Yep i married it - I was best he ever had. I did the discard when I found out he was cheating AGAIN. The back burner is 10 yrs older than me 😂😂- When I found out , they immediately turned on each other - He knew in a few weeks it cost him everything he had with me- he tried calling I changed my number-& moved away- game over. Totally off the grid …
🙏 yes they are confused. They are a complete mess and don’t think anything through. They make ridiculous choices…they make terrible beds for themselves to lie in. But for sure it’s easier for them to dip into old supply rather than get new supplies. Especially if they are getting older and more exhausted.
My GOD took him out of my life! I even had a dream whereby I told him clearly to F OFF! (He would not leave me alone - I was polite about it at first). They drive you to this type of behaviour. I HOPE he is miserable and suffering; I am human. They are such deceitful, chronic liars - children of a different "father". I also hope him and his new/old "supply" are tearing each other apart because he could not triangulate me. That's just immature BS.
I broke up with my narc in March found out he was lieing and cheating on me the whole time we were together..all these months ive been healing and out the blue got a txt from him last Monday saying him hurting me was the biggest mistake he ever made and he misses me so much😳to late sir keep the same energy you had when you cheated on me
Omg! I walked away because I found out he had 'new supply' (I had been distant) and he started calling me the next day and has never stopped hoovering. I had to block him on everything. Just got a hoover email 2 days ago. I ignore; it's been 9 months. I did talk to him once after the first 3 months of no contact, only because he would not stop and he had his kid's mom contacting me, (he used to triangulate us). Boy oh boy, he messed up. Now he's stuck with the person that he thought he would use to get me to chase him. He THOUGHT I was never gonna go anywhere.
That’s key!!!! They think YOU will never get over them bc they put IT on you so well. Puhleeze. Good thing we ain’t stupid. We may be passionate about loving someone but we ain’t stupid.
He always used to say, 'You think you're perfect. You think you're better than everyone else!' I absolutely do not. Projection? Or how he actually felt about me?
Yes they try to bring you down! Mine told me I needed to visit the gym! I said- do WE need to join! He doubled down trying to body shame me…that’s when I knew! I Gawwdda Goww…when I was down he loved it! When I was confident he was salty! I finally put it together…and got gone! Thank you Lord!
Every single time I got good news or something good happened in my life, my EX narc used to find a reason to break up with me. It got worse when I bought my home. He got mean as hell when I bought my house.
I told narc last Saturday. I know who he was. Told him about all the lies and gave proof. And DISGARDED HIS ASS. I LET HIM HAVE IT, I tore him apart because I know all about NPD NOW. It was a 2 month whatever ship. Hot ass mess. My god. I hope to never see him again.
I spoke softly when I said the only difference between a narc and a psychopath is that a narc needs people (fuel) and a psychopath does not. I hope he felt that to his core.
Yep! She called and reminisced how I would have her bath water run when she got off from work, or how I helped her with issues at her job and her new supply has bad breath and body odor (told to her by his co-workers), cheats on her constantly, is not liked by her family and her grand daughter said he creeps her out. Yet, she still says it's my fault. That's why I am re-enforcing NO CONTACT!
lol My narc wanted to be friends, I said “no we are not, that’s part of why we breaking up cuz you are not a good friend” “I can help you find a replacement and show them how to take care of you, they won’t be me 😂 lol but that’s the best I can do haha” me in the picture won’t help you move on I’ll give you a little detox off me then it’s goodbye forever 😆 I said all this and did just that Forever Discard, let’s just say she didn take it too well 🤷🏾♂️ oh well If only yall knew the rollercoaster of an engagement I had smh, I have a forever fan now and periodic Hoovers like clockwork Luckily I move unpredictably and remain very far out of reach unless I want to be, not everyone dealing with Narcs have that luxury. But absolutely agree FRIENDSHIP aftermath is NEVER an option
This is so true. I saw him spying around my house only 4 weeks after he discarded me and after that I received 3 letters in my mailbox and the random unknown calls so I had my number changed.
He hoovered me after a year. But the discard was cruel and sadistic, so he figured I was soooo broken down still. He was someone that I knew from high school , we reconnected in our early 40's , I always loved him, I told him initially last year that I waited for him for almost 30 years and I'll wait for him forever.lmao. shouldn't have said that. Then upon our 6 month reunion phase, he discarded me in a very inhumane way. So he figured I'd be around whenever. Wrong , I figured him out. And have heard from multiple sources he is a player, evil. And has multiple kids with multiple women. So he hoovered me recently And I declined the offer..
