Minimalism isn't working

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  • Опубліковано 17 чер 2022
  • I don't like who I was becoming. A major shift was needed.
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  • @aprilrose23
    @aprilrose23 2 роки тому +329

    "if you're spending a lot of time around wealthy people, doing expensive things... you start to subconsciously think you are better than other people"

    • @avogus6453
      @avogus6453 Рік тому +1

      Why is it bad to subconsciously think you are better than other people?

    • @alisonargayosa7729
      @alisonargayosa7729 Рік тому +25

      @@avogus6453 because that's literally a superiority complex/a trait of narcissism?

    • @aesyamazeli8804
      @aesyamazeli8804 Рік тому +2

      @@avogus6453 because most probably you are not. This guy said he hung out with millionaires and billionaires....but he's not actually the millionaire or billionaire.

    • @ZelixPL
      @ZelixPL Рік тому +4

      @@aesyamazeli8804 I think he is a milionaire unless there's a source that proves otherwise

    • @wijdanh326
      @wijdanh326 Рік тому +1

      @@aesyamazeli8804 Actually he’s mostly a millionaire.

  • @theuntetheredminimalist
    @theuntetheredminimalist Рік тому +358

    “Minimalism” isn’t about “stuff” alone. This lifestyle is about the people in our lives and clearing out anyone who is unhealthy to us.
    The food you eat and how you prepare it. The books, music and films you “consume”. These things “go into you” and are apart of you.
    Consume what has meaning for you 🌼
    Consume time with those you love and who love you🌼
    Consume experiences vs things🌼
    Consume work that has depth for you🌼
    Feeling free from any form of being trapped is minimalism at its best and the antithesis is
    feeling trapped by being consumed by everything in your life (stuff/ people/ food/etc).
    Living each day for small things that fill you with contentment 🪴is a minimalistic life.
    🕊Minimalistly, yours
    Kara

    • @mozambique9113
      @mozambique9113 Рік тому +11

      as a full time stoner for the last 30 years I say this is so true. I am a pure minimalist as well. I always travel from place to place with joints. which is very minimalistic and good and happy 😍😘☺💜💛💚🧡🤟

    • @valenciakrystal1490
      @valenciakrystal1490 Рік тому +2

      Love this!!

    • @Jedi391
      @Jedi391 Рік тому +9

      @@mozambique9113 just imagine how much more life you could have had and still could have if you didn’t live numb and dependent on a thing that messes with your brain. There’s still time to do it, but it will take courage.

    • @5106ammieDam
      @5106ammieDam Рік тому +2

      @@Jedi391 you did not understand the assignment hahahaha

    • @NamNguyen-wl8lv
      @NamNguyen-wl8lv Рік тому

      it's not a trend 😒

  • @DoodleChaos
    @DoodleChaos 2 роки тому +610

    Nate is one of the most interesting characters on this entire platform. Love these updates!

    • @Bookersbones
      @Bookersbones Рік тому +6

      Obviously people are stupid they can’t read by language but this dude’s narcissist is very plain and simple good luck to you

    • @jojobizarreadventure8802
      @jojobizarreadventure8802 Рік тому

      for real

    • @evanshlom1
      @evanshlom1 Рік тому +1

      If you would expand on your comment that would be helpful

  • @Sara-lr8gc
    @Sara-lr8gc 2 роки тому +458

    You're totally right!
    Minimalism isn't only about spending less, having less or declutter. And isn't only about material things too.
    It's about purpose. The meaning we give to things. To people. To experiences. To environments around us. It's about the way we perceive the world and what we allow to enter our world (physical, mental and emotional).
    Great video, as always 👌🏻

    • @rafreyes5140
      @rafreyes5140 2 роки тому

      💯✨🙌

    • @alkasoli4002
      @alkasoli4002 2 роки тому

      Well said

    • @tataandre8907
      @tataandre8907 2 роки тому +1

      wow well-said!

    • @mrp1992
      @mrp1992 2 роки тому +9

      Minimalism is not only about the material,it is also about mindset or thinking .Putting too much information on our head.

    • @satvikvarun6386
      @satvikvarun6386 2 роки тому +2

      ok

  • @waragainstmyself1159
    @waragainstmyself1159 2 роки тому +169

    It took almost losing my life, losing my close bros, and being backstabbed by family I loved to go through an ego death. I came out of that hell a completely different man. I'm a minimalist without trying. You just do.. it's hard to explain. Drama, clutter, nonsense.. it all had to go.

