Jax - Victoria’s Secret [Official Lyric Video]
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2022
- "Victoria’s Secret" Out Now!
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Lyrics:
God I wish somebody would told me when I was younger
That all bodies aren’t the same
Photoshop, itty bitty models on magazine covers
Told me I was overweight
I stopped eating what a bummer
Can’t have carbs and a hot girl summer
If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
I’d say, psst
I know Victoria’s Secret
Girl you wouldn’t believe
She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
Making money off of girls like me
Cashing in on body issues
Selling skin and bones with big boobs
I know Victoria’s Secret
She was made up by a dude
I wish somebody would have told me that thighs of thunder
Meant normal human thighs
The fucking pressure I was under
To lose my appetite
And fight the cellulite
With Hunger Games like every night
If I could go back and tell myself when I was younger
I’d say psst-
I know Victoria’s Secret
Girl you wouldn’t believe
She’s an old man who lives in Ohio
Making money off of girls like me
Cashing in on body issues
Selling skin and bones with big boobs
I know Victoria’s Secret
She was made up by a dude
I know Victoria’s Secret…
She was never made for me and you
Raised in New Jersey by way of New York, Jax got her start by performing a wide variety of genres and in bands growing up. At the age of 18, she developed cancer above her vocal cords, which returned following a couple months of remission right as she relocated to Los Angeles in pursuit of her music. Left unable to sing herself, Jax turned to songwriting for others and found industry success behind-the-scenes. As her ability to perform returned, Jax needed to pivot yet again when the COVID-19 pandemic struck. This time she turned to TikTok, posting a hilarious response to the pop gem “Stacy’s Mom” from “Stacy’s Mom’s Perspective” which exploded with nearly 9 million views in just a few months and follow-ups including “Update from Avril Lavigne & Sk8er Boi 18 years later.” She continued to go viral a dozen or more times over, having now amassed over 9.7 million followers on the platform and over 155 million “likes” to date. With a massive online audience under her belt, Jax began sharing her own original music in late 2020 to an overwhelmingly positive response - ultimately leading to her signing with Atlantic Records for her forthcoming debut full-length.
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I'm 51 years old. I sincerely needed this song 4 decades ago. I don't feel as bad about my body or that I was never able to shop there. Thank you
Lillie, you seem like a kind soul. Remember, beauty is not the rent you pay to exist in this world. You are fully worthy regardless. 😊
That’s amazing!! Even my mom is 51
I think this song should remind u no one is perfect but we all are different in our special way.
@@amnakhan. it does believe me.
Kind
When my daughter said she was going to play a song called Victoria's Secret I was a bit worried. And then I heard it. What a great message! Thank you for making this!
LMAOO U WERE WORRIED HELP 😭
What did you think the song was about? 💀
@@indrimza Probably a little more intimate...
HAHHA I would have felt the same and then been like thank god kids are smarter these days than I was!
Well, unless your daughter is a skinny person with large breasts, in which case she would feel ashamed listening to this song. Because the person singing it is actually making fun of those types of women. The answer to fat shaming isn't to shame skinny women.
This lyrics will honestly make big changes for women and girls self-esteem...how many of us has herself or know someone fighting with eating disorders and bad body image...pure beauty in lyrics...what a spirit lifting message!
No they won’t
Then they'll become monsters, as if we don't already have enough of those😬
Are you serious? This song was for girls who struggled or struggle okay I was one of those girls, and it sucked okay. This was for the right reasons for this song, and I love it if you don't have anything nice to say don't say it
This song is just cringe. It isn't helping anyone but obese people who think they're healthy.
@@WeseeyouOpal❤❤
I found this song today, and it’s already one of my favorites. I love the message about fighting weight based insecurities. Although I’m a guy, and have never suffered anything like anorexia, I was chubby in middle school, and HATED my body. Then I lost weight to be healthy going into my freshman year of high school. Throughout high school, I was pretty thin, but I was still heavier than a small handful of my friends. Despite the fact I was on the thinner side, my weight based insecurities came back with a vengeance during my junior year, recreating a struggle that I still deal with almost two years later. Despite countless efforts to feel good in my body, I still have a hard time loving the body that I have. It wasn’t until about a month ago that I started making progress when I decided to listen to “Perfect” by P!nk. It was the first time hearing the song in seven years. From that point on, the lyric “you’re so mean when you talk, about yourself you’re wrong. Change the voices in your head, make them like you instead” has always stuck with me. Whenever I feel insecure, I try to remember that lyric. Thankyou for making this song, not only to inspire young women to reject societal Views on weight, but also all the other youth (boys and girls alike) to not give into what fast fashion says about beauty, but rather on their health and happiness.
This comment made me tear up a bit. I love P!nk so much. It sucks that society also makes you feel bad about being fat, not only in shopping malls but in school and love life... I learned to accept that, but it's not okay.
Hd j fd I r u s@@rafaelnunes1150
This song changed my entire perspective on my body. I haven't worn a bathing suit and gone swimming in over 2 years because I gained weight and felt I didn't deserve to wear one. Today was the most beautiful day and I bought a new bathing suit and spent the afternoon swimming. It was amazing. Thank you x a million.
Good for you Janet! Hope you had a blast!
