Women expect men to give up their happiness for them. Yet a women will easily give up her man for her “happiness.” We’ve seen it many times. Don’t compromise for them. They either get with the program or gtfo.
My hobby is RC cars. Instead of my wife trying to stop me from building trail trucks for hiking with, she asked me to build her one so we could spend time together by going to trails and hiking with our trucks. We've been together 10 years, married 9.
@rickyrusselburgusa8644 it's fun stuff and decent exercise. However, Traxxass is definitely not my platform, lol. Axial, Losi, and I'm actually impressed with MJX's H8H for a trail truck, not a crawler but amazingly fun 😀
Me and my wife been together for almost 24 years. We are the exact opposites but we get involved with each others hobbies as a way to spend time with each other then actually liking the hobby. Just showing interest in your partners hobbies can make all the world to them. No need to get hardcore into there hobbies unless you like them.
When my widowed mother remarried, her new husband said he had a regular weekly afternoon at the snooker club (UK). She insisted he carried on with it. She carried on doing her stuff, he carried on with his. No conflicts. Widowed again, her third husband liked his afternoons at the music society, so same again. They did their own thing.
It's like living a perpetual $hit test. They want to mold you into the image they have for you, to "fix you". Then if they somehow accomplish this goal, they lose all respect and attraction for you and move on to the next one.
Your hobby is a part of who you are. If nobody is getting hurt and it isn't an unhealthy addiction, then someone who truly loves you would never ask you to stop doing something that makes you happy and unique.
People need to call out female narcissism. Its never addressed. At least half the women out there are extremely emotionally abusive and it gets dismissed or justified completely. This man is a gem and it upsets me to see him go through this.
The saddest thing about all this is that he essentially wasted years of his life with that woman. One of the most difficult things about being a man in a relationship is that all the sacrifice that you make is often usually ignored, yet expected. But, never appreciated. Nothing is ever good enough.
He had 100k subs in 2016, if he didn't waste time on her he could have a million subs rn, he could be bigger than Pearl and make 6 figures off UA-cam easily, she stole his earning potential, his happiness and chance of meeting someone who could have been great for him
@@Cyzure he made the choice himself. The man admitted himself that he was the one who made the mistake. He took accountability for his choice. He didn't blame the woman he was with. Yes the woman was wrong but the man ultimately made the wrong decision to give up Yugioh.
Not wasted. He's got more knowledge now than he ever has in his life so far. He can use that to benefit his goals. As long as you learn from your time spent, no time is wasted.
She's wants to also elevate herself socially by being married to someone who has a degree. Then she can hopefully marry a rich college educated man next marriage. 😂
This is like the Seinfeld episode where "the guys" (Jerry and George) enjoy saying "Hellooooooooo!" in a really strange voice. When the girlfriend tells Jerry to choose either her or the stupid greeting, Jerry responds by giving her the greeting. Which is the way it should be.
I’ve fallen in love with 3 hobbies over 2 marriages and ALL of them were demonized for taking too much time. Ultimately gave them up eventually. Tired of the nagging, shame and ridicule. Then, years later criticized for not having a hobby. You CANT make this shit up.
Every time I mentioned starting my own contracting business to my ex-wife, she would start arguments about I would be a failure. After I caught her with another dude and divorced her, I started my contracting business and years later an engineering business. When I met my real wife, she was behind me 100% with any business decisions I made. Now with the most awesome marriage for over 25 years, we live at the coast with my only real hobby being fishing. The only thing she pushes me about is she wants me to take more time away from my businesses and take time for myself to go fishing and enjoy life.
@@joeynova9896 Yet, these women have no problem hoarding their own stuffs. See if these women donate or sell their clothing and fancy goods. They don't respect other person's property.
My mother GAVE away my Snes with a couple of games, my Sega mega drive with about 20 boxed games and my OG gameboy and Gameboy colour with about 25 games plus the rumble pack/clip on magnifying glass with the light and a few other accessories. This was 20 years ago, and I'm still bitter 😂
My wife is generally pretty good about supporting my hobbies (Running, swords, guns, bladesmithing) as long as I'm doing my part to watch our child. It's pretty obvious though that my sister in law tries to get in her head sometimes and convince her that I'm a sucky father.
