3 Reasons Why Men Shouldn't Live With a Woman They Love
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Bro I am an Australian living in Ukraine. Come stay with me at my ski house. We will do a lecture to Ukrainian men and get it translated . Luckily in Ukraine a woman is only entitled to assets after the marriage accumulates
If she bored she's for the streets only for material and will never be happy ends u divorced not a valuable women to be in a long-term. True no need to be married and can take you to court for marriage for living together.
Cleaning lady you can't clean red flag
I found if u say “u can stay as long as you want she know has power I learned to say you are a guest
Women stocking report. Any negative comments about women on this timeline
YOU invite her into YOUR house because YOU care about her, and within a short time, she thinks it's HER HOUSE and she will act that way until she PUSHES YOU OUT!
Not to forget intimacy drops faster than anything else when you move in with her 🙄
This is 100% true. My ex and me were both super sexual together for 7 years, 10 times a week spicy time MINIMUM, and when she moved in, this number dropped to a lazy effort 1 per week. After 2 months the only way she would be OK with spicytime is if I impregnated her. Divorce was started 1 month later and she went NUTS trying to BS the judge and get all the $$$ she could! @@Son-of-Krypton
@@Son-of-Kryptonfamiliarity kill intimacy.
Another proof that women are like children, not just because their brains biologically do not mature past their teenage years, maybe 98% of women
@@Son-of-Krypton Had a girl move in once, we went from hot passionate almost daily to barely once a week after about a month... so ye
My friend was in a civil case with his ex because they moved into a lake property that he'd inherited from his grandpa. After living there for a year with him, she wanted half the equity after the breakup. She "contributed" to the property by decorating and cleaning. She never won, but the litigation went on for more than a year. Don't give a mouse a cookie, fellas.
Shovel and a bag of lye.
@@riggitydoo5116 Pig. Barn.
Decorating and cleaning while being together for 12 months, and by doing that she thinks she's entitled to half of his shit! Laughable.
Your friend was lucky that he won and didn't lose the property.
@@riggitydoo5116 Don't stoop to her level. 🤣
Relationships are like yard sales, from a distance they look interesting, but up close it’s just a bunch of shit you don’t need.
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I’m howling🤣🤣🤣
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Good one!
😂😂 this is too funny
I'm a retired doctor that is straight, and never married. I lived with a couple of good women, but ended both relationships after a few years. My dating years were amazing for decades. A rich, successful male patient of mine asked me " Doc. You never got married? I replied " No. I guess I haven't found the right one. " He replied " What made you so damn smart?" I was speechless. He replied "Don't change anything Doc." I never did. This video helps me maintain my perspective.
3 day weekends or short trips are great, to different surprise places, then back to my separate life and bed. Better peace of mind, and no problem saying " No."
Its nothing to do with being smart, men instinctively know when something doesnt benefit them but they still stupidly involve themselves with women because of the fear of being alone or something stupid like that or they think it gives them access to continued sex when sex can be had with many women . The secret is to be comfortable in your own skin without a woman, if a woman doesnt add value to your already contended life then why add her to it ? I was married for 14 years and I was only happy for the first year. Im 58 now single financially secure and have never been happier. If i want sex i rent, its cheaper and you get to choose which one you fancy for that moment. variety is the spice of life.
Bass boats over hoes
Same here. Not a doctor tho😊
Kick her the fk out!!
Bravo. Peace is the most amazing thing to have at home.
100 % Absolutely right
My ex moved in to my house with her kids after the lease on her rented house came to an end. After 2 years of living apart in our own homes I thought I knew her well enough to live with her. I WAS VERY WRONG. I have made just a short list of MANY of her behaviours which I didn't expect at all (Because I didn't think she was like this as I THOUGHT I KNEW her:
1. I didn't realise how co- dependent & 'entitled' she was. Even though she constantly was going on about how a "Strong Independent woman" she was. Absolute hypocrite.
2. I didn't realise how bad she was with money management & budgeting.
3. She was always broke 2 weeks before her next pay day & came to me for money - Even for her kids bus fare, lunch money or school clothes.
(I would lend her the money for the kids school clothes or school trips but she NEVER paid it back)
4. She used emotional blackmail saying things like: 'Well you are my partner & you love me don't you? Men are 'supposed to' support the women they love".
5. She became very defiant & argumentative.
-If I tried to calmly & quietly to give her any advice or my opinion on topics or situations she was stuck with which SHE brought up, "I was "Patronising her".
6. She would blow up over the slightest little thing & cause an argument over it(Crying over spilt milk) if I didn't argue back or if I walked away she would get even more aggressive.
7. I would come home from work & there would be strangers in my house without her asking me first
She said things like "Oh, I just thought you would be ok with Sarah from work coming over & staying for dinner" (Whaaat??!!)
8. We had a very short brief conversation one day in whether we should have wood flooring or carpets which we both agreed to have a think about & discuss again later.
One day I came home from work & she had pulled ALL the carpets out of EVERY room of the house & thrown them all over the back lawn.
9. I bought her a decent used car for her birthday & surprised her with a massive ribbon on it, balloons the whole works. I paid the full year road tax, her insurance & i serviced it for her myself. I told her the next year when her road tax & insurance expired it was her responsibility to renew it.
When next year came around she came to me to cover all the costs. Suprise, Suprise.
10. Her (Trainwreck) friend would call her very late at night & spend an hour complaining about men & she would complain to her about me.
11. She stopped giving me any affection & would spend hours at night on her phone.
If I came home after a long weekend with my mates after missing her & expecting to walk through the door for her to greet me with open arms & a hug or a cuddle , I never got it.
12. THIS IS THE POINT YOU MISSED RICH. HER BAD HABITS.
When you live with a woman for a while & they become comfortable with you, all the nasty habits are revealed.
- I would be relaxing in the bath after a long day of dirt biking & she would walk in sit on the pan & take a sh1t.
- Whether it was on the sofa or in bed she would fart. Even loud raspy wet farts.
- She snored like a Rhino. After calmly discussing it with her & suggest getting a special pillow or even enhaling Vicks before bed, she never did.
- Morning breath & seeing all the spots & greasy skin without her makeup
-She would bite & pick her nails whist we were watching our favourite T.V shows or films together.
-When I had to use her car & she knew I had to use it the fuel tank was always emptying. She would even drive to work in a morning to drop kids off at school with the fuel light on.
-Especially during winter, instead of doing one load of washing, hanging it up letting it dry then putting it away,
She would put continuous loads of washing in the washing machine, so we had wet washing hung every where in the house all over the place. My mates would come round & say ..."What the f**k?!"
I was so miserable & stressed out with it all that after finishing work I would park up in a quiet spot for an hour because I didn't want to go home as just never knew what I would be walking into.
....And that is just part of it.
NEVER, EVER LIVE WITH A WOMAN. Live apart, always see her looking her best & having her best attitude & having her best manners for you.
