As an ENTJ my room is a perfect representation of my current mindset. If it's spotless, I'm good, otherwise it's pretty much a pig sty because of whatever internal turmoil I'm going through.
I never activley noticed that but it's definetly a perfect way to describe it. If I am doing well mentally everything has a place, if not it's chaotic or even in-between for a mediocre emotional status.
Wow..the only other time I've felt this understood was when a fellow ENTJ was expressing how infuriating they find it when people walk SLOW and without PURPOSE when you're trying to get to where u gotta go! Cheers to that
Yeah I almost almost angry so badly just because my team work just spending their them for small talk a lot without doing productivity. When I set a goal, we have to reach them and drive me so crazy to finished it.
I think that is so because we are so mis understood that we seek out videos like this to gain more understanding into ourselves. I am most definitely an ENTJ woman. Because my personality has alot of male traits, making friends with women was always challenging for me. Wish I had known about my mad skills as a leader and a problem solver years ago. I would have made some very different choices. My personality was not at all encouraged as a young person.
@@susankievman642 Yeah, I'm also an ENTJ. Most of my friends are males aswell, because females dislike how forceful and commanding I seem to be. It's just astonishing that .9% of the population is mostly found here.
That would not fit the definition of irony; ENTJs use tools more than any other personality type, thus you see a greater number of them at "watering holes" i.e. useful information sources.
ENTJ here, dating life was rough. Finding someone who measured up to my expectations seemed impossible. Then, I met my wife, who pushed back on my expectations and stood up for herself constantly. In dating and relationships, I would steam roll people and was that force to be reckoned with. Until I met my wife, she was the immovable object. What happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object? Marriage happens! 🤓
Warrior Link As ENTJ child of ENTJ father, please read few parenting and self-improving books if you want to/will/have kids. My dad is awesome but pretty hars. Information is always good
Got any advice for me? Apparently im an ENTJ... although my first test showed ENTP. Lots of guys wanna date me but i just know im going to steam roll them at some point. I def want a life long hubby. I dont want to drag my man along every time i try something new (which im always trying something new).
My wife's extremely stubborn and very well educated. She wouldn't backdown once things were serious -- that was 15 years ago (marriage). I think she's less of an alpha than I am, but compromise goes a long way to make things work (made me better at professional/personal relationships).
@@emjhendrickson8290 I am a male ENTJ. It was very hard to find a wife that met my rigorous standards of physical beauty, intelligence, and drive to succeed. It took about 7 years of dating to find her. When I did it was amazing (she has since passed). You can find the right person for you just don't prejudge and try to open yourself up. When you feel safe some of your personality will soften and you will make a great connection. Best of luck.
I'm an unemployed rebel fired too many times ENTJ. After so many frustrating jobs I created a system and in six months I owned 2 real state Companys with 20 employees... then when my Dad died everything died with him, specially me... Thank you for reminding me what I can achieve with that strange inner fire I feel to make the world adapt to me and my desires. No more fake humbleness just to be accepted. No more fake fear to hide my toughness and savage hunger of real power, inner power. If this is being crazy or psychopath so be it I'm done with my depression I'll become me again no matter if I loose fake friends I'll use them show them what can be done and they'll follow. sorry lol I'm just making a statement to myself and letting this pain go at once.
I startd my own company 10 yrs... Recently i js get one INTF... As worker... I found out ENTJ ned to learn to adapt w other personelity strenght help them to grow as well We are too efficient and some time feel like aloft... But give people time everything eill be fine
As an example; being highly rational can seem scary to a lot of people. Our combined traits seem very intimidating and are relativley rare making us stick out even more and literally feel unfamiliar as interactions with us are naturally not high. More importantly though y we are also misunderstood as a lot of us are not perfect recreations of the test result but have slight variations which is especially true for the extreme negative attributes assumed with our personality. Again as yet another example, we may have the potential to be arrogant and ruthless but that is not a certainty.
Entj here: I once made a girl cry, unknowingly that I was being mean. I realized then that we need to be more cautious in the way we talk to others. I didn’t care much for her crying but her company, she is brilliant.
So it was what you could TAKE from her rather than what you can GIVE her? Because wanting her company is TAKING and caring about the fact she's crying is GIVING! Relationships are give AND take not just TAKE! That becomes selfish! I can understand why she cried!
ive done this 3 times before i picked up on it... i only really thought of this now that you mentioned this here. I've always struggled with emotions as growing up i never really valued them but as I matured I realized the importance of accepting others as they are, even if it doesn't align with me.
Being an ENTJ, the partnership standards on one hand are extremely high (I think the best fit might be an attractive and intelligent INTP), on the other hand, falling in love comes fast for us. So to all us ENTJs: Don't settle below your standars, trading off is losing.
@@arig8905 yes it is. I’ve tried to get along but he’s never understood me or the way I function. He’s been arrogant & dismissive since childhood & I’ve put up with his contempt for years but he took it too far recently and finally got the INFJ door slam.
Earlier this year, I was a wild ENTJ. Unknown to my powers, I thought I was on the stupid side of society. Through experience, I understood that I am just supposed to get something done. When I took the 16 personalities test, I learned I have the same mindset as the late Steve Jobs. I learned I am destined to create a product so revolutionary. I know I am not even old enough to vote yet, I can create my first prototype.
As a 51 y/o ENTJ, I made my first million at 23, lost it all by 28, was recruited into Special Ops as a civilian skydiver then led men in combat until my body couldn’t take it 22 years later. Rising quickly through the ranks from enlisted to officer, The single most enlightening concept I ever got (except from the Bible) came from an Air Force Colonel (likely an ENTJ) named John Boyd. He parsed out the concept of really two type of people: Those that want “TO DO” or “TO BE”. The later being the antagonists of my life and those I took pleasure in gutting at every chance I got. It was Boyd that helped me realize we need those people to allow us that have chosen former the maneuvering space “TO DO”
So im not a Tomboy...Im ENTJ personality. Wow total change of perspective. Always stood out from the crowd. I can be leader but sometimes ppl afraid to vote me in. It's understandable. I got a lot of growing to do. That's why i watch this stuff. I got potential for big things. I feel it. But i need to learn first.
