Bro, you have got the solitude face where there is calm, peace and happiness. It's the fruit of retention for a long time. I think once you relapsed doesn't make you look worse. I believe you can go far and you are able to control yourself by using your free will properly and not let the ego open the door until you reach your dreams and get the right partner that God sends to you...,👍👍 I am standing with you...
Ah. The guitars are nicely placed. Again. Shows how much you value them! If you transcribe all your videos, you will see that you are writing a book with each upload. Keep ‘em coming! You are a natural storyteller.
Thank you brother. Such a nice comment to wake up to. And yes, the guitars mean a lot indeed. I have to play you a little something in a future video 😊
It's a personal journey brother. The right answer you have to find for yourself by trial and error. For me I try to go for long periods of total abstinence to focus on other endeavours. That's means no sex, fantasizing or pmo. But in the future I want to be in a relationship again. But maybe ask yourself why you want sex? Is it just to feel good or is to connect to another human being? If your answer is just to feel good then it will be hard for you to separate sex from fapping, because fapping is only to make you feel good. Sex on the other hand has the potential to be very healing with a partner you truly love. Do you see the difference? If sex is simply emotionless mutual masturbation with a random person, then that may also be escapism which will give the same negative effects as fapping. So it's an internal journey. What do want in life brother? Marriage and kids? A partner who understands you on a deep level and doesn't tie you down? A single life where all you efforts and energy are put into carreer building? Becoming an elite athlete. When you can answer these things and commit to your goals, sex and fapping for pleasure will be as important anymore. It will be a side thing. Hope that helps. Cheers!
Bro, you have got the solitude face where there is calm, peace and happiness. It's the fruit of retention for a long time. I think once you relapsed doesn't make you look worse. I believe you can go far and you are able to control yourself by using your free will properly and not let the ego open the door until you reach your dreams and get the right partner that God sends to you...,👍👍 I am standing with you...
Thanks bro. Your comment put a tear on my face ❤️
Ah. The guitars are nicely placed. Again. Shows how much you value them! If you transcribe all your videos, you will see that you are writing a book with each upload. Keep ‘em coming! You are a natural storyteller.
Thank you brother. Such a nice comment to wake up to.
And yes, the guitars mean a lot indeed. I have to play you a little something in a future video 😊
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Hang in there🍷
What about nofap vs having sex? I can have sex, but I want to get rid of fap...
It's a personal journey brother. The right answer you have to find for yourself by trial and error.
For me I try to go for long periods of total abstinence to focus on other endeavours. That's means no sex, fantasizing or pmo.
But in the future I want to be in a relationship again.
But maybe ask yourself why you want sex? Is it just to feel good or is to connect to another human being? If your answer is just to feel good then it will be hard for you to separate sex from fapping, because fapping is only to make you feel good. Sex on the other hand has the potential to be very healing with a partner you truly love. Do you see the difference?
If sex is simply emotionless mutual masturbation with a random person, then that may also be escapism which will give the same negative effects as fapping.
So it's an internal journey. What do want in life brother? Marriage and kids? A partner who understands you on a deep level and doesn't tie you down? A single life where all you efforts and energy are put into carreer building? Becoming an elite athlete.
When you can answer these things and commit to your goals, sex and fapping for pleasure will be as important anymore. It will be a side thing.
Hope that helps.
Cheers!
Heey, how old are you?
29 :)
Now started or not bro?
Started what brother?
@@EmilIllum thanks for reply bro I asking nofap bro
@@delightfulmusic9168 Yes, I'm always on it.
@@EmilIllumsuper bro keepbgoing
@@EmilIllumbro I am now going 129 your highest streak which bro?