You Can't Scare Us into Living ‘Normal' Lives Anymore!

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  • @galveston4095
    @galveston4095 4 місяці тому +670

    As someone who's worked in a trauma ICU for over twenty years - nothing is promised. Live how you want to live today.

    • @Aux.Pecker
      @Aux.Pecker 4 місяці тому +11

      My mom needs to hear that from another trauma nurse

    • @GenVNight
      @GenVNight 4 місяці тому +7

      If anyone would know...... I hope you are living how you want, as well. Beautiful comment.

    • @ThePhoenixcompanies
      @ThePhoenixcompanies 4 місяці тому

      But use the Internet so you can virtue signal about it. 😂😂😂

    • @craigsurette3438
      @craigsurette3438 4 місяці тому

      @@ThePhoenixcompanies Does your nose bleed from how high on your high horse you act?
      Just asking , because you seem pathetic

    • @vwapatriyotla2322
      @vwapatriyotla2322 4 місяці тому +4

      As a cop I second that.

  • @jaythefox
    @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +569

    “It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live.”
    ― Marcus AURELIUS

    • @jonmueller2117
      @jonmueller2117 4 місяці тому +8

      Success is in the journey, not the destination. 😊

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +4

      @@jonmueller2117 gotta be. you know where the destination is

    • @LoveLight-hi5hp
      @LoveLight-hi5hp 4 місяці тому +6

      As a Zen Buddhist, I love the Stoics. 🙏

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +4

      @@LoveLight-hi5hp And I love the Buddhist thinkers!
      Who knows maybe they have a similar root. I'm currently reading a book called "Greek Buddha".
      Namaste 🙏

    • @LoveLight-hi5hp
      @LoveLight-hi5hp 4 місяці тому +5

      @@jaythefox Yes, a lot of similarities between Stoics & Zen. I personally think it's just plugging into Universal consciousness gives folks that do very similar perspectives.

  • @9743dog
    @9743dog 4 місяці тому +486

    "It's not like a regular life is working out for people..." MAN bro, you're spot on with that one

  • @2001Artfull
    @2001Artfull 4 місяці тому +526

    As jobs get shittier and cars, houses, etc. get more expensive, alternative life-styles get more attractive. Congratulations for making the leap, it's just logical.

    • @trdriver430
      @trdriver430 4 місяці тому +5

      Well said Artfull.. fitting name !

    • @mm669
      @mm669 4 місяці тому +27

      Cars and houses get more cheaply made yet more expensive.

    • @TheTruthTheyHate
      @TheTruthTheyHate 4 місяці тому +10

      @@mm669I mean but that’s capitalism though can’t complain about it. It’s called profit maximization. Charge ppl more & spend less on materials therefore you make as much as possible.🤷‍♂️Socialism & communism has its flaws also but throughout history neither was practiced the right way leading to how ppl view them as counterproductive now.

    • @gdasfgqgadfsadf4
      @gdasfgqgadfsadf4 4 місяці тому +12

      @@TheTruthTheyHate you're naive

    • @TimSlee1
      @TimSlee1 4 місяці тому +9

      Jobs, goods and services are collectively getting worse and more expensive.

  • @minigirl6839
    @minigirl6839 4 місяці тому +363

    I live by father's philosophy:"The more sh!t you have, the more sh!t to go wrong". Words of wisdom right there.

    • @deborahaumiller7391
      @deborahaumiller7391 4 місяці тому +15

      My grandparents said about the same thing, but without the cuss word, lol!! God rest their souls❤❤

    • @Althea1111
      @Althea1111 4 місяці тому +1

      💯!

    • @Longman13th
      @Longman13th 4 місяці тому +8

      Mo money, mo problems.

    • @genossinwaabooz4373
      @genossinwaabooz4373 4 місяці тому +6

      And more to clean.

    • @KingRidley
      @KingRidley 4 місяці тому +1

      You're allowed to say shit on UA-cam, just so you know.

  • @BatmanBeyondBelief
    @BatmanBeyondBelief 4 місяці тому +160

    “Healthcare is a joke for all of us” made me laugh so hard thank you tim!

    • @missfreshair
      @missfreshair 4 місяці тому +2

      Haha yeah snap, coz healthcare is literally and evidently a joke 😂

  • @GungFuRichard
    @GungFuRichard 4 місяці тому +221

    As a minimalist I didn't make more money, but I have more money.

    • @janejohnson3031
      @janejohnson3031 4 місяці тому +8

      Interesting fact

    • @genossinwaabooz4373
      @genossinwaabooz4373 4 місяці тому +4

      One could consider that by not making money, it results you have just gained more resources, that didn't cost you anything and effectively is as if you made it by the not spending it.

    • @elizabethmorrow8581
      @elizabethmorrow8581 4 місяці тому +12

      I agree. Now 75, single and retired, my income is about 2/3 of my work world income. But I made sure to not have any outstanding bills, loans, etc before retiring. I haven't had a credit card for over 35 years, and don't miss them. I pay cash for everything, including my car, an Acura, and my truck, a Silverado. They're not the latest models, but they're in great shape, and I keep them maintained. Insurance is paid in full every 6 months, no cable or Internet, only my phone and electric bills. My needs are minimal, and my wants the same. Because of these habits, I'm able to put $2000+ away every month without strain. A minimalist lifestyle relieves a lot of stress, and gives me confidence that I will be able to adjust to any events that might turn our world upside down,

    • @annsaunders5768
      @annsaunders5768 4 місяці тому +1

      Good for you, but extremely soon, you ought put it into gold or silver large or small, do it now!

  • @GerardoDelValle.
    @GerardoDelValle. 4 місяці тому +958

    Wash my clothes by hand , no refrigerator, no tv , no credit , I walk whenever I can.. man its so liberating.

    • @Coldnose-qv6sn
      @Coldnose-qv6sn 4 місяці тому +26

      Want a cookie?

    • @jainthorne4136
      @jainthorne4136 4 місяці тому +75

      @@Coldnose-qv6sn What kind?

    • @jmaldo92
      @jmaldo92 4 місяці тому +75

      ​@@Coldnose-qv6sn You mad? Lol

    • @danu6718
      @danu6718 4 місяці тому +3

      @Gerardo 🌟💯

    • @jeltoninc.8542
      @jeltoninc.8542 4 місяці тому +70

      I walk all over the place too. I did the math on my “fun car” years ago… didn’t add up. I’m paying for all this maintenance and insurance for what? To feel a little dopamine when I shift gears and lay my foot into the pedal? Fuck that! All the extra shit is like throwing money into a hole and burning it.

  • @ferndog1461
    @ferndog1461 4 місяці тому +211

    People that are overburden want their neighbors overburden, too.

  • @rwdchannel2901
    @rwdchannel2901 4 місяці тому +171

    I left the system when I was 37. I'm now 43 and for the last 6 years I've been doing whatever I want, whenever I want, and it's been the best 6 years of my life. I could care less what other people think I should be doing with my life. People who are trying to control me can get lost.

    • @RndmAnvgr777
      @RndmAnvgr777 4 місяці тому +7

      One of the best things I ever did for myself (in my earlier 20's) was to stop giving anything resembling a shit about what anyone thought of me or my family.
      Life's to short to stress about what anyone thinks or how they perceive you.

