Oh! I'm an introvert but I love to greet & socialize. I dont have to think twice whenever I see a cat or a dog (one time I saw a meerkat) & I talk to them; tell them how cute they are, ask them abt their day, & thank them for letting me pet them. Socializing with pets makes me feel so energized that sometimes I party with my cats. 😂🎉❤ In a crowd of people, I can easily see them. I love being in a park where I see lots of them & they ask food from me. 😅
I’ve always said being around other people don’t recharge me, but being by myself is what recharges me and makes me happier to see others when I have to.
The isolation during Covid was so stress free and relaxing. I realized how much I enjoyed doing things by myself and not having to worry about someone else.
Covid isolation was almost a relief to me! My hubby worked from home but I only saw him for lunch and when his work day was over and we loved our evenings together! No more long commute! I loved no one expecting me to go or do anything! No more demands on my time! People stress me out! 😂
Hear you Stacy about demands on your time. No one could volunteer me. And it gave me an oportunity to turn loose of some previous commintments. We werent alone..Heard from lots of young parents that enjoyed getting off the exhausting rat race of running kids to endless activities. Tried to be carefui saying anything since it was such a horrible time for so many. Why later concerned about post. Enjoyed and relieved by your confirming comments.
It was said that COVID would tell us a lot about ourselves .maybe if we did not want to admit it. 😢 However now that I am in my late seventies it does not work. All of my relatives are deceased . I have. Had
It's more about not giving a shit about pleasing anyone else as you get older, not so much that you didn't always like being alone@@bulletsfordinner8307
@@loislewis5229 The pandemic was very telling (irrespective of the tragedy) it helped every Introvert to relax & stop feeling pressured. Meanwhile it was shocking to see to see so many others absolutely losing their minds!!! Within a few weeks they went from boredom to outrageous ANGER & still talking about it like it was the government's fault??! But yes, it was a gift for many of us & gave us time to connect with precious animals (inside & out) and nature. 🤍
I understand how much you enjoy your alone time. Even as a child, I was not a joiner of groups and still, many decades later, prefer a small social circle and lots of time on my own. I feel rich having my few excellent friends, but I don’t need to interact with them very often. My beagle, Lucy, provides all the company I need on a daily basis. I feel comfortable in my own skin. Took me years to recognize that gift! 🌸
I'd love hanging out with friends, going to restaurants and swimming etc but don't have friends like that so I'm "forced" to be by myself. I'm also not the best socially due to lack of friends so making new ones is incredibly hard. I've learned to be by myself but don't enjoy it.
Same - the cliques never stopped after yyou get out of school….adults in their 40s act like they never progressed from the superficial junior high maturity level!😳
I love being cut off from everyone! I recently had to cut off a person who I thought was my friend but actually brought more stress into my life than joy. I don’t miss those daily morning texts venting about the stress she had going on in her life😅
I just lost a friendship of 54 years. She and I both more recently enjoy being alone. It seems I became too much of a burden to her and she complained I was always trying to "fix" things. I won't explain further as it will come across as venting LOL!
Omg I just ended my friendship with the same... This chick was so needy and it exhausted me.. I didn't stop being her friend till she stole from me while I was in a coma ... Seriously.. but the theft was worth it to get that garbage out of my life.. FYI I'm not Scott Smith I'm Mrs Smith lol😊
@@JoyceB-qv9xq I hope you’re doing alright. I would think after 54 years you both could talk it out. Your comment stood out to me because I too have had a close (not so much geographically) friend for a little longer than that and have not been happy with our relationship lately. I am the one not coming clean on everything that is eating at me but at the same time can’t imagine just ending the friendship. It’s hard at this age to make close friendships. Again, hope you are doing well.
Your home is absolutely stunning, it is the definition of cosy and hygge! I’m so happy for you to be living in such beautiful surroundings! I’ve bookmarked this video for interior design reference and will come back from time to time to draw inspiration from it :)
I totally get it. Altho I live in LA where people abound, I feel no need to interact. I don’t have social aversion but when I have to rub shoulders with others for a significant amount of time, I need between hours and days to recalibrate. So be it. I love my solo life. There’s great power in being comfortable with standing, and thriving, alone 😊💃💐
I don't relate but I have friends like you and I accept that we will only see each other occasionally and it's usually very low key. I love them for who they are. 🎉
I can absolutely relate. The older I get, the more peace I feel with enjoying my alone time, instead of feeling like I SHOULD be social. You have a beautiful home!
