After watching your video I wanted to share this quote I saw a few days ago. “New York is 3 hours ahead of California, but that doesn’t make California slow. Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job. Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years. Someone is still single, while someone else got married. Obama retired at 55 and Trump started at 70. Everyone in this world works based on their time zone. People around you might seem to be ahead of you and some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own race, in their own time. Do not envy them and do not mock them. They are in their time zone and you are in yours. Life is about waiting for the right moment to act. So, relax and do you!” You are doing amazing, Kalel! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I hope OC is treating you well💕 Happy weekend!
I know this was originally meant for Kalel, but thank you so much for posting this! A lot of us need to read things like this so we can stop the constant comparisons. We don’t realize that we’re sabotaging our own happiness. Thanks again! ☺️🙏🏻
Am i the only one who doesn't care about vegan kalel or non vegan kalel , minimalist kalel or dating kalel , like ive been here since 2013 and i just love watching her video's .. its a real human's life .. going through different things constantly.. entertaining and educational at the same time 🤷
Same! I have absolutely nothing in common with her. We're probably opposites in almost every way, but I like her videos and she's an interesting person to watch. I could care less if she's a vegan or not 🤷♀️
I started watching her back in the day when her hair was teal or something. Being vegan or vegetarian or whatever is a personal thing, yes she shared her life but I think the reactions to her not being vegan have been ridiculous. It's obviously fine to be upset over it, but all these videos vegans are putting outand hateful shit viewers are saying helps no one.
Girl, im not where I want to be in life either! Im 31, been divorced already, no kids, just now working (and struggling) on a nursing degree after 10 years in the Air Force, live in a tiny apartment i'm renting in the middle of Boston, and with someone that i'm working through problems with even though we love each other and have been together for 5 years. You will get to where you need to be when the time is right. Everyone has their own unique path in life :)
You mentioned that in your 20s you focused on all the wrong things and now don't have a good foundation to go into in your 30s. Can you do a video going into more detail about this? Such as what advice would you give someone in their 20's so that they have a better foundation later in life?
Read a lifespan and development book. You can't ignore an area of your life. Work on your career, relationships ( friends, family, significant other) spirituality, hobbies, health.
Cam while we wait and follow Kalel through her journey, you should check out Nur’s channel Nurology and follow her on Snapchat/Instagram (Nurberxo) she talks about how to do this no matter what age you are as long as you are interested in making a change. Start with her video “how to not care what people think”
Girl I am classically trained in piano and let me tell you, it will change your life in such incredible ways! It’s such a therapeutic art to learn and VERY rewarding 💕 best of luck on your musical journey.... I have a feeling you’ll succeed quickly in your studies 💕💕💕
At 27 and with the failing of a relationship I really had hope for, I feel for you so much. I've been thinking the same lately, going into my 30s without a lot of the same things as other people might. There's always time to change, and the internet is a cruel place sometimes but that doesnt take away from your inherent worth. Keep your head up, you're amazing as long as you're trying hard for yourself.
Your life is not sad at all, you have a very beautiful and comfortable life. This comment is from someone who is from Iraq! You have no idea how many people would want to live the life that you are living, you are young, successful and have a great personality, I'm pretty sure that you won't be lonely for long time.
Alaa RA whenever I think my life is sad or I get a little sad I always think of people who have it worse so yes your right. Here in America people get a little lonely or bored they start feeling like life is useless even I do so not blaming anyone. But we never really truly feel real struggles at least most of us don’t.
I think that your talk at the end was very incredibly mature and well stated. And I'm sorry that it hurt how cruel people can be, however you are bringing up topics that a lot of people like to hide their pain and you are bringing awareness to the fact that it is okay to be low! So proud of you girl
If more people were as honest and raw about their mental headspace, their life situation, the pain their soul goes through as you are then we could shatter the false perfection mentality society values. More people would work to resolve their problems and understand that life is a journey and that every individuals timeline is not linear. Everyone grows and evolves differently. Thank you for sharing your life with us, both the high and lows
This is so endearing. I don’t know why people are so mean to you. I always watch your videos and see all the comments and I’m so shocked at some of the things people say but I hardly ever comment on videos so I didn’t say anything. I hope you know that there are lots of us who adore you and just don’t say anything or don’t read the comments but we look forward to your videos. You are so true and vulnerable. I love watching you because I love being to relate to you and feel like I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing your life with us! ❤️❤️❤️
Same here! I love how real and honest she is with her life and who she is. Even if some people don't agree with her they should appreciate her authenticity, not every one is honest with their true intentions and who they are. Being yourself, showing all your flaws, your highs, your lows.. that takes courage and it's a beauty that shines because it's so rare.. in a world where most people post a filtered version of their life.
You are focusing too much on what the "perfect" life should be. Living in California doesn't help. Being on social media all the time doesn't help. Being alone constantly doesn't help. I've been watching you for quite a number of years now. And you seem to be fading down..I think you should move out of California and start over in a new state, smaller city where people live happily. Make new friends, meet new people. I hope that you will be okay.
cowsrock1q as a born and raised californian, i’m insulted that you would assume that california is this superficial. A place is what YOU make it out to be, and for you to generalize an entire state is pretty damn ridiculous. You can be unhappy regardless of where you are, moving or running away isn’t going to help if you haven’t helped yourself first.
Elkhart tolle actually promotes being alone to distance your self from all the definitions that are not you. Perhaps you are the one who is too intertwined with a persona you deem presentable to others? I don't think kalel is fading down... I think she is rediscovering a deeper self.
@@aw00gag0rl Oh calm down. I meant big cities, like LA where she has been. Sure there's nice places in California. But personally would never choose to live there (also way to expensive and no water). I've been watching Kalel for years and noticing her depression getting worse and worse. Sure of course, you can be happy anywhere. But being a viewer and seeing her put out these video to seek attention..she needs to make a change. Making no change, in whatever way that is, will give a person constant unhappiness.
@@Jaylieee Possibly she is discovering her deeper self? Who knows? But I've been a follower for a long time. It's just sad watching her being sad. I think getting out of LA would help a lot. Won't know until you try right? And she's been there a long time. The influence of Hollywood and physical looks is over the top, and that right there is a reason for depression.
@@aw00gag0rl Oh boo hoo so offended, go cry about it. DUH anyone can be unhappy where they are. But some factors play a huge cause to someones emotional and mental health.
What I love most about you is that you arent afraid to show the lows and if you are afraid you show them anyways. Lets face it..life sucks sometimes. Somedays we fall and we arent sure how to get back up .. but I love that you are sharing so much with us. It helps me more then you can realize. I had the summer from hell but some things you said really helped me. So thank you for not putting on a fake my life is sunshine and rainbows face and showing me the real raw you. Keep smiling. The future is very bright.
Kalel, you are breaking the mold of what we are "expected" to do by the time we get to 30. I appreciate you showing a different side besides the typical "get married, have kids, buy a house, etc." by the age of 30. First off that isn't everyone's dream and also it leaves most people unhappy so don't worry, you're doing just fine!
I agree!! It’s comforting and refreshing to see someone not doing the typical “societal expectations” by her age cuz let’s be real there’s a lot of us on the same boat as her but we only ever see the successful ppl on the internet
Life is not pretty, and so many people out there have got the wrong idea because of the perfect surface on social media. You are brave that are sharing the truth, and it is very needed in our society today! It is important to know that parts of life are gonna suck, it is gonna be hard and feel like it is the end of the world sometimes. That is just life. Sending as much love to you as I can
Thank you! I completely agree! My brain is so confusing because a huge part of me strives for perfection and wants it so badly... but then I also ALWAYS want to keep it real with my struggles as well! Sometimes it feels like a game of tug-o-war... haha :P
I appreciate you sharing your lows as well as the best parts of your life. If you only shared the highs I can bet you 100% there would be a bunch of people complaining that you're fake and try to pretend your life is perfect. Just keep doing you girl, love watching your journey
Kalel, thank you for addressing the inconsiderate comments on your last couple of videos. I am a vegan mom and it's not my business that you're no longer vegan. We're all human. I try and put myself in your shoes, or put my kids in your shoes and I would not want them to feel how those comments made you feel. If veganism is all about less suffering I think we should extend that kindness and consideration to one another
THIS COMMENT! you're very right. I am beyond disgusted at ALL the aweful, disrespectul comments and backlash she recieved on her last vid. As an ex-vegan, I feel her and feel compassionate to encourage her to do what's best for her; especially as a Paleo eater. Just because we eat meat, doesn't mean we're aweful people. Literally 50% if my meals/diet are RAW vegan.