  • @deborahaumiller7391
    @deborahaumiller7391 4 місяці тому +118

    When my Dad went downhill fast, i sold the modest , old house i had for just a couple of years to care for him. I also had to retire on a poverty-level (really) pension. I moved into an ancient trailer in a park, kept my old beater car and do not regret this move. Everyone i know accused me of being insane and insulted me.
    Too bad for them. Dad had no money, so he could not afford 24- hour private care. All you haters out there, go bite yourselves. My family had the past 5 years to be with Dad, reconcile with Dad and he passed peacefully with uscall around him. That experience is worth more than all the gold in the world. Stay strong people!!

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +18

      You are a good person!

    • @Kathleen67.
      @Kathleen67. 4 місяці тому +4

      Amen.

    • @ehenningsen
      @ehenningsen 4 місяці тому +7

      Money is a tool, you used it in the most wise method 😉

    • @annsaunders5768
      @annsaunders5768 4 місяці тому +1

      Praying for you ❤

    • @w8what575
      @w8what575 3 місяці тому +4

      That’s awesome! Ur a dear heart for doing what u did for ur dad! The way families are today is a horrible way to be …so this is so nice to read…blessings to u for being like that…

  • @joeplem5329
    @joeplem5329 4 місяці тому +732

    43 year old here, been working part-time 20-30 hours a week for 2 1/2 years now. Childfree and debt free and tried going back to a full-time job Monday through Saturday (forced overtime) just to shut my folks up...that lasted just under 2 months. I just can't handle 40+ hrs anymore I'll keep living a minimalist lifestyle 🤷

    • @mh0mz
      @mh0mz 4 місяці тому +10

      Where do you live

    • @Nessajess7
      @Nessajess7 4 місяці тому +70

      Good for you! I live the contract life. My contract ends next week and I'll be taking the rest of May off then, find another contract job for a couple months 🤙🏾

    • @ricosnell4623
      @ricosnell4623 4 місяці тому +20

      ​@@Nessajess7sounds like a good balance

    • @PI1901
      @PI1901 4 місяці тому +4

      @@Nessajess7 i do the same thing and i love it. how do u find your contracts typically?

    • @ricky4673
      @ricky4673 4 місяці тому

      Make sure you eat mostly meat and no sugar. Your income cannot provice the typical western diet to hospital care.

  • @conanbillybone2218
    @conanbillybone2218 4 місяці тому +539

    We're taught to be scared from day one. The Matrix is strong and people living in it can't see outside of it. Until they do.

    • @coryshea856
      @coryshea856 4 місяці тому +9

      So I did have something happen to me over the last year that isn’t worst case scenario but a really unfortunate fluke injury to happen if you’re living the nomadic/explorative lifestyle. I felt my toe pop while hiking in Montana and it’s a fracture that hasn’t been healing for a long time. Not the best luck with doctors at first until it finally got diagnosed correctly (time and money spent with little progress at first). So it makes driving very difficult as well as walking. It should take only 2 months to heal, but I relied on driving for my income and lifestyle. So it just hasn’t healed. I am now switching up my lifestyle for at least the next 3 months while I heal which means a new type of job and new type of living situation. It just takes a lot of mental energy to switch and to navigate different social environments especially with income. I would tell my younger self and will now make sure to have a savings even more than I did (had $4000+ but less and less work and medical expenses took more than half of that). And more importantly to take any little injury really seriously and heal it right away and do anything by you can to speak up for yourself and get second opinions when navigating medical system. It takes real money sometimes too to get healed. A better health insurance possibly helps but I have some and you see the same doctor regardless. Wanted to share in case it helps anyone and also I’ll take any advice one has for my situation. I’m getting a job that’s stationary mostly as I need that while my broken toe heals. It’s a decrease in income but that’s fine for 2-3 months and I may get 2 jobs to increase hours. The jobs being local in one place and stationary versus while I’m traveling and I can do any job is the main little challenge but I’ll have one in a week from now.

    • @newagequeen9454
      @newagequeen9454 4 місяці тому +5

      @@coryshea856 Thanks for sharing. I agree with having a savings! I too do work that depends on me driving and having a car. Even things like car repairs necessitates having a savings. But speaking of your broken toe, have you ever heard of comfrey? It's a plant and people use it and the roots for broken bones and injuries. It's said to be really good with speeding up injuries and it's natural.

    • @cyn2480
      @cyn2480 4 місяці тому +7

      The comfort zone can become uncomfortable, as in not totally reliable. Don't take negative comments to heart.

    • @RetireandGo
      @RetireandGo 4 місяці тому +5

      Good point
      Issues arise in everyone’s life
      We deal with them
      We move forward
      Whether we are in a house, a van, a cheap bungalow in Asia

    • @urtyp6596
      @urtyp6596 4 місяці тому +2

      Look uo Carnivorediet! Everything heals better then! Cheers from Germany

  • @m.woodsrobinson9244
    @m.woodsrobinson9244 4 місяці тому +98

    Annie Lennox sang it best: "Dying is easy. It's living that scares me to death." Most people unknowingly live that way.

  • @jessiemarie3147
    @jessiemarie3147 4 місяці тому +173

    I make the same money working seasonal as I did with my mainstream job and my expenses are 70% less. So. 👏🏻

  • @harmonizedigital.
    @harmonizedigital. 4 місяці тому +165

    I grew up with parents who were very fearful of everything and controlling. I got so tired of that life so I had to find another way to live. I would rather be poor than live the way they live and be "successful"

    • @aggiesart6
      @aggiesart6 4 місяці тому +6

      Same here❤

    • @sherij9847
      @sherij9847 4 місяці тому +16

      Over here too😊 “Same”! The typical success story is OVER RATED: based on tiring expectations. That’s not LIVING to me. That’s failing spiritually & mentally

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +1

      @@aggiesart6 twinsies

    • @scootergirl3662
      @scootergirl3662 4 місяці тому +6

      Same exact story here. Very poor, but far happier than they ever were

    • @missfreshair
      @missfreshair 4 місяці тому +2

      Same. All is woe, doom & gloom for some controlling personalities designed to instill fear.

  • @joydietzel7739
    @joydietzel7739 4 місяці тому +131

    We retired at 60 to get out of the rat race. I would recommend living simple with less money than living a stressful life with lots of money.
    Lots of times, the more you have the more you want.

    • @SST4SSG
      @SST4SSG 4 місяці тому +2

      Joy, a high-five to you and your man! I am 50 but you guys vindicate me getting out the rat race too

    • @thelantern9075
      @thelantern9075 4 місяці тому +1

      Wisdom

  • @deon5346
    @deon5346 4 місяці тому +68

    I do not speak to any of my family members because they ALL shamed me for the lifestyle I live. I have 4 kids and husband and we live in the mountains. We grow all the food we can (still learning) we homeschool our children have farm animals etc. my husband does work but only goes in 3 days a week Because we are trying to build our homestead. Whatever we can do ourselves we do including healthcare.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +7

      Sounds like an amazing lifestyle!

    • @verdulo
      @verdulo 4 місяці тому +2

      Well, if you birthed 4 children, then you can count me as a shamer. Most of us already cannot live like you because there’s 8 billion of us and not enough land. Actually I don’t want to shame you. I just want you to be aware. The more people there are, the harder it is to live a happy sustainable life.

    • @rumfordc
      @rumfordc 4 місяці тому +3

      @@verdulo there is so much land, the world is not even close to overpopulated. you're just repeating what you've heard because it is a convenient excuse for you.

    • @Kathleen67.
      @Kathleen67. 4 місяці тому

      Good for you. In case you haven't heard of her, The Patriot Nurse is great. I took her classes in-person. Her older videos are packed with great medical information.

