You are totally confused. Dog and children do love men. Women though... they don't love anyone or anything. Not even themselves - if they did they would be more reasonable with their life's decisions
Nah, back then, women actually were more useful, then just burning your money. They actually: - raised kids - cooked meals - did the groceries - cleaned the house - did laundry - might even work part time to improve family income Those women just want to not work and spend your money.
What makes a house a home? When an exhausted man walks in from a long day's work to find a clean home, clean laundry, and warm dinner on the table. That is what makes a house a home. Not decorations.
And a loyal woman who respects and loves you happy to see you, or a family of such people happy to see you and appreciates you. That also makes a home, a stable, happy and secure home.😊
Not having a wahman gives a man a soft man life. It's a shocker how cheep life is without a wahmen and kids. Being a bachelor, its easy to pay off car and house and just live a minimalistic lifestyle on
My best friend became a houseman. His wife (then gf) is a doctor & makes enough. He is planning a part time, but only if it's something he loves. Dude is doing well 👍🏻
@Wi2Low Good luck. What percent of the men that were divorced by their wives (60% of marriages) would have said they were "marrying a good partner" on their wedding day?
Non recognized housework; cleaning the gutters, sweeping the chimney, mowing the yard, trimming the bushes, taking out the garbage, blowing the leaves off of the patio, doing the outdoor grilling, gathering and stacking the firewod, taking care of the fireplace or wood stove, snaking the clogged drains, fixing the leaking sink, painting, hanging curtains or shades, hooking up the cable tv's, stereo stystem and bluetooth devices. Just a few off the top of my head. Never a thank you of course. But if she cooks dinner....praise and thanks are expected.
You're crying about not getting recognition for outdoor grilling and connecting bluetooth devices... okay then. It's a small wonder the women are taking over when this it what they're getting.
Most men are just watching women prove us right on a daily. It’s like telling a child not to touch a hot stove and then watching them run back crying & complaining. Funny but sad 😂
Yes but the legislative framework that disadvantages and/or destroys men if they don't behave to female expectations remains, so it might be a sort of moral victory but in reality just furthering the material loss, allowing women to retrieve the attractive features of the traditional approach while continuing with the socially destructive features of the more recent developments.
Women play life on a games console choosing easy mode. Men have to play on coin op. Extreme hard mode with no second chances, no auto save, no options.
@@keeroe2020 USA, Europe, Chins Japan ect birth rates are all Plummeting! Ave Age of France Germany GB is in 70s? In 10-20 years? Populations will totally shift? Africa and India populations are still climbing?
I’m old enough to remember when most women in Australia quit work when they married (that concept dates me) because they expected to become mothers soon after, and they knew that they could not handle the stress of working and being mothers at the same time. It seems that Swedish women are finally starting to figure out this basic reality. May their tribe increase.
Women have to keep in mind that the amount of work it takes for a single man to make up for not having a wife is easy compared to what women have to do to make up for not having a husband.
It took 50 YEARS for women to figure out that work is HARD and undesirable??? They were the smarter ones, the better half, the wise ones... They USED to be, when they let their men do the hard nasty work, and kept him well loved, so he could keep her well supported. Now, after we men adjusted to doing childcare, re-training our bosses to expect we had to take time off for the kids, time off to support our wives, NOW you decide you don't want to do it??? How do you expect us to BELIEVE ALL WOMEN???
Because it does not exist. Few swedish women quit work and get supported by their partners. Most of them are probably aiming to be influencers. Most swedish men cannot afford having a housewife, and would probably not accept the wife staying home without an income either unless she had a valid reason.
@@nn_om2055 🎯 It's all fun and high ideals until they can't afford to eat the last week, week and a half before next payday. Swedish wages in general is a complete joke.
The Amish got it right. The small number of alcoholics in Amishland have spoiled the entire batch of apples. Usually when someone praises the Amish they are met with "but, but they have trillions of alcoholics!". Oddly it usually happens from the same people who tell others not to lump all people together lol
Cooks means ordering takeout with his money and cleaning means using the robot mop he bought for his money. Theory and practice, two very different things.