I’m 36 and earlier this year I got out of a 16 year relationship. I went along with everything he wanted to build his dream life. Now I’m single and have no idea what I want; what I like. The thing that broke us was LA. He wanted that fake life and I just wanted to be normal slightly weird me. I’m still hurt about the situation; not the romantic crap but the friendship and experiences we shared. He was my person for over half my life. So Kalel, there are those of us who somewhat understand what you’re going through. Not all of our emotions are rational but they are ours and that’s ok. I’m sending love, big hugs and positivity to all that need it. 💚🤗✨
Sending so much love to you kalel! you are so authentic and ur right life is not perfect and if everyones life was broadcast no one would be judging anyone because we are all more similar than different in our human experiences, we are all ever changing and evolving every single day, we all make mistakes and change our minds... its human!!!! Its called growth and learning. Power to you for being true on the interwebs! xoxo
I don't support people calling you pathetic and bullying you. But as a big fan from the time of your first channel, I have to tell you, you are not reliable! I feel like I cannot trust you in anything you say. You go from an extreme to the extreme. At one point you tell us you can grow while having a partner, now you tell us it was all a mistake. You were preaching veganism for years and were one of the reasons I went vegan, and now it feels like you've totally turned on the vegans and saving the animals. Please, just don't broadcast every single change in your life until you truly decide to stick with it.
i seriously adore you, and i truly think you’re an inspiration. it makes me sad that people can be so brutal. you’re such a wonderful and kind person and i love how open you can be with us. you’re the type of person i’d love to be friends with, and can SEE myself being friends with. i feel like you’re the type of friend that would be so easy to be vulnerable with and that’s so amazing. i truly, 100% think you’re amazing and i hope you learn to thrive off of the hate and laugh it off - you’re spectacular.
Kalel, I’ve been watching you since Queen Beauty and have always found you so honest and so vibrant, no matter who you’re dating or what’s going on. There’s a spirit in you that’s always been present, in my eyes, and I just respect you so much for showing us so much. You know, that’s not a requirement in life - but you do it, and you share your growing experience so honestly. I find such comfort in hearing from you, and hearing about all of you! Just wanted you to know, you’re being a revolutionary JUST by being you authentically. That’s more than a lot are comfortable doing. Love you! 💌 p.s. I’m introverted a’f and I feel like I’m friends with you. thanks for being here for us.
I hope you're doing okay. EDIT: After finishing the video, I just wanted to say, I love watching your life. I don't think it's embarrassing at all. You're SO real. You make mistakes just like everyone else. Don't let the hate you receive online validate those toxic thoughts.
As the Buddha would say, being is always becoming, we'll never "make it", and that's okay. I think everyone is ruminating more at this time of year, even if it's not cold and you don't hermit up at home, the holidays can create lot of stress that lowers people's moods and makes them overthink everything. I've been trying to focus on making a giant list of things I'm grateful for that happened this year instead of making a bunch of goals for next year. Perspective is everything, I want to focus on the abundance of this year rather than all the things I fell short on, and I hope other people do too. It feels so much better to accept that you're not perfect and that it's okay.
It makes me truly sad to see you sad Kalel. I have been watching you for years and your truely an inspiration to me and many others. I hope 2019 brings you the most joy and I hope you can find happiness
I can relate to you so much Kalel and I love how honest you are! Everyone has problems, but most people don't talk about them as openly as you do. I don't understand how people can be so mean in the comments sometimes honestly, they're probably the ones with the sad lives... Anyway I support you and I think you're awesome and beautiful and it's so true you can't have highs if you've never had lows. Low points in your life always teach you a lesson and makes you appreciate the good things even more! xx
hey i just wanted to let you know that you are loved. and if someone hasnt told you today then here it is. thank you for being here, it truly means a lot. love you ♡
Your talk at the end really got me. I'm just 21, and even though I don't have any serious problem and I'm doing well enough in college I feel so unsatisfied with my life, like I've been focusing in all the wrong things and in all the wrong people, it feels like somehow I have doomed myself to a sad and lonely path. I can't connect with my friends, they all have relationships and I don't so I feel left out, and stuff like that. Anyway, I've never really seen this low in my life like an opportunity to improve it, as sad at it sounds I just imagined it'd be like that until I get to the point when I can no longer take it, thank you for showing me a different perspective and I'll be here rooting for you to have a better time next year ❤
People forget that UA-camrs have feelings. UA-camrs are HUMANS. People think that weak people are those that have struggles, but success is being able to be vulnerable. I think it's sad that humans are losing their ability to empathize, to properly communicate and show kindness. People forget that they themselves aren't perfect. Kalel, I am so proud of you and your life is precious and you inspire me. I love the life you are living because you are the realest person I know. People put others down because they are insecure. I want you to know that there will always be naysayers but you are literally a breathe of fresh air. You could do a video talking about cats or even talking about anything and I would still watch. I support you ♥️
I appreciate the honasty in your videos. I’m in my early 20’s and my life to other people would seem really sad. You posting raw videos about how you feel lost really helps as so many of us feel this way. Keep doing you!
Being 30 is a very hard time I think. It's a time where you feel you should be stable in all aspects of life, and of your not it can send you into a quarterish life crisis. I think the truth is a lot of people arent where they thought they would be by 30 (including myself) but life can throw crazy curveballs and society should be more understanding of that. You are not alone. All we can do is focus on the positive and keep pushing forward.
Wait let me get this straight; is Kalel eating meat again because her hair was thinning out? I tried to watch the video but got a bit bored, but that's the gist, right? So why is it ok for her to eat animals for the sake of her appearance???????? When she has scrutinised meat eaters for years for being ignorant/selfish for their dietary choices??????? Am I getting this right or no?
@@nadiaothman5875 she was focussing a lot on her hair falling out, like that was a main concern for her. Also, she never considered other people's health issues when insisting vegan was best for everyone, so it just bugs me is all that suddenly it's not applicable to her
@@lolaseron5741 I understand that, but it bothered me that she didn't acknowledge any of her past statements. I feel she talks much too confidently about some topics with biased information
@@Hollylovesgreen Sometimes people hold serious convictions and then things in their life challenge and change those beliefs. What is she supposed to do? Stubbornly remain vegan at the expense of her health just because at one point she felt differently? Come on.
@@katetech3832 no, I didn't say that she should have remained vegan hahaha but she shouldn't be ignorant of the false information she had given people and acknowledge that she hadn't been as well researched as she presented herself all the time
It really sucks that people are like that. it takes so much courage to put your life on youtube like that. I think its really interesting to see how she lives her life and just too see how someone lives. She is the only youtuber who is so real in her videos and i really like it. Too watch her from the start till now is so interesting and i just want to hug her .
You're hands down my favorite youtuber and have been since the beginning of WULAS. I've loved witnessing you grow and learn from your past boyfriends and tribulations. I love that you don't let anyone hold you back. I feel like no else understands me but I relate to you so much. You're such an inspiration to me! Congrats on your new company Kalel! :)
I just have to say that your videos regarding food and cooking have made major influences on my life! I’ve made so many changes and have learned lots thanks to you!❤️
I love you girl! I was having such a bad day emotionally and when I saw you posted a video I wanted to watch it immediately. I feel good when I watch your videos. You are so real and comforting. Thank you!
I'm grateful for your honest and open content. Keep it coming! On a totally different topic, I'd love to hear you talk about how you've grown your hair (I know you have hair loss, but it's gotten so long!) and how you've come up with the color (is it natural or not?)
