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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
  • A young man attends to his ex's wedding.
    ONLY IN DREAMS is used with permission from Travis Mauck. Learn more at tjmauck.com.
    Jacob attends the wedding of his ex-girlfriend Amber, well after he and Amber decided to "just friends." But as he drifts through the reception, dealing with awkward conversations, he is inundated with strange visions that leads to outbursts and threaten to overwhelm his reality.
    Soon these dreams begin to mix in memories of his past romance with Amber, destabilizing him and putting him face-to-face with his regret. But eventually Jacob must untangle his past memories and present fantasies in order to finally speak his truth -- and move forward into his future with a new sense of honesty.
    Writer-director Travis Mauck's blend of fantasy and drama is about the interplay of past and present, and how memories push and pull at our emotions. Essentially a type of fantasia into Jacob's subjectivity, the film is visually stylish, with gleaming colors, beautiful cinematography and polished camerawork that lend a heightened yet realistic feeling to being inside Jacob's head.
    His imaginings are on the strange, surreal side, but they blend seamlessly into his memories of his relationship with Amber. While the visions are chaotic and emotionally fraught, the scenes in the past exist in a different emotional register, with quiet and subtle performances alive to what's unspoken between the couple. They're honest, touching and sad -- and very relatable to anyone who longs for the past, as imperfect and wrong as it was.
    The accelerating intensity of Jacob's visions pushes him to speak honestly to Amber, and confront his own true feelings and desires, leading to a final sequence that's both visually ravishing and gently heartbreaking. Fantasy and reality become entangled and harder to tell apart from one another, but when the illusion is finally punctured, the moment is subtle and quietly devastating, both for Jacob and the audience.
    ONLY IN DREAMS is ultimately a sincere and emotional exploration of how to reckon with our past, with its unfulfilled longings, sadness and regret. Unabashed in its romanticism and filled with relatable moments, it takes awhile to settle into its own unique rhythms. But once it finds its footing, it creates a deeply personal journey that leaves viewers with a lyricism that makes the melancholy of life meaningful -- and just a little more endurable in its beauty.

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  • @alexforce9
    @alexforce9 4 роки тому +1584

    Pro tip - never agree to be "just friends" with someone who you are still in love with.

  • @DrRonArt
    @DrRonArt 5 років тому +1339

    Jacob: Why did you invite me?
    Amber: Why'd you show up?
    ...
    Amber: I guess maybe they're the same answer.

    • @artaa8233
      @artaa8233 5 років тому +134

      that dialogue nearly exploded my mind, lots of pain, lots of love, lots of answers to lots of questions...

    • @jamesmills5071
      @jamesmills5071 5 років тому +23

      My favorite line :)

    • @Dev-ie1ez
      @Dev-ie1ez 5 років тому +16

      And what is that same answer??

    • @moosesnWoop
      @moosesnWoop 5 років тому +14

      it left my mouth dry

    • @Mosfet510
      @Mosfet510 5 років тому +9

      Wasn't that something? It stood out loud and clear.

  • @angelajones4900
    @angelajones4900 3 роки тому +144

    He was never there but it was played out in both of their heads because neither one really let go. He saw everything via social media that's why he couldn't speak during the ceremony and she imagined him being there because its what she wanted to say and see him again.
    It's hard letting go of a person you truly love and ending a relationship for whatever reason. Eventually you move on but the love and memories always stay. That was clear when Jacob asked Why did you invite me?
    and I

    • @abinothayyilsanoj4182
      @abinothayyilsanoj4182 3 роки тому +2

      Why does this happen ? I hate to think that one day I may be in the position of that guy . It will hurt .

    • @angelajones4900
      @angelajones4900 3 роки тому +5

      @@abinothayyilsanoj4182 I wish I knew love is cruel

    • @abinothayyilsanoj4182
      @abinothayyilsanoj4182 3 роки тому +1

      @@angelajones4900 no , love is not cruel.

    • @MsMinoula
      @MsMinoula 3 роки тому +11

      I think the part where he couldn't speak during the ceremony was to show he suffered inside but had to supress it. The only indication it could be a social media thing was the part where people chased him with baby photos.

    • @jeanwagner1977
      @jeanwagner1977 2 роки тому

      Yes.

  • @nicegy0197
    @nicegy0197 5 років тому +101

    Here's the problem with being "just friends", you're both trying to hold on to someone that made you feel happy and you'll accept whatever you can get just so they can stay in your life. Once you've moved on from friends to dating each other you can't go backwards, no matter how much you think you can.

    • @zacharysweet1849
      @zacharysweet1849 5 років тому +11

      Meh, im best friends with a previous lover, we have both found different partners that we love, and we all hang out without any emotional attachment. It comes with maturity, time and understanding.

    • @wassupnomesayin
      @wassupnomesayin 4 роки тому +14

      @@zacharysweet1849 I doubt you truly loved that person. You're confusing indifference with " maturity, time and understanding. "

    • @sadiecat8882
      @sadiecat8882 4 роки тому +1

      Nicely said.

    • @EcoFreak13M
      @EcoFreak13M 3 роки тому +2

      @@wassupnomesayin I have a good friend whom I really love, but we know that we're not "In love" now, we need different things out of life, and if one of us starts to feel confused, we just agree not to see each other for awhile. It probably helps that we're middle aged

    • @sunshinegirl6854
      @sunshinegirl6854 3 роки тому

      I agree.

  • @ethansmith7997
    @ethansmith7997 4 роки тому +15

    "Because even if it kills you to just be friends. If you really care about someone, you'll take the hit."

  • @janeaparis
    @janeaparis 5 років тому +64

    That is life. You have to make choices, and sometimes you are not the chosen.

    • @Matt_from_Florida
      @Matt_from_Florida 4 роки тому +2

      I needed to hear that simple truth. Thanks. Broke up on April 5th and it still kinda hurts.

    • @TheTraveller20081
      @TheTraveller20081 3 роки тому +1

      Someone left me once, and married the next guy just months later. Turned out that she was right to go - I wasn't ready to share the kind of life she wanted - but my god her choice hurt.