I bet your beautiful xx
You go girll❤️
I'm so happy for you ...Just watch out for Japanese ...they are not wery kind towards you guys
I started tearing up reading this comment. You're so strong for wearing a bathing suit again and this just really hit me in the feels
Being a father of 2 girls one being a teenager this song is phenomenal. You have hit the nail on the head. This song will become an anthem for all women. Well done
And your not even complaining about the cuss words
@@YourLocalLaure I am from Australia it's second nature for us to cuss 🤣🤣... seriously though my kids know that cuss words are in all types of music and they don't cuss in normal conversations.
I wish i had a cool dad👁 👄 👁
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@@gachagirl-kt6gu I wish I had a dad
👁 👄 👁
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@@armyb140 I wish I didn't relate to this 👁️ 👄 👁️
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I’m 34 years old and my daughter will be 12 this year and she is OBSESSED with this song, and it was a great conversation starter about body insecurity and the struggles of middle school.
THANK YOU!
Did u just call your daughter fat ?
Love this 😊 from the very little info I have about you (haha), you sound like a great mom!
Funny how this song doesn't only help women. I'm a 16 year old guy and I honestly have some insecurities about my body but after hearing this... I listened to it on loop lol, makes me feel a lot better about myself! Thank you Jax, you're a role model for everyone.
I’m a 30 year old woman and I just want you to know that the fashion and entertainment industries are just as unfair to men. Guys are shown that they have to be tall, thin, and muscular with six pack abs. Not true! Every body is beautiful, and everyone deserves to be loved for who they are not how they look. ❤️
@@motleypoisongirl The fact that this is true makes me wanna cry. It sucks that everyone is treated unfairly.
You're perfect!!
@@hollytipton5002 no u.
@@astrandedhushpuppie128 especially in modelling business
U don't know how much comfort and confidence u r and will be giving to young girls out there by this song Jax! 🙌🏻😇
Good for you, Jax!! My prayer is this message becomes a major eyeopening revelation for all women of all ages to not look for their identity through anyone else's eyes, lens, filters, opinions or anything else other than the very heart of their own being. Let this be a powerful game changer for all women everywhere!
@ARZOO_COCO same
ikr!! jax, slayy queen
@ARZOO_COCO same💚🖤💚🖤
And Boys❤️
These types of songs that tell us normal human beings that they don’t have to change are great aren’t they?
A música só diz que você não precisa passar fome pra ser bonita
think you missed the point? the song is literally about how the beauty standards set by companies like Victoria's secret are absolute BULLSHIT which is a great message I think
As a nearly 19 year old who has dealt with eating disorders since being 11, thank you for this. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. This song is going to help so many!💌
It breaks my heart to think you're so young & yet you've been struggling with those insidious challenges for literally half your life... 😭 You have so much more potential ahead of you - really hope this is a space you will achieve significant victories in, and it'll free up energy & emotional power to tackle other things. Wishing you the very best of strength, resilience, independence, and great support networks!! ❤️🔥
Same. I'm 19 too. I almost died due to EDs when I was younger. Now I'm fine and happy. ❤ more strength to you, my dear friend😊
@@anna_in_aotearoa3166 this is the sweetest, most beautiful thing ever. Thank you angel, you’re incredible and I hope you know how loved and needed you are💌
@@gowrinandana8999 you’re so strong and I’m so incredibly proud of you! Thank you lovely 🤍
@@alannahtuttyy 💕
As a 29 year old who is disabled & was never confident in her own skin, this song means everything!
even if there r some things we cant do that don't mean we cant conquer the world
You're really strong ,confident and beautiful.Really
Those are for reasons and surely an everyday challenge to keep convincing yourself - means you have such capability that many of us might not be able to bear :] !
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Copied:
"Anyone gotta be aware that being skinny is Not skin and bones like this song pointed out. Or big, curvy, whatever - is a blessing as long as it's nature/gene and healthy.
Altho this song reminds me of 'Am All About That Bass' by Meghan Trainor; sounds hypocrite to me.
'Skin and Bones.'
Tryna lifting up self by mocking others bcs a person had/ has been a victim of bodyshaming (or actually a "victim" of his/her own low self value by keep seeing medias 'perfection' standard which hardly avoid) but then he/she is doing the same shaming; hypocrisy?
It vocals the insecurity crisis; covering up wounds with insult.
Don't let it fool us again. Meghan Trainor then doing work out to lose weight (for her own good good after selling 'Big and Beautiful' strategy.
Medias (entertainment, etc)- are actually, mostly, doN'T give a Fuk about our health/ wellbeing and how they "indirectly" often twist the 'Big and Healthy' movement with, 'If you keep mad eating junkfood- Do it!"- movements.
We mostly just a target.
Market field.
*'Skin and Bones.'
Sadly, the innocent/ naive teens/ kids are possibly will remembering (brainwashed) such degrading insulting term
Whatever your shape; you are healthy and you love it? That is great.
Stand firm regardless the trend.
If you don't like it? Stop the bodyshame and change it for *your own good.*
If it's hard to change for various factors; don't mock others bcs it speaks volume of insecurity and No offensive degrading act will lift ya up Nor fix our selfesteem ever. Never work that way. Ever."
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No mock speaks safety :]
If ya wanna glam ourselves; Do for the good and stop bodyshaming for self peace
:]
Fun fact, she actually has a disabled member in the flashmob she did for the music video!
@@deddedbyglamour I saw that! It was so cool! My disability is invisible (mostly, I can pull my shoulder out of the socket to make it more visible but obviously not a good idea,) and it was so nice to feel represented!!