If you have a low point in your life that's fine, but don't bash veganism and the whole movement for it. I think that's the biggest reason people are upset with you. It's your desicion to kill animals again, but don't hate on real vegans for being vegan just because you "failed".
She didn’t have on the vegan community because of what it stands for - she felt rejected by them when she was being honest. There is no perfect vegan...the whole point is to try. If you’re trying - you can never fail. But a large majority of her vegan based followers put her up against unrealistic expectations and that would make anyone angry. Let’s be honest here.
Ooo buddy, can’t wait to go murder and consume some animal flesh as a part of my daily vegan failings. Don’t mind me, I’m just a glutton for punishment.
I think documenting your life and especially your mental health is not only a good thing for you but also for all of the people who watch your videos and feel like they finally can relate to someone, that they're not weird or crazy. Plus, I always see in your comments so many people sharing their experiences and I think that's really special. So as long as you're comfortable sharing your life with us, please continue doing it, you have no idea how inspiring it can be for some of us. love you 💛
I love that you share low points with us. I feel so bonded with you and I feel some kind of responsibility to watch new videos when they come out cuz your insights of your journey are so deep and beautiful. I love every part of it! I totally relate to whatever you are saying about being genuine, true to yourself! I am sending you lots of strength, beam of love and support, Kalel! Love how thoughtful, meaningful and genuine your UA-cam is. Thanks for that! And you are so brave for addressing those issues publicly and facing your fears. I am not as brave and strong as you are, seriously. Only a few ppl are! And you are one of those few.
This touched me a lot, I felt like my whole life I have been focused on men and now im single and going through a tough time. Thank you for broadcastin your life
The reason I've watched your videos consistently for so many years is because you're such a real person. You do share your low points and not to sound super cliche but it makes you relatable. Keep being real, girl. Those of us who are worth it will always be here supporting you.
First 3 tunes I knew it was city of stars haha. Tip: always have your score in front of you. You’re not expected to Learn every single thing on the sheet so always have it in front of you.
Kalel this sounds ~sponsored lol but I downloaded this app called simply piano by joy tunes and it is helping me soo much as a beginner. It’s expensive- I forgot to end my free trial and got charged like $100 ha but now that I’m paying, I don’t want to quit learning!
I literally NEVER comment on any videos I watch but I feel like you need to hear that you are AMAZING. You are stunning, your apartment is UNREAL, you are so strong minded and constantly trying to improve yourself, you are so well educated, your voice is unbelievably calming and you motivate me on so many levels. I miss your videos when you’re gone so don’t let them get you down😘 x
honestly kalel, i applaud u for sharing ur life & insecurities on youtube. because by doing that, u make us feel so much more connected to u & it's more relatable. it's refreshing to see a youtuber who doesn't act like they have their lives together.
People are so quick to judge but they’re not the ones sharing their life online for people to see. I’m sure those people who are being horrible have things they’d be picked apart for too. Keep positive Kalel, there’s a new year just around the corner 🌟❤️
To be honest, if a person posts online about their life and repeating actions/behaviours, people are going to have a opinion. Also, ya have to accept people won't agree with certain things, if ya put it out there. Just how it is, when sharing your life with the world. Everyone who does has to acknowledge this.
REI DECEMBER Definitely, just some of the things that people are saying are just ridiculous because it’s not how they live their own life so they don’t think it’s normal to struggle with issues differently etc. I just think people need to be more understanding but that will definitely not happen, on this platform anyway with how awful it’s become
I feel you're one of the most human youtubers on this platform, you address issues and insecurities that are there for everyone but no one dares to talk about. Watching you makes me calm down. Thank you :)
When you share your low points it makes me feel that im not alone. It shouldnt be embarrassing for you to share low points. Its not your fault your embarrased, i think it comes from the stigma surrounding mental heath and being on social media were everything is portrayed as being perfect. But what im trying to say that i really appreciate you, and i can relate to alot of the issues you talk about. I hope you start feeling better💙
"This is human connection" I completely agree. I relate so much with you and your high and low points. We all go through it, and seeing so many people like you being opened and vulnerable about it publicly has kind of comforted me in a way. Thinking about it, I am way more accepting of myself and living in my own pace instead of comparing myself to others and how they're doing and where they are in life, and I'm sure people with content such as yours and Lauren Toyota's played a part in this. Truly feels like sharing a moment with a close friend, and that's helpful af.
There is no one else I know of on UA-cam that gets slammed so hard so often by her followers in the comments yet continues to be themselves. I don’t agree with your lifestyle it’s not mine but I dont care and I think you are incredibly brave
I love that you're so open online and have been for over 10 years now but it does upset me to see people attack you. Seems like you have the right mindset to come out of a dark place. I've also been going through hard times and focusing on new friends, what you're grateful for and passions is SO important to feeling better mentally.
I will alway talk to you guys in the same way I would a personal friend. I realize that it increases the likeliness of judgmental comments, but it's not enough to censor me and push me into a tiny little box. I'm sorry to hear you're also going through a tough time. We'll come out of it soon enough!
I can’t really explain it, but I felt that I related to you so well in this video compared to others. Although you’ve shared your insecurities before, it was really quite refreshing to see your more “quirky/awkward” side again. I’m so sorry that you feel this low right now, I think 2018 has been a rough year for a lot of us, including myself. I just feel that I’ve been feeling that “lost” feeling that you’re feeling right now too. I normally don’t comment ever but I just felt compelled to say that your videos always reassure me that I’m not alone and we’re all just little human beings that are just a little lost. :)
It baffles me how people can be so cruel :( how can anyone say another’s life is pathetic?! I really feel for you, for all the struggles you’ve shared with us. But you also have so much and are an inspiring and unique personality! We should neither envy nor tear each other down but just support each other but build each other up! I wish you all the best and am looking forward to seeing where your path will lead you :)
This is why I loveee Kalel. So honest and so authentic. I believe that lot of people are just so ignoran. Like thinking that they don’t struggle and have problem on their own just to point others. Like, what the hell, nobody is “normal”. People have to stop trying to be what society frame us to be. Anyway, you go Kalel! (And Nenaaa you crack me at the end with that promo) 🤣 Love from Puerto Rico
Kalel you are literally my all time favorite UA-camr so when I get the notification that you uploaded, it truly makes my day :) im sick today and I needed this, your videos always make me smile no matter what! I will support you always girl and I've been a follower since 2014. keep your head up beautiful and keep doing your thing
Kalel you have been such a joy to watch throughout the years ! Your present raw material never fake! Thank you for being so willing to open up your life to us ! Just continue to be you !
Just be you. I've learned the hard way and in the end, some people are just so full of hate that no matter what you say or do, they'll always have something to say. Do what makes you happy. If it feels right for you it is right. ❤️
I missed you so much . I love your voice it’s so calming I could listen to you all day . Kalel take it easy don’t compare yourself to others ... the end game in life is to be emotionally fulfilled . And there’s no specific career,love life , age .... for that .
You're a beautiful person inside & out. I always find myself relating to what you say & go through and I think most of your audience does as well. It's not easy putting your life out there publicly especially when there's some nasty people out there saying horrible horrible things. Just know that there are far more people supporting you and your decisions than there are haters. At the end of the day all your supporters want is for you to focus on your well being and be happy. ❤️
I think you are awesome for being so honest and sharing your self improvement journey with us. It is BRAVE! I've been watching your videos for 10+ years now (ok that makes me feel old...) and I see such a difference in you now. I wish that you weren't quite so isolated, but honestly I would probably be in the same boat if I didn't work in an office environment bc making friends as an adult is SO HARD. You do you girl.
i hope you never give up on your youtube career kalel because when i watch you i feel so comforted. i can relate so much and feel like we’re friends even though i have never met you. i’ve been watching you since you’re blue hair days💙and i never will. i love you girl!
I am glad that you are bringing me on this journey Kalel, its so difficult to find youtubers that are genuinely honest about their life, and you make me feel normal, and that it's ok to feel low and down.
