I love the way this highlighted the importance of being present and making the most of now instead of waiting for the perfect moment... because honestly, there IS no "perfect moment" it's just the moments we create.
The thought of just going for it and seeing what happens is weirdly liberating and makes me want to launch my side hustle! No more excuses or waiting for everything to be in place.
The idea of building with what you have really resonated with me. It's so easy to get caught up in what we lack instead of using our current resources.
loved the bit about not letting what you don't have slow you down. It's easy to focus on limitations, but there's usually a way to work with what's available if you get creative!
her journey from college grad to entrepreneur and parent is pretty inspiring. shows what's possible when you're willing to take risks and adapt to life's curveballs!
Such a good message! I think we can also surprise ourselves by how capable we actually are when we just start doing something. Sometimes less is more in terms of preparation.
Challenging the idea of putting conditions on present happiness is a game-changer. Always thought I'd be happy "when" something happened, but maybe it's about finding joy in the journey.
The concept of emotional endurance is intriguing. In a world full of quick fixes and instant gratification, developing that inner resilience seems more important than ever.
The story about creating the Maker's Place was inspiring. It shows that big dreams can start from simple, honest needs and of course just having the courage to voice them!
This talk made me realize how much time I waste dreaming instead of doing. It's comfortable to live in that "someday" mindset, but it doesn't get you anywhere. Time for a change!
I think this talk does a great job of showing how important it is to align our daily actions with our long-term goals. Otherwise it gets too easy to lose sight of what we're working towards
Could definitely relate to the "having more ideas than time" part. And when you finally get time to act on one of those ideas it's like all the excitement you had for it has already worn away
Never too late to plant that tree. No use dwelling on missed opportunities from the past. This talk is a good kick in the pants to start working towards those long-term goals now
So much respect for her for turning personal struggles into motivation for positive change. That's real resilience right there. Makes me want to look at my own challenges in a new light.
Even though there are tough realities when it comes to achieving your goals, for people like me who have a huge amount of trouble just starting a task, this is exactly the kind of motivation that's needed! Thank you.
The 'to be' list exercise is something I’m definitely going to try. Reflecting on who I want to be sounds like a great way to align my actions with my values.
That is such a great point and the core of my message was to hopefully anyone to start where they are with what they have, rather than remaining stuck as a victim to what they don't. Equity and access to support systems vary so much, but we all have agency to do what we can!
The point about leading with intention is spot on. I think we get so stuck on "what" we're doing that we limit our ability to bring our values, personalities and just... _who_ we are into the equation.
Makers place sounds fantastic. Not just because of the childcare aspect but just to have a shared working space, seems like it would make for some great connections amongst the community.
that part about not being afraid of not knowing the outcome and just starting is some really great encouragement. I wonder why we're all so afraid of just taking that first step
It's interesting how different people have different ways of approaching things and maybe just changing up that approach can make all the difference in terms of success!
Wow, the 'Someday Isle'! That's definitely where I live.. Always dreaming of better, but not acting now. This talk is a wake-up call. Time to ditch the island and start doing what I can today
I really enjoyed the metaphor of the two kingdoms and the Someday Isle... it's such a great way to illustrate how we often can get stuck between two extremes
@@cappikarlsonawesome to hear! I’m currently writing a book to incorporate more stories like this with concepts about how to enhance your Emotional Endurance 🎉
The part about emotional endurance really hit home for me. I agree it's crucial to develop resilience in the face of life's challenges, because they just keep on coming lol
the message about having courage to step out without knowing the outcome is powerful. easier said than done, but it's a good reminder that growth often happens outside our comfort zone.
I'm also a working parent, and I really connected with her story. It's not easy juggling it all, but it's so worth it to show our kids what's possible.
the story about creating The Maker's Place out of a personal need is so relatable and I think it shows how we can turn our struggles into successes. Sometimes the best solutions come from our own challenges.
her point about putting conditions on our present happiness is spot on and in my experience even if we do achieve that condition (mine was losing weight) we're still not the perfect happy versions of ourselves we thought we'd be
"You can have it all, just not all at once." Daaaamn okay this really struck me as something profound and yes, it is 100% correct because some of the things even cancel each other out!