PEACE OUT ✊🙏🤟
Wow wow wow ...m8 I feel your pain ....
I actually lolled at your post. Epic.
The only problem I have is that my girl after awhile of living with her I realize she is kind of a little brat ... and she argues with me about stupid shit ... like she gets defensive about the dumbest shit
Just stay single dude
Wow, just wow. But hey, at least her kids were great, right??
riiiiiiight?? 🤣🤣🤣
Learned that a long time ago (late 90's) when i worked at a Courthouse and saw men get ripped apart by the system. I hope a lot of men get the message. Listen to this guy young men.
That must have been one hell of an education!
They should do a reality show on that.
It will never happen. Popular media wants men to be ignornat, drunk and horny so we don't realize how fixed the system is against us @@stu6097
@@stu6097~ the System would never allow that .. they don't want the truth exposed..
I am a 60YO man who never got married and I have never lived with a woman and I don't have any crumb snatchers.
When I was a young teenager I witnessed three men getting DETROYED in divorce court and one commited suicide.
After witnessing those three events I said to myself that a woman will never ever have access to my finances and resources.
I’ve been married for 44 years. I’ll never divorce my wife. She has poor health also. But if anything should happen to her, there’s no way I’m ever signing up for this again.
That's fair enough right?
Don't understand why you mentioned that she has poor health as a topic. Her poor health is not her fault even if you think is hers. When we commit we need to know that the rose 🥀 comes with thorns......
@@buentaste my feeds keep showing me nothing but don't get married and dump your woman 😭
Better or worse.
Good for you. 🇺🇸
Exactly right, 100%. Never, ever live with a woman. All the mystery and desire begins to leak out of the relationship the moment you move in together. Everything begins to get far too familiar and stagnant, small things become hugely annoying. You need to live apart, you need to miss each other so that you look forward the time you spend together. Worst thing I ever did was move in with my ex. I still believe that if we’d never moved in together, we would probably still be together. I’ll never, ever live with a woman ever again, even if I absolutely love her to bits. I learned the lesson.
What if it's a long distance relationship of 5 years trying to wrap it up? Do you just end it or wrap it?
@@steelstreet3765 isn’t ending it and wrapping it up the same thing? Long distance relationships can and do work for many couples. The great thing is that you both have the chance to miss each other when apart, and look forward to the time that you do spend together, which keeps the relationship healthy and passionate.
Bruv this is so darn true from head to toe. If you’re reading this listen to OP. Not only did all of this happen when I moved in with my ex but once things fell through I also lost thousands of dollars worth of personal belongings that ended up leaving behind because of pride
@@Dad-ct1ik I hear ya buddy, spot on 👍
I made the mistake of having her move in, for the financial reason of paying half the rent, which became quarter rent later on. The money I spent on her far outweighed her contributions to the household.
She became bitchy and unattractive to me. I gave her the boot and am living happier now with more money that I don't get robbed from by taxes.
My favorite chapter in the book is
“Why smart men avoid marriage “
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because theyre smart
Just choose your woman wisely!
RICH and his words are toxic…he spreads hedonism, promiscuity and societal decay.🤮💩⚰️
Wow that was alot... good thing you didn't marry her. 👏
Statistically men with higher IQs are more likely to get married and married men dominate all metrics of success.
Nah u just have a terrible view on love, relationships n women so God is sending you what you keep complaining about.A gold digger not a woman who is there from day 1 n loves u for you, You think majority of women are out to divorce or cheat on you, that's fear,fear manifesting into your world, don't say I didn't warn u, u want a better life and a meaningful relationship w a woman change that thinking
I Was Married For 20 Years. Gents, Take It From Me, Don't Get Married Unless You're Prepared To Lose Half Of Everything You've Ever Earned.
I Won't Be Able To Retire Until I'm 70. Remember That.
I'm a bailiff in a courtroom that see divorces everyday. Dont get married. Once a woman becomes your Ex-Wife she becomes a life long investment. Yet I see men get divorced and walk immediately that very moment for a marriage license to their next Ex. Insanity!
I'm married and will not be able to retire lol. Same either way.
Jesus
@@GoneCarnivoreWhy do we still get married in our modern times again? What do people get out of it that they don't get out of a long term relationship? 🤔
@@K4113B4113it’s the fault of feminism and the justice system that supports the utterly unfair law and foolishness!!! Women.., love them or not… are a HORRIBLE HORRIFYING DETRIMENT to men when it comes to the law, family, money, and business … women are a danger and a huge liability!!!
As someone who grew up without a brother, it warmed my heart that you started your video by calling us your brothers. Thanks for this important message!
Wish I had brothers too
Wish i had father
You grew up without a brother because your brother died when you were a baby/child (or before you were born), or because your mum never gave birth to a brother in the first place? Enough with the ambiguity goddammit! Ambiguity sucks shit.
My uncle told me years ago, if you get married buy 2 houses, one for her and one for you. Now 20 years later, I understand fully what he was trying to say.
I aint buying no ho a house lmfao. But i get the message
Read how it worked in the tmes of Abraham and all his decendents. TWO houses😊
That's how me and my ex-wife ended up. We had extra stress because our son is a low-functioning autistic boy, and now a young man. We were separated for a few years and then I got an attorney for a divorce and that was already 4 years ago. Yep, we ended up with two houses.
For a relationship to work, it needs a few fundamental elements:
1. Interest in each other.
2. Boundaries set early and clearly, and agreed to.
3. Honesty with each other [as soon as you start to transgress the boundaries and hide the transgressions, that's the beginning of the end - and while the initial transgression can often be forgiven, hiding it and indulging it leads to the unforgivable, breaking the relationship].
4. Continuing to create the relationship. This is making time for each other as well as working towards common goals.
Been with the same woman 31 years now, 25 married, and we still very much enjoy each other's company and look forwards to seeing each other. She's the type to go out of her way to bring me lunch even though I'm at a work site an hour away, just to see me for 15 minutes.
Why is she still like this? Because she puts in the work in the points I outlined above. Most women leave things on automatic at best, transgress at worst. Add to that financial incentives by the State, at the expense of the husband, and that's why women overall are unreliable as companions - and why marriage breakups are the norm.
Edited to fix mobile misspellings...
Congrats for winning the Lottery. But I am sure you both deserve a lot of credit. I wasn't so fortunate, as I am 65 and never married. Always wanted a family and became very financially successful but never found what I wanted in a woman who wanted me.
@@77magicbus😔😖😖
@@77magicbus ...and all the ones that I wanted didn't want me. A lottery indeed! 63 and remain unmarried, no kids I know of. I contemplate whether to resurrect what's left of my desire for a woman in my life in some non-marriage capacity. Time is running out in the meantime. I was told that phrase 15 years ago. Pfff.
Damn I can’t even get wife 3 off her chair to open the door when I come home after work. When she’s waiting anyway. Lol. 1 hour drive for her is to the casino. That she’ll do every week.
