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Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
imo Rich, I disagree with the fact that only 300 pounds guys that still live in their basement with their mother are the only ones sexless. If it was like that, the situation would be much less dramatic. Rich, I'm a 5,9 average looking guy, thin, I'm 22 still in college, and the problem is that women look me down so much because of their delusional mindset. Like, the problem now is that being avarage or even above avarage is not enough for competing on the market, women are so spoiled and want to date up so much that an avarage guy is automatically below avarage in their head. And I'm not talking about extremely good-looking girls that are out of my League, I'm talking about avarage women that always expect too much from men, especially in their 20s. Like, what are we supposed to do, wait for our 30s/40s to have sex just because of the fact that I'll be financially stable(hopefully), like these girls expect a 20 year old to be the s***. I believe that this is due to social media that have created unrealistic expectations for women.
I worked with a woman who was mid 40's divorced with 2 kids from a guy makin about 1 million a year. She bragged about how she was pullin 120k a yr in child support. Her salary was only 30k a year. Whatta buncha BS. Crooked ass system.
Great comment, brother. Permit me to add one or 2 more.... 4. Alimony/Spousal support is annuity payments to wahmen. 5. Marriage is a stock option for wahmen. To be exercised when the time is right. Stay single, fellas. Stay free. Maintain sovereignty over yourself and your resources.
FACTS..Fellas if you don't like having control of your money/finances, if you don't value freedom/space, & if you don't require sanity/peace of mind, then by all means go get married
I used to be that religious guy... Grew up in the church. Married what I thought was a good wife. Until she destroyed our marriage. Got red pilled, and left the church. I still check in with my old church friends now and then. Lots of them got cheated on.
@@budrick2003 Good question: what does the bible have to do with this? That guy has confused topics. Besides bible is a lie, link: ua-cam.com/video/phwVzxP8xl0/v-deo.html
If god existed he would have saved the marriage of such religious person like you. But because there is no god your marriage was destroyed by evil woman. ua-cam.com/video/phwVzxP8xl0/v-deo.html
I'm 67, and this is not a new problem, this began in the 70s, nothing I did got women interested, at 46 I quit dating, wasn't worth the hassle and all I found were leftovers
Women aren't worthless. I occasionally meet one that I would be willing to pay seventy five or a a hundred bucks for an hour of fun with. But, marriage? Oh Hell no!
I remember being 16 doing my apprenticeship in engineering, and this old divorced dude that worked on the shop floor would always try to give me advice. The one piece of advice ill never forget was. “Be careful with women, you’ll never see them sneaking around, and they can take you down with one bite, they are snakes with tits” I found it funny at the time, poor guy must have seen some stuff.
I recently told a woman who is married that me as a guy has it great because I don't have a woman in my life and and I can nap, eat, etc...do whatever the fuck I want. She surprisingly said she agreed with me.
My father told me once to never buy something that depreciates, always lease it. Why would a man get married when there is, at best, only a 50 percent change of making it and then when she leaves she gets half of everything and you only get to see your kids once every 2 weeks. Lease it until it gets a few miles and then lease another one.
I dont lease or buy i just rent exotics every once ina while, like lamborghini ferrari porsche for a weekend.. drive the 💩 out of them, have my fun with them and thats it, no long contracts signed.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
One of my work colleagues brought over a girl from Russia marry. This girl had him thrown out of HIS house, and now she lives there with her boyfriend.
@@Smiler2724 Young girls in big cities most of them are "modern" nowadays. They aren't taught to be wife. Their mothers didn't do it. Especially single mother. Same shit with Ukraine girls, women. Philippino girls are more suitable for marriage and long-living with husband.
So true. I married later in life (29 y/o). I grew up blue-pilled with a Disney perception of marriage (man meets woman, falls in love, gets married, lives happily every after). I made a very poor choice for a wife (single mom). It lasted less than 3 years. I describe it as misery interrupted by moments of happiness. Have been single ever since. Modern women are broken. I guess I am just destined to be single. I don't ever get lonely (especially now that I am red-pilled and understand female nature) but at times, it sucks to be alone. At 50+, I can't imagine trying to find a wife in times we are living.
The problem is less than 5% of women are attractive, feminine, friendly and willing to follow a man’s lead…so marriage today is not an option for 95% of women
The makeup/atittudes are hideous! Women, a word to you all , be FEMININE, SEXY and KIND all the days of your life. A little I say LITTLE out of shape, you can fix that. But PLEASE stop with all that fakeup, its time has gone, its ugly and you all look different, worse in the morning.
I was driving Uber and this 27 yo woman broke up with her boyfriend who she moved to Florida with so that she could be a bootie call for her older, successful boss who has 2 kids. When I tried to press for why her ex-boyfriend was no longer good enough for her she just didn't have any specific answers. Commitment doesn't mean anything I guess to party girls especially.
I have my GF from Mexico , we have been together 16 years , she has a small friend circle , doesnt speak english , cooks and cleans like women of the past , go south my friends
15 years ago I did my own personal analysis on marriage and saw no sense in a couple paying the public just to acknowledge the pair as partners. This is ridiculous.
After I broke up with my previous ex, I started really thinking about why I wanted to get married from the get-go; I viewed it then as something "ya just do". That's a hell of a legal and financial commitment for something "ya just do" . I realized I'd never genuinely thought about it, and I'm glad that moment hit me.
Why do people NOT understand that legal marriage is both a committment, a responsbility, and a set of legal PROTECTIONS. there is a lot of benefits to being married beyond the good feels, specifically being able to hold each other's secrets and next of kin decision making among others. Ignoring these is stupid, cause when they come up, you will be grateful for them. Not saying marriage is for all, but stop thinking of this as a trap....its not.
@@Me97202That is such a child's way of looking at. Yes, marraige does confur a bit of responsibilities on you, but it also help you legally. It protects your rights wen it comes to medical decisions. Itprotects you privacy in the case of legal matters. It helps protect you legal parental rights. Itsfine if you dont want to get married but its silly to ignore the practical benefits that comes with it as well.
I was standing right next to him as the best man at my closest friends wedding twenty years ago. I had the chance to tackle him before he said those two words that ended up causing him so much misery. To this day I still apologize to him. Friends don’t let friends say “I do”…….ever.
Wish I was aware of this information prior to 2019. 🇨🇦 I was content on my own, then pressured into marriage. I didn't even propose and my wife already had the venue booked and planned. To top that off, it was an issue when I wanted to invite my own blood mother. After building 95% of our income property last year, she served me a separation agreement for 90k. This women went from unicorn, to the worst human I've ever met in my 33 years. Locked out, and opp(police) can't help you regain access for basic necessities such as water, bathroom, and shelter at that matter. Turns out she's a criminal lawyer, and I set my young business plan aside starting own company to build her two residential water front properties. I was just a useful tool. No kids, but took my gsd.
So you didn't propose, she booked a venue, and you said "I do" when you didn't even ask???????? Man I truly wish you the best in building yourself back up post-divorce, but that was a seriously bad call on your part
Turns out she's a criminal lawyer?? You didn't know what she did before you married her?? Do you have your eyesight or are you handicap? Your entire post gave me a headache. 😁
I'm doing a 5 year apprenticeship program in Local 669 I hear nothing but horror stories from guys all the time regarding divorce, losing half their pension, losing the equity in the house etc.Now I realize these men are not red pilled but i'm very red pill aware. So when I heed the warning online through these videos, and see these scenarios really play out in real life. It really makes you think. This is a gynocentric society, believe me, DO NOT SIGN A MARRIAGE CONTRACT.
@@nicesmack9309 Lol. Ok friend. If you want my opinion, I'd say yes, join because workers in this country have been getting yanked around by corporations for at least two generations. Good luck in your career.
It goes both ways. I grew up in a Christian household and I saw so much cheating in the church and my father preacher cheated on my mom and ruined her and traumatized his daughters. I despise cheating so much I’m actually terrified of even getting married. As a woman! I’ve been single my whole life and actually a virgin by choice, mostly cause I don’t want to be a 304. This world is just awful. Cheating hurts so much. It ruins families, it traumatizes ppl. Idk marriage is no longer a priority and it sucks because I always dreamed about being a good wife and good mother and being with one man my whole life but I really don’t know anymore 😢
Men cheating versus women cheating not the same, however if he try to destroy ur family that's dumb, men can still love their wife if they cheat, women cheat to feel so not the same.
@@kyo215 i really have a hard time understanding tbh.. I can see maybe a one night stand a man won’t catch feelings and won’t bother with those women, but not a complete side chick, that’s a different story. Most men I know that cheating end up leaving their wives and children to go and live a new life with the side chick. The thing is men spend ALOT of time entertaining the side chick. They text a lot, they lie a lot to go see them, it’s like what’s the point if the man will take so much time away from the wife and kids?? My father wouldn’t even pay attention to us because he was so entertained with side chicks. It’s like what’s the point, this is the argument of alot of ppl when they think of a cheating father, husband, he was never truly there… this is what hurts
I lost a house and car that I had before I met her. Nevertheless, the court in Texas gave her everything. And get this, she’s the one that filed for divorce NOT me. She was remarried 10 months later to some other dude from her work.
Rich is SPOT ON with everything he says about modern culture. What used to be considered weird and disgusting (and rightfully so) is now considered normal and beyond reproach by the decadent woke speech/thought police of the media, corporations and "educational" system. Our society needs about 200 million more people like him.