People forget that humans just named and described existence. One of my favorite quotes is "Where did the person who invented college go to college?" Everything has become unnecessarily convoluted. School is set up to make certain types of learners into good employees.
Thank you, Pearl, for continuing to defend men at this sad time in our country's history. We definitely need a reformation of our laws so they're not so one-sided in divorce cases.
In the "olden" days, boys were quickly identified and moved from "book smart" to "vocational smart". Identification not always perfect, but mostly spot on. Vocational classes have mostly been eliminated and replaced by liberal arts type classes. Huge mistake. What a great guy he is. Get back to who you are and don't be ashamed ever of what gift God gave you.
Thats a form of mental abuse, controlling and belittling your partner to manipulate them. Unless a hobby is financially getting in the way of living (like an addiction) then there is no problem having that hobby
@@melissasmess2773I will paint alternative historical figures and play magic. Have you leveled your culinary skills to make a proper sandwich? 😊 I've had rough day making a vlog for playing mtga
That's the sign of a toxic relationship, regardless which gender is doing that. You shouldn't try to constantly control, or belittle your partner, you should try to build them up, and encourage them to do better.
my hobbies are videogmaes , cycling and gardening , if a woman told me to drop any of these because she dont like it im throwing the relationship out the window LMAO
Men will end up financially supporting women in one way or another. Even if you choose not to be a workhorse your taxes still largely go to things that support women. Even if you go full sigma you still can't get away from the leeches.
If they are going to do that as an individual find ways to give minimal investment. Some Alcohol is 90% taxable here so it’s something you can do without. Become more self sufficient and talk objectively,logically and openly with these topics. The price of authenticity is expensive but it’s worth every cent as you will find the right people.
While that is true for the most part. But supporting them second or third hand. While having your peace and quiet at home without them making you miserable. Will always be better than a man taking care of a modern day wahman first hand.
A woman's main subconscious desire is to see if she can bring you to heel, If she can, she's unhappy & if she can't, you are cold & uncaring & she's unhappy But it will always be your fault, not hers no matter what, Don't bother. Go your own way as It's pointless
Incredible video. It's so unfortunate he had to go through this. I'm happy he understands that no matter how many times he tried to put her happiness first, it was never going to be good enough for her. Enjoy living your life, and keep winning those duels. 💯
Women get jealous of men and what they enjoy. The focus is not on them. Guys don't get married and do what you love. Never let a woman get in the way of your passion.
@mattboyer3385 no. Women don't want men to have hobbies because it makes them happy. Nothing makes a woman more miserable than seeing a man happy, especially a single man.
@@567xxs The only way modern yugioh is like chess is if you play with someone and they constantly slap your hand away every time you try to make a move. 😂
He wasnt strong enough to stand his ground and fight for what he loved. A job where he made a quite good living out of it from the comfort of his home. But hey! You live and you learn😣...
The only thing she said that was good was “you need to exercise”. That one is true. Everything else is irrelevant. Exercise helps your body grow stronger, recover, and gain focus in other areas of our life.
He tribute-summoned his channel back from the graveyard by sacrificing a monster. 😂 Now he might special-summon another waifu from his deck. One thing’s for sure, though: This guy ain’t casting Monster Reborn on the one he sacrificed anytime soon.
His problem with school may be that it wasnt his decision. He doesnt have the drive to complete it. Put on top of that, the woman that had him start school, is no longer there. If he ends up with a degree, he may always have that bad reminder of her, even if its something good. She also wasn't a good choice though.
He doesn't day anything about it, but going from paying the bills with a hobby to being in debt for someone else's orders might be the real issue. How can you finish school if you can't pay for it?
This dude got ADHD. Everything he’s talking about with inability to retain information into his long-term memory and focus issues is hallmark of someone with that diagnosis. His girlfriend didn’t embrace his neurodivergence and its challenges. That’s what this story is about.
Underrated comment indeed. As someone who as also been diagnosed with ADHD back in the 80s, the truth is that we're not good at regurgitating facts about things we don't care about. This makes us seem 'stupid' in a school setting, but if you actually make us interested in something, you'll see that we're some of the smartest people out there. We just don't learn like 'normal' people..