    • @verdulo
      @verdulo 4 місяці тому +1

      @@rumfordc Wrong. I’ve studied this issue for decades. There is so much more to overpopulation than running out of land. Many places are running out of fresh water, for example. If there is so much land, why don’t we set aside half of it as nature preserves to protect all the species that are going extinct?

  • @woodsidechase3399
    @woodsidechase3399 4 місяці тому +131

    "Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing." - Helen Keller

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +22

      One of the quotes I appreciate the most, and one that keeps me moving forward in life.

    • @shelivesconsciously
      @shelivesconsciously 4 місяці тому +8

      It does not exist in nature. That part I have been trying to explain to people for about 15 years now. Best comment so far. Love it 🎉

    • @AdamScluer
      @AdamScluer 4 місяці тому +2

      Your as secure as the planet is hostile.

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +2

      ima copy this down on some irl paper

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +1

      thank you

  • @ms.rivera7898
    @ms.rivera7898 4 місяці тому +305

    That settling down in the USA with 2.5 kids, a house, and a car, just ain’t for me. I think people are brainwashed to work until they are old, struggle to survive and raise a family, and have the 2 weeks a year vacation. I enjoy living outside of the US, away from the rat race. I don’t own much in the US, and don’t need much. I am happy, at peace, and free.

    • @jeltoninc.8542
      @jeltoninc.8542 4 місяці тому

      Peasants in the Middle Ages lived better than 90% of current day US citizens.

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 4 місяці тому +9

      I think I want to live here half the year and out the country for another half of a year until I can leave.

    • @GuardianAngel..
      @GuardianAngel.. 4 місяці тому +8

      Spoken like a true person who not only understands the "How" but one who also understands the "Why"

    • @stanleysalters1195
      @stanleysalters1195 4 місяці тому +14

      That's why I'm stacking my money up this year to move over sea next year. The system is F up here.

    • @JG-vn8wr
      @JG-vn8wr 4 місяці тому +29

      The population is well programmed.

  • @GratefulWarriorMom
    @GratefulWarriorMom 4 місяці тому +122

    I finally see the light. It took losing everything. I mean EVERYTHING. My so-called husband ran off 2 years ago. The only thing i was told was, he wasn't happy, so he left. When the rent kept going up and my health started getting worse, i had to move out but gave everything away because i didn't have any help to move. If i couldn't pack it in my car, it didn't make the move. Im disabled, so anything too difficult to move was given away to those who needed it and could move it.
    This time alone has been amazing! Im seeing life in a whole new light now. I can't believe how deceived ive been. It's almost like a light bulb was turned on and i have a whole new perspective on life. It's like waking up to a new world. No more slave mentality for me.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +23

      Glad to hear it all worked out for you in the long run!

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +20

      “32. You can lose by gaining. You can gain by losing.”
      - Tao Te Ching
      Peace!

    • @timmshelton
      @timmshelton 4 місяці тому +12

      May God continue to bless and teach you

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 4 місяці тому +4

      Van life for the win👍🏼

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +2

      congratulations

  • @jennysroad
    @jennysroad 4 місяці тому +161

    I remember telling my best friend there has to be another way and eventually she ghosted me because my ideas were too far fetched for her. A world where not everyone works 8-6 five days a week doesn’t exist.
    Took me a long time to realize she wanted to do what I was doing but was too scared. She was too scared to transfer departments ffs.
    People used to tell me “you’re so brave” “I wish I could…” and any time I countered with you can! You just have to do it scared. They didn’t like that.
    Team risk-takers unite!

    • @enneaf1676
      @enneaf1676 4 місяці тому

      People who say stuff like "xyz doesn't exist in this world" are basically admitting to being trapped by their own conditioning to a system so horrid, any thought outside that fake box immediately gets cancelled, disregarded, and ignored. Collapse is gonna happen, and most of these types are going to be caught unaware when it does. Humanity has only lived like this for a VERY short time when you think about the entire span of human existence on earth. People have let false belief systems and arbitrary nonsense enslave them to the point of complacent exhaustion

    • @Emiliapocalypse
      @Emiliapocalypse 4 місяці тому +9

      Makes me think of my ex’s obsession with emotional strength, and how to him that meant denying emotions. “Don’t be scared!! Be strong!!”
      But my version of strength is feeling the feelings and continuing to persist. Aka- “feeling the fear and doing it anyway”. But no, people just weren’t supposed to be afraid at all ever, because that was weakness or something.
      Good on you for doing stuff scared!! That’s a great mantra

    • @WaveLord14
      @WaveLord14 4 місяці тому +5

      Damn your "friend" ghosted you over that?

    • @jennysroad
      @jennysroad 4 місяці тому +5

      @@WaveLord14 fifteen years. It was too unsettling for her to see me living a life she either wanted to live but couldn’t (wasn’t brave enough) and/or she genuinely didn’t like that I wouldn’t (didn’t have to/found a way not to) conform to societal norms.
      Oh well.
      Edit: she even said ‘why can’t you just go back to the old you?’

    • @Italiangirlnj747
      @Italiangirlnj747 4 місяці тому

      F her n I say same ther3 has to b another way

  • @jeltoninc.8542
    @jeltoninc.8542 4 місяці тому +95

    You are spittin’ FACTS!!!!
    I realized I’m living my best life the other day when I was at the beach in the middle of the day on what most people would consider a “work day”. Brought a tear to my eye knowing that I am actually LIVING. Not just getting by.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +13

      Yes! This!!!!

    • @jmlkhan5153
      @jmlkhan5153 4 місяці тому +7

      After spending the first half of this year sleeping in wal mart parking lots, i bought a camper and parked it on my boss' land.
      Overnight, i went from being a homeless drifter to working retired. I live in a camper, which is small, but its a home that i own. Parked smack in the middle of 110 acres of beautiful peaceful countryside. I work 4 ten hr days a week, enjoy 3 day weekends every week, buy nothing but food, and am happier than i ever could have imagines. I just had to let go of the "grind" mindset.

  • @joannapatterson4625
    @joannapatterson4625 4 місяці тому +61

    I haven’t worked full time for 3 years.
    My life is so peaceful and basic.
    I ❤ it.

  • @flowgoestheuniverse
    @flowgoestheuniverse 4 місяці тому +154

    Something I've noticed is when people work too many hours in a week, they feel like they need to compensate by overspending when they're not working. When you value your time and work less hours, you learn to live on as little as possible, which is an invaluable skill and habit to have

    • @samanthafreesi471
      @samanthafreesi471 4 місяці тому +12

      I've learned that most of those people are working to show off and gain respect from others. It's really sad.

    • @joannapatterson4625
      @joannapatterson4625 4 місяці тому +4

      100 percent 🎉

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 4 місяці тому +1

      Well said…

    • @herelieskittythomas3726
      @herelieskittythomas3726 4 місяці тому

      So true!

    • @kellywalker1664
      @kellywalker1664 4 місяці тому +1

      In my busy season I'm always on the fly and have no time to cook. Needless to say, the food budget skyrockets.

  • @debbietodd8547
    @debbietodd8547 4 місяці тому +54

    There are people out there that think the "regular 9-5 life" we have been living for decades is the only way and that EVERYONE should live that way. No discussion. There is nothing you can say to change their mind. I wish I would have bowed out of it way before I did but my eyes have been opened wide in the last 2 years since I retired. Waking up naturally is top of my list, I can't believe how much better I feel not being jolted awake before I'm ready. I don't have much money, can't afford to travel but I seriously most of the time don't care. I can eat when I want, get dressed when and if I want........ That "regular" life was a prison and most of the people I watch that live it are miserable.

