yes!! i remember how i had a friend who i just thought was so stunningly beautiful and later i looked back and realized that on a physical level she wasn't as beautiful as i remembered. but she was poised, elegant, interesting, and charismatic. she carried herself so gracefully and her voice was sooo beautiful and sultry. she was definitely the most ethereal person i'd met in real life and i saw her as more physically beautiful because of it. i was fascinated by her and so were several of our mutual friends. we parted on bad terms and haven't spoken in years but i still think about her often and idealize her against my better judgement. a great lesson in the power of charisma.
Honestly, the most likable people I know aren't necessarily the most beautiful. Being the best version of yourself will bring the right people in your life.
This title is already so comforting. I’m confirmed hideous 1/10, I have no pretty privilege, and I have extreme self loathing etc. I compare myself to everyone I meet. I would love to be able to be captivating or just as interesting without being pretty. i’ve reaped the affects of being an ugly woman for too long.
I love this and you’re definitely spot on about charisma. I’ve met really beautiful women who barely got pretty privilege because they had zero charisma and were generally avoided by people. I’ve met people including women who weren’t conventionally good looking but they were super charismatic and people loved them
Gosh I love your perspective. I’ve always wanted to be a powerful and charismatic person and I used to think beauty would get this for me but that’s not what I want. I want to be unforgettable
Your soo right! I've seen women like this who aren't as physically attractive but have all of those characteristics you mention and men just gravitate towards them. They have that power. I've even witnessed some attractive women who are like this and it made them 10x more beautiful. Love your content btw. New subscriber!
OMG! Sorry, I'm obsessed with your channel and I saw your Instagram. My jaw dropped. Your work is amazing and I love it. In my opinion: I saw a beautiful manifestion of a daredevil, drunken, somber...but-not-quite. Man made, unatural beauty. Numbed to the world, but still able to be charmed by the lights of lavishness and 'sex' glamour. Idk, but it's honestly gorgeous 💕
beauty is subjective anyway...across time periods, cultures, even amongst individuals. there are some evolutionary things like symmetry, signs of health, waist to hip ratio in women, but other than that, there is no leg to stand on for the "beauty is objective" crowd. i've heard men say they like thin lips or small eyes (things that are considered "ugly" in mainstream media) and women that like short/husky/pale/etc men. even youth isn't a beauty standard since plenty of older men and women are thirsted over. the red pill crowd values youth in women since they're bordering on pedophilia anyway and a lot of media sexualizes little girls/the idea of being a little girl so people run with that. signs of youth/fertility are also desired by the red pill crowd since they view women as uteruses on legs anyway. sooooo much of what is considered beautiful is rooted in white colonialism/the patriarchy. take it with a grain of salt. a woman maturing/coming into her own/looking distinguished and refined is considered "hitting the wall" when it's BS since i'm the hottest i've ever looked at 31. even the whole "symmetry/signs of health/whr" is subjective since lana del rey and shannon doherty have asymmetrical faces and are considered beautiful. also, some people like the unhealthy look and attempt to recreate it with makeup (pale skin, dark circles, corpsey lips/tim burton aesthetic) and i've heard a woman say she wanted a rectangular body with no curves at all, which i personally found strange, but to each their own). and a lot of fashion models are rectangles or have a VERY subtle hourglass figure. even if you or i have pretty privilege where we are now. we could go to another country and be considered ugly. the only thing that i would consider "objectively unattractive" are deformities/disfigurements. except, of course, for people who have teratophilia.
I don't think anything upsets me more than belittling or discarding women after they've reached a certain age. No man of worth I have ever met has had any negative remarks to make about older women. In fact they value their experience and confidence. Men that do have a problem with women getting older are honestly to be discarded themselves. What a joke. Women who are older and wiser, more self-assured, and unique because they know themselves and the world better. Older women are the shit, I envy their stability and experience.
Beauty is all perception. Nobody is ugly. Beauty is a made up concept from algorithms and man made. Nobody is ugly. Actually people’s personalities that’s what makes a person ugly
I agreeee to this 100%. Im attractive but I lacked confidence for many years. Confidence and the ability to hold someone’s attention knock attractiveness out of the park. I’m much more magnetic since I have presence and confidence. I choose words wisely. I let others speak more. I use the power of suggestion. I have opinions but don’t share them forcefully.
THANK YOU for this. I was bummed recently that it seems like women are expected to be hot our entire lives and men just have to be smart/funny. Charisma really is better than beauty
As someone who is working towards the second degree in medicine, I find the ,,son/daughter of a professor'' privilege much more powerful 😂 nobody will ever give you a nice job solely because of your looks.
