He CHOPPED his wife's lovers head off!
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- Опубліковано 21 тра 2024
- In this episode I take a deep dive into the case of Stephen Schap. After finding out his wife was pregnant to his friend he did something that was only heard of in horror movies. Em xx
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The ultimate betrayal of a partner and a best friend could send the best of people over the edge.
Exactly this is not jealousy it’s pure and simple betrayal of trust and oath..
Really on fence to be betrayed by your wife with your best friend could very well throw you over the edge so sad for all involved 😢 ❤❤❤
Agree
Your comment is bang on right. Most in comments & folk on the whole catch there significant other in a relationship with there Bestie. Most would take lethal actions. That kind of hurt 😕 has people forgetting themselves like this dude 😔 . Gotta feel & think life goes on & you'll love ❤️ again dare i say be let down 😭 again
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This is conflicting....there is no denying that what he did was absolutely disgusting evil and completely unacceptable...what he himself had been through and how dare his wife and friend betray him...i feel for him...just an all over heartbreaking situation 🥺
But could you actually imagine SAWing off your friends head (or anyone's head for that matter) for sleeping with your partner?
@amaliaosburn of course not, like I said its evil what he did, I just don't want to be ignorant to his misjustices too if that makes sense. It's very rare to feel a bit sorry for someone who committed such awful things, it's why I love Emma because she explores the psychology behind it all :)
@@abbyyoung2642 I'm totally with you on this Abby. Yep, the crime is horrendous, butI can sure appreciate the pain, anger and humiliation he must have been feeling at the time. Sometimes all those things combined done to you by people you love can drive a person to the extremes. A very tragic case all round. There are no winners here whatsoever.
@@gavvo-7640people need to realise cheating can mess people up. And the friend and pregnancy pushed the guy over. It’s not a cute little walk in the park, it can be dangerous to mess with people in that way
This is why I fully believe human beings aren't supposed to partner for life. We get bored. We constantly seek excitement. Life is HARD. People change. I'm not saying have kids with 500 partners, but this whole "YOU MUST STAY WITH ONE PERSON FOREVER" is totally unrealistic for most people.
The ultimate betrayal of a wife and best friend could definitely mess with your emotions! That’s when you seek help/support!
What he did was awful, grotesque! The actions of the other two were careless and void of any empathy for the husband.
What a tragic turn of events!!!
I feel that he was unfairly charged tbh, it was clear that he lost it in the moment, and as much as its not right to kill, he felt like he had lost everything, and in a way he had. His wife was his everything. I feel awful for him. And yes, Greg too, but who sleeps with their friends wife? And plans to marry them, while she is still married? Horrible.
Well, just to blow peoples minds, my husband and i literally knew each other for 10 DAYS and got married on the 10th day. Met on the 15th, said i do on the 25th. We've been married 26 years now! Raised 3 kids and enjoying our 5 grands now! I absolutely understand we're in the minority! That being said, DO NOT DO IT!! Emma is right, you have time. Use it!
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Wow amazing. My friend got engaged on 2nd day sadly didn’t work for them but that is awesome for you. Was there a reason you got married so quick?
My husband and I met in the bar I worked at. Everyone told us not to get married… our first date was our first everything. Together 21 years this past February. Our 20th wedding anniversary is in August ❤
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Wow! Congratulations!
So Im finding this one, really conflicting. He absolutely has no justification for what he did, but, I have to also balance how much this human tried!
Not sure how I feel about it ult.
He went all Walking Dead on his love ❤️ rival who happened to be his best mate. That is bloody tough to call 😳 . Personally he could have Mike Tysoned the fella 👊🏼 . But that hurt rage seethed in him , he couldn't get the images of the event 😢 of his wife & m8 out his head . Feel for him . But murder is murder
Break up with your spouse or partner BEFORE you start dating someone. But if you don't, DON'T LIE ABOUT IT! It's a recipe for disaster!
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Adultery is an utter betrayal! It can be torture! 😔
@@suzimonkey345 Absolutely!
Actually, in this case she should’ve continued to not give him any hints about who the father was. Eventually, Steven would’ve found out, but maybe by then he’d not have murdered his rival.
Ha ,love it," you can't be lovesick for ever, cos you'd never get anything done " 😂
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Tell that lady out of Baby Reindeer 🤣🤣🤣
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Not excusing what he did at all but his wife not only cheated on him...but to fall pregnant.... meanwhile he'll probably never have children himself, surely he was screaming and crying inside,her betrayal ruined lives
But his actions ended lives- there is only one perpetrator here.
@@Dances.In.StormsThree lessons really. For Diane don’t be a 304. For Gregory don’t betray your friend and for Stephen don’t simp over any woman.
