herself
Thanx.... advising each other is good. I feel sorry for my son .. going to the future
Why isn't the moral of the story to not sleep with women who you know you don't want to stay with? You're comparing yourself to a woman; if you get cheated on you won't throw a fit because you're a man... So you're expecting women to be like men because you grew up in a modern western country with feminism. All the women who can detach easily are just broken; the supply of sluts is dependent upon the supply of slut-makers.
Her eratic change in behavior is akin to your eratic change in behavior: making love for months or years and suddenly being over it. And you both ended up making each other feel the same; powerless and destroyed.
I think it’s because women don’t really care about the man they’re with. When she says she loves you, she really means she loves that being with you puts her above other women in her group. A good BF/husband is an accessory to a modern woman, just like her bag or her bad guy on the side.
Don’t be one of her accessories.
WELL PUT ! A woman can never love or fall in love with a man, the same way Men do with women , and as deeply. They just can't .
Women will never substitute the motherly love a man still craves as an adult. It's a recipe for disaster to project the mother figure onto your woman.
Even Christian tradwives are like this. They're all nuts
@Hellucination, I don't need another mom. I don't even need a woman. I just want a teammate. A partner in crime.
She doesn’t love you, she loves how you make her feel.
You weren't in a committed monogamous relationship and had no intention to be in one. Of course it all went to hell. There's no self respect in either party.
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Sounds exactly like something JBP would say. Right out of his mouth.
@@DoubtingThomas333 Who is JBP? Why can't people just write people's names.
@@okyouknowwhatever Jordan B. Peterson?
I was in a committed married relationship, she still divorced me after 25+ years taking all the usual things, children farm land, farm machinery, rental houses etc. Yes, we are Christian. Yes, we attended church. Etc. Even after receiving millions of dollars in asset, I still owed chlld support? There is little to no commitment with divorce rates over 50%. Period
Dude I wouldnt want to live with you either 😬
although we didn’t live together, I had a similar experience, fellas.
The moral of my story is when a woman starts acting crazy, start video recording.
When the police finally arrived, she had told them that I had kidnapped her and hit her. I was able to finally show the cops the video where she had did that to herself and threatened me, and they ended up taking her to 3-day suicide watch as a result.
Guys, If a girl ever acts like that, record her then press charges -and when you end up in the court room, do not go easy on her and drop those charges no matter how sweet she “acts” because if she’s doing this to you, she will def do this to somebody else who may very well be innocent also
True. Keep your mobile video recorder handy. That's the only thing that will save you.
All men should have cameras everywhere in their home. Link it to your smartphone so you'll know if she tampers with any of them.
Taking your advice. Recording her
The man are stupid, why do they want to live with a woman that not their husband that is wrong, the only woman you can live with is your wife . The best is to live with your old mother and also your sister if they living with parents
@@smokingcrab2290 Cameras can have problems also. You have to assume everyone sees everything on the internet.
I haven’t lived with a woman for over 20 years and no matter how good or bad things go, I always have the peace of mind that I don’t have to deal with a woman in my home.
To be able to come and go as you please is one of life’s greatest luxuries.
Exactly brother 🤝
Obviously your porn hub subscription is up to date
@@freedomfunwithjlbfriends7193 I don’t sit around all day watching porn. In fact watching porn is a terrible waste of time and it damages your mental health. I actually get off my ass and meet women. I’ve plenty female friends. Women aren’t bad, I’m just not gonna commit to a specific one.
well said
Hell yeah! Better off to never get into a relationship with a woman. No commitments. They’ll respect you as a man in this way. Much better respect.
Nothing you said in this video had any ounce of substance. Do you have any depth to you? How sad for her, to live with someone who didn’t give two sh*ts about her.
All you basically said was “Is this the best I could do”, “I was on my way up, followers, money, status”
You’re shallow bro, I think she dodged a bullet. 😅
Married men will never admit all the crap that comes with being married. They have to save face.
True
comfort betrays
Yup, not even 1 in 10 is happy after a couple years, whether they admit it or not.
Well that’s a load of shite. Men warn other men all the time.
@@sorrysirmygunisoneba Some do, but most don't...
If you want to leave its safer to start acting needy and clingy so much that she becomes disgusted and runs away 😂
A man’s honesty can work against him when dealing with a nefarious woman. Fight fire with fire?
I recall reading a few years ago about some movie star, don't recall who, who had a crazy stalker. Instead of calling the cops or getting a restraining order, he went on a dinner date with her, and he just complained the whole time and whined about his life ha ha. And it worked! Genius.
@@MVProfits good old fashioned reverse psychology
@@MVProfits ... Yip, It was Robert Pattinson.
Bingo! Start simping HARD. Smother her with unearned affection. Be as nice of a guy as you possibly can. She'll be SO turned off by this.
At 60, I've lived a life full of experiences, traversing the world and doing more than most could imagine. But with all that life has shown me, the most profound lesson I've learned is that true love-real, deep, enduring love-takes time to grow. It’s not about superficial attractions like looks or passion; it’s about understanding, patience, and a connection that goes beyond the physical.
I've been with my partner for over 25 years, and every night, we still hold hands as we fall asleep. She knows me better than I know myself, and our love has grown into something pure and unwavering. We rarely focus on the physical, because our bond is rooted in something much deeper-an unspoken intimacy and an enduring love that only time and shared experiences can create.
Then marry her, Adam. She should know she is the one. 40 years married to my man. It is a sacred thing and a gift from heaven.
@@emmap1159 We both don’t believe we need a legal chain and ball to cement our love together; it's just not how we think. Also, we are both financially very successful and independently wealthy, so there’s no need for us.
Our sentiment encapsulates a modern perspective on relationships, where our focus is on mutual understanding, respect, and love rather than adhering to traditional legal frameworks. It reflects a strong sense of our individuality and confidence in the bond we share, highlighting that our connection is based on personal choice rather than societal expectations or financial necessity.
Most women are conniving, scheming, two faced bitches. It's in their DNA. Give it time brother. Once you stop providing for her, she'll look for someone that will, and you'll just be another distant memory.
Good for both of you.
@@emmap1159 We dont need or want a piece of paper to make us stay bonded together.
"Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will" - Socrates
"Crocodile tears"..
Based Socrates
Wow
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If woman wants my contempt…cry
You can see what a woman really thinks of you only during the breakup. Everything before that is an act to get what she wants from you.
mostly false, while yes it is an act before. It is an opposite act after the breakup to cope with the loss. All opinions have inertia but no solid foundation.
Yes. When her need for you ends, her alleged "love" ends.
She was never yours, it was only your turn.
Women are like library books. You never want to read a book twice because you already know of how it ends. Just check it out, enjoy it, and return it for someone else to check out and enjoy.
@@NPCHSN this is a disgusting analogy because it suggests females are properties.
3:59 no - she was the “best you could get” at the time you picked her. You likely began experiencing some success with business as the relationship progressed and decided you could trade up. People aren’t and shouldn’t be stepping stones, in either regard.
Exactly
What scares me the most is the amount of grown and young men in the comments claiming to have been through the same experience
I just made a comment a minute ago stating this very thing..📱👈👀
are you in denial of the truth? its just 2900 coments here and doesnt even make 0.05% of the entire male population
Lots of broken people. Broken society. The way to fix it is to get back to God and live the life He designed for us. All of the nonsense ends when you see through the lies and live a moral life and do things in the right ORDER.
@@Macharangwana6505I don't get your point
@@Project-emet forget it then
From white boards and teaching us the basics, to personal monologues in a bathrobe. Keep going.
Yeah bath robe era Casey is the straight dope, not stepped on. :)
Then hot tub, then sauna, then private jet, then personal luxury yacht.
