HOT TOPIC| I am stuck with two unwanted children in this marriage

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  • Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
  • Hi Kvg hi 326 Express I’m a lady aged 29yrs old married to my husband who is 33yrs old. Ndakaroorwa ndiine mwana mumwe chete ndakamitiswa at 22yrs old.When I got married mwana aigara na mhamha and I had two kids with my husband. Things got really hard for me when I lost my job mhamha had to go back kunogara kumusha since I was fully supporting her…so I begged my husband kuti titore mwana since from the beginning he Said mwana ngaande kwa Gogo or baba vake…He has been taking care of my daughter ever since baba ve mwana is out of the country and not contributing kana chii…My hot topic is I am 2 months pregnant it was unplanned and my husband is not happy he said we should terminate because I’m already overwhelmed taking care of you our kids and mwana wako…I considered it after ndaiswa mu corner but being a mother I decided that I am keeping my child so ndakavaudza and he said then mwana wako ngaadzokere kumusha kuna mhamha because nhumbu inodhura mwana paachauya ane ma expenses akewo. I pleaded with him kuti mwana asayende and he said make up your mind Mimba or mwana wako…Zvino kana ndimiwo I want both… my daughter kumusha haakure zvakanaka I have to protect my child. I have tried talking to him but haasi kutoda ini wacho I am selling Avon products it’s not even enough nyangwe ndikati nditange hupenyu ndega and ndinenge ndakutora nevamwe two ava ndotangira payi...Mumba hamusi kugarika now KVG, I am stuck with two unwanted children in this marriage my daughter and unborn child. I need your help Vedare…
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 17

  • @zvikomboreromapfumo972
    @zvikomboreromapfumo972 3 місяці тому +5

    Ini ndango muudza kuti ,mira ndizvare mwana wozouraya iwewew

  • @nontandochibi6909
    @nontandochibi6909 2 місяці тому +2

    Mmm guys but the guy was open enough kuti he cannot stay nemwana we umwe murume, if he lies then ends up abusing that kid anenge ayipa futi. No guys we all have different capacities. Why is the man the only one required to sacrifice. Chinonzi family planning hakusi kumwa mapiritsi, kuronga kuti toda vangani uye what quality of life do we want. Sacrifice kudiii thats why women are in a mess we just expect miracles to raise our kids yet we need to plan.

  • @cm9896
    @cm9896 3 місяці тому +1

    Nhamo hayiuraye inowondesa chete. Take yr child with you. Vake avo murume should maintain the children according to law

  • @kundy32
    @kundy32 3 місяці тому +1

    The first caller haana nyaya, kana mwana azvarwa then what? Hope that he will change his mind?

  • @junemareya9172
    @junemareya9172 3 місяці тому

    How do you get pregnant by mistake in this day and age? And when you got married you knew kuti murume didnt want kugara nemwana wako and you were okay with it why is it an issue now? Send her back kumusha. I disagree with thr abortion part of things but everything else bho. Harisi firimu iri sisi, where he says dont worry babe everything will be okau and then poof by some miracle things work thmselves out. Things are tough out there, people are dying of hunger,.men are commiting suicide cause they feel inadequate zvinhu zvichiramba kubalancer. Instead of blaming your husband take responsibility for your part in this mess. Apologise to your husband humbly cause you control your womb. Pacify him and work from there.

  • @MercyDzvairo-mo4ct
    @MercyDzvairo-mo4ct 3 місяці тому +1

    Mama vemaTHEN avo hmmmmmmmm mosiya munhu mudambudziko

  • @kundy32
    @kundy32 3 місяці тому +1

    I think people are being unfair on the husband. Talking about sacrifice and compromise, being considerate ko iyewo

    • @nontandochibi6909
      @nontandochibi6909 2 місяці тому +1

      Nhai nhai, I'm a woman but I actually agree with the hubby

    • @kundy32
      @kundy32 2 місяці тому

      @@nontandochibi6909 zviri one sided

  • @carolinegatsi9998
    @carolinegatsi9998 3 місяці тому

    I wonder kuti mwana uyo anonyanyodya chikafu chakawanda sei😢😮

  • @annamwase4938
    @annamwase4938 3 місяці тому

    Sisi vachafa ne BP chete

  • @youngcharumbira7564
    @youngcharumbira7564 3 місяці тому +1

    Murume uyu is not in the wrong.

  • @clarachimbwanda5424
    @clarachimbwanda5424 3 місяці тому +2

    The girl child is not safe around this man. If she is abused or raped one day the man will say I asked you to take the child kumusha.
    This man doesn't deserve to be called husband. Let's say she agrees to abort he will accuse her of choosing another man's child over his.
    My sister keep the pregnancy and take your daughter kumusha she is safer there

    • @mcdonaldmseka4975
      @mcdonaldmseka4975 3 місяці тому +1

      Better off not to take sides on this one!!! The guy is not comfortable having another man's child around.For me the lady anofanira kuendesa mwana kumusha kuna amai vake simple!!!!