JiDion Gets Destiny HEATED In Open Relationship Debate, Melina Walks In
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"monoheads"
Don't know if I've heard anything more cringey than that
you don't watch this channel enough then
certainly one of the most soy things to ever leave his mouth
even the fact Destiny says cringe regularly as a 34 year old with a kid is cringe itself
I don’t understand how an open relationship would work for a family.. maybe for the parents but I imagine that would be absolute fucking nightmare for any child
Having a kid and being in an open relationship is just degenerate. Prioritizing your dick over your kid is brazy
I don't think anyone lets their small child in on their sex life 😂
@@moises4730 Have you heard of Mathew Woodsworth?
@@moises4730 gonna be hard to hide dog. There entire relationship is on the internet for everyone to see.
@@zdubzz1280 that's true. I guess I misunderstood the original comment I thought he was talking about open relationships in general
Destiny needs to yell louder. Then they'll understand his point because they'll realize he's right.
Selective hearing.
@@wisemage0selective breeding
Nice you're not retarded at all :D
How dare he match energy
@@R3IsL got em
"Solomon gomorrah"
-jidion
Top W
This has me in fucking tears bro
I don’t agree with the whole open relationship thing im 100% against it, but i dont see why people feel the need to call out destiny on his lifestyle its not like he preaches it being correct lol
He literally did in this video tho 🤔
@@Macheako No, he's only explaining his reasoning for doing it. But if you've ever seen him talk about polyamorous relationships in any other context, he always talks about how people should just do monogamy, He has explicitly never recommended for anyone to do what he does
@@Macheako He's explaining why it's not right to criticize the lifestyle simply because you personally don't want it. He's not saying everyone should do it, and in his videos he frequently says he doesn't recommend open relationships because most people are too jealous to work it out.
Because it is toxic
@@anubis7457 while he criticizes redpill for wanting multiple women too, he actually does that. Steven is a hypocrite through and through.
I dont think open relationships are inherently bad but Destiny somehow found a way to cheat on his girl while being in an open relationship. Dude needs to chill lmao.
For real. He's like an opium addict that can't stop himself take heroin, so then he opens a safe needle exchange measured out dosage centre, or a methadone clinic so he can more safely take heroin, but still can't manage that and ends up behind a dumpster injecting into an open wound within a year
OK, so you do think open relationships are inherently bad.
You just called them cheating.
@@wisemage0 No I don't. Maybe you got confused or I didn't write it properly but I meant that somehow Destiny found a way to cheat even in an open relationship. That's why I said he needs to chill.
@@wisemage0 I updated my comment. I understand why people would misunderstand it.
@- cheating is literally just over stepping boundaries you both agreed to. They are in an open relationship with limited rules and he STILL managed to cheat. This just shows he has some serious impulse issues and little respect for his wife.
as a "monohead" we sure are not sending our best
We shouldn't send anyone; why attack a different lifestyle?
@@kingrainbow5432 Because its a free country
Monohead is an interesting term to cope with allowing your girl to be porked by other dudes.
Indeed
@kingrainbow5432 Because they did it first, and far more often. Eye for an eye.
The whole thing about this is that destiny doesn’t talk shit on monogamy and preach that open relationships are the only way to go.
Fr these people are so fucking triggered by someone just living the way they want. Destiny specifically says most people shouldn’t try open relationships 🤦♂️ but these room temperature IQ mfs can’t even imagine having nuance
What? He even calls them "monoheads" lmao he created a slur to to refer to monogamous people. Creating a slur is talking shit.
Who cares? Put your shit out in public and this is what you get.
Destiny equating cheating with normal day-to-day jealousy is hilarious.
It's like saying that someone who's a professional fighter for a living and gets brain damage faces work related hazards just like the Warehouse worker who may strain their back picking up heavy objects.
Just because there is some moderate similarity doesn't mean it's even close to the same thing.
What he tried to point out is that this is the same exact thing FOR HIM. Walking up the stairs will be different for someone on a wheelchair vs someone able bodied.
And also even in your example picking up heavy objects will destroy your body, the same way getting hit in the face will, but you just destroy different part of your body. And I say this as someone who trains boxing quite a bit, and in no bullshit gym, where training damages you even more than actual fight.
@@Obem2115 Nope, not even close to what he was trying to say. Also, that isn't true. There is no way that Melina feels Destiny cheating on her is the same as normal day-to-day jealousy. So that's horseshit.
Second of all, you're a goofball if you think being a Warehouse worker wrecks your body equally as being in a combat sport. Like legitimate corny goofy guy.
I lived in Thailand for years and most of the nak muays there were done fighting by 25 because their bodies were totally shot. There's a reason the averag retirement age in most pro sports is in their 20s.