Even Cappy does the same but now he's a Professional.
He sounds like the DJ off Reservoir Dogs now as well.
Hugh Hefner vibes! 🤣💪🏻
*So you’re superficial… and you decided you wanted other women after dedicating yourself to her…*
Yes, she was insane, but you need to check yourself.
Woman practice hypergamy as a rule, why is it an issue when its recipricated?
Well said boltoms
@michaellavaughnrobinson where the fuck do you have that generalisation from?
My ex did all these things. She once threw herself erratically around the bathroom to get as many bruises as possible, then calmed down and gave me what can only be described as an evil smile…
Terrifying. Never again.
Reading that gave me shudders
Bruh I got goosebumps wtf reminds me of the movie “ smile” of that demon
A Borderline Sociopath. Many of them out there.
Wow
A women that has nothing...to loose.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Handled over 100 domestic violence cases. Listen to his story. I have seen it happen many times. The big problem in most jurisdictions is that the burden of proof is a “preponderance of evidence” in domestic violence cases, where it should be “beyond a reasonable doubt” (as in a criminal case). Vet very carefully before living with someone. Stay safe out there!
How exactly do you vet?
you don't . Embrace solitude instead.@@Алрик
@@Алрик You can't. Not well enough anyway. Staying single is the only reliable solution (and you have to be careful even then).
Provoke a conflict and see.
And DA’s know that. Men are getting screwed. Falsely accused after a 23 year marriage. I’m being railroaded
Conclusion : you wanted a beautiful women and she wasn't pretty enough for you so you stayed with her for a couple of months knowing you was waisting her time as she was too average ... And then she went mad .... I Think you were both guilty about this situation
39 got my own little place on a mountain top no woman is ever gonna move in with me. Once a man has lived thru pain, suffering, and misery like myself he knows his peace and quite is priceless.
Hell yeah! PQF - peace, quiet, freedom
What happened to you?
This is how I feel. I'll enjoy the things I worked for myself.
Yup! I’m a woman and I agree. I will never live with a man again.
Women are scared of living in nature for some reason I never understood
My last ex, about 5 years ago, made the exact same threat. I didn't take it seriously until the cops arrived at my house and told me I was under arrest.
Now luckily for me, and believe me I was freaked out, especially because I didn't even know what lie she had told them, but these 2 cops asked me for a verbal statement, one after another and then they compared notes on what I had told each of them about every event of that night and agreed that they both received the same story from me. They then went and did the same with my ex, and she couldn't tell them both the same story, but she kept attempting to make her story juicier to both of them, and they ultimately came back and told me it was more than obvious she was lying. The cops then told me to relax, keep ZERO contact of any form with her (which was pretty easy to do at that point!!), and they drove her to her parents house and told her that if she reached out to me directly or indirectly there could be charges against her. I never heard from her again, and I've felt so incredibly blessed.
It still do this day haunts me in so many ways of how it all could've unfolded, and also it disturbs me greatly that some women see this as an option to get back at someone when there are other women out there struggling to get away from actual abusers.
Yeah you are not alone.
"it disturbs me greatly that some women see this as an option to get back at someone when there are other women out there struggling to get away from actual abusers." This is the point "BelieveAllWomen" idiots never get. These false accusations hurt not only the one accused but the real victims out there. Cops and judges need to act more like the ones you met.
Some people are just scum.
Abuse can come in different forms and from either sex.. I didn't know what to expect from a video like this but I 100% agree with the logic here after seeing how abusive women use emotional manipulation to feel powerful.. I think this isn't taught enough. A man with a hurt ego will be much more likely to use violence, but a woman with a hurt ego will much more likely use emotional manipulation. I've been abused by my own sister, and I'm a woman myself. I would have preferred to have been punched because people would've believed it.
@@jenniferphan2756 this is how they get back at you, a man will hurt you physically but a woman will ruin your reputation, talk behind your back etc.
I'll say this. I've been through this and although she lived under my roof for under 6 months I made sure it was done cleanly. She gained over 50lbs in that short time and gradually stopped helping with cooking and cleaning.
I ended up taking up the slack. S3x dried up as I wasn't attracted to her anymore as her personality changed.
Combative, argumentative and hella lazy. I hate laziness with a passion. I was her ATM.
I suggested she move out, back with her parents, and we'd go to therapy. She was out of the house so I changed the locks. We went to therapy (It's a scam don't do it... useless) I told her in the 2nd session, I want out. She went for half of everything so I made her a deal she couldn't refuse. Smartly she understood and took it without an argument. She knew I mean't business.
4 years later she reached out to me. I cut it short and told her to F off.
Don't move in with them. They lie, cheat and steal. They'll turn everyone you love against you and threaten to do some crazy stuff. All the while trying everything in their power to make you weaker. She turned lifelong friends against me and I let it slide. In the end, they knew who was in the right and she ended up completely alone.
That was 13 years ago and I've lived alone in my own home....in peace since....
I have similar situations.90% Of modern women are rotten evil, they don’t understand true love or have any qualities to be good mothers or wife’s or partners living alone is best thing you can do at this point.
Constantly trying to destroy your peace through arguing crying, manipulating and threatening is one of their top ten tactics to make your life miserable. Claiming that they'll call your parents and tell them that you were beating. Them and cheating on them is another tactic. They have no conscience when it comes to lying to try to get their way or just trying to make you miserable.
Sadly, most men don't start thinking with their big head until they're 35 and older.
I know men who never think with their big head no matter what age they are. The are called Simps.
That is so true
I've always thought with my big head since I was young, sadly it doesn't lead you anywhere better because at first you assume they're genuine people. They're not.
If their fathers were around without their authority being usurped that wouldn't have been so common by now.
Their frontal lobe only finishes developing by 31 so it makes sense, only had a fully functioning brain for 4 years.
Do not listen to this guy. Just because he chose a psycho does not mean you will.
Reading the comments section it's seems like ending up with a psycho is very common.
You're right. What he should be teaching his audience is how to spot a psycho. Instead he thinks all women are like that, which is false. I've been married 14 years and never experienced any of this
That’s what exactly I was thinking. He should work on himself a lot!
@@QuickProgramming totally agreed. It is true there are lots of them out there haha
Don’t listen to this guy? What are you, a chick? You are saying that it’s bad advice when he says never move in with a woman unless you are married? This is rock solid advice in 1700, in 1800, in 1900, in 2000, and in 2100. In fact it was unheard of for many reasons up until just a few decades ago. Maybe you are just plain ignorant. There are millions of men who go through this type of thing and I am one of them. Even if you have a great girlfriend and she comes from a church family and she prays every night and she makes 6 figures not being married to her could set up trouble for you. Laws as far as domestic violence go are totally in favor of women and laws on residency are in favor of renters.
Mans rules for happiness:
- never marry
- never cohabitate
- never share assets
- no long term relationships
With that mindset you'll never have a child or if you do you'll give that child a bad future. Good luck with that.
@@bestof4227take d risk then who's holding u and c how Ur life get screwed
Up b homeless if care is
Not taking moron
@@bestof4227go learn d hard way chump!!?
@@bestof4227 What if he doesn't want a child?
@@bestof4227 Lol, you idiot. Attila, the Hun, had literally dozens of children, and he never did any of those things. Society is tamed, natural selection is over, and weak douchebags like you are a big problem when fighting Feminism. "BAD FUTURE"? As if the world could get any more decadent than already is. Precisely, due to such matriarchal ridiculous culture.