I'm starting to be in the school of ' if she divorces you and takes hakf your sht, you're financially better off because your bills were cut by 2/3rds now you're single'
I’m so lucky my wife has NEVER tried to squash my hobbies. Comics, writing, geeky shows, sports…she’s always been cool with it. I’ve always made sure my outside activities never interfered with our relationship or were a burden on her.
Albert Einstein once said, " Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand."
My best friend was in a relationship with this one girl many, many years ago and she didn't like me or anyone else in our friend group hanging out with her boyfriend (there were about eight of us at the time). According to my buddy she gave him an selfish ultimatum, either she goes or he stops hanging out with his friends. Present day he's happily married with a different woman, a few kids and a good home and still hangs out with our friend group.
The only issue my wife has with my video games is when they get in the way of my responsibilities. Which is totally different than this, and fair. Not to mention if you have kids (Which we do), both of your hobbies take a back seat.
Right of the bat, the guy states she didn't like something about him, so he exchanged his happiness for hers. It wasn't the key to happiness or a lasting relationship. She saw him as a project, not uncommon behaviour for people. When we strive to the approval of others, we take our own selves outside of who we are and what he came here for. Truth be told, everything is just lessons and tests. His was to set a better boundary, and hers was to love him for who he is, not what she sees as his potential. Learn and grow. Let go of those that don't walk this path.
Ill be into video games until the good Lord calls me home. Thus why i need to find a woman who has the same Hobbies or respects what i do for peace and joy...otherwise its a no go.
They are never satisfied until they make you a husk of whoever you used to be. Content like this is important for young men to avoid pitfalls just like this. If whatever is going on irritates your soul and younget that deep feeling in the pit of your stomach, please believe it is your guardians trying to warn you!
My Dad owed an automotive shop. Mad3 good money but my mother spent $2000 a week on other people. Fed my dad macaroni and beans. He died, and she is broke.
At the end of the Day we are all people on a rock drifting through space , no point or purpose we just are. And its our hobbies that are passion fueled more than anything. Do your hobby.
My grandfather built a house, built a number of sheds, built a farm, bred some of the finest wool in Australia at the time, could play violin by ear, did the books, never drank and made a lot of money - his training at school - just to get through it. His wife, my grandmother stood by him, and she did her thing, didn't try and change him one bit nor he try to change her!
Oh that's toxic. When you study and work and there is people telling you are lazy. That crap is terrible for mental health. The best thing you can do is get rid of those people and surround yourself with the friends that do support you. Real people.
Why would any man give up any hobbie, that brings him joy, he's good at it and don't damage anyone else but also is a source of income, just because a woman don't like it? Nobody should waste time listening to the opinion of a person like that
Your passion is your own passion. Your hobbies is your hobbies. No one can change that. Especially, never let a woman control your passion and hobbies. A woman can join in your passion or hobbies. It's about spending time together. Not nagging and controlling.
Is not about the hobbies, is about insane entitled double standards as being mad with a man for expending 50 bucks on a videogame which give many days worth of entertainment and simultaneously expect that same man gifts her a thousand dollars handbag that she probably would use twice a year serving no other function than try to impress other women, that is how they think and this is way you should never cave to their demands.
Even if he passed school. That is not a guarantee to anything. Now he has that school Debt and no degree after giving up his Hobby/Dream that was making money and she STILL left.
He said he doesn't want to blame her - but he should! He made some bad choices, and he's taking responsibility for that. But so should she. She was selfish and contradictory, and treated him like a servant at her whim.
Absolutely not. The government deciding how much it costs to raise a child? Nothing like out of touch silver spoon politicians dictating how much it costs to raise a child. It would be 100% of a average person's Income making it impossible for the person who has to pay to survive.
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Women expect men to give up their happiness for them.
Yet a women will easily give up her man for her “happiness.”
We’ve seen it many times. Don’t compromise for them. They either get with the program or gtfo.
@@chadthunderkawk1650 Wish all men thought like this 💯
@@chadthunderkawk1650 DRIZZLE DRIZZLE!
Amen.
It's true, but don't give in, it's a test.
If you give up what you enjoy they'll say you're boring and leave you! 😂
A brigand will demand your money or your life a woman will demand both.