Just back from Dubai. Woke-free as near as I can tell. Whole different vibe. Political arguments are virtually non-existent. No gender confusion, alphabet people activism or other nonsense. Refreshing! Lots of beautiful women. No more Western women.
@@logwind Unfortunately I did not! But I sure hope to. I expect to be spending more time there. If you're looking for a place that feels fairly normal then check out Dubai. It's not perfect and I'm under no illusions about the downsides but dramatically better than the west.
I met a 50+ years old woman with 2 kids she was divorcing. I was in choc when she told me: 1) She cheated on his husband multiple time. 2) She was happy to get all brand new furniture at her new home. 3) She was happy to get more child support as she was earning in her new job (she never worked in her life before). 4) She was not able to made to fill tax declaration as she never need to do. 5) She was in a toxic relation with a little criminal chad. Summarize: Enough red flags, I run.
Agree 100% with Rich. It's absolutely disgusting how we are not allowed to say certain words because they aren't politically correct. Yes, certain things are wrong and gross and we should not be accepting of it and exposing our children to it especially when they are too young to understand.
I never married. Even in times when a woman represented some value I noticed that no matter how much one wanted to entertain her she was never satisfied. So, the next step was the potential possibility of marriage. Then, that thought quickly disappeared from my mind for if she acts the way she does before marriage I wondered what it would be like after marriage. I think that men should never consider marriage now and ever. My male friends suffer now. And it is one manner of learning even though I warned my male friends not to do that. Now they tell me that I was correct.
I'm so glad people like rob are introducing themselves into this community, the red pill stuff does an ok job identifying a problem in modern dating, but at the end of the day if your values and moral structure aren't good then you're never gonna find the happiness and fulfilment that you're searching for, that's what a lot of the alpha stuff simply doesn't offer you
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bringing this here for, i can't stop thinking about her.
it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
My friends that did not cohab and had no sex before marriage are basically stable. No uncoupling from what I see. My friends that went into relationships where they had sex and Cohabed. The relationship broke up. Thats just in my world. At 51. I would have to be with a woman that has a low body count with a woman that is 27 yrs old. Lots of women that I see have some sort of problem no matter what’s going on in their lives.
Many young women these days are unstable, because they've been encouraged to sleep around. And an attractive young women can stack up bodies like there's no tomorrow, because all they have to do is open their legs and men will come swarming like bees to honey. Men on the other hand have to play the game right to get with a chick, and they're up against very stiff competition. So if a guy has a high body count, they brag about it and people look at them with awe. Men with high body counts are seen as chads, and women are seen as sluts. Neither is good or healthy though. Men get cocky and feel like they can do anything they want, and women get messed up in the head and get depressed. Either one, won't last long in a long term relationship, let alone marriage. Unless they do some serious soul searching and change their ways.
A have familymember that was 100 pc virgin till marriage @18.... Divorced at 30, afetr 1 child , another bf and 2 more kids, then marriage to recovering drug user, destroyed the home. Not the rule maybe but , NOTHING is gauranteed in relationships
It doesn’t matter anymore where she’s from. If a woman has a smartphone or more than two female relatives or friends, she’s a feminist or feminism sympathiser.
Im finding that flow and ebb here in SE ASia, along with"international womans day in month of may" TV, Internet, bull horns in streets even! Young girls wearing bold lettered t shirts "gender equality" Strong western influences all over
I am one of them. I will be 33 soon and still remain my V-card. But there is a reason behind. And dont get me wrong that picture you see is me. I am 6ft and 190 lbs , I fight as a Pro here in Europe , I do have that Chad look but I dont bother with that. Here in Belgium houses are the biggest investments. So I have one (2016 model brand new) an another one in University city for student where I rent for students. I have daily 2018 model Toyota and a 94 GT4 Celica as a fun ride. 3 MTBikes worth of 20K euro and savings etc. But when I look at the others who got luck and have been pump and dump or in and out relationships or every friday and staurday party party NONE OF THEM have 300 euros in their bank accounts. NONE ! They start parting at the age of 20's and time goes so fast and all of sudden they find themselves 35 years old , no investment no stability etc. So men try to rebound what they have done wrong at their 20's but its late and women of course in short way trying to find a computer nerd IT guy who he never had luck with any woman and now she doing a favor to him and marry him but while dating the beta and make the beta wait they go and serve themselves to a guy who pulls her hair and give her eye-rolls. DIS GUS TING !
Mine fought me every step of my life. Anytime I would try to improve myself or even our lives I was fought tooth and nail. You young men hear me out. Don't EVER live with one under any circumstances. They exist to destroy you, it's all they think about. Save yourselves.
I am 64, and a Believer in Christ. I gave up sex outside of marriage for Him in 1979...It was not always easy, but I have had a great life. Been around the world more times that I can remember, have friends all over the U.S. and world.....I was open to marriage and still am....But you can have a great life without marriage.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
Can't imagine being married if not tied to faith. Like I literally can't think of one argument for it. I could argue getting married is one of the biggest acts of faith that one could actually do.
@@remoevans7847 Faith is hope realized to its fullest potential. Most people live hopeless lives have hopeless dreams so I don't expect most people to have genuine faith. IMO
@@DD-ky2pi My experience is that the mass majority are extreme party girls and the particular one was a serial cheater. Don't need to write a book about it.
Thank goodness you brought up the Passport Bros. Makes no damn sense to me. Spend thousands to bring a girl over here only for her to be assimilated into American culture and boss babe garbage in a matter of years. Come on now…
@@d.j6371 the beginning? That ain't worth spending all that money, time and effort for "a few years". You might as well have fun only with a modern girl and save yourself the hassle.
@@HARwinsOUTagain yes from the beginning. Actual feminine energy. It no longer exist in the US. You have to feel it to know. Poland, Bulgaria, Romania have absolutely amazing beautiful and in shape women. Body positivity delusion doesn't exist. They know that fat isn't attractive.
In Finland, Europe, in 87% in the first court cases the court orders close-parentage to the mother, and a fairly normal practice is to order the father only every other weekend with his children. Over 50% of the mother's apply for sole custody. The most common situation is that the father wants to spend time with his children, while the mother opposes it. The judges in Finland have sworn on oath on their honour and consciense to render justice in a lawful and impartial manner. The European Convention on Human Rights (protocol no. 7, article 5) states that spouses shall enjoy EQUALITY OF RIGHTS...WITH THEIR CHILDREN..also in the event of the marriage's dissolution (divorce). What does it all mean? Judges in Finland are systematically and ILLEGALLY discriminating fathers, alienating children from their fathers, mentally torturing fathers by ILLEGALLY restricting time between the father and his children. Many fathers also delete themselves due to the agony. Also, the less you see your children, to more you have to pay child support. My personal case and me? No criminal record, no violence history, no alcohol or drug problems, no mental health problems, no harm to children ever, a completely normal father, was 12 years with the mother. What decision did one judge, Ann-Sofie Högström (Finland, Länsi-Uudenmaan district court), make? I get to see my kids every other weekend + 1 week summer vacation with them PER YEAR. Notice that I haven't even talked about prenup, alimony or division of assets issues here.
I'm a 49yr old successful tech attorney that's in okay shape and I can tell you that if I want to get married I can do it tomorrow, BELIEVE ME! This could very well change in the future but as of now I have made the decision that at this point in my life I do not want children. I believe that the only reason a person should get married is for the purpose of starting a family because I believe in the "nuclear family unit" and children need to be raised in a 2 person household which means a Mommy & Daddy. If children are not apart of the equation than all you are doing by getting married is inviting the state into your life and I really don't know why anyone would do that willingly??
I'm a Muslim man (i'm in Malaysia),i didn't had sex before marriage. Got married when I was 26 years old. Still being happily married to the same women after 18 years. The problem with me is that when i get older and having better resources now, i start to commit infidelities outside.....having girlfriends and doing it. 😅 Muslim man could have 4 wives at the same time, so yes humans are not monogamous. Thats why its already being factored-in in the Islamic teachings. "Smart men dont get married".....i agree to that....but only for the western world. Bcos western women are damaged on the inside. Ohhh yeahh....the west is totally screwed this time.
It’s better to be alone. One of the things a man must value is the idea of having nothing. Having more money doesn’t make you a better person, having a better physical shape won’t make you a better person, or have casual sex with many women won’t make you a better person. But I think hardest part for a man is to do Gods will without the need of a women. Feminism pretty much socially engineered the women and a millennial generation that has gotten soft. The traditional marriage is dead. The only thing I got going is be alive everyday.
I don't really like your view. I understand your viewpoint but we're here playing the game of life might as well try putting yourself at an advantage. You can't run cry and hide from the truth.
I'm a Christian, and I believe in holy matrimony. That said, what Richard says is 100% accurate. I know because I've experienced it first hand. I have a son, and when the time comes, I can't in good faith cast him into the lion's den that is present-day marriage. Most likely I will advise him not to do it.
Modern day "marriage" is not biblical marriage. When women are encouraged to ditch their husband by financial incentives, society, even friends from church, it's just not the same as what marriage has been historically. Today, it's destruction of the family unit at the foundation. Not healthy for society.
Simple solution is a prenup. Once women are in their 40’s and divorced, they blame the new guy for what their ex did to them. That’s my biggest turnoff. Being stuck in the past……in their head.
Approaching 50 now, avoided marriage as I knew early on it’s madness for men to marry. Woman are not dates or anymore, I have lots of friends and every single one is miserable or been divorced. Always had Roman chasing me dated much younger woman since I was 25. Please men start having standards and pull these woman up for terrible behaviour.
