Anxiety, Suicide, and Having NO PURPOSE (The CRAZIEST Re-Frame You've Ever Heard)
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
- Anxiety, Suicide, Depression are on the rise. Everyone is taking opioids and painkillers to dull the soul crushing weight of modernity.
But it doesn't make sense, we are well fed, warm, safe. We live in paradise, why is everything turning to ash in our mouths?
Obviously its because of muh meaning crisis, the death of God, muh nihilism
But we have to be clear - at the root of that is a MISUNDERSTANDING.
Our spirituality is rooted in our EMOTIONS - ever wonder why Satan and his demons appear to people as "temptations" and "evil thoughts" and "dark moods"
In order to "solve the meaning crisis" we will have to look to the SOURCE - our feelings - and come to UNDERSTAND THEM
In this video I do this using the old model of GREEK MYTHOLOGY to get the point across
...And for good measure:
Nietzsche wrote all his books because he was anxious by the thought of Marcus Aurelius waiting up in heaven ready to wrestle him into compromising positions in front of Jupiter
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" Certainty is for cowards. Embrace the chaos. Keep moving forward. Face it with courage, integrity and be as truthful as you can." Some fire right there!!!!
Embrace the chaos, nice
@VisNatura y? Because existential disorientation is within an arbitrary self limitation to stave off anxiety, immersing oneself in the chaos outside the citadel walls is a realisation, the dragon guards spiritual understanding, the dragon and the treasure are reciprocal, identical even, acknowledged, this is not an empirical concept but an archetype, a narrative as opposed to a vernacular of discrete units
Easy for this guy to say ...he’s not the one with a demon behind all day
I do it for the girl
@@aodhanodonnell2148 stop thinking bro
“He who has a why to live for can bare almost any how” - Nietzsche
Bro it’s a quote
@@osmanmohammad9118 funny how the guy who says cringe, is actually a bit cringey.
@VelkanWxlf. "Cringy" doesn't mean anything because what matters is if it's true
So true. Unfortunately a very tiny percentage of us have a why.
I think weak men full of philosophy are the core of the world's problems.
Yeah,...I said it.
Perhaps the best UA-cam video I've ever seen.
love it
I agree. ❤️🌈❤️🙏🏻❤️🌈
I agree
Yes💯💯💯💯
Unless you’re willing to lose your life, you’ll never find it
-Alan Watts
And others
True
Then pill poppers are very brave... they’re willing to lose their life and they don’t even know your suppose to look for or nevertheless find something
@@mariafitts Then go be pill popper
"For whoever wants to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it."
- Matthew 16:25
That's a common problem with most of this culture of "intellectualism". For some reason they always omit Christ in an attempt to make it Biblical teachings more palatable to the masses. In doing so, the true significance is lost. Timeless wisdom is reduced to a tagline. And instead of attributing what is due to the Lord, normal men become idolized.
Not condemning anyone. I'm pretty sure this is just as much of an introspective retrospection as it is a current observation. It's truly amazing how the human mind is designed, how perception of the world and self are so intimately intertwined.
You're absolutely right at 38:29 that when you realise you have nothing to lose you can finally give yourself the liberty to go all in on life.
I once put it in these words to someone who was feeling depressed and asking whether life was worth it:
"As we grow older, more knowledgeable and aware of our weaknesses, the childlike will to life, the sense of magic , novelty and unquestioned power fades out of focus. It is up to you to renew your vision by awakening a sense of vocation and intellectual intuition.
If you are pushed to nihilism by knowledge of the transcience of all things, the lack of grounding and the sense of unreality, remember that your impression of life was not always this way. If it is truly all in your head, then you can just as well turn life into a dream instead of a waking nightmare."
Yes, good take
in a lmore laconic and functional form, "just relax, it's all in your head". that was my mantra to help my depresion and anxiety tremendously. but yes, your verbose statement was very beautiful and poetic
True- the way I see it is a sober evaluation discloses life in its inherent worthlessness, it's possible to live arbitrarily and without fear, if you sacrifice everything, your life unambiguously, I mean viscerally with contempt for all life has to offer- life in itself, you're free,
The fight club film with brad pitt and ed norton illustrates the point, hence its popularity, live is livable, to be enjoyed, not in the wishy-washy sense of falling in love and a happy-ever-after, but an objective don't-give-a-fuck
This channel is a gem think ill stick around.
Thank you so much for this. After 3 years of depression etc. I feel this could really work. Much better than reading and rereading Nietzsche and Jung and trying to overthink myself out of it. Thank you for explaing these ideas so practically.
Sorry to hear about the depression!
On top of all this stuff - and I know it may sound trite or patronising - but make sure you have a clean diet, sunlight, and workout!
STAY JUICY
All psychological illness is the two hemispheres fighting, the bigger the fight the bigger the reconciliation and the energy produced from the final harmonious synchrony.