I felt super inspired by how she took action to create that coworking space solution she needed, instead of just talking about it. Stepping out on faith like that is goals!
The idea of leading with intention and creating a 'to be' list instead of a 'to do' list is just wonderful. I agree it's more important to focus on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing.
I know I'm gonna face challenges and setbacks on the road to my dreams, but the idea of building emotional endurance gives me hope that I can work up to doing those hard things.
That part about trading efficiency for sufficiency? It hit me hard. I'm always so focused on being productive instead of living intentionally, I've never really made the distinction before
This is a great talk in terms of motivating people to get going with their goals... obviously there are some harsher realities in terms of the actual achieving them but for those who have that thing where starting is half the battle, this is really valuable encouragement.
I think this is also such a great example of what can happen when you just voice your needs, no matter how outlandish they sound because once someone else hears them it's like OH ACTUALLY that's achieveable!
Her journey of going from an ambitious 20-something to building multiple businesses and raising 3 kids is just... amazing and it's really assuring to hear her advice knowing that she was able to do all of it that way
trading efficiency for sufficiency... that's a mindset shift I need to work on. Always felt like I had to do everything perfectly, but maybe it's more important to just get things done.
Emotional endurance is a phrase I’ve never heard before and it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! So many people give up and it’s strategy and fortitude that makes it happen!
it's reassuring to know that even the most put-together people have moments of wanting to trade in their responsibilities. We all need a break sometimes.
This is wonderful advice! I think we also tend to procrastinate because we just don't know what our lives will start to look like once we start doing whatever the thing is
This is something I struggle with a lot, just taking action despite being scared so the idea of just leaning into that uncertainty is kind of really empowering! Not sure how I'll go putting it into practice lol but in theory it's great!
I could really relate to her struggle with having too many ideas and not enough time to pursue them all. Definitely need to work on pacing my passion better.
From a dreamer to a doer was incredibly motivational. I agree that our biggest obstacles are often our own fears and hesitations.
I love “dreamer to a doer” 🎉 So glad this resonates with you!
definitely, and once we overcome them we're pretty unstoppable 💪🏼💪🏼
Great topic to bring to the group, thank you.
I'm not stuck, I am just resting, lol
I've been trying to message you, are you getting them?
Emotional endurance is absolutely life-changing once you've mastered it!
Absolutely! And even once you’ve started practicing it!!
It's incredible what can be achieved when you decide to take action, no matter the circumstances.
Indeed! And it’s that moment of decision that is the launchpad forward!
Good way to start the day hearing this.
Loads of solutions, yeah I get it.
Well shared, I like this a lot.
Emotional Endurance is the key takeaway for me.
Emphasizing values and intentions over just productivity is a really refreshing approach! I'm into it.
Awesome!! So good to hear!🎉
Did you do it? Don't want to be rude or nosy but just a friendly reminder if you haven't started yet, why not?
I love the way this highlighted the importance of being present and making the most of now instead of waiting for the perfect moment... because honestly, there IS no "perfect moment" it's just the moments we create.
Such a profound "take away" @brandawoodword as we only can control how we respond and act in each moment, not the circumstances around it
@@LeslieMBosserman very true
Love the idea of leading with intention. It's all about aligning actions with values, that's the only way to live your best, authentic life.
Absolutely! That’s why I named my coaching practice Lead With Intention!
The thought of just going for it and seeing what happens is weirdly liberating and makes me want to launch my side hustle! No more excuses or waiting for everything to be in place.
I love this and hope you take the next step forward!
@@LeslieMBosserman Thank you!! Loved your talk!
I appreciate the focus on taking the first step, no matter how small. It's a reminder that progress is made one step at a time.
And we have to continue walking 🚶♀️
@@LeslieMBosserman and walking and walking and....