  • @kanchangupta19
    @kanchangupta19 3 роки тому +13

    I madly fall in love with a boy in my teen years but then he left. I cried for years. Its over two decades now I think I'm still in love with him.

  • @kundumehul
    @kundumehul 5 років тому +81

    The under water moment is just magical. ♥️It. It is just like the shape of the water poster. But there's more in the scene.

  • @hugorujeles87
    @hugorujeles87 5 років тому +18

    No.... We can NEVER be friends.

  • @AMSNDylan
    @AMSNDylan 3 роки тому +3

    Bruh she was tripping at the bowling alley, that man’s game was insane. The “how would you know? you don’t believe in love at first sight” line was something else.

  • @Lesminster
    @Lesminster 5 років тому +11

    Such love can be "just friends" only in 2 scenarios. Either you are the one deciding you need to split(in which case the other person will struggle), or you find someone else and you are truly happy with that person. Others "just friends" are imo lies and someone has to be masochist to push himself on the wedding of beloved person ;)

    • @melatonin244
      @melatonin244 5 років тому +1

      The person who decides to split has it rough too.... it might have been the biggest mistake in there life and you cant even go back. Ik this for a fact, trust me.

  • @clasencoach
    @clasencoach 2 роки тому +6

    What does she ask him at 6:06??
    Another absolute gem on Omeleto! I used to imagine being at my soulmate’s wedding to the man she was already with when I met her. Imagined her looking at me just before saying the words, and me responding with that only just visible nod of confirmation and a bittersweet smile, like ‘Yes, go ahead. I know you love him.’ Anti-hero altruism. Today, I am actually glad it never came that far. She stopped contacting me. Probably because she could not handle loving two men.

    • @ellenjarrard7920
      @ellenjarrard7920 2 роки тому

      "Have you ever been to South of the World?"
      The last part doesn't make sense. It must be something else.

    • @hq_FiRE
      @hq_FiRE Рік тому

      She says "Top of the world" @@ellenjarrard7920

    • @clasencoach
      @clasencoach Рік тому

      @@ellenjarrard7920 Why not?

  • @kumarsuraj9450
    @kumarsuraj9450 5 років тому +42

    I have never been in a relationship. Still this made me cry. Man it hurts...😣😣🥺😓

    • @SkillsofAesthetics
      @SkillsofAesthetics 5 років тому +3

      i can assure you some things are simpler. Everything else is just delusions of the brain and the ego (like the example of wanting things you dont have and when you have them you want something else,or when u lose it you want it back)

  • @erp7625
    @erp7625 3 роки тому +4

    I still love her so much. maybe more than the day we left.

  • @saraedenn
    @saraedenn 5 років тому +7

    woah. that was seriously beautiful. gosh. my friends better prepare themselves because this is the only thing i'm going to talk about for the next two weeks. i hope that one day i can make something as incredible as this.

  • @honeyxd3267
    @honeyxd3267 5 років тому +17

    This is exactly why I’m holding on to my boyfriend, our love, and never letting go.

  • @alxjones
    @alxjones 3 роки тому +1

    Moral of the story: don't drop acid before going to a wedding

  • @javier6465
    @javier6465 5 років тому +2

    She looks so much like Aubrey Plaza i kept thinking it's her eventhough it isn't.

  • @nealehewett4173
    @nealehewett4173 5 років тому +4

    travis if you end up reading this, keep it up this was amazing

  • @GoodGuySen
    @GoodGuySen 5 років тому +4

    Hold up. She left him for his friend?

  • @romannoble
    @romannoble 5 років тому +19

    Binging on Omeleto shorts. Great content, must have more....

  • @wge621
    @wge621 3 роки тому

    Director was clearly inspired by 500 days of summer.

  • @thenvsacademy7927
    @thenvsacademy7927 4 роки тому +1

    Lesson :
    Good things seldom last! ✔️

  • @_SLAVEONE_
    @_SLAVEONE_ 5 років тому +1

    Though it is painful, one does not live life to the fullest without having regret. There are moments I have lived hanging on by my fingernails. More than once I've put it all on the line and lost. Memories that seem to always stay fresh, turning to poison and causing continuous pain. But in the end when I stand before God I can honestly tell him, I threw caution to the wind in my attempt to live, love and be marry.

  • @BiLLz66614
    @BiLLz66614 4 роки тому

    Seems like she pretty much had to move herself on even if she still loved him and he didn’t quite let go just yet. Maybe him actually going to the wedding was his way of dealing with it.. you know... saying that last goodbye really and seeing her with another so he could finally move on too. While also Being there for one another on her important day because of the love they shared. I thought he was there to break it up at first but then the scene where he was bound happened. Giving us the hint he has to tie his hands and keep his mouth closed metaphorically to not say anything and let her be happy by letting her go. It was cool the way they shot this... with the car transition and such as well.

  • @joaquinel
    @joaquinel 4 роки тому

    Look at our baby...
    ...sitting
    ...sleeping
    ...he is a genious
    ...ING BABIES!!!!!
    ...wtf.
    Dont need a broken hart to feel the same way.
    Just courage maybe.

  • @emilko62
    @emilko62 4 роки тому

    the first omleto short to make me cry, it hit too close to home.

  • @yusufsabqi
    @yusufsabqi 4 роки тому +1

    Shoot I almost cried, it’s such a beautiful story

  • @ssesf
    @ssesf 5 років тому +1

    Run, RUN!

  • @udaythakur9320
    @udaythakur9320 3 роки тому

    I return to this masterpiece from time to time just to feel the song at the end , "The Dream Song"

  • @Factively
    @Factively 4 роки тому +2

    Just a thought; At the end when Amber looked back to the door where Jacob "stood", he wasn't really there and throughout the wedding, Amber was only wishing Jacob would've came and broken up the wedding. As when she was dancing with her newly wedded, husband, she was expecting Jacob to come into the door or at least came at the last minute, thus "Only In (her) Dreams"

  • @zackandlime
    @zackandlime 5 років тому +4

    Anyone know how or where I can find music from this film? Or any of the others even? I can't find a thing online or Spotify etc. Thank you.