Once the healing takes hold, hindsight becomes 20/20. Several incidents and episodes that caused so much confusion all connect to the final explosive discard. Then the hoover (after shacking up with the new supply) confirms all suspicions and exposes all. I can even see the new supply is likely carbon copy of a previous situationship that landed him in jail. I surmise he's gone full circle to hopefully reach the ultimate judgement. Revelations and confirmations - God does reveal it all and all praise to Him for showing me the Truth.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THAT, PHONE IS LOW ON POWER. YOU TALK LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH HELL BUT SEE GOD'S HAND KEEPING YOU TOGETHER. ITS NOT A DISORDER, ITS SATAN!!!! GOD IS AWESOME. LOVED THE REVELATION AND CONFIRMATION. STAY WITH YOUR BIBLE. THESE DEMONS ARE COWARDS, COVERT ONES ARE THE WORST!!!!!
The new supplies are victims too! I was his new supply. The relationship almost broke me. Still trying to heal from the trauma. I walked away never looked back after I found out who/what I was dealing with. He asked us to be friends but I declined. My life is too precious to waste it with a narcissist.
Onother thing about cheating is that the person you cheated with never trust and invest to you,and never wants you after things went down with your original partner,no one wants a cheater ,soon things goes down the new supplier finds out the main supply is no longer in the picture
Oh the hoovering was sooner than 4-6 weeks. It was almost immediate, within days and it was just a constant back and forth for the first 6 months - a year (which we basically just hit a year). Back and forth from hoovering to trying to get revenge when I rejected the Hoover. Since we have kids he’d do things like refuse to get the kids unless he can watch them at my house, including when I’m not home, which I didn’t allow. So then he’d just ghost them and told me I was using the kids as a pawn because I wasn’t letting him watch them at my house. That’s how entitled he felt to my space.
That bird could not level me. He knows he will never find another me. I did notice somewhere along the way that he relied on me like someone would rely on their mother. Now, big boy can kick rocks with Flintstone shoes on.
Wow Telsha I can't wrap my mind around how in the world does a man mess up with such a beautiful woman like you? Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us and helping us to heal from narcissistic abuse! Keep it coming lovely Queen! We love you!
@@Breauxmann Same here brother. Had me believing the hype. But, when I cut ties, she obsessed over material things...not the relationship. So glad I went NO CONTACT!
Unfortunately the person I was involved with that caused me misery and pain is no longer here. She passed away all of a sudden a little over a month ago and I must admit I was hoping she would change and not let death catch her in such a precarious position but THE MOST HIGH YAH knows what's best for us all! Peace and love to you all!
I was with my ex wife for 20 years got demonically discarded/duvorce 2 months ago. She started trying to call within 2 weeks of me being gone, went no contact the day i left and am not looking back. Hopes she enjoys the brown grass on the other side of the fence!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Its all very sad. I was a faithful wife for 12 years just to realize he was a complete LIE. Hes been shacked up with his new drinking buddy since May. I grew out of the over consumption of alcohol thankfully. There will be no hoover which is best for me because he intentionally gutted me
@ Lady Virgo O yes he will! A faithful wife of 12 yrs. When you least expect he will try to come back even if it’s too “ see how you’re doing “ To ease his conscience. Wouldn’t you Hoover you ❤️
😂😂😂Yep! I discarded him before we were even anything ‘real’ to me because he was extremely possessive and sexual very quickly. He tried to hoover twice within 4 weeks. I closed that account. Then, he tried again shortly after the 3 month mark. Life is hard enough without being mistreated by a man child!
Nope. My ex narc (and yes he is for sure a narc) hadn't hoovered or said a peep to me. It's been a year and a half. I would argue that I was and will always be his best grade A supply. So..no they don't always hoover. So I'd like to think he regrets what he's with now but Im thinking probably not.
Facts Ms. Telsha. I went no contact on Feb 21st, 2021 , first attempt hoover first week of April. I discarded her. If you don't take heed, what God is showing you. You'll stay forever. 2 years 8 months no contact. Peace Ms. Telsha 💯👊🏿.
Oh my! I was grade a supply uuuugh!!! 2 mths he Hoovered on my birthday. No response then reached out to 2 of my sisters. Reverse discard. Ain’t coming bk over here. 2 yrs to heal from that evil ending
Omg you are on point. I didn't even know it was a hoover. Divorced last year and with in a month in he was coming around. I didn't even know he was a narcissist. Today would have been our 23 anniversary. He came to church but he comes to church almost every Sunday. Sad but I wanted to see him today too. I'm praying for God to break the soul tie . It's hard but I do still love my ex husband. 25yrs is a long time. It's going to take time. But I'm single and celibate. I'm letting go and letting God guide me. I'm not even dating until I'm healed and whole. Thank you for sharing this message today.