I'm an old dude whose daughter (that I raised on my own 💪💪) just moved out. This is essentially what I told her when she was younger. This is such a wonderful song and message! So glad it's going viral!!!!
Thank you for doing your best to be a better father than a lot of us got, your daughter will benefit greatly from that
You’re an awesome dad! The world needs more of you
I'm pretty sure your daughter is very lucky to have a father like you! Lots of love to both of you! 💗❤️💗
Amazing
i am fucking helping it go viral in Vietnam. Let's go community power
I am not a very sensitive person, yet I find myself crying every time I hear this. Like full-on sobbing. I love it and her voice, and it's speaks to the self-conscious young girl I was, who absolutely hated herself for being a size 8. I was perfect and had no idea.
The girls who judged you can not talk cause the smal, like sticks you are amazing ❤
A lot of us were that little girl, and most of us will never realize just how many people had the same experience and they’ll go about their lives thinking they were the only people who struggled with their body image at such a young age.
I think most people have that little girl inside of them that still shows her face from time to time, trying to convince you that you’re too big to wear that outfit you love or that everyone who looks your way is making fun of you. But she’s been perfect this entire time.
I'm a straight man, and this makes me cry.
Bc you’re fat
you need an award for this, whiles other musicians do topics like heartbreak and other sh!t, you actually did it on something everyone struggles with. You are so down to earth, I luv u
I'm currently playing this song on repeat while forcing myself to cook dinner after a pretty bad eating disorder trigger. I've been fighting this since I was a tween (now mid thirties) and is mostly recovered these days, but for the bad days this is truly the anthem I needed
I hope things get better for you, love. You'll eventually win the fight. I'm sure of it! But for now, just do your best. xoxo
I'm so happy for you! I know how hard it can be! Thank you for trying!
WOOHOO! Your progress is amazing and I am SO PROUD OF YOU whoever you are out there!! We are all rooting for you
TEEN
Did you mean tween sorry if you did your amazing
I love this song as a 15 year old girl, but my 8 year old baby sister also loves it. Glad she's growing up with this music.
Add me, a 52 year old grandmother, I love this song!
OMG... My. Sister and I also have a seven year gap difference too
@@NickanM that is great!
@@NickanM wtf.. why would someone add a 52 year old that they don’t even know😬
@@itsraelee
Jesus Christ, Einstein.
_I MENT THAT THEY COULD ADD ME TO THE GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT LIKE THIS SONG._ 🖕😑🖕
As a punk rocker with 2010s nostalgia suffering from Anorexia, this song feels like she's singing to me specifically, like she's trying to get me to hear her and save me
I cry when I hear this. I feel like Jax unintentionally healed an entire generation of woman with this song.❤
Same 😭😭
I’m 47, Breast Cancer survivor with double mastectomy, and over weight and my gosh this song gets me every time. I turn it on blast and dance! Wish I would have had this song back in my modeling days where I worked out continuously and never ate to match their standards. Phenomenal job JAX!! Girl you are hitting the nail on the head with so many of your songs!!! ❤🫶🏻
As a father of daughters I sincerely thank you for this song.
Keep up the good work.
You are helping to keep beautiful young ladies out of the ER from self inflicted starvation and off the operating tables wanting to mutilate themselves for an unrealistic standard.
Again.
I sincerely thank you.
Thank you for being a good father to your daughters
All Fathers around the world unanimously agree on this comment.☝️
@Nostufork me too
You made me cry ❤️💜
Now you know how to help your daughter. Sorry I know that I’m a month late on seeing your comment.
How is this not on the radio? This artist has serious talent. Her voice is breathtaking.
I heard it today on the radio!! I think it's catching on!
@@rebeccapierson7977 Wait really? Heck yeah! :D
Not only is it on the radio, but it made it to the top 100 💯 recently!
Listening to it on the radio right now :)
@@LipstickLullabies I played it for my wife after I posted the comment and she said she had already heard it on one of her Pandora stations! Lol.
From a more conservative minded (by nature, not politics) monogamously married man in his 20’s who very much believes in the power and importance of modesty, I can still agree with the message of this song. At first listen I was sort of like “okay another song about how men are oppressive towards women woohooo”, but then I thought about it from the perspective of my potential future-daughter. I don’t want my daughter growing up thinking that she isn’t enough because her “nose is too big” or her “boobs are too small.” That would break my heart. I also don’t want her growing up believing that these are the only things men see. But I think there is a deeper issue that maybe the songwriters didn’t even think about, and I think this song touches on it a little bit. There is certainly a balance between caring about your beauty (which is also okay) and obsessing over it. And I think social media teaches young ladies to truly obsess over it to the point of depression. I pray that my daughter is beautiful and understands the real meaning of beauty at the same time. Young ladies, please place value in yourselves outside of only your physical appearance. Physical appearance can matter to you, but there are other important parts of you as well.
Thank you for a song that makes a difference. On karaoke day, the middle school girls at my school ROCK OUT to this song! And, as their 59 year old teacher, I’m right there joining in because I need the reminder just as much as the young girls do.
I’m a 14 year old girl, I’ve struggled with body images for as long as I can remember, I can’t explain how much this song helps!! Thank you ❤️
Fellow 14 y/o girl, I bet ur beautiful ❤️ ✨
As a 14 year old as well I love this song. And I bet both of you are beautiful inside and out❤
You guys are so nice a kind I this comment section I wish the world had more people like you ❤️
Its ok i feel ya but instead im turning twelve soon
Imagine not knowing Eugene
To be completely honest, no song ever really "changed my life," but I've been so insecure (me and every other person in the world) but this came out right when I was in the depths of it. Thank you for your hard work and amazing songwriting, Jax!!!
