Feisty Chihuahua is Constantly in Attack-Mode! | Full Episode | It's Me or The Dog

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  • The Buonsantos are having trouble in their marriage because of their pet. Victoria helps get their disruptive dog, Sasha, under control.
    US Season 3 Episode 1
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  • @jazzyquack7905
    @jazzyquack7905 9 місяців тому +1884

    God , I hated this guy . Completely invalidating and dismissive of her feelings. A guy that belittles her, with a smile on his face ugh

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 9 місяців тому +100

      Narcissists hate being told what to do; When Victoria told him to go, this would have really wounded him.

    • @elizabethmadrid405
      @elizabethmadrid405 9 місяців тому +41

      "Josie may claim that me and Sahs will have to leave if it doesnt get better." Im sorry "may claim?" He was just horribel

    • @verynormalouterbankseditor
      @verynormalouterbankseditor 8 місяців тому +6

      same-

    • @MrMikap74
      @MrMikap74 8 місяців тому +29

      @@gillianbrookwell1678 He is not a narcissist. That term is being used way too often. He is just like a little boy that has to share his favorite toy.

    • @ParadiseAndGin
      @ParadiseAndGin 8 місяців тому +11

      @@gillianbrookwell1678 that guy isnt a narcissist, it's just a man

  • @orangefreak2946
    @orangefreak2946 9 місяців тому +1595

    This man's behavior is UNREAL

    • @twilightmarichat1854
      @twilightmarichat1854 9 місяців тому +44

      Ik i feel bad for the dog

    • @MrJojomylove
      @MrJojomylove 9 місяців тому +8

      Agreed

    • @JacetWt-sx4cl
      @JacetWt-sx4cl 8 місяців тому +42

      “Doesnt it remind you of some nice driftwood?” LIKE, NAUR

    • @bettyboop8264
      @bettyboop8264 8 місяців тому +3

      Both have issues I think, not the husband only...

    • @catspaw3092
      @catspaw3092 7 місяців тому +17

      @@twilightmarichat1854 I also feel bad for his wife.

  • @GamerplayerWT
    @GamerplayerWT 9 місяців тому +1441

    I swear… Victoria is more of a couples therapist than anything else. The dogs are fine. It’s the humans who need help.

    • @shimerrill967
      @shimerrill967 9 місяців тому +8

      Haha totally 😂

    • @syrusorelio2309
      @syrusorelio2309 8 місяців тому +36

      Well the dogs have behavior issues but they're caused by their humans almost every time
      There was one episode with a dog that suffered panic attacks. The panic attacks weren't caused by the humans but the humans failed to understand the dog was having panic attacks so instead of trying to help the dog they tried to correct him and exasperated his panic attacks instead

    • @hazelco8622
      @hazelco8622 8 місяців тому +11

      It is really true that before a dog can be trained, whatever the issues are among members of the family, has to be dealt with. Both of them here.

    • @kerronwatts211
      @kerronwatts211 8 місяців тому +5

      Vicktoria aways fixs the couples relationship

    • @F_U23
      @F_U23 6 місяців тому +6

      That is usually the case.

  • @problem.skinnn
    @problem.skinnn 9 місяців тому +844

    Imagine your dog bites someone and you say ‘no biggie’… imagine the audacity.

    • @emmavrijburg6676
      @emmavrijburg6676 9 місяців тому +39

      i would never visit them again if i were bitten and the owner just dismisses it

    • @evelynneufeld7610
      @evelynneufeld7610 8 місяців тому

      ​@@emmavrijburg6676I'd report him

    • @cherrytomato7711
      @cherrytomato7711 7 місяців тому +24

      he puts his dogs over the safety of his wife .... terrible

    • @feathers8233
      @feathers8233 6 місяців тому +13

      ​​@@emmavrijburg6676
      Happened to me and I never hated another human so much in that very moment. Dog owner (friend of my grandma) comes along, I ask if the dog is friendly and can be pet, she says yes so I approach as calmly as I can and just give the dog my hand to sniff and this thing straight up bites me.
      Thanks dog owner and screw you -.-

    • @haileyscott7144
      @haileyscott7144 5 місяців тому +13

      Imagine that dog, with the "partial attack training" bites and latches on. Poor dog would have a death sentence. And the owner would act like it was the person's fault that the dog bit them.

  • @loc1976
    @loc1976 9 місяців тому +908

    Also, it should be FORBIDDEN to offer attack training for dogs owned by untrained people, it should be mandatory to have some sort of certification to be allowed an attack dog.

    • @spykethespider5070
      @spykethespider5070 9 місяців тому +50

      Exactly it's too dangerous. Only experienced people should own protection dogs.

    • @casastuart210
      @casastuart210 9 місяців тому +9

      It's a German shepherd ffs! If someone attacks the dog will protect!