    • @rosiebottom3870
      @rosiebottom3870 4 місяці тому +8

      I feel the same way about sleep. People don't believe I'm 60 - I'm sure it's down to waking up naturally. I don't travel much either, but I don't feel the need to. I don't need to take a vacation from my life - my life is like a holiday anyway.

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +2

      @@rosiebottom3870 i'd like to visit some places. i took a bus to plattsburg once and slept in a park. once i stayed in a hostel in philly. i really like my here chosen hometown, not everything about it, but i'm working on that, all of it, and from here on the rest of the country and the world

    • @carlstephens1532
      @carlstephens1532 4 місяці тому +6

      There is a number of people that want you to be in debt. That's how they make money. They convince other people to hand them their money and before you know your in massive debt, the modern trap ,always worried about paying those bills,instead of controlling you own life , credit people love putting you in the shackles of debt , as their income comes from your hard work.

    • @rosiebottom3870
      @rosiebottom3870 4 місяці тому +3

      @@intellectually_lazy I admire your ability to rough it. When I was younger I travelled the world and got it out my system. I'm happy to explore the UK where I live. I hope you get to explore the world - it can be great fun.

  • @mikieemiike3979
    @mikieemiike3979 4 місяці тому +63

    My different life consist of living on 5 acres, $380 a year in property taxes, low to no debt., owning my boat, atv, civil engineering in copper and gold mining working from home, raising my own kids with my beautiful wife, conquering health and not paying health insurance and more.

  • @selfsufficientus49
    @selfsufficientus49 4 місяці тому +19

    I quit drinking recently, quit smoking and energy drinks in 2015. Once you break all your habits that cost a fortune, you can really live a simple life. I don't work overtime anymore

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +5

      That’s a great point about quitting habits that are costing us money and freedom. Life does get simpler when you have no vices.

  • @Katie-yu1cv
    @Katie-yu1cv 4 місяці тому +20

    I wish someone would have scared me out of trying to be normal. That's really dangerous. I am wealthy because of the number of things I can afford to do without.
    Embrace your own weird, that's the safe path for YOU!

    • @MaryDunford
      @MaryDunford 4 місяці тому +3

      Weird people are my favourite people. Embrace the weird. 🤗

  • @GRAYnomad
    @GRAYnomad 4 місяці тому +24

    I took the risk when I was 45, quit job, sold everything, and hit the road in an RV. That was 25 years ago. And as that say, "I started with nothing and still have most of it left". I'm homesteading on land and living in shipping containers now and all the above were the best decisions I ever made.

  • @ellymayflower1762
    @ellymayflower1762 4 місяці тому +77

    This is so true. I don't want to live in mainstream society. So I left and live in a dry cabin in Alaska and I have so much peace. Yet oddly enough I'm nearby all the stores and such that I need. Yet this sounded so crazy to others. I don't think anything is crazy if it's what you're meant to do. It's actually just right.

    • @mewsiu
      @mewsiu 4 місяці тому +1

      Do you not get lonely? I don't like 'society' or the normal 9-5 soulsucking etc, either, but I feel like my soul would get crushed by loneliness living like that

    • @ellymayflower1762
      @ellymayflower1762 4 місяці тому +4

      @@mewsiu I have a work from home job, but I might work in town. The difference is I have options now. it's more affordable living this way. I am in a dry cabin so what that means is I don't have running water or plumbing, yet I don't feel I lost anything. It feels natural and right. Much more connected to the Earth. I moved into the mountains next to the river where the peace in my soul matches my surroundings now. Noone living above me or below me or in a loud city cluttering my soul. No I do not feel alone because I feel very connected to my soul and my surroundings and I connect with people online. There are people that live here. We just live differently because it's freezing and snow on the ground most of the year....etc.

  • @FP65
    @FP65 4 місяці тому +13

    Three years ago we sold the beautiful cars that had loans, sold the beautiful home with the beautiful pool that had a mortgage, paid off all our bills and bought old used cars, bought a very simple home in a simple neighborhood and set ourselves free. I’ve never felt so good. Decades of being in all that debt no matter how hard we worked?? It was madness and life is so much more enjoyable now.

  • @TheMidnightBandit
    @TheMidnightBandit 4 місяці тому +57

    You're living exactly how you want. People who do that will piss off a lot of people. You're awesome.

  • @karenbutcher1240
    @karenbutcher1240 3 місяці тому +5

    Many of us thought we were living a "normal" lifestyle in our "comfort zones" until a tragedy hits us and we realize we're not as safe as we think.

  • @nutsbutdum
    @nutsbutdum 4 місяці тому +357

    Talking about health and money. The guy who just won the $1.3 billion Powerball has cancer.
    Nothing is guaranteed in life.

    • @I_am_dovakin
      @I_am_dovakin 4 місяці тому

      Totally. But I'm not one who likes the odds of lottery. Besides the fact the government controls the lottery, we are all more likely to not only get cancer, but die from it than win 1.3 billion dollars.

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 4 місяці тому

      There are treatments and cures for the rich. Big Pharma won't allow cures as there is no profit in them.

    • @marleyite
      @marleyite 4 місяці тому +16

      nutsbutdum. - Unfortunately cancer doesn't discriminate like humanity.

    • @jeltoninc.8542
      @jeltoninc.8542 4 місяці тому +12

      Well, as they say… nothing in life is free…
      Everything is a balance. This is what the Hindus/buddhists call “karma”. You cannot escape the suffering of life.

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 4 місяці тому

      Well I see that cancer cures are censored by the big G. They exist for the rich.

  • @wideawake5630
    @wideawake5630 4 місяці тому +14

    The "normal" life was never an option for me, coming from extreme poverty. I worked harder than anyone I know but when I started to get ahead illness or injury smacked me down. I kept getting back up.
    I never had a credit rating, paying cash for everything. I owned half a dozen places but never had a bank mortgage. They didn't want me and I didn't want them.
    After losing my home and family in a fire I sold that land and bought four gorgeous secluded rolling wooded acres in Northwest Lower Michigan on land contract for two thousand down and two hundred a month for six and a half years. I was not asked a single question about income or credit.
    I had a 12x14 lofted shed built for 3500. I could have done rent to own for about one fifty a month. I finished the interior with castoff materials from Craigslist and Habitat stores to make an adorable tiny house.
    I buy jugs of water for drinking and catch rain for my veganic gardens. I have a camp toilet indoors and cook with a hotplate and toaster oven. Underground electrical was 1600. Overhead would have been less. A used wood stove and installation was about five hundred.
    Pre COVID I got a sauna and shower at a gym in town for five bucks a pop. I now pour water over myself to shower or sponge off. My favorite though? Showering in a thunderstorm. Nothing else feels like that!
    I do passive laundry, hanging out a few dresses and spraying them with organic soap. In a few days the wind, rain, and sun have done the job for me.
    It's illegal to live rustically even though it's greener but no one knows or cares.
    I live very well on my 900 a month soc sec. (It was 550 when I first retired at 62. I'm 70 now.)
    I drive a 15 yr old Prius.
    I have great phone and Internet reception.
    A couple small towns are ten and 20 minutes away. It's 25 to a city with big box stores and a cinema. The big grocery and home goods store there delivers. A 45 minute drive puts me in a bit larger progressive city that is culture rich. There are woods, farms, rivers and lakes at every turn.
    Among my neighbors are deer, eagles, coyotes and tame chipmunks who sit in my hand to eat treats and get petted. I breathe clean oxygen rich air. I am often moved to tears of gratitude for my beautiful life and home.
    Think outside the box. The box wasn't designed for your benefit. Stop paying 1500 a month to rent a one bedroom apartment in town.
    You needn't despair of owning a home of your own. Look for land on Craigslist. Many places allow campers if you are not prepared to build yet.
    Don't let society dictate how you spend the only earthly life you get.
    Gratitude is wealth.