  • @samueljackson315
    @samueljackson315 5 років тому +1

    I kind of dream of being a filmmaker sometimes but it doesnt seem possible

  • @shauntreadwell8029
    @shauntreadwell8029 4 роки тому

    This was truly heartbreaking..

  • @blackhippy62
    @blackhippy62 4 роки тому

    absolutely great made my heart feel sad and empty for him dude I felt this film

  • @warpy4124
    @warpy4124 4 роки тому +652

    My conclusion: She never invited him, It was all in her head. The last frame tells us that.

    • @manar4120
      @manar4120 3 роки тому +19

      OHHH

    • @MichaelRainboy
      @MichaelRainboy 3 роки тому +17

      Good one

    • @georgehands_
      @georgehands_ 3 роки тому +78

      So what you're saying is that the girl was the one lamenting, not the guy?

    • @stefanodisperati4561
      @stefanodisperati4561 3 роки тому +108

      The “Prophecy” of the boy in the bowling come true. You’re right.

    • @warpy4124
      @warpy4124 3 роки тому +31

      @@georgehands_ you never know.. during bowling the successful bowls and missed ones in the background is also from the girl's perspective. The boy wouldn't have knows which hitting line impressed her.

  • @sonofuniverse7175
    @sonofuniverse7175 4 роки тому +810

    I don't usually bother signing in and leaving a comment but I have to point out and show great appreciation to the scene where Jacob and Amber met up for the first time in the bowling alley. 3:59 "Do you believe in love at first sight" - (the bowling ball in his side goes in to the gutter - it was bad game.) 4:10 mark, "Hopefully your game over there is better than your game over here" (Her side hits a strike - a good come back) 4:11 mark, "This isn't going well" - ball goes in the gutter. Finally, around 4:45 - he made her smile and ball on his side hits a strike. Beautiful. Wow.

  • @SupaRadical
    @SupaRadical 5 років тому +1190

    “Hopefully your game over there is better than your game over here”...honestly that man’s game was 10/10

    • @andrejrockshox
      @andrejrockshox 5 років тому +17

      yeah, i cant utter a single word.

    • @Write_with_me_gknotes
      @Write_with_me_gknotes 5 років тому +52

      Notice the balls behind
      The superiority of the dialouges were shown through then.

    • @shersyed3989
      @shersyed3989 5 років тому +16

      Yeah, but she wasn't playing. She only got interested when he got her stuck in her own words.

    • @shersyed3989
      @shersyed3989 5 років тому +10

      @@Write_with_me_gknotes I love that you picked that up, and also tied it up to the story in an epic way.

    • @Write_with_me_gknotes
      @Write_with_me_gknotes 5 років тому +2

      @@shersyed3989 yeah it was overall awesome

  • @MotorCityPhoenix313
    @MotorCityPhoenix313 5 років тому +2455

    First of all, you NEVER go to the wedding of someone you nearly married! NEVER!!!

    • @lzeph
      @lzeph 5 років тому +160

      If that's true, then one should never be invited in the first place. Never.

    • @the_notorious_bas
      @the_notorious_bas 5 років тому +97

      It just depends on how the breakup went

    • @Matt_from_Florida
      @Matt_from_Florida 5 років тому +33

      Exactly Vert. I've had friends whose ex-wives invited them when they were re-married.

    • @the_notorious_bas
      @the_notorious_bas 5 років тому +60

      Often, women have no problem with this, since most marriages are ended by them ^_*

    • @paris8780
      @paris8780 5 років тому +4

      I ABSOLUTELY agree with you!! 1000%

  • @markloy9651
    @markloy9651 5 років тому +563

    The line should have been “and if you beat me, I’ll give you my number. “

  • @gregoryd7670
    @gregoryd7670 5 років тому +587

    Ahh, the story of the one that got away. They usually mean a lot to you when *you* yourself have not yet moved on. And maybe you never move on. But if/when you do, you will find someone that is better than the one that got away, much more better than you can ever imagine. Eventually, you will discover the one that got away left for a reason: you were never really compatible. You were trying to force a square peg into a round hole, or the other way around. Something stopped one of you, or both of you, and either one of you wasn't ready to face that aspect of yourselves, and instead of ever dealing with it, the relationship paid the price, and either both or one of you was left without ever really finding the space to address that one thing. And instead you are left with the unresolved, the one that got away. It wasn't that person. It was the aspect of yourself that you never faced. And the other person moved on because they finally faced it, embraced it, and decided that who they are does not involve you. It might be your turn to do the same. You will be healthier for it. Trust me.

    • @gopro2027
      @gopro2027 4 роки тому +9

      I hope this is truth

    • @wallatbaban416
      @wallatbaban416 4 роки тому +18

      Or people can be less focused on their careers, more focused on loving each other for the sake of their Creator, and less on being selfish. Most divorces today are a product of selfishness and ego by one or the other and most relationships end because of that as well. If you dont really love someone, dont date in the first place. Either be in for the long rundont mess around, or dont go around dating people and breaking their hearts for some whimsical desire.

    • @shaynalee
      @shaynalee 4 роки тому +2

      Gregory D Amen ❤️

    • @ayomidecole
      @ayomidecole 4 роки тому +1

      ❤️

    • @ossaindiono8005
      @ossaindiono8005 4 роки тому

      thank you for this.

  • @mamabear4576
    @mamabear4576 3 роки тому +178

    I remember saying once that the day I read his wedding announcement to someone else would feel like reading an obituary.
    Now... Almost 10 years later, married to my best friend with 4 great kids, I wouldn't go back for anything. If this hit you in the feels and you're going through this kind of heartache... Just. Hold. On.
    Hearts are unbelievably resilient, and yours is still beating to another's rythym.
    I promise.

    • @lilymolly96
      @lilymolly96 2 роки тому +6

      I loved this comment. All the best to you ❤️

    • @flowersafeheart
      @flowersafeheart 2 роки тому +5

      Beautiful. Yes, things definitely change with time.

