Victoria Shocked by Chaotic 8 Dog Household | Full Episode USA | It's Me or The Dog
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- On this episode, Victoria takes on Melissa & Jeff's 8 rescue dogs. The dogs have overrun Jeff's kitchen & claimed the bedroom as well. All the chaos has destroyed the couples house. Can Dog training expert Victoria get owners to agree on the ground rules?
US Season 2 Episode 07
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God I wish Victoria was my aunt or something 😂She's awesome. So calm and fair, and her love of dogs is inspiring.
wish she would come to the Netherlands, i could rly get het help
i need her to talk to my dad about the way he keeps allowing the dogs to misbehave
you wish she was your aunt?
I wish she was my mother! 😂😂😂
Victoria always has the best facial expressions.
Yep agreed
24:39 reminds me of the Grinch, 😂
She does I love them
@@gablison True. She's so cute though 😊
Ahahahahah yes
The problem is never the dogs, its always the people.
Nah not always
@@sofiaofulue When is it the dogs fault?
@@telia4268 pretty much every problem you see here has to do with dogs and the way they behave. When Gloria steps in and trains these dogs, a large part of it involves using food to trick them into good behavior. I have friends who use the same approach with their dogs, they will get their dog to behave one moment, only for them to revert to their original behavior when they're not around or when someone new shows up, or any other reason. Either these dogs don't really understand us or what we want from them (disproving half the platitudes I hear about dogs), or they don't care what we want from them and will take the first opportunity to do what they want instead (disproving lots of the other platitudes out there).
@@sodapopjones260I like a lot the way you explained it “tricking the dog into good behavior” that’s exactly the problem with modern dog training techniques. When rewards comes in to solve behavior issues, it stops being communication, it’s just tricking the dog through its instincts. That’s why most of them revert, it’s an unconscious process, plus it is unnatural and requires a human in it to be successful.
Though Victoria chooses to address the dog actually. One example: there was no need of food, the dog smelled the leash and had no problem with it, the owner holding the leash was the actual scary thing😂 she made it seem like the leash was the problem, instead of actually teaching the owners not to chase after the dog if they want to catch it, basics of animal handling.
In my country you are only allowed to have 4 adult dogs unless you have special permission
And watching this I completely understand this rule
Yes! We can have a total of 5 animals. Any mix of dogs and cats is fine, as long as there are no more than 5 total. When you have too many, it's difficult for them all to get their emotional needs met. I am a pet sitter and dog walker. One of my clients has seriously evaded the rules and has 7 cats and 3 dogs, all indoors. I was quite concerned the first time I met them. I was told how many animals they have up front. They've been my clients for more than two years whenever they go out of town. Luckily, there are 4 children over the age of 10. The house never smells. The dogs are actually trained in the basic commands, and they seem emotionally secure. But if they didn't have the kids all tending the animals, along with the adults, I can't imagine the chaos there would be! Their level of good care of the animals is, actually, impressive! It's a relaxed, happy home. I'm happy with our two little dogs. That's enough for my husband and I.
I'd jump off a bridge if i had that rule
This is America. Freedom is valued much more than in your country, but that often comes with consequences.
@@2011blueman tf are you going about freedom
I'd like to say I worked as a veterinarian assistant and we had clients with over 30 dogs or over 40 cats... That was insane to me
As someone who relates DEEPLY with Melissa, I feel HORRIBLE for Jeff! A pack of dogs has been part of my long-time dream for as long as I can remember, but I know how much effort has gone in to training my ONE rescue dog so that is a good while off yet!! While it takes a lot of self restraint because I quite literally want all the dogs, I could never put my partner through that - he has the patience of a saint, but I don’t know how Jeff hasn’t cracked up yet 😔
"Jeff, if you do more work, I promise I won't get another dog"
Does that mean that if Jeff does not get more involved, Melissa WILL get another dog? How does that work?
It doesn't make sense!
Jeff reasoned his not helping by saying that he was afraid that if he’d helped out more, Melissa would have just gotten another dog thinking they could handle more, meaning that the only reason she wasn’t getting another one was the chaos.
So basically the deal was that even if the chaos would stop, she would still not get another dog.
@@vanclemmonsyeah and than after he got all that he wanted he didn't done his part at all...