You describe my life, the cabin, the solitude preference, the boyfriend, time spent with the wonderful boyfriend, a few select friends - all of it. Thank you for spelling it out and for LOVING it.
You really are not alone in this. I can’t stand being around people, it stresses me out and I find myself counting down the minutes/hours until I/they leave and I can be in my own little bubble again. I think more and more people are realising that they need alone time like they need oxygen. I’m searching for my quirky cottage in the woods and getting rid of so much stuff that I once believed I wanted/needed. Now I realise I don’t need things I just need space to be alone and I’m more than okay with that. ❤
I relate 100%! I like being alone and reading, making jewelry, watching my Netflix shows, etc. My mom is SUPER social, so she’s constantly inviting me to the pool or to picnics and festivals, etc., and then she texts me all night if I decline and asks if there’s something wrong or something I need to talk about lol. Being independent and enjoying alone time does not automatically equal depression or problems. Wish people would understand this!
Both me and my husband can identify with what you have said! Also a few years ago, a friend moved with her husband from the UK to Spain. She felt she no longer needed a lot of people around her. Thank you for mentioning this, it helps me to understand myself more and to feel less odd. It does look peaceful where you are. Xxx
I absolutely love being alone. I just took two solo vacations this summer and I absolutely get your thought process. And when it comes to friends it's quality over quantity ❤ I love your lifestyle and your home wow.
You are definitely not the only one, I have been feeling this for quite a while and trying to be gentle with myself because before I will feel guilty for not being social enough.
Girl, I've had the same few friends (who I love dearly!) for years and it's like pulling teeth for them to get me to do something. Stress is an understatement....even as a kid I hated socializing.
I definitely can relate, sometimes people make me feel like there’s something wrong with just spending time by myself but that’s where I’m happiest and social interactions just drain me
For introverts, it’s proven that it is an energy drain for us to interact with people. We can do it and be happy and show joy but it does drain us. We have to have our alone time to recharge. Extroverts are the exact opposite! They receive energy from interacting with people and they need to be with people to be happy! Being alone too long is difficult for them! Isn’t this fascinating? And of course, there are people that have mixtures of varying degrees of both qualities! Humans are diverse and complex and oh so wonderful!! ♥️
I can totally relate. Some people try to convince me that it’s not normal and it just makes me want to isolate even more. I’m happy to see that I’m not the only one!
I don't know why enjoying your own company is viewed as unusual. I think having a big group of "friends" is overrated. I'm not into drama or loud functions or group activities. Give me peace and quiet any day!
Love my alone time but I dont mind if I get surrounded by pets. I can talk to them everyday. Oftentimes, I get asked how come I love to do things alone (eg. eat in a restaurant, solo trip for 4-6weeks, watch movies) & they thought I'm just lonely & they offer to join me. What the hell? 😅
Thank you for validating my need for lots of alone time!! I'm happier with no one to please or impress, plus there's no distraction from working on myself. Your cabin is lovely 😍 thank you for sharing 😊
Good for you to be yourself!! I am alone a lot, even though I think I would enjoy more friends, I really like puttering in my home and doing things on my own, painting or writing. My husband and I have been together for 35 years so we are very comfortable together just cooking, reading or watching movies, having long existential philosophy conversations or making plans for our retirement! I was a very happy person to be able to just be myself! You are going to be a very happy person your whole life because you know who you are, and what you like, and are living that way with the support of your family. I have been so lucky to find someone who loves dogs and cats as much as I do, too, so we always rescue! We have to have our beloved cats and dogs as well, and are going to start a charity as soon as we can to help animals and their parents! ❤
Can totally relate and i sometimes struggle to accept this about myself or just simply feel guilty about it and then when i force myself to try and socialize i feel drained and need alone time to recover😂 one aspect where i am different is that i love living in or very close to large cities; just the knowledge that the options are right there at my door puts me somehow at ease
I agree, I am an introvert but I like living in the suburbs of a large metropolitan area. If I want to go get fast food I can go get a burger in 10 minutes, if I need to get groceries a mile away, or even better order them online for pick up. At least if I pick up my groceries it gets me out of the house and sometimes I just like to go for a car ride by myself. When I had a dog I would take him for a ride with me.