People can stage boxes into their 50s and 60s. You can go to any Walmart or Amazon Warehouse in the world and see that. Cornball.
Having disgust for open relationships doesn’t make you red pill. Destiny claims it doesn’t get to him yet this year ‘Melina’ has been his #1 trigger topic
Having the relationship doesn't get to him having people dismiss him for having that relationship does trigger especially people project and lie about it.
I think he's more triggered with the stupidity from the people who talk about it. I think if you got " disgust " over someone else's relationship you might need to reevaluate your life and maybe find some new hobbies that doesn't involve you caring this much about other people's activities with their partners
You also cant be for open relationships and redpill.
Yeah man if you had someone constantly shit talking your relationship and lying to other people about your relationship you’d probably also say “don’t shot talk my wife”
And since when was it wrong to tell people not to shit talk about their partners?
Yeah it’s crazy how a guy gets upset when people talk about his wife lol, what a great take
Loyalty is staying within mutually agreed upon boundaries, and those boundaries are different for everyone.
Smartest comment here
Here is the thing, talk about you wanting traditional boundaries online and everyone on the left will call you a misogynistic asshole who hates women and is controlling. We have this push nowadays that you have a closed relationship yet somehow you should be okay with your girl posting half naked pictures on social media so it really is okay to have any boundaries it seems... as long as they are progressive, trendy and cool.
Simps r ruining the world. Making sluts think its okay to be a slut
It's strange to me that Jesse Lee Peterson had a better conversation about Destiny's and Melina's relationship than either of these two could ever manage.
Amazin'
Thats because its his job, im sure he would do better than you aswell
BETAMEL
BETA!!! 😂
@@pluguette I wouldn't count on that, that interview was pretty out there, and we've already established that despite all odds, techsavvy youtube watchers and internet dwellers ARE technically more intelligent than the average human, somehow. So statistically, I'd say you're maybe not far away from striking the jackpot in a Destiny comment section that doesn't comment something insane. You're living life on the edge with bets like that 😂.
“Mono heads” 🤦🏻♂️
Yeah why does he say that like it's an insult to be monogamous. Does he not realise that's the norm?
I was cracking up when I heard that. Monoheads be acting like Destiny's relationships cheapen their own. Reminds me of conservatives talking about gay marriage in the 2000s lol
@@SASMADBRUV7 if it’s a serious question, I don’t remember when but he was on stream talking about how silly he found it that monogamous people had insecurities around cheating and other stuff that he said much better than I am and would project all those problems they themselves had onto people like him in open relationships. I’m pretty sure he was joking back then about how much he wanted to even just try throwing this kind of shade at monogamous people the next time they criticized him and his open relationship status and this seems to have been that try.
But like, also no shit on the norm part? Everyone, him included, understands that like 90% of the world at a drastic minimum are going to be monogamous. After the Milo debate he got the idea that he wanted new tactics to subvert the common insults people like Milo throw his way rather than the usual rolling over and submitting to the discussion with “yeah I’m different from the norm this way I know thank you for insulting me and my wife”
@@SASMADBRUV7 Because it's an insult from his POV? Just because something is the norm, doesn't mean it can't be used as an insult. Hell, the word "normie" itself is used as an insult.
Yea like SORRY i’m not ok with my wife getting rammed and then taking her back with her cream pied vajay jay.
I think Destiny just doesn’t understand that sex is a very emotional special thing for most people. The vast majority of people has not had one night stands more than one-two times in their entire life and around half of people never have them even once in their lifetime.
He talks about the importance of ”special moments” but fails to see that for most people the most special moment is sex
@@ancalagon1144 there is a difference between saying it's meaningful for you versus saying it has to be meaningful for someone else.
Pretty sure the average amount of partners over a lifetime is like 7.5
If he was prescribing his relationship to others I could see the argument but he isn’t he’s defending his own lifestyle. People should be free to live how ever they want, what ever makes them happy.
And people are free to choose whether they want an open relationship or not
It is interesting how conservative and religious people argue for Monogamy even though they cheat so frequently, what is more moral, cheating on your significant other, or having agreements with your significant other to do what you guys want to do, instead of hiding it.
Lol right it's like conservatives/liberals arguing against pdf files, m*rder, s*xism, and rxcism when there are conservatives/liberals who commit those things 🤣 .... might as well not have a standard and justify it all, right? Right?
Clearly you can be against something as a religious person or conservative and still see flawed humans commit the very acts you're against, very poor reasoning.
Destiny's audience and comment section is becoming more like a reddit post.
@@larryjake7783 Larry the cable guy Is triggered?
@@MandosCulture lol your response is what I expected, not related to the topic just a deflection.
@larryjake7783 because you are using charged words with no point.