Hes such a catch 🙄
@@morganablackwater2017 he didn't want any dogs, dudes a saint for putting up with all of it
I thought the same thing! It makes no sense. Victoria even repeated it like it did
@@sodapopjones260right? It's wild. My kids want a dog, I'm half half, but my partner said he absolutely does not want a dog. So we aren't getting a dog. I'm not going to get one and expect him to chip in on doing something i know full well he didn't want in the first place. It needs to be a joint decision between the adults in the relationship because taking on any animal is a big responsibility. It's time, work, money.
i'm actually surprised that they managed to take in so many dogs without territorial problems, i have 2 dogs with completely different personalities at home and we had problems at the beginning o_o
I feel like once a "pack" is established adding more dogs gets easier. I could be wrong, but I feel they got lucky with non territorial dogs the first 3-4 times, then extras fell into place
I've heard 1 dog is better than 2 and 3 dogs are better than 2. Not sure how true it is.
Don't blame Jeff, his wife got the dogs with out talking about it with him first, Jeff must really love his wife very much because he is still there even though she kept getting dogs.
And on top of the he cooks!!!
Ugh, How Dare a passive aggressive man be asked to do the bare minimum. It’s sooooo unfair to him. 😑
@@CK_Loves_Tea the bare minimum is letting his wife do all the caring for the dogs she chose to have, in fact thats the decent thing to do. Only manipulative people try to make others feel obligated the way they're doing.
@@CK_Loves_Tea No. That is not the bare minimum. These are not children. They're dogs that SHE chose.
Yeah my husband is still getting over the fact I persuaded him that we should get a third rescue. Divorce would be on the cards if I just randomly kept bringing home more.. and he loves dogs! ❤
Edit : he just brought home a fourth. Poor abandoned puppy in a right state. Oops four rescues, luckily we have two big fields..
That walk training at the end is 100% how I taught my late bb how to walk on a leash. He still pulled a little every now and again when he got real excited, but mostly he spent 11 years walking nicely with me. He walked so well with me I could close my eyes and he'd keep us both going straight (because he'd be walking at my hip so evenly).
I have a new pup now, we just took our first walk (he's a 2 year old chihuahua lol) and once he's confident with going out for walks, I'm sure I'll need to do that walk-turnaround-walk-repeat method with him too - he's got lots of energy. :D
"What's one more" always leads to disaster.
Im a dog rescue person... You need to know your limits.
And you also need to know the limits (and the needs!) of the dogs you already have. THEY need to be your first priority!
What are her vet bills with 8 dogs? Food costs alone would bankrupt me.
“Now why is Melissa doing all the chores??”
Maybe because she’s the one who wanted 8 dogs and Jeff never signed up for this lifestyle?
He signed up to it by deciding to stay there
@@imalwaysrightseriously. I would leave her with these dogs since she wanted them so bad, the fact he stayed and dealt with it?
He agreed to do them with her and he's not keeping his word. If u don't want the lifestyle, why in the WORLDDD would you not only Put up with it but agree with it.
Rescuing dogs is absolutely great let get that straight. However, having eight dogs is insane. Malissa is selfish, her boyfriend never sign up for that. She never consider his feelings. Kudos to him for still staying
Nice try! Ma is much smarter Han your jealousy!
The more I watch this kind of video, the more I realize that 95% of dog owners don’t know what they’re doing. All my life I thought either the dog or I was the problem for being annoyed when I come to someone’s house and their dogs were jumping at me, now thanks to this channel I know it is them who are the problem. They’re supposed to be the one apologizing to me and educate their dogs. Not me apologizing for being distracted.
I think it more American than British most dogs I've met in uk households don't jump at cookers etc I can't help but notice dogs their are poorly socialised & trained in general
That's also why I don't want dogs of my own. They require SO much training and discipline and work. If you cannot find the time or energy to dedicate that much time to a dog you shouldn't get one. That's why I have cats.
Please tell this to all the people bringing their dogs to pet stores and letting them snap at, pee on, or hump the employees. Also people who let their dogs pee on the shelves and the stock and/or poop on the aisles. Bonus points if they don't even bother telling us 'hey my dog made a mess' so we can clean it up.
'Hahaha he's so energetic' 'sir please pull a little more firmly on that leash so that your dog is no longer attached to my leg'
'oh baby girl you are being so naughty, I wish you would just [long paragraph which no dog could understand]' 'please just give your collie a clear firm immediate correction when she lunges for me'.
this is a cute episode, I'm just honestly surprised how this relationship works out I mean how much can a man take if he isn't a dog person?