Me too 😊
Same
@@chedderspinner414 a
Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
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I'm glad it found you at the right time❤ absolutely a GREAT song, definitely comforts the bullied child in me and I'm I my 30s now and it still hurts but his song helps lol
Also I love your profile picture, dien anblick is beautiful
That "can't have carbs and a hot girl summer" really hit me. My husband is always asking me why I don't wear summer dresses or shorts when other women do and I am convinced "I don't look like other girls" in nice summer clothes.
Going to play this for my daughter as an anthem until she grows.
Are you really doing as much for your husband as he does for you? He's got needs too you know.
@@MrThinkTank0da fuq?
@@cassieh5506 I think it's a fair question, if he's a lazy bum that doesn't provide then she's kind of justified in not trying to look good for him, but if he's pulling his weight then it's only fair to lose some of hers
@MrThinkTank0 Wives shouldn't have to ignore their emotional needs to fulfill their husbands' physical desires. It's great to do things for your partner out of love. When it means not loving yourself, though, it isn't helpful to either person. Anyway, this song is helping people work through such issues.
As a perverted old man in Ohio this song slaps
-yours truly, Victoria
This is such an important message. I’m 52. When I was younger I thought I was disgusting and fat. I look back at photos and wonder how I ever thought that.I thought 140 pounds at 5’5 made me not worthy when I was actually fit, athletic, strong and healthy. I wish I had heard this message from someone as beautiful and talented as Jax.
52🤨
@@willow1282 hopefully one day you make it to 52 too
@@anniek55112 bahahaha anyways I’m like a teen too willow
Agree with u 100 percent. I wore a size 3 and always saw myself fat. Nobody understood it. I took laxatives and starved myself all the time. Now I’ve got all kinds of health problems. I’m 68.
This is so true! And i’m 12 watching this and it’s just changed on how i actually look at myself…Tysm this comment should get more likes and comments. And jax is a legend
“I wish somebody would have told me that thighs of thunder meant normal human thighs” I love that line so much because I’ve always been so insecure about my thighs, thanks so much JAX
Me too! And my weight!!! God this world makes us think we’re not perfect when we are just perfectly NORMAL.
@@galaxy_starwolf559 same!
Same I am almost at teen but still I was insecure about them but I listened to this song a million times and it's making me feel better about them
I’ve been insecure about them too but something I’ve taught myself is that they are “Thighs of Thunder” because all they hold is Beauty
Hey girl! I’m 14 and 172.4 lbs! I have thick thighs and my stomach isn’t flat for shit but I don’t really care! I bet you’re beautiful too! We are all beautiful!
Oh hell yes! Thank you for making this song! I'm a guy, and i have my own body issues, so i can only imagine what girls and women go through in a world that puts more pressure on them than the Earth puts on carbon. Every one of you are diamonds in the making, and you are beautiful just as you are! 🤗
i was obsessed with this song when i was around 9 years old. yeah, im still pretty young, but i used to be so insecure and this boosted my confidence.
This song needs to be played in health classes or just school in general from elementary through high school!
I was thinking the exact thing!!
@Weirdsup well it’s a good message. They could just teach this in general
Just this in general should be taught in health, elementary through high school
Without the curse words.
@Weirdsup they could just edit it. Clean versions exist, they just don’t go as hard XD
I listened to this with my mom who is very strict when is comes to cuss words. She overlooked it though because she knows I struggle with my body. I absolutely love this song!
My mom was big on no cuss words and is still not a fan but now that all her kids are adults I hear her cuss! Lmao gotta love moms
@@AceyCamui Lol 😂
Tell you're mom she's sooo AMAZING!!!! 😭😭😭 happy for you anyway
Cherry-Bomb
I have the same problum with my weight I'm 110 and I'm 9 years old it's quiet a struggle
2:30 she started the Ohio thing
I’m 10 years old. I sincerely need this song, no I’m not feeling bad about myself, but still I love this song more than ANYTHING!! Love it Jax
You do not to be listening to this at 10
I don’t care it’s a great song!!
This song with watching the photoshopping sends such a powerful and important message!
Although I think the most important part of seeing the real vs edited along with the last few lyrics at the end gets missed with the end card credits things covering the comparison photos
This is a masterpiece though!
i... didnt even realize there was photoshopping going on! 😳
thank you!
@@oscarjr360 you’re welcome! Happy to help, I think it adds to the message. Have a nice day!😊
@@oscarjr360 even the editorial/ cover fashion magazine they used settings of editing, example like black & white (or one settings), color toning, color degradable, retouching, frequency seperation, liquify tool, sometimes they're editing skin textures too, it's pretty obvious when zooming especially model's eye sometimes they used beauty dish or soft box, let's be honest cuz a lot professional team of makeup artist, hairstylist, fashion stylist are one team different theme of photoshoot of editorial, ad campaign, cover of magazine.
There's a pretty easy way to temporarily get rid of the cards, but to my knowledge it can only be done in the desktop version, not the app.