    • @jeanwagner1977
      @jeanwagner1977 2 роки тому +2

      Attack of the ricebirds.

    • @UnfortunateSupper
      @UnfortunateSupper 2 роки тому +4

      I hope you’re right. I just feel dead inside right now

    • @mygoodeyeclosedCC
      @mygoodeyeclosedCC 2 роки тому +1

      @@UnfortunateSupper ❤️

  • @supadopemex9245
    @supadopemex9245 5 років тому +454

    This video made me nostalgic of a relationship I’ve never had.

  • @journietheriot574
    @journietheriot574 4 роки тому +194

    I love how it looks like a funeral

  • @ihavewdawadwdrsrweawdions5231
    @ihavewdawadwdrsrweawdions5231 5 років тому +616

    short version of 500 days of summer

    • @sunilkumarsheoran2
      @sunilkumarsheoran2 5 років тому +7

      need a sweeter ending in that case.

    • @enlighttheway3870
      @enlighttheway3870 5 років тому +4

      @@sunilkumarsheoran2 right lol

    • @kholoudfayssel92
      @kholoudfayssel92 5 років тому +23

      Plot twist. That's 15 minutes of Autumn Haha. ''Autumn'' the girl he met at the end. The actress kinda even looks like her..

    • @onceinawhile7
      @onceinawhile7 5 років тому +12

      He looks like the main actor

    • @teenyverse7707
      @teenyverse7707 4 роки тому +1

      totally

  • @cranberry_neko
    @cranberry_neko 5 років тому +394

    The song at the end is called The Dream Song - Nathan Reich
    Thank me later :)

    • @CalMedina
      @CalMedina 5 років тому +4

      Thank you! 💓

    • @adgarza28
      @adgarza28 5 років тому +6

      I was searching for it and decided to hit the comments, Amy you the best!

    • @sneakyskunk1
      @sneakyskunk1 5 років тому +6

      It is later. Thank you.

    • @isaiahmedina4151
      @isaiahmedina4151 5 років тому +2

      God bless your soul

    • @henrywarmoth1792
      @henrywarmoth1792 5 років тому +6

      I'm thanking you now. This is exactly what I was scrubbing through the comments for.

  • @enlighttheway3870
    @enlighttheway3870 5 років тому +370

    Omeleto you did it again ..... This one hurted

    • @sunishthanangal1121
      @sunishthanangal1121 5 років тому +17

      Hurt*

    • @arshadsyed6628
      @arshadsyed6628 5 років тому +10

      @@sunishthanangal1121 oh shut up...who cares about the frickin grammar..

    • @Dylan-iz8tw
      @Dylan-iz8tw 4 роки тому +1

      @@sunishthanangal1121 hurt* H is not in caps :) Not as smart as you think huh? Haha

    • @sunishthanangal1121
      @sunishthanangal1121 4 роки тому +3

      @@Dylan-iz8tw
      I really hope you were being playful.😂
      I intended to highlight the word, we all know that it's not gonna be in CAPS in the middle of the sentence.😂

    • @sunishthanangal1121
      @sunishthanangal1121 4 роки тому +1

      @@arshadsyed6628
      Apparently not you... :)

  • @kemolowlow
    @kemolowlow 4 роки тому +195

    He never showed up...it was all in her mind.

    • @Vars010
      @Vars010 3 роки тому +20

      No, I don't think so. At least not mostly. I feel it was mostly him being at the wedding, him recalling memories, and him experiencing emotions. Towards the end though I think it was something of joint daydream (the ocean scene) as they were actually dancing, and they were eventually separated, for the last time and for good.

    • @iMsOiNsO
      @iMsOiNsO 3 роки тому +1

      Or he left because he talked to his friend he had tk have been there

  • @kylethedarkness
    @kylethedarkness 5 років тому +304

    heavy. so heavy. this reminds me of my teen years. my broken heart has still not healed. this brought tears to my eyes, and returned that pain to my heart, reminding me that what I felt was real. I'll never know if it was one sided or not. But I don't care. I love you, and I always will...
    “One day, whether you are 14, 28 or 65,
    you will stumble upon someone who will start a fire in you that cannot die.
    However, the saddest, most awful truth you will ever come to find--
    is they are not always with whom we spend our lives”
    ― Beau Taplin, Hunting Season

    • @alexzepeda6471
      @alexzepeda6471 5 років тому +17

      it can be unhealthy to be stuck on one person :( you should focus on urself more

    • @khushlovie4007
      @khushlovie4007 4 роки тому +6

      I had to stop the video to read this comment . Twice thrice.. It's true. U never heal. I still try to find him in my dreams. They r nightmares . I live with them.

    • @James以仁慈
      @James以仁慈 4 роки тому +13

      I met the girl when i was 17. It was her fire, her gaze, her smiles and her eyes at me made her my crush. Although the friendship was short. She chose my friend over me. At 32 i stumbled upon her again. Married to that my friend. I smiled at her but her smiles. Her gaze. Her eyes. Her fire. Have never changed a bit. I stood silent in front of her for like 10sesc. Longest stand still ever in my life.

    • @maxaffe3195
      @maxaffe3195 4 роки тому +1

      @@James以仁慈 what happened then? does it hurt?

    • @Hexanitrobenzene
      @Hexanitrobenzene 4 роки тому +6

      I apologise if I may sound rude, but the key word is "teen". Every emotion is exaggerated in teen years, so this love could have been not so deep as you imagine.
      Nevertheless, I could be wrong.

  • @R.444-
    @R.444- 4 роки тому +64

    7:15 I've experienced that moment. My girlfriend and I had turned our seats all the way back and she was singing along to some song with her eyes closed. The streetlamps turned the edges of her skin gold in the light. And I just couldn't stop staring at her. Thinking to myself, "this is the most beautiful girl in the world."

    • @krashd
      @krashd 2 роки тому +5

      We all experience that "how did I get so lucky?" moment at some point in our lives.