ENTJ here, deemed bossy, controlling and have a take charge attitude and have very few friends because of this. Often disliked because of my confidence and can’t stand lack of productivity. I’m 40 and I’m okay with all of it!
I’m the same mate. Broke As F!! Although it’s not for want of trying. Always had businesses, some have worked (for a while) and others haven’t. The learning curve coupled with our drive to succeed, have got my business (in aviation training) funding contracts. Hopefully, just like you - a little bit of luck - everything will fall into place
Your presentation is not bad but it’s disappointing that all you’ve done is just read this off some website. I’ve seen/heard these words before It would have been better if you’ve done independent research on the subject and you actually contribute a unique perspective
I have constantly been talked to about my abrasiveness and lack of empathy throughout my military career. I've developed better as a leader by reading body language and using better engagement techniques to help me influence others. I've learned to be less intense, unless it's necessary -- it totally shuts down the timid. Either way, if you can work on better EQ with this type of personality, you'll be even more accomplished and inspire even more people.
Gary Vaynerchuck is an ENTJ. Watch his everyday videos, you'll know how ENTJ he is. He's quite sound competitive to people when giving motivational videos. Not only a typical business Guru that often point "just do it" instead, he delivers a right criticism when motivating.
ENTJ. I don't mind being hated, because I know who and what I am. So when you're dissing me, remember to add the terms successful, dominant and iconic when you discuss me.
We definetly are arrogant, aren't we. And at the core, we couldn't care less because we know that most of the time, we are right about this feeling of superperiority.
Took the meyers-Briggs in college. My professor told us that we can resonate with more than one personality type and had us take it twice, day/night with the first time taking it being the dominant. (ENTJ/ENFP minor)
I just looked at the results of the last test I took and it was ENFP-A. Of course I'm here because my latest test was ENTJ-A. I'm not sure yet what the As are for. Now off to find a good ENFP video.
I'm definitely an ENTJ, I hate inefficiency, I always seek to find a better way to do things, I can't stand being around people who are over- emotional over work matters, I thrive from contests and challenges, I feel the need to take the lead when I see inefficiency and issues.
Thank you for this video, I'm writinɡ about a character who's personality traits are a mix of ENTJ and Aquarius traits. Your video was made understandinɡ the ENTJ part very easy, thank you.
I took a quiz maybe for the 3rd time now and i had 3 result which really i am, ENTJ-ENTP-ENFJ im also a Virgo Sun Aries Rising and Scorpio Moon... ENTJ- the commander, ENTP- the protagonist and ENFJ- the teacher... im quiet in awe with my results... and those are relevant with what i notice with myself..
Same. When they wrote off his character it became obvious to me how grey, boring and inauthentic Claire was the whole time. Couldn't watch it afterwards. Frank was FIRE!
ENTJ female here, I’ve never met another ENTJ in the real world. Interesting so many online. I would trade my type for a full nights sleep. People think I’m an ESFJ at 1st glance until they discover my lack of Fe then they become confused and think maybe she wasn’t feeling well today. People also think I should be a nurse or teacher. I’ve spent my life thinking people are idiots or I’m a sociopath. Now I know it’s Te that makes me put others before myself. It’s involuntary and people think its Fe compassion when all I really want to know is how you think and what you like.
U can actually build... It Use it in where every it suit u... But don waste ENTJ very rare species Have sharp eye... Can learn adapt and execute thing fast
Don't tone it down. We believe in hard work so work hard and find someone that fits your needs. Setteling for less is not only doomed to fail in the long term but also a certain way to become unhappy. We work too hard to just take what's available at the first glance.
really felt 5:00 high standards for those I keep close, even if the few close friends I have are bizarrely different from each other. I feel we are very quick to judge because of these relatively unusual standards we have for others. It is very easy for me to just know if I will get along well with someone (or not) within a few minutes of meeting them. I think we take first impressions very seriously + ties into that trait of not caring about holding back for giving out criticisms and feedback lol very much driven by wanting to optimize every aspect of our lives.
Both my wife and I are ENTJ-A..... according to all the tests we have done, at least. At home, we kinda have to give and take many times. Sometimes, we both are just too eager to decide that we have many arguments. But at the same time, I feel like we are so similar that we totally understand each other. She wants to start a company with me and I still consider if that is a good idea...
ENTJ here, from 1:00 to 1:34 was a complete waste of time and extremely inefficient, and I feel angry wasting even more time writing about it when you could’ve thought this through and excluded that useless part from the beginning.
I also did the same thing and i kept testing out as ENTJ but I believe the problem is that you are thinking Introversion and Extravertion as being shy or not shy, but truly Extravertion and Introversion is just to see where you take in your energy from wether you look inward for your energy and sense of belonging (Introversion) or you look outward for praise or confirmation or just like to be around people (Extravertion). In this case an the Extravert trait means your more outspoken and like to talk about your ideas. I hope this helped you.
I'm an entj as well and most would assume I'm an introvert until they see me in a setting I'm comfortable. Shy and introverted are not the same being a shy extrovert is incredibly difficult from my exp.
No no it's not the same as talking too much or little it's extraverted THINKING, like thinking how something plays out socially... I can be both extravert or introvert, ENTJs think first whether it's worth their time to be extraverted.....
my friend is the same way. i think most entjs are more independent, but not necessarily introverted. its all on a scale so maybe you are like 40% introverted and 60% extraverted... you can be less social but it doesn't necessarily mean youre introverted
I struggle with some of these traits. I’m much more understanding of people than this would make it appear. It’s just handling and processing their actual emotions that I find hard
Leelee the Great it’s one of the weirdest combinations. I’m emotional yet like to take charge, I’m empathetic, but I have no room for self sabotage. Imma need my brain to pick because it’s annoyingggggg 😂
The personal competence of me in my chosen fields is extremley high, the ego is definetly too high sometimes but being aware of the arrogance helps and I wouldn't say self centered, I just don't care for a lot of people if they aren't worth the attention. In numbers, 1 low 5 high; [4|1-3|2] 4 (not a genius but cleverer and more capable than the majority, I like to say definetly above average but not to a degree that would win a Nobel piece effortlessly) , 1-3 (can vary sigificantly, it isn't something you can just write of as a single constant, I know some people are smarter aso. but again, they are a very small minorit), 2 (as mentioned before, if you are an interesting person, I will listen to your stories and remember them, if not, I won't even bother to remeber your name)
haha love it! Male ENTJ here - Someone else here who wants to become a billionaire and build the biggest life changing brand in the world in his field?