    • @sg5sd
      @sg5sd 4 місяці тому +1

      Wow! Respect

  • @arth.3899
    @arth.3899 4 місяці тому +61

    What I have learned is agism does not apply if I don't have to deal with a boss. I will get by. I got sick of crappy jobs and being told I need to improve. Pay me right and I will improve. So I live jobless, enjoy walks and using my old IRA from the 1990's to live on. Taxes and penalties and all. I got to the age that agism has become my greatest teacher.

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 4 місяці тому +2

      awesome

    • @damian9303
      @damian9303 4 місяці тому +3

      It’s honestly frightening watching how far people have aged ever since the pandemic, comparing to how they looked in 2016 or even 2018: all due to the newfound stress from being in such financial burden due to the increased cost of living. It’s depressing how worn down they‘ve become from living the ‘normal’ life.

    • @intellectually_lazy
      @intellectually_lazy 3 місяці тому

      @@damian9303 speak for yourself, sweetheart. i look better than ever, i never knew how good it'd feel to be out

  • @jiffonbuffo
    @jiffonbuffo 4 місяці тому +22

    Nah. They just mad there's less "doormat people" they could step upon. Simple life needs to be portrayed as loser life so hamster wheel keeps turning.

  • @YouTubeOverrated
    @YouTubeOverrated 4 місяці тому +89

    The current state of the world scares me. I don’t feel safe. The constant rise of living costs. The wars and the political tension that is going on. Viruses, pandemics. I keep daydreaming about owning a cabin in the woods and just live there forever, but I cannot even afford buying that. Should we all move into the woods and start living off the land? It’s mainly a joke. But is it? Whats gonna be our future?

    • @melvinthompson3357
      @melvinthompson3357 4 місяці тому +9

      In the Bible read Psalm 37:27-29 we have to turn our lives around and live according to Jehovah God ways only true happiness

    • @visionary515
      @visionary515 4 місяці тому +5

      ​@@melvinthompson3357 absolute facts....that is the only true way to prosperity.

    • @dryvonne1999
      @dryvonne1999 4 місяці тому +7

      @@melvinthompson3357Yep, folks know things are getting worse and most don’t understand why. Just got to read and study the Bible to find out why things are happening, and things will get much much worse.

    • @LetsGo_Brandon
      @LetsGo_Brandon 4 місяці тому +1

      @@dryvonne1999 do you think you deserve it?

    • @winny1401
      @winny1401 4 місяці тому

      It's going well. Just look at the history of humanity. Check out the % of population killed by Spanish flu and compare it to the older plagues. Life is good, if you turn off the television.

  • @the-matrix-ebook
    @the-matrix-ebook 4 місяці тому +94

    It’s jealously! They are jealous of you. They wish they could live like you do, but they’re scary f’ing losers instead! I’m with you 100% I live like you do and you give me motivation everyday to keep going. They annoy me too.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +6

      Thank you so much for the abundance! Keep living your best life my friend!

    • @the-matrix-ebook
      @the-matrix-ebook 4 місяці тому +3

      @@ratso88 If you love the matrix stay in the matrix. If you hate the matrix, but are still in the matrix yeah. I said what I said!

    • @the-matrix-ebook
      @the-matrix-ebook 4 місяці тому

      @@ratso88 lol np sir

  • @Dream_scape47
    @Dream_scape47 4 місяці тому +3

    Back in 2014 when I decided to leave university, most people told me that's a bad Idea, they instantly inflict fear on you, diagnose you with cancer already, what if you get old and find yourself with no retirement plan ?... I was only 20 years old, then I realize its them who is scared, not me... then I quit university

  • @HatchiSan58
    @HatchiSan58 4 місяці тому +9

    Seasonal nomad lifestyle. A cheap winter property in the south and a cheap summer property in the north.
    Keep the basics at each one and travel when the seasons change, just like every other creature on this planet.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +2

      I’ve been trying to get people to live this way for years! #seasonalworklife

    • @dennistyler9852
      @dennistyler9852 4 місяці тому +1

      @@TimothyWardIt’s a lot easier with Obamacare. Not having to work until 65 is big, seeing the mind is willing but the body says enough. IK I waited but at 62 I can retire. Interesting channel you have. Take care.

    • @dennistyler9852
      @dennistyler9852 4 місяці тому

      I agree a nomad lifestyle would be great. Wished I done it sooner. Better late than never. Enjoy your travels.

  • @jeffreywiley9661
    @jeffreywiley9661 4 місяці тому +61

    It doesn't matter if you have everything paid off, have plenty of money etc. If you injure yourself enough, or have a catastrophic event like a heart attack or stroke, and can't take care of yourself, even if you have family, it's still game over anyway. You're not going back to your 'normal' life.

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +7

      In studies, significant numbers of people reported better appreciation for life after experiencing a great loss.

  • @RocketMyDog1
    @RocketMyDog1 4 місяці тому +16

    I was surprised by how easy it was to live without a bunch of crap I don’t need….TV, eating out, new clothes, etc. You’ve definitely inspired me.

  • @skytrip5273
    @skytrip5273 4 місяці тому +8

    One thing is certain. We will all die. So live life the way it makes you happy.

  • @yukonnoka
    @yukonnoka 4 місяці тому +16

    I just thought I would throw my story out here. I got married when I was 18 years old. Needless to say I was extremely naive and idealistic about life. I thought I was the wisest sage that ever existed. I began having as many kids as possible right from the get go. I remember thinking at the time that I would be able to use my children to start some kind of revolution and change the world for the better. I naively assumed that my children would turn out just like me, and have the same ideas as me. Well here I am 20 years later with some teenagers, living with some severe chronic health issues... and let me just let you guys know. Life don't work that way. You can't force other people to think like you. Not even your own kids. They will end up doing their own thing no matter what you do or say. You may be able to have some influence, but not nearly as much as you might think. And in our terrifying capitalist culture having kids without money will BREAK YOU financially. There will be no one there when you are suffering or desperate. America just does not care. Not even a little bit. Take a warning from me.

    • @kentwood9821
      @kentwood9821 4 місяці тому +4

      We influence who they become but we do not dictate, that's for sure! That said, if you raise kids who can take care of themselves and love others in this fallen world, you have indeed started a revolution and changed the world for better. God bless and stay in the game!

  • @richardh1542
    @richardh1542 4 місяці тому +25

    I work in healthcare and see that Healthcare is a big business( the system).. it is up to you to take care of yourself because no one will. We are sold on the fast food and fear culture and then you get a health issue, healthcare is another avenue to put you in a quick fix med which can affect you later on, or an end where you are stuck at home medically or mentally. It’s the okie doke

  • @deebee4622
    @deebee4622 4 місяці тому +47

    Following the road less traveled takes curiosity, courage and faith that God is always with us, preparing, guiding and strengthening us along the way. God bless your courage, stay curious and faithful, and know that you are an inspiring child of God!