I'm similar. I love being alone. On my days off i need to be alone to recharge my batteries for the upcoming workweek. But i yearn for the solitude of the country, the woods, the peacefulness of it, the insects chirping and birds singing. But sometimes i love to visit the city for a few days and stay in a hotel and i always find myself just people watching and loving that they are out their enjoying life. It recharges me in a different way
Definitely can relate to you. I live by myself and am quite isolated, but such a relief to not have to meet other’s expectations, listen to superficial conversations and be criticized by my family. A wonderful sense of freedom! 🥰
Remember sometimes it's not who you need to see but who needs to see you...your probably the calming one in your friendships and they love your company...it's so beautiful there.
Totally understand you, I live with anxiety and seeing others can just be so exhausting. Only ones I am totally relaxed with is myself, my fiancé and my parents.
New to your channel. Love your beautiful location! And i am with you....I love my alone time and I am such a homebody. I did all the things and socialized all the time when I was younger. Now I’m content at home and finding joy in quiet things....reading, drawing, knitting, cooking, watching tv and of course hanging out with my kids and husband. Calm, quiet and peaceful sounds perfect!
I can definitively relate to wanting and being alone!! I love my alone time - not only that but I need it for my mental health. It’s how I recharge my batteries.
You hit it on the nail for me! 100% do I love being alone. Which is weird because I come across as incredibly social when I am around people I remember everyone’s name I have the ability to talk to strangers, especially at a function, where I know no one. However, after this, I need to go home and decompress for at least five days.
I thought I was more like that but I need daily interaction, at least at work, but then love retreating to my own space too. You're so lucky you have family in so many places!
Wow your family is spread all over the globe must be nice to visit them … When you get older you rather be alone, before I was scared to be by myself but now I enjoy it😊
I also realize that any interaction even short one leave me with anxiety, it has become too stressfully for me so i have accepted it and live peacefully with little contact
Yessss! This is me. I didn't quite understand how much social settings stressed me out until I got older. I have a great friend circle but they are few and they are friends I've had since elementary and right out of hs. I completely feel you. I love being drama and stress free. ❤
Welcome to the introvert club! It's a lovely place🫂
Are there three of us already? Tooooo crowdy!
Yes, introverts are very comfortable with alone time!
Oh! I'm an introvert but I love to greet & socialize. I dont have to think twice whenever I see a cat or a dog (one time I saw a meerkat) & I talk to them; tell them how cute they are, ask them abt their day, & thank them for letting me pet them. Socializing with pets makes me feel so energized that sometimes I party with my cats. 😂🎉❤
In a crowd of people, I can easily see them. I love being in a park where I see lots of them & they ask food from me. 😅
Yes ❤
It really is
Alot of people don't understand that being alone is comfortable in its own way.
The older I get the more I like alone time, it's peaceful.
I misunderstood myself when I was younger. Now I get it, unfortunately most people I used to know do.
Lots, and lots of people prefer being alone or with only a few people once in a while. So calming, simple and easy.
I'm the same way. People seem to suck the energy right out of me.
This! My battery is drained after interacting with other people!
Couldnt have said it better. I feel the same way
Same & that’s how it feels I often say yes to things that I don’t want to to get ppl to leave me alone
I call it my social battery. It drains quickly and needs a long time to recharge.
😅can I suck your energy?
I’ve always said being around other people don’t recharge me, but being by myself is what recharges me and makes me happier to see others when I have to.
Most people who are introverts are empaths. Being around other people drains empaths. We have to isolate and recharge after most public outings
It literally sucks the energy out of me & ppl will absolutely bleed you dry
The isolation during Covid was so stress free and relaxing. I realized how much I enjoyed doing things by myself and not having to worry about someone else.