1. Hit f12 (or go to settings>more tools>developer tools). This will open up a docked area in the browser.
2. Go to the "Console" tab, and at the bottom there will be a place to type. Paste this into the text box: document.querySelectorAll(".ytp-ce-element").forEach((el) => el.remove());
The cards should disappear. There is a way to remove them permanently, but it's more complex and involves downloading software, so I prefer this. Hope this helps if you decide to try it!
Already singing this to my daughters (6 and 4)!
They will NEVER not know how to love themselves and their bodies if I have anything to do with it 💕🥰
You're such a good parent ☺️
Umm 4 and 6….. no offends but wait a few years
@Godzilla I started feeling insecure as long as I can remember
@@jiachoi9294 I'm Talking about The lyrics , not What The Song is About
@Godzilla sorry I misunderstood
I’m 40 years old, have had 4 children, lost my first son at 4 months old, and got out of an abusive marriage then having to live in a shelter for 2 years with my 3 children. Life has been a rollercoaster ride, and my body image issues have been in the back of my mind the whole time. For years it was covering up, sweating to death most summers. But this song was a game changer for me. This summer I’m wearing dresses that I always wanted to wear but refused. I am finally moving on, and starting to feel comfortable in my own skin! I play this song for both my 13 year old daughter as well as my 5 year old daughter to help remind them they are beautiful! This song has been a blessing to so many…thank you!❤
1:32 OHIO MOMENT
I think we all need to hear this! I'm 29 and this legit made me cry, I can't wait to play it for my boyfriend's daughter (she's almost 11 and is starting to worry about body image and stuff)
I'm 29 and cried too, wish 14-year-old me could've heard this years ago
@@catharinetarquinio3400 same!! I’m 36 and 14 year old me needed to hear this so much.
30 and i cry all time. My 10 years old fav song
This isn’t just a catchy song that happens to mention body image . It’s a catchy song that is going to make so many girls , old and young , feel safe and included . JAX , your changing the world one song at a time . I’m one of your biggest fans ever !
That fact that I got a legit Victoria's secret ad for this..
I am a 13 year old girl and I can tell you that this has changed my life.
I haven't wanted to go to a pool or the sea bc of my insecurities and I was also worried about what my classmates would say. Now I have a totally different mindset and I dont have problems on such things, so THANK YOU❤
I'm a 40 year old woman and this song makes me cry every time. I feel like crying for the teen and younger me, who was for sure beautiful and had a beautiful body and people even told her so, but somehow, never felt that way. It could seem silly, but this song made want to go back and tell that to myself. And that makes me want to cry.
Me too, me too 10000000%
Get a life. Song is sexist as hell
Nearly 38 and remember well the hype over Victoria’s Secret. I completely agree, and I legitimately cried too.
Girl same but this makes me think about a school I went two.. 😅 and she made this two say you shouldn't care about what you look like.. its amazing 👏
Same! I get teary every time. I wish this had come out when when I was in HS.
This song has genuinely made me cry a couple of times, I've never had an eating disorder but I've had severe anxiety and high functioning depression since i was a kid and i struggle with eating a lot, where I'll have to snack through to day to distract myself from random bad thoughts i guess? Anyways, this song has helped me realise how much girls and their ideal weights are influenced by men and their wants- I Dont think I'm particularly overweight but when it hurts me to look in the mirror this song makes me feel like a new person❤️
And an issue with ocd and anxiety nobody seems to talk about is when you have to eat things within a certain time frame or in specific amounts or it fully weighs on you for the whole day, it never helps, but like i say because of this song i feel like i can get on with my life without having to shape my body to suit everyone else's likeness
Keep fighting
Me aswell
Thank you from a 56 year old retired nurse, mother of 7, grandmother of 6. Seriously thank you, I needed to hear that.
I gained weight because of university entrance exam 3 years ago.
I'm 165cm tall, up to 68kg...
When my mom saw me sitting on the chair in front of the table, she laughed at me that the table will collapse. I asked her to stop saying that through text messages, but she treated me like a crazy person who would never live again. I lost up to 50kg while attending university, and she said I was too thin this time.
And she complimented my little sister for being overweight and having big hips. My mom has always been like this and I listen to this song every time she does. It makes me feel a little better. Thank you for making the song.
I love how many dads and fathers are here, girls let's play this song LOUD and teach the generation after us what it means to be beautiful! Confident, brave, and kind!
Edit: some people arnt getting the message, I'm saying let's teach children true beauty, confidence, bravery, and kindness. You shouldn't be ashamed of your body size! Though I do hope if your unhealthy obese you get some help, it can hurt you and I wouldnt want that. Hopefully my message is clearer now!
Not to mention dumb
oh nah 💀
@@jeremykohlhase7989 you should think about what you're saying . And I'm a girl useing my baby brother phone but if I was not I would be causing you out
@@ACETHEVASE another example of a toxic female.
Amen!!!
My 11 year old daughter loves this song. She is going to tell all her friends about it too. Thanks Jax, you are going to help so many young girls.
❤❤❤❤❤❤
She helped me I am 8 Turning nine
@@hebee5892 It's so sad that girls like you who are very young worry about your body image. Keep strong queen ❤️❤️❤️
i am a 54 yr old woman who has struggled with body image my whole life.. Been on more diets than I can count. None of them worked for more then a few pounds. Girls I wish this song was out when I was young. Im sure your all beautiful and your all so kind to be backing each other the way you are.. Your all so much stronger then you realize and just being there for each other really helps..... ❤❤❤
Im 14 and ive struggled for years with eating disorders. Ive been doing a lot better this past year. Ive been eating more and learning to love my body. This songs has helped me through it. My parents dont know about it because i was really good at covering it up.