Religious people and conservatives preach standards however lie publicly and do the most wild things privately. Why would I engage with such a low thought comment?
Destiny is only in open relationship because he willl cheat on his wife. Hes coomer brained how do you think he became obsessed with Lav and he only ate her out 😂 side bar i forgot to mention the girl on the screen destiny cheated on his wife with and now she can come on stream as much as she wants too
Ok, do you have a problem with that?
@@AppleBaron Yes
meat watchers
@@brandonsobremisana6681 takes one to know one
Alright the haters won this comment thread f in the chat boys
Based off recent videos, I'm starting to think accusing people of being "redpill" or "insecure" is going to be the next racist/sexist/nazi whatever, where before long it just loses all meaning because its just used to shut people down.
It’s already there
Glad to know that racism and sexism have finally dropped to 0%.
Been like that for a minute hedi slimane
pdf file is also soon becoming one. sad to see people using those words with 0 arguments just to make others look bad i hope all pdf,racist,nazis,sexist will still get hold accountable for their fucked up ideas
Yeah, just hide behind that little nugget now. Now no one can be called insecure or redpill, boo hoo
Destiny be like "you mono heads don't how great it is over here in poly land", whole time he's fucking Lav.
Okay buddy😂😂
You wouldn’t pass on hitting that don’t lie.
@@Corgiking521 I actually would pass. The skinny pale chick doesnt do it for me, but I can understand it may be for other people. Also I think Steve just gave her oral and didn't get to hit it.
@@Corgiking521 Can and would; I already had the NPD Girlfriend Experience and I don't need it again.
@@BlooCollaGal you had it, point point proven
Not to mention his relationship with his WIFE Is an absolute dumpster fire. Hisnwife literally needs therapy to cope with their degenerate lifestyle 😂
Jidion truely is awful at debating, he needs to pack it in 😂
2:25 Jidion practicing his mixtape "Wah-wah-wah- wah-wudaah-wah wah wah" LOL
Lmao imagine getting that triggered over someone else's relationship with their wife
people in open relationships dont see sex a super special thing, just as an enjoyable thing
that's about it
Yeah these people act like everytime people have sex it’s candles and smooth jazz soft core porn sex, but it’s not. It is enjoyable, and you can certainly make it special(which done on occasion can make a memory for you two to share/look back on), but there’s not this fantastical thing every single time
@@mongoosegang they don't make it super special because they think it's inherently special. And it can be super weird (for me included), but that doesn't make it bad or degenerate
sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone and bring them the most pleasure when they climax lol it’s not nothing as much as you try to make it seem. Any mentally stable girl doesn’t even want to be a sex object to different men while her husband is at home playing video games. Guys just need to be physically attracted girls need to be emotionally invested which is the worst kind of cheating.
That’s not how they describe it. Melanie said she considers it special and wants to experience it with multiple people. It’s not that difficult to understand, she’s just a nymphomaniac
Melina would disagree with you though
wow my opnion fully changed on jidion, his points are worse than literal highschoolers in debates plus the fact he has no open mind
Open relationships are the biggest cope of all time.
I feel like everyone misuses "cope" now. Destiny says that he has an open relationship because he's a cheater and he will cheat otherwise...so is that cope? He's actually not a cheater? He isnt rich or famous enough to get a monogamous girl? I dont understand what the cope is here
Monogamy is the biggest cope of all time.
@@TonyCox1351 yeah, I feel like destiny is one of the few guys who isn't coping about open relationships. He is too regarded of a person for monogamy which means open relationships are the next logical step.
He isn't just getting brow beaten into paying for his wife and her boyfriend's life it doesn't seem, which is what most of these relationships are.
Facts
So true
What I find funny is Jidion trying to tell people what's right and wrong.
stop being cringe. Go get a watermelon into a bowling ball competition
Ur a cheater like destiny
Open relationships, also known as consensual non-monogamy, have become increasingly popular in modern society. However, the idea of open relationships can be seen as an intellectual threat to the traditional monogamous model of relationships. In this essay, I will present an intellectual argument against open relationships, exploring the inherent problems and contradictions that arise from embracing such a model.
The primary argument against open relationships is that they undermine the very essence of intimacy and commitment. By definition, intimacy involves a deep and meaningful connection with one person. Open relationships, however, promote the idea that intimacy can be shared with multiple people, which dilutes the significance and value of the bond between two individuals. Moreover, the act of opening up a relationship implies that there are flaws in the existing relationship that need to be addressed by bringing in additional partners. This fundamentally undermines the trust and commitment that underpins a strong relationship, as it suggests that the relationship is not strong enough to withstand the challenges that arise from being exclusive.