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 Рік тому +3

      @@krashd Sadly not all of us :D

  • @thedolphin5428
    @thedolphin5428 5 років тому +681

    A pretty common story actually -- a woman marrying a man she doesn't love as much as the man she loved before ... who still loves her more than she'll ever know.

    • @jayjay-sv6nz
      @jayjay-sv6nz 5 років тому +128

      Women marry for resources and security initially. She can grow to love the man. Men are the romantics. They marry for love, beauty and romance.
      A woman will leave a man she loves for a provider because in the ends she desires provisions and security for herself and her young.
      In other words, whats love gat to do with it! The bottom line is always money.

    • @bm9tube
      @bm9tube 5 років тому +160

      @@jayjay-sv6nz well in this particular case it seems like he only remembers the good things, and she seems to have a more balanced view

    • @JeramyRG
      @JeramyRG 5 років тому +82

      @@bm9tube
      That's spot on.
      We idealize a lost love.
      That's the premise within the lines - but the broad story captures the emotion of that intrinsic action.

    • @pawsitivelyweird6691
      @pawsitivelyweird6691 4 роки тому +3

      @@jayjay-sv6nz You're absolutely right!

    • @Roam-de-route
      @Roam-de-route 4 роки тому +6

      @@jayjay-sv6nz Agreed , women marry for security

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos 5 років тому +216

    Wow, that was painful to watch, but good all the same.

  • @Jeremiah90526
    @Jeremiah90526 5 років тому +52

    Ok, I am a dancer, multiple types, ballroom, country line dancing, country couple, Ceilidh, hip hop, etc. I have danced with many girls over the years (and many over the past year, I dance a lot, it happens). The way they are dancing in the last scene is not like a couple of friends. If the guys at the club saw me dancing with a girl like that they would automatically assume we were either already in a relationship, or going quickly on our way to one. Hell, the way she was dancing with her husband was more appropriate for friends, proper framing, hands in the right places, how you would dance with anyone that knew the dance. The dance between the two of them was about how close they could get, how much of the other person they could touch, which would make sense if it was the tango, but it was just a general slow dance. Also, that is an absolute shitload of eye contact, I haven't had that much eye contact during a dance with a chick since high school.... and thanks for that memory coming back to the surface (long story, quick version "one that got away").

    • @Vars010
      @Vars010 3 роки тому +4

      Jeremiah... That was a very long way of telling everyone what was obvious to all all along 😆.

    • @justcharacter2098
      @justcharacter2098 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks for going out of your way on telling us

  • @tomjohn8733
    @tomjohn8733 5 років тому +364

    Dreams turn into nightmares when our dream becomes someone elses. Love is a two way street which we must learn to let go of, for when we truely care about someones elses happiness we must learn to live with disapointment. But you will never be just friends as memories last forever... peace!

    • @bangtanwings4854
      @bangtanwings4854 5 років тому +3

      Gary Johnson 💯 True! 😫🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @doremi5236
      @doremi5236 5 років тому +2

      Told that to my ex she is happy now two kids. She couldent understand why can't we be friends. Well hit me over head and call me silly 😳

  • @trela47.
    @trela47. 5 років тому +362

    Spoiler.. probably?
    What really happened is “yeah,” but the truthful answer was “no,” so while they danced his lingering attachments did suicide and then he left the wedding. The scenes weren’t diverging; they were two things that happened simultaneously.

    • @PaulDoesIt
      @PaulDoesIt 4 роки тому +15

      Wow, a clever insight must say

    • @RajdeepBarman
      @RajdeepBarman 4 роки тому +3

      You make complete sense.. probably?

    • @nonameishere7234
      @nonameishere7234 4 роки тому +1

      you're awesome.

    • @DannyKay.
      @DannyKay. 4 роки тому +5

      He died from the inside

    • @aneeya9387
      @aneeya9387 4 роки тому +3

      You must be an English teacher lmao!! But now that makes complete sense

  • @anonymousandcool
    @anonymousandcool 4 роки тому +23

    it's easier to look at your exes and think why couldn't we have been together forever because you only remember the positive, romantic memories that changed your lives and not all the times you both sucked. It's always harder to admit you have not found real love yet so you look back and think it was real love then

    • @EcoFreak13M
      @EcoFreak13M 3 роки тому +1

      I do remember bad things that happened when I was 23, but it's easy to expect that I'd make different mistakes now, many years later, with someone whom I have forgiven for being young back when I was so very inexperienced myself

  • @ArizonaAirspace
    @ArizonaAirspace 4 роки тому +26

    If you are still in love with a woman who broke up with you, knowing she is getting married to someone else will give you a heart ache like you wouldn’t believe. I remember I chose to go to the office party dinner on the night the girl I was in love with got married, and this woman at the party said I had the look of a kid who just lost his puppy. I couldn’t hide my sadness I guess.

    • @priyanshuraha
      @priyanshuraha Рік тому +1

      What she said to you.. That must feel so bad for you =(.... If I were in your place I would whack a hot dog in her mouth. 😡

  • @KenPotter
    @KenPotter 5 років тому +69

    Everyone watching this probably has multiple similarly tragic "What Could Have Been" stories.

    • @wtfmario
      @wtfmario 5 років тому +2

      Yup, I have my fair share

    • @zevanshuster8441
      @zevanshuster8441 4 роки тому +1

      Ken Potter yuuup 😔

    • @arcuscerebellumus8797
      @arcuscerebellumus8797 4 роки тому +1

      Mine are not tragic. They bring a sigh of relief every time I manage to remember.

  • @JoachimderZweite
    @JoachimderZweite 4 роки тому +46

    I remember sitting at the table on a rainy afternoon in Oregon and while talking to my wife I had the realization that after 26 years of marriage she really hated me. We separated soon after and I have never been happier. I now live in the past during the time long before I ever met her when I was a boy in Japan. The course of one's life can hang on a moment.

  • @68air
    @68air 5 років тому +82

    And this ladies and gentlemen is why prozac was invented.