  • @coledog8861
    @coledog8861 2 роки тому +458

    we need more creators like you who are honest about minimalism, self-help and personal success. so much garbage to filter out online, but i’m glad there are people like you who keep it real ❤️

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +23

      Thanks Cole. I try

    • @chuyx2244
      @chuyx2244 2 роки тому +2

      I related alot to many things said in the video and respect how you noticed you were getting to deep and decided to step back. also like how you wing it in many of your vids and it gave me some inspiration to just keep it real fr

    • @acayette
      @acayette 2 роки тому +6

      "we need more creators like you who are honest about minimalism" - No, we don't. Why? Because each to their own. For one person minimalism is one thing, but for the other it is something different, but it doesn't mean one of them is dishonest about it. Each person sees things in their own way and what is true to you may not be true to me (as for example the perspective on minimalism and honesty I am referring to here), so for you to say that "we need more honest creators" isn't accurate either, because you may deem them dishonest, but it doesn't mean they aren't honest about their minimalism.

    • @evanshlom1
      @evanshlom1 Рік тому

      Most self improvement people are dishonest and they are grifters so it is true to call a lot of the space dishonest

  • @Finaius
    @Finaius 2 роки тому +577

    Nate is on a different plane of existence.

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +40

      Love your videos!!

    • @annasoszka1758
      @annasoszka1758 2 роки тому +7

      I agree with you, he is. ✨🙏

    • @wtflexus6427
      @wtflexus6427 2 роки тому +7

      Bro i love your channel, can't wait for your next video.

    • @adultlectures
      @adultlectures 2 роки тому +1

      And we love it!! 💗

    • @andrearichard1583
      @andrearichard1583 Рік тому

      Yeah, I have been there and I don’t always come out with the outcome intended. It is a weird plane to be at I think

  • @orangejuice7156
    @orangejuice7156 Рік тому +50

    You just slowly realize that living like a homeless person is fun when you're young but rapidly becomes old when you age and wanna get somewhere in life. Whatever your goal might be.

    • @marvin2678
      @marvin2678 День тому

      Why ? How does age Makes a difference ?

    • @Lilione111
      @Lilione111 20 годин тому

      I know what you mean…if you’re elderly, living in a car may not be practical or comfortable enough….but He has a lot of money. He is choosing to live like this now because it suits him now. He can always change in the future & doesn’t have to stick with this decision forever.

  • @alim8167
    @alim8167 2 роки тому +99

    Nate seems to be becoming more minamalist. Filtering out the people who don't align with your core values. Nate is both entrepreneur and sage. What a fantastic journey.

    • @user-ju6zx3rm8d
      @user-ju6zx3rm8d Рік тому +1

      he made lots of new friends. That is not filtering.

  • @deion312
    @deion312 2 роки тому +52

    This is the reason I am still subscribed to your channel, you are such a humble and honest guy and I have a lot of respect for that.

  • @Featureman
    @Featureman 2 роки тому +48

    I am a pack rat. I have my baby pictures and pictures of myself as a teenager and many hundreds of photos I like to look at from time to time. I lived in a motor home for about one week travelling cross country to where I now live. I have two houses, no tenants. I probably will sell one house soon. I did not like the idea of sitting in a waiting room while my van was being serviced. I do have things I need to get rid of. You are an interesting person, Nate. You are doing right as a minimalist and as a non minimalist. Enjoy the stuff you like and have a good time. Do stuff you like.

    • @iamsam2428
      @iamsam2428 Рік тому +2

      I find that if those give you joy, and they are memories that allow you to appreciate and recognize things of the past they are valuable. Very valuable. I strive to be able to buy anything no matter the price as long as it serves a purpose, (love multi-use things) and is perfect to my style. Whether or not I find these items from the thrift store, or an expensive company.

    • @talltreeyeti
      @talltreeyeti Рік тому

      photos are irreplaceable

  • @dcruz233
    @dcruz233 2 роки тому +173

    Love your self awareness, Nate. Please keep us updated on how this develops.

  • @outdoorhannah
    @outdoorhannah 2 роки тому +221

    This resonates with me sooooo much. Minimalism is good and all but it's so important to take a step back sometimes and be aware of the footprint we're leaving on this world, and consuming very consciously. Makes us appreciate it more, too. And I feel like a place and lifestyle like this in nature is honestly the most grounding thing. Good on you, Nate! Looking forward to more videos from your nature desk. :)

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +6

      Thanks Hannah !