    • @syrusorelio2309
      @syrusorelio2309 8 місяців тому +67

      @@casastuart210 there's a big difference between instinctively attacking intruders and trading a dog to attack. The dog trained to attack thinks its a game and if not trained right may start attacking anyone unprovoked
      Training an attack dog(one trained to attack) is a full time job and really should only be legally allowed with people who prove they know what they're doing

    • @SysterYster
      @SysterYster 7 місяців тому +27

      @syrusorelio2309 Indeed. And you should always train the release command first. Then the attack. Not the other way 'round and hope it'll work. yikes.

    • @luckerooni1153
      @luckerooni1153 13 днів тому +1

      You are very correct but unfortunately the entire "industry" of dog ownership and dog care and everything in between is virtually unregulated and every piece of advice is a suggestion you can happily ignore even to the detriment of the animals and everyone around you and it's not illegal as long as you aren't provably abusing an animal. It's nuts.

  • @szofika
    @szofika 9 місяців тому +2045

    Divorce, babe. Divorce.

    • @suliman7147
      @suliman7147 9 місяців тому +46

      Exactly

    • @Fumi007
      @Fumi007 9 місяців тому +35

      Haha! Exactly. 😂

    • @mariahgrimes207
      @mariahgrimes207 9 місяців тому +17

      Yup

    • @beccabiagi4145
      @beccabiagi4145 9 місяців тому +12

      @szofika I See what You did there!
      Adele is an icon for this. 😅

    • @anna_murawski
      @anna_murawski 9 місяців тому +27

      Say it louder in case she didn’t hear you

  • @heatherg2083
    @heatherg2083 9 місяців тому +763

    The arrogance and narcissism of him is sickening. Like the world needs more puppies. She should take him to the shelters to see how that's working.

    • @spankthemonkey3437
      @spankthemonkey3437 9 місяців тому +10

      She has issues too🤷, she is just looking for anything to argue with him about.

    • @LizzyARTING
      @LizzyARTING 9 місяців тому +32

      In other episodes she has taken people to shelters when they refuse to spay or neuter.

    • @Kate-is5mz
      @Kate-is5mz 9 місяців тому +50

      As soon as he described the dog as "my prized possession" at the beginning, I knew he was trash...

    • @bluejedi723
      @bluejedi723 9 місяців тому +19

      the dog needs a new home. the humans need to be rehomed

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND 9 місяців тому +34

      ​@@spankthemonkey3437nah bro he's the only one causing problems that I'm seeing here

  • @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984
    @Orwellian-Purple-Grapes-1984 9 місяців тому +567

    Woman should divorce this narcissist ASAP.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 9 місяців тому +40

      I left my narcissist husband nine years ago; he was bad enough but nowhere near as challenging as this guy. Narcissists never change.

    • @PropertyandCasualtyAgent
      @PropertyandCasualtyAgent 9 місяців тому +8

      If you’re not saved then yes. I’d move out that’s why you have to be careful who you marry. I’m married . It’s no cake walk for anyone

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND 9 місяців тому +9

      ​@@PropertyandCasualtyAgent"not saved"?

    • @Tailionis
      @Tailionis 21 день тому

      You must be a fly on the wall to diagnose and know this family from an edited video.

  • @a.strongwoman3156
    @a.strongwoman3156 9 місяців тому +635

    So despite her not wanting another dog he gets one, partially attack-trains it and seems perfectly happy that she's so miserable. He WANTS her to leave him, getting that dog was his spineless way of making her life SO miserable that she would leave him. Narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply deeply selfish husband. Poor woman.

    • @Alice-xy3fi
      @Alice-xy3fi 8 місяців тому +75

      I'm totally with you on the narcissistic, misogynistic and deeply, deeply selfish husband part, but I think you're giving him way too much credit in saying he wants her to leave him and getting the dog was his spineless way of making it happen. I can't believe he's ever thought that far ahead, or with that level of complexity-- or deferred gratification-- in his life. I also doubt he's ever given that much thought--or any thought at all, for that matter-- to what another person's reaction/response to his behavior might be. I think he works on a much more primitive level...as in, "Ungh...me want. Ungh...me get!" Then a bunch more "me, me, me's," then maybe a flash of red for "danger" (representing the pinnacle of his sensitivity to his wife's reaction), another grunt, "Me want!" and home we go, with another dog, happy and pleased with himself and his new canine friend.

    • @a.strongwoman3156
      @a.strongwoman3156 8 місяців тому +20

      @@Alice-xy3fi I hear you, and reckon that's probably closer to the truth!

    • @bettyboop8264
      @bettyboop8264 8 місяців тому +4

      She got the dogs she wanted, he got the dog he wanted....

    • @Brunette_2005
      @Brunette_2005 8 місяців тому

      @@bettyboop8264 And literally attack trained it but showed it no other form of dicipline. What a spineless loser

    • @aliceros1
      @aliceros1 6 місяців тому +10

      No he got a dog that he could "control" to have "control" of his wife. He's awful

  • @jasmineortiz6887
    @jasmineortiz6887 9 місяців тому +378

    This is the most annoying and frustrating man I've seen so far. She really needs to stop ignoring all the red flags and leave this man.