Get off the internet it will solve most of your body issues.
@@lampad4549 not really. I tried that. I was off the Internet for a year I thought it would help but nothing changed. Then about a year ago I started watching body positivity videos every day and slowly I started loving my body again.
45yo ED survivor here… early (surgically induced) menopause has caused a lot of weight gain for me, and has brought back a lot of the old feelings. Heard this song literally at just the right moment in my adult life.
I’ve also known “Victoria’s Secret” since my 20s, but was never clever enough to put it in a song. You are such an inspiration!
I needed this song SO HARD in middle school and Highschool.
JAX, thank you for helping the girls, guys, everybody in between… who NEEDED to hear this. ❤️👏🏻
My mom doesn't know English but I translated this for her and now it's her fav and she's able to fully sing it correctly 😅❤
I can’t get enough of this song. My 7 year old daughter and I had a long conversation about this. Thank you Jax for being alllllllll of our inner voices! 💪
7 year old? gosh that breaks my heart.
This is one of my 8 year old cousin's favorite songs, and honestly I'm surprised how mature she is for her age. I hope this teaches her she doesn't have to follow society's standards and I hope she doesn't have to feel what I felt/feel.
@@theblurryblackcat I agree 💯. I love that as a society we are being more honest and open about this stuff. We are changing the narrative and it feels good doesn’t it?
@@d.stramonium Mine too! 💔
@@stephevans5561 Yes, I hope some time in the future, we'll all be like children, in that we'll always follow our hearts and be able to express our feelings while still accepting that we're all equal in spirit.
As a girl who grew up with thyroid issues amongst depression and anxiety, this song hits hard! I was always overweight. I've tried countless diets and workouts. I was always active (still love parks and walking) but always gained. Never lost. With that I was bullied physically and mentally. I have/had no confidence.
This song has been stuck in my head since release and on repeat when I can. It's been a while a song came along that I can relate to and also love!
Same but the other way around. I’m really skinny for my age and I always lose, never gain. I hope everything gets better for you!
I think I'm kind of the blend of y'all, I have thyroid issues but also gastrointestinal issues. I used to be healthier, but lately I've lost a bunch of weight and I'm actually nearing the threshold for clinically underweight.
everyone just tells me I look SO good now and I must be doing better. like, thanks, I'm actually sicker than I've ever been ✌️
@@dreamscxpee girl, me too✌️
@@loredanag508 I don’t like female nicknames/pronouns, so sorry!
But FINALLY someone understands!
@@dreamscxpee I'm so sorry. I just assumed something. It's not my best time rn
I hope we'll start to feel better about our bodies!!
I suffered and still do with anorexia but this song helped so much and I honestly thank you for this❤❤ I have a hard life especially being extra flexible and getting bullied
I feel like everyone needs to know this song to understand what we all go through! Thank you for this song!
i’m seeing all these comments saying they wish they had this song when they were 14. I’m 14 and on the verge of an eating disorder and this song made me feel so included and not alone and it made me want to get better. Thank you so much Jax.
Stay strong! It's so easy to slip into an eating disorder and so hard to climb out. Keep taking care of yourself 💞
The fact that she wrote this song for the insecure girl she was babysitting is so sweet 😭
I watch her shorts about it!!
Yet in every video she's wearing lift boots. So you claim you are above body issues, but you lie about your height?
Women are naturally beautiful. Embrace the people who appreciate it.
@@Gitemstevedave how is she lying about their height? she can wear whatever shoes she wants... literally she never lied about her height. she is free and can wear whatever shoes she wants.. and I don't think she is insecure about her height..
Plot twist, its actually women that cause other women to be insecure. A man does not care if you wear the same dress twice in a row. Its women who cause the insecurities.
its called a marketing strategy
I wish this song have been around when I was younger. I was bullied as a kid for my curly hair and glasses, Also,definitely have somebody insecurities as a teenager. I've learned to love my hair, glasses and curves but it took time. Such a wonderful message for young girls!
So im 11 and my brother was playing this song and i heard it and i used to think i was to fat for anything and this song makes me feel better about my body thank you so much jax
I can’t even describe the confidence this gave me, I’m currently screaming this song. I’ve always struggled with being “too skinny” and this just shows me that no matter how one looks somebody is gonna feel the need to comment on it, so might as well not care and feel confident in the beautiful skin you have 🥰😊
Dude same!!
Same fr
same here
Same
Many of us can relate
I was told i was overweight and when i lost weight, i was told that I'm underweight, malnourished and ugly
I've suffered a lot and this song made me love myself the way I am
Tysm Jax for releasing this masterpiece
You've helped million of girls suffering like me
Sorryyy
Glad you're good now
Same, and the majority of it came from my own mom. I was "too chubby", and needed to "have a flat stomach". I got that flat stomach, and when I did, I was ridiculed for having it, and was accused of all sorts of things at that point. It was awful. This is when I was a teen. I'm 31 now, and am still dealing with the issues that caused.
I am so sorry you also went through that, and I hope you're doing okay now. Sending you love! ❤️🤘🏻
How did this song make you love who you are? It skinny-shames smaller women.
Second, a clothing company sells actual physical clothes to women in America. Plus size clothing lines don't market to skinny women, and store like this don't market to fat women who don't wear lingerie as much (but should).