I always thought that becoming a billionaire is nice but that you can have a better life with slightly less funds but more time to actually live it. No matter how much funds you have, you can not buy life time (yet) and while I love working I would not want to spent my life in pursuit of a goal that is ultimatley an overkill. Sure, it would help the ego but is that worth it? Maybe. I think it's easy to spend a lot of time trying to live up to your own standards but failing because you don't work for your satisfaction but for simply getting there. I don't need a billion dollars but I really would like reaching said number. Sure, we could certainly achieve a lot with that much money but what's in it for us? What does that actually do for us? Status? Luxury? At what point does that cost outweigh the reward? If we had some kind of gurantee that we could use these funds, perhaps to fuel some scientific discovery to prolong our existence or even save us from death itself, then I would definetly see the logic behind that plan but I would like to hear your take on the matter. Why would you like to become a billionaire? You mentioned life changing which I definetly find interesting but subjectively not that appealing as I thought it implies a change for everyone which may not benefit myself as an individual.
Yes indeed. It frightens most chaps (who are worth having) off. I was once told I am a male homosexual in a female body!! It was only in my late 40s that I eventually learned to be more self aware and soften my approach. I'm now happily in a partnership of 14+ years. It can be done.
So, basically these tests are doing is creating very neat, somewhat limited fields to classify differences in personality. The tests themselves measure your answers according to a preexisting procedure. That means by nature, these tests can fail, they can lead you to wrong results if you interpret an answer differently and they are not absolute. I am 100% an ENTJ as this personality matches by far the most with my approach to life but as you noticed I said by far. Basically, to be 100% accurate this test would need proabbly millions of surcharts with small variations, even mixing diffrent characteristics. So let's just say that the tests are efficient but only to determine how close you are to one of the preexisting types. Any nuances you might have, are lost. It's a bit like an IQ test claiming to measure intelligence while it really only measures a few fields of what we describe as intelligence. You can try various methods to find your "main" types. Comparing what you got, reading descriptions and trying scenarios that change the way you take the test. For example, I read that if you took this test in an ideal rules formed by your own ideas. How would you truthfully answer?
I think I'm an ENTJ. But, I don't have much do confidence...I think it has to do with being a social outcast and being ignored for so long. Then again maybe I'm an ISFP. I don't know. People have so many mixed views about me that I'm complete confused. I'm trying gain more confidence and get out of my unhealthy habits.
Female ENTJ-A Commander here. I was in denial about me being one, I thought I just happened to have a strong personality than the others when I'm placed in one room. It all changed 3 years ago, I was dating this guy who was sweet, and embodies all the emotional stuff women likes, except me. I felt bad for him, in the end, we parted ways. He got married, I'm still single, earning my PhD. Meanwhile, my parents are literally dragging me to any nd all events there is to "possibly" meet my Mr. Right. But there are men who just can't stand an opinionated woman and I can never tolerate idiots who think they are awesome, but still are at an entry level job at 35. (No offense to entry level job workers, his case was different. He's from a well off family so, he kinda likes his dad's money than working for his own) This just doesn't sit well with me and my values. So, buhbye. 😂🤣
Lol hahahah totally get you. Im an ENTJ with ENTP as secondary. Finding good possible guys so is hard. Totally agree on the entry level job thing. When i turn 35, i want to be retired so i can live. Thats possible in America, so why not? Every time i meet a cute guy, i ask myself "am i going to steamroll him? Can he handle the heat?" Sounds terrible but im high energy. Can't turn it off.
@@emjhendrickson8290 When you are 35 you won't be able to retire. Financially you might but our ENTJ brains don't do well at all in retirement. I speak from experience as I am in my 50's took a few years off and I am really not doing well. Without the interaction and challenges that energize us a retirement lifestyle is really tough. Of course ENTJ's that retire are the jerks who run home owners associations and things like that so they can try to keep themselves stimulated.
I love comparing the videos of ENTJ & ENFJ -- thinking v. feeling. One is branded an asshole and one is branded an ultra-caring individual, night an day The Commander v. The Protagonist. I learned as an ENTJ to emulate more "feeling" qualities through studying and raising one's Emotional Intelligence, especially reading the vibe from people. You soon realize if you are in a managerial role how important Emotion IQ is to overall productivity & commitment to an organization or project your team will have, and it's worth the investment in yourself. I don't know why every video of ENTJ insists that Thinking can't lead you to a similar conclusion in your outward behavior than F.
I accepted part of my cold and ruthless side when its needed to get things done so what if im called a dictator or a good leader . Better than being an incompetent loser . Terms of career i like to have a buissness in fashion as the head designer . Its true on building freinds earn my respect , guess intjs earns my respect as they are fun to be with and their scary side excites me when its not aimed at me and appreciate the teamwork as a leader too , feelings can be hard to show too haha
I am ENTJ. Did you put that little war snippet in at the beginning just to prove that I am an ENTJ and the wasting of my time and not getting to the point is annoying?