Covid isolation was almost a relief to me! My hubby worked from home but I only saw him for lunch and when his work day was over and we loved our evenings together! No more long commute! I loved no one expecting me to go or do anything! No more demands on my time! People stress me out! 😂
Hear you Stacy about demands on your time. No one could volunteer me. And it gave me an oportunity to turn loose of some previous commintments. We werent alone..Heard from lots of young parents that enjoyed getting off the exhausting rat race of running kids to endless activities. Tried to be carefui saying anything since it was such a horrible time for so many. Why later concerned about post. Enjoyed and relieved by your confirming comments.
It was said that COVID would tell us a lot about ourselves .maybe if we did not want to admit it. 😢 However now that I am in my late seventies it does not work. All of my relatives are deceased . I have. Had
I like my alone time.
I get volunteered for lots.
I say no if it doesn't work for me.
Yes girl, I love being alone. The public in general has just gotten too crazy for me!
Isn’t it wonderful to reach an age when you realize that it’s okay not to be social!!! Such a feeling of freedom.
So true. Then we feel sorry for all those who are still stressed about social issues
It's not so much about an age related thing. One person could have always been like this. I'm an introvert too
The pandemic was no problem for me. I loved the alone time with my doggie 😊
It's more about not giving a shit about pleasing anyone else as you get older, not so much that you didn't always like being alone@@bulletsfordinner8307
@@loislewis5229 The pandemic was very telling (irrespective of the tragedy) it helped every Introvert to relax & stop feeling pressured. Meanwhile it was shocking to see to see so many others absolutely losing their minds!!! Within a few weeks they went from boredom to outrageous ANGER & still talking about it like it was the government's fault??! But yes, it was a gift for many of us & gave us time to connect with precious animals (inside & out) and nature. 🤍
I understand how much you enjoy your alone time. Even as a child, I was not a joiner of groups and still, many decades later, prefer a small social circle and lots of time on my own. I feel rich having my few excellent friends, but I don’t need to interact with them very often. My beagle, Lucy, provides all the company I need on a daily basis. I feel comfortable in my own skin. Took me years to recognize that gift! 🌸
Everything about this video spoke to my soul!! Please post more.
(ps your home is lovely)
Thanks for this video. ❤
Beautiful place ❤. I’m the same ppl stress me out. I adore my alone time it gives me peace to deal worst the anxiety of ppl.
I can relate. I’m an introvert by nature. Alone time is golden!
Me too!!
I used to love company. Now I realize how much I value my alone time. Covid brought the “love myself some me time” out of me. ❤
I'd love hanging out with friends, going to restaurants and swimming etc but don't have friends like that so I'm "forced" to be by myself. I'm also not the best socially due to lack of friends so making new ones is incredibly hard. I've learned to be by myself but don't enjoy it.
I have to have my alone time. Being social stresses me out also. I feel you.
I watched twice because it was so satisfying watching you clean and have everything come together. Love your place!
I definitely prefer my own company except for a few dear friends. I can relate!
Same - the cliques never stopped after yyou get out of school….adults in their 40s act like they never progressed from the superficial junior high maturity level!😳
I have never met anyone who is better company than I am.
I read that as deer friends at first 😂🦌🦌🦌🥰
I love being cut off from everyone! I recently had to cut off a person who I thought was my friend but actually brought more stress into my life than joy. I don’t miss those daily morning texts venting about the stress she had going on in her life😅
Omg that is so important, energy givers not energy takers 🧡
I just lost a friendship of 54 years. She and I both more recently enjoy being alone. It seems I became too much of a burden to her and she complained I was always trying to "fix" things. I won't explain further as it will come across as venting LOL!
Omg I just ended my friendship with the same... This chick was so needy and it exhausted me.. I didn't stop being her friend till she stole from me while I was in a coma ... Seriously.. but the theft was worth it to get that garbage out of my life.. FYI I'm not Scott Smith I'm Mrs Smith lol😊
@@JoyceB-qv9xqIs it really a loss, though? I hope for your sake that it was a mutually agreed-upon separation. People grow apart and that's okay. 🥰
@@JoyceB-qv9xq
I hope you’re doing alright. I would think after 54 years you both could talk it out. Your comment stood out to me because I too have had a close (not so much geographically) friend for a little longer than that and have not been happy with our relationship lately. I am the one not coming clean on everything that is eating at me but at the same time can’t imagine just ending the friendship. It’s hard at this age to make close friendships. Again, hope you are doing well.
