The Old Gays: Throuples, Love After Fame, and Getting Older | Full Documentary

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  • @OurQueerLife
    @OurQueerLife  4 місяці тому +23

    Go to ground.news/Cullen to think critically about the news you consume, and get all sides of every story. Subscribe through my link to save 40% off unlimited access.

  • @ryanambrose7273
    @ryanambrose7273 3 місяці тому +81

    “I don’t take crap, because I love me” best advice ever ❤

  • @wvanderwahl
    @wvanderwahl 3 місяці тому +45

    These "older" gays paved and lead the way for the way we live today.
    The young queens prancing around in feathers, beads wearing hot shorts have these fine gentlemen to thank for. These men sacrificed everything for us. We should salute them. We should respect them. We should honor them in every way possible.

    • @billzero7274
      @billzero7274 3 місяці тому +11

      Well said. I am a 68 yo gay man. Younger gay men do not realize what we went through. Never take your liberties for granted, the fight for equality must continue!!

  • @S_H9260
    @S_H9260 4 місяці тому +96

    These gentlemen are very likeable. Their faces are all lit up, they must be happy together. I'd love to have men like them as uncles. I know they have some interesting stories to share.

  • @wayfairing_soul
    @wayfairing_soul 4 місяці тому +85

    I would love to see more from our elder community members. We need to preserve their stories because they are our stories. Thank you, Matt. ❤❤❤❤

    • @TheNovaSosa
      @TheNovaSosa 3 місяці тому +3

      a lot of them died from the aid epidemic. it's the main reason we don't see that man gay elders out and about.

  • @thundercaaat
    @thundercaaat 4 місяці тому +44

    Who doesn't love these gentlemen?!
    ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Nielsplaysmusic
    @Nielsplaysmusic 4 місяці тому +140

    The Golden gays! They are just so precious 🥹🩷

    • @Blackfoxxblackfox
      @Blackfoxxblackfox 4 місяці тому +8

      That should really be what they are called! Such a fitting word. Nothing but a ray of golden sunshine with them!

    • @Nielsplaysmusic
      @Nielsplaysmusic 4 місяці тому +7

      @@Blackfoxxblackfox ☀️🩷☀️ truly! Hearing their sweet stories through Matt’s compassionate interview was so lovely and important.

    • @Bee2o13
      @Bee2o13 3 місяці тому +1

      💜🎯💯🎯💜

    • @vickitrotter3404
      @vickitrotter3404 3 місяці тому +2

      I love them!!!❤

    • @Groundedsquirrel
      @Groundedsquirrel 3 місяці тому +2

      I adore them. Glad you did this!

  • @rickgarms7656
    @rickgarms7656 3 місяці тому +11

    I love the way these guys embrace their age with a great degree of reality. Many over 60 Gay Males fight to NOT be their age every day with often disastrous results. Every vlog/interview/production of theirs I've viewed has be heartwarming. Thanks, Matt, for adding to their stories. Cheers All. 🏳‍🌈🏳‍⚧

  • @4thMonth_April
    @4thMonth_April 3 місяці тому +15

    I LOVE Jessay! He is willing to be transparent with things that are hurtful and damaging. He lost his “home,” he is the last family member from his era. He opened about. One of his most painful memories, and ends with his growth.
    Thank you Jessay.🥰😊

  • @maxgoodman2986
    @maxgoodman2986 3 місяці тому +30

    Thank you for chronicling the stories of our gay ancestors and transcestors, who had to bear the trauma of AIDS and the constant fear of being outed and/or ostracized. And thank you for reminding us about heroes like Elizabeth Taylor, who embraced the community without judgement, and changed the trajectory of AIDS research and public perception.

  • @DavidNPS
    @DavidNPS 3 місяці тому +17

    I love the way Matt represents himself with Kindness , Charm and Dignity. One of My Fave interviewers on any platform.

  • @SarahCarroll1987
    @SarahCarroll1987 4 місяці тому +28

    Dreams do come true! Matt & the Old Gays together yey 🎉🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  4 місяці тому +5

      My dream too!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jonlul
    @jonlul 3 місяці тому +10

    I haven’t seen the old gays for awhile, I do like that someone called them the Golden Gays. I love that title even more. I’m so happy to see them. I loved this.

  • @sarcastic-old-broad
    @sarcastic-old-broad 3 місяці тому +21

    Hello my dear. 50+ year ally here. First gay man I met was my cousin and his boyfriend. I was very young, but I knew I loved spending time with them. Of course my Aunt would never accept and always said they were roommates. The history of these wonderful men and others in the community is vitally important for queer youth to hear from. I got threatened just walking into a gay bar back in the day. I lost a lot of friends, and still have friends from back in the day. Queer history is so important. Thanks for doing this. If I make it to Palm Springs I must have a cocktail with these lovely men!