@@77magicbus there is still time Golden Bachelor ❤️
34 years married, first marriage for both of us. In bliss. Husband love wife. Wife reverence Husband. Forgive one another. Be committed until death. Divorce is not an option. Take care of the basic needs (food, clothing, shelter). We love each other because neither of us are in love with all the excess of the world.
@@WNL2013Literally says in opening sentence, 34 years married.
You must have been her first and only one. Thats why she respects you. A woman who has had other men before marriage can never complete ly give herself to her husband. Her past lovers will.always be in her mind.
Good morals matter, 7 years and counting..
I don't believe you
Divorce is ALWAYS an option.
She, in most relationships, needs to know that if she goes too far out of line, you'll leave, regardless of any repercussions or not from the courts.
The rest I agree with.
Sounds like you have a rare ethical woman on your hands. So far, you don't need to change anything, because what you have is working. God Bless.
The best marriage is when a man is not in love with the woman and the woman is in love with him. He's focused on his purpose and can make unemotional decisions.
Thats why you are ¨in love¨ for just a while, afterwards those chemicals decreased for your own benefit
You make no sense, I wouldn’t marry a man who isn’t in love with me. It’s dumb to the 10th power.
Hahaha. I disagree. I was in a relationship with a man I was in love with and he wasn’t in love with me.. left his ass in a heartbeat and married an amazing man who is madly in love with me. Now that ex is obsessed with me for years and I tell him to move on!
Living with a woman is the most difficult thing I’ve ever done in my life and I’ve been in the military during 3 conflicts and that was easier to handle. My ex wife started to gain weight immediately after our marriage. Then the sex dried up like the Sahara desert and the relationship became argumentative and toxic. The same exact thing happened with my 2 ex girlfriends. first comes the weight gain, sex dries up, relationship becomes boring and monotonous then the toxic arguments. it's better to live alone and spend time with a woman for sex from time to time.
Good God! You dried up three women in a row …Maybe it’s time for some self reflection..???
@@persephone4846 he has dry skin on his peepee, give him some slack.
Word
@@persephone4846 they dried up themselves. All of them are still trying to get back in my life especially my ex wife. I’m in great shape, making six figures and living my best life dating a gorgeous 25 year old Brazilian woman while they are still overweight, broke as a joke and living lonely depressing lives.
@@ziontrain7887 well,there’s your problem: If they are trying to get back into your life after you turned them into the Sahara ,they are obviously stupid. My advice:Don’t f… stupid.
Great video. The Court of Appeal for Ontario case Rich referred to in this video is Climans v. Latner, 2020 ONCA 554 (CanLII). The court held that partners in a committed relationship can still be considered spouses under Ontario law, even though they maintain separate households throughout their entire relationship. A few of the facts that got the guy tripped up in this case: a) they exchanged “commitment” rings, b) they celebrated their anniversary every year, c) there was an expectation that she was always available to him, d) the economic dependency she had on him (that he helped create) from almost the beginning of the relationship. Within one month of meeting, she quit her job to be with him. He then started to cover her expenses, support her children from a previous marriage, and he gave her a monthly allowance.
This case should be a lesson to everyone in Canada considering cohabitation and/or financially supporting their significant other.
Cases like this teach men not to get involved with women, if only to protect themselves.
The State will continue to move the goal posts until it gets to a point where a woman points at a man and he gets slapped with alimony. Variation on the historical "Bachelor Tax" that often precedes the fall of an empire...
You just read the extenuating circumstances here. Can't blame the courts. Or the woman entirely. The guy made those mistakes.@@TechnoMageB5
Holy shit..he was stupid (or blinded by his rose tinted glasses at least) but that law is still monstruous.
It is ridiculous that the government and courts have basically tried to remove the ability of someone to opt out of marriage and all that it entails and instead force them into something they never intended.
All i have is my house..😢 I'm scare to lose my.
Video is spot on! Had a 'perfect' relationship for one year, then the girl moves in (to the home I bought before we met and paid the mortgage 100% before/after meeting) and it went downhill for ALL of the reasons you mentioned: she started changing/moving items around the house, getting pissed at me for inconsequential things like leaving my shoes near the front door instead of on the shoe rack, and wanting me to refer to the house as 'ours' and not 'mine'. Just a nightmare.
@robertwalker7496 - You're lucky she didn't take you to the courts and claim that half your house belonged to her! Good to hear that you got rid of her!
Death 💀 by a 1000 BS paper cuts. U dodged that bullet
Did you kick her out or is she still there...
A year ain't long enough to move in. You have to see them in all seasons of emotion and that takes time.
@@Nestle245 let me add also during job loss ,health crisis ,death ☠️ Life can be great for decades till a storm ☔️ hits and you have no clue your partner only bought 1 life vest 🦺and huge life insurance policy on YOU 🚨💲
I honestly don't know what I was thinking letting my gf and her kids move in to my house, it lasted a yr and they got comfortable disrespecting me and even calling the house theirs. They did absolutely nothing to clean, or contribute in any way. I paid all the bills, cleaned, yard work, cook, all they did was make tiktoks and be on FB. I even had to clean the girls room because they absolutely refused and the mom, my gf had zero control over them. Never again!
it's easy, you weren't thinking, you were simply in love
@@martinledermann1862 that is true, unfortunately she must not have been to stand by idol and talk to me the way she did. "where are the good men at" says the woman who's betrayed all the good men she's met.
So you now live separately?
Stop dating women with kids that aren’t yours.
@@martinledermann1862 in love with a worthless woman with a bunch of crappy kids? nahhhh. just pussified
I lived with a woman twice and it was the worst mistakes I’ve made in life. Lost a ton of money trying to make them happy and was a prisoner of my own space. I couldn’t even walk upstairs to use the lav without being questioned. Once they started questioning me about what time I came home from work.; I normally would get home around 11:15is and if I came in at 11:23p I was asked where was I. I got out of those situations fast and never rue we back.
I hate how these women act like control freaks. It really pissses me off.
“I was minding my own business”
Sounds like my girlfriend. When I walk into my own bedroom she says, “yes?”
@@gbd-oq1rzthen go date a man geez you western men complain more than toddlers
If you are losing money tryna make a woman happy it's your fault 100% real woman wouldn't put you through that n she won't mind taking you out, you are with the wrong person
This video is spot on!! I've had great relationships but was pressured to moving in together. Everything you said happened and I ended up being miserable. I actually got depressed and the happiest I was while living together was those brief moments I had to myself. Living together was so smothering, you can't breathe. And the few experiences I had they spent most of their time trying to change me or complain about the smallest things. It got so bad I used to stay late at the office just to avoid going home.
Staying at the office to avoid fights? Yes have been there before
That's what they want so you make more money they can steal when they leave @@scottmcgilvery8511
Dud she tell you that you had "potential "?