Cecelia, you just described me, right down to the few select friends. I love being on my own. Greetings from Tasmania, Australia.
Sounds like my kind of life. ❤
Your home is absolutely stunning, it is the definition of cosy and hygge! I’m so happy for you to be living in such beautiful surroundings! I’ve bookmarked this video for interior design reference and will come back from time to time to draw inspiration from it :)
I totally get it. Altho I live in LA where people abound, I feel no need to interact. I don’t have social aversion but when I have to rub shoulders with others for a significant amount of time, I need between hours and days to recalibrate. So be it. I love my solo life. There’s great power in being comfortable with standing, and thriving, alone 😊💃💐
I love your cabin. It's beautiful!
Yes social interaction makes me nervous I hate it and it tires me out. I work in customer service. Lol
Us bro us 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
I love your share today. I completely relate. And I so appreciate that I'm no longer compelled to constantly seek excitement.
I feel just as you do- I like people, just in small doses. Your home is so soothing; I just love seeing your content.
I can totally relate... Solitude is a gift. Awesome. Thank you for sharing 🙌
Being alone is so much calmer and peaceful than being with someone.
I don't relate but I have friends like you and I accept that we will only see each other occasionally and it's usually very low key. I love them for who they are. 🎉
You are truly a friend.
I could use a friend like you. Good on you. 🥰
Honestly, you're the kind of friend who's a dream come true for unsocial people like me and many more.
I can absolutely relate. The older I get, the more peace I feel with enjoying my alone time, instead of feeling like I SHOULD be social. You have a beautiful home!
I LOVE my alone time. I also prefer that to social situations. Your home is so beautiful and inviting it's no wonder you enjoy being there.❤
I can definitely relate. I stress myself out when I have to go hang out with people.
You describe my life, the cabin, the solitude preference, the boyfriend, time spent with the wonderful boyfriend, a few select friends - all of it. Thank you for spelling it out and for LOVING it.
Yes, I can relate. Solitude is nice. Alone but never lonely 😊
It's a relief to hear/see others loving and choosing solitude.
EXACTLY, Alone never Lonely👍🙏❤️
I understand. Alone is so peaceful. ♥️
You really are not alone in this. I can’t stand being around people, it stresses me out and I find myself counting down the minutes/hours until I/they leave and I can be in my own little bubble again. I think more and more people are realising that they need alone time like they need oxygen. I’m searching for my quirky cottage in the woods and getting rid of so much stuff that I once believed I wanted/needed. Now I realise I don’t need things I just need space to be alone and I’m more than okay with that. ❤
I relate 100%! I like being alone and reading, making jewelry, watching my Netflix shows, etc.
My mom is SUPER social, so she’s constantly inviting me to the pool or to picnics and festivals, etc., and then she texts me all night if I decline and asks if there’s something wrong or something I need to talk about lol. Being independent and enjoying alone time does not automatically equal depression or problems. Wish people would understand this!
Both me and my husband can identify with what you have said! Also a few years ago, a friend moved with her husband from the UK to Spain. She felt she no longer needed a lot of people around her. Thank you for mentioning this, it helps me to understand myself more and to feel less odd. It does look peaceful where you are. Xxx
I absolutely love being alone. I just took two solo vacations this summer and I absolutely get your thought process. And when it comes to friends it's quality over quantity ❤ I love your lifestyle and your home wow.
You are definitely not the only one, I have been feeling this for quite a while and trying to be gentle with myself because before I will feel guilty for not being social enough.
Girl, I've had the same few friends (who I love dearly!) for years and it's like pulling teeth for them to get me to do something. Stress is an understatement....even as a kid I hated socializing.
Definitely relate!! Love my circle of dear friends but there's NOTHING more wonderful than alone time.
