How to always look PRETTY and POLISHED ✨ 6 tips
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Everyone pressed that I was embarrassed about the coochie bush 😂 as much as you say you wouldn't be, you would - it's a case of “you had to he there” … than qqqqq
i promise you no medical professional cared or was "laughing at you." it was all in your head/fueled by your own insecurities, judgment, self-hate, etc. regarding how brown women's pubes look naturally. it's not like you were dirty or unhygienic, you just had a full bush, as most women did, for thousands and thousands of years.
I don't think people are pressed, it's just a little silly tbh. None of the professionals cared, they don't get paid to care about your bush. What is never glamorous or feminine is thinking the world is thinking that much about you.
@@holliesaraswat6241my thoughts exactly, no one is thinking about those things during a medical emergency. Seems awfully self centered to think that people are thinking that hard about whether you shaved or not 🤣 as someone who sees people nude often in my profession, I don't think about my clients when I go home, I think about my own life and what I have going on 🤣
Omg I would have died. I’ve been there when I went into labor. 🫠😐🤌🏼 Low Key died.
the point is, the priority is to save your life and heal you. They are medical professionals and they are familiar with the natural human body.
As someone who works in the operating room daily, shaved legs, waxed anything are not a concern. We see every possible thing you can imagine. EVERYTHING. People from all walks of life, those who cannot care for themselves, people who dont care about shaving anything. No one is worried about that for surgery. When they “prep you for appendectomy, they’re not giving you a Brazilian. They’ll shave your abdomen if needed. I can’t speak for your experience. But this is generally the case.
When I had to get an angiogram, they shaved half my cooch😅 I didn’t care though I was more concerned with me not dying of a stroke.
I've had an appendectomy and nothing was shaved😂
@@Giraffe27 you have your priorities straight, being a good looking corpse does not help you at all.
As an emergency room nurse I came here to say this too. We see everything an anything with no judgement
@@DaYPaPsSssome people in the medical field say things that are judgmental but that’s everywhere. I guess we really gotta work on loving ourselves so when people say mean things it doesn’t hurt. No matter who they are.
As a massage therapist I don’t care if people shave their legs or not. It doesn’t bother me, my colleagues and it shouldn’t bother medical professionals.
It literally does not. I’m an esthetician and within 5 mins of meeting someone they show you their most vulnerable parts. Who am I to judge? I’ve seen just about everything so the last thing I’m worried about is someone’s body hair.
Same.
You don't? I thought it was rude not to shave my legs before massage, isn't it uncomfortable with too much texture on legs?
@@mpGreen03 why would it be rude...?
@@annierminx because it would provide "stabby" feeling for massage therapist, when leg hairs are short they are kind of sharper, when you brush your leg with the hand it feels uncomfortable so I could never do leg massage with people who have stubby hairs, texture would drive me insane. I assumed that massage therapist feels kind of same?
My fiancé just bought me all Tiffany jewelry because I got tired of switching jewelry everyday so I just wear everything everyday and scrub them in the shower and remove them once a month to have them polished at the store. I ditched trends and my uniform is just a dress and heels and flower in my hair. My life is easier. I got rid of fake nails and just do natural nails with gel paint. I was exhausted before and now my life is easy
As the health care professional in the situation, I really try NOT to think about my patients pubes. I can’t imagine thinking about them long enough to have an opinion on them.
I’ve learned a lot from this woman, and I get the sentiment of taking care of yourself to make yourself feel better. But this seems a little extreme. I cannot imagine having a medical emergency and being anxious and worried over whether or not my nails are done. It sounds like such a stressful and EXHAUSTING way to live.
I was saying the same thing!!!
I’ve been laughed at at a hospital for what she is talking about.
As a healthcare worker, listen to me when I say, WE DONT CARE IN THE SLIGHTEST. We've truly seen it all. And by all, I mean much worse than you can imagine. If all you have is hair on your body (as opposed to bedbugs, maggots, etc.) it's fine. I promise YOU are bothered more about being "unshaved" than we are.
I'm a taurus too and completely relate, give me comfort, luxury, and stability. I always keep it together: exfoliate, wax, mani/pedi, hair cut/color, skin care, well rested, hydrated etc because I don't want to be caught in a situation. same goes for my home, I don't leave messes anywhere.