Lived something similar, thanks you for sharing this. Was accused of rape by a girl I rejected, who was much younger than me. Got locked up in the police station and interrogated, police would not believe me that I rejected the girl because she is younger and rather attractive, and why she would do this. Until finally my dad could provide the camera footage from the residence where I live, and I could even provide video games logs that I was playing a game at the supposed time of the rape.
Spent like 15 hours in jail next to junkies who were screaming and banging their heads on the walls in the other cells, one woman was literally designing on her wall with her blood, all of this because of this girl lie. I'll never forget that.
Never underestimate the atrocities women are capable of when hurt in their feelings.
And of course, nothing happened to the girl, right?😤
Lazy policing as usual. What a 💩 show!
Should have filed a charge for false rape. It's people like you who create these monsters because you let them go without consequences. Rape is a serious accusation.
Should have filed a charge for false rape. It's people like you who create these monsters because you let them go without consequences. Rape is a serious accusation.
Same
This guy seems arrogant and entitled. Story too long and boring.
he is basically telling us he dated himself and didn't like his mirror image reflecting back.
My ex wife just ended our 31 years marriage, It's harder than I would like to admit, but I've come to the same conclusion, I'm not going to bring a woman to live with me in my house, no way. Big hug from Chile.
Mis condolencias compare, el mundo ya no es el mismo, tanto hombres como mujeres solo somos. Un número, un producto
Chileno por acá ! 🙌🏻
relaxchile... happier, cheaper
I feel your pain bro, I've been going through same train smash.
I've managed to save my sense of humor. 😅
31 years??? Ghaat Damn
I have lived with two women. The first one was a friend who needed a roommate. She was smart, funny, responsible, and attractive. She could have slept around with a new guy every day but she was a homebody. She was also someone who understood how men think, not did she accept it but she also thought like one...rare. She got a big promotion so she had to move and it was emotional for both of us. The second was my future wife and everything that our host talks rings true. I value peace, quiet, and serenity above all else and that's why I will never live with anyone ever again.
You should have married the first one.
Yeah woman can live with a beta male seeing him as another woman, what they can't live with is an alpha.
@@tomwalker389in a parallel universe yea but whose to say the first one wouldn’t have done the same thing? Remember actual roommate vs actual wife… Unless! OP had flings but I doubt bc she was a chill homebody
@@tomwalker389 you are so quick to fold dude. they are not that special. thinking that way is exactly how a seemingly amazing woman suddenly turns batshit and you realize she was two faced the whole time. why are all these simps STILL DESPERATE for marriagen EVEN with red pill knowledge?
@@Thletathere’s an innate urge to find a mate and companion to say otherwise is denial
You are going to end up alone...
Selfishness attracts selfish people...
If you say that you are "settling" with someone, that means you don't really like that person, you tolerate her at best.
If the only thing that you have to offer is money, nice things and business success, you are only going to attract gold diggers.
Nice gestures, interesting conversations and general compatibility is what makes a relationship work.
Can you stand being in a room alone with your partner without doing anything and not having sex? No? Then that is a problem.
I 100% agree!!! Every relationship I’ve ever had has gone down hill the second she moved in. I’ve tried this with many diff women in my life and it’s always the same result. DONT DO IT!
Maybe is your fault 😅
Been there with my ex. She kept cheating, I wanted out, she would try to kill herself. She ended up being taken away by the police 6-7 times for suicide watch. But we were already married with 3 kids. :/ She'd threaten me too with lying to the police. I got reeeal good at recording things so they'd know how it really went down. But you're right, they can beat the hell out of us, we can do nothing. I won't hurt women.
It makes you afraid of women.
@@BoostedPastime It destroyed my whole idea of a relationship and love. It's impossible for me to see women as moral agents... or even as decent human beings. Their whole shit is an act... it's fake.
@@hellucination9905 I agree and I would argue that it is similar to seeing people's faces before and after war. If you haven't seen there is a video on UA-cam of people's faces before and after war. Before they look young, disciplined and happy, after they look drained, serious and hardened or broken. It's pretty powerful
Feel for you brother. Me too - 2 young boys, she's run off with another Woman. Fuck all morals, just whiney wingeing BS... shattered me, now I'm seeing it as a true blessing - never realised I was really that unhappy. Should have never got with her and trusted my gut. That said, my boys are awesome. Need to get out of this mortgage with her (still living with her for their sake - for a while at least). It's rather funny now she realises she has zero power over me
1:30 going to stop right here. You dont know what you dont know. You have to have experience to life live. This video is the worst advice you could have possibly ever gotten. Do not watch it.
Dam I feel for you man,
Lived with a girl for 2 years after dating for 7 years prior and it’s simply amazing how crazy, how hysterical, how illogical, and how straight up irrational women can get especially towards the end of a relationship.
Panic attacks, hyperventilation nervous breakdowns, scouring your phone at 4 am while you sound asleep going through EVERY text convo spanning 3-4 YEARS worth of data from not only your friends but your parents as well lmao.
Absolute psychotic mental ward level shit and them not seeing a single thing wrong with it lol.
Good to know that I’m not alone in experiences like this.
It’s important to remember fellas. Doesn’t matter how grounded, high class, elite you think that you are or how highly you carry yourself. You will deal with psychotic women who will use their chaotic nature to bring insanity to your life.
Don’t take it personally cuz we’re all in it together
Life Lesson: there's no hope
Two questions for you, because I've also dated crazy before.
1. Do you take any personal responsibility for selecting that woman with hindsight, because as men we can usually come to terms with when it was our own fault right. Did you see the warning signs way ahead of time and just ignored them? Because I've made that mistake before.
2. What was the vetting process for you like for the 7 years you dated prior? Is this like a 7 years on and off kinda thing. At least at the minute, I've been dating someone for close to 2 years treating it like a probation before considering moving in, surely after 7 years you were convinced it wasn't going to go down the way that it did with her?
hahaha@@danieldonascimentoaraujo3221
@danie 19:26 ldonascimentoaraujo3221 "Life is suffering" ~ The Buddha
Jeez so true :D once I found my ex girl friend in the last month of our relationship at 4 at night going through all of my fails claiming I'd taken naked pictures of here while she was asleep whereas the only naked pictures I had of her were the ones she sent to me 😂😂
This was a brutal night and she fought for her argument until 7 in the morning.
I wasn't "allowed" to sleep.
I locked her out of my apartment one week later and ended things before she could attempt to end me..
📌After BREAKUP! MEN come back because he misses the beautiful MOMENTS with the women! But WOMEN come back because she can't REPLACE him !📌
Hahahaha well you are average also. So no big deal :v
😂
Women can ruin a man's life in a blink of an eye. I have been through hell with 2 of my ex girlfriends. Not even worth to tell all the story, it was an absolute nightmare
sounds like you were dealing with a narcissistic abuse situation my good friend 🩷please good god stop projecting that clearly very traumatic experience on all women and go to therapy❤️❤️❤️
@@katiechamberlain3938you're ignorant to the world my friend
Tell us your tale
If you think that's ruin, whatever you do, Don't make the mistake of getting married
😂
Been in the exact same position. The right way to dump a cohabitant takes time, but it works. NEVER explicitly tell them it's over, they have to leave. Instead ignore them without being mean. Spend little or no time with them. Eventually they monkey branch to someone else and leave, believing they are dumping you, not the other way around. Takes time, but it works.
Thats actually a brilliant strategy. if you explicitly say it's over, get out or I'm leaving that is exactly what will happen. And the way you described, they will monkey branch off to someone else and eventually have no time or interest for you. And just leave of their own accord, no screaming, crying and. Borderline personality disorder fits.
that's a pussy move. just say get out.
Yup this is exactly how I got out of my live in. Worked like a charm
I am sorry you were burned so badly. Living with the right woman is a great experience.