Another problem with open relationships is the potential for inequality and power imbalances. It is common for one partner to be more comfortable with the idea of an open relationship than the other, which can lead to one person feeling pressured or coerced into agreeing to something that they are not entirely comfortable with. Additionally, open relationships tend to favor individuals who are more extroverted and socially confident, as they have a greater opportunity to meet and engage with potential partners. This can create a dynamic in which one partner is more successful in finding new partners, while the other partner struggles to connect with anyone outside of the primary relationship. This imbalance can create resentment and jealousy, ultimately leading to the breakdown of the relationship.
Open relationships also contradict the basic human need for stability and security. Humans are social creatures and thrive in environments that provide stability, security, and predictability. Open relationships, by their very nature, are unpredictable and unstable. The constant influx of new partners, and the emotional turbulence that comes with it, can be overwhelming and stressful for even the most emotionally resilient individuals. This instability can make it difficult for individuals to form deep and meaningful connections, as they are constantly in a state of flux.
Finally, open relationships present significant challenges in terms of communication and honesty. Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship, and open relationships require a level of communication and honesty that is often difficult to achieve. It can be challenging to discuss feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, or insecurity with a partner, particularly when those feelings arise from the relationship itself. Moreover, the constant negotiation and renegotiation of boundaries and expectations can be emotionally taxing, leading to a breakdown in communication and trust.
In conclusion, while open relationships may appear attractive in theory, the reality is that they present significant challenges that are difficult to overcome. The inherent contradictions and problems with open relationships make it a less intellectually sound model for relationships than traditional monogamous relationships. The fundamental human need for stability, security, and intimacy, as well as the challenges in achieving communication and honesty, highlight the flaws of open relationships and emphasize the need for a more stable and secure model of relationships.
The guy said "I'm not capable of emotional intelligence but I'll pay to prove my manhood".
So fucking cringe. How little self awareness does he have? Jesus christ think about it for one second.
Modern day Solom and Gommor. Can’t make this up 💀
It's "Solomon and Gamorrah"
This is such a good collection of people. Very entertaining they should do more
2:40 Jidion's point is Vaild, knowing that your partner could have someone of higher status and still choose you is a great boost in the stability and pride in your relationship and chaeiry's point about Needing that to boost your ego is irrelevant because jidion never said you NEED that but its a great plus to your relationship.
Facts, these woman just don’t want men to benefit from them, when they get loads of benefits from men. They literally get protection and love they miss out when being single yet how dare she make me feel like I’m the only one in her life.
@@future.endeavors protection and love?
That can happen in an open relationship too, she can find someone of higher status and just not want him. You can get girls that drop you for better choice in either type of relationship
@@tochichiagoro3483 I Do not Believe Jidion said no one in a open relationship can't find a better partner and leave tho. It would actually go towards Jidion's Point Further because a Poly Person rejects someone on a romantic basis but can be with them for a sexual exchange however a monogamous relationship could reject someone on a romantic basis AND SEXUAL basis so you get keep more of your significant other's company for yourself
@@garrymiller3171 yes as in the only other thing men can offer woman. The feeling that they are safe and secure. Most woman go in Life Uncomfortable jumping from men to men, or not knowing what they want. What destiny and his girl are doing is something smart people do because they know they don’t want to be exclusive to each other. Destiny in the older times would be the man that used his wife to get what he wants, he lets her sleep with the hvm to steal from them or to get something in return,only he’s letting her do it for free😂 insecurities are not a bad thing at all, I mean look at destiny.. he needs more insecurities in his life to get in better shape and to get people behind him more. Cause right now he’s only appealing to people that think trans woman are woman😂 (joke)
Does somebody have the full vod of this?
3:57… PROJECTION ‼️‼️‼️
Who is the girl Jidion is referring to that was dm'd by Drake?
3:20 Qxc said Nigga 😂😂😂😂😂😂 damn
As a Christian, the idea of open relationships challenges the very core of what God intended for relationships. The Bible teaches that the union between a man and a woman in marriage is sacred and should not be taken lightly. In fact, Jesus himself reaffirmed the importance of this union in Matthew 19:5, "For this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh."
Open relationships, on the other hand, promote the idea that intimacy and commitment can be shared with multiple people. This directly contradicts the biblical teaching of the sanctity of marriage and the exclusive nature of the marital bond. God created marriage as a reflection of the covenantal relationship between Christ and the church, and it is meant to be a sacred union that is built on trust, respect, and commitment to one another.
Moreover, open relationships can lead to issues such as inequality and power imbalances. The Bible teaches that both partners in a marriage should submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). In an open relationship, one partner may be more comfortable with the idea of non-monogamy than the other, leading to feelings of pressure and coercion. Additionally, the act of seeking intimacy outside of the marital bond can lead to a breakdown of trust and ultimately the dissolution of the relationship.