I think this is so sad and obviously there is no excuse for taking a life, but I do feel that this was manslaughter. How on Earth could he have had time to premeditate this, he completely lost it. I think we all having a breaking point, and boy, this man was at his..... Brilliant as always Em xxx
Em. I had those EXACT same boundaries. I told my ex husband before we married : I WIll Forgive you everything but these 2 things, cheat and we are fine. Harm any child in anyway and I’m all over you with a bread knife. Thankfully it was the 1st, but I knew I’d never forgive a cheat. 1st time you are the fool ( ex) 2nd time ( and there’s always a second) I’m the fool, and I’m no fool.
He had an affair while I was pregnant with twins. What an anchor ⚓️. Anyway, good riddance in my case. But yeah, that was my line in the game. No cheating. ,
Thanks for another video! Does anyone else take life advice from Emma? 1. Don’t make big decisions after trauma 2. You’re allowed to feel pain, so you have the emotional bandwidth to deal with situations 👌
She actually has an app that does that 😂
I had a whirlwind romance with my husband nearly 36 years ago and we celebrate 36 years of marriage in August and we are still in love and happy together. Also our first pregnancy ended in miscarriage which was devastating at the time so I can understand how awful that is but I was lucky it was only one. X
@PaganPunk I didn't know about the app , is it a premium app ?👀
@@PaganPunkdoes she? Do you know what the app is called?
I remember one episode about a dude who treated his lady terrible 😮. Was way Emma voiced her total disgust to men who act like this & abuse women. Let me tell you, i felt really, really aware that you gotta treat a woman with total respect 🙏. I've never hurt any lady but felt to me like if Emma personally knew me & heard just that I've shouted at my wife. The look of disappointment & disgusting would be immense. Emma & members of this channel are like a family , but one you want to honour by being a decent fella. Emma, even though I'm Deffinatly not a tyrant, woke me up to always be proper & right with your lady 🙂
i can understand where schap is coming from
Her betrayal was awful and most probably tipped him over the edge after his marriage started to break down and his wife’s miscarriages, especially as he wanted children. His willingness to have the vasectomy was extreme in the circumstances and so were many of his reactions to trauma. Beheading his best friend who was the man who he obviously felt caused his wife to not love him anymore, on top of him being the one giving his wife what he could not, a successful pregnancy, is another extreme reaction. I doubt if he would have done this if his wife had not cheated but it is something he was obviously capable of which is frightening. It’s a difficult one 😢
Think also as a highly skilled soldier & knowing how they train you. He may of given it thought , but rage overtook common sense 😔
Trials aren’t about justice or finding the truth…It’s a competition between 2 lawyers!
So true. That's what is wrong with the system.
Absolutely a crime of passion. Just an horrific act. The betrayal… the devastation, the loss of self. 😢 Fyi- he’s in the Army. My husband was in the Army. He had tons of that kind of stuff.
I’m not normally this type of person but I hope his ex wife feels ashamed of herself and lives everyday regretting what she did. ruined 2 men’s life’s
She’s not the one who chopped someone’s head off. People split up every day.
Way to victim blame. There is only one perpetrator in this case, the unhinged monster who saw fit to cut somebody’s head off and kick it like a football because his wife wanted to move on. He is a very sick individual.
@@diane5522 yeah but she caused him to do it
@summersmallwood967 she must be very powerful to have taken over his body and made him do that.
@@msay4596 I mean if you had a
Vasectomy for a woman you loved did everything for her she could ever want and then she cheats on you with your best mate and gets pregnant with the baby you have been waiting years to have I can tell you one thing I would of done worse
Hi Emma!! Your videos on Domestic Violence, Coercive Control, Sexual Abuse, Narcissists and struggling single mum's trying to move passed the abuse and do anything for their children are really helping me process and deal with my trauma throughout my life ! THANK YOU 😊 🙏 ❤
Fun facts about books: I’m Jewish, coming from the family of survivors. My study is full of books about Austrian painter.
Like, I am working at the university, but if somebody who doesn’t know me sees it, they would definitely think something else…
Oh my gods emma, apart from the serial killer books, your home sounds exactly like mine!
This is a tragic case..his actions were overboard and brutal but I do consider the fact that the man was betrayed by his wife and his friend and the kick in the teeth is she was pregnant ..after he had a vasectomy in consideration of HER needs! I do think he lost it and was blinded by such hurt and rage. He did not kill her or an innocent unborn and he confessed. Is he evil..I don't think so..his actions were. There is responsibility all round for this. They did not know he would do this but what they did led to his pain and rage. Just so so tragic.
