Modern MEN must STOP competing with FEMALE Beauty when DATING! (this LOWERS your Masculinity)
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Woke or far left activists in the pickup community have convinced ignorant guys that beauty matters more, when it was never a factor before.
You are the ONLY person teaching this. Simply Amazing
@casey if you are in front of me now, I would have kissed you. Man you are spot on again and again with women’s nature. Whatever I learned about girls all these years, you are exactly putting it on paper now through this channel. Man you are a gem! I am indian living in Tokyo. If you have chance to come to Tokyo, let’s catch up
Hey Mate. Serious question. Does your course (or one you can recommend) cover how to break up with a girl without them crying or getting overly emotional or getting hurt? Or even better have them break up with you? I’ve tried implementing the opposite of your strategy but unfortunately that just makes them think I want to get serious and makes the situation worse. Would pay for that advice if it worked. Legend. Cheers man.
Remember she doesn’t care much about being loved, she cares more about loving someone else who satisfies her hypergamy on multiple levels and provides.
100 % true
Which is why they don't know what they want you have to show and tell them. They stay with the "abusive" guy because of the same things
@@standardofexcellenceso what are the ways to attract a beautiful girl
Well, if she's going to be like that, then the choice is yours to accept it or leave and find someone better.
They’ll still leave thinking the man she loves is supposed to show the same type of love but she doesn’t know that’ll turn her off. They don’t know better
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
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every single man will be tested money will get you in the door but it won't get you your dream woman to love or respect you
U gotta have a mouthpiece. Without that you will struggle
No bull yo, I agree 💯
The "rich" guy in North Dakota is just an average guy in New York City or Dubai, and in today's global world, the real hotties have options way outside of where they grew up.
@@Deebojokeyyou just gotta get yo moufpiece crisp bruh 🤪
your dreamwoman will never love or respect you. woman love and respect men that don’t see them as his dreamwoman.
See, this is why I like CZ's material because he is teaching masculinity as the core principle while emphasizing attracting women as the byproduct... not as the primary objective. Well done brother.
As a ripped guy I always get questions and compliments from other straight guys! I’ve said this many times girls don’t care about your muscles, and this is coming from someone who lives to workout. Guys will give you props for it because they know the sacrifice. Women respond to money and social status ques, because they are seeking financial security and a guy they can push around, they get uncomfortable if you’re better looking than them. That said being fit is an awesome feeling and I would highly recommend it, just know that women don’t respect it or care about it. Work on you fellas
Thats not true women dont care about money more than men, women care about having a powerful mindset man that secures their scattered anxious brains.
And when i say powerful i mean who is not afraid to be fun, outgoing, teaches her when she is doing something wrong, and guiding her fearlessly.
And it happens to be that this personality is usually succesful financially.
But even if he wasnt she would take care of him financially if she had money just to keep him.
Facts
Being fit makes you more of a protector, so its attractive. Youre just wrong on this one
Having a nice house or car beats out muscle. But charm beats out everything. It’s astonishing by how much.
I disagree. I think there's other unattractive behaviors you are committing if you are in shape and women are not responding. In my experience, I've had women I didn't even know try and rip my shirt off me out in public. Be attractive, and don't be unattractive. Being in shape makes them act different. The dad bod is a complete myth.
If money attracts her, she don't like you.
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Having muscles and driving a nice car ONLY got me compliments from OTHER men😂 women don’t care as much about that stuff it’s just icing on top
they should though brev...shieee...women that say "idc about money"...thats what broke meady tings say in my opinion lol
@@k4rz4hn1 true never been though lol, im sure gyals in other countries have a different mindset and all that...not south america though, they love the dinero haha...but on the real..im not saying if we do have nice tings, we use that to gloat, and sell ourself..but we should stand our ground and call these meady tings out, respectfully, but thats just my opinion. It would also show like if these tings are about the grind and wanna build with us vs. us just providing for everything
@@k4rz4hn1 got very little hope around that lol, but facs though brev..we the prize! but its a damn shame how these meady tings be moving nowadays
Facts, I’m definitely the dad bod at the gym yet some women don’t look at the well build guys.. it goes to show, women don’t ever want to be lesser than the man, she wants to be the beautiful one.