I can't find any way to argue against his viewpoint. My personal experience meshes perfectly with this view.
I went through the same exact thing I 100% aggree
Same
Same. And after I disolved this relationship, I became Red Pill aware and I understood all the mistakes I did all my life with women
Make that 4
Easy, vet your partners carefully and for at least a year before you get into a serious relationship, and only live with and have sex with the woman who has become your actual wife. It's not even complicated.
Too late- I learned the hard way. Had my own place . Moved in with emotional wreck of a girlfriend because I was going to have sex every day while I pay HER mortgage.. The daily sex lasted about a year, but as I lost my job due to COVIDEO and couldn't support her financially, her attitude and personality changed dramatically. After failing to find a job., she made living with her more uncomfortable. (no, she wasn't going to find a job) so I told her I can't live with you anymore and I bailed. I miss the sex, but don't miss the toxicity of that woman. BTW that was 3 years ago she's on #3 or #4 boyfriend since we split....yeah.. And yes- women lie about their body count.
Of course women lie about their body count but can you blame them? They know that the vast majority of men are going to judge them for it. Once the judgement is handed down, the perks stop. Women are the ultimate hustlers. Men will never believe what women truly are. The ones that don’t judge (Me) know what’s up. The biggest lie ever sold to men is that women want sex less than men. 😂
men think they have found a nymphomaniac but after a year or two the nympho leaves and the maniac remains
So pretty much this was a trick and John relationship😂...... you were in a financial transaction situationship😂 bro!
@@WillyEckaslikeThis is an underrated comment.
@@WillyEckaslikethank you Pastor 🙏
Why are you talking about this ex g/f over ten years later?
he's selling something
If you looked at your girlfriend sleeping every night thinking about how she's not "the best you can do" & how she's no as hot as your previous hookups, you deserved everything that came your way. You come across as someone with very little to offer in the way of emotional connection. Stick to hookups.
Casey, I’m surprised at the wisdom and knowledge you’ve gained at such a young age. I am 54, and realised all you’ve said and done at the age of maybe 48 (6 years ago), but even then I fell for a woman that turned out to be a nutcase once she knew I was committed. So now I’m single for a year and a half, although I have a good many options. One in particular… a woman I like, about 12 years younger. I’m honestly terrified shitless to get into another serious relationship. As you’ve confirmed, never live with a woman unless you’re married or wanna make a family. Otherwise it will become hell once the honeymoon stage is over. Of course I’m generalising, but let’s just say it’s NOT easy to navigate the relationship realm. Proud of you, man! Great to see a young man speak so honestly and helping other men, including me! Take care ✌🏻Ciao from Italy 🇮🇹
the true nature of things do be crazy
Do not marry! she is only acting, and is looking at her own financial gain. Woman are very good presenters and even better liars..
I'm 49. Scared shitless too.
@@dattrax7 You should be, these woman today are strait up ruthless, and conniving as well, They will strait up look into your eyes and lie through their teeth. Telling you, strait up wicked...
I’d stick to a nice cup of tea and have an early night
If a woman, or anyone else threatens you to make a false police report, immediately report it to the police yourself.
and that will be taken as you making false claims and harassing her, because she will cry and say so.
@@AbdalMalik-ye1df breh, it also looks bad as well if you never provided the counter claim
@@TopJoo7 talk english. I don't understand what you're trying to say
best option i think is to just start video recording, showing her in an healthy state, then going to your friends/parents and stay there. Video shows that you did nothing to her and parents/friends can say youve stayed by them.
Unless SHE is the police .
His description of her is spot on borderline personality disorder. BPD.
Been there, lived that multiple times.
Waited till I was 45 to get married, despite societal pressure.
Married to the most healthy and supportive woman I could imagine. Now 11 years and 4 kids later.
Take your time boys.
How old was your wife at the time? Did you wait til 45 to have your first kid?
Am 38 btw
I'm 36 and finally in my prime mentally and financially. I kinda want a companion but zero desire for the drama.
25 years in psychiatric and psychology and I would have to agree.She is from the dark triad and the B-clustter personality which is the Narciccist, Borderline or antisocial personality type.These people are manipulative and dangerous liars.This guy should have been video taping to protect himself from false accusations.
You don’t have to wait until 45 to find a good, healthy, supportive woman to marry.
60 years and you have kids old enough to be your grand kids?
Guys, never break up with a girl in a private setting where things can get crazy. Go to a park or somewhere where it's both public and private at the same time.
💯
Yes
And if you can video tape what's going on, you have no idea what they can or will say.
No dude,you break up through text because drama will ensue in person
On one hand breaking up over text is kind of low, but if there is a risk she will blow in your face, then maybe it's for the better.
This is exactly what I'm going through now. I met a girl last December, she came to my house where we shared the evening together. She then politely asked to come back the next 2 nights which I didn't see any harm in it for she was a sweet, soft spoken chick. Next thing I know she was obsessively clingy and weeks in would start bringing a few outfits for visits days at a time. Eventually after about a month I saw that we were on 2 different pages. I'm focused on improving my position in life wanting more, where as she was just looking for someone to latch on to with no aspirations or drive. She couldn't cook and constantly nagged the second she felt like I wasn't giving her time and attention. It got to the point where I'd tell her to leave. We would argue about the dumbest, least important things and I knew she wasn't the girl for me. When I would tell her to leave she always refused to willingly and told me that we were going to "figure" this out like a real couple would. Eventually I got fed up and threatened to call the police to remove her from my home because she literally wouldn't go no matter what I'd say and she told me she would tell them that I was abusive and I put my hands on her. 12 months later and I'm on misdemeanor probation for carrying her to the door and locking her out. They said because she was trying to fight to get back inside and I was "pushing" her that it was assault and I got a DV charge. The judge told me that no matter what the situation I CANNOT have contact with her since there was a no contact order. She was sitter in the pews as he was telling me this and she has continued to try to contact me. It's a sick joke.
Your story is so insane it’s hard to believe to be true, but it was probably even worse than what you described 🤣
Sounds like a mad dog😂😂
Legally, You have to get a restraining order to legally remove someone thats living with you.
@@PremiumFuelOnly even if you own the place?
@@lukamilas8648 Yes, she lives there. And if shes paying you to live there, you might have to get the courts to evict her since you are a landlord.
wounded, jaded men giving advice. good luck people!
The dark side of the internet. People wanting others to "feel their pain" for their stupid life.
Seems wrong to simultaneously discount their experiences while insulting them. Many women struggle to date, say there aren't many options.. this is one of those reasons. Men don't find as much benefit in a relationship with how they end up treated. Maybe society should just listen and hear them out. Try to understand where they are coming from as well. Obviously not all women are like this, but there are definitely those out there. I couldn't imagine being a man.. imagine being with a girl who lies about bc to trap them with a child as an example. Just because many men don't speak up about these issues, doesn't mean it is not affecting most of them. Social media, crumbling classes has added pressure to dating for men and women. We need to listen to these men. Many men in our lives most likely share these experiences.
wounded experienced intelligent men...moosh
It's not far from the truth. Had this exactly the same experience while dating in southeast Asia - before passport bro was a thing. Hope that someone else is learning, today's generation are lucky! All the knowledge is in your pockets. I didn't even have a smartphone growing up! I had to learn love stuff as it happened.
Plenty of men offering good advice like ignore western women and look East.
It's so much better to be single than having a quarrelsome girlfriend or wife
Seriously.
It is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman and in a wide house. Pv 25:24
That is why so many many and many men after their first divorce no longer have the balls (including yours truly🤣🤣) to marry or live with a woman! Yet women can easily go on and get married again like nothing happened.