    • @PI1901
      @PI1901 4 місяці тому +5

      amen!

    • @joshlower1
      @joshlower1 4 місяці тому +1

      God rides with me on the daily

    • @grantl195
      @grantl195 4 місяці тому +1

      Absolutely. Luke 12:27-31
      Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
      28 If then God so clothe the grass, which is to day in the field, and to morrow is cast into the oven; how much more will he clothe you, O ye of little faith?
      29 And seek not ye what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink, neither be ye of doubtful mind.
      30 For all these things do the nations of the world seek after: and your Father knoweth that ye have need of these things.
      31 But rather seek ye the kingdom of God; and all these things shall be added unto you.

    • @dennistyler9852
      @dennistyler9852 4 місяці тому

      Robert Frost -The road not taken

    • @beerman204
      @beerman204 День тому

      America.. land of the free, home of the brave....

  • @intothemystic888
    @intothemystic888 4 місяці тому +38

    I'm about to leave in two weeks to live as a single woman out of my Ford focus.
    Fears and anxiety have definitely been creeping up as my deadline gets closer.
    I'm so ready though and your videos are such a comfort.

    • @Nessajess7
      @Nessajess7 4 місяці тому +8

      Good luck, vibrations and all the things on your journey! 🤙🏾☀️🌻🌿🤗🧡

    • @intothemystic888
      @intothemystic888 4 місяці тому +6

      @@Nessajess7 awww thank you! I need all the good vibes I can get!

    • @sp3357
      @sp3357 4 місяці тому +10

      @@intothemystic888you got this I’ll be doing the same in July because I refuse to pay 1600 a month for rent ❤

    • @BehindTheBeauty100
      @BehindTheBeauty100 4 місяці тому +10

      I’m paying 1500. I’m looking into getting an RV

    • @sp3357
      @sp3357 4 місяці тому +6

      @@BehindTheBeauty100 rent is just ridiculous and I don’t blame you ❤️

  • @julesjma
    @julesjma 4 місяці тому +5

    I am so feeling this at 59. I just can't keep on like this. Life has such little meaning and I long to live MY LIFE. I dream to move to Europe. Health concerns is a great reason to live your chosen life.

  • @cdlund2840
    @cdlund2840 4 місяці тому +8

    I did the whole thing I was supposed to do in life and it all turned out to be a lie. I am finally living free in an old RV at 60 and loving it. Work a little here and there when I want and go where I want with no strings attached. Late in life but worth it still. Material things end up owning you. Minimalism is freeing like you can't believe.

  • @KingdomDumb
    @KingdomDumb 3 місяці тому +6

    People overthink life. Life is the most simple thing ever, just go live it, don't hurt others, fuxk off and do your own thing and leave others alone. Not hard, it's just a ride, enjoy it.

  • @hawaiingirlbeth
    @hawaiingirlbeth 4 місяці тому +6

    I've been homeless 4 times, none of which was my fault.
    Crazy right
    Fortunately, I was raised learning the customs of old, plant medicine, wild edibles, camping every summer off the grid with my family.
    I had the skills needed and put them into practice.
    My dogs and I car camped and tent camped up and down the east coast mountains.
    Rarely had cell service. It was hard but amazing.
    I was post liver transplant for 3 of the 4 stints without a home.
    I'm now in a small, rural, no red light town on the Gulf.
    My husband and I are looking for land to start becoming self sufficient.

  • @flawedexistence
    @flawedexistence 4 місяці тому +17

    I work a well paying regular job. And if something happens, I'M F'ED!
    Live your life in the way that makes you happy and lets you get by!!

  • @apextroll
    @apextroll 4 місяці тому +4

    In essence, their are two types of people in this world: Those who do, and those who complain on the internet.

  • @hollyrich8169
    @hollyrich8169 3 місяці тому +2

    11 weeks of leaving the government job as a “Manager” and my health improved!!!
    Dropped three medications for stress and anxiety and depression!
    I wanted to draw closer to the Lord and He made the way!

  • @rolandpalmer7125
    @rolandpalmer7125 4 місяці тому +8

    Hey man, thank you so much for making this. I don't think we quite have the same goals for our "abnormal" lives, but I'm a musician and artist. My parents never really supported my dreams and always told me about how I'd go broke and how I should pursue a more steady career. I just recently moved out and I'm currently living off of bartending. I'm pretty poor but I'm enjoying life more than ever. I'm taking those risks you're talking about and my confidence is going up, and I really REALLY appreciated hearing this message this morning. I'm not gonna let people scare me into a worse life anymore

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +1

      Keeping doing what you love doing!

  • @girlwithpearls
    @girlwithpearls 4 місяці тому +22

    We just have to walk our own path.. even when it's scary, do it anyway.. the fear will go away but regret NEVER will! God bless Tim

    • @marleyite
      @marleyite 4 місяці тому +2

      girlwithpearls : Respect.

  • @TheStuckMillennial
    @TheStuckMillennial 4 місяці тому +8

    Holy shit, just discovered this channel today. Hands down the most genuine and well-balanced speaker you could ask for. Absolutely awesome!

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +3

      Welcome to the channel/community! I appreciate the positive feedback! 👍🏾

  • @jamikatechaos9972
    @jamikatechaos9972 4 місяці тому +3

    When I started living in authenticity 4 yrs ago, I began to see how much fear has been used, for generations, to keep us separated from ourselves.

  • @jeremytorgersen
    @jeremytorgersen 4 місяці тому +16

    Well said! Reminds me of Thoreau's words, paraphrased that the mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation..."normal" life is boring and a relentless march on a hedonic hamster wheel treadmill to misery. Live fully now! I learned the hard way, I tried to "play it too safe" for far too long.

  • @normanchan2001
    @normanchan2001 4 місяці тому +4

    As I get older, I've learned to trust my gut and listen to my inner voice. My definition of wealth has also evolved over time, to one that values being human with all it's wonders over things. I'm in the process of selling all my possessions so that I can move to Barcelona, open up shop and continue to live in accordance to my nature. Love your videos, it feels familiar.

  • @LoveLight-hi5hp
    @LoveLight-hi5hp 4 місяці тому +10

    My son graduated with honors from a top college last May. Over the summer he had an epiphany that he's been following this path that was laid out for him and he didn't choose. His university had a coop program where he got college credit for being a paid intern. I remember him telling me that 1st semester of working, "9-5 isn't natural dad." So he decided to take a left turn and chart his own path. We just finished building out a minivan for van life for him. He left this past Monday and is at a music festival right now. He's working a p/t remote computer programming job where he makes his own hours. So proud of him. I personally live in an intentional community.
    I coined a phrase at my father's wake 9 years ago to describe an experience I have had off and on to varying degrees over the years. We've all experienced it to some degree. When we're in that right place and following what we know is right for us, and everything just effortlessly falls into place. The phrase I coined to describe that was, "The synchronicitic flow of serendipity".

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +3

      So glad to hear that your son is following is passions at such a young age. You obviously did a great job raising him. Good luck to the both of you on your future adventures!

  • @alvinanthony2070
    @alvinanthony2070 4 місяці тому +32

    Hey Tim, I must say, you are a smart guy. You are single, no child support, no alimony, no kids, and no debt. I'm assuming that you never serve time in year. I'm just like you except have working on paying off my credit cards. Great video. I appreciate you!