That's what I was thinking. I'm a massive dog lover, but if I wasn't a dog person there is no way I'd tolerate this. The only thing I think of when I see this guy is cuck.
People compromise a lot for love.
@@laurajoshi6474too much.
I have watched this a few times now. I love all these cute dogs.
The funny thing about her having so many dogs is that they have adapted into a pack and also respect Melissa and Jeff so the foundation for a good household is here. It's actually incredible.
I feel bad for Jeff. He didn't want all those dogs and now he's being shamed into taking responsibility for them. I can see asking him to feed the dogs when she isn't home now that the feeding routine isn't chaotic, but as far as I'm concerned, she can pick up the poo.
Agreed!
Agreed aswell she has barely any responsibilities it the care of the dogs I feel bad for the dogs and Jeff!
Mate he loves the dogs, you can just tell. It may have been Melissa’s idea but Jeff needs to help out
@@familyshaw1182 true
@@familyshaw1182 I got a different impression from the clip. I didn't get that he 'loves' the dogs, but instead that he is tolerating them for her sake.
How did they even get to 8 dogs without a major fight? At 3 dogs, we had to make the decision that enough was enough and all my dogs are well trained. 8 is to many dogs in a home that can't even train 1.
They’re probably foster fails. Victoria said at the beginning ‘you’re going to have to do your rescue work in other ways’
Eight dogs? That's craziness! What in the world was she thinking?
That's the trouble she wasent thinking!!
The only way to have multiple dogs without chaos is to not add a new one until the other/others are properly trained.
This show should be called ‘It’s me NOT the dog’ 😂
THIS 😂😂😂😂
It’s like watching Jo Frost except with dogs haha 😆
That was the concept of the show ;)
Heh heh super nanny heh more like DOG nanny heh he cough splutter choke
I need to do this with my 2 dogs. Try to keep them calm when they near the door and I been keeping them out of the kitchen too when preparing food. They will learn eventually, but the discipline to keep doing things a certain way is hard, but rewarding.
Why do people revel in the disjunction they create around dogs. I think it’s a way of holding others away, also”look at me and how much I love these dogs”! Thank goodness Victoria is as patient and diplomatic as she is!
after seeing so many of these episodes were the owners simply neglect the dogs (whether they are aware or not), it was so lovely to see two owners who love their animals and take care of them properly. so glad all the issues were addressed, love it!
Sorry but Jeff isn’t remotely in the wrong here. Stuffing eights dogs Jeff never wanted into this house, and then pouring more stress onto him by making him work “very hard” with every single dog is ridiculous. Eight dogs in a house is so unhygienic and frankly neglectful of the dogs.
He is wrong
@@aleksandrac9335how so? The original commenter stated how he isn’t.
... Is it me, or did she struggle to name her 8th dog?
lol yeah
Yea
Hahahahaaaa
What’s it’s name?
@@Macy.Moo16 Jimmy.
Melissa did so well keeping up with the training!!!
This course had the most growth wow they actually got there life back for real. The dogs are all happy too. They have their bed back iys all a win win situation. Eell done Victoria you are such a good person and one hell of a dog trainer. 🐕 🥰
Take the dog training seriously so important and for now and the future for you and the dogs 😊
I was really impressed with all their chaos and so many dogs they didnt have an issue with potty. No poop pee in the house at all.
Melissa and Jeff are really lucky they have good pack dynamics. The dogs really respect them.
They need to rehome at least 5 of these dogs. One of the rehomed dogs needs to be Sylvester. The poor dog is so anxious and needs to be in a calmer environment with an experienced owner.
Jeff scared me with his cutting of the green peppers. Yikes!
He didn't scare me but he didn't cut his vegetables like he was a trained chef at all. Also one thing they didn't check was germs in the kitchen.
8 dogs is A LOT especially when they are big dogs many years ago we had 7 Shih-Tzu’s so they were small, but grooming was an entire weekend job for my husband and I, Friday was clip brush and nail clipping day and brush out any tangles, Saturday my husband would bathe them all and I finished them all up and blow dried their hair it was a weekly chore and it definitely took both of us to keep them properly clean and groomed 😮❤❤
im only like 4 minutes into this but I was thinking, if Syvester is a rescue... and he doesn't like the leash... it makes you wonder if its because his old owner got him on a leash and took him to a place and abandon him.