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This is literally a verse in the bible lmao
It's better to have them come over then leave the same day
Lifes' greatest lessons are always colored with experience. I've often wondered, is it me? Do I just attract 🤔 crazy women... or are all women crazy? As I grow old, I am starting to believe it's the latter. Don't fear being alone. This podcast echoed what millions of men feel. You are NOT alone.
I'm 29, been with 30 of em of all ages & races in Canada. My conclusion is they are all crazy cuz bad diet/no sleep/media/no gym
They are 99.9 percent crazy. Surely there is a .01 percent good ones...maybe not
@@slimshady8129 most of all bad culture that encourages these behaviours
@@slimshady8129 you need to get out of Canada to find a wife or go in country, most of the woman are un, I am repeating UNmarriageable in the cities of Canada.
theres a few that are decent and mellow but they are usually taken
Not sure I agree with your blanket statement. Sure, there are some difficult women out there who would be hard to live with, but surely that applies to men also... that's just being human. My point isn't even exclusively tied to this topic of living with women - using blanket statements to negatively classify any demographic of people is unjust in my eyes. We're all individuals and so should be treated as such - would you like to be labelled by others based off of my actions just because I'm also a guy?
It's an interesting discussion anyway, and props for being so transparent - cheers for sharing
The problem is less so whether people are "good" or "bad," but rather, who does the legal system unfairly give the advantage to, which is obviously women.
Men who marry and/or cohabitate should be aware that the legal system will not protect them, and statistically speaking, a man who marries/cohabitates is taking a massive risk.
Women initiate no-fault divorce at a 90% rate and then are rewarded with alimony for it. I'm never taking that risk, no matter how good the woman seems.
Easy for you to say. You’ve never been a victim of a false domestic violence accusation. You would sing a different song if it happened to you like it did to me
@@IAmTheEggMan111 And you know that how, sorry? Shouldn’t assume things my man. Even to your point, I’d still judge that person on that wrongful act rather than extrapolating that to another 4 billion people
@@IAmTheEggMan111- Facts. I was a victim of false domestic violence accusation and was put in jail. People would often say just get over it and move on. But I would tell them, you would not say that had it happened to you. It changes you and you view things differently.
One of the biggest challenges for men with modern women is; modern women are very good in camouflaging who they really are at the beginning of the relationship. The rule of thumb nowadays is; never rush into marrying a woman no matter how much she seem to be loving. Put her to test, delay marriage until you're convinced that she's the one to marry. She needs to prove that she's the one to marry.
Why do you even want to marry?
"Put her to test, delay marriage until you're convinced that she's the one to marry. She needs to prove that she's the one to marry." - Then she will feel humiliated. If it takes so long, if she has to prove herself etc. The relationship will become worse or she will divorce you later if you finally marry her.
Excatly but in my culture this will be branded as wasting womans time or using her..cause shes someones daughter or sister …actually they think too highly of women and dont held them accountable
@@Frivalsto have sex cuddle watch movies
I think when you meet the girl your going to marry you will have an inkling straight away. People need to get back to dating instead of going straight into "relationships" you need to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince / princess
I went out with a gal that was just a friend. She took me out for my birthday. I drove, she did not have a car.
Half way through the dinner, she got sauced on all the wine she was ordering. The conversation we were in went from nice, to combative and argumentative, because of her alcohol intake. She was creating a scene. I said I am done and I was going to leave. I started to get up and leave with out her, she grabbed my arm and told me to sit down and finish the conversation. I tugged it away from her, told her to find her own way home and I left. She lived only about 2 miles from the restaurant.
Because of the way she acted with alcohol, I was not going to take her home in her state of mind and be accused of anything, while she was a mad drunk. She could say anything, and I would have to defend myself. I will not be a victim. If anyone wants to put you and your reputation at risk, WALK AWAY. Do Not risk anything with a lady, a guy friend or anything else, when their state of mind can remember nothing, but accuse you of everything. They become a liability to you, if they refuse to get control of themselves when you try and help, WALK AWAY and preserve yourself legally by avoiding trouble.
I thought a good girl was marriage material until I saw her alcohol intake and she would always become a legend and hostile, and combative. And drunken disorderly in public and start screaming at me and accusing me. I broke up with her when she was not drunk. And she just cried silently and that was it. She married some poor fool a few years after me and I feel sorry for him.
Zero tolerance for that from anyone. Even women friends can be and often are deadly. They will use you as a prop. But they always playing options. I stay away from them now except in professional settings.
And I let people know quickly that I am a high value man with purpose. We can cooperate and collaborate with VALUE.
But If they act out, cheat, lie, scream at me (or others) we are DONE.
And no. No one can stay or move in here-no couch surfing, roommates etc.
One relative can visit. That's it.
The bible says it better to live on the corner of a roof than in a house with a quarrelsome woman. Indeed.
A girl that likes to drink usually have a past. Like being with half the town sexually . That's my experience anyways.
He attracted what he is to himself and then was surprised.
Yes! Fake men attack fake women
Haha you nailed it…..I would never live with someone like him……ugh
😂👍✨
yup, he moved in with his his reflection and learned he doesn't like living with himself.
Well said. He seems like such a stuck up prick, with high expectations, and cant handle even a small argument, which couples have.
Got accused of "bad sexy actions" by a woman once. The only thing that saved me was saved text messages. That completely destroyed my trust in women. They are NOT to be trusted in any case.
Consider yourself lucky. Harvey Weinstein had saved text messages from women before and after his so-called "bad sexy actions" telling him how much they loved him, and he's still going to die in prison.
We aren’t all like that though … i dont know why you have to lump us all together it is quite damaging for good women who put in the effort it makes even us look like shit which is bs some of us are good if you would just see past that . I know its hard i’ve had shit experiences too with men but i dont hate all of them and lump them in as cheaters etc. just sayin
I get your point one the one hand though i do .
@@Friskyrabbitdatingservice So much for a man to lose though. His house, his job, his respect, his credibility, his FREEDOM. His CHILDREN!
I faced the exact same thing last year! She tried swallowing pills, using a bedsheets as a rope to kill herself! Total chaos!
I've had girls attack me, break my phones and other shit, and one who kept trying to manipulate me into giving her attention by running and locking herself in the bathroom or bedroom and acting like she was gonna cut herself or overdose. That fucked my head up, because I knew it was emotional blackmail, but at the same time I didn't want her to hurt herself. That was the worst, thank god I got away from that.
Congratulations you just experienced borderline personality disorder
Have you ever considered that maybe she was legitimately su.!cidal?
@@DannyD-lr5ygWomp womp. Sounds like a HER problem😂
@@nonsensicalwebby1663 Part of being in a committed relationship is a healthy sharing of each others’ burdens. It’s called interdependence (different from codependence).
If that is no longer tenable for one reason or another, the solution is to dissolve the partnership, not stay in it with an attitude of “lol sounds like a ‘you’ problem.”
No disrespect but it doesn't sound like love from the beginning. Looking at your girlfriend at night while comparing her to other women doesn't feel like love.
I don't think he ever claimed otherwise. I might be wrong.... I watched it at 2x speed and don't feel like watching it again.
@@bricaaron3978Bruh, it's only a 19 minute video. Are gen Z that impatient to watch the whole thing at 1x speed? 😂
@@tomaccino It's not a movie. It's just information. If all I want is to know what someone is saying, why wouldn't I try to get to the point as quickly as possible?
So if you’re in love then you can settle for less?