@@ko7577 shut up please. This song is not shaming people with eating disorders, stop being toxic also I think you should get your ears checked, I don’t think you can actually hear
I am almost 70 and this song is very long overdue. Parents if you love and care about the well-being of your children (both females and males), you should sit them down, play this song, and discuss this issue. Make having a normal body acceptable and explain that what is being touted is not only a lie it is dangerous to their health and mental state. Always gently encourage good health practices, but be realistic about it.
I. Am.in.love.with.your.music.QUEEN!!
I LOVEEEE THIS SONG :)
This is probably in my favorites!
This song was how I began to feel better about my body.
I even began to write and sing!
I mean- who does not love Jax?
Ikr who does not like JAX she is the best singer like OMG 😆
@@Sav252 ikr?
@@Sav252 same! she's amazing
Great respect for Jax - need more artists like you, reality!!!
Am dieing laughing at the part is she is a old man who lives in ohio 😂😂
I love this song so much! I have been replaying it every chance I get! It is SUPER catchy, while having an amazing message to many young girls/women! ️❤️❤️❤
Also the fact that she wrote this for Chelsea. Like… Jax is literally the babysitter we all wish we had!💜
Same I replayed it like so many times
me to
As someone who suffering from bullying in school with long lasting effects on my mental health... i LOVE this song. Jax has such a brilliant and natural way of connecting with her fans.
I don't really feel bad about my body but for other people this is very relatable
"I stopped eating, what a bummer," So did I, for years I only ate when I was being watched, and I was still never skinny enough, my cheeks hollowed out, I was tired and dizzy, but I still had a little tummy, but the BMI and the dress rack told me to keep getting skinnier, I wasn't good enough yet. This song makes me also wish I could talk to myself when I was younger, and encourage her to be healthy, and if we lost weight by being healthy, great! And if we didn't, accept our healthy weight! But, even now, I struggle to do anything about my weight but skip meals, which fun fact, you can still manage to gain weight doing, if you're eating the wrong stuff.
Congratulations Jax for being number 1 on the radio. It’s such a great song. And I’ve been hoping you’d make a full song and I absolutely love it!
I was just in my garden when I heard a young girl singing this with her friend. It made me smile to think that this is the message they're growing up with❤️
this comment made me cry for some reason idk it just made me happy
Cry for the stupid?
Me too and I am a guy. I have nieces and I want them to hear this 🥲🥲🥰🥰
Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
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TLC in the 90s made two different songs about body issues (one called Unpretty). The issue has been dealt with before this Victoria song
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I Love this song and I know every word
Thank you so much for this. Not all women are made the same, so stop forcing yourself to look like another
I'm a 26 year old guy with a pot belly and man boobs. Have always felt insecure. Working to stay healthy. Thank You JAX for teaching us to love ourselves! Love you!❤️❤️
Mithsaka, please tell me you don't take the theory of evolution seriously. It's pseudoscience my dude.
@@tylerb9877 Oh I don't my guy. Also I cant stand with people looking at that big disk of cheese in the sky and calling it the moon or whatever.. smh
Yes! You're an inspiration.Keep working hard,for yourself.Dont listen to what these people say and focus on yourself!
@@mithsakadissanayake8532 LMAO THE MOON CHEESE JOKE KILLED ME
LOL!
If I have daughters in the future (hopefully), I'm going to sing this to them to let them know that they're beautiful just the way they are.
And so are you, the person reading this!
This literally made me smile
I love this comment section, everyone is so kind… thank you! ❤️
shinobae chan me to
Ty I needed that 😭❤
That didnt just made me smile.. I fricking cried and smiled-
Probably one of the greatest songs of the last ten years. Fabulous performer too!
I am 11, and everyone kept saying that I was fat, and this song built my confidence so much. I really love this song. Thank you so much, Jax. I love you ❤
This is hands down a gem.
Better song than most "artist" today.
Agreed
I won't disagree, it's a GREAT song with not only a catchy beat but soo meaningful lyrics. But speaking of lyrics, i feel like they are a little bit too repetetive. Like the verse before the last chorus could've been something much better, it had so much potential of being a great bridge, but they just put the chorus in there. Other than that i love this song!
This is so 2000s I kinda love it. Its on some pop punk energy with facts. Kudos to you G.
"pop punk energy with facts". Facts!!
I hope we see more punk. I'm not a big fan of the current mainstream.
All the girls on my bus sang this once and i dont mean sing i mean girl 3rd grade up was BELTING this song out
I’m 19 and I also hear people saying to get fatter because I’m really skinny and light so this song helps thank you
I'm almost 25 and from a little town in Vermont, and just heard it on the radio. I was so excited that I called my mom, I feel like so many girls need to hear and know this message, that beauty comes from within and no one can put a price on it. Love this song, Im so grateful for talented musicians to share their talents and help others feel better about themselves. Thank you Jax. ❤️
Slay girl😊
Thank you sooo much 😊
@@luzperez540no
Yes you’re right! I heard this song on Tiktok today. The tune was familiar but I could not completely make out the lyrics so I came over to TY to find them. It’s good to see someone made a song saying Victoria’s real secret is she don’t eat enough and feels pressures to stay SKINNY! She’s a fashion victim. She’s living on boiled eggs and clear soup and half a celery stick and glasses of water. This ain’t good for her immunity. Or for the building of her pelvic bones to hold her baby when she gets older. She will need strong bones. She needs good balanced diet for having kids. A friend of mine used to diet constantly. Her sister got a anorexia nervosa the dieting disease. She herself dieter so much that when she came to have babies they told her her pelvis was too small. Fasting during teens can stunt the growth of you bones so you need a normal balanced diet to grow bone. Teenagers are still growing their bones. Keep eating normally teens. The chubby kids get picked on. The kids who are different cop all the flack. It’s cruel. It’s wrong. People sometimes over eat and gain weight, look fatter, clothing won’t fit any more. It’s hard to lose it. But you learn when you do lose a substantial amount of weight that nobody really cares but yourself. People are too busy focussing on their own jeans size! That’s human nature. So eat for your self, not because others pressure you. Look after your body and eat a balanced healthy vegetable rich varied diet. Water is one of the most neglected things we can consume and healthy!! Makes you glow, cleans the body.