    • @dillzilla4454
      @dillzilla4454 6 місяців тому +13

      there are a lot of times people jump to this conclusion way too quickly over virtually nothing. this is absolutely not one of those times. the guy gaslights everyone in the room and borderline has a temper tantrum when anyone does anything that isn't exactly the way he wants it

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому

      no actually tony needs to LEAVE HER

  • @toxicbangbang
    @toxicbangbang 9 місяців тому +569

    I really love when Victoria puts owners in their place.

  • @elizabethmadrid405
    @elizabethmadrid405 9 місяців тому +495

    Sasha is an extremely gorgeous dog and obviously extremely smart BUT Tony makes it hard for her to be manageable and a good dog.

    • @melissacooper8724
      @melissacooper8724 9 місяців тому +11

      One of my coworkers has a dog that looks like Sasha, except her dog is a male.

    • @SM-wv2nu
      @SM-wv2nu 8 місяців тому +23

      yes she's a working line shepherd which is painfully obvious. they should have got a family shepherd..

    • @FUNGUSMAN920
      @FUNGUSMAN920 7 місяців тому +4

      @@SM-wv2nuindeed.

    • @isabelgabilondo1713
      @isabelgabilondo1713 6 місяців тому +1

      I dont think she is a good looking dog

    • @FUNGUSMAN920
      @FUNGUSMAN920 6 місяців тому +6

      @@isabelgabilondo1713 she looks fine in my opinion, actually really nice for a German shepherd

  • @teresaellis7062
    @teresaellis7062 7 місяців тому +188

    Wow, Tony is majorly rude Josie. "It's not that bad." "You need to calm down." He talks over her, interrupts her. He downplays her concerns. He values the dog over his wife!

  • @Cupo666
    @Cupo666 9 місяців тому +195

    As soon as he called Sasha his prized possession I was weirded out and it only got worse

    • @Jayyy048
      @Jayyy048 6 місяців тому +4

      Nothing wrong with that. She’s a gorgeous dog and is incredibly intelligent. I don’t disagree that he was weird about her though. 😂

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому +1

      What's wrong with a dog being someone's prized possesion? would it be weird if someone's cat was their prized possesion

    • @saddlerrye6725
      @saddlerrye6725 Місяць тому +2

      @@Doggie-125 Yeah. It totally would. My gripe with this sentence is that it makes it sound like the dog is a trophy, a passive thing that you show off. It's a bit like saying your child is your prized possession.

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 Місяць тому +1

      @@saddlerrye6725 Ugh

  • @patsysadowski1546
    @patsysadowski1546 9 місяців тому +156

    Bite training with a young GSD and no follow up is a disgrace. It’s public and animal endangerment and he now is a risk now.

    • @spykethespider5070
      @spykethespider5070 9 місяців тому +24

      Exactly the most important part of attack training is releasing on command and not attacking unless there is an actual threat. I saw a video made by a protection dog trainer. He said that a true protection dog won't attack unless told to or if they or their handler is attacked. He also said they will release on command. The video as basically going over actual protection dog vs dangerous aggressive dog

  • @Pirta
    @Pirta 9 місяців тому +293

    that's the biggest chihuahua I've ever seen 👀

    • @Scarlet-wd9xw
      @Scarlet-wd9xw 9 місяців тому +1

      Frfr

    • @chronicallyhorror
      @chronicallyhorror 9 місяців тому +5

      Hahhahaha I was thinking the same thing haha that big dog is what a chihuahua sees in the mirror hahaha I love these videos I have 2 chihuahuas an I want to invite Victoria to meet them cos they arnt yappy they dont bark all the time they are really sensitive and gentle wee dogs the only thing is they don't like it when they arnt with there mummy (me lol) but will tolerate being looked after by there granny (my mum lol) for the night and they have fallen in love with the guy who lives above me they won't let him pass them when he gets home from work he has to come into my garden and give both pups a hug and kisses then play ball with them hahahaha honestly it's like a human child custody arrangement l 😂😂😂 haha

    • @salomei796
      @salomei796 7 місяців тому +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @annajester5810
      @annajester5810 6 місяців тому +10

      It’s an overweight chihuahua… poor thing is unhealthy being that size.. you should always see a dog’s waist line

    • @Jayyy048
      @Jayyy048 6 місяців тому +5

      It’s very very unhealthy. They gave it a ton of food too. That bowl was ridiculous.

  • @nadyeszti2251
    @nadyeszti2251 9 місяців тому +286

    Why is the title about a chihuahua when the episode is all about a german shepherd?

    • @oceanebezault7982
      @oceanebezault7982 9 місяців тому +20

      I'm wondering the same...

    • @paprika4240
      @paprika4240 9 місяців тому +40

      People love to hate on Chihuahuas, so it gets clicks

    • @ShadowNinetales
      @ShadowNinetales 9 місяців тому +13

      I guess they couldn't get someone to manage the UA-cam channel who can actually pay attention lol

    • @christinekillen3852
      @christinekillen3852 9 місяців тому +14

      exactly what I came to the comments for !