Marriage is a gamble, the odds are against you. They say 50% end in divorce, it’s probably more like 75%. Almost everyone I know has been divorced and the one’s that are married are miserable, trapped.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
Judeo-Christian-Islamic religions seem to provide a structure within which the male and female dating strategies can reify themselves to an outcome that maximizes but also compromises both.
In Australia if you have a kid with her it's actually 70% of your wealth whipped and 25% of your income paid until the kid is 18 or upto 25 if the kid goes to university it devastated my father. He has nothing now. His loss is my win. But a tragic way to avoid disaster.
@Riggity Doo mine? was an exception to these modern day one's. She was dads 2nd of 3 wives the 3rd fucked him over. My mother has always been generous to her children. And didn't go for child maintenance or alimony etc.
@Riggity Doo because I won't make the same mistakes. I seen to much growing up and I experienced it as the child so I know these government policies wouldn't help my could be child/ren in such a situation. they don't care about the next generation and so any stupid mistake on my behalf would be to not learn from the lessons my father has taught me. And so my life isn't designed around getting married and children it's about finding the cracks to ensure it won't happen
@@brendanalfo411 gotcha. Yeah marriage is a joke. Never married for the same reasons you state (almost, dodged a big bullet). I do have a son that spends half his time with me, so IMO, I got lucky there.
Marriage makes sense the farthest back we go, marriage now it’s an old institution that only makes sense if you want to make kids, but then again even for that you don’t have even need to be marry
Agreed. I’m 31. Single, no kids thankfully. I don’t want to lose half my stuff when my partner can change her mind at any given time. Cuz ppl do change. And u should never give in just cuz of the plain fact that, people can change. Rich said woman can change their mind at any given time. Correction-anyone, male, female, can change their minds at any given time
@@dannylin5980 one day ur happy with a woman than one day she breaks up with u and forgets u and never reaches out like u never existed. Happened to me
@@chainz7006 bro that happens to everybody. But fortunately, I hope u urself r not married. I still cannot wrap my mind about the devastation divorce causes. Ppl in general can change their minds. That’s why it is wise to just date and have a girlfriend, rather than getting married and sign a damn contract where the court gets to come in if the marriage doesn’t work out
@@chainz7006 lol I also had a fun story. I had a coworker, she likes likes me. Here is her status- smokes, drugs even, has a kid, single mom. And she acts like she’s the winner and tries to hit on me. I’m like nope I’m runnin!!!!!!!
Most of us men know that Chad and Tyrone or Joe Millionaire gets most of the attractive women. 90% of men are ignored ghosted or used as a wallet. There is an exodus to look for foreign women now who are more traditional and not as delusional
Chad and Tyrone's don't even need to have money... I know Chad and Tyrones that live in one bedroom bedsits who bang women like the women you see bang Andrew Tate for free champagne and boat tours all day long. Alpha seed will always trump beta-need AKA "high value male".
lmaooo brah foreign women are the EXACT SAME as the women here. How do i know? I have girlfriends in columbia, brazil mexico city, monterrey lmaoo they are the EXACT same or even WORSE. You have to play a different position with foreign women you cant court and hit them but NEVER MARRY you guys are completely LOST haha these women love weed and having plenty sex and you guys put them as a trophy hahaha
Stop, saying, I feel like. Makes you sound like a woman. Say think when you mean think and only use the word feel when you’re talking about your feelings!
A single man can live very cheaply without a wife and family. He doesn't have to work all hours doing a dangerous job he hates. He can afford to pick and choose when he works, for how long and in a job he enjoys. The downside to this is that governments are losing money via income tax. They are having to borrow money to pay for all the single mothers on welfare. In a few years society will see one half paying for the other. All men paying for all parasitic single motherrs. This is already happening in the US where men are being forced to pay child support for children that aren't even his! There is no legislation backing this up, only ( usually ) female judges making up laws as they go along.
1:33 I'll tell you more, even if you are tall, fit, as I am its hard to get women nowadays, standards are just too high, so this example of a overweight guy living in the basement is a total BS
Yep I own my house and cars and am in the best shape of my life with a lot of $ saved up, 41. Crickets on my side of town and I’m told I’m a good looking man.
I'm, 33 years into a relationship as of this very day and never married. And I never will. Our vows were to each other, not the state. Its been, 50/50 since day one. It's the only way a relationship works today in the west.
Hi Rich... I have been going through a mind whirlwind twister this yr....From negative to Positive .I am a 46 yrs old male. Struggled with meeting women a massive loss in confidence. The last 1.1/2 yrs i had put on 105 kg through excess alcoholic consumption over eating... 4 months later i am now 84.8 kg just basically changing my diet. Setting it up every night if not in the morning in one of those dietary trays i take to work.. Avocado , Egg , Goat Cheese , Smoked Salmon , Pepper Vita-Weat Crackers ect... and basic exercise fast pace walking around the block a couple of times after i come home from work everyday....I figured out its all in the mind , Self belief and persistence / determination ...Your clips have helped me out so much. Still working on the women thing hahaha.....Merry Christmas Rich to you and family and a Happy New YR. Reply
Heard of another couple who split last night,. 2 young kids , stay at home mom with a good husband,, but she wasn't happy and moved back to her parents, WTF
This religious dude almost made me have a flashback. Lol. My last girlfriend was a covert narcissist who used religion as her bait/lure and as her mask. "Church-girl" painted herself out to be the most Godly, Christian and, "chaste" 30-something woman in town. Unfortunately, this was many years ago, and I was a Simp who shared all of my dreams and fears with her way too soon, before I actually knew who and what she was all about/what her game was. Long story short, after barely surviving that nasty head-trip, I have decided that there will be no marriage, no kids, no serious dating and no more Simping for me. Religion and most religious people are nothing but a major con job. And finding a, "good woman" in the U.S. would now be like finding the proverbial unicorn. Life is short; don't be anyone's fool and don't fool yourself either. And remember, suffering is optional!
It's great to have one atheist and one religious guy, have a mature debate where they agree on some things but disagree on others. This is why debate and talks are so beneficial to society.
Kowalski has the credited response and I’m glad he offers the Christian perspective on Rich’s show. I’m Catholic and follow the Theology of the Body, worth looking into!
There is nothing wrong with a man getting married if he Is ready to make that commitment and he has met a good mature woman he loves and who loves him. However, men and women both need to choose wisely. Stop chasing booty, get your priorities straight, and figure out what it is you want in life. Not everyone is marriage material
I'm paying for my teenage daughters car and insurance. My ex-husband has been ignoring her. His dad just passed away and he was expecting a large inheritance. Imagine my ex-husbands response during the reading of the will when he learned his dad made our daughter a trust fund including cash and stocks. He quickly reunited with our daughter and insisting his name be put on the accounts. My ex-husband is running around telling trash that I'm going to take his money. I've given my two oldest children single family homes. My son moved into his Oct 17th. It's a 3br brick ranch on 8 acres. My daughter got hers about 6 years ago. It's a ranch on a full basement on one acre. The master bath is big enough to put a bed in. I our daughter an Infiniti for graduation. He didn't contribute one penny. The insurance alone is $244 a month. He pays $0. Our daughter told him that he has never been part of her life and just found concern for her when it comes to getting his name on her account. But he is doing the usual manly thing and accusing me of being a money grubbing B. That's what people are hearing but I'm not asking for any money. I work full time/overtime and I'm mortgage free. I'm not asking for my name to be on the account. I have my own accounts, checking, savings, 2 Roth 401k accounts, and two taxable brokerage accounts. I have $100k unsecured credit line.
@@riggitydoo5116 I work in fiber optics and I've been a landlord since I was 19 years old. I had two homes completed paid off by the age of 24. I was working on paying off a 3rd when I got married. I sold it and paid off my ex-husbands debt.
@@riggitydoo5116 We just deposited that check and my name is joint on the account. My daughter knows I don't need or want the money. I'm mortgage free and live in a 3000sqft cape cod. I own enough real estate that I could have sold and never worked another day in my life. But I chose to give my children homes. My oldest daughter gets to be a stay at home mom because they aren't stressed over having to pay rent or a mortgage. My son couldn't find anything for rent less than 1300 and credit has tightened and he was denied a loan. But now he is living in a nice home for free. But a jackazz is running around telling people be is worried ill steal our daughters money. When the truth is I'm still working to make my kids lives easier.
@@riggitydoo5116 But payback is a bi!ch! Today, I told my ex-husband that if I had wanted the money I would have taken him back two months ago when he was trying to sweet talk me. I guess I forgot to mention I Said it in front of his girlfriend. 🤣😅😂 Oh....she looked at him very angry 😠😡😤 So, I'm guessing he is having a great afternoon now that they are alone. 😅🤣😂
For that Christian guy, you may have corrected Richard with this verse. 1 Corinthians 7:8 Now to the unmarried[a] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do (You have to abstain from sex, but Paul does say it is a good thing).
I agree with both. I do feel that, as a society, we would see better results in dating if everyone stayed abstinent. Everyone would have a clear mind, and we would see each other for who we truly are instead of being blinded by sex. That would be in a perfect world. We are so polluted now to the point where there’s no going back though
That my friend is a Utopia! Fact remains that will never be, regardless of how strong a believer you both are. My Christian buddies get divorced at the same rate as my non Christian buddies. Blue pill thinking is the problem. Guys typically believe in “soul mate” and “ true love” which is Blue Pill thinking and really naive. Women are not unique and there are No unique ones, there are just women. They are very predictable at every age. What all men need to understand, that are thinking about marriage and a family, which is natural and good, is the woman has the power of the state and court system on her side and will win 90% of the time In a divorce court. Those are terrible odds for the guy. Women show up to the marriage chapel with the power of the state!! You show up with you resources and your ability to work hard and make money, typically, and any point in the future she can take up to 75% of everything you have busted your a$$ for. 55% of marriages end up in divorce and 80% of divorces are filed by the woman. So be extremely careful and protect yourself legally before signing a marriage contract with the state!!!!