Casey Zander's dating advice delivers results, but its emphasis on projecting a masculine persona you don't authentically embody isn't sustainable. Authenticity is key in relationships-you can't hide who you truly are. Genuine masculinity requires consistent effort and self-improvement. Following Zander's advice without this foundation is like relying on steroids: you might see short-term gains, but at a cost
Underrated comment
Facts
"You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women" - Scarface, 1983
some things never change
@@jleffel6969money just amplíes your personality
you get specific type women, shallow, desperate, used up, trashy, classless etc
Stop trying, start being
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U start being by triyng
This guy is so wise with this stuff. Thoughts that I begin to have and then fail to describe even to myself, he’s able to elaborate and articulate it so clearly. Thanks man this is gold.
You hit it on the head about the physique
I notice shirtless photos or when I walk around shirtless, crickets
But when I wear a shirt that’s nice but you can tell I have muscles underneath, like a nice fitted shirt, not a shmedium
They shoot their shot at me or at least give the choosing signals
It's about context. Being shirtless outside the gas station is sperg behavior. Being shirtless on your boat or on the beach is normal. They care about physique. They just want to naturally discover it.
This is totally wrong I have a good physique and I get crazy matches on dating apps cuz of body and the women on purpose pretend they don’t like those pics by liking other pics they r low key like that
@@nickelbothello6210yes women are jealous
@@nickelbothello6210most women that care about physique are just horny and will get with anyone really they all weird
@@jwill9877tf bro i just learn weirder nonsense things about women every time i visit this channel
He's right. You should stop that because eventually you'll get the great epiphany:
LET ME FOCUS ON MY MONEY AND HEALTH AND INCREASE YOUR LIFE AND LIFESTYLE AS YOU GET BETTER. QUIT WORRYING ABOUT WOMEN. GET. LE. BAG. 🗣️🗣️🗣️
You got money, you can get a hooker anyways.
I should retire.
Casey is a life saver saving us from simping
Loved this one man, it goes to show no one owes us anything no matter what and I have seen this happen over and over again.
Even the rich guy gets cheated on by chad, tyrone, or the pool boy.
Well done Casey. This is probably your best effort so far.
Casey not wearing his signature tank top for this message.
Hypocrisy! 😂
Thank you for helping us Uncle C. ❤🎉
Very informative content, Thank you!
Your writing is so smooth 😂
Casey helps me coming back to reality of relationships❤❤
before you know it you'll be clapping cheeks, the right ones.
I needed this video
Left side of of the board is some mistakes I made that is great information bro.
Truth. I would chec myself in the mirror to see if my 6 pack was becoming more visible, my ex would be on the bed and sigh roll her eyes. She did not like knowing the process or progress.
Solve this issue by not letting them move in.
Yes, don’t let a woman move in with you. Just don’t do it.
@@paulsowards8345why
The days of getting married or even living together are over.
@@danmurray1143 why you say that
@@bekabeka71 Zero benefit to a man to expose half his wealth to a woman who will likely file for divorce. Since women NEVER marry a man with less wealth, the man is the one taking all the financial risk. Just date till you die. Women are a terrible investment.
So why is it at the gym when I’m checking myself out and admiring my facial symmetry/beauty and muscle pumps, why does it drive the women crazy specially the “hot” girls at the gym they start walking past me and working out in my area to get my attention? I completely ignore them and admire myself more than them, they love it 😍
You are completely delusional
Crazy how this information that Casey is showcasing and explaining to y’all he posted a video like this 9 months ago with these same points. It’s all connected. He is great at this guys. He is the truth. Great content man. Eye opening information daily. The definition of consistency.