😢. I know this feeling. My soon to be x husband cheated on me with a 19 year old. We were high school sweethearts. Together almost 17 years. We both got saved in 2011. We were both Sunday school teachers and he even became a youth pastor. In 2021 he got close to a coworker and it all went down hill after that. He became obsessed with with his body image and one thing let to another he became a total different person . Before getting saved he had cheated so maybe turning to Christ was bandaid to cover the narcissism. It’s soo sad. It left me so devastated,but GOD. I know I will heal and I know that ALL things work together for good to those that love GOD. I am holding onto the LORD to lead and guide me. I pray for you as well.
Love your commentary. As i find out more about this Narc, Im just shocked at the levels that they would go through to harm a person that positively affected every aspect of their lives. They're the weakest Link, bah byeee 👋!!
My ex wife of 20 years is the same, but two weeks after the discard she tried calling and left a fopology, (false apology). Never responded, went no contact since I left 2 months ago and not looking back! Stay encouraged God is able.
I left EX September 2nd after catching him and the "new supply" at the pool in the subdivision we lived in. She was his coworker. For the first two weeks I gave the situation some of my energy, after that I went no contact, blocked him from my FB and phone. On this past Tuesday I saw the new supply riding by my people's house. Today i saw the EX riding up and down my dad's street. I ignored both of them.
Very true! Different phone numbers calling. Flying monkeys trying to see if i'm going to mention them then go back to tell them how i still think about her
Praise the Lord Ms. Telsha and God bless you today. I hope you had a blessed time at your church service this morning. Thank you for sharing your wisdom today! 🙏💯💯💯💎
Yes Ms. Tea, you just keep coming through with the receipts❤ It waa about a month ir less when i got the first hoover. All you've shared on this video is correct. It amazes me that you have been sent to help free narc survivors. Keep working Ms. Lady😊
My EX narc actually told me that he is God and he's ALL thing's good and bad. He told me that when he got shot in his neck, he saved himself. He got so mean when I bought my 1st home.
Yaaaaaas Telsha my ex was just on my TikTok liking my photos and videos, denying my reality and this is why I would never extend a hand of friendship and ooooooweee they are obsessing lmao 😂I feel so good cause I’m healed and I will never 👎 go back to where I suffered so much and I would rather be alone and that was the lesson I needed I am okay being alone and I love love love my solitude and all the things I’ve learned and accepted myself to be. I am an amazing person and I will NEVER open the door!
Right on time sis with this one🎉 I was feeling pretty down today.... And I feel much better after watching this video....❤ Bless your heart and everybody else that's going through this mess. 💔 I pray for our strength & our healing you're very empowering with this message...
Narc tell on themselves from day one in don't even realize I watch in hear very well 😅it's funny as hell watching her the last 4months god bless am happy in striving week by week enjoying London to the fullest with me in my new friend is all women in a great heart ❤
All true . That narcissist had a collapse & a metamorphosis .. bc it sent me a photo . Scary . I did discard first , no contact .. zi failed a Hoover about the sick dog .. but I have stayed away & true
Every time I would question my ex narc on why they treated me the way she did or how she would make me feel , she would take it as a personal attack. It usually ended up with her going silent on me for days , but I believe she knew that things were coming to an end , and when it did , that’s when she broke all hell out on me , and then had the nerve to blame me for the relationship getting ruined.
I was in a 13-year relationship thought I was going to have kids and the family and I thought I was going to get married you know with all the future faking but when the discard finally happened and my UA-cam channel started blowing up I don't even know what it start with the hoovering All I know is it took less than 3 weeks calling my job pretending like she was a doctor a male doctor at that lol It was very sickening I was stuck in disbelief I was like wow I didn't know she was like this thank God I started doing research about narcissism in the midst of everything God gave me strength to get out of that safely 😇
I agree so much with the thrill! I thought about this from my intuition coming that I was one of the reasons 1st he got some of the supplies because of me! (no kidding! He’s even told me about one woman who admires me before I knew he was a cheating …… covert narcissist) 2nd the triangulation breaks away and no one to fool anymore, especially not someone who he’s gotten a lot! of his knowledge from, not to brag or anything. Thx for this wonderful insight of yours 💕🌟🦋🙏🏼
Ex narc illegally evicted me over four years ago, then comes knocking on my door, son tells him to go away and not come back., he comes back, called the police 5 times on him, he stop coming for for one year, came back again., he hasn't come back for a year.. we normally ignore him,
Yes I got that Hoover those few weeks after I stop replying to any text .. that new supply was there too .. bc that new supply busted out couple photos haha on media . I am sure that narc said they were trying to get rid of me .. bc that new supply smile was smiling like she caught a shark on media “ like Finally she got her catch “ 😂😂 . ThNk you T for all your educational video’s & wisdom ❤
He realized how ignorant and messed up this unstable emotion trash out employee. The new supply desire to find a rescue from her dark unstable personal and family situation.