@@HiddenHandMedia Something like that. But more direct.."You need to be this and stop doing that.. because that's how a real man treats his partner". And they were never like that at the beginning, just once you move in together all the demands start. It gave me an easy out though. "You complain all the time about me, so you're obviously not happy so I think we should split."
When I was young I would see these older guys at work would not want to go home after work... I would wonder why...
Now I'm old and know why
The far majority of any relationship has an END. You do not want to live with somebody when it is time to move on.
I have been there and IT IS THE WORST
I heard a marriage counselor say that living together has a tendency to breed disrespect and contempt. Once it starts it’s a slippery Slope.
Happily married 28 years. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, only imperfect people that refuse to give up on each other. I can’t imagine my life without my husband. I believe he would say the same.
I feel the same way about my twin flame, we will continue to live apart because we both have kids but we have a strong, loving connection between us that will make us retire and move in together at some point. ❤
You're an outlier because over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Out of the other 40%+ of marriages that don't end in divorce, about 30% of them say they're not happily married. I know a guy who's 75 years-old and hates his wife, but he's staying married because of the trust money. He sneaks around his house just to make a sandwich and try not to get into a confrontation with his wife.
I have the privilege of knowing some of the personal details of older couples' lives because of my job. I don't get to know everything, but I have noticed the older ladies have the utmost respect for their husbands. I don't think I've ever seen younger women with the same levels of respect for men.
Generation X and younger women in Western Society are mostly a waste of time
lol i was with older lady, she was bat shit crazy, monkey branched to new guy
thats why they are marrried and didnt do any impulsive thing :D plenty of those stories too and difficult, impossible for women to find new husband often.
Bottom line: Never impress a woman, only keep chasing excellence. Reward her only once in a while. It's that simple.
All I see is people fighting with each other and being miserable
Agreed.
And she will reward you once in a while
@@mamabear71234😂😆😆 that made me laugh 😁
@@saluuudbut it’s true sexless marriage exist 😂😂😂
I have been with my girl for over four years now and we haven't lived together. We love each other with a burning desire the same if not more than we did when we first met. Now that I have watched this I will definitely consider holding off moving in for as long as I can!
The best decision you will ever have to make.
She's going to dump you when she finds another man
@@mamabear71234🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mamabear71234 women don’t leave the King!
@@mamabear71234tbf it's just his turn
This goes beyond romantic relationships, living with almost anyone strains the relationship.
been divorced for 15 years....had been going out with a lady for 8 years....ultimatium call came about 18 months ago....the ole "do you intend on living with me ever" response: not ANYTIME SOON....click that was the end of that....i started thinking maybe there is something wrong with me as I dont have ANY DESIRE to live with a woman....thanks for the validation
Nah you just scared of it happening to you again, you let fear control u
Accurate video. Tried it twice, NEVER EVER AGAIN: women dramatically negatively change. They get extremely demanding, entitled, and the sex disappears or becomes less enthusiastic. They get whiney, needy, and bitchy as well. And, you can easily be evicted from YOUR home by the state and lose all your assets. And seriously open yourself up to false DV or raison allegations, which means PRISON, CAREER RUIN, etc.
100% true, and they always want $ , at the end it's all about $. You want to know what a woman is all about! divorce her and her true self well come out.
Unfortunately, it is true. Very soon she transforms into your second “manager” giving you tasks to do in your own house. Sex dries up, she makes interior changes proposals, she thinks it’s her own home. She transforms into a “man”. If a child appears, you fall second in her priority list, or worse, after the child, the dog, the cat, her mother, etc.
Exactly what happened to me. Never again. Done with American women. My next woman will be a beautiful Russian woman . Russian women still have traditional values , none of this feminist bs
Then why not date men 😂 garentee you it will be the same drama. Its not a gender thing, its a character thing. Y'all are dating the wrong PEOPLE. and there aint nobody to blame but YOU 🤣
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For me. The one and only girl I lived with for 1.5 years was more painfully difficult to extricate from than my 22 year marriage.
A young man's father says " Get a job "!
A young woman's mother says " Get a man! "
Woman are trained to expect "Special Treatment ", and a free ride forever.
The main problem is that they are full of drama, entitlement, and control and honestly, that is boring!!!
PS if a girl leaves a comb, clothes or a toothbrush at your place, she thinks she owns you now.
Mine left her hiking boots lol
I would give her 24 hours to pick them up or they are going into the thrift store@@robertanderson2150
Mine her dressing gown but i have said before if it ends you can take it with you.
That's one more excuse for her to come over and try "patch things up" when you break up with her@@mashleyred2180
Maybe it just means you can expect her to come back over the next weekend lol lighten up
Sharing a household with a modern woman is doomed to fail. Have separate households and stay over at each other instead. When the girl knows you can easily bail out anytime because you have your own place she will respect you more.
Wisdom
True, my girlfriend was practically perfect in every way, until we moved in together.
This is true, I lived with her on and off as we traveled together, sometimes we lived together sometimes we did not but we were still in a relationship. Everything always went to sh$@# when we lived together. Everything was semi good - excellent ,with amazing sex when we were apart, even after a lot of time in relationship. Scarcity , space makes them wet when they are into you.
You men are broken
Love is not a feeling. Its a decision. When we have a girlfriend, it's a period to get to know this woman. Find out her virtues and her Flaws. Then IF we trust and believe in her, we DECIDE to ACCEPT her. With her good and bad things. Nobody is perfect. And romantic love doesn't last forever. Its scientifically proved even. Its a matter of KNOW WELL the woman BEFORE living together.
Yes, if you don't want a family don't move in with a man or a woman don't play house. If you are selfish and shallow please don't get married and don't shack up with someone.If you want a Family (kids) If you are some one who can put others before your self then get married. My husband and I married 31 years ago we had kids , went through very hard times together and got through them together. Our life was not a fairytale we fought and still fight about things because we are both very bullheaded . But we love each other and will stay together until death parts us. My husband doesn't lke being away from me for very long. We both work at home and if we don't talk much because we are busy he tells me that he mised me that day because he didn't get to talk to me.
Interesting but a neurotic relationship. Your husband a beta male
Rich referred to the study a few times in regards to the intense romantic feelings lasting in only 13% of couples after 3 years. Frankly, I am surprised it is even that high! I the book “the five love languages”, one of the most profound things I learned was that on average, this feeling only lasts about 18 months, but this love is taken over by a deeper love that happens in a maturing relationship. What we are seeing nowadays is the manifestation of a society that is incredibly shallow and selfish that seems incapable of providing the sacrificial type of love we need to have to maintain a long term relationship. People at that point are doomed to be in an endless cycle of seeking a relationship”high” until in wears off and they need their next fix!
Replace the word "society" with 'women'. Fixed your otherwise accurate comment.
Exactly ✍🏻
I wouldn’t necessarily disagree with that! Given 80%+ of the divorces are being filed by women…..
Also, don't make the mistake I made by thinking that lots of sex meant lots of love, because it doesn't
@@TheHumanRanger so what happened to the relationship??