    • @LElCoolP
      @LElCoolP 9 місяців тому +56

      Tony is the Chihuahua. 😎

  • @wolfheartspirit97
    @wolfheartspirit97 9 місяців тому +233

    He is definitely delusional and very controlling

    • @joey6451
      @joey6451 9 місяців тому +15

      hes a narcissest

  • @AnimeKuroNeko
    @AnimeKuroNeko 9 місяців тому +95

    Red flags on that guy ten fold. Surprised she was still with him, knowing how bad he is.

  • @professordavid2008
    @professordavid2008 8 місяців тому +159

    He’s not gonna get Sasha bred but he might secretly get someone to do it or let her out when she’s in heat so she ends up pregnant. He refuses to have her spayed. He has a secret agenda behind his wife’s back.

    • @SugaryPhoenixxx
      @SugaryPhoenixxx 7 місяців тому +40

      He is definitely the type of person who would do that. He clearly doesnt give a rip about his wife's boundaries.

    • @zamis769
      @zamis769 6 місяців тому +15

      @@SugaryPhoenixxx via snooping it does appear he had her bred. ://

    • @NikkieRoxxx
      @NikkieRoxxx 6 місяців тому

      ​@@zamis769snooping=??

    • @doeheart7118
      @doeheart7118 6 місяців тому +4

      @@zamis769can you tell me we’re to do said snooping

  • @littleblackcar
    @littleblackcar 9 місяців тому +409

    The dogs won't eat food that doesn't have his scent on it OMG DYING LAUGHING.

    • @carolwilliams8511
      @carolwilliams8511 8 місяців тому +22

      I know right😂 Basically most dogs are food hoovers!

    • @imalwaysright
      @imalwaysright 8 місяців тому +29

      It was such a male thing to say lol

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому +3

      kinda gross

  • @schipperkeandcats3469
    @schipperkeandcats3469 9 місяців тому +129

    I felt so bad for the wife having to deal with a husband who just doesnt see that he is the main problem on the dogs behavior so controling as wel

  • @valhalla6991
    @valhalla6991 7 місяців тому +277

    It continues to amaze me how, beautiful, intelligent and social women like her end up with looneys like him. Truly amazing 🙄

    • @Blind_Bear
      @Blind_Bear 6 місяців тому +17

      Ikr. Alwayssssssss happens. These poor women

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому

      she is the one who dated him@@Blind_Bear poor man 😉

    • @akiral8693
      @akiral8693 4 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Doggie-125💀💀

  • @Cupo666
    @Cupo666 9 місяців тому +70

    Oh my god it’s like he learned how to fly a plane but dropped out of flight school before learning to land

  • @suzmac1526
    @suzmac1526 9 місяців тому +103

    This guy's attachment to his dog is borderline creepy.

    • @Rubia4693
      @Rubia4693 3 місяці тому +4

      EXACTLY!!! 😂😭

    • @florac6906
      @florac6906 3 місяці тому +8

      Sorry he is not borderline creepy, he is full blown creepy !!

  • @professordavid2008
    @professordavid2008 8 місяців тому +72

    That guy is so inconsiderate of his own wife. He doesn’t care about the stress she’s going through. The dog is messing with the marriage. Wow.

  • @nerdygeekgamer5528
    @nerdygeekgamer5528 9 місяців тому +75

    I don't think Tony quite understands that when he brought Sasha Home she isn't just his dog anymore she's also Josie's dog as well

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому

      That josie didn't want

  • @vicx8300
    @vicx8300 6 місяців тому +115

    This guy is a total covert psychological abuser, any time Josie gets upset (well within her rights whether he agrees with her or not) he speaks to her like she’s being OTT and irrational when it seems to me just from a 40 min video that she has probably put up with a lot of ridiculousness with this man and is just mentally exhausted. The fact he also says he wants to get Sasha to have a litter and keep one when he doesn’t even know how to/care to train her nevermind care for her pups and train one of them too.. get this man in the bin Josie. The way he SMILED when he thought Sasha wasn’t going to listen to Josie, eugh

  • @karliechardi2229
    @karliechardi2229 9 місяців тому +220

    Lol tony is the one with separation anxiety. Not Sasha. This episode always makes me laugh at him. And feel bad for his wife but proud of all of them too. Tony letting control go .... Wife connecting with Sasha. And Sasha getting calm and learning not to attack the door or trees

    • @lindziep6319
      @lindziep6319 6 місяців тому +6

      Yes and he is comparing it into caterpillar 😂 that if your putting it out of their natural environment 😄 and i was like Helloo if you want it to be natural then dont own a dog let it out on the wild 😂😂😂 he has lots of ideas without sense in their life 😅

  • @zupergurkan
    @zupergurkan 9 місяців тому +447

    "the ovaries are there for a reason" yeah but not all dogs will procreate, and thank god for that. I was surprised that Victoria didn't take them to a shelter so they could see for themselves that this world doesn't need more dogs

    • @lmp7436
      @lmp7436 9 місяців тому +16

      The hormones produced by the ovaries actually are important to a dog's health, I learned that the hard way. Just watch them closely when they're in heat, it's not that hard.