    • @annasoszka1758
      @annasoszka1758 2 роки тому

      @@NateOBrien I think, it's your believing system, your thoughts, millionars are also different people, not all are the same! Because I know a millionar, who is driving electroroller and he helps people with personal development programms, he wants to addopt over 200 children from Afrika, who lost their parents of ebola disseas. He want to finance this kids to the adulthood, everything water, electricity, food, education and healthcare for this kids, doctor appointments. They are good heats and know, how to share all with others. They are growing up in this way, sharing with other kids, they are living with, without parents. It's his very big live goal to save this children. He loves kids, he was very poor and come from the poorest country in the world Sierra Leone, growing up poor in Germany and now millionar living in USA, Miami, Los Angeles and Dubai and he lives very luxuries but stay disciplined as an athlet. I know other millionar, he was boss from volkswagen in Germany, he want to make world better, save the planet, make electrocars and help people. He is diplomat, Honorarkonsul of Republik Poland and want to help this people in Germany. He helped me in Corona Pandemie with my Praktikum. It's a lot of millionars, who are great personalitis with great hearts ❤❤❤ Don't forget, that money makes stronger, what is already in this person inside. If it's bad person, money makes this stronger come out, if it's very good person with good heart and great personality, money will make this stronger and more. And if this person killed his ego, because he dont need to show anybody anything. I really don't think, that all people with money think, they are better as other people. Just allways stay yourself and true to yourself! Much love!

    • @annasoszka1758
      @annasoszka1758 2 роки тому +2

      @@NateOBrien I really like your way of thinking and your videos! 🙏❤ What I find very interesting is manifestation also we are, what we thinking. Everything beginns with our thinking so if you hsve for some reason this believe and feeling bad about ambudance people, this people are coming to you, who are waisting money and are not good people. If you start to believe, its a lot of good heart millionar, you will see them in your life. I really believe in manifesting. I would like to know, what you are thinking about, that we are our thoughts, they makes our feelings, emotions and we makes decisions allways, because of our emotions.

    • @Masterstrange56
      @Masterstrange56 2 роки тому +1

      @@annasoszka1758 i agree with you

    • @annasoszka1758
      @annasoszka1758 2 роки тому

      @@Masterstrange56 So you understand my broken Englisch, Thank You 😊🙏

  • @carissahanson4308
    @carissahanson4308 2 роки тому +43

    Most important part is being self aware. Thank you for being someone to follow

  • @sarahmoore5027
    @sarahmoore5027 2 роки тому +11

    This is one of my favorite videos you’ve ever done. This is completely normal - I need to sort of reset myself every few years as well. Sometimes excess (physical, mental, etc.) just creeps up on you as you move forward in life, and you do exactly what you’ve done here to reflect and keep things in check. :) Love the content (and the truck!)

  • @vaishalishirke6269
    @vaishalishirke6269 2 роки тому +76

    Nate, I have mentioned this before and I feel the need to say this again, you are a remarkable young man. The kind of self awareness you have just blows my mind. This was one of the most powerful videos you have ever made. I simply love your honesty. The fact that you care to "come clean" with your audience is pretty astounding. There were so many powerful statements you made in this video that just makes me want to respect you even more. Please continue with your life update kinda videos. Absolutely love them. Be yourself and do what works best for you. Minimalist or not, We support you either ways. And please stay safe in the woods. God bless you.

  • @lx.hys49
    @lx.hys49 2 роки тому +13

    Nate, I admire your self awareness and transparency with your fans.

  • @ChrisLehmannComposer
    @ChrisLehmannComposer Рік тому +12

    This was perhaps my favorite video of yours Nate. So incredibly refreshing to see someone who has "made it" on social media still maintain such a high level of self-awareness.

  • @elij6534
    @elij6534 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for the update, I always loved your content, probably one of the few real and down to earth people on YT.
    Wish the best for you, please keep us updated.

  • @yaelmaimonartist
    @yaelmaimonartist 2 роки тому +87

    Thank you for being transparent, you've made an important realization! It's a material world but our spirit has non materialistic needs, and there's this search for real happiness or spiritual wealth. It's like a walk on the beach that feeds and fuels our spirit more than physical food at some fancy restaurant.

  • @GregGottfried
    @GregGottfried 2 роки тому +119

    This is the best video I've seen recently. Well said. I'd love to share some of the environmental projects I've been working on for a few years. I think people with online marketing skills that understand how to reach a lot of people can make a real impact on "saving the environment". I don't have any social media accounts anymore so if you want to connect just shoot me a comment or email. Really impressed you made this video!

  • @myHealthSciences
    @myHealthSciences 2 роки тому +7

    Love the transparency. It resonates with me as I've had similar experiences of success (to a lesser degree than you) leading to an inflated mindset. Reconnecting with minimalism is grounding. Look forward to more videos!