  • @candybox5360
    @candybox5360 4 місяці тому +27

    MC, as an older gay ( not as old as them!) I understand where they are coming from. They -WE-are fonts of knowledge that the young gays could easily toss in trash. Glad you are honoring them! Nice work my dear. 💜💎🌈💋

    • @Zyryne1
      @Zyryne1 3 місяці тому +2

      They are walking history and children have no idea nor care really about any of it. SMH. 😊❤

  • @brandilowe1916
    @brandilowe1916 4 місяці тому +23

    this interview was everything.

  • @missribbon
    @missribbon 4 місяці тому +38

    Matt you were absolutely born for this. You are so genuine, kind & empathetic & it makes so happy to see, every single video. 🫶

    • @chrisk7091
      @chrisk7091 4 місяці тому +3

      He is !!!
      the way he greets all his guests w so much respect and positivity

  • @monacheveres8701
    @monacheveres8701 4 місяці тому +22

    Hi Matt it was nice to see the old gay guys I'm 72-year-old trans woman been trans all my life I kind of understand what they're going through and I wish them all the love in the world God bless you you're a godsend💜

  • @Coyo-Tea
    @Coyo-Tea 3 місяці тому +1

    I am a 58 year English woman who had never heard of these lovely men. They have stolen my heart, what a truly beautiful group of men they are. I hope I see more of them and so wish they were my friends. Just love them so much. ❤❤❤❤

  • @sugarsore
    @sugarsore 3 місяці тому +5

    This video and your video titled "Gay Age Gap Couple" are some of the most compelling I've seen from you. Hearing their stories is fascinating. Your conversation with the 98 year old gentleman in the Age Gap video was profound. I think we forget how much we can learn from older people.

  • @Nmh86
    @Nmh86 4 місяці тому +13

    How wonderful to have such a well seasoned group of genuinely passionate gents to lean on.

  • @artSFCA
    @artSFCA 4 місяці тому +13

    Hi Matt, What you are doing is historical on UA-cam and the gay community. Keep going...

    • @OurQueerLife
      @OurQueerLife  4 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much for this!!! Your words motivate me ❤️

  • @LaLagunz187
    @LaLagunz187 3 місяці тому +23

    This generation takes for granted what the gays when through back then. People were dying but the thousands. Could u imagine losing all your best friends?

  • @cookingartguy2170
    @cookingartguy2170 4 місяці тому +14

    Loved this so much. I've been following those guys for a while and love hearing their stories and histories. I have to say that even when I was in my teens and twenties, I never had the ageism thing, in fact I really preferred and enjoyed befriending older folks, gay and straight, as I found them much more interesting. I wanted to hear everything about their lives and their histories and I'm still that way, even though I just turned 69 myself. I'm one of those people that could not care less what people think about my age, but I do realize there is lots of ageism towards older gays especially, with words like "trolls" etc. these guys are so full of life and so positive it's inspiring. I never thought I would get older lol, and always took care of myself but health problems started about 15 years ago and it's been one thing after the other, but I fight it as best I can. I think of all of those lost in the AIDS epidemic in their twenties and thirties and I realize how lucky and grateful I am. This was so well done and thanks for all you do.❤

    • @cadicorniche
      @cadicorniche 3 місяці тому +1

      Very well said. I'm right there with you in all that you've expressed. It's a true privilege to have reached our age.

  • @Zyryne1
    @Zyryne1 3 місяці тому +11

    The Old Gays are doing very important stuff. It's so nice to actually have honestly gay Elders. There was so long when we didn't have any. 😊❤

  • @higoralexandre2799
    @higoralexandre2799 3 місяці тому +2

    How important and inspiring. Please keep showing this important messages trough the people’s life . Our community needs it. Thank you

  • @haircrazy79
    @haircrazy79 3 місяці тому +12

    My husband and I have been together 10 years, 4 of them married. We are in our mid 40's, (45 for me tomorrow actually). As we get older we think about our community and the importance of having good friends around us and doing more in our community. These lovely gentlemen are a huge inspiration. When I see them come on my screen I always try to watch and listen to them. It's the very least I can do to show them they are respected, loved, and celebrated. Even though they have no clue who I am. We owe that generation a HUGE thank you and hug for what they have gone through and more importantly a thank you for being a part of where we are today. Thank you The Old Gays! ♥

  • @terrellburton1905
    @terrellburton1905 4 місяці тому +14

    Matt!! You have out done yourself!! I such a fan of these men it’s so refreshing watching them. You are the perfect interviewer! I love you Matt!!