Romantic relationships become impositions after awhile. Nothing's worse than wanting desperately to leave a situation and not being able to. I'm formerly married and would never do it again.
You can just walk away.
@@Donner906 too costly.
Me and my girl live together and we’re both the happiest we’ve ever been . It’s fn great living with her , best thing I ever did . We’re very happy , our home and our relationship together is our safe place
😂😂😂😂
give it a couple years and it will be the opposite and boring
Give it time. Not that you will want to unload her but that she will take over your life and steal your peace. It's a novelty right now.
Don't listen to jealous people. When i was married, still had butterflies knowing I would see him later in the day. Just some bit of small advice (if that's ok). 1. Remember to say thank you for the little things.
2. Lead well.
You got this ❤
We were married 21 years. 🥰
Playing with fire we are not wrong just give it time
I'm a single guy who sometimes feels down over the fact that I'm not married or in an LTR like most of my friends who I grew up with are. This was a great video to hear. It always seems like the grass is greener on the other side. It's good to remind myself that 50% of marriages end in divorce and probably another 15 or 20 percent are just staying together for the sake of the kids, so you're talking two-thirds of married people don't even want to be there anymore LOL. So maybe my situation isn't so bad.
Your right . Be careful what you ask for
Same with many of us
…. And you get to keep all your money.., peace.. and stuff!!!!….. you DEFINITELY winning!!!!
Actually over time it's more like 80%. In other words, do a survey to see how many marriages last 10, 20, 30, 40 years, and so on.
@@jatall2797 and life force..
When a vvoman lives with you, she thinks she 'owns' you and she can control you and change you in some way. Eventually, she will realize that she cannot change or control you (or the things you do, or have) and she will begin to resent that, and she will start to get angry at you, and eventually that anger will break up your relationship. So if you want to keep the relationship together, don't let her live with you.
True. In other words, dominate him. I've been watching 60's and 70's shows lately, and the ladies back then were so different. Ugly feminism was present of course, but i noticed some rarer qualities immediately. Soft spoken, polite, so very feminine and almost submissive. Supportive to those around them, people were warmer or friendlier to each other in the old days.
This works well for dating - I would say 1% of women who are in a serious relationship who want a family will want to live separately and be cool with it - no matter your value or frame. Starting a family and having kids without living together? Let's be real here. You are past the marriage phase and already have kids so of course while being in a relationship with girls at your age there is zero need to live together.
Agreed, I think this is great advice for people with no kids but I ain't living somewhere else with my kids at home with their mom. I needa see my son everyday.
If you have a family, you need to live with them. I have so much influence on my wife and kids just because I am there. I’ve impact on the routine, foods and activities. I’m not there. My impact is far or less. I understand if you don’t have kids.
Rich needs more information on how to live with a woman and still maintain frame. Familiarity does breed contempt and make things a little less spicy.
Rich... I dig you. Really. I think there's a lot of truth in what you're saying, especially if you have adult kids. But I'm wondering if the DISGUST problem doesn't go deeper than living together vs not... Men are promiscuous by nature - especially the ones who are successful at it. Particularly if they're successful with the most desirable women. Women are "betafying" by nature. Especially with men who permit that. I mean "by nature" quite literally. There is almost no intervention or plan or contrivance I know of that can guarantee that this tension doesn't exist between male and female nature - and somehow or another even that I think is "by nature." As I see it, nature is indifferent to what might be most "emotionally" comfortable for us, male or female. Nature's only goal is propagation and the success of the species, our feelings be damned... except for those feelings, (at the beginning), which insure the above by driving us to have sex and be together as much as possible. 8 years sounds about right for that and early child rearing, after which... For later in life, you may be right. But that BETAFYING tendency in females is incredibly powerful; in every way a match for the male's bottomless desire to make it with every good-looking woman we see in passing. Anyway, these were some of my thoughts - all the best 👌
Honestly facts. @moneyman8772
Her level of commitment should be discerned.
I have a 13 y.o son and his mother and I never lived together and we get along great. She is still trying to lock me down and as long as I maintain that distance she still has respect for me.
Wives don't realize that husbands also get bored, but the husband understands that a healthy relationship will be boring because it means no drama, no chaos. Life in general is boring. If we had fun all the time, we'd be broke and eventually get bored of fun. Life isn't perfect. Doing life with someone you genuinely love is the closest thing to perfect.
I am 67 years of age and you're absolutely right. I wish I knew these when I was much younger. All the best 👍👍
Hi! Would you give some kind of shirt advice of relationships to young people, I know times are different but maybe some basic things haven’t changed. I’m pretty sure what to do in relationships, but you never know, maybe I hear from you something new. Thank you in advance
I am 64, and yes; we were at a serious disadvantage. The players knew how to deal with women, while the normal guys used fairy tales hand books. The women held practically all the cards. But these days, thanks to the manosphere and the internet men have a better chance of surviving "romantic" encounters
yor instincts shouldve told you not to do it...but dudes go against their instincts because of that whats between her legs
My favorite is:
She's hypergamous by nature.
Well said Rich, remember guys, "familiarity breeds contempt". If your girl rolls her eyes at you, take notice as this is exactly what contempt is. Pay more attention to her actions not words. There is a reason companies have one CEO, ships one captain.
Be the king of your Castle
@@TheHumanRangerstop being silly, is no king without queen.
@@aldastroud9671- Yes, there is.
She's hypergamous by nature.
Lived with wife 2 years before we got married. Been married happily 33 years.
I read the comments and as a widow in her early 60's I can say that for 32 years I had an amazing man whom I respected and he respected me, (as far as I know) and was taken from me by God. I can only speak for myself and I believe the "golden rule" is missing from so many lives here! I will take the things these men are saying into consideration when deciding if I want to live with a man again. My marriage was very blessed and I'm wondering if people aren't living Christ centered lives anymore. Treat others the way you want to be treated, is a concept that feels forgotten in these comments. I'm so sorry that divorce is so hard and unfair on men and I don't have any experience with this it's just my observation in dating divorced men. I want to remarry someday but the man needs to love Christ Jesus first and foremost as I do. God help us if we learn to live alone and selfish the rest of our days forgetting that to love another is "to will the good of the other" to help each other become better humans daily.
@@Popped-Pepperdamn. Fuck Australia. They’re reaping what they’ve sowed. As are we in the UK, and guys in North America (us and Canada)
How did God take him? Did he rapture him or something?
I learned that to treat others how you want to be treated is sometimes the exact wrong thing to do. Some people wish that you treat them the way they wish to be treated instead.
Stop believing in imaginary friends!
I knew a couple like this in the late 1990s. They each had their own 2BDR condo in the same development, about 500' apart. His place was a pig pen, her place was spotless. They ate dinner together most nights, had movie nights, went on weekend trips together. They were very happy and stayed together until his death.
