Break the Pattern: Creating Positive and Healthy Relationships with Kimya Motley & Dr. Alduan Tartt

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  • @fatu1738
    @fatu1738 4 місяці тому +13

    I just want to say...anything produced by Wayfarer teaches something to the audience. Let's support their films. Yes, I've raved and ranted here. But I love how Man Enough is shedding light on DV from the shadows especially in an industry that gets away with a lot of things in our society. I love you guys.

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  4 місяці тому

      Thank you! We love you too. Your support means so much.

  • @ronsparkman4913
    @ronsparkman4913 4 місяці тому +10

    So excited to hear Kimya on the show and sharing her incredible story. When I did A Call To Men's Training Institute, I was absolutely blown away by her story. Thank you for bringing her on to share her story!

  • @GretchenHewitt
    @GretchenHewitt 4 місяці тому +5

    When Dr, Tartt spoke around 39:00 about delay, taking time, getting to know, I immediately took a long deep grateful breath.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for the kind words!

  • @fareedjaved5986
    @fareedjaved5986 4 місяці тому +3

    Really grateful for Kimya and Dr. Tartt for this episode. Coming from an abusive household, this really resonated with me.

  • @danicamargarit6832
    @danicamargarit6832 4 місяці тому +4

    I was literally just checking the channel last night before bed to see if there were any new videos! Happy to see a new video. Only 30 seconds in and wow... this poor woman. How incredibly brave of her to share her story.

  • @FikileNgema-pe3wb
    @FikileNgema-pe3wb 4 місяці тому +3

    I love this podcast. Liz, Justin and Jamie always compassionate with their guests.

  • @luciagarcia4313
    @luciagarcia4313 4 місяці тому +4

    Am a new fan of your channel through Justin Baldoni.👍👏🏾

  • @CreinHartzDelaugcy
    @CreinHartzDelaugcy 4 місяці тому +3

    Really great podcast I learn a lot and feel a lot too

  • @malmal3003
    @malmal3003 4 місяці тому +3

    This was a great episode, thank so much for sharing your stories and knowledge.

  • @carterx369
    @carterx369 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for having these conversations!

  • @thechatterbot
    @thechatterbot 4 місяці тому +3

    I love this podcast 🥺

  • @monr8571
    @monr8571 4 місяці тому +4

    Thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @ElizaBartoszewicz
    @ElizaBartoszewicz 4 місяці тому +3

    thank you so much. even if it is not my direct storyline, i always learn so much and i understand that indirectly and because we are all connected all these are my story lines. hugs!

  • @CreinHartzDelaugcy
    @CreinHartzDelaugcy 4 місяці тому +3

    Wao that's crazy Im so sorry that happened to her

  • @lilrenstar1
    @lilrenstar1 2 місяці тому +1

    Wow.. I am speechless… no sé

  • @OrtegaOY
    @OrtegaOY 4 місяці тому +3

    As a Man, who was a Boy, who grew up in a Domestic Violence Household.....there were so many Jewels 💎 Dropped in this episode. However, I'm at my wits end with how to address the more ill and severe cases. When it comes to being a Man and stepping in for Women who are being abused....how does one protect thee abused if they're consenting to thee abuse. Not that they consciously want to be harmed (though certainly subconsciously is a whole other matter), but if the relationship is abusive and they choose to stay....is that not consent? And let's say the Woman in question revokes that consent and wishes to leave. Isn't that Man a mere Predator or Captor? Shouldn't this Man be met with Extreme Prejudice and Smited for his insistence on being and or doing Evil? Violence isn't thee answer, but it is an answer and to be considered as a Final Solution to end Evil.

    • @jz372
      @jz372 4 місяці тому +2

      I would call the police and say that I witnessed domestic violence. You could even tell the cops you want to remain anonymous. The cops will vet the situation. The woman could decide to speak up or not, but when she will finally speak up, you as a witness statement could help and it really could help the situation I think.

    • @OrtegaOY
      @OrtegaOY 4 місяці тому +1

      @@jz372 Word, Thank You for your reasonable response 🙏🏼

    • @teganjohno
      @teganjohno 4 місяці тому +2

      There are many many many reasons people stay. It may even seem to be (or even just be) the SAFEST option for them at the time with what they have access to. I would encourage you to check out Partnered with a Survivor podcast which is by the founders of the Safe and Together Academy that specialises in family violence.

    • @OrtegaOY
      @OrtegaOY 4 місяці тому

      @@teganjohno Thank You for that recommendation 🙏🏼

    • @WeAreManEnough
      @WeAreManEnough  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for your thoughts and honest request for help from the community. It's completely understandable that you don't know what to do in extreme situations.

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k 4 місяці тому +1

    ❤❤😮

  • @mumii394
    @mumii394 4 місяці тому

    51:29

  • @tb22k
    @tb22k 4 місяці тому

    😅😅

  • @justicewilson7929
    @justicewilson7929 4 місяці тому

    49:52 would a group of women out their lives on a line to save a man in fhe samd position? It reminds me of that What Would You Do episode on male on female dv and ebeyone wither watched, laughed, or ignored it.

  • @osmosisjones4912
    @osmosisjones4912 4 місяці тому +3

    Nothing about women who perpetrate abuse

    • @justicewilson7929
      @justicewilson7929 4 місяці тому

      Because that would go against "the all women are perfect" narrative

  • @justicewilson7929
    @justicewilson7929 4 місяці тому

    Interesting that the highest rate of domestic violence is in lesbian relationships. In fact, lesbian relationships actually have the highest divorce rate, with domestic violence being cited as the number one reason. #TheMoreYouKnow