My wife frequently talks about quitting her job but also says she wants to get more money and respect from the office. She wants more house, more food she didn't have to cook and more free time and more, more, more..... it's frankly exhausting sometimes.
Hmm, their idea of a traditional woman being someone who tries to do the minimum possible as far as shared responsibilities is in my way of thinking a big misnomer. Traditional housewives have traditionally been diligent busy people, taking care of their family and raising their children!
A major feminist talking point is about domestic work not being real work. Imagine cooking dinner 200 years ago. First fetch some water from the well and grab some firewood.
@@kinndah2519 If a woman is not working and living off a man's income, she should be properly married to him. And, since she isn't working, she should keep the household running, keep a clean house and raise any kids. If she wants to be a modern woman, then they should contribute equally to the finances and maintenance of the home. You can't have it both ways.
To me a house becomes a home with a man and his loyal woman staying home for raising his/their children Keeping it neat cooking good meals making good sandwiches and him being able to count on her good judgement. Any break in that and now it's just a house again! That is what men call a home maker. We don't care as much about decorations as much as the basics that makes a home. Peace and quiet is the goal but with kids that might be tough, and we understand that too! Good luck to all!
I’m with you Pearl. I’m sick of this rubbish about women having it so hard because they do most of the housework, while the guy works his a$$ off to provide for the family and keep them safe etc and gets no thanks.
this deserves to go viral - the only problem is that women have effectively halved men's earnings in terms of purchasing power accounting for inflation so that going back is no longer viable
So young women don't want to cosplay girl bosses but cosplay soft women? At the end they are all cosplaying but men don't have the luxury to cosplay. We have to do what is necessary.
Not all man are good men who do what is needed, not every woman cosplay or pretend to be something they are not. The best is for both men and woman to do what is needed, to do what they can do, a society needs good balance! Both men and women are needed!
Swedens (Scandinavians in general) "Equaliy" experiement was so sucessfull, woman are doing more traditional jobs in comparison to more traditional societys. The irony here is something else.
It depends on the intentions of the women. If the women is TRULY wanting to build a home and family, for a long term monogamous relationship with him, then it's good. If they are being deceitful and pretending to do this in order to just be lazy and leech off of men's money and work, then it's obviously really bad.
A sugar baby is an official arrangement. This is not. They both agreed to it. As of now, we don't have enough information to conclude that this is a sugar baby relationship.
No it's not. I know quite alot of couples here in sweden where only one of the persons have a job. Not by choise though, but that doesn't matter. In most of them it's actually the woman working. They don't have alot of money of course, but it's totally possible to live like that.
Yeah, it's not a trend. Wages are low, taxes are high. If he can afford that, he is substantially wealthy. It's hard to become financially comfortable from just a salary in Sweden.
My dad grew up in Youngstown Ohio in the 1940s he had no running water there was no bathroom inside there was a hand pump in the kitchen and there was no washer no dryer no gas stove no electric stove there's not one person in this world that could go back even just a hundred years ago and live weed all die
All by design. We have been trained to rely on corporations for almost everything, from apples to a Zenith power supply. Now the grid is ready to be pulled. Just the internet. Not forever. Just long enough so that our government can implement a digital currency and outlaw cash. The gov will tell us, "The only reason the terrorists managed to attack our internet is because they used cash, which gave them anonymity. So for your safety and your grandmother's safety, we will outlaw cash". As usual, anyone who questions the official narrative will be branded a conspiracy theorist.
True home makers are not career motivated they are at home raising their children are growing up learning from their mothers while dad is working! This is why they are so hard to find now!
@@yuriy5376 a role model for his future wife. Same as the father should be a role model for him. Why do you think single parent children usually grow up to be the same?