I honestly feel like this would be great like imagine if you had a couple acres and each had a small house close together. You’d live happily ever after
Sweet! My deceased husband Butch and I had our retirement plan of 2 small homes connected by a deck, while he was alive we shared a large house where he had his side and I had mine. We never shared a bathroom or bedroom for sleeping. It was wonderful for both of us. He was an oil field fluids engineer, so gone weeks at a time. So it was always exciting and we were able to miss each other on a regular basis. I had rental properties to manage. After 11 years I loved him far more and appreciated him more as the years go by. It scares the hell out of me to think of a full time joined at the hip living together situation. Anyway this guy tells it like it is and makes sense.
Rich is right. The genuine burning desire is maintained when the couple does not live together. I’ve been with my BF in a long term relationship and we live in our own houses. Due to work and his kids, we have a routine schedule of when we see each other and it has been working out well. We text and talk everyday but we give each other space which actually makes us miss each other and bc we miss each other, passion stays alive.
I think it’s a mindset thing. I’m just tired staying all alone and I’m all out to make a life with that one ☝️ woman who will read my heart ♥️ every time. I think I should stop here, do you mind getting to know me?
Someone else is taking that space you're giving each other, just wait for it, same for her.
VERY DEEP AND Makes a Lot of Sense approach 💯School is Definitely in Session appreciate your Content
When I got married and we moved into our new house , I asked my wife if I could have my own bedroom, she said no
At that point you call it quits.
Great advice. Have you ever had your girlfriend sitting on the couch watching Netflix and just think to yourself, 'When are you leaving?' You may love her to bits, but not as much as you love your peace and tranquility.
Oh dude....
I had one that came over just to get away from her parents. She was 22.....
I didn't love her though. She was a piece of ass.
I told her to leave.
I treated that poor girl like shit, but goddammit she respected me.
She even told me that she liked it when I told her what to do.
Amen to that!
This is so eye opening. I mean I could have gone blind dating a single mom hoping something good would turn out eventually. But thanks to this pod cast, now I will look before I make a leap.
Yeah I was with a single mum
Never again
Damn, am I that rare? The strongest indicator that my relationship is good is that I'm glad to go home at the end of the day. Our roles are clearly defined even though we both work. We laugh alot together and genuinely enjoy each others company.
It would seem you live the reality that many fantasize
The relationships that I've seen people always happy in are when they have to be apart at times due to work. You don't get tired of each other because you're not always together and and start to miss each other.
Don’t be surprised when you find someone else in her bed, she doesn’t have to be faithful.
@@SachelleCambria Oh for sure. I'm not saying that won't still happen for either side!
Just WHY?…. I’m soooo jaded in terms of women. I literally have NO desire for women. I’m so entrenched in work and my pricey hobbies and don’t want drama and pointless expense in my life.
brilliant
Disgust, disdain, contempt. If you see any of these, bail immediately. Half of the problem with bad thinking & bad behaving in women could be solved if men left earlier. Train yourself not to overlook the little signs, the 'micro-communications' that women will give off. If you choose the 'wrong' grocery store line and she sneers & has a look of annoyance. Sadly, it's the man's job to keep an eye on all this.
That wrong grocery store is a great example. Mine was she did not like chain restaurants that did not pander to wokeism
@@tallst1Wokeism is antiwhiteism
Extremely important advice 👏. Thank you
@@tallst1 lol
Heeey I knew you were from Toronto my dude, good to see another one here...
In my opinion you're right about most of what you said and wrong about the topic of the video.
The point is to meet all the expectations you're laying out, but there's absolutely no reason that living together will sabotage the relationship. I feel at a certain point it will 100% be expected and if it doesn't happen, that itself will also sabotage the bond and relationship.
You bring up great points, but if you can't live with another person and keep the chemistry alive.... then, that's a fault of your own. There's plenty of happy marriages that are life long.
The article about the rich guy who had to pay $50,000 a month is REAL. National Post Sep 10, 2020. Don't let your PP ruin your life guys!
or could be like Jeff Bezos and lose billions
@@TheWorldisaLIE2Then the media portrays his ex wife as a "Philanthropist" lol.
@@VersionBest well she did donate 12 billion to charity……
@@grayrider1861 look it up, she’s far more generous than Jeff
No. He donated it.@@TheWorldisaLIE2
Can confirm. Married long time. Went on epic post divorce binge. Dozens and dozens of MILFS. Found “the one” moved her in. A year later all the passion is gone. Effing shoot me
The problem is women. Women always screw everything up and can't handle normal life.
❤
Oh well, it sounds like the sex life was great post-divorce. Move this new one out and move on.
Does the "one" ever exist past the age of 44?
Nowadays, people complicate simple things. Married people living together has never been an issue untill we as generation grew too sensitive.
It all started with the women rights movement but remember in ancient African societies the men also don't live with the woman. He has his own living space separated from his wives.
If you lack relationship skills, everything he says is spot on.
Even so, he makes a lot of good points. You just have to realize that we're not here to consume. Men are here to lead their families, including their wives. That takes leadership. If you don't have that, you're going to have exactly what he describes.
That is exactly what i was thinking, most of men dont have the balls or the skills to handle a family and a wife.
Most of the men want to be free in their relationship they act like kids.
It takes two to tango. Even if you have the relationship skills of Jesus, if she wants to go, she wants to go.
@@manabouttongue I don't disagree.
relationship skills....thats funny...you will never have enough skills to master the changing mind of a woman you live with..unless you are gunna give up your manhood
Based!
In a world where women can make their own money, this makes not only sense, but it starting to become obvious.
Yeah, this “My money is my money and your money is my money.” Is total bullshit.
No whatever is yours is there’s. And there is only theres
*Attraction grows in space. Never forget that gentlemen*
Genius. I needed to hear that. Thank you
Crazy how this popped up in my feed! I’m literally in process of looking for a new place and my lady is already looking into how she wants to decorate but hasn’t mentioned anything about a down payment or security deposit
I think you are right. There is nothing better than going home when she starts being annoying. All women get annoying after a while. Historically men would always leave the house in the morning and be away, for some times days. It's natural not being around her all the time.
It's natural for not coming home everyday, there is some war over there.
You're right. A man is not supposed to be around his woman or children every single day. It's not a natural thing.
Correct. The only reason to spend extended periods of time with a woman would be to raise children with her, because you are sacrificing your emotional energy towards a worthy goal. However, it goes without saying that having children in the current environment is NOT recommended.
@@Millennialtomb I'd say its important for a man to have at least one son. All your knowledge and time is well spent educating a young man, because a man naturally implements what works, so that is fun and fullfilling. Also spending time with familiy i.e. women is good when there is no pressure as to work or other duties. Vacations are a good way to create a bond with the mother of your children.
Chris Rock 🗣mentions in his new routine and the constant texting is beyond ridiculous over BS no doubt ⚠️✍🏻
Experienced this first hand bc my fiancé inherited a house that her father left her when he passed away. Shit went south shortly after we moved in. I’ll never do that again.