Open relationships also contradict the biblical teaching of the importance of stability and security. The Bible teaches that God is a God of order, and he desires for his children to live in a stable and secure environment (1 Corinthians 14:33). Open relationships, with their constant influx of new partners and emotional turbulence, can create an unstable and unpredictable environment that is not conducive to building a strong and lasting relationship.
Finally, open relationships can be detrimental to the development of communication and honesty in a relationship. As Christians, we are called to speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to be honest with one another. Open relationships, with their constant negotiation of boundaries and expectations, can create an environment where communication and honesty are difficult to achieve, leading to feelings of jealousy, inadequacy, and insecurity.
In conclusion, open relationships are incompatible with the Christian view of marriage and the importance of exclusivity, trust, commitment, stability, security, and honesty. Christians should uphold the biblical teachings of marriage and the sacredness of the marital bond, and strive to build strong and lasting relationships that honor God and reflect his covenantal love for us.
Christianity failed in every societal metric, by design if you believe in the revelation and apocalypse. Why resist the ultimate will of God by your own doctrine?
to make it short. its none of your business
Ngl this sounds like a Myron Gaines talking point
This is modern day 'Solomon Gomorrah'. Lol.
I don't watch all the time but has Melina been on since Farha showed up?
4:49 Its a Complete Non-Point By Destiny to Pivot to What Red Pillers say and do as if they are the representative for Monogamous People
You can say someone is using a redpill talking point and not be redpill themselves. To illustrate how ridiculous the argument is. No one said anyone was redpill
Holy shit its just so loud man. Quiet down - the projection is unreal lol.
I don’t think it’s the open relationship idea that’s triggering so much. They see the hurt on Melina and Destiny has a revolving door or girls that want clout. The optics are just awful plus the drug issues
Drug issues?
@@shawnc7484Destiny is addicted to addy and Melina is on copium
You are making so many crazy assumptions. Just stop
The Level of Projection and insecurity they have is fucking crazy!😂🎉
Only true thing thing Jidion said was "We cant debate this" lol
Cry
Chairey was foul for that comment. That was masculine energy.
Thats another thing about open relationship if your wife is out there so is your reputation. Thats everyones go to when attacking destiny. Now imagine if one of those creeps" actually "does her. Destiny would get pulled apart .
Yeah and a lot of comments are trying to justify his lifestyle....listen its his problem to deal with it. And the same for that lady streamer, but if your business gets out by a partner of your wife *kanye shrug* then be okay with it
its rich coming from destiny considering the fact that he would leave melina multiple times if his other relationships worked.
I don't care if others live in an open relationship, but there is no f way that I would ever want that. I would not be able to trust my partner knowing that another person got very intimate with her. I would not be able to share any weakness or emotions with her anymore. Personally I don't think it is a good thing to sleep around and I don't think it's mentally healthy.
The fact that when either destiny or melina hook up with other ppl the other doesnt unless the other has someone to hook up with also because of jealous, shows its not working
I think that’s a rule she made up to control him , it’s her saying she has no one which obviously isn’t true she just doesn’t want too and wants all his attention.
Destiny isn’t in touch with his emotions they just have a classic trauma bond toxic relationship. He’s just has a higher IQ and good at debating so copes better than others.
He’d get over the break up in a day and probably would feel pride in this like he’s emotionally intelligent but he’s not he’s just spinning everything to be in control and not be hurt.
But giving someone the power to hurt you is the whole point that what gives its value and the deeper you go the more risk you take but the more beautiful it is.
@@Duck72432 exactly so this lie that they are both totally cool with it, is not honesty
what game is he playing?
Destiny abandons all logical discourse when this topic comes up. It’s just fallacy after fallacy that he would never let other people get away with in debate. Not that these guys had any logical coherence to their arguments. This whole video is a dumpster fire
Any examples of said "fallacies"?
Please tell us the illogical arguments made
shifting the goal post and ridiculous strawmen arguments. Did you guys not watch the video or do you just suck offf destiny at every chance?
@@AppleBaronWe have the magical answer genie called Google. You can learn what they are then juxtapose them to destiny's arguments.
You do realize that you're basically calling OP "master " since you don't know and are asking for instruction right?
@@TheGrowlingAraknid holy stupid comment batman
Deatiny is wrong, there is a lot special about sex. On a scientific level of course with all the release of hormones and the emotional attachment that comes with it, it's also the way we procreate. Sadly Destiny's religion of materialism and rationality has driven him to think there's nothing special or sacred about sex.
I remember one time when Destiny was on the F&F podcast, and he had said something along the lines of “suppressing your desires is part of what makes you a good person” when discussing the infidelity topic. Crazy how he can’t even follow his own advice to suppress his own desires to fuck.