@@samwalton4598 I believe there are unique ones. In fact, I have had a couple in my 25 years of life. Maybe you’re just going after the wrong type of woman. I agree that they are very predictable. I actually use that to my benefit. I openly spin plates and I use my knowledge of women to keep them all at bay. The ones that can no longer take it, I let go. As long as you’re honest and open with the women you deal with, they will let you have your way. You have to change your mindset about women or you will always have negative experiences with them. Learn them, and use that to your advantage, but don’t manipulate or be over aggressive. If they like you, they’ll submit.
@@t.y.2936 -- Tyrone, with all due respect. I admire your idealism and optimism, I caution you to watch what what the woman does, never to what she says. I am 62 years old and was married for 21 years and have raised 3 very attractive daughters ages 23,25,27. The woman you face in court will be the true woman that you thought you knew and married years earlier when you "fell in love". I do have some hindsight. Keep in mind there are rarely "unique circumstances" that make your situation different. Women are women no matter the culture and are very predictable at every age.
@@t.y.2936 - Correction there are no unique women in this world. They are different from a man but they are not unique. Stop living in the Matrix. People are unique in God’s eyes. Not in a man’s eyes! Stop pedestalizing women!
Rich is MGTOW and I bet he doesn't even realize it. Guys, there is more to MGTOW than just being monk mode. You can still date and be MGTOW. MGTOW just means you're not going to get married. If you're reading this; love the channel and the content Rich, and welcome to the fold brother! Lol
Exactly! MGTOW is NOT anti-women. Its anti letting women control you and your life. It puts the MAN in the drivers seat. It asks - is the risk worth the benefit. The reason most MGTOW do not get married is because it is anathema to this doctrine. You are ceding control to the state - and to a woman who is supported by that same governing body. In countries where there is true equity in marriage - it may be an option but even then you are ceding control of your life to another person. That said - there are good women out there. I know. I had one born and raised in Central Asia. Passed away two years ago. I was lucky - most men today are not. At least in the west.
One more quick comment: I have lived in Japan for over 30 years and can say from experience that there is not a lot of difference between Japanese women and Western women.
@3:39 "isolated mistakes" lol no one accidentally has sex. This guy thinks that by becoming a trad con and being a good boy for God he can put the genie back in the bottle and live happily ever after in a trad con marriage.
I hate to say it. I'm 39 and still a birgin. I take care myself, college engineer degreed. Good career, interesting hobbies. Still can't land it. I'm red pulled, not any of this incel, black pill etc. I'm working on myself so very hard this last year. Lost 36 lbs, l9sding the body fat, getting my body game top notch. Need to get the house etc. I can get a few looks at the gym but it's just that. Its too damn hard today here in America
Isn't marriage risky for any breadwinner? Even in man to man relationships or women breadwinners, in divorce, the breadwinners end up losing more, regardless of sex.
Axe Wounds from every corner of the Earth are $200 for thirty minutes and in your suburb. It’s almost virtually impossible to not get a cougar online these days. Yeah, where is the issue?
Dave Ramsey put a video out a couple weeks ago. Seven million men have chosen to opt out of the workforce. They are living in moms basement, living off women, living in their cars, sofa hopping, or on the streets. Women file for divorce because we are covering over 50% of the bills but doing all the housework plus cooking and laundry. In my case, the yardwork too.
I read your book in one breath. While there is nothing I would not agree, I think you haven't covered two things in your book. 1. Economical aspects of having children today. Even leftists say that it's in fact economical suicide for a man. 2. The "Dark Triad". You generally describe so called "cluster B" personality disorders there. Very few women are trurly psychopatic. Instead of that, BPD is regarded as "female psychopathy". Histrionic traits are prototypical for all Cluster B disorders - narcissists, borderline, psychopaths and sociopaths. That's why it's so hard to pracisely diagnose them. There are many checklists helping to spot them, I think you could discuss it at your channel. One of the effects of dealing with such disorders is PTSD.
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Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
Evolution and abiogenesis is a Lie!
imo Rich, I disagree with the fact that only 300 pounds guys that still live in their basement with their mother are the only ones sexless. If it was like that, the situation would be much less dramatic. Rich, I'm a 5,9 average looking guy, thin, I'm 22 still in college, and the problem is that women look me down so much because of their delusional mindset. Like, the problem now is that being avarage or even above avarage is not enough for competing on the market, women are so spoiled and want to date up so much that an avarage guy is automatically below avarage in their head. And I'm not talking about extremely good-looking girls that are out of my League, I'm talking about avarage women that always expect too much from men, especially in their 20s. Like, what are we supposed to do, wait for our 30s/40s to have sex just because of the fact that I'll be financially stable(hopefully), like these girls expect a 20 year old to be the s***. I believe that this is due to social media that have created unrealistic expectations for women.
Thanks
Not looking good for your daughter man need to get her out of that school.
“A marriage contract is the only agreement where a woman is richly rewarded for breaking it.”
-Rich Cooper💯
1) Marriage is IPO for women
2) Divorce is cashing out.
3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government
I worked with a woman who was mid 40's divorced with 2 kids from a guy makin about 1 million a year. She bragged about how she was pullin 120k a yr in child support. Her salary was only 30k a year. Whatta buncha BS. Crooked ass system.
Great comment, brother. Permit me to add one or 2 more....
4. Alimony/Spousal support is annuity payments to wahmen.
5. Marriage is a stock option for wahmen. To be exercised when the time is right.
Stay single, fellas. Stay free. Maintain sovereignty over yourself and your resources.
Fucking Racket. All it is.
Truth!
Let’s make it clear that 90% investors lose on investing …
Marriage is a man betting half his wealth that he can keep a woman happy forever. Men, find something better to spend your time and wealth
🤯
1) Marriage is IPO for women
2) Divorce is cashing out.
3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government
And what is for women?
@@4lugan an insurance policy to protect them from their depreciating value
Similar to my cousin with the child
Marriage cost me everything. Dumbest thing I EVER did.
Marriage cost me everything also. And I never got married. My best friend did. Took his own life after a divorce.
Say more
@@bigneiltoo 😞😞😞
No, u choosing a bad woman cost u everything. You failed as a man, she lost respect
@Kirk Patrick sorry to hear that about ya friend
Don’t get married because you’ll lose your
1. Money
2. Freedom
3. Sanity
FACTS..Fellas if you don't like having control of your money/finances, if you don't value freedom/space, & if you don't require sanity/peace of mind, then by all means go get married
Only if you are such an incompentant idiot that you dont actually vet each other first.
And in worst cases, death.
Facts 😂
FreeDumbs 😊
If you're single like me and laying in your bed just take a deep breath, close your eyes, smile and be thankful 🤗
Very Thankful
Amen brother.
I used to be that religious guy... Grew up in the church. Married what I thought was a good wife. Until she destroyed our marriage. Got red pilled, and left the church. I still check in with my old church friends now and then. Lots of them got cheated on.
Sounds similar to me but I still have a much closer relationship to God and recently finished the Bible.
@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 What does having finish the Bible Have anything to do with this?
That's because most church women are whores in disguise looking for men to fall for it.
@@budrick2003 Good question: what does the bible have to do with this? That guy has confused topics. Besides bible is a lie, link:
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If god existed he would have saved the marriage of such religious person like you. But because there is no god your marriage was destroyed by evil woman.
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Dudes are stupid. As it's said, "She's not yours, it's just your turn."
It's Facts 💯 No women is yours
Yup, and if you are last in line you are really stupid.
I'm 67, and this is not a new problem, this began in the 70s, nothing I did got women interested, at 46 I quit dating, wasn't worth the hassle and all I found were leftovers
I quit dating, too. But I quit for the fact that I was wasting my time and life for these worthless creatures.
Women aren't worthless. I occasionally meet one that I would be willing to pay seventy five or a a hundred bucks for an hour of fun with. But, marriage? Oh Hell no!
@@scottbrown7415 Threfore, you've become worth a lot.
@@ericephemetherson3964 to Me. I'm priceless. A true "one of". And i actually own my car and home. It's not part of community property.
It’s better to not have a partner, than married the wrong partner.
I remember being 16 doing my apprenticeship in engineering, and this old divorced dude that worked on the shop floor would always try to give me advice.
The one piece of advice ill never forget was. “Be careful with women, you’ll never see them sneaking around, and they can take you down with one bite, they are snakes with tits”
I found it funny at the time, poor guy must have seen some stuff.
Snakes with tits.
Wisdom
Snakes with tits is accurate. Seen it plenty.
Stats prove women cheat more than men.
I had a very similar experience 25 years ago.
" snakes with tits " love that saying 🤣😂
I recently told a woman who is married that me as a guy has it great because I don't have a woman in my life and and I can nap, eat, etc...do whatever the fuck I want. She surprisingly said she agreed with me.
My father told me once to never buy something that depreciates, always lease it. Why would a man get married when there is, at best, only a 50 percent change of making it and then when she leaves she gets half of everything and you only get to see your kids once every 2 weeks. Lease it until it gets a few miles and then lease another one.