A happy home has a wife who is a homemaker AND RAISES HER OWN KIDS (and doesn’t farm out that work to caretakers-feminist NEVER answered that problem: What about the kids?).
Sweden is not the US, the normal thing here is that everybody works, everybody do house chores. And it's not something new like "traditional vs modern", it's been like that longer than USA has existed. The vikings split the chores and the women went to war.
Yeah it was kind of a different thing when we were farmers and actually had to do that to survive. It's not very long ago though, just some generations back. The women go to war part of your text was a bad example.
False. In Sweden women marched to protect their right to stay home and be mothers. Even the feminists were pro family. Then your government changed the tax system and it became expensive to support a wife. This happened in the 1950s or 60s.
Who would not want to not have to work? WTF... the more interesting question is, when they get children, will she step up and do the classical home wife job of taking care of the family while the man brings home the money?
Cool story, yet times when a man could provide a family with his only income are long gone and probably will not return in the foreseeable future. Yet you ladies demand lifestyle of previous epoch. Sorry, this is not gonna function.
Thank you @Pearl for reassuring modern men there are still real women who are proud of being a woman and embracing femenity. Comemmenting for a friend. ;).
Just like it is not about getting everything you want, but enjoying and appreciating what you already have, it's not about getting a dream job, it's about getting a job that you enjoy doing well.
@@squidandchips My last two girlfriends were exceptional cooks. One of them with skills of a professional cook, since it is her passion.. So they are out there. They are both from eastern europe, maybe that plays into it.
Inflation will go down in Sweden because of this. Women are very inefficient works which drives up the cost of all things especially physical jobs like construction
Housework (interior) is not what it used to be. Dishwashers, washers/dryers, vacuum cleaners and even Swiffer mops make it all so much easier. For cooking, Pearl is right. Air Fryers, InstaPots and even (old fashioned) crock pots make it better. They really need to make up their minds.
What is it with almost every woman having tattoos? I'm sorry tattoos on a woman is like graffiti to a building in my opinion. A woman's body is beautiful the way it is.
My mum had 3 kids , ran a home she had 3 part time jobs and my dad worked as a fireman . There is no future in being a soft woman Yes live a great life travel work off a lap top but do it independently if your parters income
Women have so many opportunities to earn money from home, and choose when and how many hours they want to work. All it takes is some creativity and a laptop.
Pearl doesn’t practice what she preaches. Isn’t she single and someone who went to the UK to go to university? Why didn’t she just get married at 19 or 20 and be a stay at home Mom?
Dude is right. They bring their child to the marriage. Whatever the % of women that are un married have children? I'm not talking widows because that is a legit reason to be a single mother.
Can’t plan. They’re unruly, don’t want to be led. If you plan on saving but your partner wants to spend, you get accused of Financial something-or-other…
Makes sense. With AI etc replacing jobs in the coming years, women and men will increasingly be at home anyway. May as well start readjusting to this lifestyle humans will live for the rest of history.
Stay at home women, have a choice of what to do when. This "control" of their life, is why women live longer than men. Who live a life of more or less being told what to do and have little control.
Babies, dogs and women are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved conditionally based on his ability to provide.
You are totally confused. Dog and children do love men.
Women though... they don't love anyone or anything. Not even themselves - if they did they would be more reasonable with their life's decisions
And for the most part even that is not enough 🤨
Free agent lifestyle, ride the tiger
All of them are loved conditionally. If you are giving them love unconditionally, that's a problem you should fix.
Truer words were never spoken.
And the working class have never had a “lifestyle”. That’s a middle class word. Women have options. Men have obligations.
wombin should not vote, let’s get real
That's a great quote. "Women have options. Men have obligations" Genius buddy. Genius.
UPPER CLASS women-and men-have options.
Fixed it for you
Maybe in the US. In Sweden the rift between working class and middle class isnt much
Bingo
AKA normal women before the cult of feminism
Nah, back then, women actually were more useful, then just burning your money.