  • @SamBroadway
    @SamBroadway 3 місяці тому +30

    I stopped counting my friends lost to HIV at 50... That was in 1991... It was a very sad time

    • @JNO_JNO
      @JNO_JNO 3 місяці тому +1

      I was in my 20s in the 1980s ….. we lost so many beautiful young men ….lovers, friends ….. it was a horror story but there was also love and humour and bravery …..I refuse to remember my 20s as a horror story ….it was that but it was also so much more ….

  • @lynnefischer3352
    @lynnefischer3352 3 місяці тому +5

    I love this so much. I always see them together but it was really great to hear stories of them seperately also. They are the best. You always do such great interviews. I love that I found tbis channel. ❤

  • @michelleelms9411
    @michelleelms9411 3 місяці тому +8

    This is my favourite episode to date! I love you Matt and The Old Gays! ❤

  • @valerierettig1656
    @valerierettig1656 3 місяці тому +1

    One of your best videos. Love the Golden gays ❤

  • @brendarolph-teisan4085
    @brendarolph-teisan4085 3 місяці тому +2

    I am madly in LOVE with these fabulous men!❤❤❤❤

  • @troylapersonerie
    @troylapersonerie 4 місяці тому +16

    omg I love the old gays!!

  • @jaysonlove5781
    @jaysonlove5781 3 місяці тому +6

    I love this so much!!! Our elders in the community tend to be forgotten or ignored so much. I'm glad to see there's a shift in the culture now. These are the people who paved the way for us to be who we are. It brings me joy to see that they continue to get their flowers. 💖💖💖

  • @cory_followell
    @cory_followell 4 місяці тому +5

    This was amazing Matt! Thank you for doing what you do 🥹

  • @margoburns9085
    @margoburns9085 3 місяці тому +5

    I just love these men. Thank you for asking them about their experiences. So happy for their success, but even happier to see their close bond with each other. Robert is an amazing artist. Love your videos!

  • @mrponderhoodoo
    @mrponderhoodoo 3 місяці тому +5

    Just a room full of beautiful souls. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @Dimi374
    @Dimi374 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for your humanity Matt!
    Always look forward to seeing your posts.❤

  • @deniselamb9922
    @deniselamb9922 3 місяці тому +4

    Omgosh just love them. I feel like you could do a whole series with them. There is so much knowledge there. ❤

  • @melaninmonroe007
    @melaninmonroe007 4 місяці тому +6

    Yes! We need more golden gays! They lived our history ❤❤

  • @meepmoopiethe3rd
    @meepmoopiethe3rd 3 місяці тому +10

    I absolutely love these guys. Found them by complete accident when I was having my gender/sexuality crisis in my early 20s and they made me feel safe. Which I know is dumb because I've never met these guys, but they're just such nice people and it assured me life will be ok for me someday.

  • @vilanyas.1808
    @vilanyas.1808 4 місяці тому +9

    Awesome piece, Matt, as ALWAYS! Entertaining, insightful and informative ❤

  • @kentbrooks3227
    @kentbrooks3227 3 місяці тому +3

    This is the interview we've been waiting for. Thank you.

  • @mblaine012015
    @mblaine012015 3 місяці тому +4

    This video. Omg, did it pull at my heart! So sweet and so good. ❤

  • @MatteBlack2024
    @MatteBlack2024 4 місяці тому +14

    Thank you. I enjoyed this and hope you will continue to cover subjects over 50 more frequently. By doing so, you will meaningfully challenge the ugly ageism that damages not just the lives but legacies of activism and sacrifice of older gays.

  • @mattoneill1272
    @mattoneill1272 3 місяці тому +2

    Well done Matt. these stories need to be told. We lost too many.

  • @BiancaHernandez-o1n
    @BiancaHernandez-o1n 3 місяці тому +4

    All your interviews are great Matt.... But this one touched my heart. These men are our communities national treasure no doubt. What a life these gentleman have lived. I absolutely love them and hope we have them for many more years to come. 😘

  • @williamepps3
    @williamepps3 3 місяці тому +5

    They totally need their own reality tv show. They’re so awesome and fun!

  • @timturner5148
    @timturner5148 3 місяці тому +5

    I had the honor meeting these guys! Very sweet, funny and full of life! Love you all and hope to see you soon! Thank you Matt Cullen!

  • @SilverDramaQueen1
    @SilverDramaQueen1 3 місяці тому +4

    Oh my gosh!!! Loved this!!! So much fun!!!! Great video!!!