What a hypocrite lmao.
it's almost as if standards are different to open relationships where the expectations are different to monogamous relationships, especially when the latter is literally meant to be exclusive between 2 people, so having self-control means something different compared to an open relationship
He clowns red pill guys for wanting more than one gf and calls them cringe yet he’s doing the same thingy basically but he’s in a fake ass marriage where his girl gets rammed too
@@mycrazylife408 NPC blah blah, not even worth talking about since it's just braindead
@@scottwilliams645 Doesn’t matter what the standards are. The very basis of an open relationship is you not being able to control your desires.
Destiny’s 100% a hypocrite here.
@@zeroxthe3rd609 no he's not. Destiny would say u moderately doing drugs or u moderately drinking alcohol is fine just don't let those desires control your life and lead to bad outcomes.
One desire destiny has is that he likes to fuck around a lot. He met someone who also likes to fuck around. In their journey they found to love each other very much and also balance fucking other people. Same as you would say moderately drinking or smoking.
These desires don't control destiny life from what I've seen. And they seem to be in still good relationship for the most part it could change with time who knows.
Solomon Gomorrah would be a great band name.
Jidi "Why would i- why would i- why would i-" on
An open relationship is not a relationship
these arguments are so bad. destiny says that him and melina have sex with other people and jidions response is “that says more about you guys than anything” and proceeds to say they are selfish. like, that response literally means nothing and holds zero value. it explains nothing in terms of why agreeing to have sex with people outside of your relationship is bad or wrong.
people who care about other people having open relationships are just stupid. not much else to it.
actually, i just reached the part when jidion brings up that its a “health concern” and im starting to realize the issue. hes looking at this argument in the same way you’d look at an argument over what sports team is better, or who has a cooler t-shirt or some shit. i dont even know anymore if hes even applying moral weight to the discussion.
“thats the bare minimum and you cant do it!!!”
again, totally meaningless. its fucking mind boggling how stupid these people are.
He might be hamming it up for views. It is their job to get a reaction
It’s almost like Jidion is an idiot or something lol
@Delete reddit but "lack of self control" doesn't mean anything in this case, and you're so brainrotted by this topic that you're unable to see this whereas you wouldn't apply this same logic anywhere else.
if two people just like having sex and mutually agree that they're going to have an open relationship, you saying "wow you have no self control" is stupid and irrelevant to the legitimacy of their relationship. you're applying your own standards onto them and blaming them when they don't meet those standards. it's peak idiocy.
@Delete reddit I think you meant to edit your comment and not post 2 lol
Is it a open relationship if it's a mail order bride situation and they kinda have to deal with it?
Now i really don't understand polyamorous if that is even what destiny and melina has but personally i think it's a bit weird and would never want what they have. But what i can't understand is if destiny and melina are happy with the relationship that they have and there is no resentment between them why do they have to keep saying that it's disgusting and everything when it does not really affect them in any shape or form.
Even if i agree that it's kinda weird and all, but if i don't want to i don't have to have that kind of relationship that they have and the same goes that they don't have to have a completely monogamous relationship if they don't want to. If that shit works for them and they are happy with each other let them, you don't have to bash people and say that it's disgusting just because you think it is when it's not even your relationship. If they are happy with what they have just let them be happy, it don't matter if you thinks it's weird cause in the end it's not you that has that relationship.
Yeah they seem to manage their open relationship relatively ok (considering how hard Destiny is to get along with) so I dont know what the big deal is to everyone. Yes Destiny's relationship with Melina is dysfunctional....so is his relationship with Sneako, with Mr Girl, with Lav, with Brittany...so obviously polygamy isnt the source of the issue
@@TonyCox1351 The polygamy lets him fall into the other bad decisions continuously as opposed to being in a committed monogamous relationship where there's only one interpersonal intimate conflict at a time if you are going through a hard time. If destiny is this shit at managing relationships making it possible to have multiples of these dysfunctional interactions just amplifies his faults.
The Lav situation kind of accentuates that by him falling for a midwit that he still seems to have some sort of weird love-hate relationship to.
destiny is happy, melina is not. she has stated she wants the open relationships to end, and has vented to multiple people about being suicidal and wanting to leave the relationship (Bob7, darius, probably more).
idc what they do with their personal lives, but its a massive cope to say this is a healthy relationship.
@@hsk1778 if that is the case then absolutely she should end it or try to talk with him to fix it if she wants to. I just mean in general that if two people are happy with how their relationship is then i don't see the reason of bashing them for it when it's not even their relationship to begin with.
@@hsk1778 Commenting multiple times on one youtube-video is mentally unhealthy.