They actually:
- raised kids
- cooked meals
- did the groceries
- cleaned the house
- did laundry
- might even work part time to improve family income
Those women just want to not work and spend your money.
What makes a house a home? When an exhausted man walks in from a long day's work to find a clean home, clean laundry, and warm dinner on the table. That is what makes a house a home. Not decorations.
Amen
so true... but not any wife can handle that to make it happen, even if sitting home.
Dried flowers or decorative towels that you can't use it's nit a definition of a home.
@@Talon17 you know you can pay for that?!
You don’t need a marriage to have a clean house and a hot meal!
And a loyal woman who respects and loves you happy to see you, or a family of such people happy to see you and appreciates you. That also makes a home, a stable, happy and secure home.😊
Not having a wahman gives a man a soft man life. It's a shocker how cheep life is without a wahmen and kids. Being a bachelor, its easy to pay off car and house and just live a minimalistic lifestyle on
My best friend became a houseman. His wife (then gf) is a doctor & makes enough.
He is planning a part time, but only if it's something he loves.
Dude is doing well 👍🏻
10 hours per week won't make 12-20k per year, not even close.
@@FlorisDVijfde Weird cuz thats 48K for a full time job.
@Wi2Low Good luck. What percent of the men that were divorced by their wives (60% of marriages) would have said they were "marrying a good partner" on their wedding day?
Non recognized housework; cleaning the gutters, sweeping the chimney, mowing the yard, trimming the bushes, taking out the garbage, blowing the leaves off of the patio, doing the outdoor grilling, gathering and stacking the firewod, taking care of the fireplace or wood stove, snaking the clogged drains, fixing the leaking sink, painting, hanging curtains or shades, hooking up the cable tv's, stereo stystem and bluetooth devices. Just a few off the top of my head. Never a thank you of course. But if she cooks dinner....praise and thanks are expected.
BINGO. Well said! Don't forget DRIVING for most of the entire marriage on any/every trip ever taken.
Commute time.
You're crying about not getting recognition for outdoor grilling and connecting bluetooth devices... okay then. It's a small wonder the women are taking over when this it what they're getting.
@@usaman7358even if, but, AND ESPECIALLY IF you drive a Class 8 truck for a living: you ARE the D.D. (Default Driver) on EVERY trip!
^^^^Keeping the cars up to date with service intervals and government standards. Can you imagine a woman knowing what a gear box service is!
“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. What is called resignation is confirmed desperation.” - Henry David Thoreau
No truer words were ever spoken
Proving this is nothing new, just back then , women used to not say this ridiculous stuff in front of men.
A lot of people can quote the first but not the last part. To me, that is the most important part.
Most men are just watching women prove us right on a daily. It’s like telling a child not to touch a hot stove and then watching them run back crying & complaining. Funny but sad 😂
Those pro hypergamy channels prove everything red pill says
...but funny.
Yes but the legislative framework that disadvantages and/or destroys men if they don't behave to female expectations remains, so it might be a sort of moral victory but in reality just furthering the material loss, allowing women to retrieve the attractive features of the traditional approach while continuing with the socially destructive features of the more recent developments.
almost like they were meant to stay at home and raise a family. huh.
They are staying home scrolling Instagram, stop simping. They will not even cook for you.
Women play life on a games console choosing easy mode. Men have to play on coin op. Extreme hard mode with no second chances, no auto save, no options.
Yep
Birth rates in Scandinavia at record lows.
@@keeroe2020 USA, Europe, Chins Japan ect birth rates are all Plummeting! Ave Age of France Germany GB is in 70s? In 10-20 years? Populations will totally shift? Africa and India populations are still climbing?
Not among the Somalians that for some reason are living in Sweden (and Minnesota, Vermont, Maine)
@@mattiasdahlstrom2024 1) Somalis not "Somalians" and 2) "some reason" is a civil war.