Well said Sophie-py8cr
Here's why this guy is a narcissist. Outside of the rest of the story and whatnot, just a behaviour trait, he takes something small like his inability to sleep probably because he doesn't know how to not get off his phone at night and spins it into 'oh my brain is such a machine running all the time and im such an antrepreneur that yaddayaddayadda". Give me a break man, cut the humble bragging here. Lots of us can't sleep at regular hours and it's not because your brain is too small to handle THE MACHINE.
Right, and the fact he used to lie awake at night and watch her while she slept, and think “is THIS the best I can do?? 🤔.”
And then flipped through his “mental Rolodex” of the far more attractive women he’s been with, and think “there’s no way I’m going to settle for this.”
Like wtf my guy 😂
It's the truth though. Maybe you're lucky enough to have never experienced it. But if your mind is hyperfocused on something, you can lie awake on your bed for hours unable to fall asleep from the noise of your own mind. I've heard normal people talk about "the thoughts that keep them awake at night" so it can't be that unusual.
He is drinking a cup of apparently coffee in apparently the evening, so if anything you could blame it on that.
Yeah he tried to spin it as a positive trait. That's not narcissism though, it's just normal human behavior.
Especially the "I know it all and I'm going to teach you all about this" attitude, together with the thinking in classes + thinking he's special because he has some success in the gym and with his UA-cam channel. This is how 16 year old kids think. Narcissism? The funny thing is, the way he thinks about women is actually a reflection of what he is in some ways. On the other hand he does have some valid points here and there, but actually saying all women are like this just shows how bad his taste is.
@@ThevonMusic Forgot about that part. To start by saying that everything in his life was going up at that point and the first thing you think of is, gym bro, i could lift more at that time. This is how this guy measures success, in general. I hold it that his ex who was able to sleep earlier and better was probably happier and more succesful at things that actually matter. As a society we are plagued by shitty sleep patterns anyway so good on her.
@@Houshalter I also experience this, especially in my engineering line of work you think about solutions all the time and my brain is racing at night and in the morning. I've came up with solutions to issues during my morning shower. I don't try to spin that as OH LOOK AT ME MY MIND IS SO FOCUSED and pin it against my partner that happens to have a different sleep pattern. I'm not saying what he's talking about isn't true, it's just the intent behind it and the WAY he puts it and uses it to somehow up himself. It's clearly narcissistic. And I've just isolated ONE small bit of this whole cringe clip he is not self aware enough to not put out. His life was going up because he was lifting more at the GYM? Who created this guy honestly.
This video should be mandatory for young men to watch. My ex wife called the cops on me and lied, said I hit her. When the police showed up, they made her leave after she admitted lying. That was the end of our marriage. And she had put her hands on me in front of our sons a couple years earlier. It's scary. No one is looking out for young men.
Because I was scared, and I lacked self worth.
@haden3556 excellent point, I had to learn the hard way, and I tried to "make it work" w a sociopath. I was naive, as well as many other things. And I never wanted to set the example for my sons of walking out on them. Re: your comments about all women, I'll say this. It doesn't matter if it's all women, most women, some women or few women. What matters is that they're all capable. And we, as fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, etc could do a much better job of educating young men to identify the so called flags and help them understand these women are not worth their attention.
You don't need to even consider a relationship until the one with yourself is solid. Too many people shack up, not knowing who they are or what their traumas are. Keeps everyone on a perpetual cycle of misery. Learn early on to be alone and to discover who you are. You'll have more to offer someone once you've mastered "you." Playong "house" can wait.
@@user_abcxyzz that's what you did? Or, that's what everyone else should do?
The courts provide them qualified immunity to homewreck and usurp your authority while replacing you with illegals.
Oh hell, Casey. I'm 59 years old and I've experienced the likes of this twice myself and heard about it so many, many times from other men and a few laughing women. You are guilty until you prove yourself innocent in a court of law. You are guilty because she said so. So listen up guys. Everything, and I mean everything, that Casey is saying in this video is 100% correct and true life. Do you really want a domestic violence conviction on your criminal record. It will limit the types of jobs you can get and of course, no guns for you, Mister out of control and dangerous woman hater. Make no mistake man, she'll do it with seething hatred for you.
In my village there is a saying that goes, "a crying woman is a dangerous woman"
Many men fall victims to women because they tell themselves, they are different and it won't happen to them
Commented on your recent video on being the “side guy”..
Literally this happened to me as well with the same girl. Rage, screaming, accusations, degrading comments, shaming me, saying completely illogical things…then once I would go silent, pull away, and be “done” it would come to a point where she would fall on the floor, crying, shaking, vomiting, and just felt so bad for her. Then she would admit fault, be perfect, and life was great for a time. Over time it repeated but worse every time.
I’ve named it the Cycle.
Video evidence of her screaming, threatening my life (recorded with dim screen, held to the side..not obvious), evidence of myself attempting to de-escalate and actually converse, crazy texts, evidence of all these things made me much more comfortable with just walking away and not scared of her making false accusations or playing that card. Still was extremely tough
BPD
@@hwy1310 definitely think that’s the case. Basically turned me into a psychologist studying all this mess.
Haha why would you ever stay for more than one cycle of that?
@@simplehousegirl9260 I mean, dont most of us enjoy riding roller coasters? Gotta get off the ride eventually though, once you start getting too dizzy and sick of it
@@matthewdarr3112 ye we are all getting our degree in Psychology on the side
How many guys out there are in unfulfilling relationships simply because they're too scaresd to break things off? Better sooner than later. Its so important to have reasonable standards in what you want in a woman but the only way to get that perspective is through experience.
Most men are simps. They have a scarcity mindset, so they stay in toxic relationships just for the booty.
Thank you for sharing. I feel bad for all your negative experiences with women. But, not every woman is a nightmare! We all attract certain people into our life. If you are suspicious, defensive, and non-trusting, you will attract exactly the same woman to come along. Perhaps take a time off for a while, relax, build self-security, and then see what sort of ppl appear in your life. The right woman will cherish and respect you, no matter what challenges life throws.
great advice, the amount of women hating is gaining momentum. It comes down to the fact that men are to cheap to invest in long term relationships because the prefer to stay infantile.
i started dating my wife @ 24. Just started a business and it was a rough go. now 12 years later we are married, Im in the best shape of my life, way more confident, making a great living, and I notice women eyeing me up sometimes. My wife on the other hand, went the complete opposite way. Gained tons of weight, doesnt care, unpleasant much of the time, refuses to eat better/exercise. I KNOW i could drop her in an instant and remain single, or score a top 15% woman 10 years younger than me. Its so hard to think about that and then come home to nagging. I do love my wife, shes been apart of my life for 13 years and is my family. I know she gave me her best years 18-30, and Now its my turn to give her my best years 35+ but its hard, esp when I know I could "trade up" as unfair as that sounds its very tempting.
I almost wish i would have waited till 40 to get married, gave myself a chance to realize my full potential/value before committing to a woman.
"Gave you her best years" Give me a break. No doubt she clubs you with that
Any person who can’t accept a break up has zero dignity ! Any person who falsely accuses or threatens a person is extremely toxic and dangerous. RUN for your life before they ruin your life.
This is boring. Good luck in your next relationship.
Duft duck you are
I went through this same thing twice. Had an ex falsely accuse me, then a few years later in another relationship another gf at the time said “if you dump me I will do what your ex did to you” (meaning the false accusation). Luckily I had cameras everywhere in the apartment.
This is key bro. I tell people it’s necessary to know the legalities of recording in your state, thankfully mine is a one party consent.
Just never get into that situation again...the cost is too high.