Guess what happen now lol
I am willing to bet that the 2 guys yelling and screaming about Destiny's marriage aren't married. Those who can't teach. 😂😂😂
Why get married if you are going to share your wife? Better to stay single. Last thing I want to do is have Destiny teach me how to get my girl double teamed. Pretty sure I can fail that hard on my own
@De`Andre I've heard him say a million times he doesn't recommend his relationship style to anyone. So I think you should be able to sleep peacefully at night knowing he won't advise you.
@@GoldilocksDoesThat you advise things by doing them, hence why they are called influencers... this is why parents and communities say xyz are influencing a child even if they never say *"hey do this"* and it's also why influencers say don't watch me if you don't care for my content, because they understand how they can influence topics and they don't want culpability.
If you think Rappers, businessmen, the religious folk, the social media influencers don't impact others even without verbally suggesting it then I'm not sure what to think about your reasoning abilities, you are also influenced by your content, everyone is, so in the grander scheme of things Destiny does promote his lifestyle because he told us about it and promoted without using direct to consumer promotional words.
I mean he can do what he wants obviously but he made it public so why do fans and why does he and this lady get upset when made public info is critiqued and talked about?
Is his worldview so fragile that it can't stand scrutiny? Are his fans so emotionally in denial that they have to feign their love and support for his lifestyle and pass it off as the: "why do you care" go to argument?
I'm wouldn't be poligamous, becouse I'm against hook up culture personally, not for any actual reason, I just don't like it. But why would I ever care about someone else reliationship? Like they don't hurt anyone, they don't hurt eachother, what's the problem? Open relationship Is just people who would cheat either way in a relationship, thinking of an inteligent solution to how to fix the issue, with making everyone happier in the end.
"You can't debate this" he said, while debating it 🤦
This is the best group it’s so funny
Sex just isn't that special to some people. That's all this really boils down to.
Hasn’t destiny lied about having sex when it was not true? that’s what jideon means that someone feel some type of way.
God damn that video title is clickbait
If you go into a relationship already knowing in the end you will ultimately break the other persons heart it's immoral. Everyone knows when you spend time with someone and have a sexual relationship with them they are going to grow feels. This is why almost all Destiny and Melina's friendships end badly. Melina fell in love with Bob7 then Destiny destroyed him. Melina left Destiny for Darius after Destiny had an affair and Destiny, supposedly, just had another affair. Ann became obsessed with him, Lav became obsessed with him and multiple other girls hate Destiny now after the relationship was broken off. This is an obvious pattern and Destiny is to smart not to see it. Open relationship by definition are immoral because in the end you're ultimately just going to destroy someone's heart. We are all just to selfish now a days to think about the 3rd party.
That’s stupid. That’s like saying people should have kids cause they’re gonna die anyways. Even if that was the case, it’s about the journey. Nothing lasts forever, not even monogamous relationships. Life is the journey, not a destination.
@@IAmAllEyes very poor take, that's not what they poster indicated at all
your destination is hell.
@@IAmAllEyes
I'm not convinced that sex is meaningless, and is only skin on skin contact with no higher meaning for either person
Monogamous people care way to much about people in open sexual relationships
"Google It" the ultimate debate tactic of people at risk of exhaling their last brain cells.
Monoheads breaking
Having the girl you cheated with in your last marriage while discussing why open relationship are okay / good even though you still cheated on your current wife is crazy. Only destiny can get away with such insane behavior
wait that girl is who he cheated on his first wife with? lmao
@@stamp0909wd it's not. Litteraly 10 years apart
It’s obvious Melina has a problem with it
That’s what I’m saying… I remember watching a video a month ago about destiny and her talking about sex with others, and she complained about how it’s so hard to find someone to share that with, destiny continues on to tell her how that’s possible, when there’s lots of good looking men around that would sling d. It’s obvious she’s looking for a kind of man, and she’s looking for certain experiences, no way she’ll want to keep doing it if she has to put so much effort into it
@@future.endeavors yup she has a problem with it but destiny insists that they are happy because he can’t control his hedonistic urges
She CAN leave bro 😂😂😂
@@Macheako emotional attachment, citizenship papers, manipulation, gaslighting… should I go on ?
That open shist never works, W Dion, The gigichad thing to do is to just stay single and do hookups 😂
Yea because you know everybody in an open relationship right? Bruh you just talking you don't know shit :P
Jidion not redpill everyday
I’m an atheist and used to be a fundamentalist, I don’t think it’s gross, but it’s definitely not ideal for everyone.
you’re the exception and it’s probably because you have no frame of reference because you’re an incel
I think sneako intended to go and swing with a couple, but experienced cucking and he found out he did NOT like it. If he could admit that it would be healthier for him.