Invictus Prime absolutely. The NT means your Perceiving function is Intuition, and your Judging function is Thinking. The J or P just signals which is your dominant function. So if you’re a combination, it just means it’s not fully clear which one your dominant function is, but they are the same whichever way
its all on a scale so you could be close to 50/50 for judging/perceiving. some of the traits will be exaggerated if you are 50/50 but your extrovertedness, intuitiveness and thinking seem pretty set in place
From an outsider's view, ENTJ just seems like your average sociopath and I'm saying this as an INTJ which isn't suppose to be that far away yet I still find a lot of characteristics odd. I mean, trying to be extremely successful without caring about what happens to anyone besides you, the fact that you desperately want people to know you succeeded, the highly judgemental lifestyle and the lack of empathy is concerning for me since they're all real signs of sociopathy, perhaps I'm misunderstanding but no matter how much I gather info about this personality, I can't seem to change my mind.
It can't be that all entj types are the same. I am an entj but I am not ruthless with other people. I would never want to be associated with Gordon Ramsey. There must be more to this. When I think of horoscopes, not all libras are the same. There is the ascendant that gives some variation to the theme. That entjs are cold is not true. Maybe as a leader you don't want to show a weak spot, depending on the circumstances. We are very soft, romantic and have an aesthetic taste. We are helpful if we can make the world a better place. I believe that most historical figures that shaped our history were entjs.
Because we have an extremley high potential. It's not necessarily something we do but if someone can make it in this world, it are people us. We have the abilities to be competing at the very top. When one believes that hard work pays of and has the means to accomplish them - as we do, we can theoretically outmatch most people. But that's theory. In reality, we can still be held back by personal problems, there are a multitude of variations one could cite and in conclusion, at the end of the day we are only human.
I am an ENTJ also. I have had times where I struggled but others could see great potential in me, far more than I saw in myself. When I started to use that belief as an energy to get me going my career took of and I became what most would consider to be successful.
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ENTJ Here. High passion for Success and very low tolerance for laziness and excuses.
Unless the excuses are mine😂😂😂
As an ENTJ my patience is zero,I can't be dealing with slow thinkers who dwell on their issues.
“Stand up for yourself and for your ideas without being defensive and you’ll be seen in a new light by an ENTJ” sooooo true
As an ENTJ my room is a perfect representation of my current mindset. If it's spotless, I'm good, otherwise it's pretty much a pig sty because of whatever internal turmoil I'm going through.
I never activley noticed that but it's definetly a perfect way to describe it. If I am doing well mentally everything has a place, if not it's chaotic or even in-between for a mediocre emotional status.
I too have observed this and my stairs are currently vacuumed.
Meeee
Wow..the only other time I've felt this understood was when a fellow ENTJ was expressing how infuriating they find it when people walk SLOW and without PURPOSE when you're trying to get to where u gotta go! Cheers to that
I’ve never read anything so relatable in my life
Female ENTJ here. I mean well, honestly, but I have zero tolerance for inefficiency and incompetence. :)
BlackenedRain1029 I’m a debater.
Did you wince too everytime this guy flubbed up on reading his cuecards/teleprompter in this vid?
Incompetence severely pisses me off
Yeah I almost almost angry so badly just because my team work just spending their them for small talk a lot without doing productivity. When I set a goal, we have to reach them and drive me so crazy to finished it.
Here, here sister!
Its extremely ironic that ENTJ females are the rarest to find, yet there are already so many here.
I think that is so because we are so mis understood that we seek out videos like this to gain more understanding into ourselves. I am most definitely an ENTJ woman. Because my personality has alot of male traits, making friends with women was always challenging for me. Wish I had known about my mad skills as a leader and a problem solver years ago. I would have made some very different choices. My personality was not at all encouraged as a young person.
@@susankievman642 Yeah, I'm also an ENTJ. Most of my friends are males aswell, because females dislike how forceful and commanding I seem to be. It's just astonishing that .9% of the population is mostly found here.
Because we like learning
well the world have 6 billion people so even 1% is still a lot
That would not fit the definition of irony; ENTJs use tools more than any other personality type, thus you see a greater number of them at "watering holes" i.e. useful information sources.
ENTJ here, dating life was rough. Finding someone who measured up to my expectations seemed impossible. Then, I met my wife, who pushed back on my expectations and stood up for herself constantly. In dating and relationships, I would steam roll people and was that force to be reckoned with. Until I met my wife, she was the immovable object. What happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object? Marriage happens! 🤓
Warrior Link
As ENTJ child of ENTJ father, please read few parenting and self-improving books if you want to/will/have kids. My dad is awesome but pretty hars. Information is always good
Got any advice for me? Apparently im an ENTJ... although my first test showed ENTP. Lots of guys wanna date me but i just know im going to steam roll them at some point. I def want a life long hubby. I dont want to drag my man along every time i try something new (which im always trying something new).
My wife's extremely stubborn and very well educated. She wouldn't backdown once things were serious -- that was 15 years ago (marriage). I think she's less of an alpha than I am, but compromise goes a long way to make things work (made me better at professional/personal relationships).
@@emjhendrickson8290 I am a male ENTJ. It was very hard to find a wife that met my rigorous standards of physical beauty, intelligence, and drive to succeed. It took about 7 years of dating to find her. When I did it was amazing (she has since passed). You can find the right person for you just don't prejudge and try to open yourself up. When you feel safe some of your personality will soften and you will make a great connection. Best of luck.
@Warrior Link You just need someone on the same energy level. I should say your wife and you on the same energy level
I'm an unemployed rebel fired too many times ENTJ. After so many frustrating jobs I created a system and in six months I owned 2 real state Companys with 20 employees... then when my Dad died everything died with him, specially me... Thank you for reminding me what I can achieve with that strange inner fire I feel to make the world adapt to me and my desires. No more fake humbleness just to be accepted. No more fake fear to hide my toughness and savage hunger of real power, inner power. If this is being crazy or psychopath so be it I'm done with my depression I'll become me again no matter if I loose fake friends I'll use them show them what can be done and they'll follow. sorry lol I'm just making a statement to myself and letting this pain go at once.
I am so sorry about your dad, max he rest in peace. How did you built you companies?
Nice
I startd my own company 10 yrs... Recently i js get one INTF... As worker...