Absolutely! 🎉
@@CeciliaBlomdahlmy dog is my best friend and she's my follower to especially when I have food
@@wildlifewarrior2670I have 3 cats & around 20 stray cats I feed every single day. I have a big circle of friends & family. ❤
@@CeciliaBlomdahl did u ever visit the northern most town?
Forever alone
Audio I didnt know I needed. Thank you! Every word described what I like and I was starting to doubt myself.
You are an old soul. You are learning what the elders have already learned. 😊
I definitely can relate, sometimes people make me feel like there’s something wrong with just spending time by myself but that’s where I’m happiest and social interactions just drain me
For introverts, it’s proven that it is an energy drain for us to interact with people. We can do it and be happy and show joy but it does drain us. We have to have our alone time to recharge. Extroverts are the exact opposite! They receive energy from interacting with people and they need to be with people to be happy! Being alone too long is difficult for them! Isn’t this fascinating? And of course, there are people that have mixtures of varying degrees of both qualities! Humans are diverse and complex and oh so wonderful!! ♥️
I can totally relate. Some people try to convince me that it’s not normal and it just makes me want to isolate even more. I’m happy to see that I’m not the only one!
I don't know why enjoying your own company is viewed as unusual. I think having a big group of "friends" is overrated. I'm not into drama or loud functions or group activities. Give me peace and quiet any day!
Love my alone time but I dont mind if I get surrounded by pets. I can talk to them everyday.
Oftentimes, I get asked how come I love to do things alone (eg. eat in a restaurant, solo trip for 4-6weeks, watch movies) & they thought I'm just lonely & they offer to join me. What the hell? 😅
I can totally relate! Nice to hear someone else say they enjoy their alone time.
Thank you for validating my need for lots of alone time!! I'm happier with no one to please or impress, plus there's no distraction from working on myself. Your cabin is lovely 😍 thank you for sharing 😊
Alone time is the best! ❤
I relate sooooo much.
Such a gorgeous space. I enjoy being alone too. Too many people create too many issues. There is a beauty to being content to be alone.
Absolutely the same way! Having such a beautiful setting to enjoy alone time would be amazing!
Yes, LOVE spending time with myself. Can totally relate!
Good for you to be yourself!! I am alone a lot, even though I think I would enjoy more friends, I really like puttering in my home and doing things on my own, painting or writing. My husband and I have been together for 35 years so we are very comfortable together just cooking, reading or watching movies, having long existential philosophy conversations or making plans for our retirement! I was a very happy person to be able to just be myself! You are going to be a very happy person your whole life because you know who you are, and what you like, and are living that way with the support of your family. I have been so lucky to find someone who loves dogs and cats as much as I do, too, so we always rescue! We have to have our beloved cats and dogs as well, and are going to start a charity as soon as we can to help animals and their parents! ❤
Your place is beautiful! I totally relate and appreciate that you said out loud what I'm always reluctant to say..
I hear ya sister! I have few friends and love being alone. Nothing wrong with that. Peace and love from the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State.❤
Can totally relate and i sometimes struggle to accept this about myself or just simply feel guilty about it and then when i force myself to try and socialize i feel drained and need alone time to recover😂 one aspect where i am different is that i love living in or very close to large cities; just the knowledge that the options are right there at my door puts me somehow at ease
I agree, I am an introvert but I like living in the suburbs of a large metropolitan area. If I want to go get fast food I can go get a burger in 10 minutes, if I need to get groceries a mile away, or even better order them online for pick up. At least if I pick up my groceries it gets me out of the house and sometimes I just like to go for a car ride by myself. When I had a dog I would take him for a ride with me.
I'm similar. I love being alone. On my days off i need to be alone to recharge my batteries for the upcoming workweek. But i yearn for the solitude of the country, the woods, the peacefulness of it, the insects chirping and birds singing. But sometimes i love to visit the city for a few days and stay in a hotel and i always find myself just people watching and loving that they are out their enjoying life. It recharges me in a different way
that place looks like heaven... so beautiful
Love your home. And i agree with you. I love alone time. Its so peaceful.
Being an introvert, the alone time is what recharges me. Cute cabin!🏠
Definitely can relate to you. I live by myself and am quite isolated, but such a relief to not have to meet other’s expectations, listen to superficial conversations and be criticized by my family. A wonderful sense of freedom! 🥰
I totally understand what you are saying here! I will cancel going somewhere if it feels too exhausting for me.