You are such a beautiful person inside and out. I've been going through some serious lows myself lately. Broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years, just found out my dad has a tumor, and school has been especially stressful. But this video was very comforting knowing I'm not alone, and that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
I never would tear you down for showing your vulnerability. I was just shook that you weren’t vegan anymore and it made me so unbelievably sad to see such a strong voice in the community stop being that inspiration for me. It still makes me sad...
PaulineMM She can still be an inspiration, as she's raised a lot of awareness, probably more than you ever have tbh. It's just her lifestyle had to change so she can be healthier. It's not sad, it's really great what she's done.
Kudos to you girl for being so open and vulnerable despite the negative response to your previous video. That's so brave *hugs* you're gonna get through this and fuck all the assholes
I saw a comment saying you don’t have the mental strength to be on UA-cam and I really felt I needed to say I totally disagree. I found your talk at the end to be incredibly self reflective of yourself which is such a strength and highlights your resilience. I think it is such a beautiful quality to say you’re still learning, regardless of your age and experience, and to be able to know where you are at mentally. That is a whole lot of insight into yourself, and not a lot of people truly have that. I think that demands respect for sure.
nina allegra not everyone needs a therapist. Every time I read comments like these on here I feel like y’all are still trying to say her life is sad or she has problems . She’s just like every human being and goes thru low points. She can do it she is so strong and beautiful . I just know I would hate ppl constantly telling me I need a therapist that’s so mean !
Why is recommending a therapist mean? Going to a therapist for your mental health is the same as going to a family medicine doctor for a physical check up. Mental health is just as important as physical, and yet we don't judge when people go to the doctor for a physical ailment. Let's try and break the stigma surrounding mental health. I think most everyone SHOULD see a therapist just like most people should see someone for a yearly physical. Seeing a therapist doesn't mean you have problems, either. It means you're literally just taking care of your health.@@cambamfam8165
You don't have to have a mental illness, trauma, or anything extreme to see a therapist. Anyone can benefit from a therapist at any time, for numerous reasons. It's not an insult to suggest someone see a therapist.
@@cambamfam8165 But Kalel has spoken about her depression and her mental problems, her OCPD, her unhappiness, inability to connect and lack of purpose all the damn time. That alone should warrant the advice to seek the help of a professional. There is nothing shameful in that.
I really like your videos... We all have ups and lows but most of the people in UA-cam and every social media try to send the message they have the “perfect life” and is everything rainbows and fun, but what I like about your channel is the real conexión, is you being real... fuck it up, having great and bad moments and share it anyway. And that is human conexión, that’s we learning and growing. Thanks you kalel ❤️
I really wish we were friends. We truely would be such a good pair and like good for each other. You are super wise and strong and we are both in such a weird place in our lives. It's kinda crazy how much of my own insecurities you talk about having. I hope you feel better soon, eveybody hurts babe!
Honestly, you inspire me so much. You work hard no matter what other people say! We have the same personality type too, so it's extremely relatable And just some piano tips: sit a little further away from the keyboard (you should be sitting pretty much on the edge of the bench) keep your wrists above the edge of the keyboard (your hands should pretty much always look cupped) :)
you're so cute playing the piano haha I love your laugh. Reading all the nasty comments on your other video truly made me so sad... no one should have to deal with having such harsh judgment passed on them like that, especially regarding mental health. It's quite disgusting. I hope you can block out some of that noise in your mind and feel the love from the rest of us :) sending love xo
Honestly, your life is the reflection of mine. We have almost the same insecurities and mental health where we just like to be just with ourself. That why i like to watch your youtube videos cuz u make me feel im not alone. Thank you so much for making my days brighter kalel. Keep doing youtube, love u kalel
I think you can meet all the 150 people who messaged you in a park or something, and have a picnic day with a lot of food and laughter and maybe activities.. You can meet new friends and they can bond with each other too and make other new friends too
People's negativity is a reflection on them and their insecurities, and they are projecting it on to you. Try not to take it to heart as hard as it is. You are incredible, no ifs, ands, or buts.
Watching your videos gives me a lot of comfort, because in some way I'm going through a "lonely phase" as well. Sometimes life just gets miserable, and that's ok. Builds character.
I’m so sorry people are being so mean Kalel. The other percentage of people care and just want you to seek help and be happy. You deserve to be happy 💕 We love you
You have a 85% happier life than me , I'm 13, I live in Syria, I have a bad WiFi connection, I have very bad people in my family, But I'm really thankful to God for Water, Food, Clothes, A house, A very good mom, I feel like I'm alone and not really have things to do with my life, I'm really bored of my life, I do my religion work, I do every work in my life, But I'm still bored, The only thing that makes me happy is my mom and the Internet 😂
So much respect for you Kalel. You've always been so introspective, real and honest and that is why I've stuck around since your first channel. I love you make me think about my own life and my own views. I wish you all the best!
hey kalel! just wanted to send some love! this is YOUR journey and I'm so grateful to be a part of it -- you always keep it real & I admire that because during times when viewers and myself are experiencing lows, we know we're all not alone. I think it's also great to see examples of REAL lows (not like overly dramatized realty shows or even drama on YT) because we can learn from one another in a genuine way. We learn from you and you learn from us. I wish there was more media like this. Keep doing you & can't wait to see where this journey goes & where the next begins!
After watching your video I wanted to share this quote I saw a few days ago.
“New York is 3 hours ahead of California, but that doesn’t make California slow. Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job. Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years. Someone is still single, while someone else got married. Obama retired at 55 and Trump started at 70.
Everyone in this world works based on their time zone. People around you might seem to be ahead of you and some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own race, in their own time. Do not envy them and do not mock them. They are in their time zone and you are in yours.
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act. So, relax and do you!”
You are doing amazing, Kalel! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. I hope OC is treating you well💕
Happy weekend!
Love that! Thank you for sharing
Awhh this made me tear up, such a sweet and kind hearted message. 💕
hyuneeEats thank you for this comment! Beautiful!
I know this was originally meant for Kalel, but thank you so much for posting this! A lot of us need to read things like this so we can stop the constant comparisons. We don’t realize that we’re sabotaging our own happiness.
Thanks again! ☺️🙏🏻
hyuneeEats love this so much. More people need to hear it!
Am i the only one who doesn't care about vegan kalel or non vegan kalel , minimalist kalel or dating kalel , like ive been here since 2013 and i just love watching her video's .. its a real human's life .. going through different things constantly.. entertaining and educational at the same time 🤷
MANA Yes. I care about Kalel. The end.
I’ve grown to love her. All the highs and lows and the feels, i mean... i wish i had people like her in my real life. She inspires me to just be me!
Same! I have absolutely nothing in common with her. We're probably opposites in almost every way, but I like her videos and she's an interesting person to watch. I could care less if she's a vegan or not 🤷♀️
ahhh, I think a lot of people were here because they liked vegan kalel. vegetarian kalel would be fine. but, not so much meat eating kalel.
I started watching her back in the day when her hair was teal or something. Being vegan or vegetarian or whatever is a personal thing, yes she shared her life but I think the reactions to her not being vegan have been ridiculous. It's obviously fine to be upset over it, but all these videos vegans are putting outand hateful shit viewers are saying helps no one.
Shane Dawson needs to do a documentary on you. I'm sure a lot of people can relate to the things you are going through right now.
YES!
YES
Constance Connie fuck no
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Girl, im not where I want to be in life either! Im 31, been divorced already, no kids, just now working (and struggling) on a nursing degree after 10 years in the Air Force, live in a tiny apartment i'm renting in the middle of Boston, and with someone that i'm working through problems with even though we love each other and have been together for 5 years. You will get to where you need to be when the time is right. Everyone has their own unique path in life :)
youre amazing!! thank you for your service and dont stop pushing
This is very similar to my life right now and it was encouraging to see your positivity through it. Thanks for sharing.
You mentioned that in your 20s you focused on all the wrong things and now don't have a good foundation to go into in your 30s. Can you do a video going into more detail about this? Such as what advice would you give someone in their 20's so that they have a better foundation later in life?