One year i was night logging in the deep north of canada. My saw had broken and i was repairing it, when i felt this intense feeling of immediate danger. I get these feelings out here a fair bit but not that strong. I pulled my wrench a few more times to finish fast then i turned and bolted as fast as i could towards the cab of my machine. I heard something behind me, but i got up on my machine. I turn around and a wolf the size of a tiger was 5 feet away from me looking at me. Idk if wolfo would have actually did anything, probably not to be honest. I think he was hiding about 15 feet away watching me fix the machine. I don't think he had any interest in fighting. But when i ran he got excited like any dog and chased me. I sensed this doggo wolfo without consious awareness, my instinct was to run. But running would have been the wrong action if i didnt have my machine only 4 big steps away. The unconscious is aware of things, but the urge to act may be wrong in many contexts. The right move woulda been to just do my work calm and walk back to the machine. Had i tripped running and fell in front of the machine he would caught me if he wanted.
Stuff like this, and the "I'm being watched" sense - we've got POWERS we aren't tapping into
That's a great story and a great lesson at the end. Indeed we have powers we're not tapping into but it's also easy to miss what a superpower our conscious mind is. I think that the sense of being watched is shared by countless species but humans are unique in our conscious abilities at least among Earth species and that's the biggest reason for our success even if it may have led to some of the abilities possessed by our ancestors, such as the sense of being watched, atrophying and falling at least partly into the unconscious.
@@uberboyo maybe, or perhaps it was his primal sense of smell triggered by a nearby dank predator who pees everywhere in his territory ? Did you know mice who never smelled a cat in thier life would go super anxious, if you were to put some cat fur in the cage / litter box in the same room ?
But if you can't trust your own sensations, what can you trust? Your own self doubt of your own instincts is itself a feeling you have.
That's making some large assumptions the other way: instincts can be honed.
You as a civilized person was very jumpy around that wolf. But would a hunter who had crept through those woods for years and may even feel some kind of kinship with his fellow predators react in the same way? He'd probably still feel the fear but would be adapted to the situation well enough to "fight" it and remain calm rather than flying; he might experience and interpret the fear in a different way. Why else would primitive man have the capacity for conscious inhibition?
What about in other areas: when you do something as simple as tying your shoelaces, it's a complex process when you don't know how to do it, but as we all are now you don't have to think about it. It is, "second nature."
I wouldn't go as far as to say that your emotions are infallible. What would it mean if they were? Infallible is just a notion we have, when what is right and wrong is relativistic.
But at the end of the day, you don't have much of a choice but to trust whatever limited understanding you are able to get from them even if the conclusions you draw from them may be wrong.
Apropos "powers". Atrophied or not, they can be trained. Saw this documentry some month ago and am still not sure, to which extend i "want" to believe this. Something like telepathy is hard to grasp for me, but tuning your nervous system into certain states to match those of other creatures isn't that far away and can be explained well by science.
The Animal Communicator And Her Incredible Ability: ua-cam.com/video/rQehXoCipts/v-deo.html
'People are having problems with emotional intelligence because they do not have a mythology to help thrm deal with it'...you know something man, I was struggling with Jung's 'myth' concept...it seemed a little vague or unexplained. I bought the Joseph Campbell 'Hero...' book to help me with it, but that sentence you just said was like a eureka! moment for me. Fair play man, you're kicking ass..excellent stuff!
its all a PERSPECTIVE reframe ;)
So glad I found your channel
It blows my mind how much I'm comprehending from your teaching. Months ago I thought you were just funny and entertaining enough to spend my time listening. But now everything you're saying makes sense.. actually, too much sense. I'm a high school drop out from south Carolina.. I think I'm even developing a European type accent..
everything is going exactly to plan - im going to have all the ameriboyos speaking with an irish accent soon...
You are probably saving my life, as I was already contemplating reasons why I should NOT end it. The figure in black is already speaking to me right now.
I hope you're doing great now 💓
You'd love reading 'The Old Man and The Sea' by Ernest Hemingway if you haven't already, really highlights the nobility of man struggling for victory for its own sake. Beautiful piece of literature.
Gonna give it a try
I read it before, Hemingway never did it for me really, it reflects his macho ethos, the struggle has nobility to it but it's not indispensable, It's like an army general taking himself seriously because of his duty to deploy tactics and minimize the loss of his troops, it's a solemn duty but he's propagating war of his own will
Happy to hear I’m not the only one that uses the “well ice cream does have protein” excuse. Great work as always. Can’t wait to hear your convo with Paul VanderKlay, that man is putting out great content daily.
we recorded the other day! its on the way!
Damn I didn't expect much when this popped up in my feed and he confronted my darkest thoughts and reframed them as positive. I'm blown away
This guys education is what i work toward in life... I love this man.