I agreed with everything Victoria did so far in the videos I watched, but I strongly disagree with her telling off Jeff. For someone to continue to bring dogs in when your partner doesn’t want them is NOT okay! They should have talked first and come to a compromise both can live with. Victoria’s approach of telling him off is certainly a unfair way to bring him aboard now. I am sure there are other ways.
I would have agreed if he had no interaction with the dogs at all, butt if he's going to play with them and love on them, then he had to participate in taking care of them. She gave Melissa a hard time too. I think they both owe the dogs an apology.
Jeff is a cuck, she was correct to call him out for it.
With respect the dogs are both of theirs, fair or not. They are a couple. You can’t have 2 sets of rules either. They are a commitment and he can’t love them and play with them but still keep blaming her for bringing them home when he has dog chores. They clearly need to communicate but the dogs cant suffer. I agree with the comment above, the dogs are the ones who deserve an apology.
@@patsysadowski1546 the dogs belong to the wife, she's the one who got them, he can ignore them if it'll make it fairer but she made 8 bad decisions all against his wishes and she should be the one to deal with them. Apologizing to dogs is pointless btw because their minds don't grasp the concept of remorse.
@@sodapopjones260 ^ exactly
They literally have 8 digs and one of them is a German Shepherd which means a lot of exercise patience and leadership but they seem to not have control over a singoe dog😂😂
Love appreciate Victoria’s patience ❤
He was saying how it felt cleaner not having the dogs on the bed, yet he was wearing street shoes on the bed. Yuck!
It was just for the demo, I don't think he wears them when actually sleeping
If I were Jeff, I'd move out. Why should he look after them? they're her dogs, and she has way too many. It seems that their entire relationship is centred around dogs.
i agree but it's such a beautiful house i would be so upset if I'd have to move bc of these dogs. he's probably on the mortgage too 😭
If she doesn’t appreciate Jeff then be sure to send him my way! I have no pets, peace and quiet, and I’ll even clean before and after you cook 🍛
lmao 💀
I dont think keeping the dogs off the bed is a bargain. I think its normal for jeff not to like it.
Everyone freaking out about Jeff not feeding and picking up after the dogs....... But he didn't sign up for 8 dogs that the chick took home without asking him. If I wasn't an animal lover, I wouldn't look after 8 dogs brought back unexpectedly by my husband either
Doesn't matter. He chose to stay so had to help out with them. I didn't want our dog we have had the last 10 years but I still take her out to toilet during the day.
@@Kat-mu8wq there's a massive difference between you having one dog you help out with and him having eight that have overrun his life and are interfering with his relationship
Melissa isn't "some chick", she is his wife and he obviously loves his wife.
The husband so worried about his bed being cleaner, but then he gets in bed with his shoes on😱😣
Her writing is beautiful!
I agree with owners working together but i disagree that Jeff should be told off for not helping out with 8 (!) dogs when he didnt even want one.. She decided to go and get them, she is not listening to anything he has to say about him being uncomfortable and not feeling like its his house even so it's not fair to blame him. He was literally scared she would just keep bringing more.
I partly Agree, yes she should listen to him and his opinion. But he should also understand that adopting dogs is her passion if he loves her he should support her.
@@ashcococookies9699 and he has shown his love, didn't he? He didn't leave, put up with basically all the madness (chewing, barking, kitchen mess) and things he really didn't like like dogs sleeping in bed. I'm just saying i dont think its fair to get him to do things like poop collecting as he wasn't the one desperately wanting 8 dogs? I mean, if cars were his passion would it be fair to ask his wife to wash them daily and change oil etc coz at the end of the day they belong to both? 😁 And the feeding time before looked so loony bin like i don't blame anyone for not wanting to do it 😁
@@ashcococookies9699 In that case the compromise would be only getting 1 or 2 dogs.
You are correct it’s not fair especially that many dogs they aren’t pets they are a lifestyle, a lifestyle he didn’t sign up for.
They should have comprised and maybe stuck to one or two dogs.
@@beesknees9565 they clearly have issues with listening and considering each other's wants and needs, seems to me that's what Victoria is mostly addressing. It may not be fair for him to help, but it will make the relationship stronger and everyone happier.