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster 2 роки тому +6

    Sometimes when u have a lot wealth, and spend money on extravagate things, u get desensitized to everything around u, and become detached from reality. It's good that you realize that path isn't going to make u fulfilled in life, and that it's better to be grateful for the things that actually matter in life like relationships.

    • @jojoj3056
      @jojoj3056 2 роки тому +1

      Yes! This is it!!!

  • @macopa12
    @macopa12 Рік тому +6

    Be very proud of yourself that at this point in your life, you are realizing a lot of things that may seem little things, but in fact have huge impacts. You seem very grounded and still in touch with the reality of the majority of people and still in touch on what matters in life. Keeping it real is a good way to go. Proud of you and stay that way. Cheers!

  • @evelynwilliams6777
    @evelynwilliams6777 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your honesty. You are under no obligation to share your truths but you do each and every time. Thank you

  • @BigEvan96
    @BigEvan96 Рік тому +23

    Never considered myself a minimalist, but always found the principles of minimalism to be very helpful.

  • @megmathisen9072
    @megmathisen9072 2 роки тому +2

    Congrats on seeing yourself clearly! It’s a rare quality. Love the ambiance string lights in your truck! 🤍

  • @1girlcool.
    @1girlcool. Рік тому +2

    love how honest you are nobody's perfect but I love that you're trying to better yourself

  • @vic_cky8756
    @vic_cky8756 Рік тому +13

    This video got me thinking that aiming for financial freedom cannot just be about having the means to buy whatever you want and do whatever you want, without thinking the impact that can have to you/others/Earth at different levels. Looking through the lenses of minimalism can help filter out and assess how to have a balanced approach to your living standards in a way that best suit you personally.
    Thanks for the video.

  • @charlesochoa7099
    @charlesochoa7099 2 роки тому +20

    Love how this gave me the best perspective of life. Going back to the basics.

  • @tanvigawde1612
    @tanvigawde1612 2 роки тому +2

    Such a great realizations! I’m in the same point where I realized, it was hard to relate to others and lost my authenticity. So, on a personal level, going back to basic and staying true to myself. This shows you are growing and learning more about yourself on a deeper level 🤍 Thank you for sharing!!

  • @Jo4993
    @Jo4993 2 роки тому +1

    You are the definition of being down to earth and staying human since day one. That's why you are the best out there keep it up!!

  • @AritheCreator_
    @AritheCreator_ 2 роки тому +4

    Very well said Nate! What I’ve learned is that a degree of materialism is okay. There are certain items that ground a person and bring personal fulfillment. For example, I have a special necklace and painting from my great grandmother. But yes we need to be aware of our consumption of things that don’t bring personal fulfillment and don’t serve a real purpose. Again, awesome video 💙Look forward to more

  • @ju9piter
    @ju9piter 2 роки тому +5

    Nate, I really appreciate your videos. This one in particular shows a lot of wisdom and insight. I've learned a lot from your videos, and practicing minimalism has helped create a lot more space and freedom in my life. You're right - the materialism of more "stuff" does not lead to happiness and nor do other forms of materialism, as you describe in the video.

  • @sarahhjk852
    @sarahhjk852 2 роки тому +2

    So glad you found your way! And it’s so great that you were sharing it with us

  • @saranesan7598
    @saranesan7598 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this! This video helps me realize that I too have been losing sights of what I’ve been trying to achieve all along.

  • @pamanderson1417
    @pamanderson1417 2 роки тому +5

    We all have different seasons in life. We learn from our experiences and our views and goals change. I appreciate you honesty as you share with us your thoughts of this season of your life.

  • @LaLadybug2011
    @LaLadybug2011 Рік тому +8

    Nate, you are so young to have so much wisdom. I am very proud of you to reach these conclusions about money and how it can change people. Money is a tool and it's a necessity in our world for sure. Keeping yourself grounded in reality is important, and reminding yourself daily to be grateful for what you have and what you've accomplished is important as well. You sound like an amazing person that would be fun to hang out with. Stay well and definitely use your money to expand your knowledge and see the world. Traveling with just a backpack means you will appeal to people from all walks of life as approachable. You will make lifelong friends from other countries. Congratulations! You're so much smarter than so many of the people you've been with. ❤️

  • @HermannTheGreat
    @HermannTheGreat Рік тому +1

    Love it, talking about minimalism and "living out of a truck," while wearing additional advertising and constantly advertising on every video beyond just YT added ad revenue.

