OCD and Hyper-Inflated Responsibility
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- Not only do OCD sufferers struggle with overestimating the threats their thoughts bring, they often have a massive internal sense of responsibility to do something about these thoughts. They feel deeply responsible for these troubling thoughts and emotions that come their way. Not only do they attach a heavy meaning, they feel deeply responsible to do something about them. This fuels the OCD battle.
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Wow! How does this not have like 500k plus views !!! 20 years of psychology care and therapy and THIS helped more than ALL that. THANK YOU MARK!!!!!
What kind of therapy did you have? If you have OCD, exposure and response prevention therapy works best.
I hear ya, these videos are what have been helping me. God's grace through Mark's ministry 🙏
Yeah,blowing my mind,too!(in a great way!This is amazing!)🙌👊
Agreed!!!
It's way better. Psychology doesn't get it
Wow, and what a relief to find out the fear of losing my salvation is an OCD trait. And thank you for offering us solutions.
Man, it's a scary theme of OCD, isn't it? I knew it well at one point, but I needed to find my way back here to remind myself.
@@houstoncambodia1 I’m struggling with the salvation OCD as of almost 8 mo. ago. It’s the worst thing I’ve ever been through in my life.
@@dinasophia9440 Mark Dejesus is a great help.
Me tooo!!!!
Pausing to cry every couple minutes
Opening my eyes to how my thoughts are my worst enemy.
I need a new way of thinking
You explain it perfectly
Thank you !
It's an honor.
Thank you so much for this 💜 This is God's confirmation for me, He led me to this channel. May our Abba bless you so much. I am a single mom of 3 in Jakarta, Indonesia 😇
Thanks for the long form information. Details on what this is like as a Christian is not easy to find. The more information the better.
My highest prayer for today is a better relationship with my father!
I grew up going to church but it was to keep up appearances for my parents. Why we went there was never explained or explored. No relationship with Jesus was ever established. It’s been so hard to establish my relationship with Jesus and god as an adult. Thank you Mark for doing these OCD videos. You have no idea how much everything you present is what I deal with today. Years of therapy have never been able to explain this much.
It’s so hard when I don’t know how to feel love without performance. Then my intrusive thoughts come that hot to my core. It’s debilitating
I’ve listened to some of your podcasts now and my mind is blown. I didn’t know I was OCDE but wow, you have described my behaviors to a T. It feels like you know me!! Thank you so much for this work. Thank you for sharing this!
I don’t know how I found your channel but what a blessing. You have a great grip on this whole subject. You also understand the gospel and grace. Very helpful Blessings.
Thanks Mark, really appreciate you and Melissa. I love how open you guys are. Your teaching is top notch and a huge help to the body.
Thanks so much!
Watching again months later and still so good I get something new every time ! Thanks Mark ! I will continue to support this amazing ministry! ❤️
Mark, your videos have lifted a weight off me. I have been spiraling over something for almost a couple weeks now. Waking up in the middle of the night just to feed my compulsion, and confessing my sin to multiple people only to feel good for moments and then be hit again. I found you yesterday and I feel a sense of weight coming off of me. I am so thankful I found your videos.
I’m a born again Christian and had guilt and shame most of my life . Didn’t realize it was OCD , plus always fearing of my salvation . I am now working on receiving the Love of Father God . It is hard . But I’m going to keep on pressing in . And No More “ what if’s “ satan ! You are a liar !
Oh wow! I am so thankful to God for your ministry! I started crying from the beginning of the video because you got to the very point of many issues I have!
Pd: long term videos are better! We need this format! there are many necessary things that cannot be spoken at a 5 minute video!
You are such a wonderful blessing from God. Thank you.
Anyway, thank you so much for this series. It truly is a Godsend. I used to wash my hands compulsively as a little girl for a period of time, and within the past few years I’ve realized that I think I’m still battling with OCD and anxiety...
This episode. Is soooooo Powerful.. am resonating sooooo. Much💎💎💎 thankyou thankyou for your transparency
Thanks Connie!