You mean a repeat.
@@anonymissed3611 nah bro, it’s was a different topic on the video 9 months ago but some of the information on the board right now is connected to it. The moral of the story is that all of these things that Casey in teaching us is all connected and rooted in helping us to become better. If you miss out on certain concepts you never knew in the past it will be back in your eyes in a different conext it just takes a matter of interpretation on your end so that you can learn and apply to your life.
The problem with modern society is that women do care about a man’s future however most women’s past are crap.
Class of excellence
I say a forgotten tip wrt dating is to never ever show negative emotions like anger, depression, hatred, etc.. Women are empaths by nature, so if you feel negative, she will feel negative as well, which in turns means she will want to get away from you.
First guy to talk about the masculine/feminine dynamic and nuances at this level
the rational male
@@nictibbetts he talks about evolutionary stuff that is supposed to be common sense, the only thing that's missing in this man-space is spirituality focus
@@LARESCIV look up david deida
This is some good advice!
Patience is a virtue
I have faith that Casey will hit 1mil
Why would you care?
I love Casey but the icecream abundace..😂 i get the point tho but not gonna get 5 ice creams if i just need 2
So superficial...bro... LIFE is above this shit
Not going to share your deep insight about LIFE then? 🙂
waiting
Goatis reacted to your white boards and called u a sub5, can u make a reaction to that?
Here Brazil , thanks!
Thank you! ✊🏽
Yip you need to know how to make the first contact. Is she tired, happy, drunk etc. The best way is if she has noticed you when you smile at her, in a club or bar. Always end a conversation with "talk later" they then get put in their place and have to wait.
Genius casey
11:30 yes, this way is much better, it doesnt feel like a hard sell... well done.
Great video as always. Just wondering if you could talk about how to encourage/get gf to wear certain things you want her to dress in? Thanks
8:39 LOLOLOL... love it! I totally destroyed your previous video with your "clown suit" showing what STATUS would do vs you in that scenario. Don't know if you saw it, doesn't matter, as long as you not teaching that clown suit madness and teach status, that is what keeps hypergamy satisfied. Status also impacts your SMV, but if over time she is not seeing it, she will start to doubt your status because your SMV is low.
It all boils down to not caring about anything in this realm
So basically this video is shitting on bodybuilders.
He lives that life thou so unlikely
depends on which ones, the ones kissing/checking their muscles in the mirror look feminine.
@@soundscaperecordings1111 Never seen him in thongs and muscle tan on stage trying to charm other men
One of the best vídeos 2024
Casey I get what you’re saying bro with the appearance thing but you can’t tell me you don’t focus on that. You’re tan as hell, jacked, always in new clothes. If you wanna be that next level you have to have not only your mental game dialed but physical appearance must be locked tf in too. Basic nature women look for the strongest most desirable, healthy looking male
Early !
This sh*t makes me not want to date, you gotta have a degree in woman math in order to date.
@@lokidarkbeard2647 Facts unless you're a Chad Tyrone or Chadrone. Better to chase the bag and focus on yourself, and if Possible grab your Passport and go overseas or go MGTOW.
if you just go into it with the mindset its ok if i loose her, i dont expect anything. Then it becomes easy
Who cares about losing her if you have to live by all thase rules. Alot of people are doing each other wrong thase days . . When a girl likes you . Really none of this crap matters .
I was just thinking that same thing
No you dont have to, its not compilcated, you are just afraid of women and thats normal in this day and age, but its not really normal.
Just be outgoing and fearless and once you do that a couple of times you will realize that the power is in your hands, they WILL respond to that and once you see that you will get what im saying.
You will not have to work on anything other than being completely YOU.
You will not worry abt your body, money, if you are this or that.
You will just be more of you.
And its magical.
Remember this:
YOU DONT NEED THEIR LOVE,
You just need to realize that all the power to effect them or anyone else even other men, is in YOUR HANDS.