When I first met my husband at my friend’s (now BIL) I couldn’t get away from him fast enough! 6 months later we were an item, 8 months later we were married, and in April we celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary. We haven’t had the easiest ride but what we have learned is to be open and vulnerable with each other. We talk to each other about our struggles with our mental and physical health, and we support each other in our own ambitions and goals. We don’t always see eye to eye but finding our happy middle ground comes from effective communication, love, and respect. Marrying young allowed us to grow up together and that experience has been great, but we’re both aware of how blessed we are to have found each other so young. Like Emma says: In your 20s you have time; use it.
You are one of the lucky few, but what a beautiful outcome 😊
Just one question, what does BIL mean?!
@@lindashaw3796 brother-in-law
@@lindashaw3796 thank you 😊
BIL means Brother-In-Law
@@maggiethompson7245 Thanks 😊 I can't keep up with all the tech-speak 😀
My son bought me The Serial Killer cookbook for my birthday 😂
I see a major problem with what the wife didn't do -- she didn't divorce her husband and then have a relationship with the one she wanted to be with. If she had just cleared things with her husband, i.e., told him she was unhappy and wanted a divorce and then sought a relationship with another man, this murder probably wouldn't have happened. I find it appalling and sickening the way people slip around behind their spouses' backs and have affairs instead of handling the problems head-on to begin with.
Having had the same happen to me, I can totally relate to the anger & betrayal he felt. I was with my husband for 24 years when he did this to me. Yes, I wanted revenge, but I think to behead even your worst enemy is beyond deranged. I think if he could do such a horrific thing, he’s dangerous & needed locked up…..but I feel for him at the same time 💔
I've been cheated on this way as well. It was awful. But I honestly dont understand the extreme reaction of beheading and taking it to his wife. That's so disturbing and makes me wonder about what other things he is capable of
I've never understood why people say we're pregnant,hello it's the woman who's pregnant.
Give it time 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Elon work some science out for that
Because they're both expecting a child, maybe? I dunno. Never really thought about it
I agree. I cringe whenever I hear that 😣
I’m so glad it’s not just me! 😂
@@thedesolateone8260 He won't do that. It'll be all artificial AI wombs in factories in tanks growing AI babies.
So sad 😞 I feel sorry for her because of what he done . I also feel for him he literally just broke.. all around no one wins ...
Great job emma as always
Oof. Big disagree on the issue of permanent birth control.
If 23 is too young to decide you don't want children, then it's too young to decide you DO want children and that's massively hypocritical that you think they were mature enough to HAVE babies, but not mature enough to decide NOT to have them.
Because you know what's more permanent than a vasectomy? Babies. Maternal mortality.
People rarely decide they don’t want their children (I know it happens but it’s far from the norm). Young people very often say they don’t want children then go on to have them later in life (I know, I was one).
Just putting it out there Emma, I think you should be head of our criminal system 👍
I really love how you relate parts of the case and story to you and your life and how things affect or have affected you, it gives such a great perspective. I'm in love with the way you tell these stories and explain everything, it's great. Sending love Em! ❤❤
BIO: Married 16 yrs, 2 kids, military wife, no real home, husband gone 50% of marriage, no family around to help & isolation in foreign country that didnt speak much English. Honestly, I get why Diane reached out for comfort.
➡⭐➡Em, u described it so well~When I found out spouse was having an affair, I totally felt like my whole life & world, EVERYTHING THAT MATTERED, everything that was created thru love & sacrifice- it was all shattered & I felt in the depth of my soul that break in my heart & permanent scar that was formed. There can b that crazy moment w a break in reality, where one doesnt process logically for a moment or period of time. I turned inward w deep depression, Schap beheaded. He did the planning to kill in an altered state.The more I look back & remember this profound loss & pain the more I'm leaning towards manslaughter.
Steven Schap reminds me of the song "You Keep It All In" could have been written for him.
This was painful. My husband cheated on me with my friend. The hurt, betrayal, and humiliation was horrendous but harming my now former friend wasn't in my mindset. Also, I realized my former husband shouldered a lot of the blame. Perhaps this is why I felt rage at Diane's betrayal. Leaving her husband first would have been a better choice.
44:39 the bystander effect is honestly terrifying
Thanks for the video Em! Can’t wait to watch it tonight. X
What about HER actions. 😡🥺🥺😢😢
She’s not the one who beheaded someone.She just didn’t want to be with him, that’s all. It happens every day.
What about them, she committed no crime and was in the process of leaving an unhappy marriage.