They are all so cute and adorable dogs ❤
“I won’t get anymore dogs if you help me with our EIGHT current ones” Jeff needs to LEAVE
8 dogs on its own is insane, but rescue dogs as well. You gotta know how to handle those dogs.
Wow, they can have 8 dogs in a residential home? Here you can only have 2 dogs, and if you want more you have to put an application in to your council for a permit which they then either approve or decline. You usually have to pay a fee with the application too. I'm surprised they're allowed so many dogs in a home., If it was a farm, then yeh that would be ok.
Sylvester, Tony, Bobby, Jimmy... mobsters or dogs? 🤣🤣
OMG! Those are to many dogs 😮
This is an awesome show. I’ve subscribed and expect many more smiles in the days to come!! 🌻🙌
For a partnership with a dog is the same with a child even if you both didn't want one or planning on having more it's both of them that has the responsibility to take care of the living being under their roof
I have 4 rescued dogs from when they were a puppies. I teach them not to chew on my house and furniture and be patient and wait for the feeding time. They’re children you need to teach them right from wrong. When I leave them alone at home they never destroy my house
I'm in love with Sylvester!!! 😍
I find it very difficult to believe that if Jeff started taking on some of the burden, Melissa wouldn't say "oh great, time to get another couple of dogs". She has real issues.
The problem of "loving too much". Dogs must have limits and boundaries. It is the best way to both tutor and pet.
its funny when they always say, there is no way she will pull it out. but shes the best! she can do it all
This is sooo much like Supernanny Jo Frost- the observing, the house rules, the discipline…😅
Great episode! We have 3 dachshunds and iit can be awful! Thanks for the instruction!
Rebuilding that trust in a dog after you betrayed that trust is the hardest thing to achieve!
33:38 the fact that jeff looked sad XD
Gordon Ramsay and Victoria Stilwell would be BFFs for sure
The way Sylvester looks at her alone, you can tell Victoria has that sense of calm and confidence dogs look to for leadership 😊🥹
Stunning dogs! Loved this episode 🥰
This lady is real keen for having 8 dogs. Wild.
"They need to tackle his new problem: door dashing." Dog wants some extra cash to get his own place.
absolutely dying at 24:39
Instead of cleaning your garden, why not walk all the dogs? Not just Sylvester should be walked, all dogs should!
A residential household should be legally limited to 4 or individual regulatory permission required for any more. No one can give the attention, physical activity & stimulation each dog needs to more than that: nor should they be allowed to inflict that noise on their neighbours.
Totally agree with you. As you can see here, they don't have the experience to own 8 dogs, let alone train, walk, and give them all individual attention. Plus, they're all overweight
A person can own as many pets as they want as long as they can take care of them 🙄
@@briannahernandez6627 not necessarily. There are some cities that do have a limit on how many dogs u can have in your house and must be registered. Some are 2-3 or 4.
I think that’s what they’re saying though, that it’s not adequate care if someone gets more dogs than they and their property can handle
In your opinion...
Melissa made a huge sacrifice by not having the dogs in the bed??? What about Jeff's sacrifice in not leaving her while she adopted all these dogs he never wanted?
No offense not trying to start anything but from what I’ve seen, he didn’t rly have to sacrifice anything, if he rly wanted to, he would’ve left, if it was rly bothering him that much, but he didn’t so-
@@sandiluev1 he didn't want to live with dogs in the first place, didn't want to care for them, now he's doing both. His wife might be busy, but she signed up for it by getting those dogs.
@@sodapopjones260he’s signed up for it by choosing to stay there and be with her
@@imalwaysright That’s his house too, he has as much of a right to it as she does. She doesn’t have the right to turn him into a part time dog sitter.
I've had up to 12 dogs at a time. It was before spay neuter laws became common. There were so many stray dogs and I know if I took them to the pound they would be killed.
I started out with one dog I found. Then I went to the dog pound and got him a friend. I didn't realize how many more dogs I would find and how quickly.
I moved from the Midwest to the West coast. I did not see that many stray dogs in the midwest. Maybe it's because they freeze to death in the winter.
Set up a very predictable order for daily activities. Pups got fed in the same order, etc. everyone got at least 10 minutes of training every day.
The training was surprisingly easy. The new dog would see one of the established dogs receiving a treat for sitting when asked to sit. Many times the new dog would spontaneously start offering a sit.
I made sure that they had to go through at least two gates to get to the street. And at least two doors in the house to get out into the yard.