Most men focus on being attractive to girls, but in reality you got to dominate and realize your social power and dominance with other men.
And from there women will fall in your lap without even trying.
Dont be afraid to attack other men with fun, things to do, stories, etc..
Remember you are compeing with MEN, so go out and BE, and have fun with MEN.
If you focus on girls you will live a blind incomplete challenging life.
Ring true to me from my experience.
I have great back-end game, and my friend has great front-end game.
We’re worse at the inverse.
What would cause this?
Thank you 🙏🙂
Thank you.
Makes me sad understanding all the ways i fucked up😂😂
A woman is more attracted to the energy you exude and project as a man individually than anything else...... She will love you and not necessarily know why.
IDGAF
Im 6.4“ im going to care as much as I want about my appearance lol
This is right on.. first time watching.
Casey really likes contacting himself.In previous videos he says that if status was really all that,then Brad Pitt,Michael B.J. or Johnny depp wouldn't
hv been left.Since those things do nothing to make a woman feel emotions.
Didn’t I say physique is a better DHV than a car. -Rollo
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Good stuff. Need a video of how hypergamy and these attitudes change in different women and ages and how to understand it. Men have a base nature also but we can still control it. Obviously, not all women are equal on the bitch/loving scale either.
"Just act like you don't care", but make sure you have 5 different flavors of ice cream. Gimme a break. Casey has excess nervous energy and overthinking things, giving out simping advice. Get one flavor of ice cream at your home, YOUR favorite flavor, and that's it. If she doesn't like it too bad. Guys, just find richness in your own lives so that vvomen always come 3rd for 4th in your life. Make your life matter much more than them. That's all.
The solution isn't to stop caring and let them destroy the world. The solution is to make the women who enforce not caring have a 3rd world quality of life ASAP. Yes, the simps have been doing the opposite, but we can also never hire or work with simps. We can do a lot to make simp behavior difficult for close friends and family. That's it; this fall is gonna happen regardless, but there's no reason to work with the devil to get pleasure & status.
@10m The idea that we need to cater to how they perceive who is better for the future is totally inverted. They have no clue and no ability to see cause and effect. These are just bandaids that weaken men so they can cope for 1 or 2 more years in relationships with western women. Either find one who submits or do not, but all of these tricks are really you submitting A LOT of attention (and other things) to them. Inverted.
I want a video on woman psychology and its level should be like boom like george tell us in his videos before.
Is there any book written by you on these topics what you say is 100% true I have seen it
This book should be essential reading for all men. This brings results. 8 bucks.
The art to Attracting women by james Francis
Bro, Goatis released a video about you today, reviewing one of your videos.
You seen it? thoughts?
Just stay single guys and be happy
Can u make a video about the male and female gaze
Haha a guy showing expensive cars, houses and boats on dating apps. That would not work in Northern Europe, that is for sure. Women would think "what a cheesy guy, trying to show off how much money he has."
Noone wants Northern European women anyway. They are more masculine than Casey himself.
Austin Dunham and fitxfearless
Casey, what about posting physiques while you do something ( play a sport, etc.)? Women subconsciously look for the best and strongest mate, that’s 101 nature. Additionally, what if you’re trying to influence others not just impress girls
Where’d you get the shirt too bro that s#it 🔥
Women cringe over having nice photos that make them wet? And being clean? Yeah, nooo. Rollo are playing a joke on me? And wasting my time?
Yesterday I got request on Instagram form my clg girl should I msg her
You cant generalise langueage of women but there is some truth in it.
Guys, she pulled away after disrespecting me. I ghosted her. Two weeks after she sends a reel on IG which I completely ignored. She ghosted then. It's been 2 weeks. She is expecting me to pursue her, and I am expecting her to reach out to meet & set a boundary about disrespect. We FWB tho. What your thoughts are?