Wow...this is really helping me at the moment. I battle anxiety and OCD as well. I am currently obsessing over whether or not I am saved. I recently heard many people saying “once saved always saved” is a lie “from the pit”. I have known the Lord since 2007...and have said (and believed) the Sinners prayer many times. I also have changed and feel the Lord hears and answers my prayers. I battle with perfectionism as well, and the last thing I needed to hear was that I’m partially responsible for my salvation. 🤦🏽♀️ I feel sorry for my husband as I question and doubt! I just can’t understand how people interpret scripture so differently...and so for the first time in years I am so confused. Sorry to the bother you! If you and your wife could maybe say a prayer for me (and anyone else who is battling this), I would truly appreciate it.- Michelle
I had the same Problems too.
I still Battle with OCD but i am sure that Jesus did everything to Save us. Salvation is Not your Part it’s Gods😉❤️
I can recomand the Channel René Roland. She Talks about salvation by faith Alone in christ alone by faith alone. It was a bleesing for me. But of Cause our OCD issue is not solved that way😅 Much Love and Grace to you
Nico Body thank you so much for your encouragement! - Michelle
Also checkout teachings of Gregory Dickow online. He has really helped me to finally believe I am saved by grace (not what I do or don’t do). He also has a really good book Fast From Negative Thinking.
Julie Adkins Thank your reference! I will check him out too. - Michelle :)
Hi Rob,
Praying for you. 😌. I know you’ll ‘pray it forward’........so many Christians are too proud to realize they need some mental nurturing.....your honesty goes a long way. ✝️🔜
I can’t believe someone could put to words what I have felt since my birth. In OCD community and of course NOT in ocd community as well.
I have an appreciation for you because you were troubled so much and I rejoice that you helped me with this Mark!
Thanks very much, your heart and teaching has been a big help to my healing process
Awesome stuff Mark!
You hit the nail on the head. So much knowledge with biblical counsel. Thanks. Good work
Thank you so much!!!!
Such an incredibly helpful video. Thankyou.
You are a HUGE encouragement to me Mark.
This is SO helpful!!
You are just the best. Thank you.
Praising the lord for you! And how he is using you!! I just told my wife I can’t believe you don’t have millions of subscribers!!❤❤
Thank you for your service officer Christopher j cramer! You have great youtube videos and you support both the science and the first! Chris cramer is a true science patriot, a science angel on earth!
I think have an inflated sense of responsibility for others. I once saw a dispute in public between a couple. The guy wasn't very nice lets just say. Others were around, and confronted the guy. I sat there paralysed. I cannot tell you the how much I ruminated afterwards! I felt extremely bad for not doing anything, I thought I'm just as bad and cowardly as people I see in scenarios on youtube doing nothing. I replayed a better scenario in my head where I would have gone up to the lady to ask if she was okay. That perfect scenario played in my head over and over again for DAYS, up to TWO WEEKS. I tried to get rid of this 'not quite right' feeling and I would have given anything to go back to the situation. The repetitive REPLAYING in my head nearly drove me crazy. This not quite right feeling also happened when I got my braces off early, I regretted it so much and that persistant feeling of regret and 'not quite right or missing out on perfection or what could have been' drove me to suicidal ideation. I haven't been diagnosed but I'm working on getting better, and I feel like I've identified my struggle with these videos.
Thank you so much. God bless!
Thank you!
You’re amazing
I love everything that you're saying. It's really reaching my heart and touching home. I just wish I could get rid of that 1% feeling of what if this thought is right. What if it's true. I'll be in deep trouble if it is..
The Lord continue to pour out the rich blessings of his love on you & your precious family. ❤
God bless you!
Amazing
Hi Mark! I love your videos and am learning so much! I also really love the music you play at the beginning of your videos - it's really inspiring. Could you share where you got it?
I'm spinning out after the part about us bring selfish and it makes me think even more God must hate me bc of the awful and self absorbed person I am. I know that is an example of it. I hope with time it helps me instead of just creating more guilt.