  • @davidnicholson6406
    @davidnicholson6406 3 місяці тому +3

    Yours is the best interview I've heard or seen of the old gays. I'm their age and was so uplifted and learned so much for my own life through your interview. Thanks

  • @3a5859
    @3a5859 4 місяці тому +5

    By Far this is the best interview he s taken so far. We should always honor and remember all these brave people who paved the way before us, they fought, they persevered, they won for us to be free to express our truth when being gay was a crime.
    Matt congratulations to you and these incredible gents I m so touched by all all of them by every word of this interview ❤🎉

  • @Ellaloveslofi
    @Ellaloveslofi 4 місяці тому +8

    I love all of your videos but this one made me smile the whole way through!❤ Thank you for sharing their stories! So inspiring! ❤

  • @GabsR-N
    @GabsR-N 4 місяці тому +5

    Ugh! I loved this episode so much! Thanks for the amazing content as always Matt 🥰🥰

  • @amellowe9323
    @amellowe9323 3 місяці тому +5

    Why are they so adorable and sweeeet 😭😭🥹I loved hearing the one gentlemen talk about the lil table he made 😂that was so wholesome

  • @catherinehaslam7126
    @catherinehaslam7126 3 місяці тому +4

    OMG!!!!LOVED THIS EPISODE!!!!! MATT I LOVE YOUR SPIRIT!!!!!!!

  • @mahlia0076
    @mahlia0076 4 місяці тому +16

    Jessay is so beautiful. What a perfect face.

    • @tinaismamama
      @tinaismamama 3 місяці тому +1

      Right!? The skin! The smile! The glow! Girl has got it going on! 😂😂😂

  • @Havvyer
    @Havvyer 4 місяці тому +34

    Ain't it funny how they lived some of the happiest eras of modern history, yet they couldn't be as happy being who they are in the prime? The irony!! They've also proven to be resilient and loving; that's how they've made it this far.

    • @ericdwhitmorec
      @ericdwhitmorec 3 місяці тому

      Well it wasn't the happiest eras for them. Thank Goodness they lived long enough to get here

  • @gerardamerongen4209
    @gerardamerongen4209 3 місяці тому

    Wow Matt...thanks so much for connecting with these older gay men who're often forgotten in the face of all the new dynamics out today in the LGBTQ community. I sure appreciate your thoughfulness and empathetic listening skills! There is so much wisdom and experience these guys have to share with younger gay men and women these days.

  • @michelewilliams5131
    @michelewilliams5131 4 місяці тому +4

    Such an amazing video! I’ve been following the old gays probably from the beginning! I love them! I’m so glad you got to spend time with them! ❤

  • @brandyrose9997
    @brandyrose9997 3 місяці тому +2

    Jessay is giving life, beauty and authenticity ❤

  • @aar8n955
    @aar8n955 3 місяці тому +3

    I love the Old Gays! They're such a hoot! I'm glad you got to spend time with them, Matt. 😂❤

  • @CdotC
    @CdotC 3 місяці тому +3

    Watching this in work and it’s making me teary 🥺 I need to get a grip 🥹

  • @ivonna.tinkle
    @ivonna.tinkle 4 місяці тому +10

    Beautiful people! I want to hear more about their lives, where they grew up, what their lives were like growing up gay. I’d love to see part 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5! A deep dive on who they are.
    We talk about younger people having old souls, but I love that these men are old, with young souls!
    I believe that a big part of age is in your mind!

  • @Howelton2020
    @Howelton2020 4 місяці тому +5

    I think they need a revisit. I have so many questions and love to hear more of their stories.

  • @barbmoore6587
    @barbmoore6587 3 місяці тому +4

    I am,one of the elders❤❤❤watching🫂👵🏼I'm so grateful for your ability to feel and heal with love and light🙏🏼🇨🇦✌🏼👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @CJayLyfe
    @CJayLyfe 4 місяці тому +5

    Matt has been killing it with the awesome content lately! Continued growth is noticed, even more so felt, and hopefully more than ever....SEEN! 🌚

  • @user-sb5qu1yf1q
    @user-sb5qu1yf1q 4 місяці тому +5

    Your channel just keeps getting better and better!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @MrSEEbrown
    @MrSEEbrown 4 місяці тому +9

    i worried about these amazing souls in 2020 as much as i did my own family. they are an amazing representation of a generation that was nearly wiped out, robbing the world of all of the potential contributions they could have offered. we are lucky to hear their stories

  • @mizpalou24
    @mizpalou24 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG i did not expect to CRY(weep)this Hard from this interview iLOVE the OldGays here in PalmSprings i have such an oLd soul thanks for this Interview and being here in PalmSprings which i had seen you to grab a picture with YOU💚🤳🏾🤞🏾

  • @anneredmoon
    @anneredmoon 3 місяці тому +6

    Yasss... Matt as one of the Old Gays.... I see it! Matt is an old soul, and a dear one. These gentlemen were a delight to watch. Thank you, as always, Matt, for gifting us this experience. Love you.