I'm still trying to figure this out myself... ahahah :P
Cam I think she brushed on it when she introduced that part to say she centred her life around men for the past 10 years and she lost herself.
Cam you should be trying to find out who you are and what you want. less dating. more work or school.
Read a lifespan and development book. You can't ignore an area of your life. Work on your career, relationships ( friends, family, significant other) spirituality, hobbies, health.
Cam while we wait and follow Kalel through her journey, you should check out Nur’s channel Nurology and follow her on Snapchat/Instagram (Nurberxo) she talks about how to do this no matter what age you are as long as you are interested in making a change. Start with her video “how to not care what people think”
Girl I am classically trained in piano and let me tell you, it will change your life in such incredible ways! It’s such a therapeutic art to learn and VERY rewarding 💕 best of luck on your musical journey.... I have a feeling you’ll succeed quickly in your studies 💕💕💕
At 27 and with the failing of a relationship I really had hope for, I feel for you so much. I've been thinking the same lately, going into my 30s without a lot of the same things as other people might.
There's always time to change, and the internet is a cruel place sometimes but that doesnt take away from your inherent worth.
Keep your head up, you're amazing as long as you're trying hard for yourself.
Rhiannon O'Brien aww ❤️ I hope you find your happiness !!
Your life is not sad at all, you have a very beautiful and comfortable life. This comment is from someone who is from Iraq! You have no idea how many people would want to live the life that you are living, you are young, successful and have a great personality, I'm pretty sure that you won't be lonely for long time.
Alaa RA whenever I think my life is sad or I get a little sad I always think of people who have it worse so yes your right. Here in America people get a little lonely or bored they start feeling like life is useless even I do so not blaming anyone. But we never really truly feel real struggles at least most of us don’t.
Alaa RA 100% agree
تحية لأهل العراق 🇮🇶 بحبكم ❤️
I think that your talk at the end was very incredibly mature and well stated. And I'm sorry that it hurt how cruel people can be, however you are bringing up topics that a lot of people like to hide their pain and you are bringing awareness to the fact that it is okay to be low! So proud of you girl
If more people were as honest and raw about their mental headspace, their life situation, the pain their soul goes through as you are then we could shatter the false perfection mentality society values. More people would work to resolve their problems and understand that life is a journey and that every individuals timeline is not linear. Everyone grows and evolves differently. Thank you for sharing your life with us, both the high and lows
Vita Domenica Alomar this, this, this ❤️
Very well put.
This is so endearing. I don’t know why people are so mean to you. I always watch your videos and see all the comments and I’m so shocked at some of the things people say but I hardly ever comment on videos so I didn’t say anything. I hope you know that there are lots of us who adore you and just don’t say anything or don’t read the comments but we look forward to your videos. You are so true and vulnerable. I love watching you because I love being to relate to you and feel like I’m not alone. Thank you for sharing your life with us! ❤️❤️❤️
thank you for the love
Agree with this! xx
Same here! I love how real and honest she is with her life and who she is. Even if some people don't agree with her they should appreciate her authenticity, not every one is honest with their true intentions and who they are. Being yourself, showing all your flaws, your highs, your lows.. that takes courage and it's a beauty that shines because it's so rare.. in a world where most people post a filtered version of their life.
Mila Adams same here !
Agree xx
You are focusing too much on what the "perfect" life should be. Living in California doesn't help. Being on social media all the time doesn't help. Being alone constantly doesn't help. I've been watching you for quite a number of years now. And you seem to be fading down..I think you should move out of California and start over in a new state, smaller city where people live happily. Make new friends, meet new people. I hope that you will be okay.
cowsrock1q as a born and raised californian, i’m insulted that you would assume that california is this superficial. A place is what YOU make it out to be, and for you to generalize an entire state is pretty damn ridiculous. You can be unhappy regardless of where you are, moving or running away isn’t going to help if you haven’t helped yourself first.
Elkhart tolle actually promotes being alone to distance your self from all the definitions that are not you. Perhaps you are the one who is too intertwined with a persona you deem presentable to others? I don't think kalel is fading down... I think she is rediscovering a deeper self.
@@aw00gag0rl Oh calm down. I meant big cities, like LA where she has been. Sure there's nice places in California. But personally would never choose to live there (also way to expensive and no water). I've been watching Kalel for years and noticing her depression getting worse and worse. Sure of course, you can be happy anywhere. But being a viewer and seeing her put out these video to seek attention..she needs to make a change. Making no change, in whatever way that is, will give a person constant unhappiness.
@@Jaylieee Possibly she is discovering her deeper self? Who knows? But I've been a follower for a long time. It's just sad watching her being sad. I think getting out of LA would help a lot. Won't know until you try right? And she's been there a long time. The influence of Hollywood and physical looks is over the top, and that right there is a reason for depression.
@@aw00gag0rl Oh boo hoo so offended, go cry about it. DUH anyone can be unhappy where they are. But some factors play a huge cause to someones emotional and mental health.
What I love most about you is that you arent afraid to show the lows and if you are afraid you show them anyways. Lets face it..life sucks sometimes. Somedays we fall and we arent sure how to get back up .. but I love that you are sharing so much with us. It helps me more then you can realize. I had the summer from hell but some things you said really helped me. So thank you for not putting on a fake my life is sunshine and rainbows face and showing me the real raw you. Keep smiling. The future is very bright.
Kalel, you are breaking the mold of what we are "expected" to do by the time we get to 30. I appreciate you showing a different side besides the typical "get married, have kids, buy a house, etc." by the age of 30. First off that isn't everyone's dream and also it leaves most people unhappy so don't worry, you're doing just fine!
Great comment! I needed this..
I agree!! It’s comforting and refreshing to see someone not doing the typical “societal expectations” by her age cuz let’s be real there’s a lot of us on the same boat as her but we only ever see the successful ppl on the internet
Life is not pretty, and so many people out there have got the wrong idea because of the perfect surface on social media. You are brave that are sharing the truth, and it is very needed in our society today! It is important to know that parts of life are gonna suck, it is gonna be hard and feel like it is the end of the world sometimes. That is just life. Sending as much love to you as I can
Thank you! I completely agree! My brain is so confusing because a huge part of me strives for perfection and wants it so badly... but then I also ALWAYS want to keep it real with my struggles as well! Sometimes it feels like a game of tug-o-war... haha :P
People. Stop giving her advice. It won't help.
Suziezur Freiheit Your advice isn’t helping either.
How you know?
City of starrrsss are you shining just for meeee
I appreciate you sharing your lows as well as the best parts of your life. If you only shared the highs I can bet you 100% there would be a bunch of people complaining that you're fake and try to pretend your life is perfect. Just keep doing you girl, love watching your journey
Ahhh I love your channel as well! I love when people I love are connected 😎
She's not vegan Sharla in Japan, you doing alright?
@@hannahwalmer1124 Neither is Sharla.
@@Ritsukaberry Sharla is, though? Since when has she not been vegan?
Kalel, thank you for addressing the inconsiderate comments on your last couple of videos. I am a vegan mom and it's not my business that you're no longer vegan. We're all human. I try and put myself in your shoes, or put my kids in your shoes and I would not want them to feel how those comments made you feel. If veganism is all about less suffering I think we should extend that kindness and consideration to one another
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Spoken like a true lovely human ❤
THIS COMMENT! you're very right. I am beyond disgusted at ALL the aweful, disrespectul comments and backlash she recieved on her last vid. As an ex-vegan, I feel her and feel compassionate to encourage her to do what's best for her; especially as a Paleo eater. Just because we eat meat, doesn't mean we're aweful people. Literally 50% if my meals/diet are RAW vegan.
Agreed
@@MissAdamLambert888 "Ex-vegan"? Never vegan.
