The Simple Hack To Make The Best Decision | Mel Robbins
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- Опубліковано 10 лип 2024
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Struggle with making decisions? Or is there a big choice that's keeping you up at night?
Today, I want to hand you a proven way to make better decisions. I'm going to teach you all about the power of objectivity.
It's usually easy for us to give advice to others. Without having a direct emotional tie, the decision-making process can be clear. And research backs this up-we make better decisions for others than we do for ourselves!
The solution? Take an objective, zoomed-out, third-party stance on the decision at hand.
Today, I'm asking "What can Mel do that's best for Mel?" and I want you to do the same.
Let me know in the comments how the power of objectivity can help you can view a current decision through a different lens.
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I did this recently. I wanted to move but was worried about my brother. Then I thought to myself, what would my brother do if he had this opportunity. And guess what. He was already thinking about moving himself and not worrying about me. So I’m moving in a couple of months. Thanks Mel ❤️❤️❤️
i love these rather short, but straight-forward advice videos! no fancy editing, no BS. that's the kind of content i like to watch and produce myself. keep it up, Mel! 🔥
Wolkify Agreed!
CPTSD makes decision making so hard because we don’t trust ourselves. My gosh that’s such a great tip. Saying your own name aloud like that is way better than saying ‘I need to do what is best for me’. Slam dunks it right home. Thank you Mel 🖐️
I literally discovered this by myself naturally over the years. These days when I am freaking out over something or have a problem, I look at it like it's not mine and think of how to tackle it as an outsider. Because yup, we are all amazing advice givers, but suck at following our own talk lol
YorozuyaNeesan2010 that’s fantastic!!
Mel Robbins Thanks Mel! :D
Spiritually I say what would Jesus do??? Love your enemies forgiveness helps us move forward keeps us from getting stuck and being unsuccessful
Decision making-the thing I struggle the most in my life! thank You Mel!
It is important to take the advice you give others, that is what I tell myself when I have to make an important decision
Wow another amazing piece of content!! Thank you for always putting out such valuable content all the time, you are awesome!!❤️🌻🌞
So true. What is needed next is your video on being OK with disappointing other people.
So I was struggling with a pretty stupid decision, and the first 10 seconds of your videos literally just solved it
Yes! I often find that other people see more in me than I see in my self. So while I'm dithering about whether or not I can or should do something, a true friend will say YOU CAN ABSOLUTELY DO THIS! And I believe them. But if I have no one on my side, FEAR tends to keep me stagnant.
This info is like finding a gold nugget. Small bit of info, yet it’s so impactful and can be life changing. 👌🏾
Been following Mel for a couple years since her TED Talk. Her energy and enthusiasm for helping people is tangible. But this piece of advice is so profound. I'm going to implement the power of objectivity TODAY! Thank you for all your incredible videos Mel. I LOVE THIS! SO POWERFUL!
I learnt to really take objective decision in the last six months. This changed my life!
I watched three of your videos in a row. Short and clear. And after worrying for 2 weeks.. I already feel better and more confident about it, thank you
Thanks for this Mel. Sometimes the smallest ways of tackling the big stuff is the most impactful. I went self employed this year after being in employed work for over 15 years and I had 2 elements holding me back, fear of failure and the what if’s. I used this along with other techniques you have given in your blogs and posts inc your book and all I simply want to say is THANKYOU!
Mel Robbin is the only motivator i subscribed to because she's so practical💯
Hi Mel, thanks for sharing so much with us...My challenge is to watch a video (of you) each day this month . I love these short videos actually and I watch even 2 or 3 per day! You're fantastic! I am grateful!
You are motherly figure to me thank you sharing your precious wisdom with us.thank you☺️
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So clear and bright! It’s always an evidence to decide for others but when it comes to us we have muddled ideas and not so sure concerning our choices! Thank you so much for your good sense!
I needed this, this morning! Thanks Mel, and in case no one has told you today...I love you too!!
I am VERY willing to watch these short messages!! Thank you!
Absolutely loved this piece! It is so difficult to not get emotional about a decision, especially about how it will impact how other people feel.
I love it. I just did what was best for me last night. Sticking up for myself felt so good.
Your short videos are so inspiring and to the point, thank you thank you
thank you so much Mel Robbins your hacks are incredibly simple but effective as a big bucket full of cold water which makes anyone wake up. I'm so grateful for what you continuously share. Someday I would love to meet you, you are the kind of frienship everyone would love to have.
That is how I think mel. Dont think of the end goal state but rather think from the end goal state. Thanks for posting
This is life changing advice. The video deserves to be higher up in the UA-cam algorithm today. Thank you for the impact you make.
Yes...that is the problem with most decisions. The heart gets in the way all the time. Great video Mel...i 💗 watching them.
Great video, Mel! I use to make wrong decisions that some affects the way I look at things. After realizing that sometimes we make decisions that aren't smart enough, I stayed focused and determined. I started planning and making sure that everything is thought of. My online business helped me in so many ways in decision making and now I appreciate a lot of things more than before.
A simple concept that provides a practical, useful technique that can be put to immediate use. Thank you, Mel.
I have heard of and tried many other decision makeing tips but have never heard of this one. I think it's good enough to try. Thanks, Mel!
WOW this is the message I needed to hear today !
Always go within and there is the answer and nothing comes from without. Lol thank you for reminding me how much I admire me.
I swear I have learned so much from you. ❤❤❤
Love you, Mel. Thank you for this!
Really appreciate your content. Thank you, Mel!
LOVE THIS! I needed this kick in the pants...Thank you so much, Mel!
This really helped me! I just had to make a decision a couple of days ago that was what was best for me. I felt like a load of rocks had been lifted off of me.