    • @C6Wolves
      @C6Wolves 9 місяців тому +18

      Misogynistic

    • @imalwaysright
      @imalwaysright 8 місяців тому +25

      @@lmp7436they didn’t need a litter of puppies with that problem at home

    • @4nn4h
      @4nn4h 8 місяців тому

      ​@@lmp7436the benefits (no risk of uterine or ovarian cancer, reduced risk of breast cancer, no unwanted pregnancy) vastly outweigh the downsides

    • @genthespacewitch
      @genthespacewitch 7 місяців тому +25

      @@lmp7436 That's completely, totally, 100% untrue.

  • @DrEnglander1999
    @DrEnglander1999 9 місяців тому +106

    He's definitely in the running for worst husband of the year.

  • @fruitpunch-mouth
    @fruitpunch-mouth 9 місяців тому +162

    does anyone know if this couple are still together? because josie has the patience of a super heroine around this guy.

    • @gillianbrookwell1678
      @gillianbrookwell1678 9 місяців тому +70

      If she stays with him she's in for one hell of a battle and his controlling will become worse; Narcissists' always think they are right and everybody else is wrong; I hope she has the strength to make the right decision.

    • @rainbowjo78
      @rainbowjo78 7 місяців тому +37

      I went snooping and it seems they are. It also looks like he bred from Sasha anyway.

    • @fruitpunch-mouth
      @fruitpunch-mouth 7 місяців тому

      oh come on 😬.... well we knew that would happen. thank you rainbowjo78... you are the true heroine. @@rainbowjo78

    • @artthounasty5877
      @artthounasty5877 7 місяців тому +22

      @@rainbowjo78 Bruh ._.

    • @NikkieRoxxx
      @NikkieRoxxx 6 місяців тому +8

      She needs to dump him

  • @peamoon
    @peamoon 7 місяців тому +23

    Two minutes in and the gaslighting is one of the worst I've seen 😂

  • @PKEDRM
    @PKEDRM 9 місяців тому +230

    Victoria, after binge watching dozens of your videos it is clear to me that the humans in most, if not all, of them need couples counseling. Their issues are creating an environment that is unhealthy for their fur babies. I really love watching you tackle the hard job of retraining the humans first so that the dogs can live up to their potential. You should get certified as a couples counselor. You definitely have what it takes to do the job❣️

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND 9 місяців тому +14

      Tbh I would not be surprised if she had a degree in human psychology

  • @juliaf.9243
    @juliaf.9243 9 місяців тому +85

    Dude with an attitude creates a dog with an attitude. Point blank.

  • @iTravelVlogs
    @iTravelVlogs 6 місяців тому +25

    I wish this show shows the family 6 months after to see how the family is doing

  • @lanamack1558
    @lanamack1558 9 місяців тому +85

    I always get very upset when I see "out of control" dogs; particularly, Chihuahuas. I've had three dogs in my life, a GSD, a Fox Terrier and her love child and now a Chihuahua. They all the up lovely, lively, and calm. There is quite a bit of mischief, but no pulling, no unnecessary barking. The Chi is gentle, very good with children; she's the darling of the neighbourhood, I feel so sorry for dogs who learn to be aggressive and uncontrollable instead.

    • @linabasilisk1955
      @linabasilisk1955 9 місяців тому +13

      Unfortunately, many people do not discipline/train their chihuahuas properly. I'm wheelchair bound and have had more problems (attempted bites, peeing on me or the chair, aggressive behavior, etc.) with chihuahuas than all the big breeds combined. Some dogs just get narky about the chair, which I understand, but owners need to control their dogs.
      I love well trained dogs, but ill disciplined ones are a menace.

    • @FIRING_BLIND
      @FIRING_BLIND 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@@linabasilisk1955yeah....they let them get away with stuff because they're so small. And fail to instill the dog with any real confidence

  • @rawexplorer8373
    @rawexplorer8373 9 місяців тому +25

    I turned it on, saw Anthony and was like “NOT THIS GUY!”

    • @sardonicsardonyx359
      @sardonicsardonyx359 8 місяців тому +1

      wait was he in something prior to this?

    • @rawexplorer8373
      @rawexplorer8373 8 місяців тому +1

      @@sardonicsardonyx359yep! Sasha the german shepherd

  • @distracted5767
    @distracted5767 9 місяців тому +22

    The gaslighting... DIVORCE

  • @katherineh5005
    @katherineh5005 9 місяців тому +30

    This guy is an absolute nightmare. Sasha and Josie would thrive without him.

  • @n.a.s148
    @n.a.s148 9 місяців тому +74

    I would love to see a follow up with Sasha in a year if she's kept training. She's such a smart and interesting dog, she's a UA-cam channel I'd follow. Love the search and find pup journey. Amazing!