I found out ENTJ ned to learn to adapt w other personelity strenght help them to grow as well
We are too efficient and some time feel like aloft...
But give people time everything eill be fine
For once I don't feel like a sociopath
Me too! I took many sociopath and psychopath tests because I thought very differently than those around me.
Amen hahaha
I think we’re Machiavellians not Sociopaths guys
We are a Joker and Lex Luthor in a Batman and Superman's world! 😂
@@raymondbillups2002 Same
You the only person who said it all about us (entj) without making it sound so scary.
it is scary if we don't accept it and own it. It can destroy our world or create unlimited new worlds it is entirely up to us. I deeply believe so.
As an example; being highly rational can seem scary to a lot of people. Our combined traits seem very intimidating and are relativley rare making us stick out even more and literally feel unfamiliar as interactions with us are naturally not high. More importantly though y we are also misunderstood as a lot of us are not perfect recreations of the test result but have slight variations which is especially true for the extreme negative attributes assumed with our personality. Again as yet another example, we may have the potential to be arrogant and ruthless but that is not a certainty.
Entj here: I once made a girl cry, unknowingly that I was being mean. I realized then that we need to be more cautious in the way we talk to others. I didn’t care much for her crying but her company, she is brilliant.
"we need to be more cautious in the way we talk to others". Yes. ENTJ here too. It makes a huge difference.
So it was what you could TAKE from her rather than what you can GIVE her? Because wanting her company is TAKING and caring about the fact she's crying is GIVING! Relationships are give AND take not just TAKE! That becomes selfish! I can understand why she cried!
ive done this 3 times before i picked up on it... i only really thought of this now that you mentioned this here. I've always struggled with emotions as growing up i never really valued them but as I matured I realized the importance of accepting others as they are, even if it doesn't align with me.
Being an ENTJ, the partnership standards on one hand are extremely high (I think the best fit might be an attractive and intelligent INTP), on the other hand, falling in love comes fast for us. So to all us ENTJs: Don't settle below your standars, trading off is losing.
Damn. Accurate
it comes quick because we work to much and have no time to keep looking haha
ENTJ here . This is all so true . Especially hating sensitive snowflakes.
My brother is an ENTJ. I am an INFJ. We can’t stand each other.
@@universaltruth2025 that’s sad :( ~ENTJ
@@arig8905 yes it is. I’ve tried to get along but he’s never understood me or the way I function. He’s been arrogant & dismissive since childhood & I’ve put up with his contempt for years but he took it too far recently and finally got the INFJ door slam.
Earlier this year, I was a wild ENTJ. Unknown to my powers, I thought I was on the stupid side of society. Through experience, I understood that I am just supposed to get something done. When I took the 16 personalities test, I learned I have the same mindset as the late Steve Jobs. I learned I am destined to create a product so revolutionary. I know I am not even old enough to vote yet, I can create my first prototype.
As a 51 y/o ENTJ, I made my first million at 23, lost it all by 28, was recruited into Special Ops as a civilian skydiver then led men in combat until my body couldn’t take it 22 years later. Rising quickly through the ranks from enlisted to officer, The single most enlightening concept I ever got (except from the Bible) came from an Air Force Colonel (likely an ENTJ) named John Boyd. He parsed out the concept of really two type of people: Those that want “TO DO” or “TO BE”. The later being the antagonists of my life and those I took pleasure in gutting at every chance I got. It was Boyd that helped me realize we need those people to allow us that have chosen former the maneuvering space “TO DO”
So im not a Tomboy...Im ENTJ personality. Wow total change of perspective. Always stood out from the crowd. I can be leader but sometimes ppl afraid to vote me in. It's understandable. I got a lot of growing to do. That's why i watch this stuff. I got potential for big things. I feel it. But i need to learn first.
Nice self awareness. How's it been going for you?
ENTJ here, deemed bossy, controlling and have a take charge attitude and have very few friends because of this. Often disliked because of my confidence and can’t stand lack of productivity. I’m 40 and I’m okay with all of it!
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I'm an ENTJ. I'm broke af. No job. I have a lot of skills and am receiving funding to use them now. Wish me luck haha.
Thank you for your honesty😂😂😂
@@msjulie3613 Update: Im making a living online as an affiliate marketer and have a pretty solid downline in my MLM too haha.
Good luck AND good fortune Mr.'s Tip! See you topside😉
You'd be pissed off if you were an ENTJ
I’m the same mate. Broke As F!! Although it’s not for want of trying. Always had businesses, some have worked (for a while) and others haven’t.
The learning curve coupled with our drive to succeed, have got my business (in aviation training) funding contracts. Hopefully, just like you - a little bit of luck - everything will fall into place
Your presentation is not bad but it’s disappointing that all you’ve done is just read this off some website. I’ve seen/heard these words before
It would have been better if you’ve done independent research on the subject and you actually contribute a unique perspective
Lol so true he got it off 16 personalities
Entj female here
Priyanka Danda me too
Lol
Hats off to you, madam lady! 😝🤑😲😄
Lol Hi. ENTJ Male :3
Lol probably not
I have constantly been talked to about my abrasiveness and lack of empathy throughout my military career. I've developed better as a leader by reading body language and using better engagement techniques to help me influence others. I've learned to be less intense, unless it's necessary -- it totally shuts down the timid. Either way, if you can work on better EQ with this type of personality, you'll be even more accomplished and inspire even more people.
ENTJ here and I love the journey to success and hate keeping my room a mess as it corresponds to my mind
Female ENTJ here. I use Google Calendar more than I use IMessage.
Gary Vaynerchuck is an ENTJ. Watch his everyday videos, you'll know how ENTJ he is.
He's quite sound competitive to people when giving motivational videos. Not only a typical business Guru that often point "just do it" instead, he delivers a right criticism when motivating.
ENTJ. I don't mind being hated, because I know who and what I am. So when you're dissing me, remember to add the terms successful, dominant and iconic when you discuss me.