My hobby is RC cars. Instead of my wife trying to stop me from building trail trucks for hiking with, she asked me to build her one so we could spend time together by going to trails and hiking with our trucks. We've been together 10 years, married 9.
Rc cars are so fun especially the 1/5 scale gas cars.
Hello my friend
I’ve been on hiking trails and seen other guys like you. Got the triaxxes trail rigs and cameras set up.
Awesome stuff
@rickyrusselburgusa8644 it's fun stuff and decent exercise. However, Traxxass is definitely not my platform, lol. Axial, Losi, and I'm actually impressed with MJX's H8H for a trail truck, not a crawler but amazingly fun 😀
Brother, you've officially won the game of life. Congrats! Truly.
Me and my wife been together for almost 24 years. We are the exact opposites but we get involved with each others hobbies as a way to spend time with each other then actually liking the hobby. Just showing interest in your partners hobbies can make all the world to them. No need to get hardcore into there hobbies unless you like them.
They are angry about men's hobbies because it's men's money that they lost, but could have spent on themselves
When my widowed mother remarried, her new husband said he had a regular weekly afternoon at the snooker club (UK). She insisted he carried on with it. She carried on doing her stuff, he carried on with his. No conflicts. Widowed again, her third husband liked his afternoons at the music society, so same again. They did their own thing.
Money, time and attention is what she want to control
Or her
Worst part is man was making bank she made him throw it all away for no reason.
They want to control you, never let them control you men
It's like living a perpetual $hit test. They want to mold you into the image they have for you, to "fix you". Then if they somehow accomplish this goal, they lose all respect and attraction for you and move on to the next one.
The moment the man loses control, the relationship is toast. It’s man’s job to lead no matter what today’s culture might think
"Women are dream killers"
- Tom Leykis
"Dream Snatchers"
Many women are nightmares.
My dad would listen to Tom daily haha. On blast too.
not all not all not all BUT MOST.
Lol. How dare these women not want a complete nerd as a partner. 😂
If a Woman ask you: me or your hobby choose your hobby EVERYTIME!! No buts!!she showed right there who she is.
Whenever it’s a Me or something ultimatum pick the something….as it makes u happy and dosent make u choose
yes, and it isn't because we value hobby more than relationship, but because any women asking this question is a red flag that need to be avoided
Your hobby is a part of who you are. If nobody is getting hurt and it isn't an unhealthy addiction, then someone who truly loves you would never ask you to stop doing something that makes you happy and unique.
Just remember that the majority of inventors, explorers, adventurers, & trail blazers were not "lady's men".
Wow that is true
As were many great philosophers and spiritual teachers. Men achieve other things when they don't center their lives around women.
@@Chrysaetos11 Exactly!!!
Did they play with dolls and comic books though?
Tesla
If he treated her the way she treated him, it would be called being too controlling.
Toxic and abusive are the go to words.
People need to call out female narcissism. Its never addressed. At least half the women out there are extremely emotionally abusive and it gets dismissed or justified completely. This man is a gem and it upsets me to see him go through this.
Amen, Brother!
They're allowed to be passive aggressive, dismissive, judgmental, list their double standards, and at no consequence - it's ridiculous
That's the right term, "emotionally abusive".
@@Pala-t2p and yet when men do it, it's viewed as either being petty or misogynistic, more often than not both
Seriously, we hear about "toxic masculinity", no one talks in earnest about toxic feminity.
The saddest thing about all this is that he essentially wasted years of his life with that woman. One of the most difficult things about being a man in a relationship is that all the sacrifice that you make is often usually ignored, yet expected. But, never appreciated. Nothing is ever good enough.
Wasted time on a partner that doesn't work out is saddest of all. You can make money back 😏
He had 100k subs in 2016, if he didn't waste time on her he could have a million subs rn, he could be bigger than Pearl and make 6 figures off UA-cam easily, she stole his earning potential, his happiness and chance of meeting someone who could have been great for him
@@Cyzure he made the choice himself. The man admitted himself that he was the one who made the mistake. He took accountability for his choice. He didn't blame the woman he was with. Yes the woman was wrong but the man ultimately made the wrong decision to give up Yugioh.