  • @trublgrl
    @trublgrl 4 місяці тому +4

    The system is based on confusing you as a child and teachign you that you need an authority figure, teacher, cop, judge, politician, to tell you how to get through this thing called life. The world of man has never been more controlled, nor has it been more miserable.
    You can learn everything you need to know, but it will not be a convenient life. But it could be a great life.

  • @bobbythespaceghost9934
    @bobbythespaceghost9934 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm 43 years old. I just finished grad school. Your videos inspire me. The conveyor belt lifestyle of the U.S. isn't for me. I'm formulating an exit plan as we speak.

    • @rick3747
      @rick3747 4 місяці тому +1

      Congrats! Best of luck.
      Blaze your own path.....
      You can do this too!

  • @karenhaggard7094
    @karenhaggard7094 4 місяці тому +7

    My husband and I live in WA state with 2 boys 16 and 20. We have all made the decision to leave the corpo world and buy land in Kentucky and homestead.

  • @wakeupwithkt
    @wakeupwithkt 4 місяці тому +52

    Preach Tim! I left the corporate world and downsized in 2015. I love it but it’s not for everyone. There’s no one size fits all. It’s what your are happy doing and what you can tolerate. I agree that things find a way of working out no matter your lifestyle. Keep on keeping on. Honoring all paths in life. 💙

  • @IzSaru
    @IzSaru 4 місяці тому +4

    When I talk to people who want to change their lives, but are scared to do so, I ask them: "Is your life right now so great, so fulfilling, that it isn't worth the risk?"
    The answer is always "no". So go on and take that risk.
    You won't make it out of this life alive, anyway.

  • @jadesidhe2634
    @jadesidhe2634 3 місяці тому +1

    7 or 8 years in an rv on the road so far. Have fixed axles, engine, transmission, brakes, had a car fire, nursed a cat through his end years, changed money making venues 4 times, and i have learned to kayak, seen national parks, swam under water falls, swam in oceans, lakes and rivers, made friends in multiple states, i have food cravings from soo many places. I'll never trade this for anything else and i wish id started sooner.

  • @HomeEcSewing
    @HomeEcSewing 4 місяці тому +7

    Love this! Somehow our culture perpetuated the idea "if you aren't with us, you're against us." If you dare to be different, it is a judgement call on the conformists. I would like to see more people adopt the "Live and let live" mentality. Just be happy and go on with your bad self. Thanks for the fun video. Spot On.

  • @kyze8284
    @kyze8284 4 місяці тому +3

    Never been to your channel before, I was not expecting this to be about living instead of some political subject. This is actually fantastic

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому

      Thank you! I’m glad I could surprise you 😁

  • @KittyKeypurr
    @KittyKeypurr 4 місяці тому +5

    We've been conditioned to believe we're helpless so we'll buy buy buy. I, for one, am tired of carrying those people's wants around. Dig it, man! 👍

  • @mikemcgee5657
    @mikemcgee5657 3 місяці тому +2

    You've hit the nail on the head. Well said. As someone who wasn't supposed to live past 30, I got into really living, exploring, wandering, and exhilarating activities. Looking back now at 64 and after listening to this video, I couldn't agree more. No I didn't end up with a million in the 401, I spent most of that already. Still functioning and enough to get by on. Found my tribe and this is what we do. This is what I do. Live.

  • @LibraryLizard
    @LibraryLizard 4 місяці тому +9

    A long time ago, pre-internet, I became very interested in minimal living, even though that term really wasn’t even a thing at that time. Eventually I lived in a van for 4 years, and it was glorious. Since “van life” had never been heard of then, I could park nearly anywhere without anyone suspecting there might be a person in there. What did I do when __________ happened? I adapted, came up with ideas to solve the problem, embraced the challenge. That was the fun of it! I was never more alive than during those years.

  • @freyaaurorawilding
    @freyaaurorawilding 3 місяці тому +1

    I knew a young family whose husband walked outside into there driveway to check the car after a hail storm. He slipped in a patch of black ice and never got up again. Live your life now and don’t postpone the life you really want.

  • @Sonna-pq2zx
    @Sonna-pq2zx 4 місяці тому +11

    Thank you, Tim! I'm a year into this lifestyle, and yeah, it can be scary and stressful. But I could never go back to my old life, trying to conform to a 9-5 in my hometown that no longer felt like home.
    I also don't have health insurance. But, there are a few low-cost clinics in my area. There are options for people like us, and we will make it. We just have to take care of ourselves. Exercise, rest, & healthy eating.

    • @urtyp6596
      @urtyp6596 4 місяці тому

      Carnivorediet is healthy eating! Cheers

  • @jenniferhill5001
    @jenniferhill5001 4 місяці тому +5

    I am not comfortable in a comfort zone. My husband and I prefer to practice contentment. We like the challenge. Again and again we discover we get comfortable with that contentment and we start looking for other ways to challenge ourselves and simplify. We've been doing this for 15 years. Happier. Healthier. More fearless than ever. 🧡

  • @cchoi108
    @cchoi108 3 місяці тому +2

    Your points are 100% flawlessly logical. Love it. You're so right, regular life isn't working out for anyone either.

  • @wethecaptainnow8111
    @wethecaptainnow8111 4 місяці тому +4

    I like Tim because he perfectly verbalizes how I view life and what is happening in modern society.

  • @epflrz1625
    @epflrz1625 4 місяці тому +3

    You are spot on! The system is set up for work in order to consume more and have more debt so you have to work more. I jumped off of that wheel 8 years ago. Simplify, live life and be free!!!

  • @killy374
    @killy374 4 місяці тому +3

    Timothy in this dark world you are a beacon of life and love

  • @mybunnyfuzz
    @mybunnyfuzz 4 місяці тому +1

    I found paradise in the desert. Not because it was there but because the desert stripped away everything else but the awareness of my relationship with "All that Is".
    Yeah it's been a rough transition from all the conveniences of the big city but the peace and quit is real wealth. 💚

  • @DanaScully-w8y
    @DanaScully-w8y 4 місяці тому +4

    It's called misery loves company.

  • @inzaderVIM
    @inzaderVIM 4 місяці тому +1

    tim's channel gave me the push i needed to take the leap a year ago when i was 28 and can't see myself settling down again anytime in the near future. everything i own fits into a backpack and a tote bag, i have some small belongings (mostly old journals) in storage at my mother's, i have a good family/friend support system to return to in off-seasons who are always happy to see me and provide a place to sleep, and i can basically do whatever or go wherever i want for six to seven months of the year. thanks to this lifestyle i should be debt-free a year from now and my only real expenses will be food, youtube premium, and cell phone plan (plus plane tickets and airbnb rent, when i go overseas). hope everyone else is getting what they want out of life

  • @harmonizedigital.
    @harmonizedigital. 4 місяці тому +29

    Being able to do what I want every morning is my source of happiness. I hate having to turn myself into the modern day plantation called "the workplace".

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +5

      Me too. Every morning is heavenly. Waking up refreshed, slowly sipping a hot drink, listening to jazz, working on hobby projects.
      In the evenings, exercising while looking up the stars, grateful that I get to live another day. A spec of dust admiring this amazing universe!

  • @vimalou1
    @vimalou1 3 місяці тому +2

    I am seriously considering the alternative lifestyle of living and enjoying life NOW. Actually, I believe I already started 'cause my friends think I"m living my life---going to different places , locally and internationally whenever I'm OFF❤❤❤❤

  • @frankjamesbonarrigo7162
    @frankjamesbonarrigo7162 4 місяці тому +28

    Ive done a shit load of research on near death experiences. That life flashing before you is actually called the life review. It's like a hologram experience and you get to see yourself in certain scenarios you lived , both positive and negative. If you hurt someone you feel their pain in that moment. If you did something positive you get to see the ripple effect of that good deed. It's like that. We're living an avatar. We aren't who we are on earth. We have a soul that comes to planets to experience things you can't in the other dimension to build Karma if you will. It doesn't really matter how may girls you screwed, or how much money you made., Its about how much love you gave.