This whole mindset is south sis. We take care of ourselves to pamper and treat ourselves not out of body shame! Enjoy your routine to get in a better mood and to feel better about yourself for doing your body good. All humans knows the body nature it would be absolutely ridiculous to give that much thought to such subtle things. Hygiene and good spirit are enough for anyone to look up at others. I personally like to think that im releasing all the bad energy from my mind and body when doing the full special body care, when i get my period or when i take long relaxing showers and it works like a charm in taking me to that happy peaceful state
Honestly, maintenance is expensive, I'd invest in good skincare and hair care above everything else .Look clean and smell fresh :)
I have been through cholecystectomy and trust me no one in the entire hospital care about your body hair. They do shave the abdomen and areas nearby to prevent infections but as of your other parts, they are least bothered. If your medical staff or doctor makes you feel embarrassed about anything, they aren't a trained professional.
I personally like the way you think! I searched, “how to be a more put together woman”. I’m tired of always being a mess. Trying new things just because they’re in, knowing damn well they don’t look good on me…makeup .. recently I’ve learned less is more , literally. Clean is best and skin care is best.
I think you’re brave for talking about your insecurities.. don’t listen to negativity.
thank you so much, this is exactly it! You get noise if you admit an insecurity and you get noise if you don't - cant win! But glad we're aligned :)
Yes I agree, I want to be more put together everytime I leave my house! you never know who you may run into... Iv met Alot of people over the years. Id hate to run into one of them ten years later looking a hot mess, heck naw😂, Even if I'm running to the corner store. I still gotta be looking
decent at least
I had laser to remove my leg, armpit an bikiny hair, I’m frugal and minimalist person and that was my best purchase.
Thank you so much for this video!!! I lived most of my life as a Tom boy and have serious battles with depression. Making myself look put together really helps to keep depression at bay.
I don't get my nails done but I do press-ons that last for a month. I love looking a little less homely and more feminine.
Its not about the hair on the body its about the health of the person. Greetings from a German doctor.
I also had an appendectomy with a bush.. literally health care workers don’t care. They’ve seen way worse.
The only thing I have an issue with is pastel colors for clothes. As a brown skinned woman, not all pastels will work for me. I’ll stick with navy, gray, plum, emerald, and burgundy.
I love all your videos. And huge fan of you bringing classy back in a world of nudity and trashy women behavior. But ☝🏼 my best friend is a highly respected trauma surgeon as is her husband. I sent this video to her. She said “
When it comes to saving lives we have seen it all. From young boys with electric toothbrushes up their ass all the way to limbs being blown off. We don’t care about pubic hair. We care about our patient and saving their lives. That is what we took a medical oath to do “
If you have given birth… you do not care what medical professionals think of your private grooming or lack of 😂😂
They see women poop during labor all the time!
I keep my nails natural- the fake ones destroy 😈
Also ladies you can be very happy married and not wax! Your man wants back rubs, romantic dinners watch the game with him - not a pre-pubescent hoo-ha 😂😂
take care of your hair skin and nails but put more time into your relationship 🙏🏽
Yeah don’t worry women are gonna have hair this is part of our natural biology we can’t always be perfect and polished at all times. Jesus!
Right? When I was told I needed to have an emergency induction the last thing I was thinking about was my pubes!
Thank you so much for this video. I am 32, and got the handsomest polished looking man, and it always makes me feel underpolished, because...I am. And it doesn't feel good to be the woman in the relationship yet be the most underpolished one. I miss some of the most important details. When I was in my teens and early 20s, I was always looking polished. But then, a personal crisis happened, leading me to abandon my life and all my belongings and live like a hermit pretty much, and for years, I forgot how to even shop nice things for myself. Now that I am back to a normal life, I want to return to look modestly polished. And this video really reminded me of all the details I have forgotten about. When life happens, death, loss, grief, huge changes, it can really downprioritize this important aspect in our lives. And if left downprioritized, it is often forgotten with time, and we end up not minding that we look like homeless people. Well I am DONE being okay looking like a homeless person, especially when I am a beautiful middle eastern woman, who could use a bit of polishing!
I freaking love this woman❤ thank u for thinking of us. Women need one another and I appreciate you
That is so sweet ❤️
Vickita, I just realized that I wasn’t subscribed to your channel 🤯 I just fixed that, but you telling your story is HILARIOUS 🤣 I laughed out loud a few times. I hope you’re relieved to know that as a nurse, I’m not surprised. I worked in the ER for a time and have seen many “unprepared” patients. It is what it is! I’m sure it’ll stick with your for the rest of your life, but for your care team, it was “just another day in the office, living the dream” 😂 Don’t be too hard on yourself. Everyone is human!