I’m old enough to remember when most women in Australia quit work when they married (that concept dates me) because they expected to become mothers soon after, and they knew that they could not handle the stress of working and being mothers at the same time. It seems that Swedish women are finally starting to figure out this basic reality. May their tribe increase.
Women have to keep in mind that the amount of work it takes for a single man to make up for not having a wife is easy compared to what women have to do to make up for not having a husband.
Well stated
So not true
truer words have never been spoken
Word!
@@JamieV999It's very true.
It took 50 YEARS for women to figure out that work is HARD and undesirable??? They were the smarter ones, the better half, the wise ones... They USED to be, when they let their men do the hard nasty work, and kept him well loved, so he could keep her well supported. Now, after we men adjusted to doing childcare, re-training our bosses to expect we had to take time off for the kids, time off to support our wives, NOW you decide you don't want to do it???
How do you expect us to BELIEVE ALL WOMEN???
It was a myth, " independent and strong woman".
The gender pay gap won't close by itself.
anyone who must say that they are smart, better or wise is simply not. You prove it by action, silence and not be saying it
@@Mazeltof90 exactly; well said.
I’m from Sweden. Never heard about this trend
Stop watching SVT
Because it does not exist. Few swedish women quit work and get supported by their partners. Most of them are probably aiming to be influencers.
Most swedish men cannot afford having a housewife, and would probably not accept the wife staying home without an income either unless she had a valid reason.
@@nn_om2055 🎯
It's all fun and high ideals until they can't afford to eat the last week, week and a half before next payday.
Swedish wages in general is a complete joke.
There are a lot of Amish / Mennonite in Western NY. They are much healthier and in better shape than the typical regular people.
The Amish got it right. The small number of alcoholics in Amishland have spoiled the entire batch of apples. Usually when someone praises the Amish they are met with "but, but they have trillions of alcoholics!". Oddly it usually happens from the same people who tell others not to lump all people together lol
My wife was raised Mennonite, she’s not super traditional but she’s great 👍
Remember guys:
No matter how "soft" they call themselves, they are IRON on the inside 😅
They should go all the way and get MARRIED, and be FAITHFUL for life.
They just don't want to work, it's always "someone to PAY FOR ME", and they have no love or loyalty. Not worth it.
PASSPORTS GENTLEMEN!!!
Hear hear!
“When you’ve heard the East a-callin’, you won’t ever heed nought else.”
Hell yeah we out to sweden
Might want to rethink your destination. @Mr-rp7es
No. Stop chasing women and begging to be a provider. Mgtow for life. Peace, freedom, money.
So, she talks about what he does for her...but what does she do for him?
Cooks and cleans, did you not hear
Cooks means ordering takeout with his money and cleaning means using the robot mop he bought for his money. Theory and practice, two very different things.
@Mr-rp7esIt was a chore 200 years ago. Now it's a luxury.
She gives him debt 🤔
@@Mr-rp7es In other words, sweet FA.
My wife frequently talks about quitting her job but also says she wants to get more money and respect from the office. She wants more house, more food she didn't have to cook and more free time and more, more, more..... it's frankly exhausting sometimes.
Hmm, their idea of a traditional woman being someone who tries to do the minimum possible as far as shared responsibilities is in my way of thinking a big misnomer. Traditional housewives have traditionally been diligent busy people, taking care of their family and raising their children!
Sweden dont have "traditional housewifes" sweden have partners and girlfriends. To wifeup is not on the agenda.
A major feminist talking point is about domestic work not being real work. Imagine cooking dinner 200 years ago. First fetch some water from the well and grab some firewood.
But we’re not living 200 years ago.
If you can save money on childcare, food processing, cleaning etc, a housewife can absolutely be an integral part of the family.
But it is hard work.
Part of farm life used to be spending daylight hours all year, chopping wood, so that you wouldn't freeze in the winter.
They never fight for the right to work as bricklayers, though.
Interesting youtube recommended me a pearl video for the first time in over a year
It's not the UA-cam algorithms fault that most of your searches for pearl are "pearl necklace". Switch it up and the algo will change.