  • @jazzyflorida3757
    @jazzyflorida3757 3 місяці тому +2

    Love the old gays, we need to remember our history and gay elders ❤

  • @ur.highness
    @ur.highness 3 місяці тому +2

    This Episode was a bit emotional for me.I really loved hearing all of their stories,I just lalalove them 🫶🏽❤🏳️‍🌈

  • @gurlwhowants2dj
    @gurlwhowants2dj 3 місяці тому +5

    I'm grinning ear to ear and it's only been 30 seconds lol I feel the love 💕

  • @donseiler1307
    @donseiler1307 3 місяці тому +2

    Great video, thanks.

  • @sheldonsworld8853
    @sheldonsworld8853 3 місяці тому +1

    Love them and you Matt …keep up the diverse and inclusive work ! Xxx

  • @shiragoldberg7744
    @shiragoldberg7744 3 місяці тому +2

    I love/need this show! I still look forward to it every time it shows up on my feed

  • @kenneyhutchison189
    @kenneyhutchison189 3 місяці тому

    They deserve all the respect and attention they are receiving. They paved the way for so many of us!

  • @21sospecial
    @21sospecial 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the old gays! They just give me so much joy and laughter. They are sweet and just proud of who they are!

  • @evangaryhirsch
    @evangaryhirsch 4 місяці тому +5

    You know I am excited for this one, Matt!! Just saved to watch later tonight with Bill. Always exciting to see a new episode, but this is truly special and enticing... 😍

  • @nathalieli7617
    @nathalieli7617 3 місяці тому +1

    I missed them so much! I love their personalities and energy!

  • @tonirajap4180
    @tonirajap4180 3 місяці тому +2

    U have nothin but love for what u do. Thank you for the joy u bring❤

  • @elisabethjones9598
    @elisabethjones9598 3 місяці тому

    This is one of the most comfortable, most moving, and most loving sets of interviews I have seen. I loved these men before, and now I love them more. Thank you.

  • @neilschipper3741
    @neilschipper3741 3 місяці тому +2

    Absolutely fantastic video! My life has been similar to theirs😊 keep a positive attitude, meditate, don't accept you're getting old or sick! Thanks for sharing such a great video ❤️💕

  • @sallies9288
    @sallies9288 3 місяці тому +2

    Matt!!! Im a trans woman. This episode was truly amazing and then some.❤

  • @anitaheart
    @anitaheart 3 місяці тому +1

    Loved this Matt, so emotional! God bless you and the Old Gays, you’re all so sweet and special. ❤

  • @marvinraphaelmonfort8289
    @marvinraphaelmonfort8289 3 місяці тому +2

    love them, thankyou,matt! hope nobody tries to hurt them again😢

  • @dat1ndnguy
    @dat1ndnguy 3 місяці тому +1

    Yay!! It's longer than 10 minutes! These guys are all awesome!

  • @lisa4498
    @lisa4498 3 місяці тому +1

    Matt, thank you for covering these beautiful people! I have been following them for quite some time.

  • @BuddhatheRockstar
    @BuddhatheRockstar 3 місяці тому +2

    I learned a lot about what they have experienced ❤. Thank you for sharing the love.

  • @discoduckling
    @discoduckling 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for interviewing these lovely legends. I love them so much.

  • @afterthestorm221
    @afterthestorm221 3 місяці тому +1

    When you are finally able to experience and maintain internal peace you have desired for so long is sometimes bittersweet. ❤

  • @kathleengarrison1302
    @kathleengarrison1302 3 місяці тому +2

    I love these guys ❤
    I am so glad you’re doing an interview with them 💜

  • @CakeboyRiP
    @CakeboyRiP 3 місяці тому +2

    Love these guys. So happy for them living their lives

  • @kat8436
    @kat8436 3 місяці тому +2

    I love learning through your channel!!

  • @stevenmichaeleich9856
    @stevenmichaeleich9856 3 місяці тому +1

    This is the collab of the year!

  • @Adventureswithtwanandmu
    @Adventureswithtwanandmu 3 місяці тому +1

    This was beautiful. Much respect ❤

  • @michelleraffay2381
    @michelleraffay2381 3 місяці тому +1

    This was so phenomenal!

  • @Elkablues
    @Elkablues 3 місяці тому +1

    I've wanted you to interview them for so long I adore these brave men xxx ❤