It wouldn’t . People would just bully him more which I will push him further and further into his mentality
The only reason you know it happened is because sneako said it
@@lekl3k669 Considering what patrice's girl tried to pull after he died I'd say that the end result of that relationship didn't look... good.
Did this lady seriously just say there’s a cure for aids? Hahahah bro who are these ppl.
How's that open relationship working out for you, Destiny? Hahahaha. You invited another dude to take your wife. Destiny can't see he is just wrong about open relationships. Take your feelings out of it and look at it objectively. The signs were there, but you chose to ignore it, and she left you for bootleg Ezra Miller.
Alot of ppl seem to be missing Destinys point regarding this. He has never claimed that open relationships work most of the time, he even routinely says that he wouldn't recommend an open relationship for 99% of people, because it does get significantly more complicated.
And he's right, monogamous still get super jealous over small shit (this is coming from a monogamous guy), although the "just by talking to ppl of the opposite gender" was an overexaggeration, but there are people who genuinely don't even like that (Andrew Tate has said so multiple times for example).
Also, yes, Destiny and Melina have fights, just like every other monogamous or open couple.
lol lets just ignore melina has emotionally vented to both Bob7 and Darius about suicidal because of the relationship and wanted to leave him. don't just take destiny's word for it, he is very unreliable narrator...
@@hsk1778 The fuck are you talking about?
@@hsk1778 _"My source is that I made it the fuck up."_
Doesn’t work for him either if he’s still managing to cheat on his wife
@@hsk1778 and do you think that has never happened in a monogamous relationship?
I thought he got destroyed and destiny lost the debate from none debates
The same guys who have a roster of women when single complain about Destiny's polygamy. It ain't for me but this pearl clutching BS is cringe
In the future when destiny's relationship inevitably fails ill be there with popcorn.
weird comment to make
The obsession
It’ll probably end but not because of its non-monogamy lol. And plenty of monogamous relationships end, so its not like they’re perfect.
It's been 5 years, look at you creep hoping for the downfall of a relationship just to prove some cringy belief that you have about relationships
Lol they both die in the 100s still married to each other and your comment ages poorly
Bruh is this comment section 😂😂😂😂😂😂
5:39 w Jidion
They are not red pill. But these guys are what i call blue pill.
Lidion is a black Aidan Ross.
Damn i didint know Jidion a lot but i still managed to be disapointed
Why are they so mad tho
He say's his fine with it but he's lossing his shit and I bet it was her idea
lmaooooo i honestly dont get why they care so much-
I feel like there are two different conversations happening here, the mono people dont seem to be listening, but then again religious people are notoriously closed minded
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This is why people poop on Destiny's open relationship
Also, the way people throw around AIDS when they are probably meaning HIV is really triggering and irritating. Especially to LGBTQ folks of a certain age who know too well what AIDS actually is 🙄
Same thing different stages... no? HIV turns to aids if not treated. When you wanna get your gal pregnant you don't say you want fertilized eggs... you say you want kids.
Yes, AIDS being used as anti-LGBT propaganda has been a staple of American politics for several decades now.
I see JiDion brought his fan base to the comments 🤣
Destiny calling red pillers more jelous is like, when hes replaced all feelings of jelousy with depression
I think their age and religion is clouding the critical thinking skills.
lol why do they care so much
Idk sounds like he got baited.
any two people can have sex but not any two people can share "special moments in time" ??? 🤣
some of his relationship takes are just... i don't even know. he puts more value on "special moments in time" over sex when both are equally subjective.
destiny does have decent takes on relationships a lot of the time but he severely lacks in the maintaining a relationship part, and I think most
people giving out relationship advice on the internet also lack in this department. respect your partners boundaries people remember that they have
feelings. even if you're poly or in an open relationship initially but your partner changes their mind you need to consider their feelings and work with them if you you cant do that end the relationship dont CHEAT on them...
Yeah both are subjective, but he’s still correct. A forgotten one night stand or deeply connecting with someone you want to be your partner is completely different. Sex is physical, not mental. Having sex with someone doesn’t necessarily mean you connect with them on any other level.
His relationship takes are for a broad audience, not a opinionated tunnel visioned audience like red pill or religious types.
I literally can’t be the only one who does view sex as a very connecting moment, anybody..?
@@id1550 Sure it can be and it can also be just for fun, no connection needed
@@id1550 unless you're sloshed drunk or dahmer its a pretty connecting moment.
@@misternevermiss12 If that were true. More girls will act like guys. Guys not really a emotional thing. Every girl I have been with, who slept with me stated. "They only slept with people they have a connection with may it be physical or emotional." Having a connection make girls orgasm way faster. Any girls that read this can tell me am wrong or the girls that told me this is wrong.