She reckons she met him in November but in December he was talking to me in a fake account but because I can't stand some of his family or his so called mates,he apparently chose her,that is after he had already told me,the year before that I was the only one he was going to be with. DROPOED ,me and our child They were never with the new supply,it was ridiculous revenge on me,both of us haven't really got over it,I have had it with those absolute evil entities.
The mother of my child is KRAZY KRAZY. She popped up @ my dad's house 3x's already. All 3x's I didn't see her for a week all 3x's. The last time that she came it was with her X before me. If I don't do something I can't see my daughter (my only child) I didn't sign the birth certificate because she told me @ the hospital and throughout the relationship ITS WHY I BEEN CHEATING ON YOU. LiL mama (the oldest daughter) daughter told me that MY MOMMA BEEN CHEATING ON YOU, she was 5 ma'am @ the time. She's 9 now. EVERYBODY can see that she using my baby against me except her. I told her that and call her out on her BS ALL THE TIME. She hates that. Her so called mom doesn't like me (I was making her daughter think) and THEY ARE JUST ALIKE. Her words are OH WELL WHATEVER I DON'T CARE. I ask her DO YOU REALLY WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE THAT? She say whatever. All she wants to do is drink and do drugs. I wasn't thinking about it when I met her @ work because she was always telling me that she grown. I'M 41 SHE'S 26. I been through EVERYTHING that you be talking about. She's really disrespectful talked about my father who die also she told me I hope that your mom did like your dad did. I done lost my job (15 yrs) and my place because of her. I quit my 1st job (working two jobs) making $27hr because she convinced me to. I got locked up (only time I been to jail) we physically fight whenever I'm talking to her. I even showed her some of your vids a couple of years ago. I ❤ the fact that I found your channel. I FEEL BAD FOR OUR DAUGHTER. THANK YOU FOR KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM.
The narcissist doesn’t want to love they want fear and worship. They think they are God.
Yes, this is so TRUE!!! My EX narc actually told me that he is God and that when he was shot in his neck, he saved himself. He loved to be praised 🙄
“A narcissist does not want your love. A narcissist wants your worship” Boom!
The narc always thinks we won't ever leave. The breakup was the breakthrough. I have been delivered from the sunken place.
Stop letting these mad individuals play games with you and your life. You are not a toy.. You're a person who deserves dignity, love and respect.
I needed to hear that
Yep i married it - I was best he ever had. I did the discard when I found out he was cheating AGAIN. The back burner is 10 yrs older than me 😂😂- When I found out , they immediately turned on each other - He knew in a few weeks it cost him everything he had with me- he tried calling I changed my number-& moved away- game over. Totally off the grid …
YES!!
You go girl!💯
That's my type of move, I love it!😉💝
@@T_Nice ❤️❤️
Good for you! Working on my exit now! 💪🏾
@@georgiettaoliver7086Me too. Out of bondage.
That’s how you do it! I ❤ it🎉
Yes indeed. It took 3 weeks after. I'm going on 3 years where I made him OWN that discard.
Yessss❤️❤️
I dodge a HUGE BULLET!
So happy he is with the New Supply!
🙏 yes they are confused. They are a complete mess and don’t think anything through. They make ridiculous choices…they make terrible beds for themselves to lie in. But for sure it’s easier for them to dip into old supply rather than get new supplies. Especially if they are getting older and more exhausted.
My GOD took him out of my life! I even had a dream whereby I told him clearly to F OFF! (He would not leave me alone - I was polite about it at first). They drive you to this type of behaviour. I HOPE he is miserable and suffering; I am human. They are such deceitful, chronic liars - children of a different "father". I also hope him and his new/old "supply" are tearing each other apart because he could not triangulate me. That's just immature BS.
I broke up with my narc in March found out he was lieing and cheating on me the whole time we were together..all these months ive been healing and out the blue got a txt from him last Monday saying him hurting me was the biggest mistake he ever made and he misses me so much😳to late sir keep the same energy you had when you cheated on me
Yep! He told me the same literally begging me - didn’t give in changed my number.
Omg! I walked away because I found out he had 'new supply' (I had been distant) and he started calling me the next day and has never stopped hoovering. I had to block him on everything. Just got a hoover email 2 days ago. I ignore; it's been 9 months. I did talk to him once after the first 3 months of no contact, only because he would not stop and he had his kid's mom contacting me, (he used to triangulate us). Boy oh boy, he messed up. Now he's stuck with the person that he thought he would use to get me to chase him. He THOUGHT I was never gonna go anywhere.
He thought wrong and I'm so proud of you! Continue to stand in your power! 💪🙌✨️
That’s key!!!! They think YOU will never get over them bc they put IT on you so well. Puhleeze. Good thing we ain’t stupid. We may be passionate about loving someone but we ain’t stupid.