  • @helenlasfar8361
    @helenlasfar8361 9 місяців тому +30

    anyone ever said simmer down to me, id explode

  • @oppailover5439
    @oppailover5439 6 місяців тому +14

    Seems like he loves his dogs more than his wife😂😂😂

  • @lesart1
    @lesart1 9 місяців тому +27

    yeah that marriage looks rock solid...😂😂

  • @lunareclipse2553
    @lunareclipse2553 7 місяців тому +6

    "You can't just remove something because it's annoying." Hmm... Lookin at this guy and thinking...

  • @loc1976
    @loc1976 9 місяців тому +43

    She seems so nice and reasonable.... I'd say RUN, JOSIE, but who knows how she even fell for the most self-centered, most clueless, biggest man-child EVER in the first place. I can't imagine he was ever any different, so it looks a bit self-inflicted? I don't know. He's just really SOOOOOOO bad, I'm annoyed just watching 20 min of his "takes".

    • @LR-mh8hs
      @LR-mh8hs 5 місяців тому +1

      Water seeks it's own level. Josie needs to work on her self esteem and self compassion. She doesn't deserve a narcissist, she deserves better but she doesn't know it.

  • @Vivienwestphal
    @Vivienwestphal 4 місяці тому +8

    I didn't expect a dog show to show me how many people live with gaslighting partners😲🤯

  • @KSUTAU
    @KSUTAU 6 місяців тому +8

    He does NOT love that dog. He just likes the IDEA of her

  • @capsulamental
    @capsulamental 5 місяців тому +7

    Chihuahuas are so wholesome. This one is adorable :3

    • @weedlebunz
      @weedlebunz 4 місяці тому

      Agreed. I'm a chi lover!

  • @PropertyandCasualtyAgent
    @PropertyandCasualtyAgent 9 місяців тому +25

    The dog connecting with the wife was a beautiful thing. And the dancing between husband and wife was wonderful! 🤍🕊️🤍🙏

  • @xzantria6664
    @xzantria6664 9 місяців тому +16

    He doesn’t know anything about dogs and about the responsibility it brings with as an owner.. the way he explained how he was happy the dog bit in the sleeve but he couldn’t get her to let go and then frustratedly quit the training 😂 oh my stars ..

  • @asexualsushi6709
    @asexualsushi6709 6 місяців тому +10

    The guy wants the dog to be dependent on him and wants the dog to be stressed without him my god.

  • @SylneonPink23
    @SylneonPink23 6 місяців тому +10

    i love it when victoria shatters owners world views

  • @Alice-xy3fi
    @Alice-xy3fi 9 місяців тому +50

    When he said yes, he should have talked to her about it before wrecking their agreement to start taking time together for themselves as a couple, but things change and it is what it is, she should have said, "Oh, I'm so glad you feel that way, because I took a lover a while back, and while I probably should have discussed it with you first to see how you felt about it, it's done now, and" it is what it is"-- and then given him his own line, as well, if he objected, about the need for him to eliminate his "negative energy" about it.

    • @irishelinac
      @irishelinac 9 місяців тому +2

      It would be chef kiss ! 😂

    • @Alice-xy3fi
      @Alice-xy3fi 7 місяців тому

      @@irishelinac LOL...needless to say, I couldn't agree more. Thanks for the laugh!

  • @averieldeathrider8407
    @averieldeathrider8407 9 місяців тому +39

    The problem was somethin he caused the dog to have. He's got probs He's projected onto the dog. Theor marriage has deeper Issues that he's replacing with the dog & focused on that Instead.

  • @darrengillespie1258
    @darrengillespie1258 9 місяців тому +64

    What a failure of a man, pathetic, divorce him you can do so much better than someone who just thinks oh she's just being hysterical woman

    • @PropertyandCasualtyAgent
      @PropertyandCasualtyAgent 9 місяців тому +1

      Don’t get married. You’ll end up with spouse 1, 2, and 3 breaking up like it’s not marriage. Marriage is not sacred to all, and until death do you part , for better or worse , richer or poorer, sick and in health. It’s not for you

  • @nancysherburne7445
    @nancysherburne7445 7 місяців тому +9

    I read through quite a few comments and while I agreed with their assessment of Tony's behavior, I wondered why none pointed out that the title concerns Lerna the chihuahua but the episode was 98% Sasha. I was impressed at the change in Tony's attitude. He enjoyed dancing the tango with Josie. I felt relieved that once Sasha became more controllable, Lena seemed more relaxed. I wish she had been much more involved in the episode than she was. Victoria has always been a godsend when it comes to couples who are not on the same page.

  • @jessijaneway6660
    @jessijaneway6660 6 місяців тому +11

    "She's a one person dog" No you want Sasha to only be your dog.

    • @weedlebunz
      @weedlebunz 4 місяці тому +1

      He is too controlling.

  • @vicasbailey6895
    @vicasbailey6895 7 місяців тому +18

    Nothing more irritating than a deluded husband who completely ignores his wife's genuine concerns!!!

  • @janelightning73
    @janelightning73 9 місяців тому +20

    Divorce Tony & get the hell out.