What about cars? He is partially right. If you lease it, you’ll end up paying more for it. Whereas if you pay it upfront, you pay a small amount.
I dont lease or buy i just rent exotics every once ina while, like lamborghini ferrari porsche for a weekend.. drive the 💩 out of them, have my fun with them and thats it, no long contracts signed.
In other words, if it flies, floats or fucks, its cheaper to lease it!
So,
Divorce, a mass movement today.
Thank you, liberals, not
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
One of my work colleagues brought over a girl from Russia marry. This girl had him thrown out of HIS house, and now she lives there with her boyfriend.
Typical
But the Russian girls are more better than western women but some of them are bad . But majority Russia women love to marry their own man Russia
@@Smiler2724 Young girls in big cities most of them are "modern" nowadays. They aren't taught to be wife. Their mothers didn't do it. Especially single mother. Same shit with Ukraine girls, women.
Philippino girls are more suitable for marriage and long-living with husband.
@@mate-way Yes the Asian women like Philippines, Chinese,veitnam and Indonesia
@@Smiler2724 Definitely not Chinese! Divorce rate there is high.
So true. I married later in life (29 y/o). I grew up blue-pilled with a Disney perception of marriage (man meets woman, falls in love, gets married, lives happily every after). I made a very poor choice for a wife (single mom). It lasted less than 3 years. I describe it as misery interrupted by moments of happiness. Have been single ever since. Modern women are broken. I guess I am just destined to be single. I don't ever get lonely (especially now that I am red-pilled and understand female nature) but at times, it sucks to be alone. At 50+, I can't imagine trying to find a wife in times we are living.
You’re lonely. Some men can handle being alone, u obv can’t. Get a partner but don’t marry
Can be lonely within a Marriage much worse than being lonely in singledom
It's better to be lonely now than get married and losing everything you ever built!
Plenty of lonely men in sexless marriages.
@@logical_lb3059 never get a partner
The problem is less than 5% of women are attractive, feminine, friendly and willing to follow a man’s lead…so marriage today is not an option for 95% of women
Womem have no interest in following a man's lead
Absolute bollocks, close your bible.
The makeup/atittudes are hideous!
Women, a word to you all , be FEMININE, SEXY and KIND all the days of your life.
A little I say LITTLE out of shape, you can fix that.
But PLEASE stop with all that fakeup, its time has gone, its ugly and you all look different, worse in the morning.
not true
Didn't you mean to say it's not an option for men
I was driving Uber and this 27 yo woman broke up with her boyfriend who she moved to Florida with so that she could be a bootie call for her older, successful boss who has 2 kids. When I tried to press for why her ex-boyfriend was no longer good enough for her she just didn't have any specific answers. Commitment doesn't mean anything I guess to party girls especially.
She was bragging, not looking to be challenged. In her mind she is winning.
I have my GF from Mexico , we have been together 16 years , she has a small friend circle , doesnt speak english , cooks and cleans like women of the past , go south my friends
Go south for women , don’t go south to find men , both don’t want us it seems only chicks that want Latin men are Slavic women
Or south east (Asia)
@@sebastiancorrales English?
Colombia is where I went much better than the West
John wayne only dated hispanic women 👍
15 years ago I did my own personal analysis on marriage and saw no sense in a couple paying the public just to acknowledge the pair as partners. This is ridiculous.
After I broke up with my previous ex, I started really thinking about why I wanted to get married from the get-go; I viewed it then as something "ya just do". That's a hell of a legal and financial commitment for something "ya just do" . I realized I'd never genuinely thought about it, and I'm glad that moment hit me.
Why do people NOT understand that legal marriage is both a committment, a responsbility, and a set of legal PROTECTIONS. there is a lot of benefits to being married beyond the good feels, specifically being able to hold each other's secrets and next of kin decision making among others. Ignoring these is stupid, cause when they come up, you will be grateful for them. Not saying marriage is for all, but stop thinking of this as a trap....its not.
Marriage let’s the government into your personal life.
@@shadowmancer99. “Protections?” Maybe for women.
@@Me97202That is such a child's way of looking at. Yes, marraige does confur a bit of responsibilities on you, but it also help you legally. It protects your rights wen it comes to medical decisions. Itprotects you privacy in the case of legal matters. It helps protect you legal parental rights. Itsfine if you dont want to get married but its silly to ignore the practical benefits that comes with it as well.
If you ever had a lawyer review an NDA, you realize marriage is a bad contract.
Avoid the Western women mostly but today is the worst , because of the financial situation
I was standing right next to him as the best man at my closest friends wedding twenty years ago. I had the chance to tackle him before he said those two words that ended up causing him so much misery. To this day I still apologize to him.
Friends don’t let friends say “I do”…….ever.
lol
Each to their own.
True
Wish I was aware of this information prior to 2019. 🇨🇦 I was content on my own, then pressured into marriage. I didn't even propose and my wife already had the venue booked and planned. To top that off, it was an issue when I wanted to invite my own blood mother. After building 95% of our income property last year, she served me a separation agreement for 90k. This women went from unicorn, to the worst human I've ever met in my 33 years. Locked out, and opp(police) can't help you regain access for basic necessities such as water, bathroom, and shelter at that matter. Turns out she's a criminal lawyer, and I set my young business plan aside starting own company to build her two residential water front properties. I was just a useful tool. No kids, but took my gsd.
"This women went from unicorn, to the worst human I've ever met" - my last sixteen dates.
So you didn't propose, she booked a venue, and you said "I do" when you didn't even ask???????? Man I truly wish you the best in building yourself back up post-divorce, but that was a seriously bad call on your part
Turns out she's a criminal lawyer?? You didn't know what she did before you married her?? Do you have your eyesight or are you handicap? Your entire post gave me a headache. 😁
@@graemelock4103 thanks.
Good grief. Best of luck man. I bet you won't do that again .
I'm doing a 5 year apprenticeship program in Local 669 I hear nothing but horror stories from guys all the time regarding divorce, losing half their pension, losing the equity in the house etc.Now I realize these men are not red pilled but i'm very red pill aware. So when I heed the warning online through these videos, and see these scenarios really play out in real life. It really makes you think. This is a gynocentric society, believe me, DO NOT SIGN A MARRIAGE CONTRACT.
Tell me, what's life about? Money?😂😂😂😂
I'm thinking about joining union for hvac. Is this the right route to go?
@@nicesmack9309 Wrong video
@@Bob31415 How so? The original comment the guy joined the union. Just asking if it right.
@@nicesmack9309 Lol. Ok friend. If you want my opinion, I'd say yes, join because workers in this country have been getting yanked around by corporations for at least two generations. Good luck in your career.
It goes both ways. I grew up in a Christian household and I saw so much cheating in the church and my father preacher cheated on my mom and ruined her and traumatized his daughters.
I despise cheating so much I’m actually terrified of even getting married. As a woman! I’ve been single my whole life and actually a virgin by choice, mostly cause I don’t want to be a 304. This world is just awful. Cheating hurts so much. It ruins families, it traumatizes ppl. Idk marriage is no longer a priority and it sucks because I always dreamed about being a good wife and good mother and being with one man my whole life but I really don’t know anymore 😢
Do you do Latin dancing by any chance?
Follow inner peace...and trust God
You sound like a great woman. There's alot of men who would love to be with you
Men cheating versus women cheating not the same, however if he try to destroy ur family that's dumb, men can still love their wife if they cheat, women cheat to feel so not the same.
@@kyo215 i really have a hard time understanding tbh.. I can see maybe a one night stand a man won’t catch feelings and won’t bother with those women, but not a complete side chick, that’s a different story. Most men I know that cheating end up leaving their wives and children to go and live a new life with the side chick. The thing is men spend ALOT of time entertaining the side chick. They text a lot, they lie a lot to go see them, it’s like what’s the point if the man will take so much time away from the wife and kids?? My father wouldn’t even pay attention to us because he was so entertained with side chicks. It’s like what’s the point, this is the argument of alot of ppl when they think of a cheating father, husband, he was never truly there… this is what hurts
I lost a house and car that I had before I met her. Nevertheless, the court in Texas gave her everything. And get this, she’s the one that filed for divorce NOT me. She was remarried 10 months later to some other dude from her work.
That's tragic. Sorry dude
the laugh/cry emoji >> 😂 for the insanity.
I’d like to know how you guys interacted before marriage
and hes gonna leave her when the devils done using her ... karmic energy is always in effect......
Easy come easy go! The clean up guy is on a timer.
Rich is SPOT ON with everything he says about modern culture. What used to be considered weird and disgusting (and rightfully so) is now considered normal and beyond reproach by the decadent woke speech/thought police of the media, corporations and "educational" system. Our society needs about 200 million more people like him.
Just back from Dubai. Woke-free as near as I can tell. Whole different vibe. Political arguments are virtually non-existent. No gender confusion, alphabet people activism or other nonsense. Refreshing! Lots of beautiful women. No more Western women.
Did you meet the Top G?
@@logwind Unfortunately I did not! But I sure hope to. I expect to be spending more time there. If you're looking for a place that feels fairly normal then check out Dubai. It's not perfect and I'm under no illusions about the downsides but dramatically better than the west.
I've been talking to a filipina woman since April of 2021. We've had our ups and downs. But I still love her and respect her
You only saw dubai from the outset. On the inside, alot of these things happen, just not on social media as the laws are very tough.