Inherited a house, she leveled up, needed a man on a higher level.
@@riggitydoo5116 she’s actually still single to this day. Has a bunch of cats though.
@@GymJones865 someone should save those cats.
"my fiancé inherited a house" ... NO, the two of you inherited a house. Sadly too many men don't UNO REVERSO on broads and apply their rules to them.
@@1966johnnywayne that’s how I saw it. She came out with the this is my house bs during an argument one evening. But every time something needed to be fixed, it was our house. Lasted 3 months.
I’m 42 years old, relatively attractive, 6’3”, 200lbs and in good shape. Women and sex have always come easy to me throughout my life. I’ve come to realize that sex means next to nothing to me now, I don’t crave it, I don’t care.
Sex is the only thing that women give us that we can’t give ourselves. Therefore, I have zero use for women.
This was so much fun to watch.
My best friend has been living with his girlfriend for 6 years and says she moans non stop and whenever they argue he has to capitulate otherwise she won't shut up.
And he lives by "happy wife, happy life..."
He should tell her that only ‘happy spouse, happy house’ can actually work.
These guys eventually become broken sad men or they snap
He obviously doesn't know how to lead. Not the woman's fault. Any guy who says 'Happy wife, happy life" is a sucker, and the woman is rightful to hate him.
I can guarantee that if your girlfriend wants to move in with you she will find a way to make it almost impossible for you to not let her do it without breaking up. I know someone who’s girlfriend told him that her landlord suddenly decided to evict her from her apartment to do some renovations. She asked him to live with him for a few months. It turned out that she just stopped paying her rent so that’s why she was evicted. She had no intention to find another apartment and he ended up having to hire a lawyer to evict her. She was hoping that after a few months he wouldn’t want her to go.
Whoa. I’m sure the red flags were there from this woman. She must’ve been really attractive!
@@G44052 not necessarily all a woman has to do these days is put out and she can pull men left and right
This happened to me but the other way around. I had a boyfriend do this to me🙄
@@msjrenee8146 There are some Pookies and Ray Rays that leaches off women but usually it doesn’t take long before they stops putting up with that. Women usually realize faster than men when they are leached on.
@@Pintosonic ya because a leech easily recognizes their behavior in others! 😂
If some man, thinks that he loves me but he only wants to live apart, but he wants us to have sex, that would not fly for me. NO SEX EVER with out marriage. And that man better have 0 bodies in his closet. Only one man and one woman, in marriage, for life. That or nothing at all. A man doesn't want to do that, fine, be gone. DO not come back.
No man will want a feminist like you. Who is aggressive and will devalue man at some point
It’s a shame what this world has come to, no family values, entitlement, no respect.
My bf and I live together, he works his ass off. I work at a desk and take care of the house and my family. He helps as he wants.. I’m 31 but very traditional! I hope one day this country wakes up ❤
Problems in the Western world mainly ... not so many problems in Asia .
My Uncle was a pilot, and lived “ that lifestyle “ , for over thirty years, before he retired. He has been happily married for 50 years now. He recently came out, and told the family “my father” his brother, “that he wasn’t in love with his wife until recently”, at 65 years old. His wife was a business partner, and not a sex object. Not that I disagree, but there are other relationship arrangements.
We won’t talk about what he was doing while flying all over the world for thirty year’s though, I do vividly remember being a little kid, and him telling my father how much he loved Australia! As an adult I once asked him about traveling and “ Australia “, but he didn’t want to talk about Australia and somehow had forgotten how much he loved it. Get Rich Coopers book for success with life and women!
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
@@EntrepreneursInCars There is also another saying, far from eye, far from heart.
His true love was in Australia 🇦🇺❤️
That saying is more relevant to men than women IMO, that's why they want us to think of them and only them when we are away... that's why they send us daily messages and pics and tell us they luvs us lol. They know there are a billion other girls out there looking to scoop up high quality men @@303machine
All this talk doesn't mention the realities of today's economy. With $800,000 houses in southern Ontario being the norm, how does one live on one income? Btw property taxes in Toronto are increasing 16.5%!!
As a woman, I agree with this content. I was married at the very young age of 21 and was with my ex-husband for 23 years. As I grew into a more mature woman, I realized that I wanted my own space and didn’t want to always be with my husband in the raw. Unfortunately, he had no friends outside of our home or extracurricular hobbies to keep him busy without me. I believe this was a consequence of him, being much older than I. I remember, a few years before our divorce, I asked for separate bedrooms, and he declined. He said if he wanted an empty bed, he wouldn’t have gotten married. Now, that I am 47 years old, I will never live with a man again unless I have my own bedroom and bathroom. There needs to be a separation with your romantic lover, so that mystery and desire stays alive. I haven’t dipped into the dating pool yet, but I’m in no hurry. It’s scary out here.
Yeah don’t bother
😂 for starters, she demands her own bed and bathroom. Can you imagine what other preposterous shit this one would be pulling ?
@@delpow exactly
It’s women like you are pure evil and narcissists. You want a the goodies of libving together. And yet want a roommate. Ow evil and selfish. What d you bring to the table. That poor guy who got abused b6 you
Demanding your own bed and bathroom is creating a toxic environment to live in!
Hey sir, where were you 10 years before?
Why I didn't see this video at least one decade before?
I fully agree with everything.
Thank you smart man, late is always better than never.
I think not living together keeps the passion alive. Like seeing a friend once a week whose company you miss. It allows for some build up of sexual energy as well. The day of meeting creates a sense of yearning for each other. By never giving the woman a live in situation, you constantly keep her in a state of wanting more. This can be tricky, but smooth words can ease her tension. Once she experiences how passionate it is, she will accept the situation.
100% agree. Only challenge with this is finding someone that is in alignment with that living situation. My DNA does not allow me to be around someone 24/7, let alone once a week. Some of us are better off as lone wolves.
I agree. I told my fiancee this but he is like no no stay with me 😮😢 lol I miss early days when dating .. absence makes the heart grow fonder.. so I'm trying to pitch the separate rooms idea now since he don't want separate house or even dual key home 😅 We can always come to each other rooms and sleep or be naughty 😅😅 He just won't agree. He says I need him to sleep hahaha. True I need hugs and warmth 😊
She will leave you for a more loving man.
@@sunbox4700 I have done this for 7 years. It works. She has also expressed she doesn't think she could be with someone else now.
Going on three years. Works great
I have several rental properties and my girlfriend actually lives in one of them and pays me rent. I just live in another house with my mom. It actually works out because she doesn't want to deal with my mom and my mom doesn't want to live alone either since my dad passed away. Since my girl is month to month without a lease, I can legally just give her a 30 day notice if things don't work out between us. She is free to go and I don't have to deal with getting screwed over.
Bro you figured it out!
Boss shit
You're still in an iffy situation but good it's working out for you!