Also, I can assure you- they’ve seen worse 🤷🏻♀️
hahahaha love u
You're truly my gal Vikita. To be able to be honest like that as a service to friends and others is the most selfless thing one can do. Thank you, this video really helped me alot. Thank you ...thank you...thank you.
girly, i agree with everything except the shaving before going under surgery. absolutely no surgeon in their right mind cares whether you have hair or anything down there.
I can understand about “being ready” in general; but using an emergency appendectomy example to convince the viewers that your behavior is warranted is ridiculous! When I had mine removed, this was thee last thing on my mind before it’s removal. I feel you are a lot younger than me, which isn’t a dig on you as far as maturity is concerned, just realizing that an organ being surgically removed out of your body and being worried about what your forest looks like and whatever else you were esthetically concerned with seems nil at best.
Yes, I cringed at that story because I was expecting some super embarrassing thing and then it was like, OMG I didn't shave my bush?? That was just 🥴🙄 There are so many channels like these out there, and it's usually very young women obsessed with being and looking perfect. That's what young women care about because of biology and feeling that they need to compete for a "high value" man to mate with. They will learn soon enough that it was all a waste of time and getting a man is not hard 😂 what's hard is getting rid of them, which is what you want to do when you wisen up and realize they are all mostly selfish and annoying 😂
My water broke earlier than usual and I didn’t have time to shave… I was not thinking about the pain of child birth rather what they’ll see when I’m pushing… so humiliating, I make SURE now to always be waxed and ready
I had a similar thought on that as well.😅 I totally understand her point, and whatever we find personally embarrassing is different for all of us. 🤷♀️ For me, part of how I felt l'd leveled up in confidence is when I stopped caring and recognized that everyone has moments like that. And especially in the medical field, they don't care, it's another work day for them, and your dark lush forest is one of the best things they've seen by comparison, trust me. 😂😅
FACTS! I unsubscribed cause her tips are incredibly unrealistic. I saw one video and then I started seeing more and while I agree with some of her content, what works for her might not always work for others.
Yeah docs don’t even notice. Literally they are numb to that stuff.
As a slightly older & elegant woman, it's amazing to think that back in the day - we ONLY had magazines re Vogue, Mademoiselle & Cosmopolitan, etc. to figure this all out ... No Pinterest boards for literally everything! Anyway, I just found your UA-cam channel (L❤VE it!) over the weekend - as I'm home sick with a cold ... 🥰
Body hair is literally normal and natural and should not be anyone's main concern in a medical emergency. No shame in having a normal human body.
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This is a new level of vain when the first thought you have during a life threatening emergency is "my pubes aren't shaved"
Lol that story was so funny. I always wondered how some ppl always looked so put together. So now I keep myself more organized and try to always have simple outfits ready in my closet, and I try to keep my locks maintained enough if I need go to go out.
you talk about exactly what I've been looking for and also what I needed! you're the best for self Improvement ! omg I love you
I love how real you are THANK YOU
I just could not agree more, this is so true! And thanks for being so brave to tell the surgery story, i could never 😭
I'm so glad now I have time to take care of it all. Thanks for uplifting videos. Your work is important for those women, who are being brainwashed to not care about themselves and be martyrs in their families (most of the time it's not appreciated at all) or someone else is lazy and don't want you to look after yourself either. Petty.
I understand that women want to look good all the time. and thank you for some tips. But, I also believe women should heal their internal fear of ending up being alone, because of not being perfect. As when this is healed, you can still do all this outside self care/maintanance but from completely different energy. We were made to believe, that without it all, we look and are trash and worthless. Every woman needs to heal this. And every single one of us, would need to once in a while go out there, into wild nature, rainforest, countryside, to be wild, imperfect, unshaved, without make up, without it all, having shamanic ceremony (you won't care about any of it :D) having ecstatic dance, ....and feel our wilderness, freedom, and true essence, as that is what we are. Wild and powerful, with or without make up..... :)
The authenticity!!! I love this lol
hair removal has traumatized me. I only stick to shaving my armpits and lower legs once every 3 months
The video I needed !!! Simple stuff you don’t think about
you are so fun to listen to! i love your delivery
Loved watching this. Funny and great tips😂
I cant express how thankful I am to this lady......she completely changed my life for the best....lots of love dua and good wishes....let her karma give her the best things in the world❤❤❤❤
Lmaooo I frkn love your honesty , legit it’s 🤌🏾🩵
So glad I found your channel ❤
I know that's embarrassing but doctors don't care about how you groom yourself down there, especially during an emergency surgery.