My wife drove me to rage with her emotional abuse and when I finally just told her "fuck you" she broke down hysterically crying. She threw our sons formula bottle maker into the wall and destroyed it ($400 machine). And then acted like I basically domestically abused her with words. All because I stood up to her. Women are so fragile it's insane.
@@smokingcrab2290 Make sure you nip that behaviour in the bud or you're in for pain my friend.
Damn. Bro was dropped as a baby frfr. Didn’t learn the first time.
YES. I'M 70 AND THIS IS GOLD. Old guy here again. Been with a ton of ladies in se Asia. And western too. It's actually fine to live with one or bring them in for a trial run.... BUT BE TOTALLY PREPARED for absolute hell when you end it. As in.... Ready to change the locks and pack up her stuff and put it in a safe place outside. Don't ever break up in your own place. There's an old old saying about no fury like a women scorned. No kidding... Be prepared as hell for any possibility. You and your belongings can be at serious risk of destruction.
EXCELLENT VIDEO
What about your mother?
Men think their woman is going to love him like his mother does. Sorry to say, its not even close, the woman is on the verge of leaving since the day you met her. She is plotting her options her whole life. Women keep that a secret.
So true, a mom's love is unlike any other love.
false, even my mom chose her options over her kids and husband. And I know many people in that same situation 😂 more like a fathers love from my perspective and the people i know.
Women are only as faithful as their options. Do not live with a woman because there is too much to lose if she makes a false accusation that will result in criminal charges and irreparable damage to your reputation
My first girlfriend I lived in with was always getting drunk when I went to work and then would end up in jail and had me searching for her all over quite a bit. She then cheated on me so I left . I felt good to take control back then two hours later my brother in law who’s a cop came to my moms house and told me that she had jumped off a bridge and died. I was then crushed for over a year and never looked at a women for a long time.
Dig deeper, Casey. They say your external only reflects what's inside. Why did you get involved with her to begin with? Obviously there was no emotional intimacy between you two. If you withheld your authentic feelings in the relationship, do you have the right to blame the partner "they turned out to be a completely different person" in the end?
Back in 2006 when I was younger and dumber I got involved with a girl and moved in with her. My lease was ending at my place and I was always hanging at her place so I moved in and we split the rent. Anyway after a few years things went psychotic and she threw me out and I told her I’m not leaving. I was paying 50 percent of the bills. She calls the police and even though I was paying half the bills the cops made me leave. So she filed a restraining order and a very long story short it was very hard to get all my stuff outta the apartment. I have been in several relationships and they all end up like this in some sort of insane drama. At 53 years old I realize your definitely better off alone. You don’t see many guys in my age range shacking up with women anymore. You have been thru the drama enough to see it’s not worth it
I’d love to hear the other side of this story
What's really crazy is the guys that beat them and treat them life a dog never get cheated on and they stay with them no matter what they do to them. Its like Machiavelli said: " If you cannot balance fear and love - it is much more safe to be feared." Forget that though I am not going to manipulate someone and treat them like a circus animal making them do tricks. I would rather be alone then have to put a bunch of energy into an inherent ingrate. Only some bum with no purpose has all that time for a female anyway.
To men I would suggest if your leaving a woman always have witnesses around and record with audio, so you can prove you did not hit her. If they are really that psychotic you got no choice, but to get a restraining order.
Women don't want to be loved and their sexuality is inherently masochistic. That's true blackpill society does not want to face.
If any of you ladies--or even men--want a video to show you what arrogance & self-obsession look like, here it is.
Well said
One Christmas evening after exchanging gifts with my girlfriend at the time her doorbell rung at 2am in the morning. It was her ex boyfriend. She came back as I was getting dressed to leave and began to cry hysterically making excuses of why he randomly popped up at 2am on Christmas. It didn’t add up that a man showed up at her house at that time and wasnt a coincidence I said. She cried louder and threaten to delete herself if I left. I stayed the night to make sure she wasn’t going to do anything harmful to herself and left her ass once I got home. She wrote me letters and called me from different numbers. I ignored her knowing I dodged a bullet. All of this happened right after she asked to live with me. god works in mysterious ways man
You were blessed with the experience and discernment to see what was before you, and also the fortune of avoiding the negative path of actually living with her. Winning!
You should make friends with the ex boyfriend tbh and exchange notes
I appreciate your honesty and openness in your new videos, keep up this style of content Casey, been supporting for years
You find superficial because your values are superficial
They operate like a snake... They can easily slither into your house and if you are not tactical and technically good, to get them out when their shit starts, you will be in trouble. I am telling you there will be a lot of damage in that house. Their problem is respect, their uncontrollable desire for control. Never in my house.!!!!!!!!!!
Same thing that attracts them winds up making them despise you. I think cohabitation only if want a family and kids, and even then good luck.
@greg interested to hear your take. You have kids? Divorced? Drop some knowledge OG
@@ITR1329 I’m the pretty typical story eh. Was married 25, I left a shit situation and divorced, 2 kids grown, lost half a military pension, 2 houses, thousands etc lol. Got unplugged, went through a period of typical red pill rage. Casey here was one of the first places I discovered. Like me, his tone and demeanor seems to have evolved. I guess when the stuff no longer pisses you off because you understand that it’s just human nature, you’re good to go, or at least I am. He and others have really been a blessing along the way for sure.
As a Christian godly woman. We are convicted by God to be honest, loving, respectful towards our husband. Nobodies perfect. Unfortunately most men choose women based off of their bodies and physical attraction. Not her heart, her character, emotional maturity and her convictions. I hope men wake up and take responsibility for their part in choosing the wrong partner. And vice versa.
Exactly. I'm a Christian woman and we were best friends for 10 years. He has never been happier and treats me like a precious flower. God is our foundation. Not the world. This post is awful.
exactly
Best video so far. I was in an abusive relationship with a master manipulator with Borderline Personality Disorder. Same thing, I started checking out of the relationship, she escalated the abuse to violence and suicide threats. Truly shocking
I spent about 5 years trying to get away from a borderline personality disorder woman. it was one of the most horrifying times in my whole life. no matter how abusive she was or how insulting hostile, combative or brawling she would never leave. That's part of the illness. you can even ask them if I'm worse than Hitler, As you say I am, why don't you just leave? Her response was she doesn't give up that easy! Boy I said really? You don't give up on Hitler, huh? Question mark her no. When I finally got rid of her I never tried to contact her again and never missed her a day in my life. B p d is one of the closest things the demon possession I have ever seen in a mental illness. But it is one of the most common mental illnesses for all women.
Same brother. Stay strong 💪
Once you go through at least 50 girls, you would know within the first month which one is normal, raised properly with a father present and which ones are borderlines, narcissistic or histrionics. This one might be borderline with abandonment issues as well as narcissistic diagnose criteria (rage).
I had one of those back in the day, country’s’ beauty pageant winner. I called cops on her multiple times until I sent her packing. Best decision I made at the time- if they are threatening like that, walk away for a few minutes and call cops for assistance, telling them on recorded line your girlfriend is unreasonable and threatening. This will do magic, safest way to exist in current misandrinistic climate.
Truth. Just be careful because "man bad" is the automatic assumption when you call. The problem is most men can't get 50+ ladies with a tiny chance that one is a keeper. They are lucky to get 5 of lower quality. It's like finding a new Maserati at a used car lot. I've seen zillions of thirsty cels when I was in the Far East. Out of thirst they will marry, support an extended family, buy land they can't title, etc. Extreme thirst, like 40 years in the dessert (not just 40 days).
If you have a nuanced understanding of psychology, you can figure most of this out on the first date. I'd argue it's crucial for any man living in this cultural climate to take the time to learn this skill.