45:30 you just took my entire existence apart Jesus. Waiting for the perfect moment to turn ideas into reality and fix/create everything I have in mind. But there is always something ‘wrong’, so I have an excuse for apathy.
Urgh tell me about it
We need more people like you on this earth. I will be telling everyone I know about your videos. May the logos bless you!
thank you boyo!
Both your hilarious sense of humour and incredible, fun and quirky analogies made the subject matter of this video much easier to appreciate and enjoy. I think I've found myself another favourite UA-camr alongside Max Derrat :) (I found your channel through him).
Brilliant - thank you!!!
Max's series on Aion is going to be great!
You guys are doing great work. Keep going. Pleasure hangin with you during these broadcasts.
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You are such a breathe of fresh air right now. Thank you!
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Hes going full alpha.
Legend has it he fought Bane on top of a mountain and took as a prize after beating him...
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I had a huge falling out with my masonic lodge, glad i found this channel.
You totally convinced me when you said go against your fears. "Just do it!" :)
You're right about the evil of the world. It can pierce you like nothing else.
Because of our expectations we hold caused by morality?
Thank you for this, it was intensely inspiring and enjoyable at the same time. The way you deliver the story gave me a hearty laugh which I needed. I think this is the first time I comment on a video, but after watching it you appeared in my dream so I thought I will appear somewhere too. Keep going
"satan" doesnt wither away he becomes an unconscience force that grows stronger and will hunt you later.
Anderson Ultra damn bro way to put chills down my back
I look at it as a rock as 'the satan' figure, and you toss the rock into a pond and you think that rock is gone forever. What you do not realize is that you seem to always ignore the ripples, and so it returns NOT as the rock, but probably as the silky skin of the woman that you fell in love with and you call it 'Fate' and you now believe in fate.
However, just 3 years later and you wonder how you became a deeply depressed homeless alcoholic in just 3 years. Now you must stay on the streets as a homeless man to avoid jail.
It's because "satan" has an unfaultering sense of purpose
Heard a guy who jumped off a bridge and survive say the second he left the bridge and began falling that suddenly he realised none of his problems mattered anymore and he could overcome it all. Sad to think other jumpers who dont survive might also experience this
This is unbelievably good
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Good content Boyo. I’m a Counsellor myself and I would say, keep up the good work. Great to hear this on a podcast (I’m new here so don’t know if do have one).
Oh and praise the Mighty algorithm that brought me here.
Thanks for the talk and that warm welcome in the intro!
Also loved that Jordan Peterson impression. Fkn hilarious
Absolutely golden. I *really* agree with the Jungian frame of our primitive, foundational emotions being personified as Gods. I genuinely believe this and having this new frame has projected me so far forward in life
Because just like my primitive emotions are Gods, my highest, best self is also a God. My Nous is the King of my Psyche, he is Deus Pater. Just as the All-Father brings into order the cosmos of Gods, I too can bring into order my psyche, the internal cosmos
"I'm pretty sure I'll be Napoleon by next year" haha
right after I intergrate my shadow
I've come to believe that this guy is the best conveyor of truth I've heard yet. He is so we'll spoken...
Thanks for this. Im an overthinker yet I forget to fully think about my feelings and why I'm actually having them, I feel dumb for not coming to this conclusion on my own.
Can't wait! Commented exactly that on your last video. Cheers boyo
Mate this is a proper excellent video. This boyo right here got a lot out of listening to you. Keep up the great work ✊🏼
thank you my man! stay juicy!
blessed that some one talks about it in their free time
The premise of IFS therapy is similar to what you talk about here: all parts of your psyche have positive intent - this frame of mind allows one to actually face and convers with their shadow rather than hiding/suppressing it out of disdain, fear, or judgment of that aspect of the psyche.
Every feeling is trying to help you.
BOOM
This is pretty amazing . Listening while I do my boring everyday chores and keep getting goosebumps.
This is the best therapy session you'll ever have
Respect man! Thanks for your free content I appreciate it
Just heard your discussion on Untimely Reflections! Fantastic work you guys are doing!
fear is like in a video game, when you die & then respawn, you're extra careful where you died the previous life. our fears are the experiences of our ancestors telling us to be careful in specific situations because they died/hurt themselves there
Yoh looking dapper af good sir
Damn bro...1:17:49 to 1:18:46 that shit cut to my soul. Well said...thank you for that.
I found your channel a few days ago and I have watched fully 4 of your videos over and over and backed up again and again
Great work
Wow. Stumbled upon a great channel. Laughed authenticity several times.
I'm so happy that I came across your channel! It's definately a worthy thing, thank you so much for your work!
9:06 holy crap , you’re a saviour.
A groan from the body: 'Mooah!' and then from the heart: "Arggh". Haha, that's gold!