I’ve been thinking about how I’m going to tell my boss / upper management that I’m changing careers and I kept thinking about how it was going to impact them due to my “whisper from the universe” telling me its time for a change. I was nervous all day today! Now, I’m going to 5,4,3,2,1.... & do it!
Thank you Mel, thank you, thank you, thank you!
Did you follow through?
I've also learned this recently when I encountered difficult times. What's weird is it seems that negative emotions truly hinder our ability to make critical decisions in life. Specifically anger, sadness, fear, etc play a role and not everyone is aware of it. Turning emotions off and analyzing whats the best decision in every situation is a skill needed to be learned by everyone.
Mel, this is a very helpful video. With all the things I have on my shoulders, I am afraid to make wrong decisions. Managing my online business and to be an affiliate marketer at the same time, my busy schedule in the evening before I sleep, I tend to think a lot about what decisions I need to make for the benefit of my career, business, and most importantly my self. This certainly helped me today to realize a lot of things. Thanks for sharing this amazing video!
Thank you. This is incredibly powerful. Thank you !!
Treat Yourself Like A Friend! Really Think About And Do What's Best For You! I Was Just Telling A Friend To Do This For Herself The Other Day! (And I Will Share This With Yet Another Friend Today!) Thanks, Mel! I Love You!🤗
PS. Loving You Without The Glasses! (Loved You With Them, Too!)
I needed this so badly. Thank you Mel
God bless you, Mel ! You're great !
Btw, looking marvelous! Love the hair and makeup!! And CANNOT WAIT to get my new Mel Robbins, 5 Second Planner!!! It’ll be here Friday! I wish Amazon had next day shipping!!
I've got my 5-second journal and use it everyday, I love it, it looks as though there's enough space for six months, will order another one later in the year!
Loved it...thank you xoxo
WWMD! Love ya Mel! Keep up the great videos!!
You are amazing Mel. I know that's your job right? I watched this at a very important fork in the road for me and your hack has given me a way to get the perspective I need to decide what is best for me. I am one of your 841K subscribers and right now I feel justified in being that subscriber. Thanks for deciding to make this video! You tell it like it is and I wouldn't have it any other way. ❤
Awesome ! I often use "what would Buffy do ?"
And it ends with me, kicking asses metaphorically and physically, and being a kind of "5 second rule" girl !
Although she doesn't help to decide professional matters ...
Great video as always 😍😍😍
I love this woman.
Honestly, where would I be without Mel?!
OMG this puts everything into perpective. Thank you!
love you ! Thank you !
Mel , your video is really Basic for everybody, I totally agree with what you say. big thank u!
Oh I love this! Thank you for the tip 🤗
Spot on super helpful. Thank you.
Thank you for making this video. I tried the method you mentioned of making a decision for a friend or someone I admire, and I came up with the answer immediately (and it was a hard one!). I'm going to use this method from now on. Because it makes sense - if you would do what's best for someone else, why not do the same for you, even if it seems to be the harder choice? It's the best for you.
Holy...I think I needed this today.
Just what i needed to hear today. 🙌🏼
This is good to practice! Thank you for sharing! Have a great day!
this is gold - thanks!
Such an empowering perspective, I will start using it,have a good day Mel***
I LOVE YOU MEL!
Needed that video to know if I should end my relationship with this girl or not. Now I got the answer, thank you so much.
amazing, thank you Mel!
Thank you man it helped me a lot. I am very grateful for you🙏❤
Thank you Mel!
Thanks and lookin' good, Mel!
hi Mel
just wanted to thank you for the 5 sec rule book.
i got the audio book some time back and i loooooove it.
i was just like where have you been my life long :D :D huge big thank you
Claire Willow needs to do what's best for Claire Willow :) felt good to write that out. Thank you Mel Robbins!
I do this all the time. Not that easy to pick this up in the beginning. With time you get used to it...
Amazing advice Mel, it really helps,thanks
Thank You Mel ❤️
Thank you for this. ❤️
Ah I think we needed special Mom classes for this one! Great ideas. I do struggle with prioritizing my purpose over others feelings.
Can someone please appreciate how amazing Mel looks😍
Awesome! I do this for my friends; I ask them, If the situation were reversed, how would you advise me? And leave it up to them, whether they take their own advice or not. Time to take that one step further & ask it of myself. Thanks Mel & much Love
khanehdiangurl Love that!!!
You're a must for humanity
Very insightful👍👍👍Thanks mel!
Well said Mel Robbins!
That was a very valuable advice. I am learning a lot from watching your videos @Mel Robbins. Lots of love from India 🤗
Literally needed this advise 😊👍👍 thanku
Wowww thanks Mel that's powerful
great advice, i actually tried this hack earlier and found it useful
love love
Excellent, thank Mel
Mel,ur really awesome. Each time i see ur video,i feel so fascinated. Ur one of my favorite mentors and I'm really grateful for everything u taught me.
Thank you so much Mel😊❤
#The5SecondRule is always the best choice😉😉
Excellent advice!!! 💖💗♥️✨💖💗🌺✨♥️
BRILLIANT!!! thank you
Great advice! Make-up and hair are on point!
Trully significant, so great Mr.
Thank you , so wise and truthful👌👌👌👍
Thank you for this amazing video
I needed this. I really really needed this. Thank you!!
Theresa Robinson,I love seeing your beautiful face 💓💓❤🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you I need to share this asap🙏🏼
Another great video ! Now, here is a good decision Mel could take : " I'm going to forget my eyeglasses more often because I am looking pretty good without them" ! ;-)
Thank you so much
I appreciate it thnx mel 💜😍
Great tip Mel! I will give that a try!
great advise as always!