@@Vietmac1993 True
Not wasted. He's got more knowledge now than he ever has in his life so far. He can use that to benefit his goals. As long as you learn from your time spent, no time is wasted.
It's like she's trying to make him into the type of guy she knows she couldn't get
Hes not making enough money for her to take in a divorce yet.
🤯 pfff… That’s deep, You couldn’t have said it better.
She's wants to also elevate herself socially by being married to someone who has a degree. Then she can hopefully marry a rich college educated man next marriage. 😂
💯
Some woman want us to be the “Ken” doll, completely moldable
This is like the Seinfeld episode where "the guys" (Jerry and George) enjoy saying "Hellooooooooo!" in a really strange voice. When the girlfriend tells Jerry to choose either her or the stupid greeting, Jerry responds by giving her the greeting. Which is the way it should be.
Bro, if he kept his 2016 YuGiOh channel.... The guy would have been killing it right now.
I’ve fallen in love with 3 hobbies over 2 marriages and ALL of them were demonized for taking too much time. Ultimately gave them up eventually. Tired of the nagging, shame and ridicule. Then, years later criticized for not having a hobby. You CANT make this shit up.
wait so those same women who shamed you into dropping your hobbies had the audacity to tell you you should have a hobby years later?
@@B1-997 approved hobbies, like whatever they your skillset to be in that moment of time.
@@B1-997 Whatever doesn't take time away from them or the kids, and that makes them look good and maybe makes a profit that they can spend for you.
If you ever trade your peace of mind, for anything, you will end up with neither.
@@dustinmiller2775 well said
@enochjesus6169 thanks, it is a Brian Tracy quote. 🙂
Every time I mentioned starting my own contracting business to my ex-wife, she would start arguments about I would be a failure. After I caught her with another dude and divorced her, I started my contracting business and years later an engineering business. When I met my real wife, she was behind me 100% with any business decisions I made. Now with the most awesome marriage for over 25 years, we live at the coast with my only real hobby being fishing. The only thing she pushes me about is she wants me to take more time away from my businesses and take time for myself to go fishing and enjoy life.
She sounds like a real catch!🐟
no need to say "real" as if one was fake.
Beautiful, congrats brother! That's a happy ending and I hope it lasts a lifetime
@@chrisparkhurst5158 - Thanks! Makes a difference with a good person in your life.
and she cheated behind yo back
As an Autistic my special interests are video games and art. There's no way I'm giving up my special interests for a woman.
Artist and casual gamer here too. If some women don't like that, then they aren't for me.
Same here. My current partner has figured out I'm giving up my video games and music.
@@aiodensghost8645current partner that is so annoying what happened to boyfriend or girlfriend husband or wife
That was painful to watch. That wasn't his hobby, it was his livelihood. It was what he used to pay the bills and earn a living.
There is a comic book store called My Mother Threw It Away.
No way! Thats hilarious! Ive heard so many horror stories from collector's because of their mom, wife, or girlfriends throwing out their stuff.
The back room is the "My wife threw these away" section.
@@joeynova9896 Yet, these women have no problem hoarding their own stuffs. See if these women donate or sell their clothing and fancy goods. They don't respect other person's property.
My mother GAVE away my Snes with a couple of games, my Sega mega drive with about 20 boxed games and my OG gameboy and Gameboy colour with about 25 games plus the rumble pack/clip on magnifying glass with the light and a few other accessories.
This was 20 years ago, and I'm still bitter 😂
My wife is generally pretty good about supporting my hobbies (Running, swords, guns, bladesmithing) as long as I'm doing my part to watch our child. It's pretty obvious though that my sister in law tries to get in her head sometimes and convince her that I'm a sucky father.
People forget that humans just named and described existence. One of my favorite quotes is "Where did the person who invented college go to college?" Everything has become unnecessarily convoluted. School is set up to make certain types of learners into good employees.
social engineering
College wasn’t invented to educate you respectfully.
Hey Pearl watching the Kardashians isn't a hobby most girls don't have hobbies
If you have 1 hobby good for you. If you have many hobbies, even better! 😊
When a man meets his woman, he hopes she won't change. When a woman meets her man, she thinks she can make him better.