  • @QuinnTrimmer
    @QuinnTrimmer Рік тому +1

    I seriously love this guy! Nate is one of the most authentic people that I have watched on UA-cam. He has completely changed my life!

  • @joelrappaport5699
    @joelrappaport5699 2 роки тому +2

    It's good that your doing what your doing and being a minimalist. Sometimes it's hard to hold that lifestyle. Thanks for sharing.

  • @denisehughes2898
    @denisehughes2898 2 роки тому +102

    This was good. I loved that you were honest about how privilege makes you feel like you are better than others. . . and it just HAPPENS, whether you want it to or not. I grew up in a privileged household. We weren't filthy rich or anything. However, we had a very nice house and wooded land on the river, skiing vacations in Colorado, etc. . . and we weren't abused. So it was better than growing up in a VERY wealthy household where there was abuse. I notice my siblings and myself have a tendency to think TOO highly of ourselves. I pray about this on a regular basis, because I want to be humble; because the Bible says that, "For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.” Luke 14:11

    • @af2585
      @af2585 2 роки тому +5

      wonderful comment

    • @twiglet2214
      @twiglet2214 Рік тому

      Awareness is the first step of your journey.

  • @justynacyrankiewicz6413
    @justynacyrankiewicz6413 Рік тому

    I really appreciate how honest you are here, voices like that are needed!

  • @buffysiar4437
    @buffysiar4437 2 роки тому +1

    Speechless, I so appreciate this. How many people realize this and do nothing? Thank you for your honesty and protective awareness. 😊

  • @low-energypolitics5677
    @low-energypolitics5677 2 роки тому +3

    I really like this reset/return. I think you’re going to find yourself similarly refreshed.

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому

      Thank you it’s so nice out here in Colorado!

  • @Habermovies1
    @Habermovies1 2 роки тому +5

    Great video Nate, sounds like you got brought to places and people outside of your roots, but your roots couldn't be brought out of you. Proud of you and stick with what you know is right!

  • @Arizonadude
    @Arizonadude 2 роки тому

    I’m glad to see you back in your truck. The one you did last year where you took us on a tour in your truck is still one of my favorite videos of yours. I’m still waiting for the where do you take showers and go to the bathroom video that you said you might make. I’ve always said in my head that you are super mature for being a young guy. Even when you were prob 20 you were way mature than prob most 20 year olds. It’s humbling to see that you didn’t want to look or feel better than everyone and decided to move away from some things. That’s very impressive and makes you a good person as well. Keep it up man you’re doing well for yourself.

  • @Mark-oc9gz
    @Mark-oc9gz 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for making this video! This is probably my favorite video you’ve done and it’s reminded me that every now and then we all need to take a step back, unplug, and evaluate our consumption and how we’re living our lives. Time is the most precious resource we have that we can’t ever get more of and how we spend it is the most important decision we can make. Thank you.

  • @DrPubz
    @DrPubz 2 роки тому +46

    It's crazy how much I can relate to this Nate!
    I've been feeling very similarly lately!
    Haven't been hanging out on yachts 😜 but the overall trend of my life going towards unnecessary affluency, and wastage from things I don't really need in life. It's just useless comfort that one might think will make you you happier, but it doesn't.
    I've understood it's very important to be comfortable with what you believe in, even when the world seems to be trying to chase happiness by being more wasteful and materialistic.

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +21

      I think it’s just cultural. Society tends to push us to do more and desire more, and buy more etc

    • @Cub__
      @Cub__ 2 роки тому +3

      @@NateOBrien absolutely, it's just Business, Marketing and Profit at the end of the day. I enjoy your content and have learned a lot from watching you in the past years. Keep up the great work brother 🙏🏻

    • @DrPubz
      @DrPubz 2 роки тому +1

      True @@NateOBrien , success has become more about possessing things over being more satisfied in life.

    • @evelynzlon9492
      @evelynzlon9492 Рік тому

      Nate may have started a minimalism/residential downsizing trend amongst his rich friends. One of these days one of these elites is gonna be talking to some guy and be like wait a minute, this guy isn't a faux bum. He's a BUM.

  • @ElevateRose
    @ElevateRose Рік тому +7

    I really have a lot of respect for you. I just discovered your channel a few weeks ago. I have learnt a lot and will continue to. You are such a humble person.

  • @Waynimations
    @Waynimations Рік тому +1

    Nate I’m wishing you the best. I’ve been watching your videos a lot and also has changed a lot as a person.