I’m 36 and earlier this year I got out of a 16 year relationship. I went along with everything he wanted to build his dream life. Now I’m single and have no idea what I want; what I like. The thing that broke us was LA. He wanted that fake life and I just wanted to be normal slightly weird me. I’m still hurt about the situation; not the romantic crap but the friendship and experiences we shared. He was my person for over half my life. So Kalel, there are those of us who somewhat understand what you’re going through. Not all of our emotions are rational but they are ours and that’s ok. I’m sending love, big hugs and positivity to all that need it. 💚🤗✨
Svenja likes sketching Thank you so much.
Sending so much love to you kalel! you are so authentic and ur right life is not perfect and if everyones life was broadcast no one would be judging anyone because we are all more similar than different in our human experiences, we are all ever changing and evolving every single day, we all make mistakes and change our minds... its human!!!! Its called growth and learning. Power to you for being true on the interwebs! xoxo
Yes! Exactly!!
I don't support people calling you pathetic and bullying you. But as a big fan from the time of your first channel, I have to tell you, you are not reliable! I feel like I cannot trust you in anything you say. You go from an extreme to the extreme. At one point you tell us you can grow while having a partner, now you tell us it was all a mistake. You were preaching veganism for years and were one of the reasons I went vegan, and now it feels like you've totally turned on the vegans and saving the animals. Please, just don't broadcast every single change in your life until you truly decide to stick with it.
Beth875 the thing about humans is that our thoughts ideas and beliefs...E V O L V E
Evolution is not the word to use if the thoughts and ideas change ever so often.
i seriously adore you, and i truly think you’re an inspiration. it makes me sad that people can be so brutal. you’re such a wonderful and kind person and i love how open you can be with us. you’re the type of person i’d love to be friends with, and can SEE myself being friends with. i feel like you’re the type of friend that would be so easy to be vulnerable with and that’s so amazing. i truly, 100% think you’re amazing and i hope you learn to thrive off of the hate and laugh it off - you’re spectacular.
aw, thank you
Kalel,
I’ve been watching you since Queen Beauty and have always found you so honest and so vibrant, no matter who you’re dating or what’s going on. There’s a spirit in you that’s always been present, in my eyes, and I just respect you so much for showing us so much. You know, that’s not a requirement in life - but you do it, and you share your growing experience so honestly. I find such comfort in hearing from you, and hearing about all of you! Just wanted you to know, you’re being a revolutionary JUST by being you authentically. That’s more than a lot are comfortable doing.
Love you! 💌
p.s. I’m introverted a’f and I feel like I’m friends with you. thanks for being here for us.
Kristin Leigh Aww, thank you. This made me smile ❤️
I agree w this so much. Watching Kalel brings me so much comfort.
Such a beautiful comment! Thank you for that! 💖
I love you!!! Don’t let people determine what you are going to do with your life!! I have been checking EVERY DAY for a video from you!!!
Aw, thank you. That's literally so kind and made me smile
I hope you're doing okay.
EDIT: After finishing the video, I just wanted to say, I love watching your life. I don't think it's embarrassing at all. You're SO real. You make mistakes just like everyone else. Don't let the hate you receive online validate those toxic thoughts.
You playing piano might be the cutest thing I’ve ever ever ever seen
LOLOLOL, I really tried!! :P
As the Buddha would say, being is always becoming, we'll never "make it", and that's okay.
I think everyone is ruminating more at this time of year, even if it's not cold and you don't hermit up at home, the holidays can create lot of stress that lowers people's moods and makes them overthink everything.
I've been trying to focus on making a giant list of things I'm grateful for that happened this year instead of making a bunch of goals for next year. Perspective is everything, I want to focus on the abundance of this year rather than all the things I fell short on, and I hope other people do too. It feels so much better to accept that you're not perfect and that it's okay.
It makes me truly sad to see you sad Kalel. I have been watching you for years and your truely an inspiration to me and many others. I hope 2019 brings you the most joy and I hope you can find happiness
I can relate to you so much Kalel and I love how honest you are! Everyone has problems, but most people don't talk about them as openly as you do. I don't understand how people can be so mean in the comments sometimes honestly, they're probably the ones with the sad lives... Anyway I support you and I think you're awesome and beautiful and it's so true you can't have highs if you've never had lows. Low points in your life always teach you a lesson and makes you appreciate the good things even more! xx
hey i just wanted to let you know that you are loved. and if someone hasnt told you today then here it is. thank you for being here, it truly means a lot. love you ♡
the Aw, thank you. I love you too ❤️
Your talk at the end really got me. I'm just 21, and even though I don't have any serious problem and I'm doing well enough in college I feel so unsatisfied with my life, like I've been focusing in all the wrong things and in all the wrong people, it feels like somehow I have doomed myself to a sad and lonely path. I can't connect with my friends, they all have relationships and I don't so I feel left out, and stuff like that. Anyway, I've never really seen this low in my life like an opportunity to improve it, as sad at it sounds I just imagined it'd be like that until I get to the point when I can no longer take it, thank you for showing me a different perspective and I'll be here rooting for you to have a better time next year ❤
I hope you're doing better! I've been watching you for four years and look up to you in so many ways. Much love
thank you
People forget that UA-camrs have feelings. UA-camrs are HUMANS. People think that weak people are those that have struggles, but success is being able to be vulnerable. I think it's sad that humans are losing their ability to empathize, to properly communicate and show kindness.
People forget that they themselves aren't perfect. Kalel, I am so proud of you and your life is precious and you inspire me. I love the life you are living because you are the realest person I know. People put others down because they are insecure.
I want you to know that there will always be naysayers but you are literally a breathe of fresh air. You could do a video talking about cats or even talking about anything and I would still watch. I support you ♥️
Joyce Le guilty of forgetting and am starting a channel and ready for the karma :/ it’s so sad how easy it is to forget
The most helpful thing for learning piano is learning your scales! I promise it's worth it!
I appreciate the honasty in your videos. I’m in my early 20’s and my life to other people would seem really sad. You posting raw videos about how you feel lost really helps as so many of us feel this way. Keep doing you!
see u don't need no man to teach u piano!
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Would definitely recommend lessons tho. Helps with posture, finger movements and note reading
she needs babies tho so...
WHOAAA THAT KEYBOARD IS THE PERFECT PIECE to fit that space!!! Nice job! :)
Girl you need therapy.
who doesn't...
IFANWY a lot of us do not 😂
the moment you deny you do and you make someone else feel bad about being in a valley- you already proofed you need it as well
@@BaileeGermanotta You don't know that
Being 30 is a very hard time I think. It's a time where you feel you should be stable in all aspects of life, and of your not it can send you into a quarterish life crisis. I think the truth is a lot of people arent where they thought they would be by 30 (including myself) but life can throw crazy curveballs and society should be more understanding of that. You are not alone. All we can do is focus on the positive and keep pushing forward.
Plenty of people are 40 and up or even 50 and up and aren't stable either.
Miss Kalel always makes me want to cry!!! I’m excited to see your journey 😭
Wait let me get this straight; is Kalel eating meat again because her hair was thinning out? I tried to watch the video but got a bit bored, but that's the gist, right? So why is it ok for her to eat animals for the sake of her appearance???????? When she has scrutinised meat eaters for years for being ignorant/selfish for their dietary choices???????
Am I getting this right or no?
@@nadiaothman5875 she was focussing a lot on her hair falling out, like that was a main concern for her. Also, she never considered other people's health issues when insisting vegan was best for everyone, so it just bugs me is all that suddenly it's not applicable to her
HozzZ I think she’s just matured and learnt that veganism isn’t the only way to live. She’s allowed to change her mind the same way you can bby 💖
@@lolaseron5741 I understand that, but it bothered me that she didn't acknowledge any of her past statements. I feel she talks much too confidently about some topics with biased information
@@Hollylovesgreen Sometimes people hold serious convictions and then things in their life challenge and change those beliefs. What is she supposed to do? Stubbornly remain vegan at the expense of her health just because at one point she felt differently? Come on.
@@katetech3832 no, I didn't say that she should have remained vegan hahaha but she shouldn't be ignorant of the false information she had given people and acknowledge that she hadn't been as well researched as she presented herself all the time
It really sucks that people are like that. it takes so much courage to put your life on youtube like that. I think its really interesting to see how she lives her life and just too see how someone lives. She is the only youtuber who is so real in her videos and i really like it. Too watch her from the start till now is so interesting and i just want to hug her .