A doctor should not tell you how you want to live your life … plus vasectomies are reversible! I have a friend at 23 who got a tubal ligation And she doesn’t have any kids! If it’s your body, you have every right to make the decision on it!
The success rate on vasectomy reversal is very low. Especially back then.
Love your content Emma, keep doing what you’re doing bringing awareness to these victims
This is a case that has always stuck in my mind and yet very little has been told about it despite its horror ….
43:16 Is it wrong that I laughed out loud at this point?? I know the answer is yes, I have a very dark sense of humour!
Thank you Emma for brightening up a dull wet day ❤xxx
"Schapp proceeded to repeatedly kick his head until it became dectached" LOLOLOLOLOL saw eat your heart out!
Thank you for another amazing video. As a true crime fanatic I love your videos because they do not focus on the sensationalization instead they deep dive into the more emotional reasons these atrocities happen and what may lead up to creating the situation, though not excusing the actions themselves. Bravo once again excellent!!
I’m always get so excited to watch your videos Emma! I can’t wait to hear this case and how you give legacy to the customs you discuss. You are a legend! Thank you for all that you do and god bless you and your family! ❤
He took a knife to the scene, it's not like he grabbed one that was lying around
I was 9 months pregnant with two small children under five when my husband left us homeless with nothing for a 19 year old girl. I know the pain. But I never blamed the girl ( even when he walked out on her and she called me crying) and I certainly never got violent ( but I did smash a coffee pot against the wall which felt good)
For sure a messy situation, but a murder non the less.
I just love your humor..but most of all I LOVE how honest you are! ❤️
My 12 year old said the other week mum if the fbi look at your UA-cam and google history or your kindle / audible you so going to prison for ever lol
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So many of us would be in prison!
@@Ceerads yup Kenny’s crime cult on prison tour 😂 think of the chat we would all have lol
@@carolynmcmillan7083 😂😂😂 Exactly!
Great episode! X
I met my current husband in our economics class in our senior year of high school. Had our first kiss on the night of graduation and moved into an apartment three months later. We started talking about getting married at 6 months and finally got married 11 months after our first kiss. He left for military basic training shortly afterward. We've just celebrated our 10 year anniversary ❤ my mom was skeptical of me getting married at 19, and our story is the minority, but sometimes you just know when it's right.
Wow. What a horrific mess. Traumatic for everyone involved. Thanks for this one Em ❤ Love the background this week !
The only problem i would have with crime of passion is because he had plenty of time while driving to kill Glover cool down and control himself, but he didn't
If picking up a knife isn’t premeditation then I don’t know what is, his intent was to kill or seriously maim not to peel an apple. I think there is a lot of disdain being directed towards the victims in this case rather than the perpetrator.
Looking good as always thanks for all u do it's mind blowing x thanks to Pete aswell x
Hey girl! Love ur hair today 🫶🏻 thanks for another vid. I enjoy listening to ur cases soooo much
Interesting case. Thanks em, stay safe everyone, wherever you are in the world.
Very interesting. Thank you for your take on this case.
Can we all just admit this is Chase's channel now, and Emma is just an honored guest? Lol.
This is so sad for all involved. I truly think he snapped. A true crime of passion. Not that it excuses what he did but I do believe that he wanted to hurt them , just as he was hurt.
Excellent work Emma , as always!
You are so amazing 🎉 thank you for all the YOU you put in every video.
Thanks for another brilliant video, Em! Could you consider covering the case of Richard Everitt, a 15 year old in Camden, London, in 1994. It's controversial as it was around the same time as the Stephen Lawrence case, but it has never been given the same notoriety. But why not? Equally two children killed in similar circumstances 🤷🏼♀️
Thank you Emma!
hi Emma i love your channel i’m very much into your stuff and love the way you tell a story ❤xx
Love your channel ❤️
I've heard this story before, but your version was incredible! What a sad rollercoaster of a case 😢 you are such a talented, wise story teller ❤
I love when Emma gets sassy tho. When she goes in on the fact that this happened on a military base where someone should have been trained and able to stop this before a dudes head was literally cut off lol
The encyclopedia of serial killers is a good read 😂
Definitely a sliding doors moment on that flight from the UK to Baltimore.
I really take your advice to heart Emma. Have learned a lot about inter personal relationships especially with my husband
I am so deeply conflicted on this one. On one hand, I can completely understand why he did what he did to Glover, however, it is still taking a life. In the end, Glover and Diane apparently deserved each other. Both of them were vile people.
Always good stuff Emma. I could understand the initial snapping, betrayal is soul destroying......but it got very macabre. 😮God bless all 🙏
Thank you Emma xx
Wow super early today. Thanks Emma x
Good morning everyone. Hope you are all doing well
Heard this one by Mr Ballen! Watching Emma, though!