  • @kai7526
    @kai7526 9 місяців тому +60

    What kind of drugs is he on for the scratch marks to "feel like driftwood, it gives you memories" and for his wife's bitten leg to be "no problem she got into the line of fire"? he's lucky Josie didn't have an actual chunk taken out of her leg but then again he'd probably say "it's just a scratch no big deal" and the crap about the master and dog being one?

  • @ricalovesjesus
    @ricalovesjesus 9 місяців тому +20

    He’s going to give his wife a stroke I feel so bad for her, stressing her out like that. Selfish

  • @peamoon
    @peamoon 7 місяців тому +13

    I love how Victoria is actually training the owners way more than the dogs

  • @laurenschenck5355
    @laurenschenck5355 9 місяців тому +53

    Poor Sasha it breaks my heart seeing that 😢

    • @weedlebunz
      @weedlebunz 4 місяці тому +1

      She needs structure and a strong handler.

  • @christyenglish881
    @christyenglish881 9 місяців тому +35

    He is not a good person he is very selfish he wanted to be in full control of his dog he didn't want his wife to have anything to do with the dog shame on him what are you 10

  • @HumanimalChannel
    @HumanimalChannel 8 місяців тому +21

    Tony is the epitome of Making it up as you go along...zero.knowledge 100% ego.
    Doe he measure his masculinity by Sasha?!

  • @olivia7sam
    @olivia7sam 6 місяців тому +13

    I hate how this guy totally invalidates his wife😡

  • @noras.5355
    @noras.5355 9 місяців тому +69

    Victoria, this was an awesome video! I actually laughed out loud at some of the interactions between the couple. You were terrific Victoria, with all the suggestions you came up with. Tango? who'd a thought?? lol. Excellent video! Thanks Victoria!

    • @lindakim3051
      @lindakim3051 9 місяців тому +6

      “So I gotta live in a pigsty” 😂

  • @ZethTheGoat666
    @ZethTheGoat666 8 місяців тому +7

    As soon as i heard protection training- like oh god. This is so dangerous especially with dogs who aren't well trained to follow orders beforehand. If you're not gonna commit to it you're gonna have problems, especially with working dog breeds

  • @Iris.missy.
    @Iris.missy. 8 місяців тому +14

    He does NOT need a dog. 😭 this was so disappointing omg I’ve never seen someone SO clueless about dogs

  • @moya-btahiti895
    @moya-btahiti895 5 місяців тому +3

    Run away from him Mama 🏃‍♀️ 😂

  • @sophiethepegasus
    @sophiethepegasus 5 місяців тому +9

    I think you guys ought to know that, as of 2023, Sasha HAS had a litter.

  • @cathymcglasson6947
    @cathymcglasson6947 9 місяців тому +23

    Search and rescue would be great for this dog.

    • @jimbob465
      @jimbob465 9 місяців тому

      So it can find a lost or hurt person and attack them? 😂

    • @amandajackson668
      @amandajackson668 9 місяців тому +2

      @@jimbob465search and rescue training is something you can do just for fun by hiding from your dog then having someone release them or hiding something from them then releasing them. This dog is to pent up it needs to expend it’s energy so it doesn’t chew and bite.

  • @SaarRocks
    @SaarRocks 9 місяців тому +29

    That's a very shephard-looking chihuahua. The actual chihuahua doesn't seem that feisty

  • @SysterYster
    @SysterYster 7 місяців тому +7

    I am SO glad these two don't have kids. Controlling and dismissive father, mother that gives up after a minute of loud noises, dangerous dogs and strange ideas. They're a much bigger danger to themselves than any stranger.

  • @karoliinaniemi2536
    @karoliinaniemi2536 9 місяців тому +13

    victoria even knows how to dance, that confidence

  • @WildKat25
    @WildKat25 5 місяців тому +5

    Honestly, the biggest issue with the couple and the dogs is that the guy (Tony) is DELIBERATELY not giving his wife a chance to form a proper relationship with Sasha. He just wants to focus on having "HIS dog" not "OUR dog." How can the wife learn to love and train the dog to follow her commands if the husband refuses to foster a good relationship?
    I am the main trainer of our dogs, but I always make sure my spouse learns how to control the dogs and to have FUN with the dogs (aka give treats, play, cuddling, etc). I even let them give the appropriate table scraps everyday, rather than have myself do it. It is a special moment everyday that the dogs have with my spouse that has nothing to do with me and they must behave in order to get the treat.

  • @ameliaearhart666
    @ameliaearhart666 9 місяців тому +11

    This poor woman was so stressed she was scratching at her neck. That guy’s gonna send her to an early grave.

    • @baassiia
      @baassiia Місяць тому

      This women is an angel. This troll doesn't deserve her.

  • @KadenWastaken
    @KadenWastaken 9 місяців тому +10

    The Family : 🤬😤
    The Camera Man: 😐👍

  • @queerlemons1919
    @queerlemons1919 6 місяців тому +2

    if you want someone to clam down DONT TELL THEM TO CALM DOWN

  • @armymatty5362
    @armymatty5362 6 місяців тому +6

    "Sasha's gonna have separation anxiety" lol no. I can't understand how a partner could do this to their significant other, Jozie is a real team player for putting up with all of this and to the point she's at her witt's end, I wish he could appreciate his wife and all she does or I wish she would find someone who would appreciate her in that way.