He always used to say, 'You think you're perfect. You think you're better than everyone else!' I absolutely do not. Projection? Or how he actually felt about me?
Yep that was projecting
to the best of my knowledge.......even a mad person would avoid a viper .
Love this woman so helpfull
Yes they try to bring you down! Mine told me I needed to visit the gym! I said- do WE need to join! He doubled down trying to body shame me…that’s when I knew!
I Gawwdda Goww…when I was down he loved it! When I was confident he was salty! I finally put it together…and got gone! Thank you Lord!
Every single time I got good news or something good happened in my life, my EX narc used to find a reason to break up with me. It got worse when I bought my home. He got mean as hell when I bought my house.
Let's not be friends,I am good!!😅😊😂🎉
I told narc last Saturday. I know who he was. Told him about all the lies and gave proof. And DISGARDED HIS ASS. I LET HIM HAVE IT, I tore him apart because I know all about NPD NOW. It was a 2 month whatever ship. Hot ass mess. My god. I hope to never see him again.
Exactly. That's why, a few weeks after I discarded her, she asked me to at least stay as "friends". Surely, I erased her off of my life for good.
My husband tried that "friend" crap too😈 no thanks, I don't need friends that lie,cheat, back stab
@@ladyvirgo013 Absolutely 💪
I FELL FOR THAT LIE AFTER YEARS OF FUTURE FAKING. GOD EXPOSED SATAN AND HIS INCEST WAYS.
@@ladyvirgo013that part, my ex wife tried that friend nonsense, nope I'm good.
A narcissist always wants what they can't have! That is nothing but the truth
I spoke softly when I said the only difference between a narc and a psychopath is that a narc needs people (fuel) and a psychopath does not. I hope he felt that to his core.
What a word! Lies, lies, and more lies he's been gone almost 4 months.
He Definitely Trying To Get Back In Acting So Caring And Holy Its Not Gonna Work This Time 😂
Yep! She called and reminisced how I would have her bath water run when she got off from work, or how I helped her with issues at her job and her new supply has bad breath and body odor (told to her by his co-workers), cheats on her constantly, is not liked by her family and her grand daughter said he creeps her out. Yet, she still says it's my fault. That's why I am re-enforcing NO CONTACT!
Why would you be friends with a Viper????🔥🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂
lol
My narc wanted to be friends, I said “no we are not, that’s part of why we breaking up cuz you are not a good friend”
“I can help you find a replacement and show them how to take care of you, they won’t be me 😂 lol but that’s the best I can do haha” me in the picture won’t help you move on
I’ll give you a little detox off me then it’s goodbye forever 😆
I said all this and did just that
Forever Discard, let’s just say she didn take it too well
🤷🏾♂️ oh well
If only yall knew the rollercoaster of an engagement I had smh, I have a forever fan now and periodic Hoovers like clockwork
Luckily I move unpredictably and remain very far out of reach unless I want to be, not everyone dealing with Narcs have that luxury. But absolutely agree FRIENDSHIP aftermath is NEVER an option
This is so true. I saw him spying around my house only 4 weeks after he discarded me and after that I received 3 letters in my mailbox and the random unknown calls so I had my number changed.
They already know but pretend to be so shocked and appalled and then go in a rage where you have to hold on for dear life to get through it.
He hoovered me after a year. But the discard was cruel and sadistic, so he figured I was soooo broken down still. He was someone that I knew from high school , we reconnected in our early 40's , I always loved him, I told him initially last year that I waited for him for almost 30 years and I'll wait for him forever.lmao. shouldn't have said that. Then upon our 6 month reunion phase, he discarded me in a very inhumane way. So he figured I'd be around whenever. Wrong , I figured him out. And have heard from multiple sources he is a player, evil. And has multiple kids with multiple women. So he hoovered me recently And I declined the offer..
Congratulations!!!
I'm so proud of you!
Did you know he had multiple kids with multiple women when you told him you would wait forever? That’s a deep trauma bond to break huh?! 🤔
They wish they could be a player ! 😊😅😂
It's been 4 months, no hoover...I feel great, and peaceful
you are just grounded on this subject .......honestly .
Like another relationship coach said,its all about bed,bath,car,and money.10 years was all about nothing,just an allusion.
Once the healing takes hold, hindsight becomes 20/20. Several incidents and episodes that caused so much confusion all connect to the final explosive discard. Then the hoover (after shacking up with the new supply) confirms all suspicions and exposes all. I can even see the new supply is likely carbon copy of a previous situationship that landed him in jail. I surmise he's gone full circle to hopefully reach the ultimate judgement. Revelations and confirmations - God does reveal it all and all praise to Him for showing me the Truth.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THAT, PHONE IS LOW ON POWER. YOU TALK LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH HELL BUT SEE GOD'S HAND KEEPING YOU TOGETHER. ITS NOT A DISORDER, ITS SATAN!!!! GOD IS AWESOME. LOVED THE REVELATION AND CONFIRMATION. STAY WITH YOUR BIBLE. THESE DEMONS ARE COWARDS, COVERT ONES ARE THE WORST!!!!!