I can’t wait to get my passport and see this world, the west is dead
I met a 50+ years old woman with 2 kids she was divorcing. I was in choc when she told me: 1) She cheated on his husband multiple time. 2) She was happy to get all brand new furniture at her new home. 3) She was happy to get more child support as she was earning in her new job (she never worked in her life before). 4) She was not able to made to fill tax declaration as she never need to do. 5) She was in a toxic relation with a little criminal chad. Summarize: Enough red flags, I run.
Govt has replaced husband
And "Govt" means taking his money to pay other men to aim guns at him to force him to obey women.
In nazi Germany the gov replaced mom and dad figure .
Nailed it. And, sorry to say, the father.
Too true brother
I have a co worker that has been married and divorced 3 times. Lives alone and is 78 years old working 55 hours a week.
The fact that Tia Mowry stated that her marriage was like a graduation from college is all the proof you really need to hear not to get married.
Facts 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Agree 100% with Rich. It's absolutely disgusting how we are not allowed to say certain words because they aren't politically correct. Yes, certain things are wrong and gross and we should not be accepting of it and exposing our children to it especially when they are too young to understand.
You want to say n*gger, go right ahead.
I never married. Even in times when a woman represented some value I noticed that no matter how much one wanted to entertain her she was never satisfied. So, the next step was the potential possibility of marriage. Then, that thought quickly disappeared from my mind for if she acts the way she does before marriage I wondered what it would be like after marriage. I think that men should never consider marriage now and ever. My male friends suffer now. And it is one manner of learning even though I warned my male friends not to do that. Now they tell me that I was correct.
I'm so glad people like rob are introducing themselves into this community, the red pill stuff does an ok job identifying a problem in modern dating, but at the end of the day if your values and moral structure aren't good then you're never gonna find the happiness and fulfilment that you're searching for, that's what a lot of the alpha stuff simply doesn't offer you
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bringing this here for, i can't stop thinking about her.
it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@bartholetbay412 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
@@Margart526 her name is MIRIAM CHAMANI DIETRICH, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
you shouldn't let that determine your happiness, stay safe.
My friends that did not cohab and had no sex before marriage are basically stable. No uncoupling from what I see. My friends that went into relationships where they had sex and Cohabed. The relationship broke up. Thats just in my world. At 51. I would have to be with a woman that has a low body count with a woman that is 27 yrs old. Lots of women that I see have some sort of problem no matter what’s going on in their lives.
Many young women these days are unstable, because they've been encouraged to sleep around. And an attractive young women can stack up bodies like there's no tomorrow, because all they have to do is open their legs and men will come swarming like bees to honey.
Men on the other hand have to play the game right to get with a chick, and they're up against very stiff competition. So if a guy has a high body count, they brag about it and people look at them with awe. Men with high body counts are seen as chads, and women are seen as sluts. Neither is good or healthy though. Men get cocky and feel like they can do anything they want, and women get messed up in the head and get depressed. Either one, won't last long in a long term relationship, let alone marriage. Unless they do some serious soul searching and change their ways.
A have familymember that was 100 pc virgin till marriage @18....
Divorced at 30, afetr 1 child , another bf and 2 more kids, then marriage to recovering drug user, destroyed the home.
Not the rule maybe but , NOTHING is gauranteed in relationships
@@stevenkrupka3670 I hear you. It’s about playing the odds.
It doesn’t matter anymore where she’s from. If a woman has a smartphone or more than two female relatives or friends, she’s a feminist or feminism sympathiser.
Im finding that flow and ebb here in SE ASia, along with"international womans day in month of may" TV, Internet, bull horns in streets even!
Young girls wearing bold lettered t shirts "gender equality"
Strong western influences all over
Men want marriage. Women want a wedding. Big difference.
Women don't have mercy on man when the situation get worst financial
I don’t want either
Women also want to do there own thing in marriage 💯
Don't want ethier nomore.
I don’t care at all about the wedding - the marriage is what’s important.
I am one of them. I will be 33 soon and still remain my V-card. But there is a reason behind. And dont get me wrong that picture you see is me. I am 6ft and 190 lbs , I fight as a Pro here in Europe , I do have that Chad look but I dont bother with that. Here in Belgium houses are the biggest investments. So I have one (2016 model brand new) an another one in University city for student where I rent for students. I have daily 2018 model Toyota and a 94 GT4 Celica as a fun ride. 3 MTBikes worth of 20K euro and savings etc. But when I look at the others who got luck and have been pump and dump or in and out relationships or every friday and staurday party party NONE OF THEM have 300 euros in their bank accounts. NONE !
They start parting at the age of 20's and time goes so fast and all of sudden they find themselves 35 years old , no investment no stability etc. So men try to rebound what they have done wrong at their 20's but its late and women of course in short way trying to find a computer nerd IT guy who he never had luck with any woman and now she doing a favor to him and marry him but while dating the beta and make the beta wait they go and serve themselves to a guy who pulls her hair and give her eye-rolls.
DIS GUS TING !
Mine fought me every step of my life. Anytime I would try to improve myself or even our lives I was fought tooth and nail. You young men hear me out. Don't EVER live with one under any circumstances. They exist to destroy you, it's all they think about. Save yourselves.
I am 64, and a Believer in Christ. I gave up sex outside of marriage for Him in 1979...It was not always easy, but I have had a great life. Been around the world more times that I can remember, have friends all over the U.S. and world.....I was open to marriage and still am....But you can have a great life without marriage.
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@@bruha321 🤦♂️😂
@@bruha321 Projection
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
I agree John, it’s definitely possible
Can't imagine being married if not tied to faith. Like I literally can't think of one argument for it. I could argue getting married is one of the biggest acts of faith that one could actually do.
One argument is that making a commitment to each other publicly had more weight to it than privately.
Faith is the omission or suspension of critical thought/logic.
@@remoevans7847 Faith is hope realized to its fullest potential. Most people live hopeless lives have hopeless dreams so I don't expect most people to have genuine faith. IMO
True even if its abiut faith keep to just religious marriage not goverment
what weight does it have when 56% of it ends and 80-90% of woman intiate it
If you think religion will keep her loyal, you've never met a pastor's daughter.
What’s your experience ?
@@DD-ky2pi I stated my experience 😑
@@LordVader.66 You didn’t go into detail on what makes a pastor’s daughter disloyal..
@@DD-ky2pi My experience is that the mass majority are extreme party girls and the particular one was a serial cheater. Don't need to write a book about it.
Maybe why Christians need a savior to save them from their sins because they are incapable of doing good
Thank goodness you brought up the Passport Bros. Makes no damn sense to me. Spend thousands to bring a girl over here only for her to be assimilated into American culture and boss babe garbage in a matter of years. Come on now…
At least they are more feminine and weigh less than men from the beginning.
@@d.j6371 the beginning? That ain't worth spending all that money, time and effort for "a few years". You might as well have fun only with a modern girl and save yourself the hassle.
My understanding is that the first warning the passport bros get is to NOT bring her to the west. Heard that message many times as I looked into it.
@@HARwinsOUTagain yes from the beginning. Actual feminine energy. It no longer exist in the US. You have to feel it to know. Poland, Bulgaria, Romania have absolutely amazing beautiful and in shape women. Body positivity delusion doesn't exist. They know that fat isn't attractive.
@@scottgaylon1196Exactly
In Finland, Europe, in 87% in the first court cases the court orders close-parentage to the mother, and a fairly normal practice is to order the father only every other weekend with his children. Over 50% of the mother's apply for sole custody. The most common situation is that the father wants to spend time with his children, while the mother opposes it.
The judges in Finland have sworn on oath on their honour and consciense to render justice in a lawful and impartial manner. The European Convention on Human Rights (protocol no. 7, article 5) states that spouses shall enjoy EQUALITY OF RIGHTS...WITH THEIR CHILDREN..also in the event of the marriage's dissolution (divorce).
What does it all mean? Judges in Finland are systematically and ILLEGALLY discriminating fathers, alienating children from their fathers, mentally torturing fathers by ILLEGALLY restricting time between the father and his children. Many fathers also delete themselves due to the agony. Also, the less you see your children, to more you have to pay child support.
My personal case and me? No criminal record, no violence history, no alcohol or drug problems, no mental health problems, no harm to children ever, a completely normal father, was 12 years with the mother. What decision did one judge, Ann-Sofie Högström (Finland, Länsi-Uudenmaan district court), make? I get to see my kids every other weekend + 1 week summer vacation with them PER YEAR.
Notice that I haven't even talked about prenup, alimony or division of assets issues here.
I'm a 49yr old successful tech attorney that's in okay shape and I can tell you that if I want to get married I can do it tomorrow, BELIEVE ME!
This could very well change in the future but as of now I have made the decision that at this point in my life I do not want children. I believe that the only reason a person should get married is for the purpose of starting a family because I believe in the "nuclear family unit" and children need to be raised in a 2 person household which means a Mommy & Daddy.
If children are not apart of the equation than all you are doing by getting married is inviting the state into your life and I really don't know why anyone would do that willingly??
I'm a Muslim man (i'm in Malaysia),i didn't had sex before marriage. Got married when I was 26 years old. Still being happily married to the same women after 18 years. The problem with me is that when i get older and having better resources now, i start to commit infidelities outside.....having girlfriends and doing it. 😅
Muslim man could have 4 wives at the same time, so yes humans are not monogamous. Thats why its already being factored-in in the Islamic teachings. "Smart men dont get married".....i agree to that....but only for the western world. Bcos western women are damaged on the inside. Ohhh yeahh....the west is totally screwed this time.
Change your religion……
Are you telling me girls who were raised in the Muslim world are not damaged?