Stay strong.
Great video a life hack
That not competing for beauty is interesting to me. I have style, I walk like I think I'm the shit. And I'll often times allow my hair to be completely fucked and not care. Don't care that the girls think I'm something. That display made lots of women almost obsessed with the image of me. Because to them that's confidence. They reflected a stronger version of themselves into me over that display.
Done none of that on purpose. More of a result of living my monkish type of life.
I'd love to interview you for my channel and blog Casey. Would you be interested?
Casey Zander going soft! Five different coffee creamers? Listen to yourself, Mr. Coffee pleezer! This is so far from your ideals of just a year or two ago. Aren't you the one who taught us to think along the lines of, "Coffee? Who do I look like to you, Mr. Coffee? Honey, why don't you go down to the Starbucks on the corner and get yourself a cup, and bring me back a double Espresso no sugar!
Man this cornball caveman doesn't work. Sorry but "real men" drink coffee with cream too lol. I promise women are far more satisfied if you you can share small things like coffee, adult drinks, or food choices with them. It's automatically something that the two of you relate on.
Tall men will already be known for being tall, they have automatic status and its immediate because you can literally just see it, crazy
And never put your looks down in front of the women. Even if you are butt ugly. Don't tell them about your physical insecurities. Don't tell them that you don't like your big nose. That will turn them off fast even if it's true. You will come across weak and unmanly, feminine. I have made that mistake. If you are ugly you still don't need to tell them you think that.
Quality over qaunity fellas. Find quality women to spend time with.
What if I have a dog?
Wait “posing for photos with emphasis on body” is cringe ? What if you’re a personal trainer & your body is your business for clients?!
Anyone have advice on how to be or how to deal with your pregnant girlfriend and still maintaining frame?
The original version of "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi helped me tremendously. The chapter on Communication is golden
@@pioneeratheart6496 thank you brotha
@@OFFICALCJBEAMZ there's also a chapter near the end "Iron Rules" where he talks about frame. Rule 1 - frame is everything
Being pregnant is very hard for woman, she can be fearfull, and child needs peace to develop properly, so just take care of you girlfriend and child, not "your frame" at this moment of life. You will need strong frame latrer when rising your child.
Omg you r so ghey....😂😂😂 "Guys can you please teach me how to act and what to say and what not to say so I'm an alpha to girls? Should I use chatgpt to teach me words to use?" Hahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He does it all the time flexing for the camera in these videos.
Nothing works, you can be loyal have money,looks they will always find something to complain about lol 😆 just do you and be happy within and have a peace of mind
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There is no Modern men, also the "competing" with men is because it's called the soft guy era Drizzle Drizzle.
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@@jaimepimentel1502yeah you pussy keep showing people what a pussy you have.
Money will get you women but I've seen a lot of dirt poor guys get the most beautiful women around - I'm talking about the bad boy types.
Not true. Some of this. I get a lot of attention from women from my shirtless pics
he is talking about high value women
Don’t tell her about how you shave your legs.
Every woman has a man but noy every man has a woman, sick simulation
Here Casey goes again suggesting we "lead with our wallets." That's good for one evening. Then what? Look at the expectation you're setting. Now, in the future, when you DON'T buy 5 flavors of whatever, then what?
You are not competing with her looks, but with the looks of other men. Women lie that the appearance of men is not so important to them if we are talking about real desire. Nothing can compete with it when a woman starts drooling because of the appearance of a man. In real life, she will test a man who is physically attractive to her, but she will always find an excuse for him why he fail the test. Let's not kid ourselves.
Yeah, women usually select men who they think can dominate then (typically the Chad types), but if Chad stutters, can’t hold eye contact, over compliments her, feminine body language, she’s going to take a mental note of all of that and will lose attraction. Worse case she’ll find another Chad, which women stupidly think they’re an abundance of
Here is Casey wasting hes hard earned money on 304s 😂😂😂😂