Telsha, it took that narcissist one week to come back and hoover me.
The new supplies are victims too! I was his new supply. The relationship almost broke me. Still trying to heal from the trauma. I walked away never looked back after I found out who/what I was dealing with. He asked us to be friends but I declined. My life is too precious to waste it with a narcissist.
After I discarded those “angry rage” Hoover voice messages came ! Delete delete , delete .. BLOCKED lol 😂 they ain’t happy they are miserable!!
Onother thing about cheating is that the person you cheated with never trust and invest to you,and never wants you after things went down with your original partner,no one wants a cheater ,soon things goes down the new supplier finds out the main supply is no longer in the picture
She stayed even after the truth came out. Some of them aren't bright.
Oh the hoovering was sooner than 4-6 weeks. It was almost immediate, within days and it was just a constant back and forth for the first 6 months - a year (which we basically just hit a year). Back and forth from hoovering to trying to get revenge when I rejected the Hoover.
Since we have kids he’d do things like refuse to get the kids unless he can watch them at my house, including when I’m not home, which I didn’t allow. So then he’d just ghost them and told me I was using the kids as a pawn because I wasn’t letting him watch them at my house. That’s how entitled he felt to my space.
That bird could not level me. He knows he will never find another me. I did notice somewhere along the way that he relied on me like someone would rely on their mother. Now, big boy can kick rocks with Flintstone shoes on.
Me too! I said I am not your mother! Yep, they sure can go kick rocks like the Flinstones LOL!
Facts
Wow Telsha I can't wrap my mind around how in the world does a man mess up with such a beautiful woman like you? Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us and helping us to heal from narcissistic abuse! Keep it coming lovely Queen! We love you!
Lol that’s the same thing ppl said to the narc I married- they couldn’t believe he destroyed everything with me. Foolish foolish.. 😂
I think, broken, insecure men like to punish beautiful women Because they get so much attention
My girl had a good thing going. Grade A all day. But dem demons had her believing lies like nobody’s business. SMH
@@Breauxmann Same here brother. Had me believing the hype. But, when I cut ties, she obsessed over material things...not the relationship. So glad I went NO CONTACT!
Unfortunately the person I was involved with that caused me misery and pain is no longer here. She passed away all of a sudden a little over a month ago and I must admit I was hoping she would change and not let death catch her in such a precarious position but THE MOST HIGH YAH knows what's best for us all! Peace and love to you all!
I was with my ex wife for 20 years got demonically discarded/duvorce 2 months ago. She started trying to call within 2 weeks of me being gone, went no contact the day i left and am not looking back. Hopes she enjoys the brown grass on the other side of the fence!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She discarded you?
Its all very sad. I was a faithful wife for 12 years just to realize he was a complete LIE. Hes been shacked up with his new drinking buddy since May. I grew out of the over consumption of alcohol thankfully. There will be no hoover which is best for me because he intentionally gutted me
@ Lady Virgo
O yes he will! A faithful wife of 12 yrs. When you least expect he will try to come back even if it’s too “ see how you’re doing “
To ease his conscience.
Wouldn’t you Hoover you ❤️
@@browneyes9507 they are definitely impulsive creatures
It’s not always enough to leave - gotta bring the bridges and cut the ties too.
That’s the truth I left and shut the door and don’t care about the hovering God is my all 😊
😂😂😂Yep! I discarded him before we were even anything ‘real’ to me because he was extremely possessive and sexual very quickly. He tried to hoover twice within 4 weeks. I closed that account. Then, he tried again shortly after the 3 month mark. Life is hard enough without being mistreated by a man child!
Door slam to the face 💯
The Devil is a lie...
U cold 🥶 with breaking it down
It must be exhausting being a narcissist 😂
Nope. My ex narc (and yes he is for sure a narc) hadn't hoovered or said a peep to me. It's been a year and a half. I would argue that I was and will always be his best grade A supply. So..no they don't always hoover. So I'd like to think he regrets what he's with now but Im thinking probably not.
Day two of discarding him…. All my shoulder pain back pain has disappeared, thought I needed surgery or sump. Smh , be with me Jesus 🙏🏿.
Facts Ms. Telsha. I went no contact on Feb 21st, 2021 , first attempt hoover first week of April. I discarded her. If you don't take heed, what God is showing you. You'll stay forever. 2 years 8 months no contact. Peace Ms. Telsha 💯👊🏿.