I can’t imagine being this self conscious. I gave birth twice and didn’t give a fuck! I never take more than 10 minutes to get ready. I guess I’m naturally good looking.
Wow this video saved my life! I love how you cut out all the Bullshit & went straight to what we need. Bam done! Liked subbed & hit that bell so fast.💕tyyyy!!!
I am subscribing! I love your fun attitude and your tips!
thank you!!
Yess maintenance routine will start doing this!!!
If you do use colored eyeshadow, make sure it's colors that make your natural eyecolor pop.
For me, I have blue-green eyes, so I like to wear pink and purple eyeshadows because they compliment my eyes and provide a decent contrast.
For brown eyes, try a green or a gold. Maybe a red-ish orange, depending on your skin undertones.
Colored eyeshadow can be lovely and classy as long as you make sure that it looks appropriate with what you're wearing and it compliments your eyes.
I watched another video of yours and thought “I just know she’s a taurus” (because I am too and connected so much with you and what you were saying) then watched this video. Taurus confirmed! ❤️
hahaha i love taurus' - glad to have a fellow one here ❤️
Nothing is more attractive than a secure and confident woman that commands respect becausethey exude class and integrity. Looking good but being without substance doesn't make you a high value woman, it makes you a show piece.
Okay ppl who is this person, and why am I just finding her now? I am so happy, ❤ thank you!!
i’m so obsessed
I really enjoy your content, but I've been to hospitals too often and needed due to health issues too often help with doing "my businnes", washing my body, even after diarrhia.. At this point I'm not ashamed anymore for hair thats naturally growing on my body. Though, I'm so thankful for all the nurses, doctors e.g. for helping me in these hard situations, where I couldn't care for myself.
Awesome content!
Omgg i knew i liked you for a reason!! I’m a Taurus as well and i feel you!! 😅😅💕💕
I wanna say that getting your nails done on your own nails is between 30 to 85$ eye lashes extentions between 50 to 150. Hair don't get me started... if I were to do everything to always look perfect id lose my flat...
Agreed! That’s why I made a video on my at-home budget friendly maintenance routine :)
You can buy allll the things and do them all yourself. For way cheap 🤗
So true and I know many working moms who get these things done and pay for them with their own money!! It’s crazy. I do them at home since I’m a stay at home mom and save hundreds if not thousands compared to some friends and family members and it looks just as good. Glue on nails, glue on wispy half lashes, diy butterfly cut based on a tutorial. I use a lot of dollar tree makeup too and skincare because I used to blow money on expensive stuff from Sephora and realized that it wasn’t any better and what really matters is technique. Most makeup nowadays is modern formulation. I do however get my favorite foundation from the drugstore that I know won’t slide off my face and will look good.
@anastasiya8314 i don't have kids yet. I am studying at university while working, and just for one semester is about $ 5000, so I feel you. Right now, I am investing in my future. I can't go out and spend all that money on beauty. I started doing my own haircuts, color, hair treatments, and skin cleanser and oils at home.and guess what? I have never been healthier.
Love your energy 💓
I love your look in this video :) beautiful!~
Just subscribed. Great video❤
My fav romcom! “ can’t hear & can’t see”!
About the forest story. I totaly understand. Thanks for ge reminder. 😂
Oh my goodness!!! I am so happy I found this video! I agree with everything you said in this video girl😊 I learn a lot! So thank you for inspiring me to start my beauty maintenance daily for myself ❤ because I do need it and want to feel and look sexy and gorgeous every day!!! 😊 thank you again
God bless you ❤
omg i love you keep going pleaseee i need your channel to survive
I’m a Taurus ♉️ and I’m your new subscriber ❤
I agree about loving yourself and self care , but makeup daily is going to ruin your self confidence not build it. And half shaven leg 🦵 would be the last thing one my mind when I have medical emergency. And I always have a full shiny bush down 👇...