    • @enneaf1676
      @enneaf1676 4 місяці тому

      Life reviews are a release of brain chemicals associated with memory that happens when the body is either near to, or at the moment of death. I have heard certain people refer to it as an "empathy dump"

  • @BIGGLou888
    @BIGGLou888 3 місяці тому

    I get that too. I worked at alot of resorts in my younger years
    (20's and 30's) and worked hard hot as hell, back breaking warehouse jobs just to pay bills and eat, then when I mention going back to work at a Resort for awhile to get a Better piece of mind and Peace, then people say "You can't travel at your age, your Over 50yrs old, Those places are for young kids".
    Alot of "what If's".
    Timothy IS Right.
    I agree!
    When IS it time to breathe better and enjoy things that don't require so much money and time to do it?
    We've been brainwashed by this society.
    I'm smiling more! I'm enjoying the land we used to sing about as children in school, I'm feeding my soul Goodness, no more toxicity of keeping up with the Joneses!
    What and where does it get us?
    Until you've stepped outside on a day off and looked out at vast Granduer of nature and Peacefulness, Until you've had a break from traffic and hustle & bustle You haven't really lived a life of more Freedom & Peace.
    Don't buy into the American Dream, it turns to a nightmare at some point.
    Live The life of simplicity, Peace & Gratitude and You'll find it's much less hectic, less of a headache, and much more rewarding in the long run.
    Thank You for your video Timothy!
    Finally someone else who shares a similar mindset on Life and Living it.
    Keep it flowin' Brother!
    💪😎

  • @wesbrown738
    @wesbrown738 4 місяці тому +14

    I recently moved out of my mom's house my home city was expensive ASF and I moved somewhere cheaper. Im still doing a boring job but I wanted to move out

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому

      Freedom is worth almost anything in my books.

  • @jimjimgl3
    @jimjimgl3 3 місяці тому +1

    I used to say to my late mother, "stop rehearsing a crisis" when she'd bring up potentially unpleasant circumstances for the future..

  • @ros8986
    @ros8986 4 місяці тому +13

    thank you for your caring and respectful answer towards people who need to live a different life from yours. On a related topic, sometimes I think people who want to "be their own boss" do not realize that you go from having one boss to having many temporary bosses - they are called clients/customers - all of whom need to be pleased, have ignorant/unreasoable expectations, etc.

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому

      Everyone has a boss! Billionaire answers to shareholders. Politician answers to voters.
      Confucius said: "Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life”.
      That includes having no job, if that's your good life! Ultimately you are your own boss, I think Tim understands this at a deep level.

    • @ros8986
      @ros8986 4 місяці тому +3

      @@jaythefox actually billionares only answer to shareholders if they are involved with the companies whose shares they hold

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +2

      @@ros8986 Noted; I should've said "billionaire CEOs". Billionaires who are free of such obligations are greatly blessed. But there's no reason we shouldn't pursue freedom in our own ways with whatever resources we have!

  • @VDesigns888
    @VDesigns888 4 місяці тому +12

    Yes, people need to just mind their own business if they don’t agree with alternatives instead of being negative or purposely trying to put fear in folks who dare to live a more fulfilling life.

  • @selinasparkles
    @selinasparkles 4 місяці тому +4

    Thanks, Tim, for confirming this way of lifestyle is the one to continue proudly living. Love from the UK.

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for the support!

  • @marcariotto1709
    @marcariotto1709 4 місяці тому +1

    At 57, I hope I am heading out of what I call a lifelong crisis.
    I call it lifelong instead of midlife because it starts very young when they start boxing you into the expected slots and lanes. Most parents are neither knowledgeable enough or equipped to see, provide and guide kids to alternate routes for those of us who were labeled young as nonconformist and other not normal tags.

  • @OJGamingYT
    @OJGamingYT 4 місяці тому +25

    I want to piggie back off of Unc and say this... If you're living a simple/van life/stress free life, any "risk" that shows up you don't really get scared by or even deem it a risk because it bothers you so little and/or you can fix it really quickly.
    I've never worked a 9-5 job, I've been doing self employed video editing, and the biggest risk is if I lose ever client, I effectively make $0/mo and what if it takes me 4 months to find a new client? But I've been doing it for so long that I don't really have that fear anymore AND all the things I've accumulated: my car, access to drive for doordash to make money, high credit card limit, family, etc, etc. means that any thing I fear is just a minor stumble and nothing more than that.

    • @SonicUmami
      @SonicUmami 4 місяці тому

      How did you get into self employed video editing ? If you don't mind my asking.

    • @OJGamingYT
      @OJGamingYT 4 місяці тому +6

      @@SonicUmami I simply put myself out there. I used to try and make YT videos myself so that was my start to show people I can edit. I reached out to a guy I had watched since I was a kid - he turned me down, then a year later his main editor was sick, he needed me to fill in for one video, and then he realized I was 200x better than his current guy. The rest was history from there I got more leads and connections just off of him alone and I've never stopped editing since.

    • @jaythefox
      @jaythefox 4 місяці тому +2

      “any thing I fear is just a minor stumble” - IMO that’s the golden attitude!
      Life is just a series of steps, each step naturally leads to the next.
      No fear, no resistance, just act. Simple in thought, simple in action.
      (I’ve been reading Tao Te Ching)

    • @SonicUmami
      @SonicUmami 4 місяці тому +1

      That's really cool man. It all worked out. keep it up!! I gotta actually sit down and learn to edit lol

    • @KBird204
      @KBird204 4 місяці тому

      @@OJGamingYTGood to hear man! I initially got into editing to share clips with friends, then started posting some projects online. It’s given me a TON of appreciation for great editing on other channels. I’m still a fledgeling learning Premiere (as well as polishing my other skills: graphic design, digital art, and most recently: audio mastering and music), but my hope is to be a digital nomad living outside the US in the near future, getting income from my own content or commissions from clients.
      Best of luck to you, friend! 🔥💪

  • @itsnotfunny991
    @itsnotfunny991 Місяць тому +1

    Can resonate with every word said in this video. There are risks no matter what level you're on, why not choose your contentment?

  • @Stillness-Now
    @Stillness-Now 4 місяці тому +9

    I’m loving these intros. The momentary calm and quiet, it’s like a palette cleanser for the mind. Then the slow walk in and turn around. Haven’t seen anything like it. May you be well - Ken

    • @TimothyWard
      @TimothyWard  4 місяці тому +1

      Thanks Ken! I appreciate that positive feedback.

  • @timothyblazer1749
    @timothyblazer1749 4 місяці тому +2

    What we call "minimalist" was called luxury 100 years ago.
    What people are afraid of isnt so much what you might suffer, but what they will suffer if your lifestyle becomes common. Home prices go down, luxury goods become scarce, socially driven expensive things vanish. And much more.

  • @YeshurunOne
    @YeshurunOne 4 місяці тому +7

    I watched this twice. I'm taking the leap.

    • @janejohnson3031
      @janejohnson3031 4 місяці тому

      I just turned 43 an as a single women i bn really debating this idea ..