Well said
So you stayed a virgin as a man for all that time because of a stupid religion?...... Dam.....
Who said marriage is all about you?
It's not. Like much of life, it's a sacrifice.
But a worthy one.
@@Kitiwake marriage has to be a net positive. The sacrifice has to be worth jt
It’s better to be alone. One of the things a man must value is the idea of having nothing. Having more money doesn’t make you a better person, having a better physical shape won’t make you a better person, or have casual sex with many women won’t make you a better person. But I think hardest part for a man is to do Gods will without the need of a women. Feminism pretty much socially engineered the women and a millennial generation that has gotten soft. The traditional marriage is dead. The only thing I got going is be alive everyday.
I don't really like your view. I understand your viewpoint but we're here playing the game of life might as well try putting yourself at an advantage. You can't run cry and hide from the truth.
You can still propose and have a wedding without getting legally married
Truthfully, how can our world not collapse?
Im Just hoping It does...nothing worth fighting for anymore
It is collapsing. Thanks Joe Biden
Smart men don't get married.
Yup
I'm a Christian, and I believe in holy matrimony. That said, what Richard says is 100% accurate. I know because I've experienced it first hand. I have a son, and when the time comes, I can't in good faith cast him into the lion's den that is present-day marriage. Most likely I will advise him not to do it.
Modern day "marriage" is not biblical marriage. When women are encouraged to ditch their husband by financial incentives, society, even friends from church, it's just not the same as what marriage has been historically. Today, it's destruction of the family unit at the foundation. Not healthy for society.
I love your honesty Rich and you're not scared to speak the truth.
Simple solution is a prenup. Once women are in their 40’s and divorced, they blame the new guy for what their ex did to them. That’s my biggest turnoff. Being stuck in the past……in their head.
prenups are useless.....she just has to say she was" confused" when she signed.....do not marry at all
Prenups are routinely challenged. all she has to do is say she signed under duress and the judge will throw the prenup out
That shit would get flipped if you’re in a state that favors the woman.
Approaching 50 now, avoided marriage as I knew early on it’s madness for men to marry. Woman are not dates or anymore, I have lots of friends and every single one is miserable or been divorced. Always had Roman chasing me dated much younger woman since I was 25. Please men start having standards and pull these woman up for terrible behaviour.
Every single one is miserable if they're being divorced that says it all right there
Completely true. You are so wise. The part about welcoming the state into your household when getting married. Great line.
Marriage is a gamble, the odds are against you. They say 50% end in divorce, it’s probably more like 75%.
Almost everyone I know has been divorced and the one’s that are married are miserable, trapped.
I would like to know where you live. Those numbers are quite high
80%
@@_cesarjoseph reality
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created
The odds are so far against you it's a 8 chamber Russian roulette revolver of which 7 chambers are full your not gonna survive
Judeo-Christian-Islamic religions seem to provide a structure within which the male and female dating strategies can reify themselves to an outcome that maximizes but also compromises both.
In Australia if you have a kid with her it's actually 70% of your wealth whipped and 25% of your income paid until the kid is 18 or upto 25 if the kid goes to university it devastated my father. He has nothing now. His loss is my win. But a tragic way to avoid disaster.
and your Mother? did she contribute wealth and income to you?
@Riggity Doo mine? was an exception to these modern day one's. She was dads 2nd of 3 wives the 3rd fucked him over. My mother has always been generous to her children. And didn't go for child maintenance or alimony etc.
@@brendanalfo411 nice but I don't understand how his loss was your win if she didn't take child support. Maybe it is different there.
@Riggity Doo because I won't make the same mistakes. I seen to much growing up and I experienced it as the child so I know these government policies wouldn't help my could be child/ren in such a situation. they don't care about the next generation and so any stupid mistake on my behalf would be to not learn from the lessons my father has taught me. And so my life isn't designed around getting married and children it's about finding the cracks to ensure it won't happen
@@brendanalfo411 gotcha. Yeah marriage is a joke. Never married for the same reasons you state (almost, dodged a big bullet). I do have a son that spends half his time with me, so IMO, I got lucky there.
Marriage makes sense the farthest back we go, marriage now it’s an old institution that only makes sense if you want to make kids, but then again even for that you don’t have even need to be marry
Woman view alimony and child support as a career choice.
I'm never marrying no matter what society says
thats good im doing the same il spend my life with someone but never marry them.
Agreed. I’m 31. Single, no kids thankfully. I don’t want to lose half my stuff when my partner can change her mind at any given time. Cuz ppl do change. And u should never give in just cuz of the plain fact that, people can change. Rich said woman can change their mind at any given time. Correction-anyone, male, female, can change their minds at any given time
@@dannylin5980 one day ur happy with a woman than one day she breaks up with u and forgets u and never reaches out like u never existed. Happened to me
@@chainz7006 bro that happens to everybody. But fortunately, I hope u urself r not married. I still cannot wrap my mind about the devastation divorce causes. Ppl in general can change their minds. That’s why it is wise to just date and have a girlfriend, rather than getting married and sign a damn contract where the court gets to come in if the marriage doesn’t work out
@@chainz7006 lol I also had a fun story. I had a coworker, she likes likes me. Here is her status- smokes, drugs even, has a kid, single mom. And she acts like she’s the winner and tries to hit on me. I’m like nope I’m runnin!!!!!!!
Most of us men know that Chad and Tyrone or Joe Millionaire gets most of the attractive women. 90% of men are ignored ghosted or used as a wallet. There is an exodus to look for foreign women now who are more traditional and not as delusional
Chad and Tyrone's don't even need to have money... I know Chad and Tyrones that live in one bedroom bedsits who bang women like the women you see bang Andrew Tate for free champagne and boat tours all day long. Alpha seed will always trump beta-need AKA "high value male".
lmaooo brah foreign women are the EXACT SAME as the women here. How do i know? I have girlfriends in columbia, brazil mexico city, monterrey lmaoo they are the EXACT same or even WORSE. You have to play a different position with foreign women you cant court and hit them but NEVER MARRY you guys are completely LOST haha these women love weed and having plenty sex and you guys put them as a trophy hahaha
All depends what city you live. In Vegas most are looking for sugar daddies or wealthy men. When you look only on dating apps this what happens.
Thanks for the perspective, brother. I really liked your comments about home schooling. 👍
Stop, saying, I feel like. Makes you sound like a woman. Say think when you mean think and only use the word feel when you’re talking about your feelings!
It's an American way of speaking and is very feminine
A single man can live very cheaply without a wife and family. He doesn't have to work all hours doing a dangerous job he hates. He can afford to pick and choose when he works, for how long and in a job he enjoys.
The downside to this is that governments are losing money via income tax. They are having to borrow money to pay for all the single mothers on welfare. In a few years society will see one half paying for the other. All men paying for all parasitic single motherrs. This is already happening in the US where men are being forced to pay child support for children that aren't even his! There is no legislation backing this up, only ( usually ) female judges making up laws as they go along.
1:33 I'll tell you more, even if you are tall, fit, as I am its hard to get women nowadays, standards are just too high, so this example of a overweight guy living in the basement is a total BS
Yep I own my house and cars and am in the best shape of my life with a lot of $ saved up, 41. Crickets on my side of town and I’m told I’m a good looking man.
I'm, 33 years into a relationship as of this very day and never married. And I never will. Our vows were to each other, not the state. Its been, 50/50 since day one. It's the only way a relationship works today in the west.
Hi Rich... I have been going through a mind whirlwind twister this yr....From negative to Positive .I am a 46 yrs old male.
Struggled with meeting women a massive loss in confidence. The last 1.1/2 yrs i had put on 105 kg through excess alcoholic consumption over eating... 4 months later i am now 84.8 kg just basically changing my diet. Setting it up every night if not in the morning in one of those dietary trays i take to work.. Avocado , Egg , Goat Cheese , Smoked Salmon , Pepper Vita-Weat Crackers ect... and basic exercise fast pace walking around the block a couple of times after i come home from work everyday....I figured out its all in the mind , Self belief and persistence / determination ...Your clips have helped me out so much.
Still working on the women thing hahaha.....Merry Christmas Rich to you and family and a Happy New YR.
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Heard of another couple who split last night,. 2 young kids , stay at home mom with a good husband,, but she wasn't happy and moved back to her parents, WTF
Women just can't be made happy sadly
@@Hechangethnot So true. They are chronic malcontents.
This religious dude almost made me have a flashback. Lol. My last girlfriend was a covert narcissist who used religion as her bait/lure and as her mask. "Church-girl" painted herself out to be the most Godly, Christian and, "chaste" 30-something woman in town. Unfortunately, this was many years ago, and I was a Simp who shared all of my dreams and fears with her way too soon, before I actually knew who and what she was all about/what her game was. Long story short, after barely surviving that nasty head-trip, I have decided that there will be no marriage, no kids, no serious dating and no more Simping for me. Religion and most religious people are nothing but a major con job. And finding a, "good woman" in the U.S. would now be like finding the proverbial unicorn. Life is short; don't be anyone's fool and don't fool yourself either. And remember, suffering is optional!
Great discussion. I agree with much of what was said
Do more videos with this guy...two different worlds, two different views in one video. Great content
It's great to have one atheist and one religious guy, have a mature debate where they agree on some things but disagree on others. This is why debate and talks are so beneficial to society.
Rich Cooper really nails things on the head!
Kowalski has the credited response and I’m glad he offers the Christian perspective on Rich’s show. I’m Catholic and follow the Theology of the Body, worth looking into!