Murder - no doubt about it. But where was the onbase security when this happened and how was he able to decapitate the head and seemingly just pop it in a "Head" bag and go off to the hospital with his gift for his wife?
I hope she and her baby live new lives with new identities. No child should know this atrocious story.
It is such a mess Emma
I don’t know, I still feel there is temporary insanity/crime of passion here.
This is probably the first case where I’m struggling to feel empathy for either the victim or the wife. Murder almost never the answer but there are some cases where the true power of human emotion is underestimated. He didn’t run, nor did he try to hide it.
As gruesome as his actions were, I feel like if he had slowly started poisoning both of them over a long period of time, then I would probably have less empathy for him but… there are some levels of betrayal that can turn the most sane person into a monster.
This story is horrible!
Over a long
It’s the lies isn’t it. Why lie especially when she was pregnant. I hate lies it’s the hardest thing ever. The trauma thing is so true, when we lost our first baby within a month we put our house on the market and sold it first day. Everything happens for a reason I know but we ended up in a house I’ve never loved
Definitely a crime of passion, tale as old as time.
What a treat on a wet Wednesday x thanks Emma
Thanks Muchly for a Wonderful Thursday morning... You make my day...❤️💚💜🇨🇦
OH wow this is A wild one Good Morning Emma I'm watching this Before work
😂😂❤❤ 54:21 - 55:45 .... I laughed so hard! So funny! 🤣 😂Thank you as always for bringing light to these horrific crimes but in a respectful manner and with harmless/relatable humor.
*HE BROUGHT HIS HEAD TO THE HOSPITAL?! Holyyyyyy fffuuuuucccccckkkkkkkk* he snapped. He 100% snapped bc that’s literally insane to go from “let me get you clothes honey” to “here’s his head and you’re *going* to look at it”
The Bible gives one reason for divorce and that's when one spouse or both commit adultery. God doesn't even expect a person to put up with that crap.
Your hair looks beautiful this morning Emma. Hope Pete & Etta-Blue are really enjoying each day.
I believe you’re right. That makes a lot of sense to me.
This is the first time I've heard of this true story. Kinda hard to call it a true crime story...but like you said "True crime OF PASSION story. "
It was crime of passion x
Oh my!! What a horrific story!! Hard to believe this really happened, but I know it did happen. Great job narrating Emma!!
Isn’t it premeditated if he goes looking for him carrying a huge knife?
So heartbreaking
This case is heartbreaking 💔
Oh yes I’m in heaven. Around the pool
In Ibiza and now I have Emma to listen to. It’s a good day. ☀️ 🙌🙌🙌
Hi Emma. Loving your videos. Are you or have you created a video on Peter Sutcliffe?
Hiya Emma I love your show please keep them coming have you covered the case of John Reginald christening yet?
Adultery should be a punishable crime
I need a laugh button not a thumbs up for that comment 😆 I'm pretty sure the prison system doesn't share your sentiment of you're implying people should go to prison for having affairs....
It is in some countries, not places I would like to live but you do you 😂🙄
Faithfulness means absolutely nothing nowadays, clearly. Literally everyone in my family is divorced with kids,had affairs,multiple children to different men or women, my family is a mess! I'm literally the only one who hasn't! I have 2 children to 2 dad's but I had to leave my first child's dad to protect my son from the multiple sex offenders in the fathers family, literally no choice in that at all it was the best course of action.
I would say that two lessons are important to learn from this:
1. Don't define yourself by your relationship, resolves your attachment/abandonment/issues that makes relationships difficult BEFORE you get into one (or as soon as possible if you are already in one), and learn to have a relationship with yourself first (speaking from experience of trying to fix my traumas and holes inside with the idea that romantic relationships make you whole - they don't), and always remeber what my psychologist has been teaching me in therapy: there is no such thing as a soul mate. There is no one out there that is supposed to "complete you" and be your other half. You are already whole. Your not looking for a soul mate, you are looking for a life companion, not something missing, just something that's a profoundly happy addition to your life. Addition - not an essential.
2. Actions have consequences. Don't do unethical things that you know are wrong - the consequences might not match the crime, and you won't know that until it's too late. It's not a question of what is fair, the balance of the universe is very harsh. It won't teach you the lessons you need based on what appropriate, it will teach you the lessons based on the options available to it, and it often goes for the harshest way first. I learnt that in the PTSD-for-life-kind of way, don't be like me.
My condolences to all the families and victims in the scenario, especially the kid who grew up without their dad ❤️
Take care and stay safe, guys ❤️
He was emotionally immature