  • @codyballardmadden
    @codyballardmadden 2 роки тому +1

    Interesting how consistent the answer is getting back to the basics. Doing the fundamentals and we constantly find ourselves getting pulled away from it! Stay focused on the main thing Nate!

  • @zachparade2791
    @zachparade2791 2 роки тому +31

    Thanks, Nate, for the update! I always get value from hearing the way you think. I don’t have any entrepreneur or financially rich friends, so it’s really helpful to have someone (even though I don’t really know them irl) to expose me to a morally-sound personal growth model. Thank you and enjoy the woods! 🙏✌️🤛

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you, I’m glad that you see things similarly

    • @TheFakeFatLegitimate
      @TheFakeFatLegitimate 2 роки тому

      @@NateOBrien I agree with Zach. I haven’t watched you in ages, but this video is resonating with me, your personal growth documentation will give me inspiration for my own life, so I’ll endeavour to watch more of your videos in the near future. P.S can I have the name of the background music? Thank you

  • @ryanmcbay
    @ryanmcbay 2 роки тому +7

    you've come to that realization much earlier in life than most ever do, if they ever do. good for you recognizing yourself. it can be tough for people though, because they don't know it.

  • @CharlotteBerendina
    @CharlotteBerendina Рік тому

    Damn, I’m so glad I stumbled across your channel 4 years ago. This is honestly my favourite video (so far). Quality. You do you Nate 👍

  • @MalluStyleMultiMedia
    @MalluStyleMultiMedia Рік тому +1

    This is why I don’t have a fancy car either .. I got a small one story house ..I got a backyard with no back neighbors ..

  • @scarletdarkwood
    @scarletdarkwood 2 роки тому +4

    I absolutely loved this video! I'm glad you got a taste of the "lifestyles of the rich and 'famous'". You were spiritually evolved enough to know when to quit, so to speak. However the experience of this showed you that over indulgence because you can is not fulfilling either, to some of us. But that's the beauty of contrast. It shows you the differences so you can make a better choice. I find myself now being a consumer of consumables (not necessarily expensive ones). When I go out or travel, I will find myself purchasing coffee, tea, candles, incense, body care products--anything that I can consume/use up so I'm not collecting something. At the same time, I'm helping a small business or artisan. That's what I love doing because I do businesses too.

  • @DoubleDogDare54
    @DoubleDogDare54 Рік тому +10

    When I think of minimalism, I think of "Walden". Great book and classic minimalism, in my opinion. But even Thoreau walked away from that "experiment" after a couple of years. People change. Priorities change. Don't get obsessed on a particular lifestyle or it loses its meaning and becomes a burden.

    • @walterbrunswick
      @walterbrunswick Рік тому

      Always be open to different perspectives and ideas, never get close-minded or tunnel vision
      But at the same time, know yourself and have set goals

  • @Eyelash40
    @Eyelash40 Рік тому

    Definitely one of my favorite videos! The insight, wisdom here is so relevant and on point. Nate, I am so glad to have seen this today.

  • @xlovelyb
    @xlovelyb Рік тому +2

    I love how self-aware you are this was really thought-provoking!

  • @carissahanson4308
    @carissahanson4308 2 роки тому +4

    The winner/loser mentality is what gets to me the most as well. It makes me very uncomfortable to feel like I'm better than others doing higher value things when that's not how it is. The self conscious is wicked

  • @hv6411
    @hv6411 2 роки тому +4

    So awesome Nate to see how grounded you are! I practice and love minimalism too🤩

  • @trentc1098
    @trentc1098 2 роки тому

    youre such a down to earth dude, i respect you, other youtubers act like they wanna help others but just wanna use the platform to flaunt their success and wealth

  • @april_collins
    @april_collins Рік тому

    Thank you for the honesty, Nate because I was beginning to wonder about your direction. I had even stopped tuning into you as regular as I used to. But I am back with you!

  • @humphrey
    @humphrey 2 роки тому +41

    Great video, very honest.

  • @CF-mi7xd
    @CF-mi7xd Рік тому +4

    One of the things that makes me happy is to give to others. I think it’s kind of cringy when I see certain people with wealth beyond belief and they are completely selfish. It’s perfectly fine to spend money on yourself especially if you have earned it. I love nice cars and nice houses. It’s just when I see people on social media bragging about the 100th car they have bought or designer this or that. After a while I think, how empty.

  • @GoodDaySir
    @GoodDaySir 2 роки тому +1

    This is a really important revelation, congrats. Been there myself, life is better when you see everyone is fighting the same fight and you don’t need have silly expenditures in “exclusive” places then maybe posted to social media to live a happy life, on the contrary in many ways.