The idea of building with what you have really resonated with me. It's so easy to get caught up in what we lack instead of using our current resources.
I'm so glad this connects with you, too! Now keep building!
I found the Chinese proverb about planting a tree particularly powerful. It’s never too late to start something meaningful.
So true! Now go plant some seeds 🌱
I think life is constantly throwing challenges at us and seeing it as an opportunity to build upon our strengths is a really good reframe, thank you.
You’re welcome!
It's so easy to get caught up in perfectionism and never actually start but action beats perfection every time!
Love the saying “action beats perfection” 🎉
loved the bit about not letting what you don't have slow you down. It's easy to focus on limitations, but there's usually a way to work with what's available if you get creative!
Absolutely! There's enough stuff out there trying to limit our impact and diminish our worth. I'm glad this inspired you!
Love her energy! So positive and contagious, she's got me feeling pumped to tackle some projects I've been procrastinating on for a loooong time
Love hearing this!!! 🎉 Keep me posted on what you create and accomplish!
I've got to remember what she said about having it all just not all at once! Such solid advice.
Yea indeed! I still live by that advice!
her journey from college grad to entrepreneur and parent is pretty inspiring. shows what's possible when you're willing to take risks and adapt to life's curveballs!
Thank you! It's been a blessed and BUSY life!
Such a good message! I think we can also surprise ourselves by how capable we actually are when we just start doing something. Sometimes less is more in terms of preparation.
So true and well put!
Challenging the idea of putting conditions on present happiness is a game-changer. Always thought I'd be happy "when" something happened, but maybe it's about finding joy in the journey.
So true! I'm glad this resonated with you, too!
I was really moved by how candidly she spoke about her struggles, and how she turned them into opportunities. Really cool stuff.
Thank you❤
The concept of emotional endurance is intriguing. In a world full of quick fixes and instant gratification, developing that inner resilience seems more important than ever.
So true!! Stay tuned for more on this topic coming soon…
It's refreshing to hear a talk that acknowledges the pressure of daily obligations and offers realistic ways to navigate them, thank you.
You're most welcome!
her personal stories added so much depth to the talk. They were really relatable and inspiring.
I'm so glad they connected with you!
The story about creating the Maker's Place was inspiring. It shows that big dreams can start from simple, honest needs and of course just having the courage to voice them!
Thank you and YES!! I'm glad this resonates with you, too!
This talk made me realize how much time I waste dreaming instead of doing. It's comfortable to live in that "someday" mindset, but it doesn't get you anywhere. Time for a change!
Dreaming is great when it becomes the fuel for DOing!!
yeah I get caught in the daydreaming aspect of things too
The balance between dreaming and doing is delicate.
And it starts with one small step forward...
Loved the story of the two kingdoms and the Someday Isle. Very clever storytelling.
I had fun writing it! ❤
"You can have it all, just not all at once" - I needed to hear that today. I put so much pressure on myself to achieve everything RIGHT NOW.
Just focus on what's in front of you...then do the next thing!
I think this talk does a great job of showing how important it is to align our daily actions with our long-term goals. Otherwise it gets too easy to lose sight of what we're working towards
Yes indeed! You have to be intentional with your vision to know where to start now!
@@LeslieMBosserman absolutely! ✨
Could definitely relate to the "having more ideas than time" part. And when you finally get time to act on one of those ideas it's like all the excitement you had for it has already worn away
Me too, never enough hours in the day
Good motivation, isn't it?
Great talk, needed this, thanks for sharing it.
Oh wow yeah I definitely know that feeling
Hahaha yes! This was me all throughout my life but now that I'm retired strangely I just want to enjoy doing very little
Never too late to plant that tree. No use dwelling on missed opportunities from the past. This talk is a good kick in the pants to start working towards those long-term goals now
Yes! Take those seeds and get to work!
Love how she flips the "to do list" into the "to be list". ❤
Thanks! We love it, too!
@@LeslieMBosserman
kudos to her for embodying her message of intentional living so fully. You can tell she walks her talk, not just talks it. Inspiring!
That is the goal!! ❤
@@LeslieMBosserman THANKS!
her message reminds me of that quote, "A year from now, you'll wish you had started today." Time to get moving on my goals.
Start today what you won’t regret not doing tomorrow! 🎉
Imma have to watch this one again, she dropped so many gems about intentional living that I need to fully take in.
Thank you!! And yes, please re-watch and share 🎉
So much respect for her for turning personal struggles into motivation for positive change. That's real resilience right there. Makes me want to look at my own challenges in a new light.
Thanks you and I’m glad you found this talk inspirational! 🎉
Even though there are tough realities when it comes to achieving your goals, for people like me who have a huge amount of trouble just starting a task, this is exactly the kind of motivation that's needed! Thank you.
You’re welcome 🎉
The 'to be' list exercise is something I’m definitely going to try. Reflecting on who I want to be sounds like a great way to align my actions with my values.
This talk is like a treasure trove of knowledge. So much to learn and implement!
Thank you so much for listening!! Please reshare to spread the knowledge! ❤
This is a masterclass in overcoming self-doubt 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Love hearing this!!
absolutely, lots of great stuff here
I'm getting creative with what I have and starting to chase those dreams. Onward and upward!
Love this!! ❤
her story is proof that we don't need to have it all figured out to make a difference. We just need to start with what we see in front of us.
Yes indeed! One step at a time!
A TEDx Talk will NEVER be in our "Someday I'll..." WAY TO GO, Leslie!
Thank you so much, Amy!!
Her journey from dreaming to actualizing her vision was motivating but I wonder how realistic it is for those of us without a strong support system.
That is such a great point and the core of my message was to hopefully anyone to start where they are with what they have, rather than remaining stuck as a victim to what they don't. Equity and access to support systems vary so much, but we all have agency to do what we can!
Clever and direct talk... Well done Leslie
Thank you so much 🎉
The point about leading with intention is spot on. I think we get so stuck on "what" we're doing that we limit our ability to bring our values, personalities and just... _who_ we are into the equation.
Thank you! I agree!
Thanks for the reminder that we can start before being ready! This talk is definitely going down as one of my all-time favorites.
You’re most welcome and hearing this made my day! Please share it with those that need to hear the message ❤
It's pretty awesome, so full of memorable take aways!
I couldn't help but nod along when she described the lands of Could and Should. Story of my life!
I feel like I've been on the someday isle my whole life... seriously my ability to slip in and out of complete disassociation is unrivalled.
This is more common than we think and it’s nice to vacation there…sometimes… 🏝️
me too, always not here.
Good share, thanks for sending to me Jackie!!!
Love this, and yes I agree I do the same thing
She delivers a powerful talk - good share girl.
her energy is contagious, even through a screen. I feel like I could listen to her talk all day and never get bored.
Thank you so much!!
@@LeslieMBosserman very welcome!~!
Makers place sounds fantastic. Not just because of the childcare aspect but just to have a shared working space, seems like it would make for some great connections amongst the community.
Yes it is indeed! We love the community we’ve created at @MakersPlaceSac
This makes me want to work on being the kind of person I actually see myself as and want to be instead of just focusing on achievements.
I LOVE hearing this and hope that it continues to inspire you!
Stop wishing and start acting! This is exactly the kind of encouragement I've been needing. Thanks!
Wonderful to hear and you're welcome!
Yes it's very motivating!
Love this! It's never too late to start something that matters. Small steps today, big changes tomorrow!
Yes! One step at a time!
that part about not being afraid of not knowing the outcome and just starting is some really great encouragement. I wonder why we're all so afraid of just taking that first step
Sometimes the first step is the scariest step…
It's interesting how different people have different ways of approaching things and maybe just changing up that approach can make all the difference in terms of success!
Small changes can lead to huge results! Especially when we customize them based on who we're serving!
Wow, the 'Someday Isle'! That's definitely where I live.. Always dreaming of better, but not acting now. This talk is a wake-up call. Time to ditch the island and start doing what I can today
I’m so glad you found my talk to be inspirational and I’m excited to hear what you do next!
Leslie just flipped a switch in my brain! No more excuses about not having enough.
Same, we can make do with what we have!
Fantastic to hear! Keep taking the next step…and then the next…
Totally relate to that tension between dreaming about the future versus the present obligations. balance is key!
"The only limit is the one you set for yourself." 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yeah this quote slaps
I really enjoyed the metaphor of the two kingdoms and the Someday Isle... it's such a great way to illustrate how we often can get stuck between two extremes
Thank you! It’s one of my favorite things I’ve ever written!
@@LeslieMBosserman and now mine too
@@cappikarlsonawesome to hear! I’m currently writing a book to incorporate more stories like this with concepts about how to enhance your Emotional Endurance 🎉
I agree not doing something at all for fear of it not being perfect is way worse than never actually doing it!
Just start where you are and keeping going!
I've heard the "start before you're ready" advice before, but something about how she said it really made it click!
So glad to hear this 🎉🎉🎉
The part about emotional endurance really hit home for me. I agree it's crucial to develop resilience in the face of life's challenges, because they just keep on coming lol
I love sharing more on Emotional Endurance and am currently writing a book on how to develop and enhance it even more!
@@LeslieMBosserman wow cool, do you have a website?
Leslie crushed it! Her points about getting off the "wishing well" and starting to do was so inspiring.
Thank you!! 🎉
the message about having courage to step out without knowing the outcome is powerful. easier said than done, but it's a good reminder that growth often happens outside our comfort zone.
Absolutely easier said than done...and once it's done (or started), it feels pretty great to share!
"Build with what you have" - such a simple yet profound advice. Powerful even.
Thank you! I'm glad this resonated with you!
Absolutely, this made so much sense to me!
Taking action now rather than waiting for "someday" really puts into perspective.
Yes indeed! I’m so glad this topic resonates with you as well!
Yeah also it makes me think by doing that you're making everyday "someday"
I'm also a working parent, and I really connected with her story. It's not easy juggling it all, but it's so worth it to show our kids what's possible.
Absolutely! We are the role models ❤
the story about creating The Maker's Place out of a personal need is so relatable and I think it shows how we can turn our struggles into successes. Sometimes the best solutions come from our own challenges.
Thanks so much and creating a business from a real community need had been one of the greatest gifts and learning opportunities!!
Building with what you have, enhancing emotional endurance, and leading with intention. These tools are game-changers.
Thank you and I’m glad my talk resonated with you!!
is that from the talk or just your message? lol
her point about putting conditions on our present happiness is spot on and in my experience even if we do achieve that condition (mine was losing weight) we're still not the perfect happy versions of ourselves we thought we'd be
Self-acceptance AND motivation for growth are so important to look at together!
"You can have it all, just not all at once" - I needed to hear that. It's a great reminder to be patient with myself.
It’s one of my favorite reminders and I’m glad it resonated with you, too!
That is actually really great advice
Leading with intention is a mindset shift we all need 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Yes indeed! So glad this resonated with you, too!
"You can have it all, just not all at once." Daaaamn okay this really struck me as something profound and yes, it is 100% correct because some of the things even cancel each other out!
Yes!!! I'm glad this resonated with you, too!
I felt super inspired by how she took action to create that coworking space solution she needed, instead of just talking about it. Stepping out on faith like that is goals!
Absolutely!! When you choose faith over fear, amazing things can happen ❤
She's so right! We all have those dreams on hold. But maybe starting small, with what we have now, is the key.
I believe that’s what we’re all capable of, even if we feel stuck. Doing what we can with what we have moves us forward!
I think so too!
She makes a lot of good points but I don't know what the "small" version of my dream looks like
yup, baby steps..
@@oakleysienna maybe you just need to figure out how the big version starts out?
Anyone who procrastinates NEEDS this! Sharing with my friends for sure
Thanks so much!! I’m glad it resonated with you 🎉
The idea of leading with intention and creating a 'to be' list instead of a 'to do' list is just wonderful. I agree it's more important to focus on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing.
I think so too! Otherwise we're just the same people doing things but never evolving
I'm inspired to look for small ways to build with what I have. Baby steps still move us forward.
Yes1 Each step moves us forward!
@@LeslieMBosserman true...
I know I'm gonna face challenges and setbacks on the road to my dreams, but the idea of building emotional endurance gives me hope that I can work up to doing those hard things.
This is wonderful to hear and EXACTLY why I’m writing a book about this!!
That part about trading efficiency for sufficiency? It hit me hard. I'm always so focused on being productive instead of living intentionally, I've never really made the distinction before
I’m so glad this resonated with you. It’s one of the core things that I teach and aim to practice in my daily life!
Such a good perspective fix! Definitely going to start building with what I have instead of waiting for the "perfect" moment
Thank you! And I love the phrase “perspective fix!!”
The questions she poses are powerful. We have to really want to answer them honestly to get the maximum out of them.
This is a great talk in terms of motivating people to get going with their goals... obviously there are some harsher realities in terms of the actual achieving them but for those who have that thing where starting is half the battle, this is really valuable encouragement.
Thank you so much ❤
I think this is also such a great example of what can happen when you just voice your needs, no matter how outlandish they sound because once someone else hears them it's like OH ACTUALLY that's achieveable!
Yes🎉🎉🎉
Her journey of going from an ambitious 20-something to building multiple businesses and raising 3 kids is just... amazing and it's really assuring to hear her advice knowing that she was able to do all of it that way
Lots of faith, focus, and fortitude ❤
Yup, you just gotta go for it! Trust in yourself and know that making a start and taking baby steps is better than putting it off forever
So true!
trading efficiency for sufficiency... that's a mindset shift I need to work on. Always felt like I had to do everything perfectly, but maybe it's more important to just get things done.
“Done is better than perfect” and it’s also important to define what “success” looks and feels like as you’re working toward a goal 🎉
Emotional endurance is a phrase I’ve never heard before and it makes SO MUCH SENSE!!! So many people give up and it’s strategy and fortitude that makes it happen!
Thank you, Katie!
Yeah that's going straight into everyday use
I like what she said around the 7:16 mark, never heard the time before but what she said about it definitely rings true
Emotional Endurance is such a key quality to learning how to lead with intention!
That co-working space with childcare idea is brilliant! Wish we had something like that in my city
Thank you! It's definitely needed in more areas...I just can't clone myself!
it's reassuring to know that even the most put-together people have moments of wanting to trade in their responsibilities. We all need a break sometimes.
Yes!! And making time for those breaks is essential!!
Shout out to my folks for making my mental endurance strong enough to run back-to-back metaphorical marathons 🤘🏼
Yes 🎉🎉🎉
LMAO
Lovely and inspiring talk. I enjoyed listening to Leslie speak.
Thanks so much!! 🎉
Thank you so much!!
This is wonderful advice! I think we also tend to procrastinate because we just don't know what our lives will start to look like once we start doing whatever the thing is
We’ll never know until we start…
Interesting take on inside-out leadership. Makes sense that who we are shapes what we do.
Isn't that term great? I'm glad it resonates with you, too!
@@LeslieMBosserman agree 100%
This is something I struggle with a lot, just taking action despite being scared so the idea of just leaning into that uncertainty is kind of really empowering! Not sure how I'll go putting it into practice lol but in theory it's great!
Thanks and just start where you are and take one step forward...
Love the juxtaposition of the shoulds vs. could and starting with the information and skills you have right now.
Loved the story about the two kingdoms! Such a creative way to illustrate the point.
Thank you! I wrote it years ago and thought it was a perfect intro for these three points! 🎉
I could really relate to her struggle with having too many ideas and not enough time to pursue them all. Definitely need to work on pacing my passion better.
Yes!! Me too! ❤