Tha_SilverBlack_16 facts!!! Broncos fan tho
We definetly are arrogant, aren't we. And at the core, we couldn't care less because we know that most of the time, we are right about this feeling of superperiority.
@@Arcaryon 💯
Took the meyers-Briggs in college. My professor told us that we can resonate with more than one personality type and had us take it twice, day/night with the first time taking it being the dominant. (ENTJ/ENFP minor)
I just looked at the results of the last test I took and it was ENFP-A.
Of course I'm here because my latest test was ENTJ-A.
I'm not sure yet what the As are for.
Now off to find a good ENFP video.
Josh Weaver RC I’ve never seen them with the hyphenated A. I’d be curious of your findings.
@@r.a.s1210 Assertive Vs Turbulent. It could be A or T. Interesting to know. I know my assertive nature comes from confidence.
@@JoshWeaverRCHow can ENTJ's ever be ENFP's? Please explain
ENFP's and ENTJ's are sooooo NOT the same!
When you said that impatience is our Achille's heel, I felt that.
I'm definitely an ENTJ, I hate inefficiency, I always seek to find a better way to do things, I can't stand being around people who are over- emotional over work matters, I thrive from contests and challenges, I feel the need to take the lead when I see inefficiency and issues.
Finally I found out why I’m all alone ( female Entj )
Female ENTJ too. It really is tough, but it can be done, and needs self-awareness and some adjustments.
Yes!!! It’s so tough being a female ENTJ. Especially when looking younger for their age.
@@mehitabel6564 said like an entj haha
Thank you for this video, I'm writinɡ about a character who's personality traits are a mix of ENTJ and Aquarius traits. Your video was made understandinɡ the ENTJ part very easy, thank you.
I'm an Aquarius entj!!
I am a female ENTJ and and aquarius as well ☺️
Hehehe... I'm an ENTJ and a cancer......... I also don't believe in horoscopes.
I am a female ENTJ Aquarius too 💙💜
ENTJ Aquarius here! :)
I took a quiz maybe for the 3rd time now and i had 3 result which really i am, ENTJ-ENTP-ENFJ im also a Virgo Sun Aries Rising and Scorpio Moon... ENTJ- the commander, ENTP- the protagonist and ENFJ- the teacher... im quiet in awe with my results... and those are relevant with what i notice with myself..
ENTP is not protagonist...just saying
Woaw 1%? I’m feeling special right now 😂😂
ENTJ here. This was best video I have heard about us!
House of Cards is my favorite show and I would honestly vote for Frank Underwood for President. I now know why, lol.
Same. When they wrote off his character it became obvious to me how grey, boring and inauthentic Claire was the whole time. Couldn't watch it afterwards. Frank was FIRE!
As an ENTJ I agree I believe in facts not emotions. Achievements are motivational.
Lovely summary! Thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you! ❤️💐💕
i am a ENTJ!!
ENTJ female here, I’ve never met another ENTJ in the real world. Interesting so many online. I would trade my type for a full nights sleep. People think I’m an ESFJ at 1st glance until they discover my lack of Fe then they become confused and think maybe she wasn’t feeling well today. People also think I should be a nurse or teacher. I’ve spent my life thinking people are idiots or I’m a sociopath. Now I know it’s Te that makes me put others before myself. It’s involuntary and people think its Fe compassion when all I really want to know is how you think and what you like.
I am a 60 year old Taurus female ENTJ (testing done in 1996).
I’m an ENTJ, ENFJ, INTJ having characteristics from all of those types🤷🏻♀️
U can actually build... It
Use it in where every it suit u...
But don waste ENTJ very rare species
Have sharp eye... Can learn adapt and execute thing fast
Starts at 1:40.
I'm Rafael, 27, ENTJ as well, and all this info was mind bogglingly spot the fuck on.!!!!! I morbidly HATE procrastinating people.
"Just Do It"
-Nike
ENTJ here, also wanna say also have feelings though we hide them
I am a female ENTJ and rn i am like so proud 😂
Proud Commander right here!! 💖
As an ENTJ female, dating is soooo hard. Everyone just seems weak and i keep thinking maybe I have to tone it down- which i cannot, unfortunately. :/
Don't tone it down. We believe in hard work so work hard and find someone that fits your needs. Setteling for less is not only doomed to fail in the long term but also a certain way to become unhappy. We work too hard to just take what's available at the first glance.
Entj here. Natural inclination is to tear somone apart for being inefficient and effective. But you hold back no matter how much they annoy you.
Here I am, Planning my tomorrow while watching this.
really felt 5:00 high standards for those I keep close, even if the few close friends I have are bizarrely different from each other. I feel we are very quick to judge because of these relatively unusual standards we have for others. It is very easy for me to just know if I will get along well with someone (or not) within a few minutes of meeting them. I think we take first impressions very seriously + ties into that trait of not caring about holding back for giving out criticisms and feedback lol very much driven by wanting to optimize every aspect of our lives.
Both my wife and I are ENTJ-A.....
according to all the tests we have done, at least.
At home, we kinda have to give and take many times. Sometimes, we both are just too eager to decide that we have many arguments.
But at the same time, I feel like we are so similar that we totally understand each other.
She wants to start a company with me and I still consider if that is a good idea...
Must be a clean house.
@@stateofcarter4140, it is, our vacuum cleaner is used frequently. It's always on charge to maintain sufficient battery level.
ENTJ here, from 1:00 to 1:34 was a complete waste of time and extremely inefficient, and I feel angry wasting even more time writing about it when you could’ve thought this through and excluded that useless part from the beginning.
That was a great video, I learned alot about myself within this
I don't understand difference entp and entj.... Can someone be both at different times
I keep taking the personality test, and I keep coming out as an ENTJ, I think I’m more INTJ as I’m more introverted but not completely. Thoughts ?
I also did the same thing and i kept testing out as ENTJ but I believe the problem is that you are thinking Introversion and Extravertion as being shy or not shy, but truly Extravertion and Introversion is just to see where you take in your energy from wether you look inward for your energy and sense of belonging (Introversion) or you look outward for praise or confirmation or just like to be around people (Extravertion). In this case an the Extravert trait means your more outspoken and like to talk about your ideas. I hope this helped you.