@@JM800 ohhh man ain't this a fact been going through this. she done pulled a 180.. unrecognizable to who she used to be.....
Find someone who loves who you are, not what they want you to be
The biggest problem here was she did not accept him for who he is, and he listened to her on something she was not the authority on.
Very well said
Thank you, Pearl, for continuing to defend men at this sad time in our country's history. We definitely need a reformation of our laws so they're not so one-sided in divorce cases.
Who is raising these women to believe that it's their job to make men miserable?
Other women.
The effinist Manifesto
There mom
Single mommas
The media
"There's no hole worth giving up your happiness for."
Branding a woman as a "hole"... thats pretty horrible man. Almost like there is more to a relationship than sex...
This guy says he is not good at school, but he is very articulate and insightful - seems very intelligent to me!
In the "olden" days, boys were quickly identified and moved from "book smart" to "vocational smart". Identification not always perfect, but mostly spot on. Vocational classes have mostly been eliminated and replaced by liberal arts type classes. Huge mistake. What a great guy he is. Get back to who you are and don't be ashamed ever of what gift God gave you.
Nikola Tesla, "Be alone, that is the secret of invention". Mig - Tow like many of us.
All the way!
Thats a form of mental abuse, controlling and belittling your partner to manipulate them.
Unless a hobby is financially getting in the way of living (like an addiction) then there is no problem having that hobby
It's getting in the way, woman have a long list of projects they want done and those need time and money.
@melissasmess2773 ok, well in some free time to myself I'm going to paint my historical figures.
@@melissasmess2773I will paint alternative historical figures and play magic. Have you leveled your culinary skills to make a proper sandwich? 😊 I've had rough day making a vlog for playing mtga
@@the98themperoroftheholybri33 women don't see it
That's the sign of a toxic relationship, regardless which gender is doing that. You shouldn't try to constantly control, or belittle your partner, you should try to build them up, and encourage them to do better.
This video is award-worthy!
He's a creative; and has found a way to make it work for him.
my hobbies are videogmaes , cycling and gardening , if a woman told me to drop any of these because she dont like it im throwing the relationship out the window LMAO
This guy was a joy to listen to And Pearl your dad was wise.
Men will end up financially supporting women in one way or another. Even if you choose not to be a workhorse your taxes still largely go to things that support women. Even if you go full sigma you still can't get away from the leeches.
Exactly
Unfortunately, was explaining that for 20 years, almost no one listens.
If they are going to do that as an individual find ways to give minimal investment. Some Alcohol is 90% taxable here so it’s something you can do without. Become more self sufficient and talk objectively,logically and openly with these topics. The price of authenticity is expensive but it’s worth every cent as you will find the right people.
While that is true for the most part. But supporting them second or third hand. While having your peace and quiet at home without them making you miserable.
Will always be better than a man taking care of a modern day wahman first hand.
Any woman who gives an ultimatum over a hobby gets dumped for the hobby every time. It won't stop with just the hobby.
A top exec @ Sweet Baby inc. recently admitted the real agenda was to "Subvert genre expectations & Burn the male-dom Games Industry to the ground"
They're the useless idiots the communists are using to demoralize us.
The man have over 100k subscribers. He's doing something right
This shows how we are willing to change for someone, even it costs our passions, sacrifices, habits and inner personality... And yet is not enough...
this* shows..
And yet that effort isn't reciprocated back to us.
A woman's main subconscious desire is to see if she can bring you to heel, If she can, she's unhappy & if she can't, you are cold & uncaring & she's unhappy
But it will always be your fault, not hers no matter what,
Don't bother. Go your own way as It's pointless
Sadly I'm really feeling it's not worth it anymore and I'm a giver
...
Academics is not for everyone. There are many very successful and happy people who do not have degrees.
Not to mention many unemployed or underemployed people who do have degrees.
Incredible video. It's so unfortunate he had to go through this. I'm happy he understands that no matter how many times he tried to put her happiness first, it was never going to be good enough for her. Enjoy living your life, and keep winning those duels. 💯
This is why apprenticeships were such a good thing
Don’t believe in women, “Believe in the Heart of the Cards.”