I was actually at the other end of this. I liked someone who is so beautiful and I made him a model for my designs. But he said he's not bisexual, so I backed off. But I also fell for him limerently, so that was another topic for another UA-camr 😂
Theres nothing wrong with trying to be attractive, or trying to enhance your features to be more beautiful. The problem is beauty being the main attraction. It's cheap and replaceable. I always try to advocate (especially for attractive people) to work even harder, because it's so easy to become dependent on looks. Beauty and intelligence should be like bread and butter.
I dont like the phrase Either, this is why people tries to get surgery etc etc like this is where world is going , i suffer a lot everyday. I ve always been pretty but mostly in my teen years but i couldnt use the pretty privilige, i just kinda hate the phrase
There are other men like that out there who still miss out because their bland, offensive, or clingy personality repels women no matter the size of their dingdong. He had something else going on.
as someone who's so sick of years of trying to cater to the concept of being attractive, I literally sat down, squinted and said ''Im interested''
hahaha hope you enjoyed the video love
Cleopatra is a perfect example of an "ugly" woman who was so captivating during her life that she's now remembered as beautiful.
I’ve talked about her before! She’s an absolute inspiration.
She was NEVER an ugly. She wasn't the most gorgeous,but she is quite good looking. You can't allure people looking ugly
@@vimanaarchitects2151 she was said to be average looking
@@vimanaarchitects2151cleopatra’s parents were siblings. It makes sense if people said she was physically unattractive
@@sakura-hw1zi yet she could pull any guy in the room, whilst you can't ;)
yes!! i remember how i had a friend who i just thought was so stunningly beautiful and later i looked back and realized that on a physical level she wasn't as beautiful as i remembered. but she was poised, elegant, interesting, and charismatic. she carried herself so gracefully and her voice was sooo beautiful and sultry. she was definitely the most ethereal person i'd met in real life and i saw her as more physically beautiful because of it. i was fascinated by her and so were several of our mutual friends. we parted on bad terms and haven't spoken in years but i still think about her often and idealize her against my better judgement. a great lesson in the power of charisma.
People SERIOUSLY undervalue the power of a good voice and masterful articulation.
Honestly, the most likable people I know aren't necessarily the most beautiful. Being the best version of yourself will bring the right people in your life.
This title is already so comforting. I’m confirmed hideous 1/10, I have no pretty privilege, and I have extreme self loathing etc. I compare myself to everyone I meet. I would love to be able to be captivating or just as interesting without being pretty. i’ve reaped the affects of being an ugly woman for too long.
the whole point is actually to take emphasis away from how you look, which is so interesting
I love this and you’re definitely spot on about charisma. I’ve met really beautiful women who barely got pretty privilege because they had zero charisma and were generally avoided by people. I’ve met people including women who weren’t conventionally good looking but they were super charismatic and people loved them
Gosh I love your perspective. I’ve always wanted to be a powerful and charismatic person and I used to think beauty would get this for me but that’s not what I want. I want to be unforgettable
That’s the goal babe!!
Your soo right! I've seen women like this who aren't as physically attractive but have all of those characteristics you mention and men just gravitate towards them. They have that power. I've even witnessed some attractive women who are like this and it made them 10x more beautiful. Love your content btw. New subscriber!
Hello welcome!! ❤️
Your content absolutely stand out i am sick of shallow pretty privileged content out there looking forward to see more videos from this topic
OMG! Sorry, I'm obsessed with your channel and I saw your Instagram.