Good job uberbrotha
This channel inspired me to make my own yt channel.
Your channel is such a gem! Thank you!!
Enjoyed to a great extend, thank you for your efforts! 🙏
Very good shit bro. Your thoughts and insights are greatly appreciated.
I just discovered your channel and I fucking love it. Keep up the great work!
Good video. I think it sums up some points you have made previously in a nice coherent way.
I also however want to point out that i think the god metaphor is great for explaining things, but can lead to feelings being defined under a brush which is too wide. For example, the god of love would perhaps be defined as the part of you which both wants sexual gratification, and intimate romantic relationships. It seems however that it is more correct to split this one god into two gods, who will have to both be accommodated. I base this on the fact that the ned for sexual satisfaction can be accommodated without the need for intimate relations being so, and one should therefore be careful when destilling a feeling, into one goal, since this will lead to the neglect of others.
Absolutely, I think this is what happens when you really do this properly, you begin to understand it like a musician understands all the diffrent subtle notes
I imagine that people DID this for thousands of years, and that why Greek Myth is so powerfully psychologically resonant (3 names/Gods for love?)
1:02:43 That Jordan Peterson impression is class. 😂😂😂
For such touchy subjects this story was fascinating and full of well-rounded perspective(s)! Great point on saying Emotions are riddle-like, I've found so far most of life really is haha! Thanks for the confirmation , yet again.
this channel is a treasure
"No more ice cream, Satan" should be a t-shirt
Hahaha I’d buy it
O man I'm so happy I found you. :) love your brain. Also you make me laugh in midst of watching a video on suicide and anxiety...ehhhhgg ice cream 🍦. Haha. Definitely a great channel. Thank you
Good one, boyo, got it, probably listen to this several times....
It's culturally normal to both eat so much sugar your teeth ache and to celebrate slave mentality. Quitting sugar may just be one gateway to a stronger mind.
Thank you for this.
Your videos are so important. Thank you
Zeus: So Death is like Sleep?
Suicide Dude: Yes it is.
Zeus: That why it's important to get your zzzs everyone. Court is adjurned.
By order of the Peaky Plinders?
By the order of the Collective Unconscious, by the Order of Merlin.
Finallly. A good quality camera.
I found your channel from watching the Jung piece. You're quite interesting. Very informative. Loving this channel. Thank you for taking the time to compile all of these. I'm learning, and loving it. Cheers!
Thank you.
I can't stop envisioning you standing on the bouey of a sea plane as it ascends in to the heaven. Sallt water misting into your hair while your out stretched hand grasps at the orange morning sun as it just breaks the horizon.
You said something about anger and heirarchy and kings and stuff. I can't pay attention.
I just love how you use your hands with such emotional intensity.
Yes aries help me. I am hungry.
Back to the fantasy
Thanks for this! New subscriber. Good stuff.
Upvote squad assemble!
thanks as always my man!
I love your content. I'm so happy I stumbled upon your channel! Love 😘 from Denver Boyo!
Great video again
Thanks, inspiring stuff
41:38. I’m laying here being genuinely inspired and awestruck AND YA PULL A MEME OUT OF YA FUR COAT LIKW THAt??
Fuck u dude
I love you
fantastic video. thanks.
embrace the boyo within
Thank you
So young and cheeky.. your favorite aspects of Jung will change over time
This guy could be my dietician and exercise coach any day of the week. Every time I go to grab something, he just pops up, 'resist the devil, boyett. Starve the devil.' 👥
Great !
I thought i had overcome Nihilism many years ago. Now, as I delve deeper and deeper into the AI topic, my thoughts become darker and darker. I don't know if Nietzsche or Jung or Peterson have the wisdom for the new reality we find ourselves in.
I had a fear of real violence and still do kind of, it’s not so much the violence anymore as the fear of the outcome of violence. I got into boxing and did the same as you, but I knew it meant nothing unless I test it out in the ring. I’ve done that now. It was surreal knowing that the crowd and everyone else just sees a boxing match. Meanwhile I’m fighting my f***ing demons in there.
Wicked video, channel is a must watch*
To add to these re-framing theme of this video at chapter 8, "Rich Dad Poor Dad" interestingly talked about the human spirit/emotions
great book i recommend it after this crazy re-framing video...
super cool bro
One of the all time juiciest pieces of UA-cam.
Hind's Feet on High Places - Hannah Hurnard ... the first printing has a profound epilogue... the author talks about how she had to ride the old style Sesselbahn in the Alps in order to get to her destination to do a writing sabbatical. The protagonist name was Much Afraid, who after walking a time with Suffering and similar companions, she is renamed Grace and Glory. The book is worth a read if one can look past the religious connotations, re: fear, it's the epilogue that really moved me.
"Gib me moar fuggin ice cream man :DDDD" lmao