Interesting how we can see it in others as we've been there so many times. Hypervigilant and over explaining !🤔
I can totally relate to feeling guilty for being free from guilt
These deep entrenched thoughts and fears will actually change the chemistry of your brain after a while. Living in a constant anxiety state will eventually deplete your serotonin to the point that physical symptoms appear and persist. Thoughts are so very powerful.
Mark I appreciate your ministry so much and I want give a donation but I do not know how to go about it.
I have gone through a year… in the past I have definitely gone after my anxious feeling trying to fix things. This year, at this point I am so stuck, I don’t want to do anything at this point
Hang in there! I hope you're doing better now
Chris cramer is my university of minnesota system father. I'm crying thinking about that.
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It doesn't help if you're in an environment where there's a love deficit and.everyone blaming eachother
I am praying for all Armstrong chapel attendees to keep the faith in stem!
Sometimes writing a letter or just writting down how you feel helps
Bro I'm so Christian right now I'm high inside the inner tabernacle of joshua!
Between my father and I our ideal state is no drugs or excess body fat.
Is there any way to turn on Swedish subtitles for these videos it would help so many people in my life?
Maybe I could get in touch with my ancestry and learn Swedish. :-)
So that explains why I can relate to you so much 😂😂
Is there no option for automatic swedish subtitles? So many people would need this😇
I understand that I am to not focus on the ROCD and such, but at the same time, why is it that I can't help the thought of becoming spiritually lax with everything? I look at the puritans or people of remarkable faith and I know they weren't perfect by any means yet they were solid on holiness.
ROCD is always works based in everything it says. When you strive for holiness, it will drive you to work hard, and be harsh with yourself if you fail. And you will fail, because it works under the Law, and you know how ruthless that is.
However, holiness can be only achieved, if you are deeply rooted in God's love, and your holiness grows out of that. Remember, that Jesus is the root, we are the branches. We can only produce good fruit if it comes out of love, otherwise: dead works. That's the difference.
You can live as holy as humanly possible but if you don't have love, it doesn't help you. Hope this helps. :) Good luck on your journey!
You’re awesome and I love your
messages but when someone is spinning out having spiritual warfare etc ocd complex ptsd the 2:00 minute countdown could be left out…just a suggestion God bless ❤😅
37:35 😂
Hi mark, do you suggest watching the videos in order?
I kind of already started to watch them out of order LOL but do you suggest in order?
25:50 Mat 11 25
What is the tool you use for pulling up scriptures?
Mark! How does this relate to feeling responsible for other people’s salvation? At some point I even walked away from the faith for years out of feeling responsible for other people being saved, by not telling them about Jesus. Can you shed some light on that?
Dear Indian hill rangers I'm trying to help Armstrong chapel have faith in stem despite my personal bad habits!
Mark - can’t I base assurance on the fact that God still convicts me of sin? As in the whole premise that you can rest that you haven’t committed the unpardonable sin if you’re concerned about it. I’ve been trying to do that but I’ve still struggled.
How do i get the books?
I've got a lot of thoughts that I think are God but are not. That's my point of intersection on the tradeoff plot of drugs vs cancer vs experience.
I'm praying for the Indian hill rangers to work with my parents because stuff like runescape cop makes zero common sense.
Hey minneapolis police wanna do a king James book of Joshua study in support of my future campaign?
I'd like Kevin ward to know that today my moral compas is the bible.
I'd like my mom to know that I work with God on the role of chemistry, chemical engineering, and science in my life.
Fear of losing my salvation is constant. I go over and over my mistakes as in my childhood, only my mistakes were pointed out. My abusive alcholic stepfather would sit me down and bully me into failure every night. Im damaged goods now. At 46 I no I am not normal as I am programmed wrong.
These videos are good but think about it. When you were in the middle of your mess do you honestly think watching these videos would help? The Holy Spirit helped you and you cant video that on. It may give people light bulb moments but thats it.
Hi Daniella. Mark speaks truth and the Bible says you will know the truth and the truth will set you free. He might not be reading to you from the scriptures but he's speaking the same truth that's in the scriptures. I hope God will fill you with so much peace.
I can’t believe someone could put to words what I have felt since my birth. In OCD community and of course NOT in ocd community as well.