Lmao
Is this the first woman he has ever met? They’re all like this.
Not all, but quite a few people are. Even some men.
Haha ya no kidding 😂
Women get jealous of men and what they enjoy. The focus is not on them.
Guys don't get married and do what you love. Never let a woman get in the way of your passion.
Keep preaching us women need to hear this
but you don't listen
Lol yeah it goes in one ear and out the other
you just hear but dont understand
Hearing and listening are different.
Fortunately my wife understands very well that my hobbies are very important to me.
Women don't want men to have hobbies unless they're tasking him
If it doesn’t benefit them they will seek and destroy
@mattboyer3385 no. Women don't want men to have hobbies because it makes them happy. Nothing makes a woman more miserable than seeing a man happy, especially a single man.
@@Insight-music The second part is right.
At this point everyone should just listen to Myron from F&F. These modern women are too extreme for normal interactions....
Yugioh is like complex chess, it’s pretty fun if you learn.
Only know up to synchro summon
The anime ongoing
@@567xxs The only way modern yugioh is like chess is if you play with someone and they constantly slap your hand away every time you try to make a move. 😂
Women see men happy -
"Well we can't have that can we?"
Yep you make some great points pearl nailing it today
He wasnt strong enough to stand his ground and fight for what he loved. A job where he made a quite good living out of it from the comfort of his home. But hey! You live and you learn😣...
Why do women do this to men, cariña?
The only thing she said that was good was “you need to exercise”. That one is true. Everything else is irrelevant. Exercise helps your body grow stronger, recover, and gain focus in other areas of our life.
They killed movies and most video games 😢😢😢
Actually, both Karens, and goofy men did too. Heck a male music composer for gamers flat out said he hates gamers recently.
iam very agree with this... they invade the company and destroy it within..
Videogames "appeal to the male fantasy" bro
He tribute-summoned his channel back from the graveyard by sacrificing a monster. 😂 Now he might special-summon another waifu from his deck. One thing’s for sure, though: This guy ain’t casting Monster Reborn on the one he sacrificed anytime soon.
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Ask him to keep his head up! Yugi-Oh is a pretty interesting fun game
His problem with school may be that it wasnt his decision. He doesnt have the drive to complete it. Put on top of that, the woman that had him start school, is no longer there. If he ends up with a degree, he may always have that bad reminder of her, even if its something good.
She also wasn't a good choice though.
He doesn't day anything about it, but going from paying the bills with a hobby to being in debt for someone else's orders might be the real issue.
How can you finish school if you can't pay for it?
Never give up your hobbies for her
Ever^
"A woman will dull the warrior's blade"
This dude got ADHD. Everything he’s talking about with inability to retain information into his long-term memory and focus issues is hallmark of someone with that diagnosis.
His girlfriend didn’t embrace his neurodivergence and its challenges.
That’s what this story is about.
💯 Simping 😂
Underrated comment indeed. As someone who as also been diagnosed with ADHD back in the 80s, the truth is that we're not good at regurgitating facts about things we don't care about. This makes us seem 'stupid' in a school setting, but if you actually make us interested in something, you'll see that we're some of the smartest people out there. We just don't learn like 'normal' people..
I'm starting to be in the school of ' if she divorces you and takes hakf your sht, you're financially better off because your bills were cut by 2/3rds now you're single'
Pearl you're getting better and better👍🏾
I’m so lucky my wife has NEVER tried to squash my hobbies. Comics, writing, geeky shows, sports…she’s always been cool with it. I’ve always made sure my outside activities never interfered with our relationship or were a burden on her.
Albert Einstein once said, " Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand."
Its been great seeing you mature pearl.
Pearl, you're doing great. Thanks
This guy is a legend in the Yu-Gi-Oh side of UA-cam.
I'm glad he managed to get rid of that nonsense and can finally be himself again.
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What’s his channel? Need to sub now!!
@ayoodreamz5574 it's called YourYugiohChannel
Thx subbed
When you get older women wish men had hobbies
My best friend was in a relationship with this one girl many, many years ago and she didn't like me or anyone else in our friend group hanging out with her boyfriend (there were about eight of us at the time). According to my buddy she gave him an selfish ultimatum, either she goes or he stops hanging out with his friends. Present day he's happily married with a different woman, a few kids and a good home and still hangs out with our friend group.