You speak my language and love your videos. Introverts unite!
Remember sometimes it's not who you need to see but who needs to see you...your probably the calming one in your friendships and they love your company...it's so beautiful there.
I can definitely relate. I'd rather be home than anywhere else.
Totally relate to everything you said about friends and socializing.
I'm so agree with you!!! I always in peace with myself, my family and my dogs.
Nice to have family all over the world 😂❤️🙌🏽
I absolutely relate to the introvert club. An isolated cabin, 2 cats (for me) and polar nights! Yes!
Totally understand you, I live with anxiety and seeing others can just be so exhausting. Only ones I am totally relaxed with is myself, my fiancé and my parents.
I totally get how you can live with the peace and quiet. I would do the same if i could too.
I can relate. Being with people depletes my energy a lot.
Right there with you. I love alone time.
I LOVE my alone time. Social engagements are exhausting!
I understand completely, if I only pop out for a coffee somedays it’s enough just to see there are others out there and then I’m happy to go home.
Absolutely agree...Cecilia...im the same way......so nice to hear your truth. Thank you so much.
Yes, definitely relate! I enjoy my alone time.
You said it right there! Now that I am older, knowing I don't HAVE to do anything is amazing! 😅
What a beautiful cabin. Your decorating is lovely. So clean and airy and happy.
New to your channel. Love your beautiful location! And i am with you....I love my alone time and I am such a homebody. I did all the things and socialized all the time when I was younger. Now I’m content at home and finding joy in quiet things....reading, drawing, knitting, cooking, watching tv and of course hanging out with my kids and husband. Calm, quiet and peaceful sounds perfect!
I can definitively relate to wanting and being alone!! I love my alone time - not only that but I need it for my mental health. It’s how I recharge my batteries.
I’m the same way, I feel like I would do great in my little cabin with my doggies and fiancé haha
Yes! I work on a farm too. The company of animals, my kitties, and occasional visits with friends is the perfect balance for me.
You hit it on the nail for me! 100% do I love being alone. Which is weird because I come across as incredibly social when I am around people I remember everyone’s name I have the ability to talk to strangers, especially at a function, where I know no one. However, after this, I need to go home and decompress for at least five days.
❤ You Are So Ahead of nonsense , you are Strong & Self Aware , Intelligent!!
You made this Old Woman Happy & Inspired 😁!
I read you. The older I get, the better I am at being alone or with my husband. The social butterfly in me is gone
Being in a good relationship makes you rely on others people less often
I agree. Alone can get lonely but not alone has its own sets of issues like dealing with issues.
Love your cabin and you enjoy alone time!! Super relaxing and peaceful!!❤
Your home is beautiful. I love all those windows
I thought I was more like that but I need daily interaction, at least at work, but then love retreating to my own space too. You're so lucky you have family in so many places!
most relatable thing ive heard today: ' i just feel more comfortable alone than i do socialising' fax lady. peace out
I like to enjoy alone time . Calm , quiet and peaceful , like you . 😌
I discovered it during lockdown .❤
Never looked back. 😊
Wow your family is spread all over the globe must be nice to visit them … When you get older you rather be alone, before I was scared to be by myself but now I enjoy it😊
Love love love my alone time, love your videos and seeing your life there. Love from South Carolina ❤
I can definitely relate. I grew up in an abusive home, and being all by myself as a kid was the ideal situation because no one was around to hurt me.
I also realize that any interaction even short one leave me with anxiety, it has become too stressfully for me so i have accepted it and live peacefully with little contact
I love being alone! My friends are basically animals! Lol
Yessss! This is me. I didn't quite understand how much social settings stressed me out until I got older. I have a great friend circle but they are few and they are friends I've had since elementary and right out of hs. I completely feel you. I love being drama and stress free. ❤
I’m an introvert too! Most social situations stress me out as well.
That's an adorable cabin, and the surroundings look gorgeous. Cold but definitely gorgeous.
Beautiful cabin!! Your family is spread out! Nice places to visit!!