  • @IamDavidGauthier
    @IamDavidGauthier 2 роки тому +1

    Love the transparency man! For someone who doesn't want to be a so-called influencer, you sure have a good influence on a lot of people here. Looking forward to the next one, whenever that is.

  • @nancysungyun
    @nancysungyun 2 роки тому +4

    This video confirms for me why I have always liked you. I am so happy you exist and that you are you!

    • @NateOBrien
      @NateOBrien  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for being so kind Nancy

    • @nancysungyun
      @nancysungyun 2 роки тому

      ​@@NateOBrien I have a feeling that you will always continue to grow and learn and make a positive difference in our world, so I am thankful for you!

  • @zacharytrudell2411
    @zacharytrudell2411 2 роки тому +3

    This is the kind of thinking which will lead humanity into the future. We all would be better adapting such concepts.

  • @annie1671
    @annie1671 2 роки тому +1

    I've been watching you for a while now. I appreciate your humbleness and ability to check in with yourself. Keep evolving through your journey.

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  • @ElectricFlower6
    @ElectricFlower6 Рік тому

    This is exactly why you are my most favorite UA-cam creator. Thank you for your honesty!

  • @anthonyjames4319
    @anthonyjames4319 2 роки тому +21

    “Minimalism isn’t working.”
    *Points to a folding table in the middle of the woods.*
    “Here’s my desk.” 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sluggo206
      @sluggo206 2 роки тому +2

      Right, the only thing I questioned was the size of the truck. But then he said it's his house.

  • @FUJIFAM
    @FUJIFAM 2 роки тому +3

    Nate is the human we should all strive to be like or if at the very least, have a like mindset! ❤️

  • @themafusa
    @themafusa 2 роки тому

    Nate, thanks for such a transparent, honest and humble video. For me, it’s the best one I’ve seen from you yet. I learn more from you seeing how you live (I just learned that your truck is a Ford), how you think, what you feel, what you have (or don’t), who you hang out with (or don’t), your mindset, values, fears, joys, dreams. And got some of that in this video and I must say that I learned a lot more than when you pitch a financial product and/or tips. It takes a big man to come clean on their values to the entire world, and you are a big man my friend. Thank you.

  • @DanielZhaoDeng
    @DanielZhaoDeng 2 роки тому +1

    Nate is growing as he is expanding on his experience hanging with people of different wealth level, I.e mindset, lifestyle... etc, and is now reevaluating his perspectives with his new feedbacks

  • @2frungjung
    @2frungjung 2 роки тому +6

    Finally a rich person admits how the privilege of money and access changes their beliefs about themselves. No one is better than anyone. Good Job Nate

  • @David-zh7zn
    @David-zh7zn 2 роки тому +5

    You’re one of the good ones Nate. Keep up the good work 👍🏼

  • @sarahbitesss
    @sarahbitesss 2 роки тому +1

    Love your mindset and self awareness Nate! Keeping it always real ❤️💯

  • @hussainshafi306
    @hussainshafi306 Рік тому

    There's always been a high level of desire in me calling me to this way of living, could never really figure it out until I stumbled on this channel, I'm actually so glad I did and even if it took a long time to get it, I feel like I finally understand the words that has been whispering inside of me for a long time. Thanks.
    I wish the videos come in more frequently though as a way of constant reminder and guide.. but still thanks

  • @sicklecellwithdr.o
    @sicklecellwithdr.o 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for the honest thoughts and inspiration

  • @jackiecounihan3074
    @jackiecounihan3074 2 роки тому +3

    I am in no way a minimalist, but I do strive to consume less. I've recently found the best way for me to do that is to be my own producer. I've started growing and preserving my own food. A huge chunk of my budget was going towards food at the grocery store or eating out. It does appear that I have many things but a good bit of that is for food production. To each his own. Minimalism is what works for the individual.

  • @jennifer9678
    @jennifer9678 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for updating us and sharing your perspective, Nate! Hope you are doing well!

  • @epicgardening
    @epicgardening 2 роки тому +2

    Best finance YTer philosophically speaking, bar none

  • @grkoloratur
    @grkoloratur Рік тому +5

    It has not happened in a longer time that I listened to an entire "just talking" video without skipping half of it. Thank you. Subscribed.

  • @vincent-plasswilm
    @vincent-plasswilm 2 роки тому +3

    Respect for these real thoughts. This is why money doesn´t make you happy. Its about beeing happy, with what you have. I knew this always, but really realised it on my journey trough Centralamerica!