Agreed
Bush 365 days for me.
i was stunned that she was thinking about body hair b4 surgery😂😂 medical professionals had seen the worst, they shouldnt be caring about body hair- the most normal and natural thing on humans
Love this! Just subscribed! Looking forward to seeing more content like this! Do you have a video on frizzy hair? I feel like that’s an instant deterrent from your image too! How to handle it out of shower and while styling and keeping it unfrizzy through out the day! With affordable and both luxury products but def affordable!
omg i do and ill definitely do a video!
@@VickitaTrivedi thank you queen 👸🏼
Try a Brazilian smoothing treatment. It will last for close to 6 months and it makes your life easier for that long. It’s an investment but worth it!
@@goldenparachute392 thank you! :)
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Taurus ♉️ I knew there was a reason I adored you 😍🥰😘
Frost yourself 😂 how to lose a guy in 10 days love it. So true about jewlery and perfume instant elevation !
We professionals have seen a lot of forests, our focus is on your health. It’s so common we don’t even notice it. Because we’re not bushmen, we’re healers
Im laughing so hard about the story! I can relate!!!😂
OMG thank you so much for sharing your hospital story 😂 I went through nearly the same experience. I got involved into a car accident and had to get x-ray, was hairy like a bear allover and wearing such an ugly underwear 🫣 because i thought well, I’m just quickly going for groceries… and the doctor examining me was so damn hot 😅 learned my lessons from that!
Vickita Trivedi, you are such a beauty.
😂😂😂Love it!!
😂 love your humor haha
Love the eyebrows.
As a nurse, no one is concerned with your pubic area.
Lol, I kind of rolled my eyes about being embarrassed in the emergency room thing. BUUT then I remembered the time I went to get a pedicure and the lady was rubbing my legs, looked up at me and said, "Oh, we do waxing too ya know!!" LOL I have shaved my legs every time before getting a pedicure since XD
Where do you get your lasting jewelry from? ♥️
You should show your jwellery. It looks amazing
Also your make up. What brands you use.
I also had an appendicitis during covid! I felt sooooo much pain i just wanted it to be over already. They ended up finding a malignant cancer on my appendix. If it had bursted 😳 sheeeesh
You are absolutely gorgeous!
aw thank you!!
i had the same surgery and they sure do be all down there had it on october 11
Where you recommend getting a good wuality ring set from, like the ones you have !❤
MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS!
Thanks a lot ❤
Ahhh I am old one time we just put up with the bush and say well that is biology, men never shaved their hair and women kind of just shaved their legs, in Europe I heard they never even bothered to do that much less anything else. Pornography is the only reason why anyone started to get this idea of shaving down there, no one thought of it because well we were still recovering from Victorian prudery about such.
when she threads my eyebrows, they always look very blocky, laminated after threading. is there something known as light threading?? like is there a way to thread only a few hairs, kinda make it look bushy still and not perfectly threaded? thanks
hey! okay so, i really have trouble going to do my eyebrows. im naturally a little more hairy than some girls so my face has hair which obviously cannot be seen but it is there and when the lady threads my eyebrows, it looks like the part around the eyebrows is full white clean hairless and then u can see that i have a lil hair on the rest of my face( its not hair, its like peach fuzz hair idk ). soooo i never do my eyebrows. is there a soln to it? also v imp, when she threads my eyebrows, they always look very blocky, laminated after threading. is there something known as light threading?? like is there a way to thread only a few hairs, kinda make it look bushy still and not perfectly threaded? thanks
What would you say is a good jewlery company that is good for not turning green?
Three minutes in and I’m about to jump in the shower and scrub / shave my body.
Anyone have any good recommendations for jewelry brands that use quality material without breaking the wallet? But I am also happy to hear about the expensive brands too!!
Woman of New York Frost yourselves ❤
Okay I was like who is this girl telling me I look cheap I totally expected to watch this video and be like oh no but I love you you definitely did it perfectly good job and you're right I do look cheap😂
Where is your necklace from?
If it makes you feel any better, I’m an OR nurse and I can assure you in all ORs I’ve worked no one pays attention to body hair. We’ve seen so many naked people it doesn’t even phase us. The only time body hair is considered is if we need to prep that area with an alcohol solution called Choraprep. If it is applied over hair, it’s a major fire risk, so we shave it. For a lap appendectomy, you should have had only your abdomen prepped.