Galactic_Gamer YT thanks. Helped out a lot
I'm an entj as well and most would assume I'm an introvert until they see me in a setting I'm comfortable. Shy and introverted are not the same being a shy extrovert is incredibly difficult from my exp.
No no it's not the same as talking too much or little it's extraverted THINKING, like thinking how something plays out socially... I can be both extravert or introvert, ENTJs think first whether it's worth their time to be extraverted.....
my friend is the same way. i think most entjs are more independent, but not necessarily introverted. its all on a scale so maybe you are like 40% introverted and 60% extraverted... you can be less social but it doesn't necessarily mean youre introverted
I struggle with some of these traits. I’m much more understanding of people than this would make it appear. It’s just handling and processing their actual emotions that I find hard
I’m an ENTJ female, a Pisces, and an empath hm
Shit that's bad
gurl same how do i exist
Leelee the Great it’s one of the weirdest combinations. I’m emotional yet like to take charge, I’m empathetic, but I have no room for self sabotage. Imma need my brain to pick because it’s annoyingggggg 😂
Me too saaaaame
Oh my, I am ENTJ and female, no wonder I carry so much shame for being so ambitious
You can DO it! #legit
Gmwilkie George ❤️
Money, power, prestige..❤️
For those of you who confidently identify as an ENTJ, how would you rate yourself on your own competence? Your own ego? Tendency to be self-centered?
Conflicted. Theres an undeniable drive to achieve great things but also dont want to be a self centered jerk.
The personal competence of me in my chosen fields is extremley high, the ego is definetly too high sometimes but being aware of the arrogance helps and I wouldn't say self centered, I just don't care for a lot of people if they aren't worth the attention.
In numbers, 1 low 5 high;
[4|1-3|2]
4 (not a genius but cleverer and more capable than the majority, I like to say definetly above average but not to a degree that would win a Nobel piece effortlessly) , 1-3 (can vary sigificantly, it isn't something you can just write of as a single constant, I know some people are smarter aso. but again, they are a very small minorit), 2 (as mentioned before, if you are an interesting person, I will listen to your stories and remember them, if not, I won't even bother to remeber your name)
haha love it! Male ENTJ here - Someone else here who wants to become a billionaire and build the biggest life changing brand in the world in his field?
I always thought that becoming a billionaire is nice but that you can have a better life with slightly less funds but more time to actually live it. No matter how much funds you have, you can not buy life time (yet) and while I love working I would not want to spent my life in pursuit of a goal that is ultimatley an overkill. Sure, it would help the ego but is that worth it? Maybe. I think it's easy to spend a lot of time trying to live up to your own standards but failing because you don't work for your satisfaction but for simply getting there. I don't need a billion dollars but I really would like reaching said number.
Sure, we could certainly achieve a lot with that much money but what's in it for us? What does that actually do for us?
Status? Luxury? At what point does that cost outweigh the reward?
If we had some kind of gurantee that we could use these funds, perhaps to fuel some scientific discovery to prolong our existence or even save us from death itself, then I would definetly see the logic behind that plan but I would like to hear your take on the matter. Why would you like to become a billionaire? You mentioned life changing which I definetly find interesting but subjectively not that appealing as I thought it implies a change for everyone which may not benefit myself as an individual.
It's impossible for me to find a husband because I'm naturally the pursuer...
me too
Yes indeed. It frightens most chaps (who are worth having) off. I was once told I am a male homosexual in a female body!! It was only in my late 40s that I eventually learned to be more self aware and soften my approach. I'm now happily in a partnership of 14+ years. It can be done.
I have tested as an entj but I have doubts about the efficiency of the test.... especially since I test as other types sometimes too.
Alicia B I agree as I have totally grown in wisdom and after many years of healing my inner child!
So, basically these tests are doing is creating very neat, somewhat limited fields to classify differences in personality. The tests themselves measure your answers according to a preexisting procedure.
That means by nature, these tests can fail, they can lead you to wrong results if you interpret an answer differently and they are not absolute. I am 100% an ENTJ as this personality matches by far the most with my approach to life but as you noticed I said by far. Basically, to be 100% accurate this test would need proabbly millions of surcharts with small variations, even mixing diffrent characteristics. So let's just say that the tests are efficient but only to determine how close you are to one of the preexisting types. Any nuances you might have, are lost. It's a bit like an IQ test claiming to measure intelligence while it really only measures a few fields of what we describe as intelligence. You can try various methods to find your "main" types. Comparing what you got, reading descriptions and trying scenarios that change the way you take the test. For example, I read that if you took this test in an ideal rules formed by your own ideas. How would you truthfully answer?
I think I'm an ENTJ.
But, I don't have much do confidence...I think it has to do with being a social outcast and being ignored for so long. Then again maybe I'm an ISFP.
I don't know.
People have so many mixed views about me that I'm complete confused. I'm trying gain more confidence and get out of my unhealthy habits.
Female ENTJ-A Commander here. I was in denial about me being one, I thought I just happened to have a strong personality than the others when I'm placed in one room. It all changed 3 years ago, I was dating this guy who was sweet, and embodies all the emotional stuff women likes, except me. I felt bad for him, in the end, we parted ways. He got married, I'm still single, earning my PhD. Meanwhile, my parents are literally dragging me to any nd all events there is to "possibly" meet my Mr. Right. But there are men who just can't stand an opinionated woman and I can never tolerate idiots who think they are awesome, but still are at an entry level job at 35. (No offense to entry level job workers, his case was different. He's from a well off family so, he kinda likes his dad's money than working for his own) This just doesn't sit well with me and my values. So, buhbye. 😂🤣
Lol hahahah totally get you. Im an ENTJ with ENTP as secondary. Finding good possible guys so is hard. Totally agree on the entry level job thing. When i turn 35, i want to be retired so i can live. Thats possible in America, so why not? Every time i meet a cute guy, i ask myself "am i going to steamroll him? Can he handle the heat?" Sounds terrible but im high energy. Can't turn it off.