Oh my! I was grade a supply uuuugh!!! 2 mths he Hoovered on my birthday. No response then reached out to 2 of my sisters. Reverse discard. Ain’t coming bk over here. 2 yrs to heal from that evil ending
That is the truth and nothing but the truth ....
Hoovered attempt within a week!
Omg you are on point. I didn't even know it was a hoover. Divorced last year and with in a month in he was coming around. I didn't even know he was a narcissist. Today would have been our 23 anniversary. He came to church but he comes to church almost every Sunday. Sad but I wanted to see him today too. I'm praying for God to break the soul tie . It's hard but I do still love my ex husband. 25yrs is a long time. It's going to take time. But I'm single and celibate. I'm letting go and letting God guide me. I'm not even dating until I'm healed and whole. Thank you for sharing this message today.
😢. I know this feeling. My soon to be x husband cheated on me with a 19 year old. We were high school sweethearts. Together almost 17 years. We both got saved in 2011. We were both Sunday school teachers and he even became a youth pastor. In 2021 he got close to a coworker and it all went down hill after that. He became obsessed with with his body image and one thing let to another he became a total different person . Before getting saved he had cheated so maybe turning to Christ was bandaid to cover the narcissism. It’s soo sad. It left me so devastated,but GOD. I know I will heal and I know that ALL things work together for good to those that love GOD. I am holding onto the LORD to lead and guide me. I pray for you as well.
@@yourstruly8417I recognize this cycle oh so well! I’m sending care and hugs …giving what I need!
❤ u Telsha. God bless you. Blessings and peace to all those dealing with these devils
God is good. We win.
Love your commentary. As i find out more about this Narc, Im just shocked at the levels that they would go through to harm a person that positively affected every aspect of their lives. They're the weakest Link, bah byeee 👋!!
Her pride and ego will never allow her to admit it. Instead, she'll continue to do things to make it as if she doesn't care.
My ex wife of 20 years is the same, but two weeks after the discard she tried calling and left a fopology, (false apology). Never responded, went no contact since I left 2 months ago and not looking back! Stay encouraged God is able.
I left EX September 2nd after catching him and the "new supply" at the pool in the subdivision we lived in. She was his coworker. For the first two weeks I gave the situation some of my energy, after that I went no contact, blocked him from my FB and phone. On this past Tuesday I saw the new supply riding by my people's house. Today i saw the EX riding up and down my dad's street. I ignored both of them.
Amen ! Amen! Amen! I love that you call it the most wanted list. All truth
He’s discarded and enjoying the Block Party. 🎈 🎊 😊
Very true! Different phone numbers calling. Flying monkeys trying to see if i'm going to mention them then go back to tell them how i still think about her
Praise the Lord Ms. Telsha and God bless you today. I hope you had a blessed time at your church service this morning. Thank you for sharing your wisdom today! 🙏💯💯💯💎
Yup you are so true he was at my door for hours saying he miss me, it’s no one he can argue with anymore smh etc
Yes Ms. Tea, you just keep coming through with the receipts❤
It waa about a month ir less when i got the first hoover. All you've shared on this video is correct. It amazes me that you have been sent to help free narc survivors. Keep working Ms. Lady😊
I got hoovering as soon as the disgard happened within a week and have consistently for about 6 months now
My EX narc actually told me that he is God and he's ALL thing's good and bad. He told me that when he got shot in his neck, he saved himself. He got so mean when I bought my 1st home.
They really ARE Krazy......Want No Parts of Them People, may he rest in misery❤
RIP may he rest in PISS.
TTTTT this word is right on time for me this evening.. IM TALKING DOWN TO THE SEC😮…. TY.. watching it AGAIN!! ❤
looking like a beautiful bride, Telsha. 💯
Thank you for your insight and your clarity 😊
Wow! You're teaching now Sis!!🌹❤️
. victimasing. Manipulative. Disonest. Verry. ❤❤ much love everyone no hard feelings.
Yaaaaaas Telsha my ex was just on my TikTok liking my photos and videos, denying my reality and this is why I would never extend a hand of friendship and ooooooweee they are obsessing lmao 😂I feel so good cause I’m healed and I will never 👎 go back to where I suffered so much and I would rather be alone and that was the lesson I needed I am okay being alone and I love love love my solitude and all the things I’ve learned and accepted myself to be. I am an amazing person and I will NEVER open the door!
Shalom Sistah! Thanks for the good valuable info.
Wow.. this is one of your best videos you made… this describes everything I went through with my ex Narc
Right on time sis with this one🎉 I was feeling pretty down today.... And I feel much better after watching this video....❤
Bless your heart and everybody else that's going through this mess. 💔 I pray for our strength & our healing you're very empowering with this message...
THAT BIRD CALLS THEM AQUAINTANCES. YEAH, THE devil IS A LIE. TEACH QUEEN TEACH.