This is soo on point! Love you Pearl!!
It's a real shame when you consider how beloved he was in the Yugioh community.
The only issue my wife has with my video games is when they get in the way of my responsibilities. Which is totally different than this, and fair. Not to mention if you have kids (Which we do), both of your hobbies take a back seat.
My hobbies are playing video games and watching anime and drawing monsters
Good on you mate... You got interests :)
Epic. Based
@treyrachal3013 Its great to be retired, isn't it?! Drawing monsters, painting models, chasing women...great life.
Right of the bat, the guy states she didn't like something about him, so he exchanged his happiness for hers. It wasn't the key to happiness or a lasting relationship. She saw him as a project, not uncommon behaviour for people. When we strive to the approval of others, we take our own selves outside of who we are and what he came here for. Truth be told, everything is just lessons and tests. His was to set a better boundary, and hers was to love him for who he is, not what she sees as his potential. Learn and grow. Let go of those that don't walk this path.
There is a technical reason why people fall asleep when they study.
Pearl you are not just national treasure. You are a world treasure. Thank you for all you do to help men and show other women what's wrong.
Women MUST respect men's hobbies.
Men MUST respect women's hobbies.
It goes both way.
My late wife loved collecting shoes, for every conceivable situation, which she never really wore.
His former wife didn't believe in the Heart of the Cards as much as she favored the thickness of his wallet.
12:25 Main takeaway is that the right thing or the right words don't exist for the wrong person
Ill be into video games until the good Lord calls me home. Thus why i need to find a woman who has the same Hobbies or respects what i do for peace and joy...otherwise its a no go.
They are never satisfied until they make you a husk of whoever you used to be. Content like this is important for young men to avoid pitfalls just like this. If whatever is going on irritates your soul and younget that deep feeling in the pit of your stomach, please believe it is your guardians trying to warn you!
My Dad owed an automotive shop. Mad3 good money but my mother spent $2000 a week on other people. Fed my dad macaroni and beans. He died, and she is broke.
They love to "try". But what they get is a breakup. No one will control my life.
At the end of the Day we are all people on a rock drifting through space , no point or purpose we just are. And its our hobbies that are passion fueled more than anything. Do your hobby.
Those cards go up in value. Period.
So, um, yeah. NEXT!?
Maybe being single ain't so bad.
No, it's wonderful
My grandfather built a house, built a number of sheds, built a farm, bred some of the finest wool in Australia at the time, could play violin by ear, did the books, never drank and made a lot of money - his training at school - just to get through it. His wife, my grandmother stood by him, and she did her thing, didn't try and change him one bit nor he try to change her!
Oh that's toxic. When you study and work and there is people telling you are lazy. That crap is terrible for mental health. The best thing you can do is get rid of those people and surround yourself with the friends that do support you. Real people.
Why would any man give up any hobbie, that brings him joy, he's good at it and don't damage anyone else but also is a source of income, just because a woman don't like it? Nobody should waste time listening to the opinion of a person like that
Your passion is your own passion. Your hobbies is your hobbies. No one can change that. Especially, never let a woman control your passion and hobbies. A woman can join in your passion or hobbies. It's about spending time together. Not nagging and controlling.
Is not about the hobbies, is about insane entitled double standards as being mad with a man for expending 50 bucks on a videogame which give many days worth of entertainment and simultaneously expect that same man gifts her a thousand dollars handbag that she probably would use twice a year serving no other function than try to impress other women, that is how they think and this is way you should never cave to their demands.
Even if he passed school. That is not a guarantee to anything. Now he has that school Debt and no degree after giving up his Hobby/Dream that was making money and she STILL left.
He said he doesn't want to blame her - but he should! He made some bad choices, and he's taking responsibility for that. But so should she. She was selfish and contradictory, and treated him like a servant at her whim.
Child support should be based on the cost of raising a child
Absolutely not. The government deciding how much it costs to raise a child? Nothing like out of touch silver spoon politicians dictating how much it costs to raise a child. It would be 100% of a average person's Income making it impossible for the person who has to pay to survive.
No rules exist obviously except contracted legal