@@emjhendrickson8290 When you are 35 you won't be able to retire. Financially you might but our ENTJ brains don't do well at all in retirement. I speak from experience as I am in my 50's took a few years off and I am really not doing well. Without the interaction and challenges that energize us a retirement lifestyle is really tough. Of course ENTJ's that retire are the jerks who run home owners associations and things like that so they can try to keep themselves stimulated.
@@tbone1493 haha good point. Maybe you ahould try a hobby like knitting 😉 im hoping i can retire from my day job and start my own venture 😁
You can also just perform well at your job. Then we won’t bother you. 1:53
Anybody else get bugged by one of his eyes being lower than the other
it me! thanks for making videos so i don’t make people so uncomfortable 🥰
I love comparing the videos of ENTJ & ENFJ -- thinking v. feeling. One is branded an asshole and one is branded an ultra-caring individual, night an day The Commander v. The Protagonist. I learned as an ENTJ to emulate more "feeling" qualities through studying and raising one's Emotional Intelligence, especially reading the vibe from people. You soon realize if you are in a managerial role how important Emotion IQ is to overall productivity & commitment to an organization or project your team will have, and it's worth the investment in yourself. I don't know why every video of ENTJ insists that Thinking can't lead you to a similar conclusion in your outward behavior than F.
I am Entj...
I see everything... Has a solution and automation
My wife is entj.
I'm intj.
So she runs things lol.!
Same
im an enti woman and one day i will destroy the world
Alright Satsuki Kiryuin
quantum physics will make it a tough one for you. I challenge you to tell me why.
I am Infj male and I wanna save what you gonna destroy lol
Life secret sauce: if you want to befriend with them, first thing first.. RESPECT
me: hell yea..
🤣🤣🤣
Damn, I sound like a boss!! 😁
I accepted part of my cold and ruthless side when its needed to get things done so what if im called a dictator or a good leader . Better than being an incompetent loser . Terms of career i like to have a buissness in fashion as the head designer . Its true on building freinds earn my respect , guess intjs earns my respect as they are fun to be with and their scary side excites me when its not aimed at me and appreciate the teamwork as a leader too , feelings can be hard to show too haha
I'm struggling to see how that's somehow compatible with intp? Looks like hell to me.
INTP here.
I am ENTJ. Did you put that little war snippet in at the beginning just to prove that I am an ENTJ and the wasting of my time and not getting to the point is annoying?
Don't know if I am an intj , entj or infj🤔
Why can't us ENTJs get with each other I need to start doing personality quizzes on my partners
Female ENTJ...you said it all.
fellow entj's 1:10 to 1:35 is a perfect waste of time. Any true entj is gonna lose their shit cuz that 25 seconds of life is gone loll
Ahahahaha
I am one of the female entj that many people hate during the group work LOL
Because we are not like common people LOL...
That's why I do my own company...
keep up the qood work !
ENTJ , LEO ♌️ 🤦🏻♀️
Same!
BULLI baby intp. Astrology is bullshit
Star signs have no purpose
Ragebaiters debating the validity of astrology, you GO Lee-OH!😄
Me too. And a female.
What happen an female INFJ transition to ENTJ?
wow so accurate 😊
Yeah so accurate it was flattering to the point of cringe lol.
I am an Entj . Like if you are too ?
Wow 😮 I’m trying to open a business and I’m shocked st the results
Is it possible to be a combination of entp and entj?
Invictus Prime absolutely. The NT means your Perceiving function is Intuition, and your Judging function is Thinking. The J or P just signals which is your dominant function. So if you’re a combination, it just means it’s not fully clear which one your dominant function is, but they are the same whichever way
Im a combo of entp and entj. Usually im more entp when im pmsing... 😅
its all on a scale so you could be close to 50/50 for judging/perceiving. some of the traits will be exaggerated if you are 50/50 but your extrovertedness, intuitiveness and thinking seem pretty set in place
Entj !!
I'm entj and woman....yes I saw all 1% in this comment section
ENTJ here
Didn't realize we were that rare.
From an outsider's view, ENTJ just seems like your average sociopath and I'm saying this as an INTJ which isn't suppose to be that far away yet I still find a lot of characteristics odd. I mean, trying to be extremely successful without caring about what happens to anyone besides you, the fact that you desperately want people to know you succeeded, the highly judgemental lifestyle and the lack of empathy is concerning for me since they're all real signs of sociopathy, perhaps I'm misunderstanding but no matter how much I gather info about this personality, I can't seem to change my mind.
It can't be that all entj types are the same. I am an entj but I am not ruthless with other people. I would never want to be associated with Gordon Ramsey. There must be more to this. When I think of horoscopes, not all libras are the same. There is the ascendant that gives some variation to the theme.
That entjs are cold is not true. Maybe as a leader you don't want to show a weak spot, depending on the circumstances. We are very soft, romantic and have an aesthetic taste. We are helpful if we can make the world a better place. I believe that most historical figures that shaped our history were entjs.
Female ENTJ, also Virgo with Virgo ascendent. Cosmic joke... I want war.
It's like this dude read my mind an told my life story in a sense lol
Do ENTJ'S like ENFP'S and if so, why?
Weird...Although I'm jobless and broke, everyone around me says that one day I'll make it big but they don't know how to explain it...i'm entj
Because we have an extremley high potential. It's not necessarily something we do but if someone can make it in this world, it are people us. We have the abilities to be competing at the very top. When one believes that hard work pays of and has the means to accomplish them - as we do, we can theoretically outmatch most people. But that's theory. In reality, we can still be held back by personal problems, there are a multitude of variations one could cite and in conclusion, at the end of the day we are only human.
I am an ENTJ also. I have had times where I struggled but others could see great potential in me, far more than I saw in myself. When I started to use that belief as an energy to get me going my career took of and I became what most would consider to be successful.
Haha ENTJ female here.