  • @starcatchfilms4367
    @starcatchfilms4367 4 роки тому +46

    How is it 2am!?
    Oh yeh.....
    Omeleto.

    • @travelwell8098
      @travelwell8098 3 роки тому +1

      Right there with you! Lol

    • @wilecau
      @wilecau 3 роки тому +1

      3:30am. Time for one more Omeleto.

  • @lostinpa-dadenduro7555
    @lostinpa-dadenduro7555 5 років тому +304

    Here’s a tip: if your spouse to be invites someone to the wedding that they was banging at one point, don’t marry them.

    • @bspc7651
      @bspc7651 5 років тому +21

      Why? I'm great friends with ex-partners and casual flings...

    • @odarrien
      @odarrien 5 років тому +11

      I'd invite an ex, and I'll go to their wedding if invited.

    • @jennhoff03
      @jennhoff03 5 років тому +10

      LostInPA- I totally agree!

    • @claucemicro1080
      @claucemicro1080 5 років тому +3

      b spc This movie it’s why

    • @IMCZ2021
      @IMCZ2021 5 років тому +39

      My thoughts exactly. Red Flag. I would take that as a foreshadowing of things to come and nope out.

  • @the_notorious_bas
    @the_notorious_bas 5 років тому +403

    Smart phone zombies are a real thing, I see them every day

    • @AaronKaiMCDNLD
      @AaronKaiMCDNLD 5 років тому +5

      do you also believe that we live in a society?

    • @the_notorious_bas
      @the_notorious_bas 5 років тому +2

      I still do, but it's not what it used to be back in the 80's. Not saying that all is bad, but things can be confusing...

    • @flomari1302
      @flomari1302 5 років тому

      Yeah, they are called Smombies.

    • @thac0twenty377
      @thac0twenty377 4 роки тому +2

      not as bad as Tablet Vampires though

  • @Z0mbiekiller82
    @Z0mbiekiller82 5 років тому +136

    If my wife wanted to invite an ex to our wedding there wouldn’t have been a wedding.

    • @hairbeauty8083
      @hairbeauty8083 4 роки тому +9

      One of my friends invited this guy she was banging while engaged to her fiance to her wedding. He didn't show up and was like why did she even want me there ?

    • @dejgmh1
      @dejgmh1 4 роки тому +5

      You are still a small boy ..no i want share my toy..love is not you and me it's we..

    • @yennefer440
      @yennefer440 2 роки тому +4

      @Draw My Culture They mean op is acting childish. Are you that insecure in your relationship, you wouldn't let your partner invite their ex. Then it probably is best you don't marry that person.

    • @krashd
      @krashd 2 роки тому +2

      @@yennefer440 Childish or controlling, one or the other.

  • @novacorps2468
    @novacorps2468 4 роки тому +34

    He turns and leaves knowing he'll never connect with her again.

    • @thomasgardner479
      @thomasgardner479 4 роки тому

      This comment is true to the video my dude
      Well said

    • @tm5267
      @tm5267 4 роки тому +3

      Good for him. She's made a conscious decision to make a move that suits what she wants to do.
      If the shoe was on the other foot...

    • @novacorps2468
      @novacorps2468 4 роки тому +1

      @@thomasgardner479 Because I've been in a simular situation believe it or not.

  • @K268H
    @K268H 5 років тому +46

    Imagine if this short was linked to the other short where the best man was the bride's ex and he hitted it off with one of the guests

    • @swatisri2409
      @swatisri2409 5 років тому +6

      *hit it off

    • @revy7870
      @revy7870 5 років тому +6

      I was just thinking that, i thought for a second this was the same short as that one

    • @sarehgol5756
      @sarehgol5756 3 роки тому +2

      Yes I did think about that too! In my mind they are the same 😀 so he finds love at first sight after all

  • @16nowhereman
    @16nowhereman 4 роки тому +46

    Once that love is gone, it can never be. I've been invited to a few of my ex-girlfriend's wedding and I tell them we can no longer have any communication ever out of respect, not for her, but for him and their marriage.

    • @krashd
      @krashd 2 роки тому +2

      Your Mojo is that potent?

  • @mentabil8
    @mentabil8 5 років тому +186

    Move on after a breakup. If you couldn't maintain civility when you were together, what makes you friends? You'll find somebody else.

    • @RialuCaos
      @RialuCaos 5 років тому +23

      @@AMR-zo5ut It's not true, as the number is significantly less than 3.5 billion. Even assuming you could impossibly meet and sort through 3.5 billion people in a single lifetime, you would naturally have to eliminate those who are already married, the very old, the very young, etc.
      Most people also marry someone who they meet locally, which reduces the original number of 3.5 billion to whatever the populace of your preferred gender in your local area is, not accounting for the prior factors which would further reduce the number. Though of course you realistically won't meet all the people in your area, so the number will be reduced even further by a factor which highly depends upon your social habits.
      So get stuck on a single person as long as you like. But persistence only wins them over in the movies; so I'd say your point is still valid, just for different reasons.

    • @crixi__
      @crixi__ 5 років тому +1

      I guess I needed to hear that. even 1000 is a lot. thank you.

    • @tashmaxwell3774
      @tashmaxwell3774 5 років тому +5

      Nah, idk man. There are relationships where there wasn’t a lack of civility, just a lack of emotion. Those are the cases where you really are just friends

    • @claucemicro1080
      @claucemicro1080 5 років тому +1

      Tash Maxwell Yes, most of the times it has nothing to do with civility, it’s more a matter of reciprocal feelings or perception.

    • @Hexanitrobenzene
      @Hexanitrobenzene 4 роки тому

      @@RialuCaos
      As a slightly off-topic nerdy note, if Yuval Harari is right about the way our technologies are developing, some day Google may sort through those 3,5 billion people to find the most compatible for you. You just ask...