You're hands down my favorite youtuber and have been since the beginning of WULAS. I've loved witnessing you grow and learn from your past boyfriends and tribulations. I love that you don't let anyone hold you back. I feel like no else understands me but I relate to you so much. You're such an inspiration to me! Congrats on your new company Kalel! :)
I just have to say that your videos regarding food and cooking have made major influences on my life! I’ve made so many changes and have learned lots thanks to you!❤️
I love you girl! I was having such a bad day emotionally and when I saw you posted a video I wanted to watch it immediately. I feel good when I watch your videos. You are so real and comforting. Thank you!
I'm grateful for your honest and open content. Keep it coming! On a totally different topic, I'd love to hear you talk about how you've grown your hair (I know you have hair loss, but it's gotten so long!) and how you've come up with the color (is it natural or not?)
If you have a low point in your life that's fine, but don't bash veganism and the whole movement for it. I think that's the biggest reason people are upset with you. It's your desicion to kill animals again, but don't hate on real vegans for being vegan just because you "failed".
oh shut up you idiot
@@megs3003 wow, thanks. you have no idea what impact she has with these videos.
Exactly! 👏
She didn’t have on the vegan community because of what it stands for - she felt rejected by them when she was being honest. There is no perfect vegan...the whole point is to try. If you’re trying - you can never fail. But a large majority of her vegan based followers put her up against unrealistic expectations and that would make anyone angry. Let’s be honest here.
Ooo buddy, can’t wait to go murder and consume some animal flesh as a part of my daily vegan failings. Don’t mind me, I’m just a glutton for punishment.
I think documenting your life and especially your mental health is not only a good thing for you but also for all of the people who watch your videos and feel like they finally can relate to someone, that they're not weird or crazy. Plus, I always see in your comments so many people sharing their experiences and I think that's really special. So as long as you're comfortable sharing your life with us, please continue doing it, you have no idea how inspiring it can be for some of us. love you 💛
I love that you share low points with us. I feel so bonded with you and I feel some kind of responsibility to watch new videos when they come out cuz your insights of your journey are so deep and beautiful. I love every part of it! I totally relate to whatever you are saying about being genuine, true to yourself! I am sending you lots of strength, beam of love and support, Kalel! Love how thoughtful, meaningful and genuine your UA-cam is. Thanks for that! And you are so brave for addressing those issues publicly and facing your fears. I am not as brave and strong as you are, seriously. Only a few ppl are! And you are one of those few.
This touched me a lot, I felt like my whole life I have been focused on men and now im single and going through a tough time. Thank you for broadcastin your life
The reason I've watched your videos consistently for so many years is because you're such a real person. You do share your low points and not to sound super cliche but it makes you relatable. Keep being real, girl. Those of us who are worth it will always be here supporting you.
First 3 tunes I knew it was city of stars haha. Tip: always have your score in front of you. You’re not expected to Learn every single thing on the sheet so always have it in front of you.
I don't know how to read music! :'(
Kalel super easy to learn! Once you learn how to read it, it makes it so much easier to learn new songs
We all start from nothing so find a way to learn in your own pace. I started printing easy exercises and writing the name of the note below each one
Kalel this sounds ~sponsored lol but I downloaded this app called simply piano by joy tunes and it is helping me soo much as a beginner. It’s expensive- I forgot to end my free trial and got charged like $100 ha but now that I’m paying, I don’t want to quit learning!
I literally NEVER comment on any videos I watch but I feel like you need to hear that you are AMAZING. You are stunning, your apartment is UNREAL, you are so strong minded and constantly trying to improve yourself, you are so well educated, your voice is unbelievably calming and you motivate me on so many levels. I miss your videos when you’re gone so don’t let them get you down😘 x
Don’t feel like you owe anyone an explanation, live your best life ❣️❣️
honestly kalel, i applaud u for sharing ur life & insecurities on youtube. because by doing that, u make us feel so much more connected to u & it's more relatable. it's refreshing to see a youtuber who doesn't act like they have their lives together.
Kalel’s laugh is my favorite thing
love u sm kalel. thank u for opening up about your mental health & being vulnerable no matter how difficult. i feel ya girl
People are so quick to judge but they’re not the ones sharing their life online for people to see. I’m sure those people who are being horrible have things they’d be picked apart for too. Keep positive Kalel, there’s a new year just around the corner 🌟❤️
To be honest, if a person posts online about their life and repeating actions/behaviours, people are going to have a opinion. Also, ya have to accept people won't agree with certain things, if ya put it out there. Just how it is, when sharing your life with the world. Everyone who does has to acknowledge this.
REI DECEMBER Definitely, just some of the things that people are saying are just ridiculous because it’s not how they live their own life so they don’t think it’s normal to struggle with issues differently etc. I just think people need to be more understanding but that will definitely not happen, on this platform anyway with how awful it’s become
I feel you're one of the most human youtubers on this platform, you address issues and insecurities that are there for everyone but no one dares to talk about.
Watching you makes me calm down.
Thank you :)
When you share your low points it makes me feel that im not alone. It shouldnt be embarrassing for you to share low points. Its not your fault your embarrased, i think it comes from the stigma surrounding mental heath and being on social media were everything is portrayed as being perfect. But what im trying to say that i really appreciate you, and i can relate to alot of the issues you talk about. I hope you start feeling better💙
"This is human connection" I completely agree. I relate so much with you and your high and low points. We all go through it, and seeing so many people like you being opened and vulnerable about it publicly has kind of comforted me in a way. Thinking about it, I am way more accepting of myself and living in my own pace instead of comparing myself to others and how they're doing and where they are in life, and I'm sure people with content such as yours and Lauren Toyota's played a part in this. Truly feels like sharing a moment with a close friend, and that's helpful af.
There is no one else I know of on UA-cam that gets slammed so hard so often by her followers in the comments yet continues to be themselves. I don’t agree with your lifestyle it’s not mine but I dont care and I think you are incredibly brave
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my fav youtuber for years looveeeeeeee you kale!!
I love that you're so open online and have been for over 10 years now but it does upset me to see people attack you. Seems like you have the right mindset to come out of a dark place. I've also been going through hard times and focusing on new friends, what you're grateful for and passions is SO important to feeling better mentally.
I will alway talk to you guys in the same way I would a personal friend. I realize that it increases the likeliness of judgmental comments, but it's not enough to censor me and push me into a tiny little box.
I'm sorry to hear you're also going through a tough time. We'll come out of it soon enough!
@@KalelSumisu Aw thanks Kalel x We can get through this!
I can’t really explain it, but I felt that I related to you so well in this video compared to others. Although you’ve shared your insecurities before, it was really quite refreshing to see your more “quirky/awkward” side again. I’m so sorry that you feel this low right now, I think 2018 has been a rough year for a lot of us, including myself. I just feel that I’ve been feeling that “lost” feeling that you’re feeling right now too. I normally don’t comment ever but I just felt compelled to say that your videos always reassure me that I’m not alone and we’re all just little human beings that are just a little lost. :)
It baffles me how people can be so cruel :( how can anyone say another’s life is pathetic?!
I really feel for you, for all the struggles you’ve shared with us. But you also have so much and are an inspiring and unique personality!
We should neither envy nor tear each other down but just support each other but build each other up!
I wish you all the best and am looking forward to seeing where your path will lead you :)
This is why I loveee Kalel. So honest and so authentic. I believe that lot of people are just so ignoran. Like thinking that they don’t struggle and have problem on their own just to point others. Like, what the hell, nobody is “normal”. People have to stop trying to be what society frame us to be. Anyway, you go Kalel! (And Nenaaa you crack me at the end with that promo) 🤣 Love from Puerto Rico
Kalel you are literally my all time favorite UA-camr so when I get the notification that you uploaded, it truly makes my day :) im sick today and I needed this, your videos always make me smile no matter what! I will support you always girl and I've been a follower since 2014. keep your head up beautiful and keep doing your thing
Oh no!! I hope you feel better soon! Stay cuddled up and watch some good movies! :P And thank you for the love!!
@@KalelSumisu OMG my life is complete!!! thank you for responding!!
Kalel you have been such a joy to watch throughout the years ! Your present raw material never fake! Thank you for being so willing to open up your life to us ! Just continue to be you !
Just be you. I've learned the hard way and in the end, some people are just so full of hate that no matter what you say or do, they'll always have something to say.
Do what makes you happy. If it feels right for you it is right. ❤️
I missed you so much . I love your voice it’s so calming I could listen to you all day .
Kalel take it easy don’t compare yourself to others ... the end game in life is to be emotionally fulfilled . And there’s no specific career,love life , age .... for that .
You're a beautiful person inside & out. I always find myself relating to what you say & go through and I think most of your audience does as well. It's not easy putting your life out there publicly especially when there's some nasty people out there saying horrible horrible things. Just know that there are far more people supporting you and your decisions than there are haters. At the end of the day all your supporters want is for you to focus on your well being and be happy. ❤️
thank you
I think you are awesome for being so honest and sharing your self improvement journey with us. It is BRAVE! I've been watching your videos for 10+ years now (ok that makes me feel old...) and I see such a difference in you now. I wish that you weren't quite so isolated, but honestly I would probably be in the same boat if I didn't work in an office environment bc making friends as an adult is SO HARD. You do you girl.
Low-key Kalel going crazy with no interactions and always vlogging. Her laugh is getting crazier and crazier lol
Torii Colmenares I think her laugh makes me want to laugh. In a good way. Like she’s not afraid of the way she sounds.
This is not a joke
i hope you never give up on your youtube career kalel because when i watch you i feel so comforted. i can relate so much and feel like we’re friends even though i have never met you. i’ve been watching you since you’re blue hair days💙and i never will. i love you girl!
I am glad that you are bringing me on this journey Kalel, its so difficult to find youtubers that are genuinely honest about their life, and you make me feel normal, and that it's ok to feel low and down.
You are such a beautiful person inside and out. I've been going through some serious lows myself lately. Broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years, just found out my dad has a tumor, and school has been especially stressful. But this video was very comforting knowing I'm not alone, and that there's always a light at the end of the tunnel.
I never would tear you down for showing your vulnerability. I was just shook that you weren’t vegan anymore and it made me so unbelievably sad to see such a strong voice in the community stop being that inspiration for me. It still makes me sad...
PaulineMM She can still be an inspiration, as she's raised a lot of awareness, probably more than you ever have tbh. It's just her lifestyle had to change so she can be healthier. It's not sad, it's really great what she's done.
Kudos to you girl for being so open and vulnerable despite the negative response to your previous video. That's so brave *hugs* you're gonna get through this and fuck all the assholes
I saw a comment saying you don’t have the mental strength to be on UA-cam and I really felt I needed to say I totally disagree. I found your talk at the end to be incredibly self reflective of yourself which is such a strength and highlights your resilience. I think it is such a beautiful quality to say you’re still learning, regardless of your age and experience, and to be able to know where you are at mentally. That is a whole lot of insight into yourself, and not a lot of people truly have that. I think that demands respect for sure.
Been a fan of yours since 2015 when I was 21 and just finished college. Your videos have brought me a lot of joy and I'd support you no matter what!
maybe try find a therapist in the new year? :)
nina allegra not everyone needs a therapist. Every time I read comments like these on here I feel like y’all are still trying to say her life is sad or she has problems . She’s just like every human being and goes thru low points. She can do it she is so strong and beautiful . I just know I would hate ppl constantly telling me I need a therapist that’s so mean !
Why is recommending a therapist mean? Going to a therapist for your mental health is the same as going to a family medicine doctor for a physical check up. Mental health is just as important as physical, and yet we don't judge when people go to the doctor for a physical ailment. Let's try and break the stigma surrounding mental health. I think most everyone SHOULD see a therapist just like most people should see someone for a yearly physical. Seeing a therapist doesn't mean you have problems, either. It means you're literally just taking care of your health.@@cambamfam8165
Cambamfam not everybody needs a therapy, but she does. Trust me, I’m a therapist.
You don't have to have a mental illness, trauma, or anything extreme to see a therapist. Anyone can benefit from a therapist at any time, for numerous reasons. It's not an insult to suggest someone see a therapist.
@@cambamfam8165 But Kalel has spoken about her depression and her mental problems, her OCPD, her unhappiness, inability to connect and lack of purpose all the damn time. That alone should warrant the advice to seek the help of a professional. There is nothing shameful in that.
I really like your videos... We all have ups and lows but most of the people in UA-cam and every social media try to send the message they have the “perfect life” and is everything rainbows and fun, but what I like about your channel is the real conexión, is you being real... fuck it up, having great and bad moments and share it anyway. And that is human conexión, that’s we learning and growing. Thanks you kalel ❤️
I really wish we were friends. We truely would be such a good pair and like good for each other. You are super wise and strong and we are both in such a weird place in our lives. It's kinda crazy how much of my own insecurities you talk about having. I hope you feel better soon, eveybody hurts babe!
Honestly, you inspire me so much. You work hard no matter what other people say! We have the same personality type too, so it's extremely relatable
And just some piano tips:
sit a little further away from the keyboard (you should be sitting pretty much on the edge of the bench)
keep your wrists above the edge of the keyboard (your hands should pretty much always look cupped)
:)
you're so cute playing the piano haha I love your laugh. Reading all the nasty comments on your other video truly made me so sad... no one should have to deal with having such harsh judgment passed on them like that, especially regarding mental health. It's quite disgusting. I hope you can block out some of that noise in your mind and feel the love from the rest of us :) sending love xo
Honestly, your life is the reflection of mine. We have almost the same insecurities and mental health where we just like to be just with ourself. That why i like to watch your youtube videos cuz u make me feel im not alone. Thank you so much for making my days brighter kalel. Keep doing youtube, love u kalel
Keep it up! We live for your videos, they are truely inspirational
That talk at the end was super amazing and I felt for you. I really love your videos.
I think you can meet all the 150 people who messaged you in a park or something, and have a picnic day with a lot of food and laughter and maybe activities.. You can meet new friends and they can bond with each other too and make other new friends too
I love this channel because it is “your” life. Watching u go through different experiences is oddly calming to me.
People's negativity is a reflection on them and their insecurities, and they are projecting it on to you. Try not to take it to heart as hard as it is. You are incredible, no ifs, ands, or buts.
Watching your videos gives me a lot of comfort, because in some way I'm going through a "lonely phase" as well. Sometimes life just gets miserable, and that's ok. Builds character.
I’m so sorry people are being so mean Kalel. The other percentage of people care and just want you to seek help and be happy. You deserve to be happy 💕 We love you
Thank you for always being vulnerable, open, and honest! We need more people like you on the internet 💕
You have a 85% happier life than me , I'm 13, I live in Syria, I have a bad WiFi connection, I have very bad people in my family, But I'm really thankful to God for Water, Food, Clothes, A house, A very good mom, I feel like I'm alone and not really have things to do with my life, I'm really bored of my life, I do my religion work, I do every work in my life, But I'm still bored, The only thing that makes me happy is my mom and the Internet 😂
So much respect for you Kalel. You've always been so introspective, real and honest and that is why I've stuck around since your first channel. I love you make me think about my own life and my own views. I wish you all the best!
One of the realest moments I’ve ever seen on UA-cam.
hey kalel! just wanted to send some love! this is YOUR journey and I'm so grateful to be a part of it -- you always keep it real & I admire that because during times when viewers and myself are experiencing lows, we know we're all not alone. I think it's also great to see examples of REAL lows (not like overly dramatized realty shows or even drama on YT) because we can learn from one another in a genuine way. We learn from you and you learn from us. I wish there was more media like this. Keep doing you & can't wait to see where this journey goes & where the next begins!