    • @Doggie-125
      @Doggie-125 5 місяців тому

      Tony putted up with this too

  • @schipperkesandhonoraryschi8515
    @schipperkesandhonoraryschi8515 9 місяців тому +21

    A German Shepherd will be enough of a deterrent to someone wanting to harm a person or their property without needing to protection train the dog - the evildoer will move on to an easier target 🐕

    • @vbs4257
      @vbs4257 9 місяців тому +6

      I once worked, as a trainer, with a family with a Rottweiler that they wanted to "be mean". I assured them that they would not have to protection-train him. He'd be more than happy to protect them if he sensed danger.

    • @ztitches
      @ztitches 9 місяців тому

      @@vbs4257dogs do not naturally protect like that unless trained to

  • @damien678
    @damien678 8 місяців тому +5

    "Leena threw me under the bus by eating that food" ??? SIR, SHE'S A DOG

  • @ElenaWIP
    @ElenaWIP 8 місяців тому +4

    That chihuahua sure is huge!!

  • @Ryo11129
    @Ryo11129 9 місяців тому +19

    Why do I have the feeling Sascha miraculously got pregnant some time after the episode. 🤔

    • @bugloverspiderlover8490
      @bugloverspiderlover8490 6 місяців тому +6

      She did! His social media showed she had pups.

    • @Loveofmisery
      @Loveofmisery 4 місяці тому +2

      @@bugloverspiderlover8490 noooooooo!

    • @KariIzumi1
      @KariIzumi1 4 місяці тому

      ​@@bugloverspiderlover8490God, I hope he sold the puppies to more responsible owners than he is!

    • @weedlebunz
      @weedlebunz 4 місяці тому

      Cuz Tony sneaks around!

  • @kneumann2949
    @kneumann2949 6 місяців тому +5

    There was not one word about a feisty chihuahua...

  • @christinekillen3852
    @christinekillen3852 9 місяців тому +5

    this guy....you think he has learned something by the end of the video, then he "kids around" again about having another dog.... that's creepy when he knows how upset she gets. I can't put my finger on it but it feels creepy that he gets her all riled up again and calls it 'kidding'.

  • @kuromicinnamon_error666
    @kuromicinnamon_error666 9 місяців тому +2

    this couples needs more than Victoria, this dude has some issues beyond dog

  • @thethirdtime9168
    @thethirdtime9168 5 місяців тому +1

    And this, ladies, gentlemen and all folk in between, is the a great portrayal of the issues with toxic positivities.

  • @notleeqwq5902
    @notleeqwq5902 6 місяців тому +4

    I was promised a chihuahua in the title-
    I’ve been click baited

  • @rosejones2932
    @rosejones2932 9 місяців тому +8

    My neighbor's Shepherd had lots of breast cancer because the people they rescued her from dd not spay her There are a lot of advantages to spaying and neutering.

  • @vertigine69
    @vertigine69 9 місяців тому +108

    Let’s hope for the sake of his wife that they get a divorce

    • @melaninmonroe007
      @melaninmonroe007 9 місяців тому +27

      I have no idea how she’s made it this far

    • @Bercuda
      @Bercuda 7 місяців тому +3

      OR they get help/couple counseling. Anyways most marriages end in divorce, so sometimes it's best to try to fix problems, before you just give up.

  • @sierrahardy7067
    @sierrahardy7067 8 місяців тому +10

    I haven’t seen this show since I was a teenager!! I love this show and Victoria’s training methods. So glad I can rewatch it! ❤️

  • @silverfoxx4012
    @silverfoxx4012 9 місяців тому +9

    You guys got the wrong title on this video

  • @weedlebunz
    @weedlebunz 4 місяці тому +4

    Is anyone else gonna talk about how less of love the chihuahua(s) received? Sasha was the primary receiver of affection. Affection should be distributed evenly throughout the pack!

  • @karenlloyd1705
    @karenlloyd1705 3 місяці тому

    Search & rescue is a perfect job for her, she is such a clever dog

  • @AliciaStrong-FragileCorpse666
    @AliciaStrong-FragileCorpse666 9 місяців тому +5

    "doesnt it feel like driftwood? gives you memories" LOLLLL someone is in HUUUGE denial about the dog doing damage to the doors and furnitures bahahahha. Good lord that cracked me up HARD

  • @xandrafrancois
    @xandrafrancois 8 місяців тому +8

    He wants to defend the household but the defense is dangerous for the household.

  • @EvreythingEquestrian
    @EvreythingEquestrian 9 місяців тому +3

    I was about to scream at this man he was so anoing there is a control freak and then him

  • @Zerotheslav
    @Zerotheslav 5 місяців тому +3

    The dog clearly isn’t stimulated enough she is what looks to be a WORKING LINE german shepherd they have a lot of energy and require so much exorcise