  • @FIONA21ful
    @FIONA21ful 5 років тому +39

    It is so hard to let go of those we love even when being together is not making us happy like it once did, giving it up is heartbreaking, our memories tie us to an eternal hope . It is a bitter sweet thing to live through a passionate love until it mellows into friendship. So much to both be grateful for & to regret.
    This film resonates deeply with me , I let go after 23 yrs and thankfully we can still love each other, 12 yrs on and I am grateful for the strength I found to have left and I would happily attend his wedding if it ever happened , but I doubt it will.

    • @Matt_from_Florida
      @Matt_from_Florida 4 роки тому +4

      As we live, we accumulate beautiful, heartbreaking regrets.

    • @FIONA21ful
      @FIONA21ful 4 роки тому +1

      @@Matt_from_Florida Very true Matt. 💚☘

  • @sashasplants1600
    @sashasplants1600 4 роки тому +28

    This short reminds me a little of 500 days of Summer. He even looks a little like Joseph Gordon Levitt.

  • @Matt_from_Florida
    @Matt_from_Florida 5 років тому +130

    This reminds me of what happened last Christmas. I got a visit from the ghost of Christmas past. Life teaches you that if you live long enough every shade of human behavior will parade in front of you. Well, I had an old girlfriend call me! I chalk it up to Christmas. Tracked me down using the modern technology that is the internet. So unexpected. But wisdom comes with age and one learns not to be rude. So we talk and memories come tumbling out, things that I remember about those long lost years that she has forgotten and things that have remained vivid in her memory that are gone from mine. Slowly, I began to see the old, the real Debbie revealed; like an old faded canvas smothered by years of neglect refreshed and restored, colors vibrant once again. I used to go up and see her in Piscataway, NJ and we had whirlwind days of playing tourists in love in what I used to think was one of the most romantic cities in the world, New York. When it was time for me to go home it was a reminder of all the good byes of my young unsettled life as a Navy brat. We would sit and drink hot chocolate on cold winters' nights at the coffee shop, waiting for the plane that would whisk me away. I was always bereft, holding her hand, holding onto her scent, hoping for a few more minutes before I had to go back to my lonely empty life from which she had saved me for a few scant days at a time.
    Later, she brought life to me when she took the plane from Newark to Florida. She would descend from the platform like some movie star trailed by men anxious to carry whatever piece of luggage they could for the blonde princess. Carelessly throwing her arms around my neck, her body would anchor against mine with so much force I needed a wall behind me not to fall over, and yet her face touched mine with the softness of a cat… all to the disappointment of her impromptu retinue. Looking back now in the clear light of day, although it sure didn’t seem like it then, she was the worldly older woman, and I the proper young man struggling to live up to the obligations of my life and make something of myself. My castle was empty without her. So I lived a wildly unbalanced life, teetering between ecstasy and depression, between loneliness and exultation; all dependent on if I were with her. And now, calling me from out of the blue, she can’t believe it doesn’t matter to me anymore.

    • @shaikhahmadee1116
      @shaikhahmadee1116 5 років тому +5

      This is sad

    • @andrejrockshox
      @andrejrockshox 5 років тому +10

      why it doesn’t matter anymore?

    • @baioskonst
      @baioskonst 5 років тому +6

      Nice story... part 2?

    • @RialuCaos
      @RialuCaos 5 років тому +23

      That's very poetic, Matt from Florida. I see you've been able to construct your life's narrative in a format similar to that of a novel or film, I imagine you would make a good writer.

    • @ramachakrabarty8195
      @ramachakrabarty8195 5 років тому +4

      It seems painful but beautiful at the same time. I don't know why?

  • @anthonysubias-marston321
    @anthonysubias-marston321 4 роки тому +21

    They were her dreams, weren't they?

  • @janellshizzle3279
    @janellshizzle3279 5 років тому +103

    JESUS IT BECAME A HORROR FILM😂

    • @68air
      @68air 5 років тому

      This comment is very underrated.

  • @natellenakhnikian2635
    @natellenakhnikian2635 4 роки тому +16

    imagine watching the person you love say "i do" to someone else right in front of you... i could never

  • @SpazadelicMusic
    @SpazadelicMusic 4 роки тому +16

    Theres a certain feeling I get from watching specific films. Where I just feel like I know the characters so well. It's so relatable, so beautiful, so perfect, and so sad that I feel like I can just die. This short film does that for me with so little. Definitely well made, and a great watch.

  • @ibticemaissaoui4766
    @ibticemaissaoui4766 5 років тому +77

    Excuse me but where the hell is the groom while his bride is slow dancing with the love of her life???!

    • @enlighttheway3870
      @enlighttheway3870 5 років тому +11

      Let them have the moment

    • @FIONA21ful
      @FIONA21ful 5 років тому +5

      He is there , and understanding that she needs that time to say goodbye to their old way of loving.

    • @rodgeraarons8997
      @rodgeraarons8997 5 років тому +5

      It’s a movie

    • @hd591
      @hd591 5 років тому +26

      The groom is also slow dancing..... With his ex-gf, also the love of his life.

    • @claucemicro1080
      @claucemicro1080 5 років тому +16

      Probably the whole dancing is just playing in his mind as he watches her dance with the groom.

  • @bluedamsel1185
    @bluedamsel1185 4 роки тому +13

    The man's nightmares were manifesting at that wedding; there was a feeling of claustrophobia throughout and his abject humiliation was painful to watch.

  • @Cousy83
    @Cousy83 5 років тому +13

    Gut-wrenching. What a perfect song choice too. Unreal how much emotion can be conveyed in 15 minutes.

  • @manbirsingh4244
    @manbirsingh4244 5 років тому +55

    This shows "Love is beautiful at the same time Painful"

  • @Nostalgia_Racing
    @Nostalgia_Racing 5 років тому +14

    This hit me so hard in the most relatable way ever. Damn made me cry, good job guys. Kudos to whoever made this exactly.

  • @THETRIVIALTHINGS
    @THETRIVIALTHINGS 4 роки тому +74

    Moral of the story : Stay single, stay happy.

    • @petra370
      @petra370 4 роки тому +1

      I don’t think I’m happy single though....

    • @THETRIVIALTHINGS
      @THETRIVIALTHINGS 4 роки тому +3

      @@petra370 Hmm..."Petra"...Female....Wanna get together?