Congratulations! She is a true pioneer and beacon that all other female beings should closely follow! Very close!
"Stay at home girlfriend" = Sugar Baby.
So make up your mind, you want a traditional woman or a modern working woman?
@@kinndah2519 If a woman is not working and living off a man's income, she should be properly married to him. And, since she isn't working, she should keep the household running, keep a clean house and raise any kids. If she wants to be a modern woman, then they should contribute equally to the finances and maintenance of the home. You can't have it both ways.
@@kinndah2519i know right... this is what I've been saying.. is this content for the 1% or something? 😂
Not necessarily.
Stay at home woman = A GOOD woman
To me a house becomes a home with a man and his loyal woman staying home for raising his/their children Keeping it neat cooking good meals making good sandwiches and him being able to count on her good judgement. Any break in that and now it's just a house again! That is what men call a home maker. We don't care as much about decorations as much as the basics that makes a home. Peace and quiet is the goal but with kids that might be tough, and we understand that too! Good luck to all!
I’m with you Pearl. I’m sick of this rubbish about women having it so hard because they do most of the housework, while the guy works his a$$ off to provide for the family and keep them safe etc and gets no thanks.
If you're not getting thanks, get out.
Atleast most of us havent had to make the ultimate sacrifice yet.
So blessed to have you addressing men's issues. Most of the media just laugh it off and tell men to shut up and man-up.
And when the men man up, we get accused of “toxic masculinity” whatever the hell that is this week.
Just love your work Pearl - thanks Hun.
Thanks Pearl!
You nailed it again!
this deserves to go viral - the only problem is that women have effectively halved men's earnings in terms of purchasing power accounting for inflation so that going back is no longer viable
Looking lovely Pearl!!! ❤
So young women don't want to cosplay girl bosses but cosplay soft women? At the end they are all cosplaying but men don't have the luxury to cosplay. We have to do what is necessary.
Not all man are good men who do what is needed, not every woman cosplay or pretend to be something they are not. The best is for both men and woman to do what is needed, to do what they can do, a society needs good balance! Both men and women are needed!
@@alvdansen7172 Of course I am talking about generality what is socially accepted. There is no soft man being talking cared by anyone.
Swedens (Scandinavians in general) "Equaliy" experiement was so sucessfull, woman are doing more traditional jobs in comparison to more traditional societys. The irony here is something else.
More than Iceland, really; 25% of the nation went on strike and no one noticed!
Stay at home girlfriend... isn't that just a woman with a sugar daddy?
No. It's a life partner focusing on the comfortable home for the family.
It depends on the intentions of the women. If the women is TRULY wanting to build a home and family, for a long term monogamous relationship with him, then it's good. If they are being deceitful and pretending to do this in order to just be lazy and leech off of men's money and work, then it's obviously really bad.
A sugar baby is an official arrangement. This is not. They both agreed to it. As of now, we don't have enough information to conclude that this is a sugar baby relationship.
Yes-and there’s NO FINANCIAL SECURITY in it.
Women, DON’T gamble your future on being a “stay at home girlfriend”!
A woman bringing peace. Had me straight cracking up on that one big time.
May this video go far and wide.
So basically:
Working low wage jobs sucks.
Get yourself a rich boyfriend.
Turns out those Art History and Gender Studies degrees are not as much in demand as previously guessed at ...
Such a breath of fresh air. Allow me to say it for you, decorating is unimportant.
Swedes get 5 weeks paid vacation. You only get 6 weeks when you get past the age of 50.
And not a lot of people have salaries that can provide for 2.
Gotta be some media bs, because I've never seen "soft girls" in Sweden. Besides, it's virtually impossible to live here on one salary.
No it's not. I know quite alot of couples here in sweden where only one of the persons have a job. Not by choise though, but that doesn't matter. In most of them it's actually the woman working. They don't have alot of money of course, but it's totally possible to live like that.