It's funny how women call men "incels" (meaning you don't get laid) and "misogynists" when men disagree with them. When really it's the simps and cucks who are the incels and misogynists. Men who agree with and respect women are the ones who haven't been laid, and they claim to love and respect women hoping it gets them laid, because deep down they see women solely as objects. It's the men who have been with a lot of different women, gotten laid plenty, and who have gotten a wide range of life experience with all kinds of different women who become aware of how women generally are, and therefore inevitably come to lose respect and love for women.
@@joseph6243 yeah, a borderline will tell you on the first date, that she's borderline.
It's always one of three fantasies they have.
Should you feel like, you wanna safe her, then you need to address your own issues. Should you carry on with her, you both get trauma bonded.
@@joseph6243 first a man needs to learn to understand what's peace, understanding of the silence and look within himself, once he has the peace. Weeding out people gets so much easier, you read through sentences and what do they say!!
Am just here to say love is a beutiful thing❤ Having been married for 14years, i wouldnt trade it for the world. Having kids, seeing them grow and participating in that process has been the happiest part of my life. Work and making money are good too, but fatherhood has my greatest joy. I know the red pill movement demonises marriage but it just depends who you marry. Just become better at choosing women. Dont go only for looks but humility. Most of these horro stories come because of going for looks alone
I’m married 25 years.
You couldn’t be more right.
@@sundown6748 thanks and congratulations on 25 years. Wishing you more years going forward. I hope to reach that number too😊 Finding a person you can live with happily for that long is truly a blessing
Getting ptsd just listening to this. I can definitely say this is true. U have no idea what a woman is capable of when she isnt getting her way.
I related to this so much. Down to little details like how my ex wrapped her whole body around my leg to try and stop me from leaving. She did much more than that too to stop me from leaving. Even when I told her I wasn’t leaving her, I just need to be away from her for a few hours, she wouldn’t allow it. And like you said your options are so limited as a man in confrontation with a woman. Also so true what you said about women having little to no ability to handle rejection because they don’t face it like guys do. I ended up going to jail multiple times and paying thousands to courts and lawyers for domestic violence cases. So consider yourself lucky.
While this woman definitely sounds bizarre. You were still a great jerk. That’s the problem with premarital sex. Just in the middle of an inmate relationship designed strictly for marriage. You just decide. You can get better. You’re making all the money. And announce you want to delete the relationship. I would say you were the initial jerk.
I’ve experienced several suicide attempts by my ex girlfriends and assaulted by them. I was also falsely accused of abuse by them and cheated on. When women don’t get what they want or a man decides to leave 99% of the time women will go berserk shiittt bat crazy so yeah I agree with you don’t risk it it ain’t worth it.
You men don’t understand women at all you deserve to be single and alone
Thx for ur transparency man. That’s bad ass
I’ve experienced this type of evil too. What’s sad is that there are men in jail/prison right now because of this type of evil.
You have NPD and she has BPD .. got it.
This story should be told to every young man.
This story should be teached in schools 😂
@@Uncle.Krueger *Taught :)
100's of them!
He didn't learn anything useful from his situation. Men need to record themselves 24/7 (bodycam, etc). There are cases of women accusing men of assault and ruining their lives when they never even met. That's right, a woman doesn't need to have EVER seen you to accuse you and ruin your life.
god/karma is always watching@@jamesjonnes yes, I believe in that at some level.
This is a GREAT act of public service.
I have advised many friends to never live with a woman and they laugh at me and say, “this is different.” Two years later they are wishing they had listened to me.
Everyone always laughs and says “she’s different” yet everyone always has the same story
My friends had this thing of live with a girl, it will be good. I am just thinking these stupid people don't understand, a woman is out there gives me a chance to dress good, hunt but also stay in contact with others, bring my friends, have a life but if I live with a girl, fml.
Some guys never listen
Its very easy for a woman to get in the head of a guy
@@abdirahmanabdullahi8142Some guys?🤭
I completely agree with everything you said, brother. It's a difficult and painful lesson to learn but unfortunately all real men who desire to live thier own lives free from the old school mentality of believing that a woman makes your life complete, have to experience this nightmare.
I had this happen to me. I tried to leave the apartment, she tried to block me, I tried to leave anyway, and then she called the cops and accused me of hitting her and being threatening to her, when all I did was try to get out and get a time-out from her crazy and totally irrational screaming argument. The apartment was mine, I was paying for everything, and yea, you get the drift. Luckily when the police came, and they talked to us separately, the police officers came to me and told me that they could see nothing was done, and that she had over-reacted a hell of a lot. So they just left and told us to get counceling. That day changed everything. I still gave her a 2nd chance that lasted a long time, but could never ever trust her the same way ever again, cause she had shown me what crazy shit she would do just to get her way... Ever since, I would never consider getting married, I would never consider living with a woman without having proper contracts in place, and if I ever end up in a similar situation ever again, I will record the audio of the argument just to have some evidence in case I ever experience something like that again. Some of these women are batshit crazy, and they are really willing to play insane cards like this and use their position as the "weaker sex" to their advantage, and they are willing to totally destroy a mans career and reputation just to get their way. It's so disgusting, while at the same time they go out and preach about "girl power", empowering women, being a strong woman and so on in social media. It's disgusting to witness the double-standard and hypocrisy that some modern day women have. And sadly it took almost two years and a huge argument for this to reveal itself, so... Tread carefully guys.
Watching this video 6 months after it was made. I have also had a women falsely accuse me of domestic violence because I told her to leave MY APARTMENT. She texted the police on her Apple Watch, it was so evil I’ve never experienced anything like it. I figured the cops would come, see how she has no marks or no signs of bruising they would leave. Despite no marks or any sign of abuse on her I was arrested and spent 3 nights in jail…When prosecutors actually saw the evidence, or lack thereof, charges were dropped. The whole experience screwed me up mentally and cost me a high paying job because of it.
It's all about money. They don't care who's right or wrong. It costs money to prove you're innocent. That's America
Elaborate. You commanded she get out in a loud voice?? Was that what prompted her to call the cops?
@@bonsummers2657 Not particularly loud or aggressive I just told her to get out pretty bluntly after an argument.
Isn't it you that wanted to pretend to play house with all its benefits and now your surprised that she's upset when you cut off your fake marriage?
That part!
A woman who is willing to file a false domestic violence charge against you can ruin your life with a simple phone call and there is nothing you can do to stop it…even if you’re innocent. Those who think otherwise are naive and haven’t experienced the system firsthand…like some of us
Well said. And there is no evidence required. You WILL go to jail. The one with the balls always gets taken away. You will lose your property. You will get a life time criminal record. The female judge WILL screw you over. The bent cop WILL believe the woman. The law is an ASS. Fu.. women and FU.. bent cops.
If you had your life ruined by a single phone call it means you are powerless and that itself should be your main worry. From intellectual standpoint, you have nobody to blame but yourself. From moral standpoint, you can blame the person who did that to you and ask yourself why would you get involved in the first place.
This would never happen to me not only because I'm aromantic but also because I would have taken precautions in advance.
@@portalsevilThen you're a sitting duck that is just waiting to be picked off by a girl with borderline personality disorder. The fact that you think you can't be reached is proof that you can be
@@portalsevilyou really believe you got it figured out. Could never make a mistake. See all potential pitfalls 😂
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Why dont u guys use the good old counter. "If u call the cops and i get charged, be sure that i will hunt u down in ur sleep". If that doesnt work u'll have nothing to lose since she already ruined ur life.
I had the exact same scenario play out for me, the girl I thought loved me and cared about me threated me with police reports and even went as far as to slander my name to her circle and even my circle. When I walked away from the relationship all this came out from the person I thought wanted the best for me.