    • @muffin_heart
      @muffin_heart 4 роки тому +2

      Bruh

    • @rafaelzarzur6981
      @rafaelzarzur6981 3 роки тому

      Chicken

    • @Pewpewz
      @Pewpewz 3 роки тому +1

      @@petra370 then you'll never be happy in a relationship, it'll just mask your unhappiness.

  • @grazryan
    @grazryan 4 роки тому +10

    1:54 one zombie can’t decide what photo to show so she decided to show thumbnails instead.😅

  • @priyanshuraha
    @priyanshuraha 3 роки тому +2

    13:29 the name of the song is "The Dream Song" By Nathan Reich. If you are wondering.
    Have a great day.

  • @archenema6792
    @archenema6792 5 років тому +81

    Joseph Gordon Levitt's career has really taken a nosedive.

    • @laetrille
      @laetrille 5 років тому +1

      who?

    • @chrisvasquez2460
      @chrisvasquez2460 5 років тому +7

      no it hasn't! lol i agree, he sure does look like gordon levit, but the was a pretty gopd short film in my opinion.

  • @pepe_s1lvia
    @pepe_s1lvia 5 років тому +13

    4:43, was so underrated, it was too good, it just made the scene perfect. It wasn't extra at all. The scene just needed that. Like to make the sound that they just scored like in the game of love they were playing

    • @snuggles1011
      @snuggles1011 4 роки тому +1

      100% agree. Notice how they were all gutter balls during there entire dialogue. As if he wasn't getting anywhere and/or not saying the right things. Then he finally makes an impact, and she gives a genuine smile for the first time, or a sign of interest. It's amazing.

  • @milasalsabilayt
    @milasalsabilayt 5 років тому +17

    when you try to move on, but you always fail.

  • @Wa7erCA
    @Wa7erCA 4 роки тому +8

    Damn, I'm late, but that "I think I love you," kind of killed me inside.

  • @ABirdOnTheMoon
    @ABirdOnTheMoon 4 роки тому +24

    The mystery of the heart. It seems to be so common to fall deeply in love; have unconditional love to someone that is not destined to be with you. Me and my ex were and still love each other deeply yet we are not together. Life choices separated us because being together was more of a settle down from my part and his. It is hard when you have to make the choice to walk away. It is hard when that choice is not because you don't love them anymore but because you love yourself more.

    • @Tallonest
      @Tallonest 4 роки тому

      You settling means you love yourself more? Why?

    • @bigbywolfe1775
      @bigbywolfe1775 4 роки тому

      The relationship took a toll on them. They decided to leave because self-care was more important. They didn’t want to lose themself while trying to hold on to their lover.

  • @bobbobby5141
    @bobbobby5141 4 роки тому +2

    That's why I did not make any regrets to the one I married bc I dont want to think about the possibility of what if in the future while I'm with another person. In life do not expect to recieve the same weight as you provide to another, do not expect the kindness in return bc you believe the singularity as equal treatment to be the same, do not expect the other to live by how you believe a life should be lived or spent, do not expect to give something and have something in return to be more grand later in the future, do not expect your love for someone to have the same weight bc you believe true love can be measurable which it is not true it's something you cannot measure, do not expect the expected from one another its life and you cannot calculate what the other will accurately do to make your life easier or fulfill your respective task. Love comes in many shapes and forms you have to accept the changing form of love bc it comes with hardship, heart aches, head aches, stress, happy, unparalleled hole that never seems to get filled, spontaneous surprises, feeling of of endless satisfaction, etc. Many people will encounter all these issues but if you both walk on the same road knowing all these possibilities you're life will become much easier and you can tolerate each others difference then turning it into something beautiful. That is why you dont expect the expected just live your life as a support beam and hopefully that person that you without realizing it is the other half of your support bc without them you'll fall and without you so will they. Hope this enlightened anyone that came across this message.

  • @craigjohnson4302
    @craigjohnson4302 8 місяців тому +3

    Most of us have have experienced not knowing what you have until you don't have it anymore.

  • @hazzy6143
    @hazzy6143 5 років тому +20

    Why love is so depressing??....😭

    • @dafilmqueen556
      @dafilmqueen556 5 років тому +6

      It's not that...it's the person you fall in love with and their personality that depress you.Lesson here:don't ever become involved with someone you know is not worth fighting for!

    • @linesangus9069
      @linesangus9069 5 років тому +3

      Can't feel the emotional highs without equally sad lows.

    • @TheTraveller20081
      @TheTraveller20081 3 роки тому

      It's depressing until you find it. Well, I hope it changes at that point...

  • @TruthisVeritas
    @TruthisVeritas 5 років тому +32

    I think it's very rare that people marry the love of their lives. I know I didn't and I know others who did not as well.

  • @chordsofgratitude2073
    @chordsofgratitude2073 4 роки тому +5

    Hilarious when the first couple said look at our baby... instant zombie land, and everyone else joins in...night of the living dead....🤣🤣🤣 It was clear the did not want the same things in life like children....

  • @kirkbrindley1951
    @kirkbrindley1951 5 років тому +11

    This was painfully and sublimely beautiful. Thank you for this.

  • @rustynasa9596
    @rustynasa9596 5 років тому +11

    Deep painful and at the end of the day you still have to get over it.
    When you do get over it new life starts !

  • @poisonouspagan1690
    @poisonouspagan1690 5 років тому +5

    Just hang around,homie,in case hubby don't work out. They usually don't and that's where you'll come in.

  • @BURGATRON
    @BURGATRON 4 роки тому +8

    Just married and cheating off the bat. How charming!

  • @lseifert111
    @lseifert111 4 роки тому +9

    I just wanted the Perfect Ending to this story because they were so spectacularly Beautiful.

    • @RajdeepBarman
      @RajdeepBarman 4 роки тому +1

      Elizabeth Ri is anything ever perfect

  • @sheepthief2785
    @sheepthief2785 5 років тому +8

    should have broken up the wedding