Come to Australia. Men can marry men. I can take half your assets if you abuse me financially , mentally or physically
@@mckricks1explain..
very good podcast. good voice. good flow. great conversation
Living together is over rated and not needed unless they have a written agreement in case the relationship dissolves.
Number 1 tip from me guys is to never "fall in love with your lady" love her and find one that loves you. Never fall though, peace out and have a great day.
You win the internet today🏆
Do not catch feelings. Do what YOU want to do, whenever YOU want to do it. Do not move girls in, even if that means living in a f’n studio apt early on as a young man.
It’s not worth it.
From,
an old man.
Rich, I just want to say thank you for this content.
I’ve been listening to you for about half a year and the red pill is slowly sinking in.
You completely changed the way I look at my relationships with women.
I still have a lot of work to do on my looks and status sides, but your knowledge gave me a lot of space and freedom to work with.
Thank you keep it up
This is a great video! Thanks Rich! I learned the hard way that everything you are saying is true, it is nice to be reminded of these gems of facts from you Rich, women have magical powers as we all know as men, and it is very easy to be persuaded by them to get back into the same situation that we were lucky to have escaped previously. We need to be mindful at all times that they are always casting a spell on us. Haha! 😂
Thanks for your perspective 👍
Societal values is the real problem . Narcissistic , sociopathic , psychopathic personalities are everywhere today from government , media , education . Integrity is a foreign concept to most people .
Attraction grows in space. She has to have time to think about you, wonder, fantasize, ruminate, butterflies fluttering, anxiety building and building until she can’t wait to see you. As long as you keep an aura of mystery about yourself and keep a healthy amount of distance in the relationship, you will keep those butterflies fluttering in her gut. That’s crucial. You cannot bore women. This is why situationships are a thing with modern women. They’re addicted to the anxiety and uncertainty. She doesn’t hear back from him for a week, then he hits her with the “hey big head come over” text at midnight and next thing you know, she’s driving 2 hours in the rain to see him.
In the meantime she got Chadvsnd Tyrone dropping past to scratch the itch in between .
@@philinn4788 What I just described is what a female experiences with a Chad and Tyrone. 😂 Tf you talking about? But yeah, hoes gone be hoes
Honestly if a man ignores a woman for a week he is not really interested in her. This is not a healthy relationship then. Why playing these childish games!? An intelligent woman will see through this and say bye bye.
@@Lea-hs4st Oh idk. I was saying in Situationships, women will get ignored for a week or however long and be obsessive the whole time.. And yeah, it should be obvious that he’s not interested if he leaves you on “read” for a week, but apparently it’s not so obvious to many women. Women like this are not healthy minded. They’re probably mentally ill or personality disordered or something.
I have a theory, the reason these types of women never see the blatant red flags and obvious signs of being used for sex, isn’t because they’re dumb or naive or being tricked. It’s because they have some kind of trauma or baggage from childhood that distorts their perception of these things. What does that mean?
Usually, if you’re around someone who gives you bad vibes, like you can tell they have an ulterior motive or that something is just off with them? It’s like a gut feeling, almost like an anxious uneasy feeling in the gut. Well, these women feel that too, but they misinterpret that feeling for butterflies, or that “spark”.
Same with blatant red flags. You see red flags, it’s associated with similar feeling in the gut, right? Anxious uneasy feeling. She sees red flags and feels… 🦋🦋🦋 Despite logically knowing that those are red flags, she “trusts her gut” Now, some women will just be hardheaded and keep choosing fuckbois until they finally grow up, but the ones who are trapped in this cycle and who seem to have no insight at all, it’s because something is wrong upstairs. Now, that’s just my theory. Not that you asked, you’re welcome anyway. 😂 If you have friends like this, share it. Tell them to trust their brain not their gut.
excellent video i thought i was crazy for having come to the same conclusion. I came to the realization that living together was not the best option when I noticed that after vacation the relationship seems to go better. time apart allowed us time to miss each other.
It went from : I’ll be there in 20 minutes, make sure you’re naked, to: I’ll be there in 20 minutes, please don’t bother me, I have a headache.
The only bill you can split living together is the rent/mortgage. When you live with a woman its; water bill X4, gas bill X3, electricity bill X3, cost for food inluding wining and dining X10, Fuel cost at least X2, etc etc etc. The list goes on and on.
What if the woman has the upper hand financially, morally, physically. Materially? What can a man do?😂
It goes both ways 😂
The way I see it, if there’s no trust... don’t get involved
If both not 110 committed in relationships-run!!!
@@nenagebhard4729 thats an opinion. Nothing wrong with an opinion but factual information needs to be the foundation of forming one. Otherwise is would be just feelings and emotions without solid ground.
Long time ago, a Nat Geographic show on TV, or somekind of anthropology documentary, this was back in the 70s, showed a tribe in Africa where after marriage, the wife stayed with her family and the man continued to live with his family. For sex, the man would visit his wife's family and basically ask her for a date. When I saw this, I thought it was terrible, but after 2 marriages and finally learning of red pill, I realize that this tribe had a pretty good system.
Great video, the way I handle this is that I allow my fiance, soon to be wife to live with me, but I have chosen a career path that has me on the road at least a few days a month if not more. I send her pictures and videos of me my coworkers (some females younger than her) having a great time at company events. I find this generates enormous competition anxiety that she tries to hide. When I get home, she is completely focused on me, she does her best to give me great sex and she does not nag me at all. I am totally faithful to her and she is reassured of that but I allow in just enough doubt into her mind for her to understand that she needs to stay competitive. Does this plan have lots of faults and traps? probably, but it works for me and provides and alternative to simply not living with your LTR of spouse. great video Rich, I loved unplugged Alpha. Keep up the great work.
She probably getting clapped out while you out and about big fella. Or are you such a Romeo she can't even look at another man 😂
Brilliant plan. Still get a prenup. Dont fuck around get the fucking pre-nup
Oh snap! I had no idea you were based on my City!!!! I recognized it the second I saw you driving on Adelaide 😊
Hi rich , I’ve been watching you for a long while. Your content and information is always a life saver, thank you.
Just got out of a marraige in 2020 that ended up with a lot of deception. However, i got 50/50 custody and am past the statue of limitations and am doing financially beter and in a new house while she lives with her parents. I will not go through that again, but I admit its a challenge being a single father of 1 little boy and two pre teen girls. Dating in the 2020's is much, much diffrent than the late 90's/ early 2000's.
Damn that why most my friends whom get married they don’t do it between closer door they let people insides of their business hoping that you didn’t !!! Sometime you got move in silence in your life department !!! Not everyone is not going to be there for you when breaking it up
He hit that right on the nose …haven’t heard it quite like this…that you sir. Salute
A tip for those already shacked up. REST IN DIFFERENT ROOMS.
Giving you your own personal space so she doesn’t have to always be under you, you can enjoy your solitude and she can build desire through not being next to you every second.