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  • @Iquey
    @Iquey Рік тому +1

    Nate, your honesty is appreciated and I'm so glad and happy for you that you caught yourself before you fell into the greed event horizon that sort of happens when you're around rich people too much. It's like a dark energy with a gravity to it, that inflated sense of superiority. Be well Nate and enjoy your cool outdoor desk. The air out there is probably cleaner than a plane cabin where the champagne flows at 40,000ft.

  • @LidiaExplores
    @LidiaExplores 2 роки тому +1

    This is a really unique way of thinking about minimalism, but it makes total sense. Sometimes we need those types of experiences to help us recalibrate. I like your work desk! I wish I had room for a desk, but I am traveling/living in my Prius for the summer, so I really had to pare down!

  • @misscogito9865
    @misscogito9865 2 роки тому +5

    Very interesting video. I’m getting the sense that it’s not so much about minimalism not working, but you having to contend with the fact that spending time with the more affluent members of your network compels you to make choices that contradict the ideals of minimalism (the environmental aspect of it at least).
    Maintaining connections with people who value vastly different kind of lifestyle to yours (for economical or ethical reasons) will be a challenge and by default introduce conflict. Also, there’s research on the link between wealth and levels of empathy, which confirms your personal experience of disconnect from the issues an average person faces in life. It’s interesting to know that this disconnect can happen if you previously led modest lifestyle or come from a working class background and rose to financial security later in life. We’re all prone to this I guess.

  • @Ego.monster
    @Ego.monster Рік тому +5

    I believe minimalism isn't so much a lifestyle as an exercise in identifying what is important vs stuff that is a distraction from the important. Therefore you can be a minimalist but still enjoy things that you're into. Maybe once a year or at a routine interval you need to consciously reviewing your choices and direction.

  • @mattdavies1135
    @mattdavies1135 Рік тому

    This is awesome Nate. It's great in the midst of being surrounded by excess luxurious, you see the wasteful side and how it can have such a negative impact. Thanks for sharing and inspiring others!

  • @kwit7377
    @kwit7377 Рік тому

    This is the first video I’ve seen of Nate’s and I appreciate his honesty and recognizing what he was doing!

  • @amyst3887
    @amyst3887 2 роки тому +1

    Love this video. I have to say, when I saw the pictures of private flights etc on your Instagram stories I did a bit of a double take. I didn't think it was what you were about (just based on your channel content!) and I'm glad it seems like it's not! I always enjoy your videos about what you're reading, still waiting for the book club 😂

  • @maxwella2079
    @maxwella2079 2 роки тому +3

    No matter what you do Nate, remember why you started your journey and filter out the noise that may come along the way. Stay honest and true to yourself and you will achieve more than you set out to in the first place. Keep up the good work and take care of yourself as always.

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  • @casualviewer8189
    @casualviewer8189 Рік тому

    You are one of the most down to earth people I’ve ever seen on the internet brother. You’re an inspiration

  • @pkris2237
    @pkris2237 2 роки тому

    I love your videos and way of thinking. You truly feel like a neighbor or a good friend I would listen to.

  • @paxtianodirtfrog8947
    @paxtianodirtfrog8947 2 роки тому +30

    This probably sounds silly but I have a video request. You mentioned a long while back that you eventually wanted to have a farm. I thought it would be cool if you talked about what you think that would look like and what the goal was behind it. I'm a garden nerd and plan on quitting my (decent) job in January to start a organic market garden. Great video by the way!

    • @joannakowalczewska3548
      @joannakowalczewska3548 2 роки тому +4

      yeah, that would be great to watch!

    • @KB-sg7tv
      @KB-sg7tv Рік тому

      Nate, I second this motion.

    • @amyshomesteadanimals
      @amyshomesteadanimals Рік тому

      My husband quit his job and started a market garden. It's been a few years now and I've never seen his so well and happy in 20 years!
      I wish you the best toward your dream.

    • @sunflower-oo1ff
      @sunflower-oo1ff Рік тому

      I second that request! 👏🕊

  • @ElisaValkyria
    @ElisaValkyria 2 роки тому +7

    Inspirational 💕

  • @LindyLouCantu
    @LindyLouCantu Рік тому +1

    Thanks for sharing your introspection. I really respect your heart and desire to move forward in ways that you feel good about. I think as long as things or events/experiences evolve our soul in some way, they have value in our lives. Keep living your best life! You're doing great, Nate!

  • @HoneyDJeong
    @HoneyDJeong 2 роки тому +1

    Dang great self-reflection and self-awareness 👏👏👏 kudos to ya 🥳
    i wish there are more people like you in the world