@@luzperez540is this true
I love you JaX!😊❤️
I’m 9 years old and my friends were telling me I was overweight and I was in the living room with my mom and I heard this song and I said what’s that song and she told me I’ve been listening non stop
You inspired me so much 🥰❤️
Leave your toxic friends u deserve better 😃
a little advice, drop those 'friends'. they're fake and you need to drop them before they hurt you more
Drop your "friends" they are fake
You deserve more and leave those friends you are perfect the way you are 😘😇
Hello! I’m 13 years old and would like to say some things that I was never told when being bullied: you are perfect as perfect can be, do NOT let what anyone says to you make you think or say anything bad about yourself. You deserve better “friends” and I hope your future is huge and happy. You deserve it, do not ever think you don’t. No matter the weight you have, you will always be perfect and gorgeous. Much love muahhh💞
Jax, can I just quickly say, I know I'm kinda late but I just really wanna say thank you for making this song. I turned 13 one month and 2 days ago, and I've constantly been telling myself that I'm ugly, and beauty standards for women (even though I'm a non-binary) don't make it any better. I've also been wondering if I should stop eating because that always seems to work. But then I just started belting this song, and oh my god. I really need this message, especially since now that I've just hit that stage of life, and with the media portraying women with unrealistic body proportions that I'll never have, and portraying "beautiful" women as pale white, straight, with blue eyes and blonde hair, and glasses? We don't know her. No pimples, either, because women have to wear makeup at all times, apparently. And as some scrawny kid with brown hair, brown eyes, the occasional pimple/bump/whatever, glasses and bushy eyebrows who constantly tells themself that they're fat, despite eating so much sugary stuff at school every day and seemingly not gaining a single bit of weight for some reason, who is also in the "Oh my god, I have to be beautiful and skinny or nobody will like me", this song was definitely made for someone like me. Thank you Jax, keep pumping out more bangers with messages like these, love you 💕
I'm 11 I have so many insecurities and this song helped me so much
As a woman who is almost 30, this song makes me cry with relief. Thank you!
Photoshopping models should be made illegal under “false advertising” laws
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@@electrictroy2010 I understand a touch-up to get rid of a wrinkle in the clothing or something to make the clothes look more vibrant. But yes, the ridiculous editing of the model herself, I agree. Especially in ads targeted to minors
TLC in the 90s made two different songs about body issues (one called Unpretty). The issue has been dealt with before this Victoria song
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SAME
Seriously?? Y'all really find things to get upset about don't y'all😂😂😂😂 first world problems
Thank you for making this song... I turned 12 this year and for about 4 years I have been struggling with body issues. You have no clue how much this song means to me. 😭
You're beautiful the way you are💕
Being 34 growing up without all this exposition and internet, seeing 12 years old being stress about their body is heartbreaking. Thank indeed for all the role models that shows the media and "beauty" industry's backstage. Focus on your interests and passion, appearance is ever evolving so let's not get hang up on it.
You are beautiful.
Something about you having body image issues at 8 is really heartbreaking. Hope you're doin alright.💖💖
@@haydynlazarus8679 sweety please try to focus on the fact that you have the most beautiful and precious thing in the world: you are so incredibly young. You can become a doctor, an engineer, an astronaut, an artist, a dancer... the best is yet to come, you're wonderful in any way because you have the only thing which really matters: a whole life in front of you; and everybody envy you for that! Make something great out of it and do not worry about appearance, everybody hates their body unfortunately, you'll never be alone
I'm a 56 year old woman who just heard this song on the radio I loved it! I know of a few girls who have struggled with eating disorders. Well done!
I don't know how this song didn't get a Grammy!!! WTF!!!
THIS is going in the music playlist. Me being in highschool with girls around in social media in makeup and cute clothing had me look down upon myself. This really pumped up my spirits! Amazing song!
The encouragement and positivity is wonderful, but I love the ANGER too. Like, this is something we SHOULD be mad about. Fantastic
Im 14 almost 15 yo girl. I found this song last fall. This song makes me feel so much better abt my body and the way i look at it. Im learning to be more confident in my skin and love and accept myself. Tysm JAX i luv u sm!!! ❤❤❤
I just turned 15 years old and i really needed this song thankyou.❤
This song is like a warm hug on a rainy day with lots of ‘love and thunder’ ☺️⚡️
Thank you for this song. I have 3 daughters who are preteens and teens. I had a very serious eating disorder when I was in high school. It almost killed me. I'm so glad you made this song. It's very important for these messages to be out there and mainstream.
I was a paramedic for thirty years. The number of girls and women I carried on a stretcher because of this bullshit broke my heart.