If the motivation is not to support and compliment a husband, this"soft"girls trend is just an excuse to be a parisite.
Being soft is difficult. That’s why most people act hard.
How many women are bricklayers, ironworkers, pipefitters, or any other craft professional?
Women have options and flexibility. Men don't. Its all duties and obligations.
washing machines are sooooo complicated to use! just kidding 😂😂😂
What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. 👍
Yeah, it's not a trend. Wages are low, taxes are high. If he can afford that, he is substantially wealthy. It's hard to become financially comfortable from just a salary in Sweden.
yeah no shit were taxed too hell but where that all goes no one knows oh wait in politicians pockets no suprise there rly
She would rather stay at home rather than do a retail job or work in a care home,who knew?
2 years and then she qualifies for alimony. Until the laws change you should never fund a woman's life.
My dad grew up in Youngstown Ohio in the 1940s he had no running water there was no bathroom inside there was a hand pump in the kitchen and there was no washer no dryer no gas stove no electric stove there's not one person in this world that could go back even just a hundred years ago and live weed all die
All by design. We have been trained to rely on corporations for almost everything, from apples to a Zenith power supply. Now the grid is ready to be pulled. Just the internet. Not forever. Just long enough so that our government can implement a digital currency and outlaw cash. The gov will tell us, "The only reason the terrorists managed to attack our internet is because they used cash, which gave them anonymity. So for your safety and your grandmother's safety, we will outlaw cash". As usual, anyone who questions the official narrative will be branded a conspiracy theorist.
True home makers are not career motivated they are at home raising their children are growing up learning from their mothers while dad is working! This is why they are so hard to find now!
@@stevesmentkowski7789 what would a boy learn from his mother?
@@yuriy5376 a role model for his future wife. Same as the father should be a role model for him. Why do you think single parent children usually grow up to be the same?
As a man, thank you for pointing it all out.
These are the ones that suddenly "find religion" and want to get married.
A happy home has a wife who is a homemaker AND RAISES HER OWN KIDS (and doesn’t farm out that work to caretakers-feminist NEVER answered that problem: What about the kids?).
Sweden is not the US, the normal thing here is that everybody works, everybody do house chores. And it's not something new like "traditional vs modern", it's been like that longer than USA has existed. The vikings split the chores and the women went to war.
It is completely new. Stop watching SVT. Women did not go to war in the viking era.
@@stigcc He's been watching 'Vikings'.
Yeah it was kind of a different thing when we were farmers and actually had to do that to survive. It's not very long ago though, just some generations back.
The women go to war part of your text was a bad example.
False. In Sweden women marched to protect their right to stay home and be mothers. Even the feminists were pro family. Then your government changed the tax system and it became expensive to support a wife. This happened in the 1950s or 60s.
No children? Then, out to work you go! 😂
Who would not want to not have to work? WTF... the more interesting question is, when they get children, will she step up and do the classical home wife job of taking care of the family while the man brings home the money?
Swedish women are never soft.
Sweet, yes, but never soft.
Cool story, yet times when a man could provide a family with his only income are long gone and probably will not return in the foreseeable future. Yet you ladies demand lifestyle of previous epoch. Sorry, this is not gonna function.
Just the basics. Your show is Awesome : ) Keep on it, pull that curtain back. Peace
1s all day!
love ya Pearl!
Thank you @Pearl for reassuring modern men there are still real women who are proud of being a woman and embracing femenity.
Comemmenting for a friend. ;).
2 years away from my goal of leaving the west! 🥳🥳🥳
Just like it is not about getting everything you want, but enjoying and appreciating what you already have, it's not about getting a dream job, it's about getting a job that you enjoy doing well.
the question is will they give up divorce for this trend?
Tel the girls, to make FOOD, Pearl! Guys really like that!!
That's a dying skill too. I've yet to date a woman who was a decent cook. They're out there, but not that common.