When I laughed, I would hear tales thumping all over the house.
I wish Victoria and I were related 😂I would take lessons from her😂
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I love the meal they had at the end....
In my house we have 7 cats and yes I 100% agree cats are not like dogs but they all love eat other and then didn’t in the beginning but we made sure that they have rules etc having 8 dogs and being responsible and looking after 8 dogs are 2 complete different things btw we have a lovely big house and with all our cats they all get on and only ruin there cat toys and nothing else and that took ages but by telling them that your boss and teaching them to listen etc ! (Edit they are all indoor cats except the three older ones but we have catios and let them out
Love rescued dogs… there’s work but they will learn.. kudos to the owner for the patience.
I have 3 dogs and they all listen and are very well behaved. It is possible to have multiple dogs and maintain control of your home.
They are still together, they have at least one cute kid, and Melissa has a pet rescue (that draws some criticism but was also on Ellen). So
Ooooh I just found them on Google, they have a lot of TERRIBLE reviews.
why are you lying
there is literally no followup to this video and their last names were never revealed.
All of that is very easy to find it if you know how to work Google
Bless that chef guy...
She wanted the 8 dogs... SHE shut pig up ALL the poop...💩
Maybe cause I don’t live with those dogs but, idk how she remembers all their names 💀
She probably just makes up a name if she can't remember, nobody else is gonna keep track of them either ill bet.
And how does she know who is who- I couldn’t keep up-
@sodapopjones260 I have 6 dogs and it is not that difficult, like with people you remember their names when you constantly live with them
Melissa is such a sweet soul. Genuinely.
Merci Melissa...vous êtes une Grande Bienfaitrice des Animaux❤💙💚💛💜
The way she said you’re not taking care of the dogs😂
7:44 lol-
I wonder what they're occupations are that they can afford eight dogs? Still though they're less expensive than kids I'm surprised Jeff hasn't left Melissa.
Can't help but notice that Melissa seems to have an extra soft spot for cocker spaniels. At least three of those dogs are cockers.
I'm still in awe over Victoria's handwriting. She's doing *_cursive_* on a blimmin' *_wall_* ! 😳😯!!
Jfc. I own 5 dogs, but all of mine have gotten the proper time and training to be well behaved. They also get extensive exercise daily with my 12 acres of land or we go for hikes and runs. Its amazing seeing them all playing and running as a pack, but this isnt something the majority of people need or are even capable of handling. My group consists of a 13 year old husky, 2 year old husky Rottweiler mix, 3.5 year old pit mutt, a 2.5 year old large mutt full of huntung and herding breeds, and the newest a smaller puppy maybe around 8 months (found her dumped so not sure on exact age) and shes only 30 pounds so gonna stay the smallest of the group.
How the dogs react when Melissa and Jeff tell the dogs one day they pregnant
this show and supernally are so good
One more example of people who shouldn’t own a dogs. Dogs need not only love but consistency, resources and knowledge.Rescue is awesome when done properly when not it creates chaos. 😏
That's a lot of dogs
Not enough time spent on the feeding...the dogs need to sit before feeding, allowing them to jump or stick their face in the bowl while it's being lowered is nonsense....also adopting 8 dogs when your partner is not on board is a huge relationship red flag. The bed thing is ridiculous, neither of these people are pack leaders.
The husband is resentful that she just kept getting dogs after he told her repeatedly no more dogs. She just did it anyway. He seemed to not mind one maybe two but she just kept doing it. He obviously doesn’t like the dogs because of this. I know first hand when your partner bullies you into bringing an animal into the house that you don’t want everything the animal does is infuriating to you. And it’s not the animals fault it’s the humans fault for bullying the other person. The woman doesn’t understand what dogs need. And she uses the dogs as some emotional crutch. Maybe she wants kids and husband won’t give her kids or she can’t have them. Or who knows. She does the job of feeding and cleaning up. But she didn’t bother to train them at all. Which having a bunch of untrained dogs running around my house like it’s a damn shelter ehh. The house probably stinks, the kitchen is unsanitary, the bed probably stinks. His frustration is extremely understandable.
If she likes that many dogs around she should work a rehoming centre!
People do not realize how smart dogs actually are.
Jeff really needs to stop letting the dogs cut his hair
Those rescue dogs need to be rescued from her.
No pets in the kitchen
Don’t they walk the other dogs?