Narc tell on themselves from day one in don't even realize I watch in hear very well 😅it's funny as hell watching her the last 4months god bless am happy in striving week by week enjoying London to the fullest with me in my new friend is all women in a great heart ❤
I was truly proud of being the one who got away and forever from a sick demonic narcissist
All true . That narcissist had a collapse & a metamorphosis .. bc it sent me a photo . Scary . I did discard first , no contact .. zi failed a Hoover about the sick dog .. but I have stayed away & true
Love you and Zion great messages.❤
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Your makeup looks so pretty ❤
Every time I would question my ex narc on why they treated me the way she did or how she would make me feel , she would take it as a personal attack. It usually ended up with her going silent on me for days , but I believe she knew that things were coming to an end , and when it did , that’s when she broke all hell out on me , and then had the nerve to blame me for the relationship getting ruined.
I was in a 13-year relationship thought I was going to have kids and the family and I thought I was going to get married you know with all the future faking but when the discard finally happened and my UA-cam channel started blowing up I don't even know what it start with the hoovering All I know is it took less than 3 weeks calling my job pretending like she was a doctor a male doctor at that lol It was very sickening I was stuck in disbelief I was like wow I didn't know she was like this thank God I started doing research about narcissism in the midst of everything God gave me strength to get out of that safely 😇
It’s a game to them until that ass get hurt playing. Already I saw it happen. The going git back!
Your so funny , I love your personality as well ❤
Wow!!!! never will it be my worship. 😂
Man, i dropped off my son and wow. that place looks like a scrapyard. peace I'm out
I agree so much with the thrill! I thought about this from my intuition coming that I was one of the reasons 1st he got some of the supplies because of me! (no kidding! He’s even told me about one woman who admires me before I knew he was a cheating …… covert narcissist) 2nd the triangulation breaks away and no one to fool anymore, especially not someone who he’s gotten a lot! of his knowledge from, not to brag or anything. Thx for this wonderful insight of yours 💕🌟🦋🙏🏼
She will never run after me
Ex narc illegally evicted me over four years ago, then comes knocking on my door, son tells him to go away and not come back., he comes back, called the police 5 times on him, he stop coming for for one year, came back again., he hasn't come back for a year.. we normally ignore him,
The narcissist reminds me of the black widow great message praying 🙏 ❤❤
Yes I got that Hoover those few weeks after I stop replying to any text .. that new supply was there too .. bc that new supply busted out couple photos haha on media . I am sure that narc said they were trying to get rid of me .. bc that new supply smile was smiling like she caught a shark on media “ like Finally she got her catch “ 😂😂 . ThNk you T for all your educational video’s & wisdom ❤
Straight Facts, Birds 😂Messed all the way up 😂
He realized how ignorant and messed up this unstable emotion trash out employee. The new supply desire to find a rescue from her dark unstable personal and family situation.
She reckons she met him in November but in December he was talking to me in a fake account but because I can't stand some of his family or his so called mates,he apparently chose her,that is after he had already told me,the year before that I was the only one he was going to be with. DROPOED ,me and our child They were never with the new supply,it was ridiculous revenge on me,both of us haven't really got over it,I have had it with those absolute evil entities.
yes 5wks to call me crying they made a mistake
The mother of my child is KRAZY KRAZY. She popped up @ my dad's house 3x's already. All 3x's I didn't see her for a week all 3x's. The last time that she came it was with her X before me. If I don't do something I can't see my daughter (my only child) I didn't sign the birth certificate because she told me @ the hospital and throughout the relationship ITS WHY I BEEN CHEATING ON YOU. LiL mama (the oldest daughter) daughter told me that MY MOMMA BEEN CHEATING ON YOU, she was 5 ma'am @ the time. She's 9 now. EVERYBODY can see that she using my baby against me except her. I told her that and call her out on her BS ALL THE TIME. She hates that. Her so called mom doesn't like me (I was making her daughter think) and THEY ARE JUST ALIKE. Her words are OH WELL WHATEVER I DON'T CARE. I ask her DO YOU REALLY WANT TO LIVE YOUR LIFE LIKE THAT? She say whatever. All she wants to do is drink and do drugs.
I wasn't thinking about it when I met her @ work because she was always telling me that she grown. I'M 41 SHE'S 26. I been through EVERYTHING that you be talking about. She's really disrespectful talked about my father who die also she told me I hope that your mom did like your dad did. I done lost my job (15 yrs) and my place because of her. I quit my 1st job (working two jobs) making $27hr because she convinced me to. I got locked up (only time I been to jail) we physically fight whenever I'm talking to her. I even showed her some of your vids a couple of years ago. I ❤ the fact that I found your channel. I FEEL BAD FOR OUR DAUGHTER. THANK YOU FOR KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM.