Unless you’re an introvert I don’t think you’ll understand the comfort that comes from being completely alone. No stress, no worries about pleasing another person or accommodating others. It’s bliss. You are looking amazing, Kalel. Really 💕
I love being with people more than being alone but that doesn't mean I like pleasing others or accomodating . Pleasing others and autoaccomodating has nothing to do with introversy. At least in my case
I feel like she's finally in a really good and healthy spot in her life. I quit watching her for a while, but I tuned back in for this and I can tell she's definitely changed for the better. She seems so much healthier and less stressed out. But that could just be me.
Kalel you’re welcome! i’m currently learning korean and relate so hard to what you said about learning different languages. very excited to keep up with your progress and your strengths and weaknesses!!! 사랑해요! :-)
PLEASE let us know what you ended up doing to your hair. Is it growing back more, is it extensions? It looks amazing! - Sincerely girl with thinning hair
I’m watching this for the second time while I’m sitting here eating breakfast and realizing how much I love and appreciate you, Kalel. Watching you over the many years has taught me how crucial it is to grow and put yourself first. I have always felt close to you because I thrive off of being alone and spending time with myself. My husband tells me all the time “ Why don’t you get some friends” “why don’t you have girl time?” and it’s always bothered me because i felt like there was something wrong with me. I would rather have quality time with myself then shallow small talk with someone else. I don’t know, I hope this doesn’t come off wrong, but watching you has always made me feel like I have a friend that’s just like me. I love who you are and I hope you know how much we appreciate who you are and what you share with us. I hope you have a wonderful new year.
Not gonna lie, me alone in my apartment enjoying a simple Christmas is a definite mood. Not because I hate my family or friends (I love them), but sometimes the solitude is just nice. ✨ Btw Kalel that makeup is bomb 👌
I died when you said imagine this whole tub tipping over lmao I love this video and it honestly showed your true personality..and you seem genuinely fun to be around 🙂
i don't get the criticism, i thought this vid idea was a super creative play on smtg that is often overdone on youtube. plus it's like a haul, unboxing, makeup vid, and vlog all in one!
I’m really enjoying this Kalel. There seems to be a lot of self love and acceptance here. She seems at peace and like someone I’d genuinely like to spend time with.
everyone in the comments: she's losing it. me: shoot this is what i do like everyday and pretend im making a vlog when im actually just talking to myself dramatically.
The comments who think she's having a mental breakdown cos she's more independent and on her own, not relying on any guy (which she used to in the past, so this is PROGRESS PEOPLE!) is so annoying and actually fucked up! If a guy is single, he's a hot bachelor, but if a woman's single- she's miserable and sad????? Just because someone is living the happy, single life does NOT mean they're miserable or fake happy. Y'all are codependent as fuck if you think otherwise. You have to love yourself first before you can love anyone else. Ugh. Go Kalel!
Kalel, you look absolutely GORGEOUS. genuinely, best you’ve ever looked. and I was *here* for your attitude. truly badass idgaf energy I’m bringing into 2020, you feel me? I know we all grow and change. I love seeing how you change and where that growth brings you. Wishing you nothing but continued happiness and self-fulfillment in this next year. 💕
Learning the "art" of being alone can not be mastered by many. You have to be ok in you own skin, alone and quiet...it freaks most people out. They panic....kuddos to you. This is where you truly find yourself...and can be a better version of you. So many people cant function without someone in their life. I know many women who have NEVER been alone! Keep doing you Kalel.
I've been watching you since the beginning. I just really love your personality. It just makes me feel like I'm with an old friend when I'm watching your videos. You're so authentic and relatable. You're funny and kind. Kalel I love you and seeing you happier makes me feel so refreshed. Keep doing you and I will always support you on your journey. I'm always rooting for you, no matter what happens.
that hair color and lip color are so flattering together!! Btw hair is looking so long and thick!! i have been with you through your health journey. always glad to see you kalel. Happy holidays!
It looks like you’re loosing it but I also understand where you’re coming from. I too rather be alone and spend time with myself. But from Kalel to Kalel really puts the cherry on top 😂😂
When I read the title I was SO ready to judge her thinking she got all the presents from friends after saying she has no friends for the past year. But when she proceeded to open the gifts primarily from herself. MOOD
That dark hair and lip colour on you girl is firrrre. Also the amount of people who don't get the sarcasm and humor in this alarm me. You treat yourself and enjoy it to the fullest!
@@sharonyang8822 it means what it means - I haven’t seen a video from her in a long time where I actually liked her until this one. She felt more real and with an actual “idgaf” attitude
Omg why is it that everytime you post (when you haven't done it in a while) is when i JUST the other day checked up on you. EVERY. TIME. lol, missed you 💕 Edit: You look great and your makeup looks gorgeous. Love the mood during the whole video. Also I like the resolution about learning a new language every decade. I'm also learning korean, and kind of half assed learned since 2013. So I would love to be completely fluent by 2023 at least.
I love how honest you are, I’m super introverted and honestly relate to you soo much. I always feel like I’m weird for my introvertedness but you make me feel normal. 😂
People in the comments talking about how weird it is to spend so much time alone square up bc I'm here to defend the happily alone single girl lifestyle
watching videos about 2020 resolutions regarding travelling and getting out more is such a strange feeling. at least you became a professional in the field of staying home and maintaining your emotional state before the world shut down lmao. (im sure your cats are loving the attention though) this video rlly is a whole ass mood, keep peaking, girl!
i feel like kalel is my spirit animal, idk about her but i'm on the verge of a breakdown and i'm still like 'yeaaa let's love myself and have a one-person party'
This was the funniest what I got for Christmas video i've seen this year. I love how you don't take yourself too seriously. Merry late Christmas Kalel, and a happy new year!
I’ve seriously been following you sense the beginning. Sense the colorful hair and all that. It’s so cool to see how far you have came and I must still say, I love you and I’m still obsessed with you! I hope you had a good Holiday.
Kalel, I don’t know if you’re ever going to read this but I just got out of a 5 year relationship and am trying to re-discover my independence and most importantly, learn how to love myself and love being by myself again. After having lived with him and been attached to the hip with him for so long I had a lot of fear that it would be extremely difficult to adjust, and to be honest, just scared of the unknown without the security that our long relationship provided me. However, watching your videos gives me a sense of peace and hope. Hope that I will regain the confidence that I need to move forward and enjoy my life without needing to depend on another person to make me happy. I love the joy that you find in the little things and I’m now slowly but surely becoming more and more excited to start pampering myself and learning to love and spend time by myself again. Thank you! And please don’t ever stop making these types of videos, lol. 💕💕
It'll feel weird at first being single after such a long time, but it gets better very soon and feels so liberating. After my 3 year relationship I felt so unstable after the breakup, but very soon it felt amazing having my entire life to myself and doing whatever the hell I wanted. You'll love it I promise!
Oh.. I feel that longing for a bath tub. My apartment only has a standing shower as well, and I miss a tub all the time! I might have to get a pop up too..
Kalel you need a genuine friend. One that lives close to you and doesn't trigger your anxiety. Nobody can be happy spending that much time alone no matter how strong minded they are.
Giving yourself gifts and acting surprised is a whole ass mood lmao
LMFAOOOOOO
Swear to god lmfao this whole video is a whole ass mood. 😂
Lol I bought myself jeans, wrapped it and did the same thing for Christmas.😂
I did the same! Thought that I was a little crazy... (guess I am!) 😂
Except I would really forget what was in there 😂
Unless you’re an introvert I don’t think you’ll understand the comfort that comes from being completely alone. No stress, no worries about pleasing another person or accommodating others. It’s bliss.
You are looking amazing, Kalel. Really 💕
C W I understand it completely
Totally agree!!! It IS bliss!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 there’s so much to factor in when around other people
This 💯
I love being with people more than being alone but that doesn't mean I like pleasing others or accomodating . Pleasing others and autoaccomodating has nothing to do with introversy. At least in my case
Totally agree
2019 is the year we all went crazy
I can confirm.
And got hurt by a bunch of fake ppl
I agree
😂😂😩😩
you're so right
this woman's evolution has been astounding
The fact that she wrapped all of her presents to herself. Iconic. Queen of Christmas.
“in 2020 i want to get out a lot” 😭😭 girl i’m so sorry
You're living the introverted dream 😂
It's propably too late to wish Merry Christmas so Happy New Year instead!
FR 😍
“Kalel you outdid yourself this year” 😂 this was so fun to watch, it’s probably my favourite video of yours. Happy Holidays! xx
❤️❤️❤️
If this isn’t me living my best single life I don’t know what is hunnyyyyy. Yes self love, yes self care!
check! check!
Tasneem Alhunayan ikr ❤️🤗
I feel like she's mildly trolling but she seems genuinely happy to be by herself. She looks great and I need that robe.
I feel like she's finally in a really good and healthy spot in her life. I quit watching her for a while, but I tuned back in for this and I can tell she's definitely changed for the better. She seems so much healthier and less stressed out. But that could just be me.
you actually look INCREDIBLE. like so healthy and happy i’m very happy for you. happy 2020!
thank youuuuu
Kalel you’re welcome! i’m currently learning korean and relate so hard to what you said about learning different languages. very excited to keep up with your progress and your strengths and weaknesses!!! 사랑해요! :-)
PLEASE let us know what you ended up doing to your hair. Is it growing back more, is it extensions? It looks amazing! - Sincerely girl with thinning hair
I was thinking the same thing. She looks amazing! ^_^
This is the best “treat yourself” video I’ve seen, ever. Iconic.
Okay but the "Idgaf and I'm happy" vibes in the BEST way of this video is inspirational
y’all remember when her hair was GREEN lord
I can’t tell if she’s actually happy and feeing herself or if she’s in the midst of a mental breakdown.
:(
She is so pretty, has beautiful blue eyes and is rich. She needs to get over her
1st world problems
@@JD-kp6pt this is a very ignorant and uneducated comment
@Victoria Leigh
either way, let’s not stigmatize mental health. that shit hurts everyone.
@@JD-kp6pt you can have it all and still get depressed
Kalel feeling herself in the hand mirror is a bigggg mood
Alanna 🤣🤣🤣
"I'll probably be single next year too because I'm so used to it."...every single girls famous last words 😂😂😂
True
I feel like Kalel stating “I will eat something just for the texture, even if it doesn’t taste that good” really sums her up.
“To Kalel from Kalel” Dead😂 You’re the best hahaha
This is one of my favorite videos from Kalel. Probably watched this about 7 times and it makes me laugh every time!
Girl, I swear, your videos are enchanted or something, because after watching, I'm always inspired to go clean my house and treat myself. 😄
ok love that
Same! And inspired to research and learn something!
omg this is so true!! Kalel always gets me in the best mood and inspired to do all of the things!!!
it's comforting to see other people alone cuz it makes me feel like I'm not so weird lol
I can’t with you with the bathtub 😂💀 I swear you and me think a like when it comes to random ideas 😂😂
ahahaha :P
I’m watching this for the second time while I’m sitting here eating breakfast and realizing how much I love and appreciate you, Kalel. Watching you over the many years has taught me how crucial it is to grow and put yourself first. I have always felt close to you because I thrive off of being alone and spending time with myself. My husband tells me all the time “ Why don’t you get some friends” “why don’t you have girl time?” and it’s always bothered me because i felt like there was something wrong with me. I would rather have quality time with myself then shallow small talk with someone else. I don’t know, I hope this doesn’t come off wrong, but watching you has always made me feel like I have a friend that’s just like me. I love who you are and I hope you know how much we appreciate who you are and what you share with us. I hope you have a wonderful new year.
That is very sweet to say :) I hope you have a wonderful year as well....even tho I'm not Kalel xD
Idk why kalel is starting to give me Trisha paytas vibes 😂 I think it's the being alone in her fancy apartment and eating cinnamon rolls part
💀💀💀
And the lil mukbang
😂😂 I was thinking the same
Omggg looool
Lol next video: kalel crying on her kitchen floor
“I apologize for this level 4 crackhead behavior” omfg I CACKLED 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not gonna lie, me alone in my apartment enjoying a simple Christmas is a definite mood. Not because I hate my family or friends (I love them), but sometimes the solitude is just nice. ✨
Btw Kalel that makeup is bomb 👌
S River hiya, I dont understand why you wouldnt rather have alone time on other days rather then a family holiday ?
the foldable bath is top tier content that I needed. I could not stop laughing WITH you. omg I love you ok.
lola wolf ahaha, thank youuu 😘
I died when you said imagine this whole tub tipping over lmao
I love this video and it honestly showed your true personality..and you seem genuinely fun to be around 🙂
i don't get the criticism, i thought this vid idea was a super creative play on smtg that is often overdone on youtube. plus it's like a haul, unboxing, makeup vid, and vlog all in one!
This is best "what I got for Christmas" video I have ever seen
I’m really enjoying this Kalel. There seems to be a lot of self love and acceptance here. She seems at peace and like someone I’d genuinely like to spend time with.
To kalel
From kalel
I'm dead, that's a literal mooodd😂😂
I love how extra Kalel is just for herself lol
I was crying laughing the whole time you were in the tub 😂
Kalel giving herself gifts and acting surprised and excited is me every christmas 😂
LMAO this was perfect. I wish you posted more. You’re really great
thank you
everyone in the comments: she's losing it.
me: shoot this is what i do like everyday and pretend im making a vlog when im actually just talking to myself dramatically.
This reminds me of the olden days of UA-cam and I loved every single second of it . Love u kalel
The comments who think she's having a mental breakdown cos she's more independent and on her own, not relying on any guy (which she used to in the past, so this is PROGRESS PEOPLE!) is so annoying and actually fucked up! If a guy is single, he's a hot bachelor, but if a woman's single- she's miserable and sad????? Just because someone is living the happy, single life does NOT mean they're miserable or fake happy. Y'all are codependent as fuck if you think otherwise. You have to love yourself first before you can love anyone else. Ugh. Go Kalel!
Almost choked on my coffee - Kalel uploaded!!!
Gurl you my favourite ASMR artist who doesn’t even do ASMR 😂🙌🏻
Elizabeth Muller I really want to try it!
Kalel yaaaaas keen!!
@Kalel pls try it, you would be amazing!!
and there she goes...
Kalel, you look absolutely GORGEOUS.
genuinely, best you’ve ever looked.
and I was *here* for your attitude.
truly badass idgaf energy I’m bringing into 2020, you feel me?
I know we all grow and change. I love seeing how you change and where that growth brings you.
Wishing you nothing but continued happiness and self-fulfillment in this next year. 💕
This was the best video I've watched on UA-cam in a loooong time. I laughed out loud so many times. I didn't want it to end!
That makes me so happy! Glad you enjoyed! 😘
Your hair and makeup and just everything about you is so elegant and cute!! I hope you start posting more, I miss your videos💕
"this is like... Offensively... Gorgeous."
I needed this today ♥️
I totally feel you, this year I really learned how to be alone and enjoy my own company. But in the new year I want to put myself out there more.
Learning the "art" of being alone can not be mastered by many. You have to be ok in you own skin, alone and quiet...it freaks most people out. They panic....kuddos to you. This is where you truly find yourself...and can be a better version of you. So many people cant function without someone in their life. I know many women who have NEVER been alone! Keep doing you Kalel.
Girl I need a hair care routine your hair looks so beautiful! 😩
Kalel is goals - being alone and enjoying yourself during the holiday without letting societal standards get to you. Love it. That is self love.
I've been watching you since the beginning. I just really love your personality. It just makes me feel like I'm with an old friend when I'm watching your videos. You're so authentic and relatable. You're funny and kind. Kalel I love you and seeing you happier makes me feel so refreshed. Keep doing you and I will always support you on your journey. I'm always rooting for you, no matter what happens.
that hair color and lip color are so flattering together!! Btw hair is looking so long and thick!! i have been with you through your health journey. always glad to see you kalel. Happy holidays!
It looks like you’re loosing it but I also understand where you’re coming from. I too rather be alone and spend time with myself. But from Kalel to Kalel really puts the cherry on top 😂😂
This is my favorite video on youtube.. Like ever 💗 so cozy and calming 🙈
Kalel your hair looks so pretty and healthy! And the red lip looks amazing on you. Merry Christmas and I hope that 2020 will be amazing for you xx.
When I read the title I was SO ready to judge her thinking she got all the presents from friends after saying she has no friends for the past year. But when she proceeded to open the gifts primarily from herself. MOOD
your laughter is so contagious🥰
thank you 😂😘
It just hit me that I've been watching you since MIDDLE SCHOOL...I'm in college now....KALELLLLL
Watching Kalel eating cinnamon rolls was so satisfying. 😂
your hair looks absolutely stunning!
As a Korean Im so excited that you’re learning Korean😊😊 I would love to see you vlog in Korea!!!!
Yes & she could do a whole vlog speaking only Korean (with subtitles please!)
I wanna be this level of happy in the new year.... just me, myself and my foldable portable bathtub
seems like a perfect way to spend christmas, nice and relaxing ❤️
That dark hair and lip colour on you girl is firrrre. Also the amount of people who don't get the sarcasm and humor in this alarm me. You treat yourself and enjoy it to the fullest!
Love your sense of humor!
Girl you look amazing
I like this whole thing that you’re just being yourself without trying!! LOVE LOVE LOVE!
thank you for the love
Kalel I think this was your most likable video I've seen of you in a long time 😂
@@sharonyang8822 it means what it means - I haven’t seen a video from her in a long time where I actually liked her until this one. She felt more real and with an actual “idgaf” attitude
All these resolutions and not one about your body. YAY! Way to realize you're more than that (and you look fantastic but thats irrelevant).
This is my comfort video LOL we miss u Kalel😭
Seriously though, I haven’t seen you look this genuinely happy in a long time
You are such a beautiful soul.....good for you to be absent from drama and present with peace!---Love your sense of humor too!
I live alone and am single and I feel like this is how I narrate my daily life too Hahahah! ❤️
When your mom wants you to become fat so she sends you a ton of candies 😂
Seriously!! I even told her not to! Gotta love moms! 😂
Betch you’re hilarious. The bathroom scene had me dying. 😂
This look, this vibe this attitude I'M LIVING FOR IT love it
Can I just say that you're tremendously gorgeous in this video. Oh my God so beautfiul with that hair colour and berry lip shade 🤩
Omg she's sooo freaking pretty how can someone be thaatt pretty... No wonder it's all the self love...
Omg why is it that everytime you post (when you haven't done it in a while) is when i JUST the other day checked up on you. EVERY. TIME. lol, missed you 💕
Edit: You look great and your makeup looks gorgeous. Love the mood during the whole video. Also I like the resolution about learning a new language every decade. I'm also learning korean, and kind of half assed learned since 2013. So I would love to be completely fluent by 2023 at least.
fr i checked her yesterday
Happens to me too!!
27:25 it’s December 2020 and I’m watching this video again alone. 😅❤️
the energy in this vid is very chaotic, relatable, and authentic 😂 the bath tub bit was hilarious lmao, thank you for this gem Kalel ❤️
I love how honest you are, I’m super introverted and honestly relate to you soo much. I always feel like I’m weird for my introvertedness but you make me feel normal. 😂
Girl, I love the whole mood of this
People in the comments talking about how weird it is to spend so much time alone square up bc I'm here to defend the happily alone single girl lifestyle
When you post, it literally makes my day
watching videos about 2020 resolutions regarding travelling and getting out more is such a strange feeling. at least you became a professional in the field of staying home and maintaining your emotional state before the world shut down lmao. (im sure your cats are loving the attention though) this video rlly is a whole ass mood, keep peaking, girl!
LOVING your hair!! The color, the length, everything. I LOVE this look on you!
i feel like kalel is my spirit animal, idk about her but i'm on the verge of a breakdown and i'm still like 'yeaaa let's love myself and have a one-person party'
This was the funniest what I got for Christmas video i've seen this year. I love how you don't take yourself too seriously. Merry late Christmas Kalel, and a happy new year!
I’ve seriously been following you sense the beginning. Sense the colorful hair and all that. It’s so cool to see how far you have came and I must still say, I love you and I’m still obsessed with you! I hope you had a good Holiday.
"Isn't Christmas all about becoming prediabetic within a 24 hour period?"
Yes... Yes it is 😂
Kalel, I don’t know if you’re ever going to read this but I just got out of a 5 year relationship and am trying to re-discover my independence and most importantly, learn how to love myself and love being by myself again. After having lived with him and been attached to the hip with him for so long I had a lot of fear that it would be extremely difficult to adjust, and to be honest, just scared of the unknown without the security that our long relationship provided me. However, watching your videos gives me a sense of peace and hope. Hope that I will regain the confidence that I need to move forward and enjoy my life without needing to depend on another person to make me happy. I love the joy that you find in the little things and I’m now slowly but surely becoming more and more excited to start pampering myself and learning to love and spend time by myself again. Thank you! And please don’t ever stop making these types of videos, lol. 💕💕
It'll feel weird at first being single after such a long time, but it gets better very soon and feels so liberating. After my 3 year relationship I felt so unstable after the breakup, but very soon it felt amazing having my entire life to myself and doing whatever the hell I wanted. You'll love it I promise!
Oh.. I feel that longing for a bath tub. My apartment only has a standing shower as well, and I miss a tub all the time! I might have to get a pop up too..
get someone to look at you like Kalel looks at her foldable bathtub
Kalel you need a genuine friend. One that lives close to you and doesn't trigger your anxiety. Nobody can be happy spending that much time alone no matter how strong minded they are.
Hearing your resolution to travel more and get out of the apartment more in 2020 makes me sad bc rona :-(
Girl, I'll be your friend! We have so much in common, it's scary!
woah an og UA-camr! I remember your parody videos I used to watch when I discovered UA-cam at like 13, 10 years ago. what's up girl :D
Same
Omg love you Venetian Princess♥️
Mateee when I watch you it’s literally like being with a friend. Happy holidays hun!
I'm so glad you still make videos. You were my favorite youtube years ago. You and Anthony made me feel happy in life.
It’s strange to say, but when you post it’s like visiting an old friend. You have a beautiful soul! Happy New Year 💕
“ i ACTUALLY spent almost this whole year alone!” 👀 lol I luv you ❤️
“I have such a way with words.” 🤣