@@squidandchips My last two girlfriends were exceptional cooks. One of them with skills of a professional cook, since it is her passion.. So they are out there. They are both from eastern europe, maybe that plays into it.
Ahhh yes, winter in Cypress 😉
WTF is a "stay at home girlfriend"?
Concubine....
A sugar baby
Something some of us want😌
For blue pill men.
A sin. It is not allowed to have sex bevore marriage. No you do not to "test" by sex. Marriage is not about sex, but about having children.
In Sweden women can live off tax money.
Which is paid by men who they don't need since they are independent from men
Thats why European countries dont produce sht, they get paid more for them to stay home and get government assistance than work
If they are healthy, it only applies to immigrants. At least in Norway.
No it is not true
@ yes it is, our tax money. Who do you think pays for the military protection? USA
Her hands when she talks. She goes from small gesture to big then resets. 😂
Inflation will go down in Sweden because of this. Women are very inefficient works which drives up the cost of all things especially physical jobs like construction
Housework (interior) is not what it used to be. Dishwashers, washers/dryers, vacuum cleaners and even Swiffer mops make it all so much easier. For cooking, Pearl is right. Air Fryers, InstaPots and even (old fashioned) crock pots make it better. They really need to make up their minds.
You are 100% correct great video
In the most desirable situation the woman can stay home because she inherited money or got a big divorce settlement.
But her money will always be her money. Your money will always be for paying bills and mortgages.
In sweden it work different then in usa.
Live in Sweden and never heard of this "Soft Girl"- thing....🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Looks like 60s 70s women were,
docile family orientated, average
weight, tattoo free in a word normal.
R.
What is it with almost every woman having tattoos? I'm sorry tattoos on a woman is like graffiti to a building in my opinion. A woman's body is beautiful the way it is.
What a contrast to the S Korean 4 B movement!
A very small minority of Korean women follow 4B. It's more popular here in the US than Korea.
My mum had 3 kids , ran a home she had 3 part time jobs and my dad worked as a fireman .
There is no future in being a soft woman
Yes live a great life travel work off a lap top but do it independently if your parters income
Women have so many opportunities to earn money from home, and choose when and how many hours they want to work. All it takes is some creativity and a laptop.
Thats a leech and she will eventually be dumped, unless she get pregnant and he will just just cope.
Yes. Passport gentleman.
You look so great in purple Pearl!
Pearl doesn’t practice what she preaches. Isn’t she single and someone who went to the UK to go to university? Why didn’t she just get married at 19 or 20 and be a stay at home Mom?
Well at least she's not a single mum. And what the f has university/UK got to do with anything?
@ University has everything to do with it. A stay at home mom really has no need to go to University.
“Nothing else in the world…not all the armies…is so powerful as an idea whose time has come.” - Victor Hugo
“Soft Woman” aka The one you bring home to mama.
Do not get married. Ever.😅
Love the hair Pearl.😊
Dude is right. They bring their child to the marriage. Whatever the % of women that are un married have children? I'm not talking widows because that is a legit reason to be a single mother.
The pAtRiArChY everybody...
It's nice to have a partner at home that when you want to do things you only have to plan around one schedule.
What?
Can’t plan. They’re unruly, don’t want to be led.
If you plan on saving but your partner wants to spend, you get accused of Financial something-or-other…
"Soft women" life sounds like a live-in 304, assuming they are being together. NOT a step in the right direction; yet perhaps a little more honest.
Makes sense. With AI etc replacing jobs in the coming years, women and men will increasingly be at home anyway. May as well start readjusting to this lifestyle humans will live for the rest of history.
is there anything they don't copy from men? There is a soft guy era, it started a few years ago as a satirical backlash to feminism
We may tolerate the decorating. But, we don't care about it.
And when we actually do, I think it's more likely to be a samurai or viking sword or something like that put up on a wall.
Stay at home women, have a choice of what to do when. This "control" of their life, is why women live longer than men. Who live a life of more or less being told what to do and have little control.