Being an OR nurse has made me appreciate how everyone is so unique and beautiful in their own ways.
Let's go Bull gang! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I love this
thanks !!
hilarious and good advice
Hahahahahah once I fell and hurt my elbow and a guy at work got so worried and asked me to roll my sleeve up so that he could look… I swear only if my arms were waxed that day I would have been babied, but no way I was showing my arm hairs 😂😂😂
Shaving them in the shower just once a week keeps arms effortlessly smooth
My husband works in the surgical unit and is present for the prep work. They don't care at all. They prep and see multiple people every single day, they become immune to it. I understand being embarrassed, but I guarantee if they're good health care workers they're now judging.❤
I know a very wealthy lady who works in the food industry. She cannot wear nail polish, lash extensions or makeup to work as it goes against hygienic protocols and she was setting an example for other workers to remain clean. Yet she always look classy and elegant wearing modest well-made clothing and by the way she carries herself. Ladies, you do not need all the maintenance to look presentable. It is fine to stick to the basics. (great if you want to treat yourself)
I get that but on this channel we love doing all the extra feminine things 😍
personally i don't find the brushed up eyebrows, long nails, messy bun, and clumpy fake eyelashes look "polished". it makes people look cheap and when i see long nails i automatically think you've got gunk underneath them so i think they're unhygienic looking. polished to me is light makeup to accentuate natural beauty, short manicured nails, healthy and neatly done hair, classic outfit (jeans and a t shirt or sweater), and wearing a signature perfume. but i prefer the more effortlessly beautiful, model off-duty kind of vibe on women.
If you don’t have anything nice to say… you shouldn’t say it… this was definitely a back handed comment… this woman is obviously self conscious and putting immense effort into herself and you decided to pick at all of her efforts … whether you agree or disagree isn’t the point .. it’s how you said it
@@Ravenortara she clearly is self-conscious. it's one thing to give women advice on how they can upgrade themselves (for example building a good wardrobe, doing workout classes) but it's another to project your own personal beauty standards onto other women which is what she's doing. many women that aren't well-traveled don't realize that beauty standards are very region-dependent. where i'm from (NYC) the women don't wear heavy makeup yet they all look very pretty, polished, and feminine. women here focus more on fashion. fake lashes, spray tan, and wearing too many cheap accessories might be cute in alabama, but it's not considered attractive here.
@@rocket4444Um I lived in NYC and ppl definitely wear makeup. Also no one is saying you need a full face of makeup everyday. If you just want to put moisturizer and spf then go ahead. Also jeans and a t-shirt isn't classic it's pretty basic and boy/girl next door which is fine but that's not what this video is about.
I agree 100%! In my 30s I didn't have to try, I always dressed down and was always natural in appearance. I found less is more and natural face or light makeup was best and always got the men turning their heads towards me. I'm in southeast of Texas and when it gets humid forget the makeup, the hair and nice clothes bc the humidity will remove it and your hair will fall regardless how much product you have on, your clothes get wet from the sweating from the parking lot to the mall, sweat ruining your makeup. 17 years later I haven't changed a thing and I look younger then the 20 and 30 yr old women bc of all the products they put on their faces from all the chemicals in the products they use, no thank you. For me, I've always kept it natural and had guys waiting in line compared to the women who were dolled up. This "High Valued Woman" nonsense isn't an appearance, a fasion, a trend and that's something women need to understand. Just bc you dress like a so called "High Valued Woman" doesn't mean that they are. How many women even know what that is? I was raised by a mother and grandmother who instilled morals and values in me such as respecting myself, others and my body. I value myself and was married once and have been divorced 17 years and chose to be single in order to raise my children with stability without the interference of many men. Instead, instilling in my children that education is important, morals, values, respect, decency, character, traits and investing in themselves and that their future is priority and saving themselves self for that special perosn and for their self well being. What's my body count? 1, yeah just one. Now my children are grown and I live my life and forget dating with all the nonsense. A "High Valued Woman" isn't playing dress up. These women won't ever understand what a HVW is, until they see someone set that example. Both men and women are in dire need of a true example of a "High Valued Man and Woman." Anyone can put a dress and lipstick on a pig but that won't make the pig a "High Valued Peacock."
Ok now show us the makeup and beauty routine that you want men to do!!!