So your pro-pedophelia?
You are a cool breeze of truth in a world full of lies! You just got yourself a divoted subscriber! ❤
There is nothing wrong with a man getting married if he Is ready to make that commitment and he has met a good mature woman he loves and who loves him. However, men and women both need to choose wisely. Stop chasing booty, get your priorities straight, and figure out what it is you want in life. Not everyone is marriage material
I'm paying for my teenage daughters car and insurance. My ex-husband has been ignoring her. His dad just passed away and he was expecting a large inheritance.
Imagine my ex-husbands response during the reading of the will when he learned his dad made our daughter a trust fund including cash and stocks. He quickly reunited with our daughter and insisting his name be put on the accounts.
My ex-husband is running around telling trash that I'm going to take his money. I've given my two oldest children single family homes. My son moved into his Oct 17th. It's a 3br brick ranch on 8 acres. My daughter got hers about 6 years ago. It's a ranch on a full basement on one acre. The master bath is big enough to put a bed in.
I our daughter an Infiniti for graduation. He didn't contribute one penny. The insurance alone is $244 a month. He pays $0.
Our daughter told him that he has never been part of her life and just found concern for her when it comes to getting his name on her account. But he is doing the usual manly thing and accusing me of being a money grubbing B. That's what people are hearing but I'm not asking for any money. I work full time/overtime and I'm mortgage free. I'm not asking for my name to be on the account.
I have my own accounts, checking, savings, 2 Roth 401k accounts, and two taxable brokerage accounts. I have $100k unsecured credit line.
Do you have a job, cause I missed where you mentioned your high paying job.
@@riggitydoo5116 I work in fiber optics and I've been a landlord since I was 19 years old. I had two homes completed paid off by the age of 24. I was working on paying off a 3rd when I got married. I sold it and paid off my ex-husbands debt.
@@riggitydoo5116 We just deposited that check and my name is joint on the account. My daughter knows I don't need or want the money. I'm mortgage free and live in a 3000sqft cape cod.
I own enough real estate that I could have sold and never worked another day in my life. But I chose to give my children homes. My oldest daughter gets to be a stay at home mom because they aren't stressed over having to pay rent or a mortgage. My son couldn't find anything for rent less than 1300 and credit has tightened and he was denied a loan. But now he is living in a nice home for free.
But a jackazz is running around telling people be is worried ill steal our daughters money. When the truth is I'm still working to make my kids lives easier.
@@riggitydoo5116 But payback is a bi!ch! Today, I told my ex-husband that if I had wanted the money I would have taken him back two months ago when he was trying to sweet talk me. I guess I forgot to mention I Said it in front of his girlfriend. 🤣😅😂
Oh....she looked at him very angry 😠😡😤 So, I'm guessing he is having a great afternoon now that they are alone. 😅🤣😂
@@riggitydoo5116 I paid tax on 23k of capital gains from day trading last year.
For that Christian guy, you may have corrected Richard with this verse. 1 Corinthians 7:8 Now to the unmarried[a] and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do
(You have to abstain from sex, but Paul does say it is a good thing).
What if women refuse to have kids unless man marries her? Seems that is an ultimate control point women have.
Show them the door
Easily bro 😂😂
Marriage is a LOUSY deal for men 99.9% of the time. Men take ALL of the financial risk. Until fairness in achieved, men _should_ walk away.
100%
Twice divorced .I have three daughters .No way in hell would I ever get married again.
Yes, save your sanity Christopher
I agree with both. I do feel that, as a society, we would see better results in dating if everyone stayed abstinent. Everyone would have a clear mind, and we would see each other for who we truly are instead of being blinded by sex. That would be in a perfect world. We are so polluted now to the point where there’s no going back though
That my friend is a Utopia! Fact remains that will never be, regardless of how strong a believer you both are. My Christian buddies get divorced at the same rate as my non Christian buddies. Blue pill thinking is the problem. Guys typically believe in “soul mate” and “ true love” which is Blue Pill thinking and really naive. Women are not unique and there are No unique ones, there are just women. They are very predictable at every age. What all men need to understand, that are thinking about marriage and a family, which is natural and good, is the woman has the power of the state and court system on her side and will win 90% of the time In a divorce court. Those are terrible odds for the guy. Women show up to the marriage chapel with the power of the state!! You show up with you resources and your ability to work hard and make money, typically, and any point in the future she can take up to 75% of everything you have busted your a$$ for. 55% of marriages end up in divorce and 80% of divorces are filed by the woman. So be extremely careful and protect yourself legally before signing a marriage contract with the state!!!!
@@samwalton4598 I believe there are unique ones. In fact, I have had a couple in my 25 years of life. Maybe you’re just going after the wrong type of woman. I agree that they are very predictable. I actually use that to my benefit. I openly spin plates and I use my knowledge of women to keep them all at bay. The ones that can no longer take it, I let go. As long as you’re honest and open with the women you deal with, they will let you have your way. You have to change your mindset about women or you will always have negative experiences with them. Learn them, and use that to your advantage, but don’t manipulate or be over aggressive. If they like you, they’ll submit.
@@t.y.2936 -- Tyrone, with all due respect. I admire your idealism and optimism, I caution you to watch what what the woman does, never to what she says. I am 62 years old and was married for 21 years and have raised 3 very attractive daughters ages 23,25,27. The woman you face in court will be the true woman that you thought you knew and married years earlier when you "fell in love". I do have some hindsight. Keep in mind there are rarely "unique circumstances" that make your situation different. Women are women no matter the culture and are very predictable at every age.
@@samwalton4598 what if you marry without the state involved? This is the only ways besides marrying in a different country that I can think of.
@@t.y.2936 - Correction there are no unique women in this world. They are different from a man but they are not unique. Stop living in the Matrix. People are unique in God’s eyes. Not in a man’s eyes! Stop pedestalizing women!
Rich is MGTOW and I bet he doesn't even realize it.
Guys, there is more to MGTOW than just being monk mode. You can still date and be MGTOW. MGTOW just means you're not going to get married.
If you're reading this; love the channel and the content Rich, and welcome to the fold brother! Lol
Exactly! MGTOW is NOT anti-women. Its anti letting women control you and your life. It puts the MAN in the drivers seat. It asks - is the risk worth the benefit. The reason most MGTOW do not get married is because it is anathema to this doctrine. You are ceding control to the state - and to a woman who is supported by that same governing body. In countries where there is true equity in marriage - it may be an option but even then you are ceding control of your life to another person. That said - there are good women out there. I know. I had one born and raised in Central Asia. Passed away two years ago. I was lucky - most men today are not. At least in the west.
One more quick comment: I have lived in Japan for over 30 years and can say from experience that there is not a lot of difference between Japanese women and Western women.
Care to elaborate?
Because the whole world tries to emulate the west
I'm interested in why you say that, considering Japanese culture follows Asian culture, not North American culture. I'm very curious about this
@3:39 "isolated mistakes" lol no one accidentally has sex. This guy thinks that by becoming a trad con and being a good boy for God he can put the genie back in the bottle and live happily ever after in a trad con marriage.
Man whore to celibate back to man whore back to celibate because of the J-man. Christ and cuckservative grifters are the worst.
Marriage for men is very high risk for very little reward.
Today, tomorrow, the day after, next week, men shouldn't get married any day of the week, year or century.
I hate to say it. I'm 39 and still a birgin. I take care myself, college engineer degreed. Good career, interesting hobbies. Still can't land it. I'm red pulled, not any of this incel, black pill etc. I'm working on myself so very hard this last year. Lost 36 lbs, l9sding the body fat, getting my body game top notch. Need to get the house etc. I can get a few looks at the gym but it's just that. Its too damn hard today here in America
It’s not hard. You’ve literally just expressed that you’ve done nothing to find a partner
Soon to be 40yr old virgin
@Manley156
Lol..I'm not a virgin
Great discussion. 👍
Isn't marriage risky for any breadwinner? Even in man to man relationships or women breadwinners, in divorce, the breadwinners end up losing more, regardless of sex.
It's not regardless of sex. Visit family court and watch a few hearings.
Axe Wounds from every corner of the Earth are $200 for thirty minutes and in your suburb.
It’s almost virtually impossible to not get a cougar online these days.
Yeah, where is the issue?
No more marriages until men can get benefits from a divorce as well
Preach, brother! There is nothing wrong with being a playboy. Hello sir. Stay healthy and hydrated
I'll never get married! It's stupid for men.
Dave Ramsey put a video out a couple weeks ago. Seven million men have chosen to opt out of the workforce. They are living in moms basement, living off women, living in their cars, sofa hopping, or on the streets.
Women file for divorce because we are covering over 50% of the bills but doing all the housework plus cooking and laundry. In my case, the yardwork too.
Ramsay is an old-school simp
I love your vids Rich.
Fantastic commentary 👌
For Rich a woman should be pretty, rich and forever young. And yes always be obedient to his master!
I read your book in one breath. While there is nothing I would not agree, I think you haven't covered two things in your book.
1. Economical aspects of having children today. Even leftists say that it's in fact economical suicide for a man.
2. The "Dark Triad". You generally describe so called "cluster B" personality disorders there. Very few women are trurly psychopatic. Instead of that, BPD is regarded as "female psychopathy". Histrionic traits are prototypical for all Cluster B disorders - narcissists, borderline, psychopaths and sociopaths. That's why it's so hard to pracisely diagnose them. There are many checklists helping to spot them, I think you could discuss it at your channel. One of the effects of dealing with such disorders is PTSD.