My jaw dropped. Your work is amazing and I love it. In my opinion: I saw a beautiful manifestion of a daredevil, drunken, somber...but-not-quite. Man made, unatural beauty. Numbed to the world, but still able to be charmed by the lights of lavishness and 'sex' glamour. Idk, but it's honestly gorgeous 💕
You’re so sweet thank you
@@HeavenSentHoney 💖💖
beauty is subjective anyway...across time periods, cultures, even amongst individuals. there are some evolutionary things like symmetry, signs of health, waist to hip ratio in women, but other than that, there is no leg to stand on for the "beauty is objective" crowd. i've heard men say they like thin lips or small eyes (things that are considered "ugly" in mainstream media) and women that like short/husky/pale/etc men. even youth isn't a beauty standard since plenty of older men and women are thirsted over. the red pill crowd values youth in women since they're bordering on pedophilia anyway and a lot of media sexualizes little girls/the idea of being a little girl so people run with that. signs of youth/fertility are also desired by the red pill crowd since they view women as uteruses on legs anyway. sooooo much of what is considered beautiful is rooted in white colonialism/the patriarchy. take it with a grain of salt. a woman maturing/coming into her own/looking distinguished and refined is considered "hitting the wall" when it's BS since i'm the hottest i've ever looked at 31. even the whole "symmetry/signs of health/whr" is subjective since lana del rey and shannon doherty have asymmetrical faces and are considered beautiful. also, some people like the unhealthy look and attempt to recreate it with makeup (pale skin, dark circles, corpsey lips/tim burton aesthetic) and i've heard a woman say she wanted a rectangular body with no curves at all, which i personally found strange, but to each their own). and a lot of fashion models are rectangles or have a VERY subtle hourglass figure. even if you or i have pretty privilege where we are now. we could go to another country and be considered ugly. the only thing that i would consider "objectively unattractive" are deformities/disfigurements. except, of course, for people who have teratophilia.
I don't think anything upsets me more than belittling or discarding women after they've reached a certain age. No man of worth I have ever met has had any negative remarks to make about older women. In fact they value their experience and confidence. Men that do have a problem with women getting older are honestly to be discarded themselves. What a joke. Women who are older and wiser, more self-assured, and unique because they know themselves and the world better. Older women are the shit, I envy their stability and experience.
we’ve had such similar experiences. i love hearing your perspective
thank you!
You look so good with this haircolour
Beauty is all perception. Nobody is ugly. Beauty is a made up concept from algorithms and man made. Nobody is ugly. Actually people’s personalities that’s what makes a person ugly
That is so comforting and motivating at the same time 💖 true words of wisdom.
glad you enjoyed it babe
I agreeee to this 100%. Im attractive but I lacked confidence for many years. Confidence and the ability to hold someone’s attention knock attractiveness out of the park. I’m much more magnetic since I have presence and confidence. I choose words wisely. I let others speak more. I use the power of suggestion. I have opinions but don’t share them forcefully.
"not the more forgiving ones" 😂😂
THANK YOU for this. I was bummed recently that it seems like women are expected to be hot our entire lives and men just have to be smart/funny. Charisma really is better than beauty
As someone who is working towards the second degree in medicine, I find the ,,son/daughter of a professor'' privilege much more powerful 😂 nobody will ever give you a nice job solely because of your looks.
This was such a breath of fresh air.
Can’t believe I almost missed out on this gem!
Just found you, im obsessed!!!💗
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This topic thrust the Emilie Autumn song “Thank God I’m Pretty” into my mind.
You are so beautiful,its so amazing
I was actually at the other end of this. I liked someone who is so beautiful and I made him a model for my designs. But he said he's not bisexual, so I backed off. But I also fell for him limerently, so that was another topic for another UA-camr 😂
Rich content.You are worthy,your friend,Charisma.
fluid and interesting >
Thank You!
You're welcome babe.
you look like joanna newsom here lowkey
define pre vigil
I thought you were Bella Hadid in the thumbnail.
It's that aesthetic harmony baby! Glad my intentions had results!
Fabulous fucking video
what lip combo bestie?
top secret
@@HeavenSentHoney awww :( lol
I hope I too get the experience of both. So I can say goodbye to my ugly duckling days. 😂😂
Edit: But again it is very superficial...so uh..maybe not.
Theres nothing wrong with trying to be attractive, or trying to enhance your features to be more beautiful. The problem is beauty being the main attraction. It's cheap and replaceable. I always try to advocate (especially for attractive people) to work even harder, because it's so easy to become dependent on looks. Beauty and intelligence should be like bread and butter.
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You posted this 3 yrs ago? Omg way too ahead of your time
I dont like the phrase Either, this is why people tries to get surgery etc etc like this is where world is going , i suffer a lot everyday. I ve always been pretty but mostly in my teen years but i couldnt use the pretty privilige, i just kinda hate the phrase
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appetit served ; baddest bitch living aphrodisiac of course heaven sent motherfucking hunay
...i cannot.. weighthgiew too prof•ile
You are my god like figure , dare I say goddess ❤
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Hi hello 💕💕💕
Hi :)
Can you talk about charisma in more depth
Rasputin had big schmeat, bad example.
There are other men like that out there who still miss out because their bland, offensive, or clingy personality repels women no matter the size of their dingdong. He had something else going on.
You know academia is beautiful too. Read a book someday - a good one - not one on some stupid erotica writer.
What would you recommend
You saved my life
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